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Fuck dirka dirka Muhammad jihad by Sidney Minningbury - Wed, 11 Apr 2018 14:11:41 EST ID:wTWHKEjH No.523389 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Yeah so basically the government has me on a terrorist to watch list because of my stupid Internet banter and my dark humor I don't think it's really fair but it's actually causing me a lot of problems even though I stopped. How do I recover from this. Im open to suggestion.

I sort of one of the want to just pay my taxes and just mind my own business like I used to.
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Samuel Dondlepod - Thu, 12 Apr 2018 18:45:12 EST ID:3A/9rSkO No.523426 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Mental health watch lists doesn't real. The feds don't give a shit about your depresshun and they don't give a shit about your autism either unless you start petitioning them for $$$. Terrorist watch lists have the main purpose of policing the skies. It's not illegal to fly as a schizophrenic. It's not illegal to fly with antisocial personality disorder. So why would the feds care? All it would do is force an ugly expensive civil liberties lawsuit that could stand to dismantle the concept of watchlists in itself and they really don't want that.

You should be far, far, far more worried about what your insurance company learns about you.
Fuck Pevingham - Fri, 13 Apr 2018 15:12:06 EST ID:9DmUMIXr No.523438 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>you should be far, far, far more worried about what your insurance company learns about you.

I should try to get a Quote for life insurance see what happens.
Fuck Pevingham - Fri, 13 Apr 2018 15:12:06 EST ID:9DmUMIXr No.523439 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>you should be far, far, far more worried about what your insurance company learns about you.

I should try to get a Quote for life insurance see what happens.
Barnaby Soshmack - Sat, 14 Apr 2018 07:59:28 EST ID:76Fxhy4v No.523447 Ignore Report Quick Reply

stop with the fucking "self befriended" chicken soup shtick.
George Blatherbanks - Sat, 14 Apr 2018 16:59:22 EST ID:Bsv/gCpO No.523457 Ignore Report Quick Reply
What are you on about?
I should get a quote for life insurance.

what now by Martin Drirringhane - Fri, 13 Apr 2018 01:05:14 EST ID:4vnw1Jy2 No.523433 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I came to terms with my sexuality way too late in life. How I got where I'm at is a really convoluted story but at this point I'm 21 and the only "relationship" I've ever been in was with a really close friend who I spent an inordinate amount of time with. Looking back I can say I genuinely had feelings for him, but I was still in a weird place where I knew I wasn't straight but couldn't get myself to admit I was predominantly gay. I never even really saw it as a relationship but after coming out to a few people recently, everyone who I've described our situation to said we were a lot closer than friends usually are. I don't even know if he's gay, I'm almost certain he's at least bi but he's very deep in the closet and we'd probably stop being friends if I pushed it. Also I moved so I barely ever see him.

So QQing aside, my point is that I'm in a situation now where I'm finally comfortable with who I am (well my sexuality at least) but that didn't magically change anything like I had hoped. I never learned how to meet people, on top of the fact I'm painfully shy to begin with. I have 0 self-confidence and there's not a single picture of me that I like so meeting people in person or online seem equally daunting.

I don't even know what I expect to gain from posting this thread, I'm just at a loss.
Eugene Lightwell - Fri, 13 Apr 2018 08:22:54 EST ID:rRR1cAAP No.523436 Ignore Report Quick Reply
This flamboyant 22 yr old in a coffee shop, wearing makeup and short shorts, kept going on about how he was gay, about how his grandma didn't like it, about how he experimented and came to terms with it... it was fucking annoying and embarrassing for him.

By the time you hit 25 or so, you won't give a fuck. You'll move on with life and it'll just be another part of it like preferring flavored coffee or having an injured toe.

If it's messing you up so bad, try seeing a therapist. Talk to them. Try not to make it a big deal in your life, and try not to shove it down everyone's throat you talk to. It's only a big deal if you make it one.

Lastly, a lot of us here usually end up alone or miserable in a husk of a relationship anyways. So consider how does orientation even matter if in 6 years you're getting stoned alone, watching a caterpillar on the windowsill. Is who you fuck really the biggest problem you could have, when soon you might have crippling anxiety and depression with no friends to speak of?

Some stuff to consider OP. Also don't take my post too seriously, I guess what I'm trying to say is Bitch the fuck up.
Nell Segglehon - Fri, 13 Apr 2018 17:21:08 EST ID:3A/9rSkO No.523440 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>Lastly, a lot of us here usually end up alone or miserable in a husk of a relationship anyways

Why should we not question a society that's willing to sacrifice so many of itself in favor of the chosen few?
Wesley Tootfield - Sat, 14 Apr 2018 00:26:45 EST ID:qjFm9y6P No.523444 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Don't leave your choices to society then
Edward Dassleson - Sat, 14 Apr 2018 12:04:40 EST ID:uVyEpelP No.523453 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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21 is not too old to come out of the closet.

Late 30's maybe, as you've probably passed your sexual peak, but society right now seems to be shifting, 30 is the new 20 and all that and people have a tendency to settle down and have (or if homo, adopt) kids in their very late 30's / early 40's. Hell even on a biological level this is true: Women are having their menopauses later and later with each generation.

But 21!? Come on OP you're still a baby in terms of sexuality.

So don't worry. Plenty of time to put things up your ass.
Barnaby Soshmack - Sat, 14 Apr 2018 12:34:46 EST ID:76Fxhy4v No.523454 Ignore Report Quick Reply

no problem about those "burnt horse definables" so-so.

Wanting to be lonley? by 18 year old autist. - Mon, 09 Apr 2018 23:45:01 EST ID:VacgdclH No.523357 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So, perfect girl, right? She seems to have a mild interest in me. But, it literally doesn't feel right. I'm not really looking for advice, but I'm really confused. Like, on one hand, I always wanted to not die alone, but on the other hand, I feel like I HAVE to die alone, or else the natural order of the universe.
Pic is me and my dog.
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John Blodgewud - Thu, 12 Apr 2018 02:31:23 EST ID:EV2TWz5A No.523410 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OP’s username says “18 year old autist”
Jenny Hettingway - Thu, 12 Apr 2018 13:02:40 EST ID:q7NC3IuN No.523420 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You're barely literate but I agree on the picture. He looks 12.

His posts reeks of being really fucking young too. nb for 18 YO SENIOR BTW
weiner - Thu, 12 Apr 2018 13:06:46 EST ID:IQzX0qFr No.523422 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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18 year old autist. - Fri, 13 Apr 2018 18:33:36 EST ID:/A6SGSGI No.523441 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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I was 15 in that picture. Now I look like this.

Fucking army haircuts.
Fucking puberty.
Fucking shaving cream dicks.
John Wannerfield - Sat, 14 Apr 2018 04:39:57 EST ID:q7NC3IuN No.523446 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Okay, so why the teen wangst "natural order" bullshit?

Lets be honest the truth is you think that if you can tell yourself that you're supposed to die alone that you can just give up and not fail. It's a way people cope with failure "Oh no I didn't want that" when really they were just afraid of failure reflecting on them. Some food for though.

>Failure is inevitable, everyone fails, there's no shame in it.
>You cannot succeed if you do not try. If you do try you may probably fail but that's better odds.
>Everyone dies alone, try to have some fun in the mean time
>If she does reject you just be cool about it, if she makes it a big deal its on her and her problem not yours

My head's a mess by Edward Pipperden - Sat, 31 Mar 2018 11:27:13 EST ID:aUdigX5R No.523178 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I don't really want to do anything. Or at least I'm not sure whether I really want what I want, or whether I'm just setting a trap for myself.
Lately I've been spending all my time reading and training, studying and working (they're all sort of the same thing for me). I don't feel like drinking or smoking anymore, it just makes me less productive and I don't find any solace in it anymore. I also hang much less around with friends, unless it's for studying or training. I sort of don't see the point in it anymore, and also don't want to go out and drink and then be a useless fuck the entire next day. I've also gotten bored with tinder. I used to spend the whole day on that app, trying to find an ideal girl. Then I realized that even when I, eventually, after some time, matched with a cute interesting girl, I didn't even want to talk to her. Yesterday this cute girl that somewhat interests me invited me to watch her act at a play. I went, watched her, and left without even saying to her. I just didn't feel like talking to her, or playing like I liked her acting or what she did.

Now, what's holding me back? First off, I was in like, the best moment of my life last year, but got wrecked to pieces after the girl I was dating left from day to the next (partially my fault: I hinted that I didn't want any commitment. She took it way too seriously, got too desillussioned, and fell out of love). This was more than a year ago, but I still think of her everyday. I mean, I was probably fucked up before this happened, but this is still the manifestation of said issues. I don't know how to forget her. Even if it hurts less than last year, it's been over a year, and I haven't had any signifcant relationships since. I seem to not be able to like anyone else, always comparing everyone to a fictional ideal of what my former partner never was. And still, just forcing going out with someone to break free from said illussion isn't enough. I really don't feel like it. There was only one girl I had a nice time with and wanted to go out with, and she lived more than 2 hours away from my place, and wasn't really all that interested in me.
Then the…
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Charlotte Siddleman - Sun, 01 Apr 2018 19:13:34 EST ID:aUdigX5R No.523218 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Wow, thanks for such a long, dedicated post man. I don't know how to organize an answer so I'll just babble with everything going through my head right now. I think I need to chill a bit, and not force myself into going out with someone. I spent most of this weekend (it was a long holiday in my country) just reading in the library and studying. Although if I think of it thoroughly I actually did a lot of stuff. Nonetheless, no sex or women involved. And I had a great time. I don't know, I think I might just enjoy not having the pressure of having to go out with someone, and having to fuck someone. So long as my ex doesn't constantly intrude my train of thought I think it's doable.
As for the hobbies, it's a great advice. The problem is: first, I really don't have much time or energy left to do more stuff, I'm already way over my head with what I'm doing right now. Second, I usually incorporate everything I do to what I study or what I train. It's really difficult for me to just have something entirely separate. And if I do, I turn it into something serious, I absolutely have to get better at. Still I might have to go in that direction.
I probably will shoot myself eventually, sometimes it gets really hard to push through, or at least I've always kept that thought in the back of my mind, I really don't know what I'm doing, or why I'm doing it, other than that I somewhat enjoy it, and can't picture myself doing anything else. In any case, for the time being, I'd rather be alive, and that's good enough.
Lastly, I used to that math thing as well when I studied math hahaha. I do the memory thing now, but like I said, it makes it feel like a chore. It's hard, and I have to focus on not enjoying it. It just takes all the fun out of it.

Good luck on your tinder date man, I hope you have a good time with her.
Ernest Pellerfed - Mon, 02 Apr 2018 03:53:22 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.523222 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Your ex just fades with time. A lot of that is about asserting your authority over your own sense of happiness. Yes, you had a girl, now you do not - one can't exist without the other, so now I am whole again type attitude. No need to get with girls if you are too busy, just don't feel like you can't or are not capable.

You know your schedule and you know your interests. Arguably things like cooking, meditation and a pretty broad range of creative activities can be worked in efficiently and have a relatively good payoff/time ratio. Writing, drawing, music are the big 3 but there is a whole world of options suited to your skills. Even 30 minutes before bed builds up over time.

I understand why you say it, but killing yourself shouldn't be on the cards. Use that potential trajectory as encouragement to change yourself in the present. Empires are not built In a day. They also do not fall in a day either.

What you have right now, is an opportunity. This is the youngest you will ever be, take the time to build up and expand stable foundatoins that will help you throughout life.
Eugene Grimshaw - Wed, 11 Apr 2018 01:40:38 EST ID:mv6CynSU No.523379 Ignore Report Quick Reply
In terms of the PE, I'd recommend learning how to relax your sphincter and PC muscles. There's a lot of shit online about how you should do kegels or whatever, but I think the main thing is basically just relaxation. Jizzing is caused by contractions. You don't need stronger muscles to squeeze and stop from jizzing imo, you just gotta learn to control and relax these muscles on command. I bought a book on it and I've been working on it lately. Fucking girls is a lot more challenging and I haven't gotten to test it in the past few weeks, but fucking my fleshlight I'm pretty fucking sure I'm getting more and more control. Hopefully within a few weeks I should be able to keep that shit relaxed until I decide I wanna cum.
Fanny Lightson - Thu, 12 Apr 2018 23:29:53 EST ID:aUdigX5R No.523431 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Let me know how it went. Imma try these excercises out. Care to share the name/author for the book? I haven't found much info on this on the internet.
I may see a girl next weekend, I'll let you know if it goes well. Let me know if it had any effect for you. Also, I read you should be careful not to fart while doing reverse kegels lol.

>What you have right now, is an opportunity. This is the youngest you will ever be
God, that's so depressing.

Still, I feel putting everything on writing here helped me a bit.
Thanks a lot.
Nathaniel Wamblemat - Fri, 13 Apr 2018 00:36:49 EST ID:mv6CynSU No.523432 Ignore Report Quick Reply

"Ejaculation freedom" by Dan Becket. So far feels like I've made a lot of progress. Not sure when the next time I'll get laid is, though. Could be soon if I stop acting like a pussy but I've been in a rut for a few weeks so I guess we'll see if this party on Fri pans out. The crux of it is being aware of your muscle tension in the PC muscles and sphincter, and relaxing them. You can feel them tense up when you get close to jizzing. So basically build up more and more stimulation and practice relaxing them entirely.

The book has lots more info though obviously. And specific exercises etc.

Accused of rape I didn’t commif by John Lightbury - Sun, 01 Apr 2018 09:40:05 EST ID:dNNf+dHN No.523213 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>live in apartment, become friends with neighbors(male and female)take interest in their friend
>the female tells me I should date her friend
>I move a few blocks away
>they all come to see my new apartment
>we drink some beers, my neighbors get pretty fucked up off some hard booze that I don’t drink and leave, their friend leaves too
>”I’m comin back in a bit to tuck you in”
>she comes back 20 mins later, we talk for a few hours, end up having sex
>she’s riding me, rubbing my dick, telling me she knew she was gonna fuck me etc
>we go smoke a cig after and she asks if I want to date her
>I say not really but I’ll take her to dinner next weekend
>”I don’t normally do hoe shit”
>she leaves
>10 mins later her friend, my old neighbor, is calling me screaming at me calling me a rapist saying she’s gonna shove my dick up my spine

What do? I feel so humiliated, degraded, and disgusted. I can’t believe I actually liked this girl. Should be noted the girl I had sex with wasn’t even drinking.
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Hugh Nucklefuck - Sat, 07 Apr 2018 05:49:03 EST ID:XHfi7qC0 No.523307 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>”I don’t normally do hoe shit"

ahhahahahahahahaha oh god OP that is hilarity.
Jenny Heffingtere - Sun, 08 Apr 2018 06:23:09 EST ID:C+6NY20y No.523326 Ignore Report Quick Reply

blowjobber's remorse
Graham Doshcheg - Sun, 08 Apr 2018 13:39:49 EST ID:UHqFjXOq No.523332 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Girls jimmies got rustled hard. Bahahahaha!!
Caroline Sinkinwadging - Tue, 10 Apr 2018 20:47:10 EST ID:KdXpD9bZ No.523377 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OP this is terrifying shit. Something kind of like this happened to me once, but luckily nothing came of it. This girl told me I could sleep at her house, and long story short we're in her bed kissing, and she grabs a condom, puts it on, and rides me into the sunset. When we broke up, she tried to tell me that I raped her! I was freaked out by the suggestion, and said, "but you put a condom on my dick and jumped on top of me." I told her that, if anything, she raped me.
Eugene Grimshaw - Wed, 11 Apr 2018 02:00:25 EST ID:mv6CynSU No.523382 Ignore Report Quick Reply

What do you mean "when we broke up?" How do you break up. Why do the guys here tell girls they've just fucked they don't want it to be serious right after sex? That's probably why they have intense emotional reactions like this, you're essentially making them feel like it wasn't real. There are a good deal of girls, even thots, who won't really fuck a guy until they feel emotionally engaged with the guy. You're getting them emotionally engaged, then fucking them, then being like, oh by the way it doesn't mean anything. If it doesn't mean anything, you don't say that right after fucking them in bed lmao.

Not justifying it, but this is possibly where some of these accusations come from. Just don't say anything instead and maybe a few days later if you must, break it off with them.

Going for the kiss by Walter Gocklecheck - Mon, 26 Mar 2018 22:32:17 EST ID:mv6CynSU No.523082 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I don't know why, but going for the kiss on dates is pretty hard for me. Like I usually don't do it, which blows opportunities. I'm not a virgin, I've had sex a bunch of times. I usually bust too soon unless I've been drinking, but despite my successes, I still get worked up and am afraid to go for the kiss. Actual dating is therefore somewhat hard for me. I think maybe it's a fear of being a bad kisser, which I have no idea if that's the case or not.

One of the girls I slept with I think may have been a "bad kisser" whatever the fuck that means. She used a metric fuckton of tongue. I didn't mind, but it didn't seem that normal, I guess? Anyway, any advice on sacking up and going for it? I guess the best time to go for it is when we're comfortable, she's maybe rubbing my arm or touching my leg, etc, but I just kinda... don't. I once asked a girl if she wanted to go fuck before we even kissed. She said no, then we kept talking a little, she leaned in a bit and seemed like she might want to kiss, but it was in front of a bunch of people and I didn't do it. She left. Does anyone have experience kissing in front of lots of people? Is that normal? Like at bars and shit? I don't see it that often in the bars here. A few times near closing time, but usually not.

This has been an annoyingly persistent problem and it's sorta starting to make me too anxious to even date. Lots of girls have told me they don't like some guy because he wasn't aggressive enough or was too nice. I don't want to be that guy, but I think I am for now.
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Frederick Cribberfield - Tue, 27 Mar 2018 22:16:23 EST ID:hjdKGFK5 No.523110 Ignore Report Quick Reply
fuck me too
this girl was touchy as fuck and hinting hard at making out last friday and i didn't do shit! pretty sure i blew it
why why why
John Briblinglatch - Thu, 29 Mar 2018 20:16:34 EST ID:C+6NY20y No.523147 Ignore Report Quick Reply
teasing aside, i will share one of my ultimate moves. first you go in for a hug. this is the first test. both of you should be happy to hold the hug longer than normal. if she holds on for a bit, then you make the next move. slowly walk/shuffle to the nearest seat and sit down. sit her on your lap, facing you. wrap her legs behind you. if you don't start making out automatically, one or both of you is a homosexual.
Walter Hivingfield - Thu, 29 Mar 2018 22:24:10 EST ID:9TiDIgvM No.523152 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Yeah mate I have trouble with it too. I find that my behaviour, like the way I attract girls, is kind of by affecting a sort of warm and aloof persona that I notice does bring them in. But once we're there I sort of keep people interested with my personality way more than with my body language or my "sexuality" or anything like that, it becomes close to platonic even but I have never felt strictly cakefarted either. The lean can seem like a massive chasm, despite the fact that I'm certainly no virgin either (maybe different because most sex has been in the confines of longer relationships).

Anyway I have found success with this method here >>523101, it's not perfect because I don't think any girl is fantasising about it happening that way, but at least you can avoid the actual physical lunge.
Nicholas Dottingterk - Fri, 30 Mar 2018 15:44:57 EST ID:xQa2ut0P No.523163 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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You can probably afford to trust your instincts more. Generally if you've been cuddling for a while/started subtly caressing each other, you can do the prolonged eye contact thing and just go for it. If they don't want to you can always just laugh it off and apologise, these things happen and most people understand that hey, you just wanted a kiss and it didn't work out, but whatever. Also don't do that thing where you just dart in to get it, it's a dance and both people have to know what's going on.

Someone once said, you're only as good a kisser as the person you're kissing. Focus on the lips first and then follow each other's lead.
Eugene Grimshaw - Wed, 11 Apr 2018 01:54:24 EST ID:mv6CynSU No.523381 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Thanks mate, sounds about right. Now if only I can get used to asking girls out again lmao. Fell off that wagon after I got back from a trip overseas. I was really excited to get back because I slept with so many girls in Europe and felt like I was a whole new man. Feels like I'm being pushed back into my old ways back here, though. Ugh. Best keep on movin forward. Party this Friday, one of the girls that's been given me eyes last few months might be there. Guess we'll see.

Good first date, no text back by Matilda Wusslefield - Tue, 10 Apr 2018 14:42:49 EST ID:l+ZaJJ3r No.523370 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So I broke up with my long term girlfriend back in February and I've started dating around a bit. Most have been pretty shitty, but I went on one Thursday with some girl I met on Tinder. We had things in common but the conversation itself wasn't particularly engaging. We talked about what we were looking for, she wanted to date, I was looking to be casual and see how things developed. I was pleasantly surprised at how fun she was to be around. She was super talkative and energetic and we could make each other laugh.

We went for dinner and then drinks. We hopped a couple bars before heading back to her car to hang out. We talked about being open to casual sex and whatnot.

We made out for an extended period of time, fooled around a little, and agreed to meet up again to hang out and have sex, which would happen next week.

I messaged her the next day and told her I had fun and want to do it again. No response. She talked about being a notoriously bad texter and she had gone long periods without messaging me when we were on the app. I know it's her phone number because she texted me about the bar we were going to.

She was super into me when we were hanging out, at least from what I could tell. Being super wet and implying being around me made her horny seem to be two good indicators for that.

Any idea what might've happened? Not gonna text me until we're about to meet up? Thots being thots? Ridiculously good liar? Died in a horrific accident?
Graham Hattingstock - Tue, 10 Apr 2018 14:46:23 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.523371 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Meh, generally i let the female take the lead for texting. If they are responsive, i am responsive. If they are taking days, i take days.

Chances are, she is just a shitty texted who plays it slow.
Edward Beckledale - Tue, 10 Apr 2018 20:00:54 EST ID:hjdKGFK5 No.523373 Ignore Report Quick Reply
she wanted to fuck
ya blew it
Martha Cinningcocke - Tue, 10 Apr 2018 20:17:05 EST ID:l+ZaJJ3r No.523375 Ignore Report Quick Reply
She lives at home and in another town. I had suggested it and she said fucking at her parents' house sounded like a nightmare. I told her she could come over to my new apartment when I move in and she said she wanted to.
Caroline Sinkinwadging - Tue, 10 Apr 2018 20:36:40 EST ID:KdXpD9bZ No.523376 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Hit her up when you get your new apartment.
Eugene Grimshaw - Wed, 11 Apr 2018 01:46:18 EST ID:mv6CynSU No.523380 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Personally I'd try to keep dating others, and text her like a week or maybe 2 after this text. Usually if someone doesn't respond it's weak to keep trying. Maybe try to hit her up one more time and if not then fuck it. Honestly, there's no way of knowing what happened. Maybe an ex came back into the picture, or she was just out of a relationship and isn't sure what she wants, or she met someone else, or... No use in dissecting it. Keep moving, if she responds, cool, if not, sucks but oh well.

women by Edward Greenbanks - Sat, 31 Mar 2018 20:37:58 EST ID:Mse4atZS No.523194 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I was casually dating this girl for several weeks now, seeing each other every weekend, plus in classes M/W/F. We made out 2 weeks ago, first time we did anything physical. Then we kissed that Monday when she gave me a ride home after class. Anyway, we haven't really had an opportunity to be alone since, but we had a coffee date today and I asked after if I could kiss her again and she said she wasn't sure. Why would she change her mind like that?

I mean, I guess I can still be hopeful right? It didn't sound final, although that could mean anything. What should I do? I plan to be casual about it and let things settle, hoping they settle where they had been ever so briefly. I feel anxious about it, can't stop thinking about her, not sad, but a little uncomfortable. She's beautiful and intelligent and well-spoken and funny and well-dressed. Should I tell her all of this? I don't know if she wants to hear that though. Is she feeling pressured and more pressure is bad? I guess I have a much better view of the situation than you all, but I don't know what to do.

Even if they don't, I suppose it would be nice to be her friend, we have a blast and a lot in common and I don't have a lot of friends tbh. I just want it to work out /qq/, that's all
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Hannah Dippercocke - Sun, 08 Apr 2018 07:18:25 EST ID:P4Ap2ioe No.523327 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I'll bite. 100% true though unbelievable- I've had a 4some with 3 women before.

I just wanted to point out the logical inconsistency of your argument and advise you to kill yourself, Anakin. Ejaculate on your own mother instead of spirting on mine.
Thomas Ginderman - Sun, 08 Apr 2018 11:34:29 EST ID:LnIoIKfI No.523328 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Actually if you read my post it says I get laid but they don't stick around. But you seem to have trouble comprehending a lot of things. You ought to leave.
Graham Doshcheg - Sun, 08 Apr 2018 13:29:47 EST ID:UHqFjXOq No.523330 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Ok OP.... why the fuck would you ask this girl permission if you can make out with her? Now because of that she probably looks at you as someone with no balls. Women want a MAN, not a little beta faggot.
Fucking Goodville - Sun, 08 Apr 2018 17:12:20 EST ID:3A/9rSkO No.523340 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OP is a spineless, clueless autist.

>makes star wars references
>thinks he can spin this one

Alice Funkinput - Mon, 09 Apr 2018 15:47:32 EST ID:o/mRPhYl No.523352 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I'm bad with women but when she said she wasn't sure you should have kissed her and asked her if you needed to ask for forgiveness. If she gave another "I'm not sure" answer you should have just started making out with her in public.

The only "no" is a stern "NO" implicating rape/assault.

Wtf is wrong with me. by Thomas Pimmleson - Sun, 08 Apr 2018 21:59:23 EST ID:LOpLA15l No.523342 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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This is the first time I've ever said any of this . I'm about to tell the truth for the first time. So my whole life I've never have problem getting girls. I'm not a bad looking guy. I've never had a gay thought before in my life. And then one day after I smoked a bunch of PCP with a stripper I just randomly went on grinder and picked up some think who blew me and I blew him and he nuttted all.over my arm and took me home and I showered and went to work like nothing happened. Months go by, I get a girlfriend who was a model. She was so out of my league, but idk she was with me. We had amaZign sex,, like she has all the same fetishes as me and it was super hot. But then I went home and ordered another think on Grindr the next day. Then, a year later, I called this dude over and I fucked him in his ass and he left. And I was left with nothing but 20$, a popper, and a sense of shame and embarrassment and confusion.... The very thought of DATING a man makes me sick, but sometimes, I just wanna fuck and Chuck. Idk. I never felt any emotional connection with a dude romantically. The idea actually grosses me out 90% of the time. But just about every 6 or so months I get these urges, I no longer use Grindr, if I get those feelinfs j just watch porn now. Wrf is wrong guys??? What am I?

Also I have MPD (multiple personality disorder)

Pic related, it's my model exes sexy legs and feet
Samuel Blummlegold - Mon, 09 Apr 2018 08:12:31 EST ID:tDrg6ECO No.523347 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Nothing to get too caught up about man, you're just a bit of a deviant.
Alice Funkinput - Mon, 09 Apr 2018 15:41:25 EST ID:o/mRPhYl No.523351 Ignore Report Quick Reply
It is biologically incorrect to not want to mate with a woman.

It's up to you if you want to fuck a dude.

There is only shame in it if you let there be shame in it.

To answer your question "WTF is wrong with me?". Your thinking
David Fimmlehood - Tue, 10 Apr 2018 01:56:04 EST ID:3A/9rSkO No.523365 Ignore Report Quick Reply
biological correctness isn't a thing, you just love to poke your nose in noise and declare it's ordered.

humans pretending to be God make me laugh every single time

Generalized anxiety disorder by Charles Creckleforth - Wed, 28 Mar 2018 05:04:09 EST ID:qOMObJz1 No.523114 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Is this the right board for it? I would like a thread to discuss this terrible disorder and all of its implications.
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Fucking Blammlewater - Mon, 02 Apr 2018 09:36:03 EST ID:J6KyYR1G No.523230 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Stop drinking anything with caffeine in it. That helped me immensely being on 0 caffeine . I also started micro-dosing with an oil pen to get the tiniest buzz possible and it helped even more with feeling no anxiety
Angus Chonkinsodge - Mon, 02 Apr 2018 12:10:46 EST ID:CFSPhP33 No.523231 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Fuck anxiety, I went from daily panic attacks and crippling chest pain to living worry-free and HAPPY.

Relax. Control your breathing. Identify what makes you anxious and take steps towards changing it. It takes time - don't be afraid to seek help, medication can be a night/day difference.

Hang in there and don't forget to take care of yourself. Better days will come.
Ernest Pellerfed - Mon, 02 Apr 2018 17:43:25 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.523236 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Can co sign the no caffeine ever.

CBD oil is nice.
Cornelius Guttingstark - Mon, 02 Apr 2018 22:49:47 EST ID:KL9nuqvR No.523241 Ignore Report Quick Reply
200mg microdose mushrooms 2 or 3x a week has been the only supplement ive ever "felt" anything from, even if its placebo. Just the tiniest change in thoughts can help you get the ball rolling and start creating again. Its all about getting the ball rolling and having things in your life that promote good thoughts which make you create more good things that make more good thoughts. If you are sitting around all day, just the tiniest bit of discipline will help so much and you will notice that more than anything else you can do. gl bro nb
Hamilton Crandersad - Mon, 09 Apr 2018 04:31:42 EST ID:qOMObJz1 No.523345 Ignore Report Quick Reply

This is good advice thanks. I've started using it. I've started whipping my mind back into shape when it gives me shit.

No direction and stuck in my own thoughts by Caroline Briddlehall - Sat, 07 Apr 2018 08:36:36 EST ID:kTdx4SPb No.523309 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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This may sound unbearably cliche but I'm 23 and living in the UK with absolutely no dreams, goals, ambition, motivation or direction. I'm lost in my own maze and I've been circling my mind continuously and finding no real source of where I need to go or be. I feel trapped in myself.

I think I put too much pressure on myself to achieve. I used to be depressed af and eventually after being so tired of feeling actively down all the time I would suppress those emotions and managed to somehow numb not only the negative feelings but all feelings, unless they're really intense I don't seem to feel much towards it which has also killed my drive, passion and motivation. I want it back.

I need to find my right career path and have no idea how to do so. I want success, I want happiness, I want something to be proud of. I work in a small office and do the same job day in day out (customer service), I've had minor opportunities to prove myself there but there is very little room for progression.

Does anybody have any advice about how I can take the first step into the right direction?
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Hamilton Worthinglock - Sat, 07 Apr 2018 19:39:16 EST ID:Ebi3WD1U No.523320 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I lucked into my career but there's clues and was always clues that I ignored until I realised I'd got into what I wanted to do by accident, but I can see the clues going back for a decade.

What are you good at and what do you enjoy about your job? Find a career path that focuses on those. Don't be afraid to start at the bottom. If you hate it try something else. 23 is young. Customer service gives you a great grounding for a lot of entry level shit. In a small office you've probably picked up little responsibilities outside what is strictly your role and that's good. It'll help you reach.

Other option, if you think what you're doing is something you could do forever IF you can progress then ask your manager at the small office for chances to progress. If that doesn't exist you need to take a sidestep before you can go up.

Break this down into steps. So if need be do it here. What do you like about your job? what are you good at? That's step one.

What careers do these match? Ask people in those careers. If you don't know anyone, asking on line is fine but don't rely on one source because it's easy to lie on line. Look at what examples of those jobs need. Find out what the day to day is. Look at what progression is available.

When you've found one or more good matches look at applying. Look at what the entry level is, there's always a zero skill basic job even if it's basically just admin with a bit of support of the people doing what you want to do and studying something in your own time. Get in that.
Jack Fibblewater - Sat, 07 Apr 2018 23:27:31 EST ID:IaTqRtaT No.523323 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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On a serious note, it's nice to know all the way across the world there are people with similar problems. My friend has a similar issue. As the years have come and gone, I've only seen him go from bad to worse mentally.

It's hard to offer advice, but looking at you as if you were that similar friend I have, I truly feel improvement would gradually come to him, if only he persisted in getting out of his comfort zone every day. Push yourself. Even if it means weird shit like talking to a stranger for no reason or going to a weird restaurant alone.

Hell with my friend sometimes I even think if he'd force himself to go to the bar alone or something he'd see improvement. Get outside of your damn head, chicken wuss.
Cyril Brorrydeck - Sun, 08 Apr 2018 03:26:37 EST ID:Vp5tmuIq No.523325 Ignore Report Quick Reply
i don't know how you can post on a chan from the UK without the fear of being arrested within 48 hours
Archie Clayford - Mon, 09 Apr 2018 01:22:11 EST ID:fyNSW+7M No.523344 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Just have to wait it out till the revolution and take up arms with the resistance. You aren't going to find true meaning in a capitalist society it's all work>eat>fuck. I mean most people find that's enough meaning for them, but for everyone else who doesn't you're deemed as someone with a mental illness and need to be medicated for the depression living in a meaningless society causes.

You can try living on the fringe and becoming a starving artist or a monk or something. I'm kind of the same, I've accepted depression is the result of seeing that we're living in a consumerist box and all the majority of the population cares about are the latest smartphones or hooking up on tinder. I like fucking and my smartphone too and doing drugs as much as the next person but it's a meaningless existence and I can't erase that notion from my mind. Maybe it will come to you in time what and you'll find a path out of the box.
Samuel Blummlegold - Mon, 09 Apr 2018 07:19:10 EST ID:tDrg6ECO No.523346 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I was in a somewhat similar situation back in the UK and then I got a job teaching English in China.
You could do something like that pretty easily dude. Sounds hard but they are desperate for people and it's a fun job to do.

Meeting Folks / OKC by Clara Finkinchud - Sun, 08 Apr 2018 12:29:07 EST ID:1hld1BK+ No.523329 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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My line of work has little oppurtinity of meeting anyone near my age of mid 20s. Is it ever worth it to buy the okc membership?

There was a bar I enjoyed going to, there was sometimes a lady available - but if I took a few months break, I would see her again with an engagement ring on her finger.

It seems like the best way to meet people is to make friends with somebody, and friend their friends etc down the line. It seems like a dreadful process, with hints of deception and betrayal sprinkled around all edges
Samuel Claystock - Sun, 08 Apr 2018 13:36:02 EST ID:vb1j5VTF No.523331 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Making friends with women with the goal that you might date them is only deceptive if you don't want to be their friend otherwise. Why would you date someone you couldn't be friends with. You're in your mid 20s so you should be able to handle rejection by now. Just don't spend ages in limerence before making a move so it's not a big deal. Its only dreadful if you approach it in a dreadful manner.

Can't really advise on the other lines so much.
Graham Shakeway - Sun, 08 Apr 2018 20:47:36 EST ID:IaTqRtaT No.523341 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Oklahoma City is an alright place to meet people. Not worth going out of your way for. Brick town is neat if you have some money and are ok with chatting it up with strangers. In general younger Okies are bad at socializing with strangers and the older ones are way too desperate to make friends quick.

The farmers market has cool raves every now and then, a little commercial and I'm always sketched out parking at the goodwill center nearby. Best thing to do is go to a concert and make friends there, get there late and you'll wait in line with people where you are in a social setting. There's always an after party and that's your ticket to friendship town.

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