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well then by Reuben Blackville - Sun, 19 Oct 2014 13:25:11 EST ID:2SF4KDv+ No.379854 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>happy 22 year old male
>gorgeous girlfriend
>seeing counsellor about gender issues
>I want to wear womens clothes and have breasts
the fuck
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Simon Benningkere - Tue, 21 Oct 2014 17:10:01 EST ID:2SF4KDv+ No.379944 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379855
nope, just said I'm having gender confusion and issues
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Simon Benningkere - Tue, 21 Oct 2014 17:16:16 EST ID:2SF4KDv+ No.379945 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379865
not really, anything tickles my pickle. You're using it in derogatory sense but I just don't feel comfortable in my skin
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Emma Sapperlock - Tue, 21 Oct 2014 17:24:05 EST ID:Iw35VWdv No.379946 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379944
Well you have to say a bit more if you want any kind of real responses. At this point all that can be said is don't sweep the issue under the rug.
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Hugh Buzzford - Tue, 21 Oct 2014 18:56:05 EST ID:4KCgA8zh No.379954 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379854

OP, have you tried crossdressing? maybe you just need to get it out of your system, im not saying prance around outside in a frilly dress, keep it in your home, see how you go, maybe buy some breast forms or something.
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Reuben Conningpeck - Wed, 22 Oct 2014 14:33:46 EST ID:PTq/jxeX No.379989 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379854
OP this same thing happened to me at 24. I think it's because everything was going so well that I could finally feel that something deep down wasn't right.

Before then, I could ignore it as I buried myself in school, and I dismissed trans feels as the need for a steady girlfriend and sexual relationship.


How do you masturbate? by Hannah Peffingstodge - Thu, 16 Oct 2014 11:51:40 EST ID:LgvRXNzd No.379714 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Jerking off feels weird, so i just squeeze it between my thighs. Can we get a thread about masturbation tips?
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Graham Clannerfod - Mon, 20 Oct 2014 21:21:59 EST ID:B8iskLt5 No.379914 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379912
wot

wow, I didn't realize neovaginas had that much movement. I guess that's why dilation is so important? Thanks for that bit of knowledge
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Shitting Turveyworth - Mon, 20 Oct 2014 21:28:51 EST ID:AZQSrbod No.379915 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379914
It's cause the vaginal canal in suporns technique using your scrotal tissue and that stuff stretches
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Nell Huddleridge - Tue, 21 Oct 2014 09:27:53 EST ID:sDC0ib4K No.379933 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379915
So Suporn's vags don't look like gaping holes even after years of dilating?
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Eliza Picklebanks - Tue, 21 Oct 2014 20:08:23 EST ID:8y1WDJNP No.379958 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379933
You have to dilate every day for a year and then after that only once a week. So if you consider dilating once a week enough to create this "gaping hole" then yes but if not no. I mean people have sex once a week so do they get "gaping holes" from that?
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Eliza Picklebanks - Wed, 22 Oct 2014 00:27:20 EST ID:8y1WDJNP No.379964 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379958
also alot of cis women use dilators as well. There's this thing called vaginismus. Dilators arnt just a transwomen thing.


Transparent by Cedric Grandspear - Tue, 30 Sep 2014 00:28:27 EST ID:oDGl032L No.378864 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Sup /cd/, I know there's already a thread on /mtv/ about this but given the subject matter at hand, I wanted to come here to get your thoughts about Transparent. What do you guys think of the show and how do you feel they handled transgender issues on it?
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Wesley Crannerheck - Mon, 20 Oct 2014 19:45:26 EST ID:4KCgA8zh No.379907 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379906

nah, you're wrong, the person you quoted is pretty much right.
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David Dibberbury - Mon, 20 Oct 2014 22:24:20 EST ID:8TgGJ/NH No.379918 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Jesus Christ this thread needs popcorn not anything else. It's a comedy fest in here with how ridiculous everyone sounds and how harsh their opinions are.

I'm not sure where to comment first and considering that almost everyone is flaming everyone, I won't bother.

Suffice it to say I think it's a good show. The main topic being that 'life is too fucking complicated.'
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Graham Clannerfod - Mon, 20 Oct 2014 23:25:10 EST ID:B8iskLt5 No.379921 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>379918
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Samuel Muggledit - Tue, 21 Oct 2014 12:15:33 EST ID:zul48pfx No.379937 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379918
I didn't notice any flaming.
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John Furringwure - Tue, 21 Oct 2014 13:15:06 EST ID:qvMh0VNW No.379938 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379907
nope youre wrong. its basically a catch-all and is most definitely used as such. Its thrown around as a sort of boogeyman. A random, slag-off pejorative as a way of saying "those" people, when in actual fact - like all people who fabricate these little groups who conform to excessive, extreme stereotypes - its just something to demonise, something ficticious to look down your nose at and feel superior to. Like all the people who are all like "feminists think ..... and they are SO dumb and hypocritial because actually...." Im sure theyve got some picture of some "feminist" cunt in their head, an entitled, arrogant loud-mouthed woman they can use to direct their spite towards. In actuality its all just make-believe because people want to argue and to be right when they argue.


What did therapy do for you by Nicholas Nickleshaw - Thu, 09 Oct 2014 13:26:36 EST ID:oaX/GVnd No.379336 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hi, I was wandering what therapy does for you, I'm not talking about how it takes you a step closer to mones (if you choose not to DIY), I mean what does it do for you personally? How did it help YOU deal with your issues and what are some good positives you took from seeing a therapist.
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Nathaniel Fanshaw - Sun, 12 Oct 2014 03:19:21 EST ID:AZQSrbod No.379426 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379336
I think therapists are only good as an outlet to talk about all your issues. Like for me I am stealth so I get sad about not being able to talk about all my struggles otherwise i'd out myself. But atleast I can talk about it to my therapist.
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Lydia Nammerdine - Sun, 12 Oct 2014 05:26:51 EST ID:RXL90kqy No.379433 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379426

When the therapist is good, knows what they are doing and follows a non-bullshit framework they can be really helpful. Too bad you don't find good therapists that often.
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Fanny Crirringstick - Sun, 12 Oct 2014 06:01:39 EST ID:/XOMnMwt No.379436 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379433
I like my therapist he is there to listenand i told him that's all i need. Although I do see him for other reasons.. Like overcoming trauma
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Martha Trotridge - Mon, 13 Oct 2014 13:50:30 EST ID:kWCe2BSF No.379517 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379336
Ive gone to psychs/therapists for other things, and they have been worthless.

Therapists are basically good to have someone to talk to for the sake of being able to get it out, if you dont have anyone else. Generic scripted responses and fake empathy. Ive found them more frustrating and isolating than anything else.

Psychs are basically only good for dispensing psych medicine, and half of the time they give you the wrong medication.

Aside from just HRT though, remember that you will have to go to a therapist/psych if you want any surgery stuff, including orchi. So its worth going to them just for that aspect of gatekeeping, where there isnt really a self-medding equivalent (except that one doctor who does orchi without letters).
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Thomas Bremmerstitch - Tue, 21 Oct 2014 11:04:54 EST ID:TkJc0R3r No.379934 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379336

It really depends on whether you get a good therapist or not. I talked to two different psychologists from age 13-16, both were like OK, but at 16 I moved to another one, and he is so great and it has really helped me a lot, even in ways I didn't know I needed lol.. I recommend everyone at least try therapy, at least it can't hurt right.


Questioning... by Rebecca Brookwell - Fri, 17 Oct 2014 14:35:25 EST ID:ag7hxr8L No.379743 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I'm an almost 31 year old dude who's dealt with gender dysphoria for a while.

I tried to transition when I was 28; I didn't look like it on the outside but I was taking HRT for six weeks. I was scared; I was living with a family that was completely non-accepting and violent and as such I had to do it in secret.

I had odd feelings while on it; I felt depressed for no reason, but I did like how it changed my body (well, outside of my balls aching like hell). I noticed that men somehow knew I was on it, and I didn't like that at all.

Then I got into a minor traffic incident. I was faced with a possible sentence of six months in jail. I was terrified; I knew that if I went in there, I'd get raped. So I almost immediately went off the estrogen and eventually the anti-androgens and started to drink a bottle of wine every night and lift weights.

I think my family knew. My mother did, and she was fine with it. That was nice because she died a few months later from cancer; she was the only one who even halfway accepted me for who and what I was. I told my sister about it two years later and she said that she didn't care, although back then she was emotionally manipulating me to not do it, saying that she would disown me but still give me money so that I didn't have to whore myself out to older perverts.

My father doesn't know for sure. I was never close to him, and if I decided to transition again, he'd of course not accept it. Funny how he's happy as a clam with a new woman now and wants me to be a part of that whole thing; I guess he feels that he's entitled to acceptance, but I'm not.

My brother would just be disgusted, but I doubt he would disown me unless if there was drama from my father. I like him, but if I had to distance myself from him, I would.

I think that I felt bad about the initial attempt because I was in a completely non-supportive environment and I was faced with all this drama and animosity. Now that I'm on my own and don't depend on my family anymore, I think that I could handle it better, and would be more welcoming of change.
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Jarvis Drobbleridge - Sun, 19 Oct 2014 23:05:36 EST ID:kGM0n0L0 No.379875 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379782
>autogynephilic
Is this known to even be an actual thing?
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Frederick Bredgestock - Sun, 19 Oct 2014 23:39:44 EST ID:ulyStB52 No.379885 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379875

Masturbating to the idea of being a women? Totally a real thing, and not uncommon among mtfs. The actual theory of autogyphilia is bullshit; As it asserts that every mtf is either a pervert, or an incredibly effeminate gay man who just wants to trap straight guys into sleeping with them.

Before I transitioned, I used to fantasize about getting fucked by a guy as a girl. That can either be read as fairly perverted thing for a guy to fantasize about, or a fairly normal thing for a women. The problem with people who came up with the theory of AGP and continue to push it is that they are completely incapable of perceiving transwoman to be actual women. It's a dumb theory and responsible for pushing more than a few people back into the closet. I really wish I didn't come across it when I was 16, that and fucking Laura's Playground...
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Ernest Baddlegold - Mon, 20 Oct 2014 00:10:29 EST ID:xlKJ1GzO No.379887 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379885
I've noticed that my 'dysphoria' has actually grown stronger the more my sex drive has faded with age. I was supposed to transition when i was 21 but it didn't work out. Back then I was horny as fuck, and would sometimes think that the whole tranny thing, for me, was to do with sex. But then i got older (I'm 31 also, like OP, and have never transitioned :/ sucks to admit it on here.); my sex drive disappeared and I was left with the same feelings.

I would be okay with not being 'real' trans. I would love to meet a guy with money who would protect me and let me transition... and I wouldn't care if I'm not really trans. My ideal situation would be to meet an awesome man that would support and protect me and I could go about transition without ever worrying about being 'real' trans or not. I would be okay with being fake trans.
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Frederick Bredgestock - Mon, 20 Oct 2014 00:41:44 EST ID:ulyStB52 No.379888 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379887
Real trans people? Fake trans people? What? Do you have some sort of metaphysical sense for trans-ness?

Here is the reality: There is no real/fake distinction. Either you pass, and voila you're accepted as a real woman. Or you don't pass, you're (perceived as) a man, and you're (perceived as) not really trans. If you want to transition, you need to make it happen yourself, figured out a plan, get money, etc. No guy is going to come along and save you and you need to grow the fuck up and do it yourself, you're fucking 31, you should have figured that out by now.
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Nell Penninggold - Mon, 20 Oct 2014 03:19:09 EST ID:PjSme3qS No.379898 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>379888
>There is no real/fake distinction when it comes to being trans
Get out...


FTM stuff by Phineas Lightforth - Fri, 10 Oct 2014 15:57:58 EST ID:V0uBLYd8 No.379363 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I"m not sure there is even anyone on this board who is not cis or MTF? I've been lurking here for years, but rarely see anyone posting.

I want a penis, but there's just no way of getting anything remotely functional with current technology. I can live with the boobs and the periods if I have to.

I also want to "be male", but every definition of that that I can come up with is sexist as fuck, or sounds very much like "I'd like to be treated like a person by others and only men get treated like people".

So why bother transitioning or even coming out at all?
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Archie Garrywetch - Sat, 18 Oct 2014 22:17:33 EST ID:Iw35VWdv No.379841 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>379839
Try harder dude, your trolling is weak and boring.
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Phoebe Trotwell - Sat, 18 Oct 2014 23:23:37 EST ID:giluiVPm No.379843 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379841
>"trolling"
>implying normal people don't think trannies are disgusting
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Cedric Clammlepedge - Sat, 18 Oct 2014 23:58:01 EST ID:B8iskLt5 No.379845 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>379843
>normal people
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John Nobblenodging - Mon, 20 Oct 2014 02:42:15 EST ID:Ruy3nqW/ No.379895 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379648
>it's hard to define a man as anything diferrent from a woman

Our brains function differently on a physical level. Male minds tend to think laterally favoring one hemisphere over the other in a given instance. Females utilize both hemispheres, though not too the intensity males do. Perhaps transgender brains work more in line with their internal gender, but I don't know. The differences don't stop with the brain; fat distribution, bone density, field of vision, color recognition, sense of touch, resilience towards pain (in different scenarios), muscle production, empathetic thoughts, relationships.Our chromosomes are different. The list goes on (https://duckduckgo.com/?q=differences+between+men+and+women).

Transgenderism is a serious thing and the cause isn't known, but don't go around saying men and women aren't different. They are, or we wouldn't be a predominantly two sexed species. There is a cultural influence into how a person identifies AS WELL as a biological influence built up and refined through millennia of evolution.

Further, these differences don't serve to alienate or favor any one sex over the other. Men and women are just as capable as each other, but in no way are they equal to one another. They are balanced, in that ones strengths make up for the others shortcomings, but the equality that is pushed down our throats from media and politics is a convenient tool. Equal in potential, but there paths and strengths are separate.

And yet even though this seems rigid and unchanging, it's the interaction of the two extremes (the archetypes of the man and the woman) that allow the limitless possibilities of the human condition. Look at the old gods we've forgotten. There were some gods who gave birth and other 'unmanly' deeds, and there were some goddesses who were as capable in war and combat as any god and eschewed the traditional roles within their own society. You can reach into any pantheon and find examples, and what were the gods but a reflection of the people?

I digress. My point is, there are differences between the sexes. But they are only limiting if we choose to let them be. Transfolk are new to western culture…
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Wesley Bunbury - Mon, 20 Oct 2014 03:00:10 EST ID:B8iskLt5 No.379896 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>379895
underrated post


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