/cd/ Transgender Discussion
Okay so where do I find transgender people to hangout with or much much more? I gotta know, 100% male here, non-trans, but I sure do like them
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every time one of you idiots spew out the word 'chaser' it demonstrates just how much of a delusional dream world you are trapped in
>>254215We think we're girls, I think that demonstrates just how much of a delusional dream world we're in better than calling someone a chaser.
There is some serious irony within this whole issue. "Trans" women want to look attractive as a girl and be accepted for it, but when a group of people rise to the occasion, it seems "trans" girls are rejecting of it be cause THEY'RE the wrong kind of people. Kind of silly isn't it? Now, I may be a minority, and I've made a few post regarding this here already, but I myself AM make, however, I have an extremely feminine nature in my tastes and personality. I've pondered the idea of transitioning, but it just doesn't work for me. I am apparently however, a bisexual, but I am never attracted to men. I am very much attracted to the concept of a Trans girl, because to me, that's the best of both worlds. I find it extremely attractive, and I cannot help it. However though, when it comes to dealing with "trans" girls, it has NOTHING to do with what equipment you're carrying downstairs. If you wish to present yourself as a girl then you are one. Using terms like "trans" and "tranny", I rarely ever do, because it implies that there's a difference, when where it really matters, THERE ISN'T. Liking a girl with a dick, to me at least, is exactly the same as being attracted to a gilr with brown hair or a girl into S&M. It's all personal taste in how we like our girls. Do I limit myself to "trans" girls? No. But it is certainly an attraction factor for me.
This is stupid because it all comes down to attractiveness but no one will just come out and say it. If you're ugly/creepy you're a fuckin chaser and that's that. If you're attractive and charming, it doesn't matter if you're a chaser or not because trannies are so desperate for decent guys that you can have your pick of any non-pornstar tranny you want and have all her tranny friends too.
Not sure if this is a placebo or not, since I haven't been getting any definite physical effects (no voice change as far as I can tell, nor fat/muscle changes, etc, though I haven't gotten my period in a long time. It's kinda irregular anyway), but I noticed that the way I react to things is...different. Specifically, rather than getting kinda pissed-off and being able to calm myself down, I'll get incredibly worked-up about something and start dwelling on it to the point of spiraling into really violent thoughts. If I'm in close vicinity to the person, they tend to be more physical in nature, but they almost always include yelling and trying to "put the other person in their place", so to speak. Now, I've grown up with anger issues and thought I had them mostly sorted out, and I was on Zoloft for a few months mostly because I would obsessively fixate on things that made me angry and depressed (went off it a month ago cause I didn't like the side-effects), but mostly I'm asking:>on T>ANGRY ANGRY ANGRY>anyone else get this?
>on T>ANGRY ANGRY ANGRY>anyone else get this?
YES. It's gradually getting better as I re-learn how to deal with my anger in new ways, bc it's totally different from before. I'm talking spirally down into domestic violence...but I'm working on it and it's improving. Have you considered an Anger Management group, or even just going through the material yourself online or something? I've found that getting my anger out violently (i used to beat a thick metal street sign with a hammer) generally just makes your brain link anger to violence, so it's not a good way to express it. Try getting the physical energy out in positive ways, like working out, running, basketball...anything productive, not destructive. Smoke weed, exercise regularly, try meditating. Grounding exercises can be good too when you feel almost dissociated with rage. Oh, and isolation is key. Get yourself out of the situation for a few minutes physically.
I'm a pre-T FtM yet I've had thoughts like this for as long as I can remember.And the day they invent body switching or a type of drug or something to treat transsexualism would be the best day ever.
>>253889OP here, I found the best way to deal with it is to redirect your brain to something else ASAP and try not to get anxious about not thinking about how to one-up the other person or show them a thing or two. Making music is very meditative for me.
>>253856Let's fucking watch this shit and sing Reflections together
I turned into a cocky asshole with T, and then with chest surgery I got even cockier.I don't know if that's a placebo or just the calming effect of finally not looking female, or if it's actually something to do with testosterone.But yes male puberty so just think of age 13-17 year old boys. Also there was that study that basically explains that the hormonal shift of boy puberty is essentially the part of the menstrual cycle's drop in estrogen that causes certain kinds of moody behavior so...
You peeps see this yet? Finally a TV show about a trynna that isn't a corny pity party. =)
>>253777I am seriously impressed by how they made Chloe (who is actually drop-dead gorgeous) look more trans and almost not passing. It's all in the hair and makeup, but...wow.
>>254150Take a woman and make her ugly = trans portrayal.
>>254109I was under the impression that hips are mainly a bone structure thing? This gives me hope! My mother has wide hips but I am a stick with no hips at all. I really hope my genetics get this straight.
>>254200Hips are mostly bone. A bit might change, but probably wont.
>>254235'Hips' are bone (pelvis), muscles (gluteus maximus, gluteus medius, gluteus minimus, and tensor fasciae latae.), and fat deposits. Your pelvis can't change, but the muscles and fat deposits do change on E. Exercise and diet help too.
I don't actually know any transsexuals IRL so I never get to ask anyone, what is the whole deal with "die cis scum" and such?
>>254247It's satirical. I think
"Die cis scum" is the trans equivalent of FEMINAZIS.A.k.a. rambling lunatics you should avoid.
>>254245that was super annoying to read
>>254244I know you put it in quotes, but "normal" is the reason that the word "cis" is used. So it's not "normal/trans", which can be insulting to some. Cis should not be an insult, but because the first instance of many cis people are from hostile trans people, they take it as such. It just has a literal meaning of "the opposite of trans" (well, it's got to do with rotations and stuff, but trans is the opposite).I don't agree with massive hostility. I'm certainly on my guard all the time, but fuck, people on tumblr sometimes frustrate me, especially talking about pregnancy and stuff. e.g. someone talking about how abortion affects women, then some self-righteous prick comes in "BUT WHAT ABOUT TRANS MEN, THEY'RE AFFECTED TOO! NOT JUST WOMEN! DIE CIS SCUM!". We're enough of a minority for it to not cross the mind of most people, let alone include us in a conversation that's predominately female based.
>>254240Basically it labels cisgender people as "cis", like transgender folk are labeled "trans". It's more or less to show to abrasiveness of labelling someone "trans" (as the opposite of "normal"). >>254241 >>254251I know, I thought the same when I first heard about it for the longest time until I saw someone explain it and it made a lot of sense. It is along similar lines of the racial movement of trying to take away the idea of "black/brown/yellow/red" labels to separate those races from those who don't need labels because they're the norm (white).
So I recently had another (super painful) growth spurt where almost overnight I noticed an increase in size and I thought a thread to show breast development at different periods of time through HRT might be a cool idea. I figure it might give those who haven't started HRT yet an idea of what to expect and a way to compare progress for those that have already started hormones.Anyway to start this is me after 5 months and one week into my HRT.BTW my girlfriend just got me into this site a week or two ago so if this thread has already been done then Oops, My Bad. Also I just realized how 'high-schoolish' this thread kinda is but w/e I don't care ^_^
>>252908I was just pointing out where the misconception arises.
>>252650Seriously, how many months and what dosages in this one?At 1.5 years I'm pretty fucking envious of what you have. Shit's not very funny anymore.
>>254237I know from previous posts that she said 1 year AA + 3 months E.
>>254249to be fair, i used to take 1/2 doses of E on and off through the year with the AAs, not very regularly and Id go for a month or two without any AAs or E sometimes.I wasn't really convinced I was doing the right thing at the time, was more just something I could do just in case this was something i ended up wanting to do.
>>254252Welp, you still won the genetic lottery big time.I'm at 5 months regular use now (4mg E and enough AA for 0 T) and they probably couldn't look any more pathetic and small than they do.
Are *those* types of hormones covered by any insurance plan? I'm sure you know which type I'm talking about.
>>254152No bro I think they mean hot dog hormones.
Sure but you are better off getting your adrenaline the natural way
I thought Vicodin was an over the counter drug
>>254151Even though my health insurance claims they don't pay for anything to do with transition mine are covered, the diagnosis is "Endocrine Disorder Unspecified/Other"
I love how the first 4 posts of this thread are pure trolling.nb
I'm 22 years old I have been losing hair lately, but only in the front and on the top of the head, I don't know if it's genetic or because I lost 77 lbs in 8 months, reducing my BMI from 30.79 to 22.12.Since I won't be able to start HRT until next year, I want to know what I can do prevent further hair loss and if possible recover what has already been lost, I have no bald spot yet, but I fear I will have one until the end of this year, and I want to know if it's true that eating eggs make you lose your hair, because I eat three of them a week.Whenever I wash my hair, too much of it falls off, so i'd like to know there is anything that makes your hair stronger.
With weight loss like that there's a good chance that's the cause. If so it should grow back or at least you won't lose anymore if you take care of yourself. Also there are pills for hair growth such as rogaine and shampoo such as mane and tail. Try that too.
brush your hair more gently, balding isn't caused by more hairs falling out. All hairs fall out after 2-6 years of growing. when you're balding they just grow back smaller or not at all. The best you can do is eat healthy and use Propecia and rogaine.I started balding when i was 17 ish and I didn't do anything until i was 22. I was nearly completely bald on top when i started HRT all my hair grew back to where it was when i was 16, but it's all really short hairs still. I can't guarantee you'll be so lucky. I'm really a best case scenario and I've seen so many other girls not grow their hair back at all, but there's still a sliver of hope for you.
Thanks, can I still eat eggs?
RAWR
>>253734Bitch please, I'd be happy if I looked half as much as a "dude" as she does....Wait, that doesn't make sense at all, but point is, up yours, she's gorgeous.
>>253644around a grand :3and actually I never did hormones, that pic is no mones but I actually started real hormones 3 days ago yay!!! :D>>253825*blush*
>>254192have you ever looked like a boy at all? ._.
>>252387 I would suggest thinning ur brows though. it'll take u from 80% to 95% passable
what an attention whore.
So I'm a guy, with a penis and all that. Born this way and no urge to change that. Not sure why I lurk these boards as much as I do, but I do. I identify as pansexual, as in I'd be happy romantically/sexually with the right person regardless of what's between the legs. This being said, despite my slightly fem nature and relative open mindedess, I appear physically to be a slightly short but quite attractive straight male. I don't go out of my way to appear artistic and such. Regular user of pot/acid/molly/vicodin but that is completely beside the point. Just giving some insight into my persona I guess... I'm a writer and a thinker.My question is, do Mtf's even exist that would like a guy like me? If not, what is your ideal partner? Every one on this board seems so disphoric and lonely and lost... it really makes me sad but at the same time proud of the human race to see people with the courage to even begin such a proccess...Kudos to all of you.
You look okay, but the drug use would be a no-go for me. (inb4 we're on 420)
>>253975>>transbiansActually in an Australian government survey on LGBT people they had ~120 trans women in it and catalogued how they identified as well.About 1/8 was straight, 1/4 were lesbian, 1/8 were bi, then the rest identified as "queer" or other (including pansexual).So lesbians are pretty common.
>>transbians
FtM here, I think you're lovely, op. Your shortness would make me feel better about mine (5'7) and the last short boyfriend I had was mega cute, he would stand on his toes to rest his chin on my shoulder when we hugged.
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>>254194>MFW
>MFW
Went to buy new shoes today...I've dropped two full men's sizes (14 to 12) since starting hormones. I thought that shit was an urban legend. Kinda amazed.
>>254222Good job ruining your posture, either that or your bones are turning to dust.
I DIDN'T FREE THE TRANNIES TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR BULLSHIT
>>254225makes sense for the height, but how do you shrink your feet?Also OP, what age are you?
>>254225Lol i was being sarcastic kinda hard to do sometimes over the interwebz. You don't get shorter and your feet don't shrink on HRT.Bone structure does not change only muscle mass and I doubt anyone has that much muscle in their feet to drop two whole shoe sizes lol. Silly wabbit tricks are for dicks! =)p
>>254230I'm 22. I don't think my shoes were too large before; I've worn a 14 in converse since I was like 15, and trying to go down to 13 wouldn't work because it didn't leave toe room. Today I bought a pair of size 12 low tops that fit perfectly.
At what point is it okay to say "man up" or something equivalent in terms of trans issues when they're getting in the way of someone's lifeWe all hate life, but we live it anyway, right?So if someone is failing to live life because of their trans-related thoughts, is it okay to just say "man up"?
>>254229I had two paths when I was in a spot of really bad trans-related dysphoria. Bullets / Pills. "Manning Up" would have killed me.
>>254229No, because it is very likely the wrong choice. And probably not your business in the first place. Support your friends.
You gotta get some balls to lose them OP. I manned up by becoming a woman. In this case all we're doing is classifying courage as a manly thing, when anyone can have it.Anyone who's failing life cause of trans-issues needs a firm kick in the tits to get moving again.
http://www.acceptablelosses.ca/QUEUE TRANSPHOBIA!!wtf is this shit?? what damage has this sick fuck done?
>>253345I love how the only results for that are that website and this thread.
>>253318>.caPosers gonna poseHosers gonna hose
>.ca
>>253519I did have therapy, and the psychologist definitely WAS trying to suppress my GID at that time. After 1.5 years of her, I found a new psych.
>>253318I wonder if this is self-hate?? Look at the cover .. I find it bizarre one would publish a book of hundreds of pages of 'scientific' transphobia, and then put *that* photo on the cover! Maybe 'he' has a sekrit too hrmm? rattle your transdar anyone??
>Violence against transgenderism—gynandromorphophile Marcello Palma's killing spree against transgender women in Toronto, Ontario in 1996Wait, what?http://www.cbc.ca/news/story/2001/04/20/palma_verdict010420.htmlisn't it amusing how they feel the need to repeatedly express that he's a father of one?
>Violence against transgenderism—gynandromorphophile Marcello Palma's killing spree against transgender women in Toronto, Ontario in 1996
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