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Sweet Passing thread brah? by Simon Turveyham - Tue, 04 Nov 2014 15:37:50 EST ID:S34Rlmli No.380446 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Another passing thread, what am I at now?
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Charles Copperhud - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 19:50:42 EST ID:Xdzci5Ni No.383200 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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scarf is fuckin dumb
Cornelius Dreddletock - Sun, 01 Feb 2015 04:15:46 EST ID:CcWaSxtu No.383208 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>get thinner glasses and dye your hair a darker color. Dark brown will work well with your fair skin.

Im nearly giving into dying in but in reality the lighter, bleached, whiter colour suits me much more. I know people arent 'clocking' me because of my hair, my face is an absolute doghouse of male features. The blonde/whiteness makes me seem more unassuming and goes with my personality at this stage of my life anyway.
I have been brunette before, and black, and red and auburn etc etc and this suits me and feels right...
though it needs a fucking cut!
glasses are nicest, coolest, cheapest kind i could get and i get compliments on them all the time but i do love the ones you are wearing in that photo.

If thats you in the photo i would say 9/10 because broad shoulers and thin waist also hands but in this photo at least thats all i can see!

you are okay for having only just woken up also you look familiar, do you play in a band???
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Jenny Shittinggold - Sun, 01 Feb 2015 07:32:37 EST ID:TkJc0R3r No.383218 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Post a proper photo. Doesn't look like you pass from that one, though.
Sidney Drocklekud - Sun, 01 Feb 2015 08:43:56 EST ID:vTQTKtNS No.383220 Ignore Report Quick Reply
i want to hug you through the internet
Cornelius Dreddletock - Sun, 01 Feb 2015 09:51:26 EST ID:CcWaSxtu No.383221 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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ive posted plenty in this thread? and this is me outside with clothes/sunglasses on?
its true though i really dont though. my nose is just gigantic and my jawline is too big and round. and in this photo i looked terrible until i made it black and white -_-
i dunno i guess i just own it and people seem to look past it allot and end up enjoying my personality or something. probably just pity the fuck out of me because im seriously that fucking hideous. I have one of those long Australian British faces which resembles Riff-Raff from rocky horror than any cute girly stereotype.
My body would make up for it but its not that great.
im just kind of screwed until i end up finding enough money for surgery on my face and voice as theyre the only thing holding me back. I'll always be clocked due to my height and etc but heck at least i wont look like an actual man in a dress... Its fucking hell...
in my daily life and the way people treat me and see me... and then i feel so amazing and awesome and then i see what i look like? im so embarassed half the time i dont know how or why i manage to keep putting myself out into the public space. Like my profile is actually so bad i dont know anyone else with a worse looking face from the side and i'd prove it except you'd all agree with me and i'd probably fucking die or stop...

Help by Jenny Chummlenudge - Sun, 01 Feb 2015 05:10:21 EST ID:L45TPgop No.383209 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I don't know what to do. I don't want to be a bummer, but I'm so miserable, I'm drunk and have nowhere else to turn. My mind is rejecting my body's masculinity and I need somewhere to turn or somewhere out. I don't want to sound like a nutjob, but I don't care anymore. I need something before I break.I don't know what to do. I don't want to be a bummer, but I'm so miserable, I'm drunk and have nowhere else to turn. My mind is rejecting my body's masculinity and I need somewhere to turn or somewhere out. I don't want to sound like a nutjob, but I don't care anymore. I need something before I break.
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Henry Blondlehodging - Sun, 01 Feb 2015 06:04:18 EST ID:eRTUb+Kg No.383212 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Would you like living as a girl?
Jenny Chummlenudge - Sun, 01 Feb 2015 06:09:42 EST ID:L45TPgop No.383213 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Resounding approval is definitely not what I want, and I appreciate the honest response. If I had a way to handle this in a dignified manner, I most certainly would have. I realize this is one of the harder topics to get serious feedback on. I will try to seek professional help, but I am not afraid to admit that I am too dumb to know what professionals to trust this issue with. I wish I could stay drunk to make this easier on me, but here we are.
Jenny Chummlenudge - Sun, 01 Feb 2015 06:12:37 EST ID:L45TPgop No.383214 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I think so, but I admit I have no grounded basis for this train of thought. Even though I've clung to it. For the last twenty years. Which is why I am in need of help.
Jenny Chummlenudge - Sun, 01 Feb 2015 06:28:26 EST ID:L45TPgop No.383216 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Also, this board came up with the worst name for me.
Henry Blondlehodging - Sun, 01 Feb 2015 07:36:12 EST ID:eRTUb+Kg No.383219 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Basically you have to decide for yourself. Try to analyze the reasons for feeling as you do, and then try to imagine if transitioning will help.

Where to go? by Albert Gonningnetch - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 12:23:32 EST ID:Rs9dg/OA No.383185 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I don't know if theres an answer to this but I feel inclined to ask. Is there anywhere specific to meet trans people? I'm not trans myself but i'm honestly attracted to mtf individuals(for relationships not just meaningless sex), and the struggle is real. It makes sense they don't want to outright say they're trans, but that makes it impossible to find/meet them. I'm feelin kind of hopeless at this point.

>tfw no qt trans girl to love and play vidya with
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Edwin Sicklecocke - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 15:11:42 EST ID:h0273NrE No.383196 Ignore Report Quick Reply

lol I don't think trannys at these things would react very positively to a guy trying to pick them up. And to people saying transition I don't want to be a girl. Yes I want to suck a trans girls dick and squeeze her tits while I'm doing it, yes I want her to fuck me in the ass while she jerks me off, yes I want her to ride me and watch her soft dick bounce and slap on my stomach while I feel her tight ass ride up and down my dick. And I want to do all this as a man. Like OP, I also dream of having a passable tranny girlfriend. How/where do we find/date them?
Esther Firrypat - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 16:57:48 EST ID:Jky7XUwv No.383197 Ignore Report Quick Reply
type trans into OKcupid
go to thailand / philippines / peru / brazil / argentina / italy / spain

go to some club night where transgirls hang out
make a club night for transgirls to hang out
William Brappermeck - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 17:27:38 EST ID:nDtpqLIL No.383198 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Homeless shelters
Graham Worthingcocke - Sun, 01 Feb 2015 06:18:40 EST ID:PdME9RrD No.383215 Ignore Report Quick Reply

lol, just transition, once you're a transgirl yourself other transgirls will just want to know you.
Caroline Chunderchat - Sun, 01 Feb 2015 07:03:27 EST ID:GFA6j7k8 No.383217 Ignore Report Quick Reply
They would react more positively to you picking them up at a support group than you wanting them to fuck you in the asss.

TO ALL YOU BEAUTIFUL SPIRITS by Basil Turveyforth - Tue, 06 Jan 2015 22:05:50 EST ID:g663ZUSp No.382377 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Emma Godgeson - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 10:16:22 EST ID:O1THT2dJ No.383179 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>And people call them tolerant
yes because its not mandatory
Phoebe Dorrysteck - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 10:26:52 EST ID:rxnTYCP0 No.383180 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OP I've tried, its a lost cause, most have a belief they've already invested too much.
Ernest Bebberhane - Sun, 01 Feb 2015 00:36:09 EST ID:dUSN23Mk No.383203 Ignore Report Quick Reply
no that being trans being caused during fetal development.

the only way i see us being fertile in the next decade or so is by cloning ourselves, using hormones to make the fetus develop female and harvesting vaginal and gonad cells as foundations for the stem cells. none of which seems near legal in the US.
Cedric Pallyteck - Sun, 01 Feb 2015 01:16:59 EST ID:A/lpQXM1 No.383206 Ignore Report Quick Reply
again... just google it. There are plenty of studies that conclude that the brain is more inline with females than males due to issues in the womb. Since you so god damn lazy heres a link to get you started https://scholar.google.com/scholar?q=causes+of+transsexualism+AR+gene&hl=en&as_sdt=0&as_vis=1&oi=scholart&sa=X&ei=3cHNVNPMBYHaoASohYLQAQ&ved=0CBsQgQMwAA
Cedric Pallyteck - Sun, 01 Feb 2015 01:25:03 EST ID:A/lpQXM1 No.383207 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Also I know it's saddening to not be able to have biological kids but for me I can live with it cause I have a large family spreading our gene pool anyways. I would be totally happy with adoption or having a baby with my bfs sperm and a donor egg since my bf is an only sibling I'd say it's more important for him to have bio kids than it is me.

SRS by James Brallyserk - Wed, 28 Jan 2015 00:03:03 EST ID:xLrjuslx No.383056 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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the future didn't want it
I was hoping to make a thread about SRS for people thinking of getting it or for people who have already had it to tell their experiences.

The thread could be about other surgeries, like FFS or metoidplasty too...

Posting SRS results:
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Oliver Brookdale - Thu, 29 Jan 2015 00:48:11 EST ID:A/lpQXM1 No.383120 Ignore Report Quick Reply
how is it pseudoscience? It's pretty much proven that circumsized males have decreased sensitivity because the sensitive penis head is exposed to everything as it grows up. If you arnt circumcised then you have to slowly pull buck the foreskin for a few weeks after your penis is fully grown because it is extremely sensitive when the head is exposed.
Angus Wenkinman - Thu, 29 Jan 2015 13:07:01 EST ID:avtrxB/F No.383134 Ignore Report Quick Reply

BJU Int. 2007 Apr;99(4):864-9.

Fine-touch pressure thresholds in the adult penis.
Sorrells ML1, Snyder JL, Reiss MD, Eden C, Milos MF, Wilcox N, Van Howe RS.



To map the fine-touch pressure thresholds of the adult penis in circumcised and uncircumcised men, and to compare the two populations.

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George Tootstock - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 14:20:12 EST ID:xLrjuslx No.383192 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Barnaby Smallstone - Sun, 01 Feb 2015 00:39:03 EST ID:s5AV9Dcp No.383204 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Has anyone been to Marci Bowers? What is the general consensus on her? Her technique seems like |the best| but I can't recall having heard much from anyone who's actually had her as a surgeon.
It looks like she might start taking insurance soon, so thats promising for someone like me.

how the fuck is this bitch devoid of any scarring?
>2 months
Cedric Pallyteck - Sun, 01 Feb 2015 01:11:19 EST ID:A/lpQXM1 No.383205 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Some people are really good at healing. I'm surprised more about the fact that she has no swelling after 2 months. Dr Suporn and Chetts are roughly the same technique and Suporn told me swelling goes down at the 6th month mark. Some people just have miraculous healing powers. Also there probably is scarring but its such a low res image you cant see it. Even if you could non penile technique doesnt have much scarring compared to penile.

The scarring shows as a line going down on the very edges of the labia majora and around the clitoral hood. So yeah there is scarring but most of it is hiding.

Slut thread by Whitey Gosslestock - Sun, 25 Jan 2015 08:01:45 EST ID:m+kHZnY0 No.382959 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Share your tails of skankery
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Frederick Greendock - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 11:02:41 EST ID:e7s5kx4a No.383182 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Cause were not whores. You whore.
Albert Fengerdock - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 14:46:05 EST ID:8CGpnfVR No.383194 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I fucked a 60yr old last night. Wasn't as bad as I imagined, still felt really dirty afterwards though, and even a little violated.
Sophie Hittingmick - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 15:05:13 EST ID:VYhe6/Oc No.383195 Ignore Report Quick Reply

try fucking a guy your own age. no guilt.

seriously this older guy thing is weird as fuck and i'd wager most of us did it, but it sucks. *some* older guys look great. most look like shit. especially the ones that resort (yes'm, I said that) to fucking desperate teen trannies.
Graham Bligglespear - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 19:38:11 EST ID:8CGpnfVR No.383199 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I have and will fuck guys my own age. Even though most guys are deteriorated by the time they are 40, there's still something about it, it's almost forbidden and the taboo nature of it makes it hot. And the fact they lust so bad after you since you are young and they probably can't find a comparable woman/piece of ass.
Graham Worthingcocke - Sun, 01 Feb 2015 06:03:36 EST ID:PdME9RrD No.383211 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Wow a 60 year old? how old are you? because 60 is fucking nuts.

Holy fuck I'm too tall by James Blollerlitch - Tue, 13 Jan 2015 23:43:33 EST ID:PZDp7qcd No.382593 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Question about height.

I'm around 6'1/1.84m-ish, is this too tall to transition? I've seen therapists about everything, I have the names for doctors who will give me hormones etc etc., but I really feel anxious about being misgendered based on my height. Foot and hand size don't help either. I know this really just comes down to a fear of passing but this worry is really holding up my transition and is making me reconsider everything and over-analyse things to the point of severe depression (no way out)

Any of you taller ladies have any suggestions, experiences, questions, concerns, something, anything?

pic only kind of related...maybe...not really..
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Edward Druffinghure - Thu, 22 Jan 2015 12:16:06 EST ID:aSx8U4bg No.382856 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I'm 6'4". Strangers on the bus just say "Wow, you're a tall woman." I've discovered a lot of people actually find it attractive. I'm still uncomfortable being this tall though.
Archie Sunderchit - Thu, 22 Jan 2015 12:59:01 EST ID:aZxcJm2r No.382858 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Wow, she's really cool. What an inspiration to any tall woman. I feel like I have so much in common with her.
Caroline Crammernut - Fri, 23 Jan 2015 09:07:58 EST ID:O/z2+39R No.382880 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>passes pretty well
idk before i googled the pics i was sure she's a tranny, mostly because of her jaw
i wonder how her voice sounds like
Nicholas Nonkinbut - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 14:23:46 EST ID:TGmpSOP/ No.383193 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Barnaby Smallstone - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 23:02:52 EST ID:s5AV9Dcp No.383201 Ignore Report Quick Reply
goddamnit laverne
that gay voice
that foundation notably lighter than the rest of her
i cant with her

Questions about "gender" by Frederick Grandson - Fri, 23 Jan 2015 22:24:46 EST ID:ocxgRQwE No.382886 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hey people,

I was hoping you could help me with something I've been thinking about for a while now. First I'll have to tell you I'm not that familiar with trans* things, but I've been reading about various issues, regarding what people call "gender". Please don't get mad at me, I'm actually curious and maybe misguided... Oh, and I'm a "cis" white heterosexual male, for all it entails.

Why bother with gender at all? I have a penis, thus I am a male. I sometimes wonder if i'd prefer changing sex, i.e. having a vagina instead, but I think I'd prefer having a penis. However, I don't consider myself a "man", the thought of what "gender" should I identify as never bugged me really. I was raised with two sisters, and played barbie and lego while young, I like things that some would consider frankly "girly", and some other stuff than could be considered "manly". But should this matter? Why would I have to identify as a particular gender? Can't I(we) be just human(s)?

I don't see the need for genders at all, and even if I recognize they are somehow important in our society, I think we just ought to get rid of those societal constructs. They're unneeded. People are either male or female, and this is only a difference in their genital areas. Shouldn't be anything else. You shouldn't consider yourself a "woman" if you like to wear dresses. Do you get my point?
I think the need to identify ourselves as a gender is actually holding us back, and enforcing those old standards of "a male should act manly and a woman should be feminine". I know a lot of you are fighting for destroying those old standards (and I'm on your side!), but I think gender is an outdated concept.

Hope I was clear enough, looking forward to answers that can enlighten me.
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Thomas Dommlemere - Thu, 29 Jan 2015 14:38:20 EST ID:GqWjTrKE No.383135 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You people have weird ideas, the concept of inborn identities makes no sense.
Alice Droffingbanks - Thu, 29 Jan 2015 16:14:23 EST ID:pwd2Onfb No.383136 Ignore Report Quick Reply
it's not so much an in born identity as it is sexual instinct

animals out in the wild don't have to be told how to have sex, it just happens and more animals come along. since we are animals it's not much of a jump to suggest that we probably have some sort of innate behaviors that are based on sex. humans took that and then created gender roles on top of it, which *are* just social constructs and not innate. but the underlying instincts are still there, and just how far they go is something we can't know unless we were to perform some very unethical experiments which would probably be disastrous. we are social creatures and the lack of human contact can literally kill you, so there's no way to play the "what if we removed social influence" game

there is one experiment that was done which ended in the person killing themselves, where a boy was raised as a girl because of a botched circumcision. John Money is the man who suggested that his parents do this to him because he insisted that gender is something learned and not innate

Thomas Dommlemere - Thu, 29 Jan 2015 17:22:31 EST ID:GqWjTrKE No.383137 Ignore Report Quick Reply
That is what I was trying to say all along, what we call gender "dysphoria" would be more apltly named gender "instincts", dysphoria is the result of having instincts different from the expected from your body.
Charlotte Drushson - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 08:44:11 EST ID:m4iSKETp No.383170 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Reimer said that Dr. Money forced the twins to rehearse sexual acts involving "thrusting movements", with David playing the bottom role.[4] Reimer said that, as a child, he had to get "down on all fours" with his brother, Brian Reimer, "up behind his butt" with "his crotch against" his "buttocks".[4] Reimer said that Dr. Money forced David, in another sexual position, to have his "legs spread" with Brian on top.[4] Reimer said that Dr. Money also forced the children to take their "clothes off" and engage in "genital inspections".[4] On at "least one occasion", Reimer said that Dr. Money took a photograph of the two children doing these activities.[4] Dr. Money's rationale for these various treatments was his belief that "childhood 'sexual rehearsal play'" was important for a "healthy adult gender identity".[4]

Jenny Dengershaw - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 10:28:35 EST ID:pwd2Onfb No.383181 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Money is a quack

Eyebrows by Simon Dopperwater - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 08:34:13 EST ID:eRTUb+Kg No.383167 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I'm gradually trying to feminize my appearance so I don't not pass when I start living in girlmode. I've been on HRT (self med) for 2 months, and I'm doing various things in various aspects of my appearance. But one thing I'm wondering about is eyebrows. I looked up a few eyebrow guides and reduced the size of my eyebrows a bit. But does anybody know a really good resource about this? Also, critique my eyebrow and tell me what to do with it.
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Simon Dopperwater - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 08:50:09 EST ID:eRTUb+Kg No.383173 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Hmm, so I guess do you mean something like this?

Also I know it's not the best editing lol.
Sophie Hittingmick - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 08:53:14 EST ID:VYhe6/Oc No.383174 Ignore Report Quick Reply
show us your fucking face so we can tell it it looks okay or not.

Eyebrows and an eye are not good enough, its not enough to tell, darnit.
Simon Dopperwater - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 09:01:11 EST ID:eRTUb+Kg No.383175 Ignore Report Quick Reply

But I'm paranoid...

Also my other eyebrow was recently injured so it might look strange. And I don't pass right now and I slightly messed up my haircut today. I'll think about it. Might take a bit of willpower and thinking to gain the will to do so.
Simon Dopperwater - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 09:06:28 EST ID:eRTUb+Kg No.383176 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Well whatever who cares I guess. Here's one of me from yesterdayish before I cut my hair improperly. Note how my other eyebrow is messed up. It was split open so it's somewhat asymmetrical atm.
Simon Dopperwater - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 09:33:18 EST ID:eRTUb+Kg No.383178 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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The lighting is bad at this time of day, but here's one with both eyebrows visible, lol.

And yeah they're asymmetrical I know, but I'm sort of figuring out the right one before applying it to the left. Maybe I should just post these in the passing thread next time. nb

Gender clinic - UK by George Shittingbury - Wed, 28 Jan 2015 18:27:20 EST ID:gfQOF7xw No.383102 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I had a disappointing gender clinic appointment the other day, they failed to mention in all my other appointments that I needed 6 months to a year's worth of references from jobs or voluntary work before they will consider giving me the go ahead for the operation. The waiting list for the operation is also about 18 months.

Fuck this sucks so much shit, I've been transitioning since I was 19, I'm 23 now, became full time in June 2013, changed my name in September and started legit hormones in November of the same year. Finding a job is hard as fuck, I don't have much confidence in my ability to pass, i feel like i look OK-ish but i lack much confidence in my voice. I make do with it at the few interviews I've managed to get and everything else I have to do, so far nobodies been judgmental or abusive, but i get called "Mr" and "Sir" most of the time especially when i open my mouth. People I know have said that I pass both in how I look and my voice, apparently I sound fine when I talk with confidence, but I don't have much of that.

>TLDR: Can I maybe get some advice on how to boost my confidence?

What did you guys have to put up with before you gained the confidence you have now.
Nigel Pocklebury - Fri, 30 Jan 2015 02:28:21 EST ID:5ubnymEf No.383143 Ignore Report Quick Reply
ill admit i ignored this thread the first time round because of th title.

how to boost your confidence.

i went through a phase where i didnt give a fuck if people knew, i mean i didnt go up to people and talk in my deepest voice ever its just that if they found out i just didnt care if they knew.

So when no one called me out on being trans, it made me realise how well i did pass.
Walter Horringstock - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 08:04:50 EST ID:QY2Mo5NN No.383166 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Ah yeah, I was originally going to just bitch about the gender clinic, i forgot to change the title afterwards.

I suppose my lack of confidence comes from pre-transition back in school, I used to think about what people thought about me a lot and still do. I had tonnes of acne that people liked to point out often and I was bullied quite a lot. No matter what i did i couldn't get rid of the acne, it wasn't until i started hormones at 20 that it started to go away, these days its not much of a problem.

Stop it by Martha Tootstock - Fri, 30 Jan 2015 15:08:46 EST ID:ESdi93lX No.383152 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Please, I'm new here and this board is making me confused about my own sexuality.

I love you all trans out there.
Albert Fengerdock - Fri, 30 Jan 2015 19:53:03 EST ID:8CGpnfVR No.383160 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Post your dick first, then we can assess your problem.
Polly Sibblewill - Sat, 31 Jan 2015 07:44:00 EST ID:rUI8XJ5W No.383165 Ignore Report Quick Reply
aw, i remember when i was new here and felt like that.
18 months of diy hrt later jk but you might be a bifag lol

I have a unique vagina dilemma by Angus Greenridge - Sun, 25 Jan 2015 20:53:12 EST ID:UUHk8ZqQ No.382979 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hello everyone,

I don't often grace these pages very much anymore but i spent a lot of time in the trans thread figuring my life out. now I'm 3 years post-operative and i now have a lot of issues regarding my sexuality.

I have a wonderful partner that identifies as asexual (can only pleasure herself when she's on her own and feels wildly uncomfortable around others) and it turns out i am exactly the opposite.

I CAN'T masturbate.

I love my new plumbing so to speak and when she does take the time to do things with me I can go for ever. But i can't even make it 5 minutes without being bored disinterested and unhappy when i try to masturbate. what's worse is it makes me feel even hornier and i need to be with someone to feel even remotely satisfied.

I've tried the romantic bathing sessions, the wine and relaxing, but i seriously just can't do it. that usually ends up with me going to sleep. i've looked at porn (i've never seen it until like 3 months ago when i resorted to it) and it just doesn't work. It's super boring and i feel guilty.

My sexuality as i identify in areas outside of sex is Sapio-pansexual because i can be attracted to anyone, based off of their intelligence but the flip side to this is i'm not attracted to people for months so having a one night stand (she okayed me being with guys) is kind of out of my range of comfort.
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William Clannerbanks - Tue, 27 Jan 2015 01:51:05 EST ID:UUHk8ZqQ No.383014 Ignore Report Quick Reply

yeah i was afriad you'd mention something along the lines of leaving my partner. i lover her very much though. I've asked her to see a therapist regarding her sexuality issues whil i am already seeing one for it.

That said i haven't tired a trashy novel at all but i tried lesbian movies that don't focus on sex which kind of got me in the mood but didn't go very far at all and i just ended in the same situation :l i'm planning to try it though and see if it works.

I would really appreciate more advice though regarding this if anyone has it
Beatrice Gollerwell - Tue, 27 Jan 2015 02:52:32 EST ID:VXgbdO2T No.383016 Ignore Report Quick Reply

well its not really a problem, i mean its a problem for your relationship, but asexuality is a pretty normal thing.
if shes just not into sex, shes just not into it, asking her to go to a therapist to change who she is (in my opinion) a pretty bitchy thing to do.

love her for who she is, or leave her.
Samuel Clomblewater - Tue, 27 Jan 2015 15:12:53 EST ID:TkJc0R3r No.383031 Ignore Report Quick Reply
love her for who she is, or leave her.
Ian Pittshit - Wed, 28 Jan 2015 13:55:56 EST ID:qGIJQMNK No.383096 Ignore Report Quick Reply

OP our situations are very similar and infact we a runing parallel versions.

My wife is asexual and while i find it difficult to masturbate. Plus we haven't tried my new system.

  1. Have you tried mutual masturbation ?

2. Try the local polyamory support group and explain that you are looking your situation, and try to find a secondary partner only for sexual needs. (obviously your partner needs to be on boat for this one) , I would sniff around in fetlife first.

3. Try going to a kink club or swingers and masturbate there? Atmosphere's different so it might work.

4. Try litererotica and see if there is any that would get you into mood , there is also slashfiction . or you can try the dinosaur porn, yep it's a thing and apparently there is a market for it.
Hedda Crollerdad - Fri, 30 Jan 2015 18:56:46 EST ID:HSoyXLvI No.383157 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Open relationship.

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