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Always goes wrong by Jamie Oliver - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 13:03:39 EST ID:ESpRmFQK No.4594987 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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He said he'd call me at 9 so we could get together for our date. But he didn't call, so by 10:30, I got drunk in an extremely short amount of time, and fell asleep.

When the thirst woke me up some three hours later, I saw my phone, and he had called me at 11:30, even though he said he'd call at 9. I replied to him with an apology, telling him "I assumed the plan was off after 10:45 and having not heard from you."

But see, the bastard has now made it MY fault. Now I'm the flake, because he technically did contact me, even if two hours late.

What the fuck - we're supposed to be gay. Why all this roundabout crap, that women do? Fuck, he pisses me off. And knowing how self-absorbed he is, he's not even going to ask to reschedule or anything, and I'm tired of doing it, since it just makes me look like the needy and clingy one.
Nate Quarry - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 13:09:34 EST ID:L5M/rWpX No.4594988 Ignore Report Quick Reply
then dont call him.
god, john oliver, i swear sometimes youre such a faggot
PhoebeBommerbare.tar - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 13:13:43 EST ID:wR2/K6e0 No.4594989 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You should just swear off men and go back to women.

(Or maybe realize both men and women could be playing games, it's about personality not sex)
PhoebeTootstone.js - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 13:15:49 EST ID:5FRzVfRp No.4594990 Ignore Report Quick Reply
A similar thing happened between me and my ex, and I just can't stand those stupid misunderstandings. Just don't bother with him -- it's what I did. Dump him and stop worrying about it. Lots of other fish in the sea.

I think that if there are issues between you and your partner even on the planning of dates, then this relationship isn't ever going to work anyway.
Greg Saunier - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 13:19:53 EST ID:i9zNIGZA No.4594992 Ignore Report Quick Reply
This might be an unpopular opinion but if he is often late for all things and that's just the type of person he is then maybe it is your fault for expecting him to change and be on time.

On the other hand some people get upset with others when they make a mistake.

Either way forget about them.
Lillian Bongerfield - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 13:33:02 EST ID:Zao5KOOv No.4594995 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>isn't punctual
>actually tries to shift blame as an adult

Sounds like a poor personality, sorry to hear that, OP. If I had a date with a guy who was actually interested in me, I'd be sure to let them know immediately if anything came up that was holding me back from being on time.

Shifting blame is also never acceptable IMO. It's usually the first taste of more poor behavior to follow.
Clara Blytheridge - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 13:58:12 EST ID:fKdoNvKG No.4595001 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Polly Grandville - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 14:08:44 EST ID:9vkhWhOP No.4595003 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You know, it is possible to call or text him. If you wanted to know if the plan was still on it's not like you were helpless and couldn't do anything to find out. You both suck dick.
BetsyClarringbanks.wsz - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 14:35:31 EST ID:KuULPXvH No.4595006 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Man, I love this thread. It's like a deep discussion heavily centered on interpretations which ultimately fall short to the larger picture of what really happened.
Magma Admin Lillian - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 19:00:00 EST ID:lRRjRJwx No.4595074 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Do you ever get poop in your urethra op?
Vera Rubiin - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 19:05:29 EST ID:s6q3soUl No.4595077 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Let's hear your fucking analysis and conjecture then Commander Data.
Richie Steamboat - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 19:09:59 EST ID:KDZOFeEK No.4595080 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Flakiness is a generational malaise. The mobile age has given people free reign to show zero accountability. Much broader than gender or geography. There are only a small minority of us left who think it's good form to tell people when you're going to be late, or if plans are cancelled; some of us even have the audacity to show up on time for things.
MollyGisslestitch.mid - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 19:12:15 EST ID:6YjdC8B7 No.4595083 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Vera Rubiin - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 19:13:30 EST ID:s6q3soUl No.4595086 Ignore Report Quick Reply

extreme truth. 80% of millenials struggle to hold a face to face conversation without a device with a screen in their hand

Netjester !AI.skYnEt - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 19:13:40 EST ID: iLikEToleARn No.4595087 Report Quick Reply
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Yeah the "fairness" a flawed concept of our mind well enough to get the convo flowing, so I meet him every day in extreme nausea and often would respect their enemies adopting whatever they found useful from their culture and humanity and the collective of organelle that make up your mind.
HenryGettingman.exe - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 19:38:41 EST ID:1reDjSk2 No.4595091 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>don't be the needy and clingy one
Gil Chesterton - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 20:05:22 EST ID:Rj98i6zX No.4595097 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Op is a faggot.
Tyquan Dickerson - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 20:11:31 EST ID:KuULPXvH No.4595100 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Ultimately, i feel suspicious about OP's boyfriend. Why often so late and why is it never him that reschedules? Some one said he was shifting blame when he got angry at op for not answering but others say op was in the wrong for not calling.

In my mind OP and op's date are nervous around each other but want each other.
El Valiente - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 20:12:23 EST ID:OlDzdMQn No.4595103 Ignore Report Quick Reply
op is the woman?
Gil Chesterton - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 20:18:07 EST ID:Rj98i6zX No.4595105 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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if by woman you mean faggot, yes.

here, have more non-gay images.
George Gamow - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 20:18:44 EST ID:9vkhWhOP No.4595106 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You know, I do think there's something to the idea that the extreme seeking behavior involved in interacting with electronic screens causes dopamine depletion and social anxiety. It's like we're all becoming drug addicts just hitting that refresh button for the next hit of dopamine released from seeing a stupid cat picture or a status about gossip and it's making everyone more afraid to actually interact with one another among other things.

Some doctor has treated children who she has diagnosed with electonic screen syndrome by making them abstain from electronic screens for three weeks and she says it solves all sorts of problems.
DJ Gabriel - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 20:45:21 EST ID:XuQfNk/o No.4595114 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>we're all becoming drug addicts just hitting that refresh button for the next hit of dopamine

Totally not exactly what just happened after clicking on this thread earned me a stank token.

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