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wake up in the morning and I ask myself is life worth living should I blast myself? by Basil Collylock - Tue, 20 Feb 2018 22:32:28 EST ID:qQGp8jFk No.522442 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I've had a weird year.

12 months ago I was a compsci student on track to have a bright future. I had my own apartment, I was eatin good, I played vidya with my friends. But I was sad cause #NoGF, so I went to a rave. I found an oz of coke on the floor and took the party back home. I went on to steal my homie's girl, drop out of school, and start a big ole farm up in the hills. This chick was a model, straight up, the way she sucked my dick was like a legend.

After one too many days where I'd leave to go do business deals with my homies, the lady left me for some random meth dealer who DJ'd bar shows. Distraught with grief, I crashed my car. Then, I brought a new chick in to help around the farm... my old acid dealer, real nice girl. Except then, her boyfriend showed up and stole thousands of dollars from out my house.

So I left to a rainbow gathering and had my other friend go water the crops. When I came back, there was a bunch of police and all my clothes and TVs and computers and everything had been taken. I guess my waterer blasted the gangsta rap too loud.

Having voided my lease for that spot, I went and camped out on the lake, and made some extracts. That was fun until my best friend brought out a custie had robbed my hobo camp.

I got adopted into a trap house with some 8 foot tall ganja plants. Shit was El Dorado. Except then, both me and the farmer got busted on various driving missions. He got charged with DUI and no license with a hit and run. I got charged with possession - intent to distribute MDMA + magic mushrooms + hash.

To try and distract myself from the fear of impending prison, I hit up a cute girl I used to know in my hometown. Turns out she smoke meth every day now and basically just turned me into a pimp sort of fellow, driving her around to various dudes houses where they pay me for being the transporter.

Now I've been basically sober except for doing lines and occassionaly DMT, which I reckon doesn't really count. I need to make some new friends or find a new girl or something, but I've been having a hell of a time meeting new people, because I got all this past bullshit on my mind. Hence, why I chose to vent here.
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Fuck Hevinghodge - Tue, 20 Feb 2018 23:46:01 EST ID:wJavO91C No.522444 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I figured out your problem: you've made some pretty stupid decisions.

Get your life back on track instead of killing yourself.

Awe !!vVWR8L52 - Wed, 21 Feb 2018 09:09:30 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522456 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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figure out what you wan to do and deduce where there might be people like-minded. You have good attitude OP, your a winner already if you keep it up, just stick to dmt and acid. Bro love here.

Overcoming a stealth addiction by Fuck Cuvinggold - Tue, 13 Feb 2018 13:40:47 EST ID:Mg6DKMIm No.522188 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I sneak every chance I get. Sneak into social gatherings, sneak out again, last week I tried to get into the office through an air duct, and had to crawl back out again when I couldn't get out of the vent into the supply closet. Even when there's no reason to sneak I step quietly to try attract as little attention as possible. I've even gone as far as leaving items around to draw someone's attention away. A couple of months ago I was even questioned by police for behaving in a suspicious manner. I think this may stem from my love of MGS and other stealth games. It's just more fun to sneak in than to just walk in the door, in ever scenario.
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Nicholas Sundleladge - Mon, 19 Feb 2018 04:31:28 EST ID:USUZpST+ No.522379 Ignore Report Quick Reply
How about this; Samuel has sneak privilege but social the opposite of privilege and OP has social privilege but sneak the opposite of that? That way they can both be victims.
Ebenezer Brookcocke - Mon, 19 Feb 2018 18:01:00 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.522402 Ignore Report Quick Reply
ITT: enabling future rapists because "hurr it funny joke boris"
Martin Serrywell - Wed, 21 Feb 2018 01:58:05 EST ID:80efJqSX No.522454 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I think being a rapist have more factors that simply being good at stealth. There are plenty of non-stealthy rapists.
George Gemmercocke - Thu, 22 Feb 2018 18:55:16 EST ID:m7uFHDSy No.522476 Ignore Report Quick Reply

the fuck you talking bout
Eugene Blackshaw - Fri, 23 Feb 2018 23:06:45 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.522492 Ignore Report Quick Reply
"I cover it up with MGS meme so it's not real"
"lool can you see my crippling mental issues through all this?"

The answer is yes. Seek help OP.

About to go live with 2 girls as flatmates by Edward Sellersig - Mon, 19 Feb 2018 17:07:17 EST ID:pvGvcjln No.522399 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I kinda suck with women. Should i try something with them or...

pic unrelated, just wanted the opportunity to say this is a shit show.
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Martin Serrywell - Tue, 20 Feb 2018 23:32:05 EST ID:80efJqSX No.522443 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I'm pretty sure people like you are the ones who produce bitter incels.

Being a good person who doesn't feel entitled to sex and has useful skills is pretty much the quickest way to find a good mate in this world.
Phineas Gushshaw - Wed, 21 Feb 2018 00:21:49 EST ID:wkx+P0M+ No.522445 Ignore Report Quick Reply
So do you want him to become an overnight player? All of a sudden a guy who's never had sex is going to become a stud and fuck one of two flatmates and they'll become an item and get married?? Or he'll shag her and she'll be chill and then he'll shag the other one, so she'll be cool. And they'll do that off and on for the rest of the time they're roommates with absolutely no feelings involved?

Be reasonable. It's common sense that if he pursues a flatmate he'll most likely be looking for a new apartment sooner rather than later. He hasn't got the skills or the nature to non creepily do it. He probably would chicken out anyway and then would end up cakefarted while watching the roommates partners stream through the place while he's doing the dishes, depressed and full of rage.

Instead of giving him ideas and setting him up for failure, we are trying to give him the skills and mindset that will get him ahead with women and that will actually work with his kind of temperament.
Cedric Soggletut - Wed, 21 Feb 2018 00:59:10 EST ID:0PJ7z1R+ No.522448 Ignore Report Quick Reply
just wait til their periods sinc. you're gonna be living at the bar 1 week out of the month.
Eugene Duckgold - Wed, 21 Feb 2018 01:48:49 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.522452 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>blah blah blah ur not good enough

This is the blabbering of plebs who don't go anywhere in life. They tell themselves they aren't good enough because they enjoy being 2nd.
Martin Serrywell - Wed, 21 Feb 2018 01:53:34 EST ID:80efJqSX No.522453 Ignore Report Quick Reply
And your advice is...?

Girl Problems by Lillian Munderson - Tue, 20 Feb 2018 10:00:55 EST ID:NbD72wTZ No.522429 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Girl of years broke up with me on new years, one of her best guy friends added me that night on Facebook out of the blue. Found out today they're publicly dating, after girl and I had to hide our relationship for 3 years because her parents are super traditional and wouldn't allow her to have a boyfriend, but I guess this guy is fine. Fuck
Phineas Gushshaw - Wed, 21 Feb 2018 00:47:32 EST ID:wkx+P0M+ No.522447 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Why would he add you to Facebook? That's super weird snakish.

But yeah she sucks. 3 years of hiding a relationship isnt on. How do you plan to deal with your loss? Do you have a plan of some sort?
Martin Serrywell - Wed, 21 Feb 2018 01:39:58 EST ID:80efJqSX No.522451 Ignore Report Quick Reply
That's pretty rough OP. However, if the breakup was inevitable/deserved, then why not just be happy for them?

Advice by Charlotte Hackletuck - Mon, 19 Feb 2018 15:57:20 EST ID:veLZVns+ No.522397 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hey guys.

I'm currently 22 y/o and am working hard labor making okay money for the time being. I'm an apprentice in a skilled trade. It's hard on my body/ the hours are long and i often turn to drugs when i get home. It's a good paying trade but i constantly worry about the damage i'm doing do my body. I've always turned to drugs for my issues in my short life. Have been smoking weed constantly since i was about 16 and have always had problems with anxiety and depression. SSRI's have never helped me and now i'm on 1mg clonazepam a day and 30mg of vyvanse. I do a lot of drugs and don't have much support or honest genuine friends.

I honestly feel like both these medications help my life but i know its not long term. I've been on clonazepam a year and i know i need to slow it down cause im already going to have painful w/d's and its already starting to impact my anxiety when i don't take it. The vyvanse too i feel like it helps but i also feel like i could have found ways to cope without it.

I'm finally at a point in my life where i'm tired of my drug use and my mental health problems and i finally want to take action. I've always avoided seeking help but I think i'm finally ready to help myself. I really still have a lot of issues i'm just putting off because i'm working so much and making good money. I'm starting to notice my stim addiction and my lack of energy when not taking my dosages during the weekend. I smoke marijuana like a chain smoker and my benzo usage is bad. I abuse opi and other drugs.

I'm stuck because i have no time or energy outside work to better myself. I can gain a lot from work but i worry about the damage to my body and the constant drug regime i must keep up with to keep this job. It's tough because the money is tempting and I don't want to have to start from the bottom again. I really do want to go back to school though, i'm not retarded. My parents would support me I just have to actually follow through or else i'm in big shit.

I don't know what to do. I know if i quit my job and try to get my shit together and quit drugs i'll go through hell and i really like to av…
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David Crobblenadging - Tue, 20 Feb 2018 01:45:21 EST ID:icZw5k41 No.522418 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Don't get too ahead of yourself. A career change will take time, as will addictions and mental health, so get it out of your head that everything will go to shit if you make one mistake.

Learn self-forgiveness and put it into practice. You've done things in the past you are uncertain about today. Go over the things you've learned during your experiences. It made you feel certain ways - why? There are things you've found you value more or less than before now. Why? Is it because other people do? Should they? Should you? Does it help bring you closer to your goals?

Don't swear off medication for your ego and pride, if that's where it's coming from. Lots of things "damage" our bodies, but in many cases the effects are not lasting or permanent. Search for a balance that reduces risk and helps you feel your best. Opioids can start controlling you, so decide if you're willing to live as a slave to them or lead a more self-determined life. It depends on what principals you value and what direction you want to go. Are you happy to drift wherever or do you have a destination in mind? A course set? When is it okay to take breaks? How often? How long?

You're young, but you seem pretty self-aware. Don't stop learning about yourself, your strengths, opportunities to improve, or even places you can't (mental health). You've got lots of time ahead to put it to use and learn more lessons along the way. And don't try to compare yourself to anyone else, there's too many factors and you'll never know them all.

Hugh Secklebanks - Tue, 20 Feb 2018 06:26:54 EST ID:7oTdIRwW No.522425 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Clonazepram will fuck your life up, son. If you want to avoid pain in your life, clonazepram is like a navigator who moves your fleet gracefully between rocks and icebergs, while he simultaneously lights a fuse connected to hundred barrels of gunpowder and hell, waiting for it to detonate and burn you alive.

In need of personal relationship advice by Veraux - Fri, 09 Feb 2018 18:32:16 EST ID:nC1t5fCy No.522033 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I've always been emotionally intelligent or so I think at least.
Always tried to keep a balance between being too emotional or being too rational. I tend not to let my emotions get the besr of me. I consider myself a very patient and empathic man. I almost always excuse peoples actions.

For this reason people tend to walk all over me and take advantage of my good will but that's fine.. usually. I've been hurt on relationships. Been cheated on. Hell, even been hit and beaten. I've always tried to be the best boyfriend and I know I'm not perfect and I've also made many mistakes and even though many girls have broken me and some have cheated I try to go into a new relationship clean and without prejudice and without any grudge. Every girl deserves the chance of meeting the best me I can be....but I am tired of being stepped on, of being the nice guy because the outcome is always very similar. But I think "what if this time I meet the one? And what if this time I behave like a jerk? 'The one' doesn't deserve the punishment of my previous failures" I don't want to be hurt anymore.

-The deceit-

I've been dating this girl for almost 4 years now. Giving her my all. She used to beat me, yeah I admit it and I've never laid a finger on her, she's burned me with a cigarette and many other hurtful things both physically and emotionally. She's hurt me very deeply. However I am not a victim because I've allowed this to happen and I am sure I've also hurted her.

She stopped this behaviour probably about a year ago and we've been very happy this last year we've grown together and we've learned to respect eachother. We know how to deal with eachother and we don't fight anymore, our communication is amazing we tell eachother if something bothers us and fix it and sort it out in the moment.

Last month she met a guy at a familly reunion and they've been texting a lot since. It bothered me but I trusted her. Today I saw something very unsettling and perhaps very stupid. He texted her "thanks cutie (kissing smiley)" and I just lost it.. I am not usually jealous but I felt horrible at this and talk to her about it like we usually do. I asked to see her conversation with him and she agreed but hesitated when she was about to hand me her phone and deleted the conversation in my face arguing that
It was just going to start problems if I read it. It started problems anyways.
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Jarvis Badgebut - Wed, 14 Feb 2018 02:15:16 EST ID:wJavO91C No.522213 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Gonna weigh in with this:

I was in an extremely abusive relationship, and your post reminds me of the shit that I said while I was in it.

You wouldn't be making this thread if she was a good gf. You wouldn't be mentioning her hitting you and shit like that if she was a good gf. If this person you're with is anything like how I imagine, you'll probably feel relieved instead of sad, when the relationship does end.

Nobody sane beats their SO, and burns them with cigarettes. Your perception of her is warped, cut the connection and you'll be like "wow holy shit I am so glad to be free of that!" and start seeing all the red flags you should have seen the whole time.
Veraux - Tue, 20 Feb 2018 02:30:39 EST ID:acoBm2jR No.522419 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Thank you. I can seee what you mean. You should know then that taking the blindfold off can be difficult. How did you manage?
Veraux - Tue, 20 Feb 2018 02:30:40 EST ID:acoBm2jR No.522420 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Thank you. I can seee what you mean. You should know then that taking the blindfold off can be difficult. How did you manage?
James Pisslemutch - Tue, 20 Feb 2018 03:15:09 EST ID:Q3TQO9f4 No.522421 Ignore Report Quick Reply

This. No normal people abuse their loved ones like she did to you, OP. What she did should tell you something about her character. Leave that chick and find yourself a girl that actually treats you well instead of making you feel miserable.
James Blettingline - Tue, 20 Feb 2018 06:06:04 EST ID:wJavO91C No.522423 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>how did you manage
He tried to kill himself (for the 4th time) and I abandoned him at the ER, got a restraining order as soon as I could. At the end I was absolutely terrified of him. As I was walking out of the ER I had to resist the urge to run.

I'm not going to go into what he did to me, but it really fucking did a number on me. Years worth of shit I wish I could delete from my brain, so badly.

Just cut all contact with her, go for the nuclear option. If she's living in your place, evict her, do whatever you need to do to legally get her the fuck out ASAP, involve police if you have to.

Became President of club by William Brankintire - Tue, 20 Feb 2018 03:59:45 EST ID:sM5nvTHu No.522422 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Although i have no idea what im doing and its totally fucking crazy.

I think ill just try my best and see how that goes. If i fail i tried, if im pushed, i tried, if i do a good job, i tried.

I think im freaking out over nothing really.

The saddest story you've read online? by Jack Turveyhood - Tue, 20 Feb 2018 00:54:33 EST ID:LIb3qSHO No.522415 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Jack Turveyhood - Tue, 20 Feb 2018 00:57:16 EST ID:LIb3qSHO No.522416 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Last year a guy suddenly noticed he had serious memory problems. Months later, he took his own life. Links to his social media were archived and posted here https://redd.it/7y31sk

In trouble with college due to drug use by Phineas Darringseg - Sat, 10 Feb 2018 09:26:05 EST ID:uvByzCWV No.522070 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I called 9-1-1 after taking too much acid and panicking. Even though I'm not being legally prosecuted, the dean of students of my college wants to meet me to open an invesitgstion into my Code of Conduct which could lead to expulsion at worst.

How fucked am I? Is there a way to talk myself out of this? Is he going to call the campus police to search my apartment while I'm meeting with him? If I admit I did the acid but I wasn't on campus is he gonna send it to the city police? I'm allowed to bring a lawyer to the meeting so I will probably consult with one today but what is my best course of action here?
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Sidney Hunderfield - Sat, 17 Feb 2018 06:08:51 EST ID:jAXGvxDa No.522316 Ignore Report Quick Reply
How much do they need to know? How much do they know? Can you pretend you had a little incident because of stress and just go to counselling for a few weeks? A lot of people call 911 when they first experience the symptoms of a panic attack, you could look them up and pretend that's what happened. Just say the studying or something else in your life is getting to you, use a real stressor so it will be easier to lie

Am I too late with this advice? fuck
Martha Bardbury - Sat, 17 Feb 2018 09:16:10 EST ID:45sWs9FC No.522324 Ignore Report Quick Reply
yeah hes dead
Fucking Wallywater - Sun, 18 Feb 2018 12:46:29 EST ID:Yq+XEe0p No.522354 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OP here.

I'm in prison now.

Ebenezer Brookcocke - Mon, 19 Feb 2018 18:03:47 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.522403 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Ergot poisoning from store bought breads in this day and age is unheard of. Food poisoning from other molds yes, but ergot is specifically controlled for at the processing plant. Before those rye berries even hit the mill they're already ergot-free.

You would need to grow your own rye, let it get infected with ergot, and then grind down those infected grains and make bread with the ergot rye in order to come down with ergotism these days.
Simon Clopperpitch - Tue, 20 Feb 2018 00:28:04 EST ID:H/A2r+Uk No.522412 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Did they let you take your phone or something?

Baaaaaw it's difficult, so difficult. Baaaaw. by Edwin Deddlelork - Sun, 18 Feb 2018 17:42:49 EST ID:CogAX30J No.522364 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Loaned the rest of my moneys to my big bro. We moved out of a place we were renting together and he found a place first and thus needed the moneys more. Now I am sleeping on a couch at my sister's place. She and my brother in law got 3 kids, 3 girls. They stay up late watching TV and the girls wake up early to watch TV. Been sleeping like 5 hours each night for 5 days. Meanwhile I'm trying to get this position in my job but it's increasingly feeling retarded but I don't know if I really could start again all over, with no alone time or money. The plan is to get a place at the end of the month, if I don't there could be a problem with my benefits. Things are looking pretty dark.
Hamilton Tillingridge - Sun, 18 Feb 2018 17:57:01 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522367 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>still watching TV
What kind of cave dwelling nation are you from?

Anyway, just don't worry about it OP, let it happen. Also meditate 10-15 minutes upon waking up, I'm serious, you may not see how that has anything to do with anything, but trust me it does. As soon as you wake up, DO NOT start thinking anything, do not entertain any ideas questions thoughts anything, just focus on your breath or dripping sink for 10 minutes. Please.
Alice Foffingford - Mon, 19 Feb 2018 13:35:29 EST ID:CogAX30J No.522393 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Alrighty then, since you asked so nicely. It is a good idea because when I say things are looking dark I mean that my thoughts aren't in their prime, they want to kick and scream.

mental health general by Samuel Pickletat - Sun, 18 Feb 2018 21:24:54 EST ID:nrs1TIWF No.522370 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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how far gone should some one's mentality be before asking for help? my mind feels fucked but I don't mind. I've been considering talking to a therapist or some one similar. I do not actually trust these test results, but the psychology today one seems about right. it seems to change often. It would be nice to open up about everything, but I don't want them trying to stop my drug use. there's no one I can really discuss my mental health with, and I feel like I don't know myself well enough to be able to evaluate myself.
Reuben Bardridge - Mon, 19 Feb 2018 01:26:56 EST ID:cG0vV5OZ No.522373 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Sup, fam?
Nicholas Sidgewell - Mon, 19 Feb 2018 02:35:56 EST ID:wJavO91C No.522374 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Honestly, if you don't feel like you're normal you should probably see a therapist. Even if you like the way you are, you could at least get -official- diagnoses instead of internet-quiz diagnoses, which mean absolutely nothing.

Internet quizzes are like that. You can have a test say you're autistic even if you're confirmed to not have it. You can have a test say you're not autistic even though you were diagnosed in childhood, because you were treated well enough to wind up developing some skills for appearing normal. There are too many overlapping symptoms, too many things that mental illnesses can cause, to take some internet test and have it reliably say you have anything.

Go see a professional, even if it's just to see what you really have.

If you don't want them trying to stop your drug use, then don't talk about your drug use. Really depends on the drugs, but a therapist or psych might not even care that you do certain ones, such as weed. You still never have to tell them about your drug use. I see a therapist regularly (trying to heal from PTSD) and never talk about -current- drug use, only past drug use, and I only talk about weed and alcohol use, not psychedelic usage or usage of other drugs.

I don't talk about any drug use to my psych. I wouldn't want my emergency benzos to be cut off, which I do legitimately use for emergency purposes.
Reuben Bardridge - Mon, 19 Feb 2018 04:15:31 EST ID:cG0vV5OZ No.522376 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Frederick Fankinstane - Mon, 19 Feb 2018 12:57:41 EST ID:COAX7aNZ No.522390 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Yeah if you don't feel right see a therapist.

I don't trust those quiz results either. You/rs is sever depression. 67% autism signs? Simply taking a test is always iffy because there is room for interpretation and so at absolute BEST they'll give you a vague indicator something isn't right. However there are at least gold standard tests for some of these conditions that are at least as good as vague preliminary testing goes and those tests are not thosethe Baron-Cohen test for example tests autism but it is scored out of 50 and so can't give 67%

But the thing is if you feel something isn't right and you're struggling you don't need to take those tests. Even the ones which aren't clearly BS.

Don't use their diagnosis, they're probably turning up false positives as symptoms overlap. However if you genuinely feel badly enough to score like that you're clearly in need of help for whatever it is you have.

I wish my girlfriend would lose some weight by Fanny Goodstone - Wed, 14 Feb 2018 00:53:25 EST ID:sauTrkls No.522206 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So I'm dating a really great girl who I'm in love with - this is my first real serious relationship with love etc. (I'm 27)
only problem is she's 185 pounds/5.1 feet
good tits/ass, very beautiful face, we have sex almost every day so I AM attracted to her. I just find myself looking at thin women on the street and wishing she could wear what they wear and look like this because looking like a slut + the fact I love her so much would make my dick and maybe whole being explode with pleasure
she knows she's fat she's not one of those fat acceptance feminists but she doesn't actually make effort to change this because of laziness
she half tries... it's just not enough
I don't really know how to approach this because it's not a deal breaker, like I said she's not obese I do enjoy her physically very much
just wish that with all the other good stuff she could also be hot thin slut sonetimes y'know?
if she keeps getting fat it's gonna be a real problem
on the other hand I hate dating, don't think that "hot" women are good partners in general and have experienced sex with hot women (escorts though)
idk these feelings are bothering me - would be unfortunate if the relationship suffers from something she could relatively easily change but doesn't because of laziness
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Sidney Hunderfield - Sat, 17 Feb 2018 06:18:18 EST ID:jAXGvxDa No.522318 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I think you have serious psychological issues with women. I think you need to go to therapy. I don't think you are emotionally mature enough at present to have a girlfriend.

Yes, if you want a thin girl that is a legitimate want, there is nothing wrong with a sexual attraction to an adult. The problem is everything else you said besides that.
Ernest Gugglelad - Sat, 17 Feb 2018 08:26:13 EST ID:qjsN1w3c No.522321 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Just tell her. Good communication is key for any relationship. Physical attraction is also key.
Caroline Hembledock - Sat, 17 Feb 2018 09:40:04 EST ID:63ccNEDg No.522325 Ignore Report Quick Reply
can you elaborate? would make sense because I started dating relatively late (when I was around 23) and between 19 until then I fucked trannies and prostitutes (first experiences of everything from kissing to sex was during that time)
so I don't have a "normal history" regarding my sexual/romantic development.
Fuck Gagglestone - Sat, 17 Feb 2018 14:16:27 EST ID:ilcXZXCD No.522331 Ignore Report Quick Reply
wow the white knight faggotry in this thread is far beyond what i expected. why defend fat people? it is their own fault. if OP wishes his gf wasn't so fat that's reasonable. doesn't mean he has "problems" lmao
Lillian Worthingspear - Sun, 18 Feb 2018 23:30:43 EST ID:r6RDja3H No.522371 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Lead by example!
If you're getting super in shape and eating healthy she will join in.

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