/cd/ Transgender Discussion
So, I was hanging out with my girlfriends buddy last night. Guy doesn't have too many friends so I took him to the bar and we had a few too many. He mentioned that it was cool that she found somebody who doesn't care about her "condition". Long story short, my girlfriend totally has a penis. It doesn't really change anything, I'd still like to keep seeing her, I just don't know if I can ignore the fact that I know. It also explains a lot, but that's neither here nor there. This is where you come in. If you were her, how would you want me to go about this? Should I bring it up at all, or just wait for her to tell me on her own? I don't wanna do something that's tantamount to kicking in the front door and shouting penis at the top of my lungs, because that seems like it would be bad.
>>375462>Being a bitch doesn't make you more of a woman.
>Being a bitch doesn't make you more of a woman.
>>375468You can be a be a pussy if you want to be more of a woman. Or 'save sex for later' because you know you aren't good at it. Doesn't matter to me how femme you think I am because your opinion doesn't matter.
>>375469>You can be a be a >Pic RelatedBut seriously, more insults? Get over yourself.
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>>375445>WE WANT UPDATES! Well, you asked for it. Her friend called her yesterday and told her what he did, she went over after work to yell at him. She stopped by my appartment, we talked about it, everything went... surprisingly well. Thanks again. Hopefully I'll never have to come back asking for more advice. OP out.
>WE WANT UPDATES!
What's up /cd/, long time lurker here. I've been learning about myself for years and I've got a lot left to decide on, but I need a question answered. I'm a martial artist, and it's very important to me. I've known plenty of girls and women that could kick some serious ass, but I have never heard of an mtf martial artist. I'm acquainted with the effects of HRT on the male body and I've heard it makes many girls feel weak as their transitioning. Or rather, feel weaker.So, my question is this: If one were to start a hormone treatment would they still be able to perform in something as physically demanding as european medieval/renaissance martial practices? Would practicing said art inhibit the feminizing effects one could expect?(Were talking about light to heavy armors with a range of bladed and blunt weaponry, small to large shields, and hard physical impact. No, not very ladylike, but Xena was just as much a woman as she was a warrior.)
>>375439>135 lbs?I weigh that now sitting on my ass eating.Fat vs MuscleMuscle means more weight.
Thanks everyone! I really don't know where I stand in this all, but knowing my options won't be limited is a huge relief. I don't want to trade something dear just to be happy in another way. I don't know what the future holds but I'm determined to make the best of it.
>>375416>If one were to start a hormone treatment would they still be able to perform in something as physically demanding as european medieval/renaissance martial practices? Would practicing said art inhibit the feminizing effects one could expect?I know about at least one transgirl besides me in HEMA and she seems to have no problems.I don't think it would inhibit feminizing effects, it is not heavy weight lifting or something that bulks you up. It's more like running - you get lean. That said HRT can reduce your physical strength so consider getting a lighter sword (and shield/buckler depending on what you do). Peter Regenyei has awesome training weapons. Also you should wait for HRT to do it's stuff before getting any plate armour if you also do harnishfechten, if you want everything to fit properly.
>If one were to start a hormone treatment would they still be able to perform in something as physically demanding as european medieval/renaissance martial practices? Would practicing said art inhibit the feminizing effects one could expect?
I've been on HRT for two years. While I'm not nearly as strong as I once was, I'm still a lot stronger than most women. I'm not afraid to do heavier lifting when I need to, and I guess that helps maintain muscle. Basically, you're going to be a bit weaker than you would have been, but if you use your muscles then you're not going to be completely useless.
hey, Im in mexico for a bitand was wondering if anyone had any info on getting spiro and E here?I've never had problems ordering from inhouse, but I figured since Im here I'd look into it
>>375362Just go to the pharmacy and ask if they have HRT estradiol spironolactone sold over the counter if they say not then thats the answer.
One more questionIm in san luis potosi for a whileand I want to see an endo about horomones but I wouldn't know where to find a good onehelp?
>>375455go get a dicionnario and go to google.mx
>>375456I know spanishand I have googledmy google fu must be weakpic unrelated
>>375460So it should be easy then. I'm sure they got Mexican yellow pages.
How do you know what size you are if you're afraid of trying on clothes in stores?
>>375329>6" bust> B-cupsomething ain't right here
>6" bust> B-cup
>>375328i figured out my clothes size when i was young (due to crossdressing) i was so afraid of buying clothes in store that i bought sale items at my round-about size and went off that, took me a while to find the perfect size, but seriously size varies between brands, best thing to do is to get the courage to try clothes on in store with some friends, try to not shop alone, if you have other girls around you they can help you and its actually a whole day of fun trying clothes and stuff on, really really fun.
>>375334Cup sizes dont mean jack for us (cuz we naturally have bigger rib cages than cissies), the main factor is the band size.nb (i always nb but thought i'd say)
>>375347If that's so, then just how much is it skewed for transgirls compared to cisgirls? I mean, cup sizes are there for a reason, so it's not like you can just ignore them.
>>375449Depends on how large your ribcage is, I think a normal female ribcage (for non fat girls) is between 28-30" underbust, but it shouldn't look too weird for a 32" ribcage, or maybe up to 34" (although that's large).A 36B cup will look very different from a 30B, where a 30B will look like the girl has sizable breasts, but on the 36B they'll look small.
I've been on hormones since Jan 2011, but due to doctor fuckery I've been off estrogen for the last month and a half ish. I dont have an appointment until the 24th and I run out of spiro today. My question is, is there a big backlog of testosterone just waiting to cover me in hair and give me acne and roid rage? Or am I going to be fine? pls help I'm scared
Depends.....Ive heard of people getting off it and their T spiked to 700, normal range for men is 270-1,070, so yeaah shit can come back with vengeance. But being that long on hormones could perma lower your T, so it really depends on your genetics.
>>375276I'm doing the same thing atm, I'm about 4 weeks off currently, but I want to know if there is a way to find out when sperm starts being normal again? (like swimming) Or did you just stay off for the duration of two months and hope for the best? Cuz I don't want to be off the 'mones for any longer than I have to
^^^^^^^^^This is scary to me. I don't want kids but at the same time the Patriarch deep in the recesses in my sub-conscious must have the sons to carry on the family name for the glory of muh Patriarchy.
>>375408from what ive read, even if your on hormones there is still a chance of sperm being present. There is just significantly less to the point that it would be nearly impossible to get someone pregnant, but it could still happen.
>>375427Yeah, sperm were still present when I had my semen analysis (right before going off of them, I was on for 11 months) but there were extremely few and they apparently weren't swimming. My semen looks normal already but I don't know if they are actually healthy and motile again
so, long story short i started taking hormones when i was underageb&, my parents flipped shit and confiscated my mones like 2.5 months in. went to college, dropped out, lived with parents for a year. now i'm moved out with a job going to community college etc and decided to order more hrt but i haven't told my roommate (who is generally a very accepting person also gay). i'm pretty sure he knows i'm pretty femme (i'm nonbinary but i haven't explicitly told him) but idk how i should go about this.so i guess this is a part will-i-pass thread, part non-binary thread, and part general advice for people with roommate thread? idk
I think you you should just be straight forward and tell him that you're transfer and that you're going to transition mtf. It's pretty easy unless your relationship isn't strictly platonic.
>>375382I don't see why he'd give a fuck. He'll probably even be really supportive.
Just bring it up. He'll probably be supportive.I've noticed that gay guys *can* (not always) be even worse sometimes. Expect confusion, denial, questioning, and "are you sure????" type bullshit, possibly he'll try to encourage you "too much" in a vaguely tokenizing fetishizing way. Ignore it if it happens.. Tell them you just need to tell somebody and you just need support, not advice. He'll probably be chill.As for non-binary and hormones nobody really knows what they're doing, doctors included. Don't change your hormones rapidly, Don't take higher doses, Do get bloodwork (esp. liver function)
So after frequenting this board and being a regular contributor I have noticed that the beta-male attitude still persists in many of my trans sisters. You go from this extremely submissive little man to being an femme who tries way to hard to be femme; instead of being yourself.I was thinking yesterday about all the sex I could be having if I got over my insecurities and became a bit of a scoundrel embracing a more Darwinian view of life. Of course this doesn't mean becoming so sort of amoral monster.But it means doing things that people don't like people have always hated those who are more successful than they are.Look at Banksy he breaks the law nobody knows who he is and he's rich and famous for it. He breaks the mold and is a success for it.
>>374851Re-read that post and see if you can make it click.
>>374848>Ayn Rand is tedious, though I would love to have sex with her modern day female readers.Do mtf readers count?
>Ayn Rand is tedious, though I would love to have sex with her modern day female readers.
>>374838>the beta-male attitude still persistscirclejerk pls go
>the beta-male attitude still persists
Who doesn't love a good circle jerk?Masturbating by yourself gets tiring sometimesAnd some people aren't comfortable penetrating each other.
Sorry to bother you all... This is probably more a case of me worrying too much than anything else, but yesterday morning while I was out, someone turned the heater on in my home, and my room temperature reached 74°F. I'm not sure how long this lasted, but once I saw the numbers I quickly turned the AC back on to what it's normally set at, at 68°F.I've heard how Spiro is sensitive to heat, and my prescription info recommends storage below 77°. Though 74° IS below 77°, I still can't help but freak out a bit here. Do you think my pills are all right? Anyone else here ever experience pill degradation? Sorry for the trouble again...
No, you are just being extremely paranoid. Really? 74 degrees Fahrenheit? You think that's going to do anything?
>>375314The storage temp for spiro is 30c (which is 86f), and even then it would need to be in that temp for over a week to be affected/diminished.
I love in Austin Tx, its like 100 degrees everyday, your being paranoid.....
Last I heard In House Pharmacy was pretty much dead? So where does someone go about buying their hormones. Realistically I could drive to TIjuana and pick up what I need but I'd rather have them sent to my confidential mailbox center.
i've ordered from all daychemist back in the selfmed days and it worked for me, but that was in 2012. there is a 25 dollar processing fee but the meds themselves are cheaper than inhouse i believe, so it's ultimately cheaper in bulk.
im on a trans forum and ppl have still been getting hrt from http://www.trueselves.com/forum.phphttp://www.inhousepharmacy.biz/i do the legit through a doc. But ppl say they ask for a script and you just tell them youll send it to them in the mail and they will send it to you regardless. They just ask for one so them seem more legit. I dont remember exactly what they do, but just sign up on the forum, and all the info you need is in the sub.
>>375211Do you think you could just post it here?
pre op MtF herelooking to self med, how would one go about this?What meds to get? Dosage and all that. :3Hope you can help.Btw i heard about this site, should i go with using that one or?http://www.inhousepharmacy.vu/
Ok so honestly for most of my purposes I don't really need a legal name change so much as i need an ID that says i'm a girl. I'm actually more "bi/multi-gender" than i am "transgender" and i still like being a boy sometimes and don't mind being a boy; i've just gotten into some ... tricky situations when i've been carded in girl-mode. Honestly I really do just need it for getting into bars and parties.Has anybody just gotten a fake ID instead of doing the whole legal paperwork hoops routine? I'm an old hag now (still get carded!) and have no idea where to even get them; i don't know anybody under 21 who needs one anymore.
There's a darknet marketplace that has a section on forged documents
>>375266oh. i got neutered, so that's not really an issue actually plus i have magical asian genes so i'm golden until i'm like 60 when i'll suddenly look like a little old (equally androgynous) raisin.oy. i need bitcoins. i think they're stupid but i guess not
>>375272Oh, then proceed lol :-D. But yea, it never gets any easier to do name changing. The process took me almost a year but its been absolutely worthwhile.
>>375272You got your balls cut off?
CommentI wanna know how many of you grls smoke up and if not why do you visit 420 chan.What do you do when you're high? Do you buy it yourself? Did you smoke previously? Do you intend on ever transition back into the casual toke or are you straight edge since you started transitioning and 420chan reminds you of the good'ol'times?
I smoke a lot! All day err day usually but sometimes I'll wait until like a little later in the day like noon or 5 or something haha. I started smoking 2-3 years before transition. It can def rough up my voice/cause me to relax it too much but getting better still lol just a practice thing I think. I think I should smoke less sometimes haha. Also searching for either it or psychedelics and being trans when I was questioning/figuring it out led me to this place! Which is like the only trans place I go to besides all of that initial research and I like to think it's more real and raw here baha, or at least I'll get to see more of what people come up with. But yeah I don't necessarily thinking smoking all the time is quite optimal for me(not in a trans-related way) and I often intend to make into more of a special thing but ehhh it's all good =P I will probably. Haha.
erryday!but I did actually quit for about a year and a half when I made the decision to stop hormones. Somehow I felt like it was important to get some sort of "psychiatric baseline" for myself so i went all straightedge (after a shrooming "vision quest" of course). I don't know if it really helped with anything; although i think i had more energy/motivation to pour into my transition, which was good.
>>375165Started hormones in 2008, didn't smoke weed until 2012. Spent about the last year and a half high. Taking a tolerance break for the next couple months, but I'll probably do some psys between now and then. I spend a lot of time in online video chat or listening to music when high.
>>375249this was similiar for me, i stopped taking all drugs and drinking too. I knew i had to make a very clear deicison that would affect the rest of my life nd im not going to let some substance which affects my thinking to alter my feelings about it. didnt smoke weed for most of last yea (brief period in winter ) and didnt get drunk at all.after about 5 months of being pretty dry i spent christmas with my family which is a total boys club. we all just smoked and drank the whole time and it gave me allot of perspective. I just told myself that my whole life and all its problems were vry far away and for 7 days i would pretend like there was nothing wrong with me and just fit in with evrything, which i was able to do comfortablyi think there comes a time in your transition where you just cant pretend to be a guy anymore? like after a little while you cant even get back the thinking process of how to talk like a bro.I reckon i might get into a new girl bro mode someday because i have some lady friends who are total bros and we were really close pre-transition but atm im entering this hyper girly phase which is bost embarrassing and liberating
I do not. I visit 420chan because this board is here.
So I'm trying to set things up for FFS, basically just asking a couple of surgeons for quotas (FacialTeam and Bart), and for this I want to properly understand what procedures can do and the anatomy of the face.>Anatomy questions (names of parts)For the nose I think I know enough of the anatomy (about the glabella, nasion, and nose bridge/nasal ridge, and things like the nose tip, nostrils, as well as the columella/septum) to properly explain what I want to have done, although I could use some more knowledge about the specific parts of the nose (to properly explain things like that I want some "elevation" of the tip, to remove the slight droopiness).But for the chin and jaw I don't know too much, although it's mainly the jaw that I'm unsure of. I know that they do mandible angle reduction, which is simply removal of some of the mandible angle bone. But, what I don't know how to explain is the tapering of the "mandible body" (I think it's called), to basically make it bow out less, reduce the width and the height of like the jaw that isn't the mandible angle. I'm not sure how I'm supposed to explain it, other than "I'd like to have my mandible body tapered, to make it appear less heavy", which isn't isn't a very precise description.>Surgical possibilitiesAlso, if anyone knows how exactly they remove a cleft chin, FacialTeam told me they could have it corrected, but not specifically how they actually do it, and so if anyone could explain how it's done I'd be grateful.Another thing I asked them was if they could "correct" my nasolabial angle (the stuff between the philtrum and columella - fix the "rat nose" look), as in making the angle sharper, which they said they could not... Does anyone know if this is possible? To me it seems like it should be possible, especially considering they're making the incision on the columella, which should mean they could just make it so that the skin isn't pulled forward/out as by the nose tip projection.The last thing, that they also said wasn't possible to do, or that they wouldn't do it (although that I could maybe find a surgeon … Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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