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Possible 2 weeks without HRT by Matilda Hisslecocke - Tue, 23 Sep 2014 00:39:57 EST ID:6Og9uXma No.378639 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I'm afraid I'll need to commit myself very soon. I self medicate. Will 2 weeks without HRT disrupt my brain chemistry significantly? Is it safe to assume physical effects will be minor to negligible and short-term?
Jenny Fuffingshaw - Tue, 23 Sep 2014 02:17:54 EST ID:4KCgA8zh No.378641 Ignore Report Quick Reply

if you do commit yourself then you will get HRT there, but they might diagonse you with something else..

2 weeks of no HRT is fine, you might cry alot (i did), but you should be fine.

if i owned a shelter for people like me, i'd call it "the last resort" *ba dum pssh* by Nigger Chesslelire - Sun, 21 Sep 2014 10:55:28 EST ID:aHv8Xyxs No.378567 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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What resources, if any, would one have as a homeless, disabled transgender with barely any money who desperately needs hormones?

Typing on this from a Cricket phone. Pretty sure I'm going to start prostituting for a lack of other options at this point, but I figured I'd check first. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Nell Siffinghedge - Sun, 21 Sep 2014 12:42:49 EST ID:Iw35VWdv No.378576 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Utilize whatever government assistance and assistance from friends that you can until you can get to a stable situation. Wish I knew what to do past that; I'm screwed if I lose either myself. Selling yourself can be really hard if you're not lucky. I had to do that to get through a few rough patches, and it wasn't that bad for the most part, but I didn't leave unscathed. There are risks involved to having such a lifestyle and being known for it got me raped a few times. Having so little control over your living situation can put you in some bad places. Good luck with whatever you attempt.
Emma Socklenidge - Sun, 21 Sep 2014 12:47:20 EST ID:ulyStB52 No.378577 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Option 1: Cam if you can get an audience (by being (a) hot enough, or (b) willing to do things other girls won't)

Option 2 : Go down to Boston and start escorting.

You'll ultimately make more money doing option 2, but's not exactly the safest of professions. Other than that, I don't know what to tell you, sorry. Homeless broke trans is probably the shittiest lot you can draw in life.
Jack Boblingham - Sun, 21 Sep 2014 13:05:36 EST ID:5vMspNAW No.378579 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Translife project, in chicago.
Phoebe Crannerwon - Sun, 21 Sep 2014 13:29:05 EST ID:a8+w/bc1 No.378580 Ignore Report Quick Reply
If you can get to SF, they have transitional housing that will be very easy for you to get assumming you aren't heavily addicted to crack/heroin. Other cities might have similar programs, but I only know about here
Emma Sovingbury - Sun, 21 Sep 2014 21:31:30 EST ID:o5fBRnMt No.378590 Ignore Report Quick Reply

I recommend getting a library card and kicking it near a central library.
Find resources and get some help. Get out to a good city/area for LGBT rights.
Get in college somewhere get financial aid.

god damn it i feel so hopeless and dysphoric by Cyril Crirringhetch - Wed, 17 Sep 2014 21:22:32 EST ID:aHv8Xyxs No.378399 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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how the fuck do i stop this from happening no matter WHAT I DO when i shave my body? this happens EVERYWHERE except on my chest...

i take care of myself and i'm slim and i take regular showers... it doesn't ever happen unless i shave
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Nigger Chesslelire - Sat, 20 Sep 2014 23:01:12 EST ID:aHv8Xyxs No.378554 Ignore Report Quick Reply
didn't think about blurring anything out. i figured you girls have seen enough as it is. sorry about that.

is it normal for my razors to absolutely suck after maybe one shave? they start cutting like crazy and the shave gets awful. i go through a $20 pack of heads for my shick hydro 5 in two to three days. this has been true of every other razor i've tried; most last much less, even. :7
Nigger Chesslelire - Sun, 21 Sep 2014 07:25:07 EST ID:aHv8Xyxs No.378561 Ignore Report Quick Reply
okay so wait, here's my process:

shower -> exfoliate -> shave -> moisturize

should i be switching anything around? is doing that every day okay, or should i do it less?
Ian Fondlehall - Sun, 21 Sep 2014 07:37:32 EST ID:wAmHdxMs No.378562 Ignore Report Quick Reply
i really dont understand why you would shower first

because you shower before all that, whatever you do afterwards to ""moistuirise"" might actually just be causing the area to get oily and greasy, and attract dirt.

get a good pair of tweezers - a real decent pair, with a slanted edge
Nigger Chesslelire - Sun, 21 Sep 2014 07:42:05 EST ID:aHv8Xyxs No.378563 Ignore Report Quick Reply
so... moisturize before i shower?
Wesley Bandleman - Sun, 21 Sep 2014 07:55:51 EST ID:IYIWIC2x No.378565 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Huh? After you shower you'll get rid of oils and everything that keeps your skin moisturized. Then after you exfoliate you'll lose skin and your skin will want new moisture to be able to regenerate and not get damaged.
I think the best way is to do everything really quickly
>shave or exfoliate
>Get out of shower quickly and dry
>Apply moisturizer
Like, I think you should moisturize within 3 minutes after you've exfoliated for best effect.

i think my hair's falling out by Nigger Ninningpudging - Fri, 05 Sep 2014 16:58:04 EST ID:f7m+4iP3 No.377866 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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strand by strand, it just falls out of my head. lots on the brush too.

wtf man.

im 26 and on spiro/estradiol. this is bs
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Polly Bubblekane - Tue, 16 Sep 2014 15:26:40 EST ID:kbhwxnNd No.378347 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I know just how you feel... I'm seeing my endo next week, may up my Spiro from 200 to 300 just to see what happens.

Another thing worth testing is your cortisol, both total (by blood) and free (urine.) I have done both and both results were slightly elevated. Could be a factor...
Matilda Sandlestatch - Tue, 16 Sep 2014 15:37:28 EST ID:1/T795ul No.378349 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I just want this fixed. Probably gonna be a long and expensive process just like getting HRT was. Blood tests, urine tests, more expensive visits.

damn i wish i had insurance. and a job.
Jarvis Greenspear - Wed, 17 Sep 2014 18:07:36 EST ID:SAndXRte No.378394 Ignore Report Quick Reply
So yeah. I'm now on finasteride 1mg per day. The doctor didn't think I'd regrow any of what I've lost, and if that's the case I don't think I can do this anymore. I've put up with a fair amount of shit over the years. Transsexualism. Epilepsy. Losing my children. This is the thing that's pushing me over the edge.

I don't even want to keep going to school or look for a job. It will take months to find out if the finasteride and minox whatever is helping. I can't do this anymore.
Beatrice Brazzlekotch - Sat, 20 Sep 2014 20:54:42 EST ID:SAndXRte No.378550 Ignore Report Quick Reply
After brushing my hair today there was so much on the brush, and when I looked in the mirror to do my minxodil treatment there was a very obvious patch of hair missing at the front hairline. What the fuck am I supposed to do?

I'm close to killing myself. Please help me somehow.
Hugh Ningerhutch - Sat, 20 Sep 2014 21:21:42 EST ID:4KCgA8zh No.378551 Ignore Report Quick Reply


fucking hell

Voice by Phyllis Bingerworth - Sat, 19 Jul 2014 01:16:54 EST ID:kIdgHiJn No.375564 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I tried to look up youtube videos of how to change my voice, but I am just confused and have no idea what I am looking for. Does anybody have any recommendations? The only thing I have managed to figure out is that I gotta reach a falsetto?
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Jarvis Bardridge - Fri, 19 Sep 2014 18:22:19 EST ID:/92lNZ7f No.378477 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Walter Fettingpore - Sat, 20 Sep 2014 05:46:44 EST ID:sdSF0g6k No.378519 Ignore Report Quick Reply
What about involuntary noises?

I currently very sick right now, sometimes coughing almost to the point of vomiting. There's no way I can control these coughs. And it's had me thinking about the voice thing. Coughing would out you. So, how does one -not- man-cough? And other things, like clearing of the throat that rumbles deep, choking, etc?
Martin Gickleham - Sat, 20 Sep 2014 14:02:25 EST ID:thSEn77C No.378537 Ignore Report Quick Reply
How the helll are you supposed to do #1? Mine keeps dropping back down when I swallow
Matilda Pondlenotch - Sat, 20 Sep 2014 17:44:46 EST ID:pwd2Onfb No.378548 Ignore Report Quick Reply
at least for me, when I swallow it goes up higher than I can actually hold it without swallowing

try to just get it higher than where it normally sits
Hugh Ningerhutch - Sat, 20 Sep 2014 20:16:56 EST ID:4KCgA8zh No.378549 Ignore Report Quick Reply

just keep trying.

multiple orgasms by Fanny Battingshit - Fri, 05 Sep 2014 07:10:14 EST ID:QzDqioaI No.377852 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hey, question for women on HRT:
Can you have multiple orgasms? And if so, did you have to learn a particular method or technique to be able to? I've been on full HRT for over 5 years now, and after I orgasm from genital stimulation, I'm still really horny mentally and emotionally, and I commonly still get that tingley feeling inside that makes me want to do more sexytimes, but I basically lose all my sensitivity down there. I've heard it should be the opposite, and it should get *more* sensitive after coming, but it's just useless... I've tried to just keep going but I get no physical pleasure whatsoever. It doesn't feel *bad*, but it seems like a waste of time and it's more difficult because I get totally flaccid, and eventually I just stop. Once I didn't stop and just kept going for like, at least a half hour, and eventually I came again but it was possibly the weakest, most pathetic orgasm I've ever had.

Now I've mostly been talking about masturbation... Maybe it would be better with a partner, since I could be stimulated with other forms of intimacy besides genital stimulation, but I've always been a firm believer that masturbation should be your "practice run" for sex and that one should learn how to pleasure themself perfectly in order to tell their partner what to do. So I'm worried that when I do have sex with someone, it will be short-lived and embarrassing. And besides, masturbation isn't satisfying me like this at all... I'd really like to get to the point where I can have multiples like the average cis female, by any means necessary. Any advice?

pic unrelated
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Sophie Dollerson - Wed, 17 Sep 2014 20:18:22 EST ID:wSz8cwam No.378397 Ignore Report Quick Reply
can this be done with a finger?
how much/what kind of lube does it require?
I hate to have to go buy a dildo that i probably wont even use that much.
James Wuvingwell - Fri, 19 Sep 2014 04:28:55 EST ID:rift3TwE No.378457 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Never achieved an anal orgasm, though I'm hoping my boyfriend will be more skilled than my masturbation attempts. We'll see. I don't think a second orgasm is possible with our genitals, but after an orgasm that thing is sensitive as fuck, even if it becomes flaccid.
Molly Pollylug - Fri, 19 Sep 2014 21:31:16 EST ID:6cZ/OLzn No.378484 Ignore Report Quick Reply
1.5 years in here. Yeah I experience multiple orgasms. Plenty of butt stuff involved though. Although I've never came from just anal, I usually don't have to touch for long at all and only on the head.
Molly Pollylug - Fri, 19 Sep 2014 21:32:19 EST ID:6cZ/OLzn No.378485 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Also pre-op forgot to mention that
Archie Siddlestock - Sat, 20 Sep 2014 14:28:33 EST ID:kWCe2BSF No.378540 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Yeah, not that far in on HRT, but I get the same with anal. Have to stimulate other a little, but then stop when I am getting semi-close to orgasm, but not as close as edging, and just keep going with anal. Depending on how far I edge before I go back to just anal determines how I am after. Like if I get really close, it is like orgasm and then even more horny and really easy to have another orgasm like 30 seconds after, and the pressure just keeps building the more times I do it until I cant stand it anymore and finish completely. Only ever made it to 3 orgasms because it is overwhelming after the 2nd one. Normally only make it to 2.

The other day I did it though, and stopped edging really far ahead, came with a weak orgasm, and was still SUPER horny but couldn't get off no matter what. Like tried for another hour, still really horny and erect but couldn't orgasm. Was frustrating, but seems like it would be fun with someone else.

Mazzoni Center In Philadelphia by Reuben Fanstone - Tue, 09 Sep 2014 15:02:57 EST ID:QO1UgWlp No.378074 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I'm scheduled at the Mazzoni Center to begin my journey to become a girl! Anyone have experience with this place? I have to drive three hours though, since it's the closest informed consent clinic I could find....
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Polly Clebberman - Wed, 17 Sep 2014 00:14:56 EST ID:WNisZhIR No.378374 Ignore Report Quick Reply
While I do agree that they can be pretty full at times it's a pretty cheery place. Their website is better than I hoped for, which is a plus.
Neat to know other folks from seedy go there.
Angus Dollerstock - Wed, 17 Sep 2014 06:46:08 EST ID:g93Jwnie No.378382 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>their doctors are not always properly educated on HRT, so you will have to specifically push them to give you progesterone

The one I have was willing to prescribe it.

-they don't really care much about your feminization; they won't test your estrogen levels, and they rely mostly on self-reporting as to whether you think the estradiol is working at the current dose. mostly all they care about is testosterone suppression.

They didn't give you blood tests..? I get tested every few months (started HRT a few months ago).

I like Mazzoni. I'm really glad a place like it exists. I've had no problems with them. But yea don't be late. Show up at least 15 minutes early it can get busy.
Angus Pebberdudging - Thu, 18 Sep 2014 00:00:57 EST ID:QzDqioaI No.378408 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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read my post again... they will only test your T levels, not your estrogen levels. I have asked them to do it before and they've refused. strangely enough, a regular general physician in my area who knows nothing about my medical history, gave me the test no big deal.
Hugh Pungershit - Fri, 19 Sep 2014 20:12:10 EST ID:BnNgFNO9 No.378482 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Who's your doctor?

I'm a patient of Mazzoni's as well and they only were willing to give me progesterone after a year on hrt. What annoys me about Mazzoni is that they only care about your T levels. They should check E levels as well. I had to go to a OBGYN to get a proper E test and found out that I levels for times the normal range.
Angus Desslechane - Fri, 19 Sep 2014 22:58:22 EST ID:o5fBRnMt No.378486 Ignore Report Quick Reply

I can tell your birthday is a month from Monday.

What's Your excuse? by Caroline Bashbad - Thu, 18 Sep 2014 01:39:19 EST ID:o5fBRnMt No.378412 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Come what is it?
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Frederick Warringway - Fri, 19 Sep 2014 11:53:15 EST ID:30B9GJvU No.378466 Ignore Report Quick Reply
She -is- attractive because she has such a great attitude. Not everyone is going to like the hair but she's far from ugly.
Simon Bummerhall - Fri, 19 Sep 2014 11:57:01 EST ID:jz05lu9O No.378468 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Beatrice Bammerhall - Fri, 19 Sep 2014 14:14:50 EST ID:o5fBRnMt No.378472 Ignore Report Quick Reply

It's desirable because her hairyn3ss goes against societally acceptable beauty standards; in a compleltely natural way. Its not like she's some sort of plastic surgery freak or fucking octomom.
Sidney Handerduck - Fri, 19 Sep 2014 14:48:21 EST ID:PDNiy9YG No.378474 Ignore Report Quick Reply

It's cool to have a minority opinion, just don't look for ways to justify it's superiority over what is entirely subjective.
Beatrice Bammerhall - Fri, 19 Sep 2014 17:35:23 EST ID:o5fBRnMt No.378475 Ignore Report Quick Reply

I posted this because of cd's obssession with hair removal at any cost.
It would be absurd to say that being harry like that is superior.

asldksaf by Cornelius Gacklehood - Mon, 15 Sep 2014 05:57:16 EST ID:zoWSuuHm No.378298 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I cut my hair again.

Someone. Please. Why can't I grow my hair without feeling like getting a haircut!? FUUCK. I think I might invest on a really good wig or something to stop myself from going nuts about looking awful as my hair grows from boy short to long.
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Lydia Smallworth - Mon, 15 Sep 2014 15:02:12 EST ID:KMCRabO9 No.378319 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Why do you feel like getting a haircut?

Anyways, just don't. It takes so much effort to go to a salon or barber, anyways. Plus you have to pay them money.
Eliza Cullynick - Mon, 15 Sep 2014 17:13:26 EST ID:12rGqHp1 No.378320 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Yeah, just wear a hat or wig OP. Depending on your job, you might have to go without at work, which sucks. But suck it up. The awkward length phase is only temporary.

I suppose it's easy for me to say, though. I've had long hair since grade school.
Lydia Gooddock - Wed, 17 Sep 2014 01:41:41 EST ID:AFWW4dBW No.378378 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I got a haircut because I think bobs are cute and I wanted one. You don't have to have super long hair to pass!
Henry Sosslefig - Wed, 17 Sep 2014 02:07:59 EST ID:4KCgA8zh No.378381 Ignore Report Quick Reply

bob isnt the same as boyshort though.
Hamilton Bunnerbanks - Fri, 19 Sep 2014 11:29:17 EST ID:vkyT1A1Z No.378464 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Because it doesn't look cute, go find a nice person you're comfortable with, and tell them to make you cute. I took a train in to San Fran and told a gay pirate that, and have fucking loved my hair since.

Libertarian by Wesley Sebberwell - Wed, 10 Sep 2014 11:51:15 EST ID:o5fBRnMt No.378107 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Post ITT if you were a Libertarian 6 years ago.
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Graham Pockworth - Tue, 16 Sep 2014 10:38:19 EST ID:+EDrNCqg No.378341 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Well yeah, I feel like we got ourselves into a pickle haha. I like to be optimistic too though that if things weren't so crazy with like huge governments and corporations and there fore the interests of a few people being able to trump the well-being of everyone/the planet and stuff or maybe most people do need to be in a certain mindset about things for it to work out. The idea that we need to like somehow survive the sun exploding lol. I tend to think that the challenges we face as a planet(short of things like sun exploding or anything like that) are more or less self created and possibly because of how we think we need to or can improve on something that tbh works really amazingly, or like feel the need to try to explore space/expand forever/escape death =P I think there are good harmonious ways to live on this planet that really don't require much "enhancing," plants grow themselves honestly, nature is like the most efficient system evar. Some stuff about what the environment our bodies developed in and how different it is from now and problems it may cause. Etc. One of those people =P I do like to think we could be harmonious too and still all "advance" and stuff whatever that means, that seems fun, I like bass. Idk! Like I said idk how things might work out or not and it wasn't the main reason for being anarchist. Idk that I'm marxist or capitalist. Could that be a false dichotomy? I haven't looked up stuff like this in soooo long lol I feel like my sense of what those mean is too basic to go with lol.
Wesley Semmercheg - Tue, 16 Sep 2014 21:32:15 EST ID:o3AjW1l3 No.378369 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Econ/Poli Sci/Math triple major here. I also was a libertarian some time ago before I studied econ (yes around six years to be exact). Libertarianism just does not make sense as a governing philosophy unless you accept some patently absurd ideas.

On Anarchism: I think the case against anarchism can easily be summed up as: government doesn't exist to accommodate those who would otherwise be orderly but rather to mitigate the effect of those who would not. Government may not be perfect, but it is the best system so far conceived.
Frederick Durringfudging - Tue, 16 Sep 2014 22:56:37 EST ID:XK9Wxj5h No.378371 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I was an Ancap 16 year old little shit.
Ebenezer Brubblemot - Thu, 18 Sep 2014 21:08:10 EST ID:kbnEFGTV No.378441 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Well... Government is obviously how we keep people from doing stupid, short-sighted shit like polluting and decimating our natural resources. Government can also keep people from robbing, stealing, etc. Furthermore, it can establish programs which reduce the likelihood of people *needing* to engage in those anti-social behaviors by providing help to people that need it.

As to whether it's ethical to 'force' people to play along... No, it's not always ethical but it's not always unethical either. That can only be decided on a case-by-case basis.

In the end, I still feel like it's more ideal to let people act on their own volition, free of rules, but I also recognize that there are many instances where *everyone* has to play along or things just don't work.

I haven't thought about it in a while, but I actually used to dream of a shift in human consciousness/behavior. It wouldn't take much, on an individual basis, to stop polluting, make people take care of each other, and start exploring the universe in peace. Maybe in the future that will happen. Such a thing would rely on a post-scarcity environment, but scarcity exists in your head as much as it does in real life. Humans really only *need* food, water, and shelter. Everything else is extra.
Samuel Fandale - Mon, 22 Sep 2014 13:31:35 EST ID:wRWTmL+O No.378613 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Right, at the stuff more toward the end lol. I think our culture/mindset is basically a huge part. Some tribes or some mess in places and back in the day provided for everyone in the tribe pretty regardless right? And I do feel like a lot of crime/anti-social behavior as you say is caused by people not you know like having what they need and stuffs or otherwise the situation we created. Food, water and shelter! Food. Foooooooooood I'm trying to get everyone to grow food =) I think there is enough space and everything without some crazy engineering, just taking leads from nature, to grow enough food for everyone. Spread people out more maybe lol. Once you have that like maybe people can chill. Prolly be more chill being more in touch with all those processes too I like to imagine. We do food terribly as it is. But yeah food taken care of they can maybs kinda be like fuck off big companies and governments and all you things that operate with disregard for others like me in less fortunate situations that I slave for and support for I can't remember why =P idk lol

life sucks by Esther Pellerhood - Thu, 18 Sep 2014 17:36:14 EST ID:4ZYKyr3B No.378428 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Does the dysphoria ever go away? I see my body, my adam's apple, my jawline, my hairline, my chin, my penis, my shoulders, and as much as I hate them, the feeling never goes away. It's like a movie where you see yourself become the monster and you can't help but watch it over and over again.
Angus Pebberdudging - Thu, 18 Sep 2014 18:01:01 EST ID:QzDqioaI No.378431 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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I've been "full-time" for over five years now, and I don't think it ever gets better. you have to just find a way to keep those thoughts out of your mind. This is why so many trans people become drug addicts - it's the easy way. The hard way is to create such a rich, busy life that you don't have time to worry about these things.
Sophie Gicklegold - Thu, 18 Sep 2014 18:04:58 EST ID:SDtfVdTd No.378432 Ignore Report Quick Reply
It never stops completely. I felt it got better after about a year on mones and srs. Dont expect it to go away completely though. Guess the trick is to get your mind off it by doing stuff youre good at. get a job, pets, and a boyfriend that treats you well and it gets easier.
Edward Trotfield - Thu, 18 Sep 2014 20:55:12 EST ID:ZlcEuxBJ No.378440 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Mine has mostly gone away after 4 years on HRT and 2 years full-time. I found going full-time and not getting read as male for two years (so far) did more for my dysphoria than HRT alone. It's easy to bury dysphoria under piles of people considering you to be a pretty girl. Confidence is an amazing thing.

Every once in a while I find it flares up (shoulders!), but 99% of the time it's gone.

I don't think it every goes away completely though, and, for me, seems to be somewhat based in hormone levels. Confidence can't overcome testosterone spikes or daily differences in medication being processed by the body.

First date by Barnaby Geckleman - Thu, 11 Sep 2014 11:30:56 EST ID:xuXPCgIj No.378148 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So i just did my first date thing with a guy. He was one of the many ppl that sent me messages and he didnt say anything bad after a week and so i gave him my number, then texted each other for a week and now its the third week and it was pretty good. He doesnt have much of a life because of work and study but he has really good musical taste, all kinds of stuff i have also on my computer minus MIA and beyonce etc
Anyway so i have never been with a guy. The one sexual experience i had with a man resulted in me having a breakdown due to conditioned homophobia when i was a 14.
So we're watching a movie in his tiny room and our phones both go off and its the fuxking police for me and HIS mum WTFF
Turns out my overly worried friend had tried calling me and i didnt answer and so they fucking called the cops!?

anyway after so much hassle and we both calmed down and i was so embarrassed and we were making jokes. So he turns the movie back on and we make out and things got better from there. I couldn't go all the way because i dont even know how to... im a fucking virgin like that... I will have to tell him i guess... fucckkkkk

He was totally respectful tho and so nice. we snuggled after and fuck it was just so ice and he made me of giggly and happy and so perfect in that moment i didnt care about a fucking thing...
In that one moment i dont even know it was okay. we were in his tiny room on his crappy bed and everything was okay...

sigh. well i guess i will have to keep testing him but i do hope he continues to prove his pureness... Im sure it will turn out that he is just into transgirls with dicks and he wanted to "return the favor" and i know thats what he wants so i guess... wtf like? it wouldnt even work really...

Anyway this thead is to discuss first dates Do's and don'ts aswell as share weird/good date story's feel free to make a separate thread for either!
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Nathaniel Sallypuck - Mon, 15 Sep 2014 13:34:33 EST ID:xuXPCgIj No.378309 Ignore Report Quick Reply
It could have been read in any way dw about it ldy
Lillian Pummerpudge - Tue, 16 Sep 2014 16:24:03 EST ID:2o7oBapo No.378354 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I don't know how any of you find a straight guy who wants to be with you. I've been going on countless dates over the past couple of years and despite having guys previously tell me how hot they think I am and even brag to their friends about me, as soon as I tell them I'm trans they either say they just want to be friends or they run for the hills. I feel like my chances would be better post op, but I'll probably never be able to afford that since I struggle with depression too much to hold down a job. Being trans is fucking lonely as hell.
Edward Woffingbury - Tue, 16 Sep 2014 19:22:01 EST ID:1v5QCWWp No.378357 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Don't get with guys that like you just cuz youre hot. guys who like me do find me attractive, but we only ever get together because I actually like them back based on who they are. Turns out the guys I tend to be attracted to tend to be the open minded guys who *would* get with a trans girl.
Thomas Clishferk - Wed, 17 Sep 2014 19:13:59 EST ID:aHMTviWi No.378395 Ignore Report Quick Reply
At least your pretty
Hugh Shakeworth - Fri, 19 Sep 2014 05:18:50 EST ID:2o7oBapo No.378458 Ignore Report Quick Reply
It's not as if that will last much longer since I'm already 32. I look really young, but I'm really panicking over the thought of starting to show my age before finding a mate. Especially since my generation is generally less accepting of trans people than the generation that your average /cd/er belongs to.

I don't just want to settle either. I've been in FWB situations with guys I wasn't really attracted to out of desperation, but I wouldn't date any of them if the only reason was because I had no other options. Not only would that be unfair to them, but it would make me feel like I was agreeing that I'm somehow less worthy of love due to the way I was born.

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