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i also have my own view on the matter, i prefer friendships to direct sex, and I believe I experience intimacy in other ways, for example, a common pattern is that people are only nice to a potential sexual partner so they can recieve sex from them, after sex is recieved, the desire vanishes, intimacy is experienced in many different ways, I feel as if the realization of simply existing with other human beings, is intimate in and of itself, similarly, i also believe staring into someones eyes is more intimate than sexual contact (these are my personal feelings), honestly people can do what they want, I think its important people just remain self-aware, I think people should be able to do what they want as long as it makes them happy.
Otherwise, sexuality can lead to some negative issues, also, all things have positive and negative influences, and are inseperable from eachother while sexuality can be beneficial it can also have negative concequences (not just STDs, pregnancy etc) as breakups are quite traumatic to humans, studies show heart break literally harms heart health, and forms neurological trauma, in the case as i mentioned earlier, hyper-sexuality can be bad because addiction in many forms has negative side effects (though im not canning it entirely), not to mention the whole range of other emotions that come with casual sex, I honestly dont believe its worth it for myself, I'd rather focus on what I enjoy, music, philosophy, and science etc, I love learning, and honestly, ever since I decided to be abstinent from sex and sexuality, my head has been much clearer, as I can now focus directly on what I choose to, instead of always feeling like i 'need something' which I found was mostly an illusion projected by my own mind. However, I do like experiencing love, and I want to love all people. Just not in the way most people express it with eachother.
I think because I dedicated my entire life to mind expansion and meditation, sexuality is no longer compatible with my model of consciousness, but i'm definitely an odd case, and I tooootally understand why everyone around me wants to 'make love', im just different
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