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Mexico by Alice Blimmledane - Tue, 18 Apr 2017 20:09:51 EST ID:YGWLuC8a No.402947 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I'm moving back from Canada to Mexico for uni, how bad of a decision is it? I was born and lived there until high school so it will not be a culture shock or anything like that, but it probably means I will not be able to come out the closet for longer (if at all) and that is really dragging me down, on the other side, it means I will be able to get an undergraduate's degree (maybe even a Master's) from a prestigious uni, should I give up that idea and just stay? It's not like I'm happy here either anyway.
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Clara Huddlehutch - Wed, 03 May 2017 23:07:09 EST ID:2k54T+z6 No.403150 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>Only place in Mexico where trannies aren't treated like garbage by most of the population, I actually think this one might be bullshit, because I think Guadalajara is also kinda LGBT friendly but because I'm living in the backwards little shithole that is Guanajuato I can't really confirm it.

I might have to go to Mexico City for a trip after I learn more Spanish.
What time of year is the weather comfortable or cold(ish) in that part of Mexico?
I hate hot weather.
Archie Doddleforth - Thu, 04 May 2017 09:36:01 EST ID:Qih9gAau No.403152 Ignore Report Quick Reply
It doesn't get too hot there, compared to other parts of Mexico, if you want cold weather then winter would be your best bet but tbh idk if it changes that much during the year, it's kinda comfortable generally compared to other cities so I think you're good there.
Sidney Henninglotch - Thu, 04 May 2017 21:37:52 EST ID:9qbVoAPJ No.403153 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>backwards little shithole that is Guanajuato
I dunno, looks kind of endearing in a way...
Beatrice Debberstetch - Thu, 04 May 2017 23:37:17 EST ID:NvN/HWdZ No.403154 Ignore Report Quick Reply
It is, but I meant it as in the state, I actually kinda like the capital itself, but I live in a different city and catholicism is just rampant on stomping on LGBT people around here (along with its followers).
Hedda Bloblingridge - Mon, 08 May 2017 00:09:53 EST ID:2k54T+z6 No.403170 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Religion is really a pain in the ass everywhere.

Gender Spectrum by Lillian Dremblebanks - Fri, 28 Apr 2017 11:34:59 EST ID:NDYtXPVg No.403065 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Here ya go
Cornelius Shakespear - Sun, 30 Apr 2017 00:29:23 EST ID:/6NIb+Dp No.403095 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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well, that's that sorted then. glad we figured it out.
Walter Marryfoot - Sun, 30 Apr 2017 01:04:25 EST ID:/vIEViaE No.403096 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Body types?
Cornelius Brivingford - Sun, 30 Apr 2017 16:55:46 EST ID:V7oILe9r No.403121 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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What Sims 3 mod did you use OP?

nigga by niggaplease - Sun, 30 Apr 2017 14:44:47 EST ID:FchFNugO No.403112 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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nigga weed nigga
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Lillian Heckledeg - Sun, 30 Apr 2017 15:42:58 EST ID:9Z+nhH7v No.403114 Ignore Report Quick Reply
what the fuck mate

dont reply to trolls

Cedric Bradgekick - Sun, 30 Apr 2017 15:49:22 EST ID:960i+lm+ No.403115 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I was watching Drugs Inc. and this post reminded me of that.
Hedda Honnerville - Sun, 30 Apr 2017 16:15:25 EST ID:9qbVoAPJ No.403116 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Uhhh ...

chink fentanyl chink?
Hedda Honnerville - Sun, 30 Apr 2017 16:24:15 EST ID:9qbVoAPJ No.403117 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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redneck meth redneck?
Hedda Honnerville - Sun, 30 Apr 2017 16:36:13 EST ID:9qbVoAPJ No.403118 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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jew oxy jew?

Stuck at a crossroad by Charlotte Hinderchock - Sat, 24 Sep 2016 12:56:51 EST ID:luAJKUBN No.400468 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Sexually I want to be a woman. But socially I don't want to because I feel like my parents would be disappointed in me.
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Beatrice Sobberhitch - Sat, 24 Sep 2016 18:26:34 EST ID:GK6CVLVG No.400478 Ignore Report Quick Reply
no, op said
>Sexually I want to be a woman. But socially I don't want to
Clara Sellywell - Sat, 24 Sep 2016 22:47:56 EST ID:QG3jrSaz No.400480 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Im sorry but no.

in no way is transitioning and intending to continue to present as male a good idea.

OP. i declare that you are a woman sexually.
Happy? are you able to do what you want now?

What are you actually trying to achieve sexually?
What does being a woman sexually mean to you?
Charlotte Fendleshaw - Sat, 24 Sep 2016 23:28:02 EST ID:XEq0LgOu No.400482 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>picture of bailey jay
You should take a look around
Wesley Goddlehad - Sun, 25 Sep 2016 02:27:45 EST ID:QFvCIRnn No.400485 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>my parents would be disappointed in me
No, don't think like that! There's no way your parent's would get that touchy about something of that sort, what are you thinking, that you have that sort of fantastical potential to rip into them or something? At worst they would merely delicately correct your erroneous path.

Think about it, you could become just like these girls! Your life story would be so amazing!
Sidney Sobbernuck - Sat, 29 Apr 2017 11:42:55 EST ID:OYQ4+z0N No.403084 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Wanting to be a woman physically for sex isn't helped by identifying as a woman.

Just started sublingual estradiol yesterday by Basil Blandernetch - Thu, 27 Apr 2017 16:28:53 EST ID:TB3CfBga No.403061 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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What can I expect in the first week?
Hoping for mental changes and reducing male sex drive?
Nell Fashbock - Thu, 27 Apr 2017 18:21:18 EST ID:9Z+nhH7v No.403062 Ignore Report Quick Reply
yes and no for me. positive mental changes but also mood swings. i fap once a day to keep my dick from atrophying and keep its size the same.
Lillian Wammlemodge - Thu, 27 Apr 2017 19:22:02 EST ID:NyQPGS/E No.403063 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Honestly anything you experience is either placebo or a mental effect due to the perception of moving onward with your transition for atleast the first 2 weeks. it doesnt just switch over, it slowly changes over from your natural hormones to the synthetic hormones and takes time for your AA (if you're on one) to block out the receptors.

the pills dont work right away it might take a few weeks, but keep an eye on your moods, when i first took estrogen i was so quick cry or get angry and the mood swings are very very real, i once cried because the police pulled me over, it really freaked the cop out, he still gave me a fine though.
Basil Blandernetch - Thu, 27 Apr 2017 19:59:49 EST ID:TB3CfBga No.403064 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I feel more mellow in general but that's likely the placebo effect. Too early I guess. Touching myself feels like a chore and I really hate having to do it but I do it anyways.
I see, I'm already really prone to crying when I see sad scenes in anime/films or when I read a sad story. I'm not on an AA yet, my doc's plan was to have me just on estrace for the first three months to see how I respond to it and then see if we need to add an anti-androgen or increase the estrogen dose or switch to injections.
Baseline me has real bad mood swings and irritability too probably from my dysphoria itself.
Hope your fine wasn't too heavy.

Passing Thread by Archie Fossleforth - Sat, 09 Jul 2016 00:28:22 EST ID:F3ksySQh No.399054 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Can we get a new passing thread going?
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David Blackshaw - Thu, 08 Jun 2017 02:50:29 EST ID:RmmUAsWS No.403489 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Did you used to post to tranchan? Also, you're not gloomysheep, are you?
David Blackshaw - Thu, 08 Jun 2017 02:50:29 EST ID:RmmUAsWS No.403490 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Did you used to post to tranchan? Also, you're not gloomysheep, are you?
Janessa Speedhead - Wed, 14 Jun 2017 03:12:46 EST ID:Ra41mptF No.403520 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Almost 23 months HRT, not too happy with where I'm at tbh, but much better than two years ago obviously. Feel I mildly pass. Live in a pretty ignorant town and never get misgendered, so, that's gotta count for something lol. I like my body much better than my face.

These are the few pics of me that aren't filtered because filterhoe af
I sorta like the top two pics of me, and purposely picked somewhat bad pics of me for the bottom two

Quite aware of my dire need of FFS. Which was furthered after seeing this thread lol cause y'all are gorgeous, especially OP. OP I'm guessing you had FFS?

Any suggestions on what I could do to pass better? I still need facial hair removal done, hence why thickass foundation. Will facial hair removal help at all with lower face density?
Janessa Speedhead - Wed, 14 Jun 2017 03:24:06 EST ID:Ra41mptF No.403521 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Shit, pic didn't upload, sorry
Graham Hurrywudging - Tue, 19 Sep 2017 20:42:48 EST ID:JwUxQ+oy No.404125 Ignore Report Quick Reply
wtf!!! You look just like my ex (she wasn't transgender)

Disowning/Distancing by Hugh Futtingdale - Tue, 18 Apr 2017 01:01:44 EST ID:yhWvNBfB No.402928 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I've basically come to the realization that once I socially transition that I will have to distance myself from my family to some degree. We won't be completely estranged however I know my parents are completely against the idea and have all sorts of their own ideas that are false. However I'm an adult and I can do what I want.

I figure that when I finish college, get a good job and make my own life they'll come around to it. However until then they're going to hate it and they may even after. Has anyone experienced this?
Beatrice Hinnerhut - Tue, 18 Apr 2017 08:09:39 EST ID:W33OzG35 No.402933 Ignore Report Quick Reply

I have.
You survive.

I guess just try to keep contact with them, remember it isnt all just about you, its a big deal for someones child to say "im this and not that", remember that they seen you when you couldnt even talk and imagined what kind of life you'd end up having, its as hard on them as it is for you, so i feel that understanding one another helps the process so much more.
Thomas Breddleway - Tue, 18 Apr 2017 14:08:18 EST ID:RaXE3uWh No.402935 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>I have.
>You survive.

I figured I would have to keep in touch. I just think my dad would be very awkward and resistant, just completely uncomfortable and weird. My mom would probably have some association with me after I prove that I'm still able to be productive and upstanding society.

Anyway Whats your life like now? I
Oliver Sorryshit - Tue, 18 Apr 2017 23:50:02 EST ID:W33OzG35 No.402952 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Life in general is great. i forgave my parents for all the shit they did to me throughout the years, i maintain contact with them see them every few months and or every kind of event like easter birthdays etc, they call me by my girl name and darling and sweetie and all that, they're trying, i think they seen how much i was trying to keep in touch with them and that in turn made them try to make it easier for me to do that.

At the end of the day they understood that i was who i was and that they could either flow with the river or flow against it.
William Waddletetch - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 17:56:37 EST ID:9uGkYKNT No.402995 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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I guess I just need to make something of myself.
Eugene Feblingcocke - Sat, 22 Apr 2017 17:03:49 EST ID:V7oILe9r No.403032 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Okay I'll just be honest. I don't like complaining about my parents or anything really. Because I end up sounding childish. But my parents are pretty fucking two faced and manipulative. Anything out of the norm and they get all defensive and weird. Especially regarding transgender subjects.

My literally said that I should wait until I'm older because it'll turn out better for me. That's fucking retarded and a sign that she doesn't know what she's talking about. My dad is completely clueless as well.

I'm an adult but they're making this shit way harder than it needs to be. They're not the only one's but yeah they're part of the problem.

I can't stand the thought of my extended social network literally trying to destroy me for being trans. It's a real source of stress in my life.

Gender queer by Cyril Penkinnitch - Tue, 18 Apr 2017 02:41:44 EST ID:KX16HYED No.402931 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So recently one of the youtube people I watch came out as gender queer. Video above. And based on his criteria I think that makes me gender queer too, even though I identify as cis. I don't believe in traditional gender roles, despite my burlyness I'm a sub in near all my relationships by choice, I love leopard print so I own and go out in things that are made for woman (mostly accessories like sunglasses and my cellphone case) and I don't identify those as women's things I think of them as my things.

Is there something she's leaving out, did I miss something or did I end up being queer with out knowing it?
Rebecca Bollytotch - Tue, 18 Apr 2017 07:37:02 EST ID:qvvMo5m0 No.402932 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Did you even watch it?
Never heard of this person before btw but saw the video and it was surprisingly good.
She said it's more than just clothes or sexual preference or whatnot, it's what you personally feel.

Picking out fashion that might be closer to "women's" items is not being genderqueer, that's just liking that fashion choice. Wearing dresses or putting on makeup doesn't class you as genderqueer. YOU identify yourself as such. If you don't feel correct in the gender you're labelled, if you feel uncomfortable by being called "just" male, if you feel like your personal identity doesn't suit what you've been labelled as, then you COULD be genderqueer. You could just not like the traditional role that - as a man - you have to play out. It's completely up to you and how you personally feel.

TLR - things don't define you. YOU define you.
Priscilla Bunfuck - Tue, 18 Apr 2017 18:36:49 EST ID:K+jr58lB No.402945 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Op here on phone so might have a different ID. I guess I'm cis then. But if I'm totally honest I think I need to do some retrospection at a later date when I'm mentally ready to take a long look at myself.
Eliza Blonningway - Sat, 22 Apr 2017 13:29:41 EST ID:nS5KnSBC No.403031 Ignore Report Quick Reply

>TLDR - things don't define you. YOU define you.

Nah bruh.

You only know who you are by knowing what's not you. You are defined by things. Figure, meet background.

Nervous by Eugene Turveybury - Sun, 16 Apr 2017 13:44:05 EST ID:UUEHvbta No.402913 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I'm pre everything and have an appointment to see a doctor to establish a transition plan very soon. Will this be the appointment where I get to ask for hormones? How do I ask for hormones? Do I tell them that I feel like I'm stuck and helpless and being betrayed by my male body? Because I do. Will they probably deny me hormones if I am not in girl mode? I don't feel comfortable going out in public in girl mode yet because I feel like it's 'fake' if I'm girl-moding under the influence of testosterone, despite all of my best efforts... should I ask for a counselor or therapist to help me get comfortable with being myself in public, too?

Any thoughts? I've done research but I still feel so nervous, what if they won't believe me?
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Oliver Sorryshit - Tue, 18 Apr 2017 23:08:07 EST ID:W33OzG35 No.402951 Ignore Report Quick Reply

they wont tell you to take a hike, just you need to be calm and collected, you need to be able to convey your feelings in an articulate manner.

start rehersing what you're going to say, maybe make one of your teddy bears a doctor and talk it, then when you go to see the doctor just imagine its a teddy bear.
Nathaniel Fuckingfoot - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 14:40:51 EST ID:TB3CfBga No.402989 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Okay my appointment is in 3 hours I'm so nervous
I'll tell you how it goes and stuff
Nathaniel Fuckingfoot - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 19:54:58 EST ID:TB3CfBga No.402998 Ignore Report Quick Reply
So I met the doctor and she was really nice and read my letter and we talked and she asked a bunch of questions that I answered and I had my blood drawn and next week I'll see her and she can write me a prescription for sublingual estradiol and refer me to a therapist!
Sophie Hepperbanks - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 20:20:44 EST ID:W33OzG35 No.402999 Ignore Report Quick Reply

See! told you it would all work out and there was nothing to worry about!
Lydia Cammershaw - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 23:59:05 EST ID:TB3CfBga No.403001 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You were right, it was way easy. I just had a bad experience with my old provider that was hard to forget.

Not going stealth by Alice Blimmledane - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 07:09:55 EST ID:YGWLuC8a No.402982 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I've been thinking about this a lot recently, is it really necessary to change my voice and get a SRS? Where I live trans people don't usually seem to go stealth, it obviously leads to getting discriminated a lot more, but I think I'd be content with my actual voice (which is already sort of faggy anyways) and an orchi, even if I'm alone for the rest of my life.

Vent!! 2.0 by Phoebe Sedgehall - Thu, 26 Jan 2017 07:52:13 EST ID:W33OzG35 No.402105 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Since the last vent thread went pretty well....

How are you going? whats on your mind?
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Eliza Blegglewill - Thu, 13 Apr 2017 22:10:21 EST ID:Jga6p55e No.402894 Ignore Report Quick Reply
who the fuck says that
Charles Criffingfut - Fri, 14 Apr 2017 01:42:19 EST ID:W33OzG35 No.402897 Ignore Report Quick Reply

stop being such a cissy!
Ghengis Dong - Fri, 14 Apr 2017 10:51:40 EST ID:1oACUh3X No.402902 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Crossdressing Cis-male (Please don't lynch me)

Being that I crossdress I'm not the typical guy you'd describe as being offended by the term "cis" but none of my cis-friends express the sentiments your describing. I'm sure there exists people like that but the term isn't nearly as divisive as you seem to imply.

However, on the internet, I definitely know people who use cis excessively. Whenever they're misgendered or encounter someone rude they'll brand them as cis much the same way your racist uncle would always refer to someone's race if they have a bad encounter with an ethnic minority. Used in that context, within trans-havens it begins to take on the character of a slur.

This is pretty limited to toxic people though, and we don't have to allow that kind of appropriation of what is a sound and useful word.
Hamilton Briffingdale - Mon, 17 Apr 2017 19:20:00 EST ID:IyN+xLru No.402925 Ignore Report Quick Reply
This is a trend I've noticed after spending time in MTF and FTM centered spaces. It's really stood out.

Transgirls are extremely insecure about their identification. We're nervous about showing each other pictures of ourselves, nervous about not passing, nervous about being fakes.

How could we not be? Our voices are different than girls we know, we grow more hair in different places, we have 5 o clock shadow that we can't get rid of, we're taller than any girls we know. We put ourselves through bills of thousands of dollars and intense pain to get rid of our hair, have surgery on our faces, chests, and genitals. We accuse each other of just being men who are following trends, We hate our sisters who are visibly trans for being prideful, and call ourselves real girls for hating ourselves and living in fear.

I'm so sick of this culture. Passing threads are full of so much pride and concealed dysphoria it's depressing to be around. Sometimes I wonder how much of my dysphoria is just from hating my body an how much of it is from knowing I'm trans and being affected by this culture.

How do you deal with it? I'm struggling here, I hate who I am and what my body looks like, I just want to get rid of the few relationships I have in real life and live alone as a girl.
Barnaby Ciffingfuck - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 06:04:15 EST ID:DU03Yaoe No.402976 Ignore Report Quick Reply

First, stop feeling hate.

Instead, focus on what you love or enjoy about yourself.

Self-hatred is juvenile and stupid.

Stop now.

Be the girl and person you want to be, and enjoy being it.
Nothing else you can do, unless you want to needlessly feel pain.

Weird body image problems by Charles Chandertetch - Sat, 15 Apr 2017 16:48:52 EST ID:lSExDK+1 No.402908 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I've always found women beautiful in a not really sexual way, just admiring their looks.
I'm thinking of trying the anorexic look again with long hair, should I try crossdressing to see if I look more "natural" as a woman.
I think I've never really accepted being a man and my dick doesn't even work.
Fanny Sisslestut - Sat, 15 Apr 2017 18:07:25 EST ID:IyN+xLru No.402909 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Try it out yeah. Show us pics too if you do.
Cedric Hullywill - Sat, 15 Apr 2017 21:43:44 EST ID:jBS0bVSC No.402911 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Being anorexic is just going to highlight your male bone structure. In most cases fat tannins pass better.
Edwin Gabberbury - Sun, 16 Apr 2017 16:14:27 EST ID:kAnNvJWr No.402914 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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bit of the ol anorexia

no biggie
Ernest Beshham - Thu, 20 Apr 2017 23:03:46 EST ID:2k54T+z6 No.403014 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You could probably go on a diet and loose a lot of weight.

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