/cd/ Transgender Discussion
I'm being gatekept (gateblocked? tranblocked?) and a psychiatrist I just recently spoke to compared going through the entire drawn out process is akin to having to lose weight for surgery, further citing that weight loss isn't absolutely necessary for surgery but is wanted for reduced risks. I was curious what your thoughts were on this.
>>381037what a faggot. tell them to fuck off and then self med.
>>381037What reason or reason's are you being "gateblocked" for?
The psychiatrist isn't wrong in saying that. Weight loss can reduce risks in surgery if you are overweight. Why are you butthurt over this?
Another passing thread, what am I at now?
>>381081I forgot.. obviously I'm wearing a wig.
>>381078What >>381080 said. Holy shit, you're 28? You really look great
>tfw you'll never find a cute, passable trans women to hold hands with and take on nice dates and make out with irl
>tfw you'll never find a cute, passable trans women to hold hands with and take on nice dates and make out with irl
>>381067You're cute. You're also an idiot. Get back on hormones. Laser + electrolysis + time (time is always underestimated, but it makes a big difference) will take care of body hair. Self-med until you can find an informed consent clinic/doctor to work with.
Yeah. . In guy mode I still get carded. . Not as bad as my buddy. . He's 35 and looks 15.>>381087I think i can take being a cute idiot.
So I'm basically almost reaching the point where I am stealth (legal wise and looks wise) And when I move I'll need a new doctor to be on mones. I have gotten bottom surgery so basically I am entirely dependent health wise to stay on E. How to I get a doctor to prescribe me E without them knowing I am trans. I don't feel comfortable at all with anyone not close to me knowing I am trans. Like I don't want to call a medical place and talk to a stupid clerk about why I need to see a doctor so what do I say?I was thinking something like "I just need to see a general practitioner to help maintain and monitor my health." and then when I see the actual doctor I was thinking of telling him that I was not born with ovaries so I need to take HRT in order to stay healthy. what do you think CD. any advise?
>>381032Your doctor is the first guy you'd ask to look up your butt if there was a problem. You sound pretty close by default to me.
how has no one mentioned to say that you are CAIS and had a gonadectomy
>>381058because lying to your doctor about this is just about the dumbest thing you can fucking do
>>381032OP you can always say you had hysterectomy done and try getting hrt, depending on the Doc it may or maynot work. Also if you are too young, he might digg the hysterectomy part. - worked in japan , korea and austria but failed in switzerland. All things said, i would still not opt to lie to my primary care physician. Also i didn't do the above thing, someone i know did it. - so second hand info
i posted on /lgbt/ but they're a bunch of faggotsdo I pass? aperture science representin'also general passing thread
>>378355your mustache shadow definately masculinizes your face, and i recently trying waxing my mustache, it was painful, but it got rid of shadow, maybe you could try it?
>>381002Bad idea if you're going to do permanent hair removal. Ripping out the hairs makes both laser and electrolysis more difficult to do later.
Could you give me some advice please? This is me with foundation and concealer.Btw, I already know i need to do my eyebrows and take better care of my hair.
>>381060lookin gud hon
>>381091D-don't be like that, It's not like I don't know I look awful already.
im a thinsgender
im a transchin
do I pass
Firstly, please don't take the title offensively. I think innately all of us (MtF's) are women and it's not really 'trying' to be one but I was thinking the other night so bare with me here: If we had been born the correct gender, then we would've learned A LOT just by growing up that I think cis-gendered girls just take for granted. It's REALLY hard to ask questions and learn stuff when ... you don't even know what to ask. It's a little easier for those of us with friends who are girls or those of us with sisters who accept us and attempt to help, although I am in neither category. (I blame moving far too much and never developing the ability to make friends nor the courage to approach people.)So, I figured that a really fantastic idea for a thread would be a thread where we could all collect and explain those little quirks, tips, tricks, and learned behaviors and such that really 'finish' being able to come off as female to society. As we all know, being perceived as female is a series of behaviors, small social quirks and cues, looks, touchups, the way you walk, talk, react. Everything! It gets frustrating sometimes because it's juggling so much simply because a lot of us are overcoming learned behaviors for ten or twenty (or in the case of others, even more!) years of learned behaviors as a gender we were ... not.How about we all chip in and let everyone know those odd things you learned in your transition that YOU didn't even know to ask but found out by sheer luck and you'd think would be somewhat difficult to find so that we can all share the wisdom.Basically, I just want a potluck of experience and learning to be placed here. I, for one, am horrible to make this as I am still just starting out and it spooks me but I've already learned a few things here and there (such as coloring your hair or lightening it and trimming/shaping your eyebrows make a bigger difference than you'd think!) which of course I'll share but I definitely think this would benefit us all.
>>380885Yes cuz true trans don't realize something is wrong until puberty or after puberty.
>>380741On the radio today I heard a woman from a polling company being interviewed about how political parties can appeal to female voters more. The interviewer asks "is it even meaningful to talk about 'the female vote'?"She goes "I don't think it is, no. I mean, we don't talk about 'the male vote'. Women care about the issues just like men, and there's lots of different female demographics."Ten second later, she's saying "Women tend to care more about healthcare and less about foreign policy."Make up your mind, woman!
>>381072...Make up her mind? What's the conflict here? There is none.
>>381073You can't say it's useless to talk about women as a block and then talk about them as a block.
So /cd/, how many pills do you take a day?me:2 x Spiro 100mg2 x Estrofem 2mg1 x Fincar 5mg2 x Dextroamphetamine 20mg6 x Collagen sup 1000mg2-6 x Ibuprofen 200mg~17 total
>>380988>>380999>>381018If each dose is only half power, wouldn't that make it less effective than if you took it all at once since none of the doses can knock the T down far enough each time?
>>381021No, a correct spiro dosage should block enough T. You'd be taking too much half of the time and not blocking the T the other half of the time.
>>381021I don't think that's how it works, anon. Plus it's not even about "knocking down the T". You still have all of the testosterone, it's just the receptors that respond to T are effectively blocked
>>381023Well then "taking up enough receptors"How does it work then?>>381022So if I've noticed some changes but nothing major after 6 months, should I stay at the same dose and just split it up, or double the dose?
>>381088What I mean is I'm not on estrogen yet. My goal right now is to stop masculinization, specifically new body hair coming in. If I was/am taking enough spiro to get tingly sensitive nipples, does that mean I'm safe or does it vary depending on the person?
I'm 9 months on hrt, and I have absolutely no waist whatsoever.I want create one via usage of a corset.what do I need to know, what should I be looking for, how much am I going to need to spend, is there anything anyone else recommends, etc etca noteworthy waist will make up for my lack of hips and breast
>>381007>You'd have to wear a corset every single day for about 8-10 hoursIn my research, most people suggest 23 hours a day, meaning you only take it off to shower
>You'd have to wear a corset every single day for about 8-10 hours
>>381054I heard the same, it's usually 20+ hours.
>>381054Longer is better, and to be honest it's been a while since I've looked into waist training (like nearly 3 years) so some things I said could be wrong, but I'm pretty sure you can do it without having to wear one constantly, as you'd take it off when sleeping. I wouldn't suggest sleeping in a corset because sometimes it can lead to broken ribs. Also you'd never have a good nights sleep
>>381069That's the price you pay.
>>381054>>381055Well tbh id doesn't matter how many hours you wear it, it's just wearing it longer 20+ hours a day will give you quicker perm results. I think 8-10 hours is more doable though for most people.
I can't wait any longer to start taking hormones. I need to start this process asap or find a surefire way to kill myself. Where do I start though? An AA and estro?
>>380475You do know that "circlejerk" is what circlejerk filters to, right?
>>380494Oops, i didn't have numlock on. Meant to say circlejerk.
>>380496Goddamn word filters. r3dd1t then
>>380476No point in splitting up your doses of spiro. It has such a high half-life that it won't make a difference.
>>381071Bullshit. It's 13 hours at most. Certainly worth taking a dose in the morning and before bed.
I'm fucking pissed at all of you, not personally, just because you're doing what I just can't do. I'm talking specifically about MtF transitioning (okay, not ALL of you I guess). I try so hard to be like this is fine, I don't want to be a chick. I have to just push those feeling away into this little hole.Why I'm not transitioning?Society HATES MtFs, if you don't pass you will become this paraiah, getting dirty looks and uncomfortable stares anytime you're in public. My friends wouldn't support me, some might say they do but I can tell they really don't and are just trying to be polite. When I was girlmode in hollywood, I ran into an old friend, and I got that fake ass politely agreeing bullshit.2. I'm 20, I don't know if it's too late.3. What if I change my mind again like I did in the past and am left with breasts while trying to live as a male. I already have b cups from being on this one med a while ago, but yeah, if I did hormones, there would be no going back, boobs forever. That doesn't sound that bad, but it wouldn't help picking up chick to be a guy with b cups for no reason.3. I like girls, lesbians don't think I'm pretty enough, straight girls treat me politely and seem to really not want me in their pants.4. Life is already difficult.I wish I could do it, okay, help? Maybe?
>>380974That's the exact same reason as the post you quoted?>>380973Rude as fuck. GTFO.
>>381011Yeah, and you're a fucking asshole.
>>380956>Does not have bad gender dysphoria>Does not have bad body dysphoria
>Does not have bad gender dysphoria>Does not have bad body dysphoria
>>37904420 isn't too late at all.You should realize that there are really only 2 likely outcomes:you kill yourselfor you transitionHow does that old saying go? Better to have transitioned and failed than to have never transitioned at all?
You think we will see he complete normalization and integration in our lifetime(By the next 50 years)
>>380926Is that supposed to be a question?
I don't think it'll ever happen. =(
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