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ANGRY THREAD by Sophie Bardford - Sat, 03 Feb 2018 17:44:55 EST ID:QLlNYiAG No.521952 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Lydia Hovingshaw - Wed, 07 Feb 2018 04:23:14 EST ID:QLlNYiAG No.522008 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>junkies don't get mad at junkies
have you ever met junkies? They do nothing but fight and back stab one another
Molly Breckleville - Wed, 07 Feb 2018 12:20:45 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522009 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I mean you don't get mad at a yellow duck for being yellow if you are a yellow duck yourself. Junkie example was too general to illustrate the point.
Barnaby Dartstock - Thu, 08 Feb 2018 04:09:56 EST ID:nWVWbjAg No.522015 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Seriously though, you really cant trust anyone these days. I just lost a sister, a worthless one no doubt but i just hate my luck in life
Jack Sangergold - Thu, 08 Feb 2018 09:17:07 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522016 Ignore Report Quick Reply
amor fati
Oliver Honeyridge - Fri, 09 Feb 2018 16:10:47 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.522031 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Yeah you do. You internalize all of the external world's hatred and project it onto members of your own.

Junkies get mad at junkies, degenerates get mad at degenerates, minorities get mad at minorities. All attempting to create totems of feces from their wretched state.

Buy lots of Kratom or quit it? by Phineas Foggleladge - Tue, 06 Feb 2018 20:23:26 EST ID:IaTqRtaT No.522001 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Well folks I’ve been using kratom for about half a year now daily to deal with what began as constant nausea and stomach aches. Doctors said they think it’s stress related because everything checks out physically but not much I can do about my life being less stressful, I mean it’s pretty chill maybe I just have subconscious anxiety.

Anyways, I’m seeing that some shops are carrying less and less, and there’s news the FDA is back on their witch-hunt for it. Should I buy a lot of it and slowly taper off, hoping my stomach issues are gone? Or should I just quit now so I don’t have to worry about it?

Idk, my problems I’m treating might be gone I haven’t noticed anything for like two months now but i do take about 5g a day of the wonderful bitter powder.
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Graham Drucklechere - Wed, 07 Feb 2018 23:27:18 EST ID:VfdAO0Sb No.522014 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Don't have any answers for you OP, would suggest checking /OPI/ if you haven't already.
Walter Mirrystock - Thu, 08 Feb 2018 22:42:26 EST ID:Ki1qQY1h No.522024 Ignore Report Quick Reply
suicide is the answer
Hannah Fombleston - Thu, 08 Feb 2018 23:07:10 EST ID:D/kqCC9R No.522025 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Why haven't you done it then?
Charles Pockstock - Fri, 09 Feb 2018 04:20:14 EST ID:NCapruGh No.522026 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I reccomend taking a dose of Jordan Peterson and cleaning your room, just to get the ball rolling.
Fucking Fuckingworth - Fri, 09 Feb 2018 12:59:20 EST ID:IaTqRtaT No.522028 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Thanks man. I decided to do this and am trying CBD. As a sort of control I went without kratom for two days and the withdrawal was about as bad as caffeine. Felt groggy and had some trouble focusing.

Today is the first day of CBD and idk I think the kratom withdrawals are still hitting but feels better than the previous days.

Neighbor girl by Shitting Fishchidging - Sun, 28 Jan 2018 05:22:51 EST ID:oOQyCzbT No.521799 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>live in basement under business
>super hot ass neighbor
>talk to her today
>"yea my boyfriends outta town for work, you should bring some beers over
>go to bar across the street to see friends shitty band
>stop at her house beforehand to give her incense cuz she asked if i had any, gave her my number
>Got drunk, ditched show walked back and knocked on door. no answer.
>she knocks on my door 5 seconds later, tells me to come over
>has some pregnant chick over
>doesnt wanna drink because friends pregnant, ends up drinking a beer at some point
>smoke like 3 blunts with preg trash friend
>the neighbor girl is laughing at all my jokes the entire time, i pass most shit tests.
>She says shes going to bed, asks me to leave. I ask for snapchat and she gives it but hasnt added me back.

I wanna pound this girls brains out. whats the next step. Should mention that throughout the night she kept mentioning "problems with boyfriend" but whenever i asked what was happening she said it was personal and shut up.
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Hedda Chullymudging - Sat, 03 Feb 2018 14:18:36 EST ID:TNGxHAKH No.521951 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>Women throw themselves at men who aren't shitheads.

But his advice if actually sound.
Jenny Bubberwot - Mon, 05 Feb 2018 22:13:09 EST ID:uiJIIsiL No.521993 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I agree you should go for it. If she does want to fuck you then you're going to have to wait until an opportunity when you have privacy so she can act on her desire.

The other possibility is that she just wanted to feel desirable and validated

Go for it if you want or of you think you can't resist but accept the possibility of facing the consequences of getting caught.

But definitely don't accept a position of just her friend, and by that I mean don't contact her if she isn't into you, leave. No friendship.
Jenny Bubberwot - Mon, 05 Feb 2018 22:13:09 EST ID:uiJIIsiL No.521994 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I agree you should go for it. If she does want to fuck you then you're going to have to wait until an opportunity when you have privacy so she can act on her desire.

The other possibility is that she just wanted to feel desirable and validated

Go for it if you want or of you think you can't resist but accept the possibility of facing the consequences of getting caught.

But definitely don't accept a position of just her friend, and by that I mean don't contact her if she isn't into you, leave. No friendship.
Shit Dablingbore - Wed, 07 Feb 2018 14:50:06 EST ID:gHR3/qJO No.522011 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>smoke like 3 blunts with preg trash friend
>She says shes going to bed, asks me to leave. I ask for snapchat and she gives it but hasnt added me back.
>I wanna pound this girls brains out. whats the next step.

Move on my friend.
Priscilla Parrywater - Thu, 08 Feb 2018 14:01:30 EST ID:bwDBYADy No.522020 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Dude you are fucking creepy haha. Where did you even get a computer?

overthinking shit about the office twat by Charles Lightlock - Sun, 04 Feb 2018 08:06:35 EST ID:lnO9d30e No.521961 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Some people will claim to be open with you and want to talk of stuff that may be bothering them or you, in some way or another, and they'll do this under the pretense of "cleaning" it out with you. Like, something that is related to your friendship or work relationship.
In the end you get half a word in and you're scrambled for a conversation that is more about the other person talking about what and how things are then whatever it is that you're thinking. You will give a full effort to listen to that person but that person will only be half-assed through whatever it is you're saying. And when you are finally just about to have some half say into it but the conversation is off now, i mean your little bits, hardly made a point without being constantly interrupted, but the other person feels realized and that everything is done and over, and this person is bored and off to whatever.

And if you're that person, a big fuck you, you self-serving little shit, dragging people around a mudslide of thoughts that were closed off for a reason, so you can feel like you're an """open""" and """approachable""" person. Fuck you for making people like me having to second guess what i would believe to be kindness for bullshit. You don't give a single fuck about anything but your side of things or any claims for honesty, and what is infuriating is not only you -will- believe you are doing us both a favor, idiots like me will believe you too.
fuck you for wasting my time to the point I am still thinking about it.

I just wish I could've known.
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Wesley Lightfield - Mon, 05 Feb 2018 18:33:34 EST ID:COAX7aNZ No.521990 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You're obsessed with being pushed around but only a truly insecure person feels weak for sometimes letting go. Not being a bitch isn't about standing up and getting angry about every single thing but actually looking at a problem and saying "is this worth fighting? Or does it matter?". The fact you're afraid of being a bitch rather than just happy to be who you are and do what makes sense to you is another large part of your problem.

You have to stop getting upset that you're not always on top. The world's most powerful man (maybe) can't even hide is impotence and he's alpha dude bro as they come. He can't even get a boner for his daughter any more. It's just about knowing when to draw the line and when to let it go. It's also about knowing that people will let you do your thing sometimes. I'm quite happy to defer to people a lot. I'm not a confident or pushy or assertive person but no one would call me a bitch and if they did they know I'd just think they were a fuckwit. And that's the thing, I'm not a bitch because I say so. If you're in charge it's because I'm confident in you but also in my own judgment that you're best handling shit. but I'm not afraid to say "yeah I got this".

Anyway it's not something you can magically "get" from advice on the internet. The best you can hope for from this thread is you try some stuff and eventually the stuff people said will clock.

I will say try being more positive though. You actually reacted the right way by not making a scene. You also have to realise she was some drunk girl. You've made this big deal over nothing. You've not thought how she saw it. Hell she cared enough to talk. Maybe she didn't like you but she felt something, you weren't just beneath her, she couldn't just walk way.
Martha Turveystock - Tue, 06 Feb 2018 16:48:57 EST ID:IYQ19BSQ No.521998 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Honestly, the sad thing is, I couldn't have it from her.
Yeah, i mean i'm never happy to be pushed, played, or whatever it was, but, it's just worse when it's from her.

>The best you can hope for from this thread is you try some stuff and eventually the stuff people said will clock.
I know waht you mean. trust me I do. I know the diference between knowing and realizing and these things happen in my life sometimes and I can hear all of what you said but when its under my skin, it's like no reason gets there... right? so here i wait...for the clocking process I guess.

>I will say try being more positive though
Can't say I know how to.
By doing positive actions i presume. I don't know how to do that. Like I'm mostly just...negative I think.
Molly Breckleville - Tue, 06 Feb 2018 19:53:22 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522000 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>Like I'm mostly just...negative I think.
John Blammledore - Wed, 07 Feb 2018 02:09:05 EST ID:TsMfXxRv No.522006 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Well, maybe i'm being dramatic :)

Ebenezer Pockgold - Wed, 07 Feb 2018 18:07:50 EST ID:COAX7aNZ No.522012 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I guess "try being positive" isn't much use. Just focus on the things you can do, the things you can influence and the options open to you. When things go wrong look at what you can salvage and what you can learn. Once you have those, or if there is neither of those then move on to something you can influence. You will find that positive just sort of turns up after a while.

Panel Interview Tomorrow by Ian Sicklecocke - Mon, 05 Feb 2018 02:26:56 EST ID:loFqoohq No.521981 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Any tips for performing well in the interview?

I just finished reviewing my flashcards of potential interview questions and answers. I have my clothes set aside and ready, I'm bout to get some nice good sleep so the information I went over today is archived into long term memory. I just want any extra tips anyone is willing to drop in order to achieve success. Also you should know this is my second interview ever. My last was 9 years ago working for burger king. This is for a government position that i'm well qualified for.

Thanks guys i'm nervous and excited to get this done.
Ian Sicklecocke - Mon, 05 Feb 2018 10:18:30 EST ID:loFqoohq No.521983 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Well fuck guys the skellyten told me errything i needah know
Graham Funderdan - Tue, 06 Feb 2018 14:38:39 EST ID:COAX7aNZ No.521997 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Bit late now, but read the job description, the person they want and skills to demonstrate and make sure you remember that when answering their questions. You're there to prove you're the guy they're after. They have described this person for you already.
Edwin Goodway - Wed, 07 Feb 2018 01:06:16 EST ID:Uaxv2FmG No.522003 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Think of it as a practice round. Be honest, authetic and believe that youre good for the job

Can't think clearly/positively without weed by Fucking Hinninghodge - Sun, 04 Feb 2018 18:27:43 EST ID:HrHfEsme No.521970 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I've been smoking from 17-23 and I feel like I can only be positive and really understand my emotions, and realize that I have anxiety and probably depression, when I smoke weed. Is this because of long term use? I stopped for the last month but I don't know if it helped. So idk if it's underlying issues or I messed up my brain with pot. It kinda frightens me how much it helps me, as I need to take time to think about things thoroughly and weed helps a ton with that.
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James Sozzlewug - Mon, 05 Feb 2018 02:17:42 EST ID:SLZ94LIZ No.521980 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I have these issues too, had self esteem and social anxiety stuff well before. I don't think you messed your brain up. I think you should try to quit for a while. Like you I was 17-present (24). I went to college but haven't applied my degree. I think the world is pretty much fucked, anxiety and depression are healthy responses to bad shit. No answers from me though, and I've read a bunch too.
Charles Drorringpuck - Mon, 05 Feb 2018 08:53:19 EST ID:/n9Vcucz No.521982 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Yeah, all my life.
Wesley Lightfield - Mon, 05 Feb 2018 12:42:23 EST ID:COAX7aNZ No.521984 Ignore Report Quick Reply
there is no answer. You just have to push on and make the most of it. I'm not saying that shit goes away or anything just that it's a truism that making the best of things is the best option. Maybe you can't beat your self esteem upright or stop being nervous around people but you should just do as much as humanly possible to make the things you have even a modicum of control over a bit better.

Anxiety and depression are understandable and relatable responses and yes maybe even healthy, and yes I've been there. Am there sometimes. But that doesn't mean you can curl up and die.

As for OP and others, it's not that there's a broken brain or addiction mechanism that won't go away in a few weeks maybe couple of months (you're not exhibiting schitzophrenic tendancies) but you may have not yet learned to cope or at least get by because you used drugs as a refuse. Therapy can help. But line it up with a series of small minor positive improvements in your life for best results.
Edwin Nummlehall - Mon, 05 Feb 2018 22:03:09 EST ID:GiCOfox9 No.521991 Ignore Report Quick Reply
you can stop and get back to normal, weed is fun but has its costs.
I sometimes have to quit for drug tests at work or whatever, I'm a little depressed and frazzled at first, but then I get like super productive, start working out and showering regularly. It's not so bad to be sober.
OP - Tue, 06 Feb 2018 11:42:17 EST ID:aE5H/II7 No.521996 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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I can get by I'm just startled by how much weed can help me think. I don't need it but it really can help me sort through my mental anxieties. And its fun as fuck and takes my mind off and helps me be more present. I hashed out my self esteem issues on paper so maybe a therapist can help guide me towards making positive change. OP

Teeth by Cedric Hallerkuck - Sun, 04 Feb 2018 22:06:21 EST ID:sRVEkWhK No.521975 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Long story short, my mouth made-out with some ceramic a long-time back and now it's full of caps and crowns. My incisor just popped off and I'm stick with this short jagged saw-blade.

Is there something I can do to keep it from rubbing on my tongue or gums until I can see someone tomorrow?
Hamilton Serringnack - Sun, 04 Feb 2018 23:17:28 EST ID:m4hby6Jl No.521976 Ignore Report Quick Reply
melt candle wax and press it over it?
Cedric Hallerkuck - Sun, 04 Feb 2018 23:30:45 EST ID:sRVEkWhK No.521977 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Thank you.

I Don't Know File Taxes by Beatrice Pockham - Fri, 02 Feb 2018 19:29:36 EST ID:9DmUMIXr No.521937 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I have a bunch of W2s and I need to recieve a tax return check.
Beatrice Pockham - Fri, 02 Feb 2018 21:47:52 EST ID:9DmUMIXr No.521938 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Come on guys I cant get to google. I just want to get in touch with my feminine side and pay my taxes.
Henry Fussletitch - Sat, 03 Feb 2018 17:59:10 EST ID:d1VFcG+A No.521954 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I would eat the fuck outta that weird cubular sandwich rigth now
Sidney Sengerkire - Sun, 04 Feb 2018 03:20:21 EST ID:ZrkrauS5 No.521958 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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You realize that there are a SHIT TON of free tax filing services online right? I believe there was a US law years back now that gives kickbacks to tax filing companies for free online filing services. It takes like 5 minutes if you have your W2s in front of you they even recommend ways to get a bigger refund.

Also, what makes you think women do taxes? My dad used to slave away over our IBM computer growing up during tax season, and it used to be a LOT harder.

Anyways, turbotax.com

Have to Move On:This One of The Last Times I Swear by Cyril Pazzleford - Wed, 31 Jan 2018 21:41:56 EST ID:gHR3/qJO No.521898 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So another December girl appears. It seems as if I meet a girl every December it's always a bad relationship, partially my fault I'm a train wreck. It's a dark magic thing.
Well I fucken failed again, so next December I'll have to ignore whoever comes along.
But this girl has a darker twist. This one is from Europe and involved with some shady characters. She lives with some rich foreigner with rich parents,a doctor and a diplomat. I'm pretty sure they're going kill her and eat her as apart of some occult ritual; I have a weak psychic ability.

The last part I can't do shit about.
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Graham Fumbletack - Thu, 01 Feb 2018 20:41:37 EST ID:9DmUMIXr No.521922 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>They'd probably kill me off too.
Phoebe Brebberbock - Fri, 02 Feb 2018 08:17:39 EST ID:nLIVDO9k No.521935 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OK well, if things get to a point in the future where because of your psychic powers there is something dramatic you feel you have to do, double check that it is actually the (never once in the history of mankind proven) psychic abilities, and not the (very common, everyone has them a few times in their lives) delusion
Hannah Summlefuck - Fri, 02 Feb 2018 12:57:58 EST ID:4T+xObBa No.521936 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>I'd rather be crazy instead of this being real.
Molly Buzzleford - Sat, 03 Feb 2018 23:15:03 EST ID:yWlWEezt No.521957 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OP I don't think you're crazy. People use different words for the same concepts. No one in this thread would bat an eye if you just mentioned you had "strong intuition," even though it's the exact same thing.
I would recommend that you not entirely trust every sign and message you pick up on. You mention that you have personal issues; if your mind isn't clean it's like using a dirty microscope, everything's distorted. For example you might be assuming they're gonna perform a dark ritual because you're involved with that kind of thing, when actually they're planning something more mundane, like raping her or framing her for some crime.
I do think you need some help clearing things up OP, but I'd recommend trying to find a Buddhist monk or something, someone who understands the supernatural and knows how to channel it positively
Molly Clettingpudge - Sun, 04 Feb 2018 12:34:17 EST ID:IjagW9Th No.521967 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>I'd still rather be suffering from an over active imagination instead of this being real.

y tho by Shitting Gosslenune - Fri, 02 Feb 2018 23:25:49 EST ID:TWMUuPtc No.521939 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>me and girl stop talking
>months go by
>getting over her
>hits me up out of the blue to ask how i'm doing
>i cut it off because i got fed up with being the only one who gave a shit
>figure maybe she had a change of heart, regardless i'm curious now
>no answer

fucking why. if you had no desire to talk, then don't fucking talk to me. go away and stay gone or make an effort to reconcile our shit, regardless make up your fucking mind.

goddamn. like if you just wanted to make sure i didn't throw myself off a bridge in despair because you were gone (and seriously don't flatter yourself, you'd been gone for years even when we were still "close") you could have just said "ey nigga u dead" instead.
Oliver Tootson - Sat, 03 Feb 2018 01:26:57 EST ID:7IGW3+Ip No.521940 Ignore Report Quick Reply
boredom + lack of self-awareness = hurtful actions

Emma Gemmerseck - Sat, 03 Feb 2018 06:21:42 EST ID:4q0D8s60 No.521942 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Dude you're fucking up my internet browser with that shit
Caroline Cangerlark - Sat, 03 Feb 2018 18:20:33 EST ID:9tfgiNio No.521956 Ignore Report Quick Reply
The same thing happened to me, just as I got over her she came back around and asked to be friends. Gets into a relationship two weeks after and tells me after I reveal to her I still have feelings. She gradually just quit talking to me again and I haven't seen her since July.
Barnaby Sengerstock - Sun, 04 Feb 2018 07:28:12 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.521960 Ignore Report Quick Reply
women are cunts because they need a man that treats her the way she wants to be treated, most men are oblivious to what that is and when she doesn't get that she gets resentful of those men and acts well like a bitch. Start treating them the way they should be treated - problem solved, women are no longer cunts and everyone gets what they want.

If predestination is real, are all destinations good ones? by Phoebe Bongershaw - Tue, 30 Jan 2018 15:18:37 EST ID:6P6u/bAq No.521861 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Are some of us doomed?
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Molly Sugglesed - Thu, 01 Feb 2018 05:42:09 EST ID:gPmnY92n No.521907 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Eliza Snodfoot - Thu, 01 Feb 2018 05:59:52 EST ID:53uTatzr No.521908 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Somebody needs to put a 420chan screencap on that monitor
Molly Bocklekon - Thu, 01 Feb 2018 12:50:37 EST ID:7IGW3+Ip No.521913 Ignore Report Quick Reply
God takes care of the sparrows, and he takes care of the guy in the chair.
Isabella Duckhall - Sat, 03 Feb 2018 11:32:27 EST ID:USUZpST+ No.521949 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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girlfriend problems by Albert Blinkinford - Tue, 09 Jan 2018 02:53:51 EST ID:qHG+0G4K No.521298 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I'm in a serious relationship for the first time in my life (I'm 27, she's 22)
I've been with women but she's the first one who I said "I love you" to and been with the longest (5 months)
now she's really great but we've been living in my place together and I see shitty sides of her
sometimes she has 0 patience - snaps at me a lot for trivial things. if I don't do something perfectly or more accurately how she thinks is the perfect way to do it she yells at me.
now I always remain calm during these mood swings, I know that if I yell back or even try yo logically explain my point it will escalate into a full-blown argument. instead I just let her cool down, after which she always apologizes (which renews the hope that she will improve her behaviour with time)
the worst instance (so far) was a few days ago when after waking up, eating breakfast (which I made btw while she was chilling in bed) she decided I'm gonna cook soup for us and I'm gonna do it in half an hour
I said I'd do it in an hour and a half and that I'll need a bit of help because I'm not good at cooking she just snapped abd went "WELL NEVERMIND I'LL DO IT" then while the water was boiling she showered and went to another room to play with her phone. I noticed the water spilling so I turned down the heat and kept an eye on the pot. she came to kitchen just as it was spilling out a little again and yelled that I "never do anything"
at this point I went for a walk and to meditate in a park for about an hour
she went to her sister's place during this time for shopping
then she sent me "what's your problem?" and we hashed things out.
also another major issue is sex. we're both relatively I unexperienced (I mentioned my history, she was mostly in long relationships all her life, not many partners either) which I talked to her about
now during our conversation she said I don't fuck her enough so she has to watch porn (we fuck 4-5 times a week btw)
also she complained I'm bad at going down and she hasn't had an orgasm for a month
meanwhile when I try to talk about what/how she'd like me to be in bed she shuts down and doesn't want to talk about it
when I mention that it would make sex better and more exciting for me if she sucked my dick (she did it ONCE in all this time and after I practically had to beg for it) she literally couldn't care less
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Nigel Gunnerbury - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 10:22:52 EST ID:umuM3tXI No.521784 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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OP here
so we had some talks and stuff, things are a lot better now
she keeps herself in check and it feels like she understands how she was from my (a normal) point of view. she told me she cried a lot that time with the soup on the way to her sister.
also she sucks my dick regurlary now and is good at it, feels like she's into it too. if she said she's doesn't like it in the past it doesn't show at all.
I've watched some cunnilingus guides and now I'm really good at it according to her.
so stuff are really good. I appreciate the advice but most of you were way too harsh judging from what actually happened.
thanks though.
Albert Wupperkidge - Sun, 28 Jan 2018 00:14:55 EST ID:EQpxqFDZ No.521798 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>everything is ok now. Your advice sucked but Thanks anyways. Bye
Clara Bundale - Sat, 03 Feb 2018 09:50:43 EST ID:PVo9QNEe No.521946 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Is 5 years really that bad, or is it more just the difference in positions in life?

Not to derail the thread but I'm 23 and this girl that's turning 27 at the end of the year have been getting pretty close. We're both sort of like in the same situation though, both studying at college (with me working and her not) and she only just got her license a few months ago, and I got mine last month.
Clara Bundale - Sat, 03 Feb 2018 09:51:29 EST ID:PVo9QNEe No.521947 Ignore Report Quick Reply
not arguing with you but legitimately asking, since I don't date much and have no idea about age differences and stuff.
Betsy Smallforth - Sat, 03 Feb 2018 10:40:22 EST ID:COAX7aNZ No.521948 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Oh so you were the actual drama queen. People weren't too harsh it's just she changed from
>she shuts down
>oh we actually talked and it's fine
Can't blame us if you tried to talk to her once and then tell us "she's not listening".

That guy's being a dick lol.

Position in life is key. I dated with a similar age difference and we had problems because I was getting my career going and then she finished uni and wanted to move towns to try several career options and she lived in 3 different cities over a year before she finally found what she wanted to do but I had put roots down and wanted to at least wait to see where she ended up before moving (also when she finished uni we were serious but not quite serious enough). She grew as a person, our relationship was put in the freezer and didn't keep. It had to be done for her good but it sounds like the pair of you will both be fine on that account.

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