/ga/ Adult (Gay)
So me and my wife are no strangers to bisexual threesomes, but I've only ever bottomed and have never topped anyone but her. We went on Grindr, found a transgirl that showed interest, and invited her over. It was fun... up until it came time for me to top. I couldn't maintain, and eventually couldn't achieve an erection. The transgirl was not happy about it, to put it lightly.<br>This really discouraged me. My wife says I should try it again with other people. Her logic is that, if I put myself out in that situation more, I should become more accustomed to it and less nervous or what have you, and I'll eventually be able to perform, but I'm not sure.Any bottoms here ever have the same issue, or any versatile guys willing to give some pointers? I'd love to try it, but I'm not sure if it's a mental thing, or if my penis just doesn't care for man/trans butt (despite my porn collection being mostly gay/trans), or if it's something else entirely. I could use another perspective or some advice. In return, here's my butt.
Like, you're in this headspace of getting with dudes to get fucked in the ass. You've always and frequently shacked up with men and dickgirls to get fucked in the ass.So you're getting with dudes subconsciously expecting to get fucked in the ass, as that is what has been conditioned in you through experience, and now you're trying to do the opposite and be the man ass fucker. You're going to fuck up a couple more times before you can get in the groove of it. Maybe get a fuckbuddy to experiment with, someone who's down to bottom but you can have fun with in other ways if it doesn't work out. Obviously they need to have a really cute ass and balls. I wouldn't give up on the idea unless you've struck out a couple more times as you've got a lot of conditioning to unlearn.
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