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No Sexual Pleasure - WHY? by Shitting Pucklefatch - Mon, 20 Mar 2017 22:02:57 EST ID:aSgE96/a No.54866 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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I'm a sexually confused, mid-20's male. I don't know what's wrong with me on this one.

I can't seem to enjoy any form of sex - even if I'm with a girl whom I like, who makes me comfortable, is patient and isn't judgmental in the slightest.

E.G. In the case of receiving oral sex, all it will do is tickle me. Great. I could never cum from that, even after hours. Seriously. That's an impossibility.

Self-masturbation doesn't bring me much pleasure either (even as a virgin I already thought it was overrated). I mostly do it to de-stress before bed since I have insomnia, really. I do get a rush of adrenaline towards the end, sometimes, but it's rare. Still, it's still extremely boring towards the whole process leading up to that and not worth the effort (unless it helps put me to me sleep).

What is wrong with me? I feel like turning asexual would be easier at this point. My penis feels pretty much numb whatever the 'activity' is. There's a complete lack of sensation, could it be my actual nerves?

It might have something to do with a diagnosed severe depression I have, although I don't take meds known to cause such issues. Plus, as a teen I didn't have meds either yet already still didn't get what my classmates were on about and didn't enjoy it as much as they did. Again, to me it was 'meh'.

The worst thing is, I do get aroused at first and want to share something with my girl. Yet when it comes down to it my penis goes flaccid inside her vagina, what the heck. I blame it on the condoms making me go soft (for now) but I know that even if it does contribute it can't be just that. My penis is already numb so of course a condom isn't going to help.

Sorry for talking so long about my old chap - as some refer to it. It's been months I thought about posting this, seriously. Some genuine insights could really help me here. I will never be satisfied in my sex life this way, that's for sure. I have to find a solution and if none exists, well... I'll just erase sex from my life.

Oh and I went to a GP... Only she was a young stunning brunette (didn't know at first) and like a coward I couldn't bring myself to pull my pants down and expose it. Yay for irrational anxiety when working with professional doctors.

Thanks for listening if you made it this far, guys. If you have any idea what could cause this, that would be greatly appreciated.
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Cyril Wosslewell - Tue, 21 Mar 2017 11:47:28 EST ID:PIrNNKId No.54867 Ignore Report Quick Reply
If you find the answer let me know. In the same boat.
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James Crimbleshit - Thu, 23 Mar 2017 01:53:27 EST ID:++eQo+Pn No.54872 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>54866
Try nofap, when I jerked off daily my dick wasn't very sensitive and I often had difficulty reaching orgasm during sex, once I completely stopped masturbating and watching pornography my dick became far more sensitive within less than a month


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