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Corsets/Waist training by Cyril Fuckingfoot - Sun, 23 Nov 2014 03:46:17 EST ID:wSz8cwam No.380993 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I'm 9 months on hrt, and I have absolutely no waist whatsoever.
I want create one via usage of a corset.
what do I need to know, what should I be looking for, how much am I going to need to spend, is there anything anyone else recommends, etc etc

a noteworthy waist will make up for my lack of hips and breast
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Lillian Crittingville - Thu, 18 Dec 2014 06:58:59 EST ID:s5AV9Dcp No.381838 Ignore Report Quick Reply
what do you guys think of this?

seems like a cincher can be used to peel off a couple of inches, right? or do cinchers only work if you're fat?
Sidney Piddlemed - Fri, 19 Dec 2014 08:03:38 EST ID:TkJc0R3r No.381867 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You've got to wear them for 23 hours a day, so for most people it isn't really an option.
Samuel Nonderhall - Fri, 19 Dec 2014 12:22:36 EST ID:YjqNPrq+ No.381871 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Is there are like an operation for this?
It just seems that even if it's costly it would spend less effort/time than wearing a cotset 20> hours for years, isn't it?
Martin Chiddleshit - Fri, 19 Dec 2014 12:26:16 EST ID:e3iWttpq No.381872 Ignore Report Quick Reply
fat grafts or hip implants would give the illusion of a smaller waist.
Samuel Nonderhall - Fri, 19 Dec 2014 13:08:06 EST ID:YjqNPrq+ No.381873 Ignore Report Quick Reply
well, there are like ribs removal surgery, and fat liposactions

Sweet Passing thread brah? by Simon Turveyham - Tue, 04 Nov 2014 15:37:50 EST ID:S34Rlmli No.380446 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Another passing thread, what am I at now?
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Archie Simmlespear - Thu, 18 Dec 2014 17:38:53 EST ID:ayd5ReJn No.381857 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Hey seedy.

Over 3 years on hormones now. Got myself married and even have a little girl. Sure hope I'm cute, mones wont do much more to me. What do you think?
Edward Smallfuck - Thu, 18 Dec 2014 18:42:08 EST ID:4ZYKyr3B No.381858 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Definitely cute, congrats on everything
Samuel Blummerfield - Fri, 19 Dec 2014 06:17:22 EST ID:38ES3Aah No.381866 Ignore Report Quick Reply
cis or not cis it shouldnt matter to you.
Oliver Fiblingbury - Fri, 19 Dec 2014 12:00:14 EST ID:vTQTKtNS No.381869 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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I think I already posted in this thread, but I don't remember.

Anyway, I just wanted to say I support you.
Oliver Fiblingbury - Fri, 19 Dec 2014 12:13:09 EST ID:vTQTKtNS No.381870 Ignore Report Quick Reply
9/10 would awkwardly hump your leg

Voice by Phyllis Bingerworth - Sat, 19 Jul 2014 01:16:54 EST ID:kIdgHiJn No.375564 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I tried to look up youtube videos of how to change my voice, but I am just confused and have no idea what I am looking for. Does anybody have any recommendations? The only thing I have managed to figure out is that I gotta reach a falsetto?
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John Settingmick - Thu, 13 Nov 2014 18:26:25 EST ID:4ZYKyr3B No.380726 Ignore Report Quick Reply
When I hold my adam's apple up and talk, it doesn't sound different. If I try really hard and swallow twice in a row and talk, i really feel something different and it sounds a little weird, is this where I'm supposed to be? I've only been training for a week and I still need more guidance to good resources.
George Hinninglag - Fri, 14 Nov 2014 01:59:20 EST ID:B8iskLt5 No.380733 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You're not supposed to hold your Adam's apple, holy shit
Nigger Tootwell - Fri, 14 Nov 2014 02:54:11 EST ID:4ZYKyr3B No.380736 Ignore Report Quick Reply
With the muscles, I mean.
Lydia Carryben - Fri, 14 Nov 2014 12:35:51 EST ID:NVWTP9nw No.380746 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You need to train your muscles and get control of them for longer than a week before you will really be able to do it well. Unless you are like a voice muscle control prodigy. You need to do a combo of muscle control and breath control. I am still workin on it though. So ain't no magic advice here.
Isabella Goodville - Fri, 19 Dec 2014 09:16:37 EST ID:UE5qjT0N No.381868 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Bunch of free articles by the woman who does that paid program
might be helpful, I haven't looked at them yet

Testosterone levels post-op? by Thomas Drottingsere - Thu, 18 Dec 2014 20:03:00 EST ID:kbhwxnNd No.381859 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So, I had an orchiectomy a few months ago, and that's nice, but still something has been making me paranoid. I expected that the removal of the testes would mean I wouldn't have to take anti-androgens anymore, but apparently I may be wrong?

I've been reading some stories around about adrenal androgens ramping up post-op, to a point where some people even masculinize after surgery. Now, these instances may be rarer than they look, but the idea of this happening to me has freaked me out, to the point I've still been taking Spiro even though I'd rather be without it...

Is anyone here post-op? Anyone have any experiences? My doctors did blood tests two weeks after surgery and things looked fine, but... Still worried.
Barnaby Pozzlestick - Thu, 18 Dec 2014 20:44:13 EST ID:7YPMz8WU No.381860 Ignore Report Quick Reply
If your hormone levels look right, you should be fine. I had the same concern until I saw my tests results say that was close to nil testosterone in my system.
Thomas Drottingsere - Fri, 19 Dec 2014 03:52:57 EST ID:kbhwxnNd No.381864 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Thank you for replying.

If I may ask, have you now dropped Spiro? Also, how long ago was your surgery? Have you had any hormonal changes since then?

Sorry to be so annoying, but this has just all left me very anxious the last few days, and my next endo appointment is a month away so getting a blood test order is out of the question for now...
Reuben Choblingspear - Fri, 19 Dec 2014 04:24:18 EST ID:qYWiq64t No.381865 Ignore Report Quick Reply
there is a pretty easy rule for that:
if you have been tkaing aa for a short time before surgery you should continue them if needed for maybe 2-3 months or something if your bloodtest comes back high T.
Thats extremely rare though. and basically doesnt happen with most decent surgeon at all. I suggest playing the lottery if this happens to you.

Now lets assume you had extremely bad luck in this case and this happens to you: rather sooner than later, your T level WILL drop to the lowest possible point (natal females have 40-90, you will have around 15 of I forgot the unit. males have 300-700) mor or less. It is literally impossible to have less T in your blood.

What happens if your T level rise after op?

They rise immediately or in a very short time, due to it being a direct reaction of your body to the unusual drop of T levels. If after two weeks you do not have high T, its practcally impossible. My doctors didnt even test me for that initially . they just tested my liver like 3,5 months after the surgery because I was swallowing fucktons of meds.
Albert Sicklenidge - Fri, 19 Dec 2014 17:06:30 EST ID:0Q1sfDP1 No.381874 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I think the roof of T for women is actually something like 60, not 90. But anyway...

Finally got a test script from my doctor (called it in) so there's that. Just been especially paranoid since last week I did a trial of just one 100mg pill a day and I swear my passing voice has dropped slightly since then. May be my OCD though... I don't know if adrenal androgens would rebound that quickly or aggressively anyway. I hope not...

Thanks again for the responses everyone.

Plens by Hamilton Figgleshit - Thu, 11 Dec 2014 04:04:16 EST ID:PYsSrH10 No.381592 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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What's your plan to ensure the greatest possibly of a comfortable life and to avoid becoming an unemployable wreck?
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Nigger Serringbanks - Wed, 17 Dec 2014 02:49:24 EST ID:3e+hxjtu No.381801 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Dont be so fucking coy, shes a prostitute and you know it.
Jarvis Shakelock - Wed, 17 Dec 2014 03:29:14 EST ID:Iw35VWdv No.381802 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I actually think it's rather fun.
Eliza Buzzdale - Wed, 17 Dec 2014 14:13:34 EST ID:Io2EZY6T No.381809 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Another plus about being stealth: Doesn't have to be associated with the kind of people who think prostitution is a "fun job".

Seriously, why is every other trans person a pervert?

>What's a fun job?
>What's a fun job that pays well?
Those aren't always that easy to combine.

I work at a vintage clothing store. It doesn't really pay that well, but it's a ton of fun.

I get to work with something I love, and I really enjoy it there since no one knows about my past. It pays for transition well enough, so I don't really feel any hurry to look for greener pastures just yet.
Jenny Pennerlidge - Thu, 18 Dec 2014 22:47:05 EST ID:PYsSrH10 No.381861 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Given that almost every prospective employer in the US runs a background check it's actually impossible to be 100% 'stealth' right? Even then, name changes are public record so anyone with the will has a way to out you.
Cyril Membleline - Fri, 19 Dec 2014 00:39:33 EST ID:Iw35VWdv No.381863 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I dunno, why is every other transperson a self hating judgmental shut in? :3

Protecting confused people by Emma Soddledadging - Wed, 17 Dec 2014 00:59:01 EST ID:RnQKhr1e No.381793 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I believe that there are people out there who were born in the wrong body, but I also know there are a lot of depressed and confused people out there who are looking for guidence. How do you help the people who are honestly transgender without ruining and leading astray lost people?

Psychiatrists tend to me some of the worst people around and aren't exactly conservative when it comes to prescribing drugs. I remember trying to get some addy IR from one. He knew I didn't have ADD because I just told him straight up I want something to help me study, and "aderall seems to work well for me" implying that I have already illegally used the meds he is going to supply me. I am 16 at the time and he says yes, then comes up with this brilliant amount of BS to tell my mom. He says things like "well your son might have this form of ADD that doesn't show up on normal ADD tests, and isn't fully obvious". I was able to get a lot of XR, but I wanted IR so I told him that it was giving me sleeping problems hoping that he would give me some IR instead. He instead offered to prescribe me sleeping pills. I know people who are now drug addicts because of them and their liberal prescribing practices.

I have never been to one that specializes in gender idenity issues, but I am assuming they are the same way. What is going to stop misguided people from being lead down a crazy path that ends with them mutilating their bodies?

I am not trans, but I did have some identity issues growing up. I can point to several instances where I displayed a longing for things like long hair, makeup, dresses, ect. After going through puberty those behavors went away and I am now fully a man. I am afraid to think what would of happened if these behavors were interperted as a transgender thing, and I was given hormone blockers or something else that would of fucked up my life.

What are your thoughts?
Albert Sembleshaw - Wed, 17 Dec 2014 01:08:45 EST ID:rUI8XJ5W No.381795 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>my psychiatrist was a quack therefore all psychiatrists are quacks

>I have never been to one that specializes in gender idenity issues, but I am assuming they are the same way.

>I have never heard of a mental health professional who does not prescribe drugs

>I can't understand mental healthcare because I was a teenage drug addict and my drug addict friends are blaming their doctors for their addictions

Fuck Gipperhood - Wed, 17 Dec 2014 01:09:56 EST ID:xLrjuslx No.381796 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Maybe you're just in denial and will break down and transition a hon when you're 49 and a half.
Jarvis Shakelock - Wed, 17 Dec 2014 06:33:57 EST ID:Iw35VWdv No.381805 Ignore Report Quick Reply
nb for terrible bait
Frederick Gosslekodge - Thu, 18 Dec 2014 00:14:15 EST ID:jvZSB8aO No.381829 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Everyone is different, your therapist was trying to help you study, you were obviously brazen enough to flat out ask him to lie for you and he did.

Transgender therapists shouldnt say "you are trans" or "you arent trans" because the fact that people question their own gender identity makes them trans, What they are there to determine is if you are sound of mind and responsible enough to make life choices. if you have other problems or seem unsure of yourself they will milk you.

I didnt need a therapist to help me sort out my crap, because i had been dealing with my identity issues since i was 13, i walked into the therapists office and was like "this is who i am, this is what im planning to do, this is what i need to achieve it" and they gave me a letter of recomendation.

You seem to be confused that therapists or psychologists have some kind of special powers that allow you to do this and that, they are everyday people like you and i, if you ask for help and they can, then they probably will.

So again, that therapist was helping you out and you're just being a typical rat, you wanted help and they could probably empathise when they used adderal during college.
Betsy Churringtare - Thu, 18 Dec 2014 23:14:09 EST ID:CcWaSxtu No.381862 Ignore Report Quick Reply

what this person said.

therapists dont say you are trans, they will either agree with your version of events of ask you more and more questions aimed at making you doubt yourself and ultimately accepting you arent.

therapists never give you advice lol theyre just gatekeepers.

you're lucky you had one nice enough to help you with that, very lucky. most therapists are very hardlined about that stuff.

Cheapest place to get FFS by Whitey Brombleshit - Mon, 15 Dec 2014 03:29:39 EST ID:u5QjDlNC No.381724 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Where can you get FFS done for the least amount of money? And I mean by a professional >.>
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Rebecca Bammerham - Wed, 17 Dec 2014 18:37:27 EST ID:2z4o0Zjp No.381819 Ignore Report Quick Reply
What's wrong with Zukowski? I keep hearing mixed things about him.
Edward Smallfuck - Thu, 18 Dec 2014 14:11:31 EST ID:4ZYKyr3B No.381851 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Some of his patients end up looking real weird, I hear.
Cyril Murdlock - Thu, 18 Dec 2014 14:30:24 EST ID:9SiHVnDn No.381852 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Some end up looking dead.
Edward Smallfuck - Thu, 18 Dec 2014 15:23:00 EST ID:4ZYKyr3B No.381855 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Oh, didn't one die after the surgery? Forgot about that. Don't think it was his fault, though. Maybe. Maybe they should have had someone give her a checkup for her heart condition or whatever, I have no idea.

On topic, is Bart a good choice? Live on the west coast so he's a bit farther off, but he seems reliable and cheaper than Spiegel, etc. Only recently started looking into doctors so don't know for sure. I mainly want to go for jaw stuff. I saw his portfolio and there was a girl with a jaw like me and they ended up great.
Angus Dipperway - Thu, 18 Dec 2014 15:47:34 EST ID:NdmBrf/Z No.381856 Ignore Report Quick Reply
i can vouch for dimaggio, GF had her FFS done with him. Great after-care, amazing results. Pretty cheap too.

How are things going with you?. by Cedric Poshdore - Sat, 06 Dec 2014 07:45:07 EST ID:ddgo4xgM No.381399 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So hows everything going with you?

Hows transition going? How have you fit into being a woman? are you part or full time? do you have a partner? do you work? Just write, tell us how your life is going, if you're having problems, feeling unsure about your transition etc, just talk, maybe someone can help.

So how are you going? i hope you're doing well.
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Caroline Buzzfoot - Wed, 17 Dec 2014 23:23:48 EST ID:OE4nk+oO No.381826 Ignore Report Quick Reply
HAHAHA I have no idea what you talking about. You're the one who is pathetic and I hope you get raped.
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Caroline Buzzfoot - Wed, 17 Dec 2014 23:27:47 EST ID:OE4nk+oO No.381827 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Read >>381806
>People can look ugly without looking creepy
That's an exact quote. I didn't bring up ugly people, that person did. Maybe you need to work on your reading comprehension before acting like an arrogant faggot. Too bad, So sad
Caroline Buzzfoot - Wed, 17 Dec 2014 23:29:08 EST ID:OE4nk+oO No.381828 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You're a very violent human being. Maybe you need to be locked up. Setting people on first isn't very nice. :(
Oliver Minninghere - Thu, 18 Dec 2014 01:55:40 EST ID:5plYtuIo No.381834 Ignore Report Quick Reply

>So hows everything going with you?

Ok I guess, money's an issue. Overall I'm happy though. Probably going to school in the spring.

>Hows transition going?

All right I guess. I'm at 18 months now. Will probably apply for a name change in January and get a gender change on my passport and then maybe go full-time. Still not all that confident, but I mostly dyke-pass. I really want to get FFS/SRS and have transition be over, but money is holding me back so it's going to be years away, which sucks because I'm already 29 and I want to get at least a few years in of being a young woman.

> How have you fit into being a woman?

Ok I guess, definitely don't fit in as a guy. Mostly hang out with girls. It's really hard to feel like a woman sometimes when you don't feel like you look like one and you still have guy bits.

>are you part or full time?
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Fucking Clobberforth - Thu, 18 Dec 2014 03:24:29 EST ID:Iw35VWdv No.381837 Ignore Report Quick Reply
She separated ugly from creepy and explained the difference, you inbred fuckwit. Fuck off before you embarrass yourself even more.

Friendly places by Shitting Bammerket - Wed, 17 Dec 2014 14:44:28 EST ID:fJV1jKjm No.381811 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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What is the friendliest country to transgender folk? I heard it is Portugal.
Priscilla Lighthood - Thu, 18 Dec 2014 02:35:39 EST ID:gQCLDW3C No.381836 Ignore Report Quick Reply
the only places where you wont get shit are antarctica and the moon
Edward Chibberwire - Thu, 18 Dec 2014 12:18:29 EST ID:D0apJWhd No.381845 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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And Mars

Türkiye LGBTİ Birliği by Cedric Cleppertidge - Wed, 17 Dec 2014 20:39:55 EST ID:W1j90CaA No.381822 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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A new umbrella organization has been established to fight homophobia and transphobia in Turkey, the Islamic country that straddles Europe and Asia, reports GayAsiaNews.com

In existence less than two months, Turkey LGBTI Union was created in order to ensure unity and solidarity among LGBTI groups, LGBTI Web sites and LGBTI organizations, Burçin Bordanacı of the Turkey LGBTI Union told GayAsiaNews.com by email.

“Because Turkey is an Islamic country, although not in the same league as Saudi Arabia, Syria and Iraq in its vehemently anti-LGBTI stance, there is still need for togetherness and solidarity among LGBTI groups to counter the homophobia and transphobia that exists in Turkey,” Bordanacı said.

Currently, Turkey LGBTI Union has three LGBT organizations and three LGBTI Web sites that have become members stated Bordanacı.

Turkey LGBTI Union "Türkiye LGBTİ Birliği" is based in the Turkish capital of Ankara and has its own website (http://lgbti.org/). It is founded by a gay activist Nikopol who was also instrumental in forming an LGBTI community/club in Turkey in 2006, Bordanacı said.
Nigel Wuckleban - Thu, 18 Dec 2014 01:42:47 EST ID:Y904Sm6G No.381833 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Aren't muslims A-OK with transfolk, though? There's a fatwa about it.
Priscilla Lighthood - Thu, 18 Dec 2014 02:28:20 EST ID:gQCLDW3C No.381835 Ignore Report Quick Reply
only they lot that follow Ayatollah
Lillian Hodgebanks - Thu, 18 Dec 2014 14:36:10 EST ID:rSUe/Svf No.381853 Ignore Report Quick Reply
It's only Iran as far as I know.
Islam isn't like catholicism where the pope says something is true and everyone has to follow it, fatwa is more like an opinion of someone who knows their shit. You can get two different fatwas from two different people that would be conflicting and you can believe what you want. It's possible there's another one saying transition is wrong, I don't know about anything like that though.
Jarvis Budgehedge - Fri, 19 Dec 2014 18:07:17 EST ID:eH2eOIrR No.381875 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Depends on the mosque, as someone has already said, its not like catholisism, islam is very community focused and generally follow their sheikh' interpretation of the qu'ran.

Hit and Miss by Rebecca Sandermore - Mon, 15 Dec 2014 21:22:23 EST ID:XoNxzSfZ No.381741 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Mia is a pre-op transsexual contract killer whose life is changed when she hears from her ex, who reveals that she's dying and that Mia has a son.

I hate most transgendered characters on film and t.v. But this one. Wow. I've never seen the emotional turmoil, conflict, pain, hopes, dreams, aspirations, and desires of a transgendered character written like this before. I bonded with this character on a level few of any type have since I was a young teen. This honestly is probably the best character to watch if you want to understand the life of a transgendered person.

Whiny bitches.
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Jarvis Shakelock - Wed, 17 Dec 2014 17:55:01 EST ID:Iw35VWdv No.381816 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>and live in your parents basement and self med

The percentage of transgirls with that option I would say is less that 5%, so no it isn't a plan.
Barnaby Pabberked - Wed, 17 Dec 2014 18:00:32 EST ID:6P12Rd7R No.381817 Ignore Report Quick Reply
are you going to provide actual evidence for your claims or what
Jarvis Shakelock - Wed, 17 Dec 2014 18:59:15 EST ID:Iw35VWdv No.381821 Ignore Report Quick Reply

have fun weeding the denial out of your mind
Charles Socklebutch - Wed, 17 Dec 2014 21:47:39 EST ID:PQsqfShD No.381824 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I thought we would live longer because testosterone leads to more heart and cvd problems. And prostate cancer
Nigel Wuckleban - Thu, 18 Dec 2014 01:39:58 EST ID:Y904Sm6G No.381831 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I actually liked this series.

friends by Eliza Hubblecocke - Tue, 16 Dec 2014 09:43:39 EST ID:34zrZ5kT No.381763 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So I'm gonna start transition soon and want to stop doing drugs. Drugs (mainly alcohol) are what I do when I hang out with my friends. I'm worried I'll seem like a wet blanket and will be very reserved if I'm sober. I have one friend who I'm not worried at all about losing contact with the rest I probably will. How do I make new friends? especially in the middle of transition. how did you make friends during/after transition? what do you do when you hang out? share your experiences please, thanks
Hamilton Chollerlodging - Tue, 16 Dec 2014 13:01:14 EST ID:qzCOFOKw No.381765 Ignore Report Quick Reply
you'll only be a wet blanket if you act like one. Can you socialise around drunk/high people while sober? Maybe start by slowly lowering the amount you drink until you don't need alcohol to be less reserved.
Making new friends in the middle of transition is super awkward tbh, I'd suggest waiting until you're presenting as a girl full-time to make an active effort to make more friends. If you're kinda walking on the edge of presenting as a girl or not and meet new people, they may not know how to react.
On the other hand if they respond well then you're out to people who barely knew your previous life, but know you're trans, which can be helpful, as often (in my experience) they barely remember that you are in day-to-day life, but you can go to them for issues/venting and not have to worry about whether they've guessed you're trans or not.

Tbh I'm not much better. For socialising I usually get high and talk to the couple of friends I have as we can't usually afford to go out and do stuff.
Jarvis Shakelock - Wed, 17 Dec 2014 12:59:57 EST ID:Iw35VWdv No.381808 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Dunno why you want to stop doing drugs, being trans is fucking ass and you're going to want some time to relax and forget about shit. You wont hold to it, I'd bet anything.
Charles Socklebutch - Wed, 17 Dec 2014 21:44:16 EST ID:PQsqfShD No.381823 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I want to make more friends but I am mid transition and it makes it hard. I feel fake around people and like its not worth making connections but I need tom i am lonely and lack of social interaction is hurting my personality. Advice?

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