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What should I do? by Walter Fanningdock - Sat, 17 Nov 2018 11:01:05 EST ID:OuQCp+w8 No.527755 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>Fall in love like 2 years ago with puerto rican girl.
> Immediately become lovers and best friends simultaneously.
>She's got 5 years on me and is currently 30 and I'm 25.
>Ending up going through hell and back together(homelessness and all types of shit
>While being homeless I end up relapsing on drugs
>She ends up getting HOOKED on drugs
>More trial and error
>Finally get an apartment
>Bicker often with eachother and shit because we spend 24/7 together
>All we do is basically fight but still love eachother (so I thought)
>She disappears for like 2 days
>Proceeds to tell me she's with this other guy now and how he's trying to get clean and get her clean
>Throw all her shit outside the door of my apartment, leave, and go stay with my Dad.
>Mom is in the ICU(she's still there actually) for kidney and liver failure
>Stay with dad and sister for 3 weeks, get clean on my own etc
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Walter Fanningdock - Sat, 17 Nov 2018 18:52:45 EST ID:OuQCp+w8 No.527762 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527759
I feel so bad for the second girl. She's Cuban(just like me) I usually only tend to date other latinos because my family approves of it more. I've never dated a 100% european American woman though. I used to date nigs so. But she really likes me and I dont know how to break it off. Would it be better for me to tell her to just be friends for a while?
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Charlotte Gottinglock - Sat, 17 Nov 2018 19:34:37 EST ID:wVwbY1G3 No.527763 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527762
You've been apart from your ex 3 days. You might be clean but you're still emotionally about 9 years old if you think you can just move on. Take some time to properly get your shit in order and get over your ex.

You spend a lot of time thinking about your ex and this is a mix of your choice and your lack of distractions. Focus on other things, the key isn't to obsess yourself with not thinking about her but just when you do (not if) just stop. Don't pursue that rabbit hole. In time she'll drop out your dreams. OR stop romanticising what a piece of trash she is. Actually take some time apart from her and look how fucked up she is.

But focus on your life. You are going to hurt this new girl anyway, you've been 3 days away from your ex and NEW DATE.

On some level it disturbs me that you can find a relationship so quickly but honestly this new girl is probably as fucked up on some level if she doesn't see the warning signs and bail on you soon. You've not gone through the grieving process and accepted your ex is gone. You need to take time until it sinks in, be miserable, accept you'll eventually get over it, spend time on your life and one day realise you don't really hurt any more.
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David Fuckinghall - Sat, 17 Nov 2018 19:36:23 EST ID:gHKKHqVT No.527764 Ignore Report Quick Reply
So she wasn't an addict until she met you and tried to leave to get clean? Sounds like she is as messed up as you are buddy but it's her first rodeo. Tbh she doesn't sound super evil or anything, just trying to get her life on track but also relying on others to live, hence the cheating. Still that shit isn't on. But homelessness ain't great. Either way she was living the only way she knew.

In rehabs and shit they tell you not to get too attached to your fellow addicts because they'll let you down and then you'll spiral down after them. That's what happened to her. You're only clean after this break up. But yeah you're at risk of spiralling again.

Love has many grand ideas and shit but if you dont want to have a bitter relationship after the novelty fails you need to build it on those boring every day foundations like positive communication and having your shit together. You guys failed that. I know the romantic in you wants her back and it's not the worst idea if you want to continue your chaotic exciting life, but you'll both be hurting and spiralling through that.

I just dont think that you can go through those hard emotionally charged conversations with her without relapsing bro. Imagine an argument that boils up over something like her not getting home on time or whatever and you're sus and then she starts throwing daggers because she didn't do anything wrong this time. You'll want to run off and get high.

As for the Cuban girl, fuck her off. She's a rebound. You don't owe her anything mr martyr.
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Alice Drosslewed - Sun, 18 Nov 2018 02:39:19 EST ID:RDJxj2zU No.527766 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527755
When moving on, the WORST thing you can do is compare a new partner to your ex

They are not your ex, nor a replacement. You will have a different type of compatibility and a different relationship experience altogether. Focusing on comparing will only stop you from moving on.
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Rebecca Chumblenud - Sun, 18 Nov 2018 08:32:48 EST ID:ehhnNOgT No.527768 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527755
Do what makes you happy. People will say you can never trust her and she will cheat on you again, which is probably true, but if spending time with her makes you happy then I think you should do that, just don't try and make it a serious monogamous relationship and just be fuck buddies. She's too old for you anyway so fuck buddies is the best situation.


running away by Hugh Settingbury - Sun, 11 Nov 2018 23:18:36 EST ID:+eu7fILs No.527691 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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is there any way to leave my shit town if im on probation and fucked? i live in the middle of nowhere and its so sad i might as well just go to jail some point down the line and get it over with its basically the same thing the only difference now is i can do kratom and shit at least

i live in the middle of nowhere and its so sad. if i was on probation anywhere else i could ride busses and trains through the city go to malls see things do stuff hang out with people but im just trapped in my room alone and the probation sentence is long as fuck

if i run away do i have to get the max sentence for my crime or can they do something else or even feel bad for me? its so fucking shit out here i just want to move some place where i have resources
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Hedda Senderbanks - Mon, 12 Nov 2018 13:41:35 EST ID:BsaC9DIW No.527703 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I bet the answer you're looking for is only a handful of identical threads away. Keep trying OP.
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Barnaby Clamblestadging - Tue, 13 Nov 2018 16:32:36 EST ID:yhacnFtx No.527716 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Join the military
Fuck your cat
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Nicholas Sibblelock - Tue, 13 Nov 2018 17:29:24 EST ID:NJkLq9MW No.527717 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527716
maybe fuck the military.. join your cat..

think about it
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Frederick Billingridge - Thu, 15 Nov 2018 19:19:01 EST ID:+Tof+qQ/ No.527748 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527696


This. I moved tryna get away from everyone. Can confirm still feel like shit.
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Albert Fusslemin - Sat, 17 Nov 2018 17:51:16 EST ID:fh+mGVup No.527760 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527748
Word, nigga. Every town and city has just as little to do and sucks to live in. The problem isn't the town, it's you. Yeah, there's some random different shit here and there to occupy your time with in a different area, but the shit available to do will become as mundane and unappealing within a matter of a couple of weeks.

The only solution then, if you're determined to run away, is to keep on running endlessly. In little time at all the constant running will too become as shitty and tedious as your everyday life where you currently are is right now. Things are always changing, but they always stay the same.

That's why the only answer to a dilemma like this is that you have to change, rather than trying to change everything else around you to solve your problems--you're the only true constant here, after all.

Time to fix your fuckin life bro


Why do my parents hate me? by A POOR VICTIM - Sat, 17 Nov 2018 03:36:08 EST ID:hRBYIF6G No.527751 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Plz help!

I live in winter town and want to move to summer town! What do?

Should I murder my oppressive parents who do not want me to be happy? I can do this but I will not.

PLEASE help me to find others to blame for my circumstances! Do NOT blame me, I believe others are to blame. Specifically do not reference my actions which had lead to my current predicament, obviously our time would be better spent focusing on how to deal with why everyone is so mean to me!!!
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Fuck Cezzlelire - Sat, 17 Nov 2018 10:23:50 EST ID:gHKKHqVT No.527754 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Honestly it's their fault that they won't drive you to the airport. Fucking assholes!!! You shouldn't have to take the bus.
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Barnaby Fomblelock - Sat, 17 Nov 2018 11:22:57 EST ID:iJyiJg7k No.527757 Ignore Report Quick Reply
dude you post the same threads on 4skins /adv/ and they're tired of your shit too
ban this faggot for good!
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Angus Brurryback - Sat, 17 Nov 2018 14:38:36 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.527758 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527751

Listen here you shmoe. Winter town is full opportunities and your parents are doing it for your own good. Summer town is a thinly veiled excuse for hedonism and debauchery that is self gratifying in the short term but ultimately subjects your life to internal chaos and anguish.

I blame the Russians for their subversive propaganda portraying summer town as the cure for all woes. They keep getting Beyoncé and jay to insert subliminal pro summertown imagery into their music videos and in my view, they are to blame for your misery and failed relationships.


Losing my self or something by Ebenezer Suzzlesatch - Sun, 11 Nov 2018 11:24:16 EST ID:+Tof+qQ/ No.527679 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Like 3 months ago, I had a girlfriend, I had a huge group of friends even if it was dysfunction, some of my friends died, everyone's getting pregnant, etc, but still, I had all these good friends in my life. My girlfriend left me to move to the city, and today she posted a pic of a guy asleep in a bed that I'm assuming is hers. I knew she was starting to date, she posted saying so the day I moved to a shitty little city in the south. I moved down here like 3 weeks ago for work, couldn't get a job anywhere else.

I think she was waiting on me because I told her I might move to her city if I could find a job. I couldn't find one, and I couldn't justify moving somewhere over a girl who walked away, you know? But it feels like I made a mistake. I really liked her. A lot. I'm 24 years old now, and she was the closest thing I've ever had to a gf. I've slept with like 8 women now, but 7/8 of those were one night stands.

Now I'm in this new city trying to get my bearings, I'm becoming increasingly lonely, and going out and getting fucked up on the weekends just isn't cutting it. Some girl in the bar was talking to me and invited me to another bar, but she was surrounded by male friends that kept cockblocking me and by the time I left that bar I was too drunk and had to get home. I've been out every weekend and that was the closest I've come to actually finding anyone to fuck. I guess I need to watch my drinking. This job isn't even that good. I read a quote from will smith today that says "Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing and work hard. The right people, the ones who really belong in your life will come to you. And stay". I tend to agree with that.

I have been on a long journey trying to become less of a bitch. I have very "deep" feelings about the women that have come and gone in my life. I get caught up easily. I've been working on being happy as a man, by myself, but it feels like it's just not fucking working. Or like I'm going backwards. I looked up the age Will Smith met his wife. He was 27. I'm 24. Idk why that matters, but it's something to cling onto for hope. Like, maybe someday som…
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Charles Senderputch - Mon, 12 Nov 2018 19:03:10 EST ID:+Tof+qQ/ No.527709 Ignore Report Quick Reply
It's weird like, I thought if I just kept focusing on other things like going out and partying and work, I'd get over her. And it worked for like the month I've been down here, until I saw that fucking snapchat. I didn't even open her snap, I could just see the guy asleep. It might not even be a guy she's fucking, but I mean it probably is.

Turns out, for me at least, even if I can distract myself for a while it all comes back around and hits me even harder the next time. Seasonal effective disorder or whatever is coming on. Shit hurts. Even though I'm going out and I'm pretty confident and shit wrt girls it doesn't seem to help the pain. Ignoring it doesn't, focusing on other things doesn't because it comes back around, "feeling the pain" doesn't because neuroscientists have shown thinking about some thought strengthens the pathway for that thought and similar thoughts end up growing out of it...

I've been through heartbreak before, and it took like a full year if not longer. This girl was what finally made me not care at all about the girl before her. I just really hope it doesn't last that long for her. I liked her even more than the previous one. Then there's the lazyness. I moved away from everyone to study and get good at programming. Learn my algo's and work on shit. All I've done is learn more IT shit at work, and ignore the programming. How am I supposed to move into development at this rate? How am I supposed to find someone down here? I just don't feel much hope I guess.
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Sidney Tootfield - Mon, 12 Nov 2018 21:05:24 EST ID:jnas4L6T No.527710 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I am processing some hearbreak too OP. I was forced to end a 5 year relationship because we were both miserable and fought all the time, but we still loved and cared about each other so it was extremely hard. Tried to distract myself by going out, with other women, etc. Found a girl who I fell madly in love with only for her to reveal a heroin addiction and ghost me right when I thought things would get serious and permanent. So now that my initial rebound stage is over, and my grief of losing such a wonderful relationship to heroin is over, I realize I never allowed myself to grieve for the loss of the long-term relationship, and now I am trying to process that while not drinking myself to death.

The only advice I can give is to force yourself to tend to your biological needs as best you can, even if you don't want to. Eat adequate amounts of healthy meals, be hygienic, clean your living space, get enough sleep, don't drink every night, etc. This is all easier said than done. But if you get your brain chemistry optimized it helps in letting the grief wash over you and pass through you. TBH right now I am the least miserable I have been in like 8 years, and it's because I just focused on my physiological needs when I was unable to help myself emotionally. Though I am still struggling like you.

Good luck OP. To you and me both. *raises beer*
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Samuel Hezzlehack - Tue, 13 Nov 2018 04:40:03 EST ID:XNj2um9H No.527713 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Well yeah. Transitioning is hard and you'll feel insecure. You know what to do though. Give yourself the self care and trust that you have what it takes to adapt. It's easy to linger in feelings of envy and jealousy buy you'll find that you have a lot going for you. Forget about her
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Eliza Pockdale - Wed, 14 Nov 2018 16:59:00 EST ID:+Tof+qQ/ No.527740 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527710
>>527713

Thanks


SJW gf by Hugh Parryway - Fri, 12 Oct 2018 06:23:59 EST ID:+Dxwg5ZQ No.527118 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>gf is an SJW

My gf Is a jobless, SJW liberal, and a bisexual. Who lives off her rich parents money.

She's not just casually bisexual either. She's hardcore pro-queer, lgbt (ally) and makes a huge deal out of Sexuality. Everything has to be pro-trans this, non-binary that, gender this and gender that.

I can deal with some liberal shit but with her it is over the top. She can't go to the fucking grocery store without wearing some sort of LGBT shit or out at night for dinner without SOME rainbow shit plastered on her.

We've been dating for a few months and to be quite honest I didn't see any of this shit when we first met--she actually had a fucking job and acted like a normal person.

The thing is when she's not on her LGBT shit she's actually incredibly pleasant to be around, i enjoy her company and we "click". In my eyes this SJW shit is just a flaw that I'll have to deal with, nobody is perfect.

But it's fucking weird. She acts like a feminine girl with me and when shes with her family none of that shit happens, she cleans up. Furthermore I'm a straight edge, normal dude who's if anything is Center-right leaning and she knows this.

Her parents actually seem like normal and well adjusted people, and I've picked up that they're not that enthralled with her being into the SJW shit at all.
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Rebecca Supperlane - Fri, 09 Nov 2018 07:02:21 EST ID:s2Dd0noZ No.527658 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527654
This is an old topic. OP is a mirror image of his girlfriend and that's why they get on, because while they have different beliefs they hold to them and identify with them and compare the world through their lense and so on in the same way. They are both immature and have not yet found the nuance in their beliefs and if they grow up and become more complete adults they may be able to compromise or reconcile enough to live a happy life, or they'll entrench further like teenagers and tear each other apart. OP has not come back because either we got through to him or he realised we weren't going to tell him what he wanted to hear and buggered off. Either way that's a better result than this topic continuing.

nb
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Nell Pockstone - Sat, 10 Nov 2018 01:09:01 EST ID:awW8B2Hc No.527667 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527658
Based Last Psychiatrist tier posts
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Cedric Sottingnadge - Sun, 11 Nov 2018 10:15:12 EST ID:epi0TZjY No.527678 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527658

no, because she is honest about her uncompromising beliefs and he just sits there and feels superior while using her and being duplicitous
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Beatrice Tootgold - Tue, 13 Nov 2018 18:07:29 EST ID:+Dxwg5ZQ No.527718 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527678
>calls SJW groupthink "uncompromising beliefs"

Whew
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Nigel Shakedale - Wed, 14 Nov 2018 10:54:59 EST ID:N8SnPlnn No.527732 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Well if you want your girl to change, OP, it might be a better idea to talk to her than to tell an imageboard about her.

Oh wait, this is just a low-effort troll thread copy-pasted from somewhere else.


creative potential by Ian Dondlespear - Sun, 11 Nov 2018 22:56:12 EST ID:dJEw/uJZ No.527689 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Most of the time I feel like my true self and true creative potential is being bottle necked by how severely mentally ill I am. It is one of the worst feelings. I'm an artistic person and want to CREATE things but I just can't because most of the time I hardly have energy to eat or keep an attention span. I draw sometimes and I can sometimes feel myself connecting to the "stream" that artists say they've felt before. Like at some point in the creative process it stops requiring effort and you kind of just plug into something deeper than yourself and let "it" do the work. I've never been able to fully take advantage of it, only taste it for small amounts of time.

How do I get to the point where I can fully take advantage of my creative potential? I know that I am meant to create something beautiful in my life but currently I am 22 years old and severely upset with my life and the world. What can I do to better myself so I can experience enlightenment? I want to be able to feel something other than anguish, I want to feel as beautiful and meaningful as the art I am trying to create. I have currently tried many mediums including drawing, music, singing, and photography. Nothing has stuck to me yet.
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Charlotte Briblingmune - Mon, 12 Nov 2018 01:01:39 EST ID:Hu5948WJ No.527693 Ignore Report Quick Reply
The answer is focus. As you've said, you could do any of that shit but you cant focus.

So focus. Sit at your desk and set a timer. Practice that shit. Try to approach flow, when you lose track of time. But that requires the aptitude to feel no doubt, which requires practice, that requires patience.

So yeah. Do it.
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Archie Ponkinmetch - Mon, 12 Nov 2018 09:06:42 EST ID:LQaVa7NA No.527699 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527689
Enlightenment is a state that only allows enlightenment. Thats why people who chase it rarely do anything but meditation.
To be a full human being I think you need some spirituality/connection to feelings/dreams and you also need to train the ego to work for/with you. See it as a tool that allows you to navigate the human world.
Walk both paths or walk none of them, Alan Watts has a beautiful talk on that topic.

As CHarlotte said, train the brain to focus on things, little by little it will get better. You need to realize that your obsession with being too ill to create just creates a feedback loop. Every time you check how you feel before you start soething you give more power to the concept. Just accept where you are now, work with what you have and START.
I know what its like to be depressed and losing hope in everything, especially the own abilities and I've had the same problem for the past months where I'm not really able to bring myself to paint most of the time. But once I started, there was a flow for half an hour and then it stopped and I started judging how I need ore time painting to get better/how I am not what I need to be anymore etc. This just increases my self loathing and I don't even begin painting in fear of failing and feeling that pain. Not painting increases the problem aswell though, so I need to stop judging and start accepting what is while doing the best I can..

So this post is mostly directed at myself but maybe it helps you aswell.
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Charles Bummerluck - Mon, 12 Nov 2018 13:00:14 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.527702 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Look mate, flow states are reserved for people who are familiar enough with what they are doing to begin to lose themselves in it. Build up a base of belief, competence, technique, confidence and focus - with time, the flow state will arise naturally.

I've probably clocked in 5-800 hours of drawing and painting this year. There are times I'll have drawn for 50+ hours in a week. At times, it were as if an autopilot took over and maneuvered my hand without any conscious decision making - at least, not in a way I am familiar with. I remember a page from my practices, were I basically generated insects, birds and woodlands within a few minutes, accurately, first time, with basically zero thought and 100% flow. This occurs because you become so familiar with what you are doing that it no longer becomes something you have to think about. Without practice, it won't occur because you are going to get stuck generating the answers to visual problem solving.

I experience the same thing cycling these days for quick reaction moments and particularly challenging obstacles - I am reacting faster than I am thinking. Again, it's just about familiarity, repetition and the belief in my ability to execute.

I'd recommend you just practice daily and give yourself larger pieces to work on from time to time. I usually set aside at least 2 hours to just do quick 5-30 minute sketches of random shit on flickr. Learn techniques, experiment and figure out what the fuck you are doing. Always push yourself to attempt more complexity and execute your visions as well as you can. Problem solve, feel accomplished. With time, this flow stuff will kick in.

I don't like the conflation of flow state with spirituality. Nor do I think that meditation is a particularly enlightened mode of being. Enlightenment is overrated, at least compared to the wonderful depictions like your attached picture. I got into zen buddhism in 2012 and have never really lost my way from some of the core concepts, but after a long time getting lost in meditations, lectures, books etc. I reached a fairly underwhelming conclusion and perspective. It's all just pretty simple shit. Take peace in that, but don't go all overboard thinki…
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Lydia Fumbleford - Mon, 12 Nov 2018 15:03:04 EST ID:NJkLq9MW No.527706 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527689
take it from me. do not get stuck looking at the ideal and doing nothing to get there. you will get dashed on the rocks of life... it hurts. figure out your depression. if your sleep, diet, lack of exercise etc is out of whack, do positive lifestyle changes if you aren't.


Became attracted to coworker by Esther Foffingkure - Sun, 11 Nov 2018 04:07:52 EST ID:92zfrRzZ No.527673 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So I have been working a retail job for about 6 months now and it is going great in terms of the job itself. I work with 3 other people (2 in the back room for administration + services and 2 in the front for sales (me + coworker). At first I liked my coworker as just that, we get along fine and have somewhat same values. But like 2 weeks ago she changed her hair (cut it short and dyed it) and that triggered my fetish or preference whatever you call it. So now I find her really attractive in every way, it's difficult to be at work because I keep looking at her and thinking about her. What do I do to make work normal again, or not feel like this while at work?
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Esther Foffingkure - Sun, 11 Nov 2018 11:32:35 EST ID:92zfrRzZ No.527680 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527676

If I ask her out and she says "no" then work will be extra difficult and I don't fancy switching. Additionally I don't really think I am ready for a relationship yet.
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Isabella Shittingwater - Sun, 11 Nov 2018 16:39:10 EST ID:kaXN/tLq No.527681 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527680

All dogs must bury their bone somewhere. Look to pastures further afield and hopefully that squashes it.
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Ebenezer Suzzlesatch - Sun, 11 Nov 2018 17:40:52 EST ID:+Tof+qQ/ No.527683 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527673

So in 2 weeks you've went from just friends to completely enamored? I guess if you see her 5 days a week or whatever, but damn. I'd ask her out if it were me, and if she rejected me I'd just play it off like no big deal and try to get on with it. Rejection tends to make you even more obsessed, though, so you'd have to be ready to deal with the pain and try to reduce contact to only what's necessary after that happened.

The alternatives: Find another job and ask her out, find another job and don't ask her out and move on, or just wait and eventually she'll end up with someone else and you'll get hurt anyway.
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Angus Goodbanks - Sun, 11 Nov 2018 18:43:10 EST ID:nPd6ds7Q No.527685 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527683

I don't know what I'm gonna do, but thank you for the advice.
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Lillian Blatherville - Mon, 12 Nov 2018 12:40:59 EST ID:wVwbY1G3 No.527700 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527683
>Rejection tends to make you even more obsessed
I've found that having that hope squashed is actually pretty liberating. You can't think about the ifs or maybes and feed the limerence and can get on with shit. However if you do act, act quickly before its a big thing and make it relatively low key, make the move low key, and if she shoots you down be ready to just talk about something else as if nothing happened.

If she doesn't feel like it was a big deal then it won't be a big deal and everything will not be ruined. I guess it depends how you take rejection. You know this better than we do.


Really real by Michael - Mon, 29 Oct 2018 00:00:42 EST ID:AnKTZjom No.527473 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I have depression, mania and I'm on 4 antipsychotics.

Sounds silly, but I stumbled upon some sensitive information and now I'm being watched for further ingress. Sometimes I can hear them talking about me.

No shit, this is actually real. It's with radiowaves. It's sort of like gangstalking but not bat-shit insane. I'm able to identify what is actually part of my illness and what is a transmission.

This all sounds so sci-fi. You'll laugh. This is my reality, I'm being watched and dissected in a sort of bored facism kind of way.

The problem is, I can't fully hear them and I'm wondering what they want. I live every day wondering if i'm about to be wacked or fucked by the psy-ops to become some crazy invalid in a wheelchair staring at the sea.

You won't believe me.

Shucks.
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Thomas Cladgebury - Sat, 03 Nov 2018 02:16:12 EST ID:DmE7tPmw No.527571 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You need to tell me of what kind of sensitive information you have stumbled upon that is only if you haven’t become “in a wheel-chair” yet! Just kidding tell me anyways. You might be me trying to contact me from the past or the future and I’m here telling you it’s okay to say it here. No worries.
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Henry Basslestone - Sat, 03 Nov 2018 07:39:20 EST ID:UrTHcsL2 No.527574 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527538
I googled the origin's of radiohead's name. It's named after a talking heads song because their first choice of name was taken. The talking heads song is not to do with picking up unwanted signals but if taken literally is someone transmitting. I'm not an expert and lyrics are open to interpretation but I'd say it's about the hope and adventure of a new relationship, meeting someone and saying that you pick up on the signals (we all communicate in a variety of forms after all) that they send and they like what they promise. That this person seems like they're going to be a new and satisfying adventure.

Anyway I think that's about as far from what this guy interpreted it to mean as is possible while still relating to the words "radio head".
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Michael - Sat, 10 Nov 2018 12:27:56 EST ID:AnKTZjom No.527670 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527571
In a moment of brilliance, I posted a conspiracy theory on /tinfoil/ that cut a little to close
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Sophie Socklefuck - Sat, 10 Nov 2018 17:24:09 EST ID:SO4UJmhV No.527672 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527538
I looked for ghosts when I was a kid and it could very well be why I have had visual hallucinations on larger doses of thc. I draw connections that aren't there and believe the craziest shit because of it. You're absolutely in saying "logic over everything". Lead me to stop thinking the idea is possible

>>527574
It was overzealous of me to jump to that conclusion about their name
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Isabella Shittingwater - Sun, 11 Nov 2018 16:48:33 EST ID:kaXN/tLq No.527682 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527672

It takes a long time bro. Get there one victory at a time. In order to dismantle incorrect beliefs, you must be able to face/admit/recognise you are wrong. This can briefly sting but would you rather be wrong and fix it or wrong but tell yourself you are right.

Depends on how deep you’ve gone. I realised that a lot of my schizophrenic style beliefs were a result of beliefs I held that were “leading” me to these ridiculous conclusions.

Hopefully you handle it dude.


FWB is my only friend.... by Martha Sisslechatch - Sat, 10 Nov 2018 14:58:16 EST ID:XHixRq/i No.527671 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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OK so I have a FWB who I have been seeing for a few months, and all in all, it's going great. The sex is awesome and we get on really well with almost zero conflict ever. Despite this we have our own separate lives and neither of us wants to be more than just friends. However, there's something that bothers me about it. I am a socially isolated sperg with severe social anxiety who lives with his parents and all of my friends have moved far away or completely abandoned me. As such, she is my only friend in the local area who I get to regularly see and talk to about life and stuff.

To be clear, I really absolutely do not want to be in a romantic relationship with this girl. I had an absolutely traumatic relationship before her and the idea of having that kind of pressure absolutely repulses me. I know it would not work, the fun would end, and the misery and arguments would start. She knows this too. However, because she is my only local friend, I can't help feeling somewhat attached to the "relationship". Not because I have deep romantic affection for her, but because she is the only person I get to regularly talk to other than my family and express how I'm doing and feeling about stuff with. Like you do with a mate. I just feel refreshed being able to voice my thoughts out loud with somebody instead of driving myself mad with all this inner dialogue.

So what I'm getting at is that sometimes I feel anxious about her going off me because of something I did/said and it coming to an abrupt end. I know that the whole point of FWB is that it's no pressure and you're not supposed to feel attached to the person you're fucking. Given this, is this "relationship" (using that term in the loosest possible sense) fundamentally flawed, or is there something I can do to help avoid this dilemma? Let me know what you think.
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Simon Crellercheg - Sun, 11 Nov 2018 10:10:23 EST ID:LQaVa7NA No.527677 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527671
Same here, 2 year-GF turned into FWB, I lost all of my friends due to depression and pushing them away..
I'm constantly checking fb/phone for messages from her and it's pretty annoying but I have zero other contacts and my parents are unavailable to talk to. My father is drunk and can't even cope with his own feelings, mother never really listens and when I try to tell her about my problems she starts going off how good she feels/how bad she felt when she was my age and how it's all getting better..but she just got pregnant twice and had no time to think about anything else. Now she just eats and drinks at night until both fall asleep infront of the tv..

We both need other people to relate to and speak to, because it's human nature to share problems/reflect on them while talking to others. Go out, work on your isolation and challenge it every day. Be brave and smile at people, get to know them and if nothing helps, get some help. Hope you#re from some country with free healthcare, I get 5 sessions for free in germany and I might be putting those to use soon.'
Also if you're not doing it already, force yourself to physical exercise every day: start with walking for an hour, just switch up the routes and then after a few weeks/months you can up the heartrate and go for a jog/lift some weights(proper form>weight!). Exercise reduces mental stress and reduces flight/fight response of the brain in difficult situations, allowing you to be more collected when going outside.

My problem might be taking care of itself since she fell in love with her roommate recently and we won't be hanging out a lot but that just means I'm going into full isolation in a bit and thats even scarier since I can't handle shit at the moment..
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Sophie Brinkincocke - Sun, 11 Nov 2018 18:21:26 EST ID:wVwbY1G3 No.527684 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527677
>My problem might be taking care of itself
Until this bit I thought it was a good post. Both of you have the same problem. The problem is you have 1 friend. The whole FWB feelings danger is a symptom not the problem itself. You need more friends.
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Betsy Bizzlespear - Sun, 11 Nov 2018 18:58:07 EST ID:Hu5948WJ No.527686 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I'd probably tell her that you value her friendship for a start.

But yeah get like a therapist or counselor or whatever or join a group to meet new peoples etc. No point staying isolated. It will kill you and you don't want to be dependent like you are now on one person. It really strains relationships.


Badboys by Phyllis Pittwater - Sat, 03 Nov 2018 21:50:45 EST ID:+Dxwg5ZQ No.527581 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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It sucks to that the only way to evoke real primal desire from a woman is to go toe to toe with death in some way. Soldiers get admiration. So do murderers, fighters, gangsters and even serial killers.

The capacity for violence isnt enough now. Now you can't evoke the Real from a woman without incapacitating another man yourself.

A man who's killed another man in his life will give off a distinct vibe that women will pick up on and flock too instantaneously.

The risk to living the badboy lifestyle is dangerous. You act like a badass and someone could clip you and you're dead.

You can only go so far being a good boy. Clean criminal record, good school, good job well dressed in shape, developing "game", is just putting a big ribbon on an empty box. The substance; the gift, is to be violent and savage.

Is it worth it to walk this path to get grills?
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Edward Bardhall - Fri, 09 Nov 2018 09:08:41 EST ID:+Dxwg5ZQ No.527660 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527659
>my being a good boy with 0 edge dried up my girlfriends pussy so she went for a rebel woah totally didn't see this coming

Welcome to female dualism 101

All conventional just b urself dating advice is a bunch of stallion bullshit


You're better off role-playing as the biblical king Solomon and having hundreds of concubines and wives and not having to worry about a single woman, especially in today's world
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Wesley Drebberford - Fri, 09 Nov 2018 10:45:28 EST ID:iJyiJg7k No.527661 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527660
someone isn't a jaded incel 4chins refugee at all...
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Edward Bardhall - Fri, 09 Nov 2018 11:06:16 EST ID:+Dxwg5ZQ No.527663 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527661

Call me any name under the sun you want, I've actually been the Other Guy multiple times in my life (as in the guy who choke fucked some dude's wife/giflfriend/mother [i like milfs sue me]) and I've seen plenty of shit from the other side to know that all the "incel rage" you like to poke fun at has credibility.

Not 100% but the nerd male rage is justified and the Chad theory does hold weight in reality.

But go on, disregard me, call me a liar and continue to tell people online to be yourself. You can have the last word. Enjoy.
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Charles Findlebury - Fri, 09 Nov 2018 22:55:15 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.527665 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527663

Yeah but the main issue I have with it is the amount of sweeping generalisations. It’s like oh hey let’s make everything fit this one cutesy narrative that’s totally self defeating and relies upon a lot of *jazz hands* vague logic.

Half this shit just sounds dumb. You should know this if you’ve really been “that guy”. Unless you’ve fallen into some neurotic rabbit hole, in which case it makes a lot of sense.
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Cyril Banningbury - Mon, 12 Nov 2018 13:58:03 EST ID:3A/9rSkO No.527704 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527663
>i use retarded circlejerk tropes
>i'm totally the bull guys not the stallion


Cleaning Advice? by Betsy Bardforth - Thu, 01 Nov 2018 08:27:12 EST ID:LrhqCU1z No.527533 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I swear to god this is a genuine problem ...

So i have this rucksack that I really like... I didn't use it for a while though, and I forgot that I had a bag of lemons in the rucksack. Anyway, for a few weeks, this bag of lemons had been thoroughly enjoying the dark and warm coniditions of my rucksack in the corner of my bedroom, and when I went to check it last week, 2 of the lemons had turned a muted, furry green colour, and when I reached inside my bag my hand emerged afterwards covered in a fine green dust. So naturally, I freaked out, put it in a plastic bag, and kept it in the corner. Then today I dumped all the contents in another plastic bag outside and threw out the contents, basically, and as I was doing so I could see the fine dust emerge as a sort of fume from the bag... I should've probably worn a mask or something... ANyway, now my favourite rucksack is sitting in a binliner, its inside completely coated in dust mould... my question is, have I inhaled the dust fumes and am now about to die? Also, is my bag beyond saving? Is there a way to reliably clean the mould spores out, or should I just throw this bag out? I'm pretty broke so I don't want to just rely on my work bag all the time if I need to carry more shit... Also, can my immune system handle the weeks of spores I have been breathing in as these lemons have been rotting in my room? It's a really nice bag btw. :(
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Reuben Mubbleman - Thu, 01 Nov 2018 19:15:56 EST ID:NJkLq9MW No.527546 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527541
time has passed. the poo has pooed. it was not the poo we thought, but it was the poo that the universe gave us. higher perspective of poos say that it could be no other way. but when we nurture the poo, water the poo, eat the right things for the poo, suddenly we find that the poo that is made is more than we could have hoped for. this is the poo that is the redemption poo; lo, all will know and all revere and in awe, the poo has grown into a mighty poo oak. most important of all, this poo oak from its beginnings was grown with love.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hYAQtEs2Img
replace all the necessary words with "poo" and "the poo"

you should poo in the bag and huff the poo enhanced spores

may you poo in peace
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Reuben Mubbleman - Thu, 01 Nov 2018 19:20:22 EST ID:NJkLq9MW No.527547 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>527546
as a parting gift, here is another poo document which will serve you especially well
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Simon Sungerwater - Sat, 03 Nov 2018 12:49:26 EST ID:LrhqCU1z No.527578 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>527547
OP here, I actually really appreciate all this poo literature, since I have a very troubled digestive system, so I have all the time in the world for this - the truth is, my rucksack is still sitting in a plastic bag, and since it has some leather panels, a nice lining etc I'm really not sure if it's machine washable. My farts smell absolutely vile, I think it's the pasta and bread I eat, and I've decided I don't want to poo into my rucksack. I just want a cleaning regime that'll work for me. I should probably handwash it in a basin with some detergent, but I don't want people to think I'm a fag. Guys I think what I need is some moral support
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George Bardstone - Wed, 07 Nov 2018 06:28:11 EST ID:jAv9QH/b No.527646 Ignore Report Quick Reply
-post that is irrelevant to poop but on topic of thread-

Try not to smoke for a bit, maybe a week. If you're concerned about your lungs, try not to bother them with hot smoky air.

As for the rucksack, toss that shit in the laundry with some bleach. What I recommend: pour detergent in the empty machine first, then take the bleach and literally just pour a cap-full in there, that's all you need. Then maybe put some white garments in first so the rucksack doesn't make direct bleach contact and get stained. Then toss the rucksack in and run the washing machine, try to use a rinse cycle that's about 5-10 mins longer than usual. That'll kill the mold.

For extra caution, once the rucksack has dried, store it in a freezer for two days. Mold n gone

I'm surprised no one has actually responded appropriately to this thread yet haha
Unless I just got seriously woooshed
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Frederick Wumbleput - Wed, 07 Nov 2018 20:04:52 EST ID:0aX0aAMP No.527653 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527646
Thank you so much, this is what I was looking for. I am a bit nervous about putting it in the washing machine... but it's time I took action. I have let this go on long enough. I hope I don't get cancer from using this bag


Cheating by Matilda Clayworth - Sun, 04 Nov 2018 00:41:48 EST ID:5AoDrYu2 No.527586 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I had an anonymous person contact me on Facebook about my wife cheating and immediately blocked me.
This is the second time since April something like this has happened.
So, I checked my wife’s Facebook and there is a message from her demanding to “delete this photo immediately” along with a deleted photo that she sent to them.
I clicked their profile link and she has that person blocked now.
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William Dartdale - Wed, 07 Nov 2018 05:42:48 EST ID:LQaVa7NA No.527645 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527586
"so I checked my wifes facebook" should be the first sign for yourself to reevaluate the relationship and how much you trust the person you want to spend your life with.

Get out of there asap or start talking to her so you two can develop some kind of trust in each other. Given that she cheated possibly twice already I'd be gone already but some people have bigger trust in others than I do..or chose to be blind to their intuition
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Jenny Dredgebury - Wed, 07 Nov 2018 07:58:36 EST ID:s2Dd0noZ No.527647 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527645
Depends what he means by "checked her facebook" if he means someone posted something on her wall and she asked it to be deleted then it's reasonable. If he logged into her account the relationship is fucked. That's not cool, and if you don't trust your other half enough to leave their account alone then that is a severely ill relationship. It may be because she's sketchy as fuck and distant and these aren't the only warning signs or it may be that actually OP is fucked up. But either way the trust isn't there and you either restore it or accept you can't and move on.
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Samuel Fashlock - Wed, 07 Nov 2018 10:17:33 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.527649 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527647

No rules in warfare other than your own self imposed ones.
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Betsy Bupperdutch - Wed, 07 Nov 2018 13:46:34 EST ID:4bb9WlSZ No.527650 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527586

>>527586

You're just being paranoid. She definitely isn't cheating at all, no reason to worry my man, this could be a simple cover up of a drunken photo that she finds embarrassing, and if your wife were cheating on you, what would this anonymous tipster gain by informing you. If it were a friend, they would contact you directly, no, this is no doubt some attempt at slander, or an attempt to break you up by a jealous ex. All the signs are there, the anonymity, the idea that she would even put any kind of picture on facebook that implicates her in infidelity, I mean why would she do such a thing. These sort of things happen on facebook, and if you put too much faith in facebook my man, it can make you paranoid.

Take it easy, and don't do any more probing on facebook, it's not healthy, stop this before it escalates and you get trapped by paranoia.
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Betsy Bupperdutch - Wed, 07 Nov 2018 13:48:04 EST ID:4bb9WlSZ No.527651 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527650

Seriously, if you take your relationship seriously, no more facebook checking and dirty underhanded spying, it's seriously unhealthy, and downright petty. You're better than this.


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