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I'm a fairly average looking male by Eugene Dreffingdale - Fri, 21 Apr 2017 21:35:09 EST ID:LP7sXigx No.515660 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I'm already 30 years old and haven't had a girlfriend for over 8.5 years.
I've casually dated but nothing ever panned out or worked out right.
I really wish I could have a girlfriend or a wife and start my own family.
But let's face it life is hard, but I do notice that even scummy junkies have girlfriends who are loyal.
Every woman I've dated has either cheated on me or had feelings for another guy and straight up backstabbed me.
When will I ever find somebody that wants a real relationship or even a bang-buddy!?
Well I've worked hard to lose extra weight and accomplished it. I'm still aiming to lose more weight.
Today's music sucks. Society is fucked. Kids that are like 16 have fuck buddies...
Yet with me I don't got none of that. The females in my age range end up banging thug dudes who are on food stamps that snort coke.
What the fuck? Sure I use co2 hash oil, shatter, wax, flowers. But I am an upstanding citizen. I live in a legal state.
The point of the matter is I am not cringy. Girls have feelings for me but obviously it's not enough to stay committed to me.
I've my own hobbies, some healthy, some recreational. Most people tend to like me as a neighbor, friend, associate.
But I am lonely in terms of relationship. I am not gay. nor do people mistake me for a gay dude.
I just don't know why I can't have a serious relationship with a female?
I feel like I am a lonely bastard like Elliot Rodger.
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Nigel Sivingfoot - Sun, 23 Apr 2017 04:39:00 EST ID:9vn86lM+ No.515682 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515671

xDlelzior!
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Cyril Sandleman - Sun, 23 Apr 2017 17:34:01 EST ID:zbKXnohS No.515711 Ignore Report Quick Reply
you're probably just shit at hitting on people. a lot of guys go through it, not just autists and socially anxious. if you're just "an average looking dude" you probably don't stand out enough to give girls a reason to hit on you so all the pressure and impetus is on you.
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Rebecca Sudgeford - Sun, 23 Apr 2017 20:40:13 EST ID:FN1vBjSK No.515713 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>515682
Zimbabwe!
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Polly Sollerlick - Sun, 23 Apr 2017 23:50:37 EST ID:Ps7vhoAq No.515714 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515664
>Go out.

I mean, that doesn't work necessarily. I've done it dozens of times, from major cities with hundreds of single women my age at in one crowded room to just simply eating dinner at a bar at Chili's.

I never had any luck but I don't think I'm very approachable either given my looks, mannerisms, and weirdly shapen sense of humor and methods of conversation. I doubt OP has all these though so he should have more luck.
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Rebecca Sudgeford - Mon, 24 Apr 2017 14:38:29 EST ID:FN1vBjSK No.515731 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>515714
lol weights bro
lol git gud bro
lol is easy bro
lol just b urself bro


The Game by Eugene Bavingbury - Mon, 24 Apr 2017 11:33:11 EST ID:r8BDKlIM No.515723 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Why's it gotta be so frustrating? Modern "Romance"..so now Ive resorted to Tinder most of the women have hardly anything to say about themselves and a strange amount list Gin as one of their interests. No hobbies, nothing but a pretty empty head.

Then if I actually want to meet someone I have to go out and party (trying not to be alcoholic) Everyone I chat up is taken. Then this girl I liked the look of comes up to me and says Hi, and I say something stupid, which could have worked but didnt, and she goes to hang with the 2 guys she came with.. Its a fucking mine field, say something they find mildly wrong and thats it!
Then most modern women have too many options coupled with not even knowing what they want. My friend whose wife is pregnant with second baby saying "what are you dong you should get on with it." like thats the be all and end all...and I come from a broken home. where I see what a woman can do to a man when you give them everything you can.
So yeah here's my shit social media, tfw no gf, /qq/ thread ...but Im not some never been kissed perma-virgin ..I think its hard for everyone.
I would move back to Asia if I could. Its more easy mode out there..I havnt had a sexual relationship with someone in over three years, a couple of prostitutes and cyber whores n thats it...I go out and drink n do drugs but all I really want is love...elusive and fleeting.
Not really expecting any advice I just need to vent...and sometimes want to die
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David Blatherwater - Mon, 24 Apr 2017 11:49:09 EST ID:ngLYHpR4 No.515725 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515723
>I think its hard for everyone.
It's not. Some of us have the pick of the litter and don't have to put in much of any effort.
Don't worry about finding love. Just become a better person, socialize more with women to understand how they think and feel, and just keep at those 2 things and eventually you'll get everything you want, assuming you tried hard enough.
But really, the weakest person in the dating scene is the most desperate and impatient. You don't wanna be that person.


Should I go to a therapy/counselling? by Jarvis Cluvinglock - Sat, 22 Apr 2017 15:05:57 EST ID:blQXt8L0 No.515666 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I guess it's an odd premise here but I'd appreciate your advice.
I suffered depression and substance abuse issues over the span of 4-5 years and really got caught up in hell. I knew so many times that I needed therapy but when I was in such a state I found no motivation to seek it and the short moments when I felt okay and up to doing things, I didn't want to think about it so I didn't arrange any.

I've been feeling incredible the past 6 months or so, officially over 6 months clean now, have had 3 days in total where I've felt depressed/dissociated to the extent that I was experiencing before on a near daily basis and have been very positive overall. I've been productive, lost weight and more comfortable with myself. I wouldn't say that I'm depressed or anxious any more.

Now, money is short and therapy is expensive, but I am wondering if it would be worth some of my ever-lowering funds to go and see a therapist/psych/counsellor during my free time over summer for some sort of closure or something, I don't know. I don't know if going and explaining all the shit I experienced will help, not such that I have been suppressing it - but that I just haven't made it a focal point or dwelled upon it since getting past things. Am I going to go and just reopen wounds? Am I going to be told a bunch of mantras which I'm already aware of/implementing? I'm just ignorant on the subject and would like some outside opinion.
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Priscilla Brabblechuck - Sat, 22 Apr 2017 16:42:16 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.515667 Ignore Report Quick Reply
It's really up to you man. If you think it would be a worthwhile venture, I don't think something as important as looking after your mentally health is something you should look back on and feel like it was time or money wasted unless what you were doing was terribly unreasonable (like if you were a hypochondriac and blowing all your cash to seek new diagnoses).
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Shit Henningstone - Sat, 22 Apr 2017 19:49:44 EST ID:GoZz+UFM No.515669 Ignore Report Quick Reply
My thoughts are yes you should. If you can afford it and actually will work with it. Find a CBT therapist and go. I have a history of Major Depression and GAD and this last 1 1/2 years I've felt better than I have in the last 7. I still have episodes of intense depression and anxiety where I use techniques I learned in therapy to cope.

These problems are never completely "cured" but with therapy you can manage episodes and especially with CBT reroute your brain so feeling sad doesn't = using or self-harm or crying uncontrollably. These problems WILL try to get their grasp back into you and being best prepared for them is what I would try to do.
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Henry Gibblechine - Sun, 23 Apr 2017 15:52:19 EST ID:pCPQRsXK No.515707 Ignore Report Quick Reply
If you choose wisely some therapists are unconventional some are both academic and practicing. They may not believe in the concept of closure. Some just give you drugs which you have to pay more for. But the goal is real


Finally met someone I feel chemistry towards by Oliver Blatherlock - Wed, 22 Mar 2017 08:58:04 EST ID:xUBClzqr No.514689 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Met this really, really cute girl (we’ll call her Ally) on a uni camp this past weekend. She was the person I talked to the most out of anyone there. I didn’t know anyone else going, just decided to sign up for the heck of it. Anyway, I made sure to introduce myself to Ally early when we were first getting on the bus to go to camp. We chatted and danced, drank, etc. on the bus (party bus). When we eventually got to the camp, it was late and time to set up tents. Ally suggested we put our tents next to each other for “protection” (inside joke, cbf explaining). So that was a good sign she may be interested but also there was an equal chance that she could just be interested in being friends, too early to tell.

Anyway, after setting up the tents we went and sat around the campfire and chatted with lots of the other uni campers. Ally struck me as a bit of a social butterfly, at least more so than my generally reserved , introverted, self. I did have some good chats the others as well around the campfire, made some new friends and so did she. I'm embarrassed to admit that I felt slight jealousy every time I looked over and saw Ally having a good conversation with another guy. Anyway, I was getting tired so I said my goodnights and heading to my tent. I fell straight to sleep so idk how long the festivities kept going, but I don't think it was for much longer.

Anyway, the next day was chilled. Did some drinking games and what not. In the evening we were all chatting and having quite a lot of drinks. After the festivities died down a bit, myself, Ally and another guy we both made friends with went back to my tent and had a few more drinks. It was getting late so our friend decided he was gonna go to bed. So then it was just me and Ally and we were lying down next to each other chatting for a good while about random shit you talk about after a solid drinking session. Then we were both starting to get tired and conversation was drawing to a halt so I decided, fuck it, my time is now. So I whispered something cheesy like “would you be offended if I kissed you right now?” and then she went in for the kiss and we made out for a while, rolling around in my tiny, uncomfortable tent lmao. Anyway, we got interrupted by the tent falling down on top of us because some of the other campers thought it'd be funny to pull the tent supports out on people who were sleeping. To be fair, they thought it was just me asleep in there. So at that stage we both went outside the tent to fix it up and we were both hella tired at this point, it being like half-three in the morning and us having just had a massive day. So we said our goodnights, she went back to her tent and I went back to mine.

The next day (final day) there was no awkwardness or anything, we both had another few good chats and laughs but didn't mention what happened the night beforehand.

Anyways, a couple of days after we got back from camp I was messaging her in a lecture asking if she was at uni that day. She said she was and had the same 2hour breack as me so she suggested we should catch up on campus. So we had a nice couple hour chat about more random stuff, mostly talking about our families and TV shows we watch, etc. Nothing sexual or anything of that nature. We both hugged goodbye and she said “I'll see you soon!” type thing. This is where I'm inexperienced. I've never had a GF so I'm not sure how one goes about progressing from casual meetups to something more, so I guess I’m asking for advice about that. I don't want to fall into the “cakefart” but I also want to somehow know that's she's into me. I know she's had 2 boyfriends in the past and me having never had a girlfriend, it's slightly intimidating knowing what to do and what not to do, etc.

I haven't messaged her since our meetup yesterday but I think we'll at least be meeting up at the same time next week because of our overlapping breaks between classes. Basically what I'm asking for is some advice because I'm inexperienced with girls and relationships in general.
This is actually the first girl I've ever met that I've actually felt chemistry towards. She's super cute, super funny and is really switched on and smart.

I'm not completely inexperienced with the opposite gender. I have some experience with women in mostly club/bar type places. In the past I've hooked up with several different girls at mostly clubs/bars and have had sex once before, but have never felt any sort of real feelings towards the girl and no urge to follow up with them afterwards. This just feels like a completely different thing, something I haven't felt before or been in the same position.
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Emma Guddlebad - Wed, 22 Mar 2017 17:18:08 EST ID:K2pLy7pX No.514704 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514703
Yeah I totally get you when you say don't let it go flat. I'd be making moves if I noticed strong signals from her but so far it's just been friendly chats with a lot of laughs. She might be slightly shy, idk.
Only problem is we live like 40 minutes away from each other so it's hard to pick a place outside uni.

Maybe next week when I see her I could try something, I'll have to figure out what.

Thanks for the advice
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Matilda Gickleshaw - Wed, 22 Mar 2017 21:46:40 EST ID:xUBClzqr No.514708 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Also I'm now doubtful that she likes me tbh. Leaving messages on seen, taking ages to respond, etc. I'll just leave it and see if she messages me, otherwise I'll cut my losses - takes 2 to tango.
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Fucking Dizzledale - Fri, 24 Mar 2017 00:49:50 EST ID:EQq/RDbk No.514750 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514708
don't send anymore messages, just meet with her in person.
you'll learn the peace of not using the internet if you can chill for a bit
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Nathaniel Worthingstone - Sat, 22 Apr 2017 20:27:37 EST ID:+HYhDah7 No.515670 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OP here updating. We kept chilling together on a weekly basis and I finally told her I liked her but she said she just wasn't looking for anything serious at the moment (cakefarted).
I'm obviously a bit upset but at least it can't be another one of my regrets because I actually ballsed up this time and told her how I felt.
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William Nabblewot - Sun, 23 Apr 2017 00:23:31 EST ID:FucrEdSx No.515675 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515670
You shouldn't have said you liked her, shoulda just banged her without trying to profess your love. Girls see that as a commitment.


am I judging this person too harshly? by Martin Huvingchore - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 02:45:16 EST ID:UHQ5Fpvu No.515590 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I have a friend and we are pretty close as friends. She's a girl and I kind of use her as an opportunity to learn more about how women think. I know that sounds bad but really our relationship works because I have no desire to sleep with her.

For starters she has a husband that is in jail, she is in "love" with him. They have been married for about two years and he hasn't supported her at all as he has been in and out of jail since they have been married. He's a gang banger and supposedly a crip.

She talks to me about her relationship I try to give her advice which she will agree with but eventually go back to wanting him back. She cheats on him every now and then with random guys on Facebook. I do my best to separate the stuff I don't like about her with the stuff I do. She frequently buys me dinner and beer if Iam staying the night at her place which is a very kind gesture of her one of which I never even have to ask, she just does it out of kindness, says she enjoys my company.

Anyway before anyone jumps to conclusion the gang banger who is your stereotypical bad boy type is a WHITE guy. Yesterday she said that she wants him to get her pregnant because she believes that children will suddenly convince him to change his life and get his shit together. I laughed at this because this thinking is purely based upon emotion, and I asked her what evidence she had to support this assumption.

You can't force someone to change, and children definitely aren't gonna do that. I realized what she was doing was making these assumptions about him based upon emotions which is something a lot of people do that think emotionally. I am a rather logical thinker, as I think most men are.

She even defends the fact that he burgalized someone's house she says "he was just doing what he had to do.". What happened to going out and getting a job like everyone else? This also is her hamster spinning defending a criminal based upon her emotions.

Part of me feels like perhaps I am judging her too harshly but the other part of me tells me I'm not wrong.
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Edwin Blerringbanks - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 15:35:23 EST ID:zbKXnohS No.515609 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515608
>being socially inept means you're an awful person
>autism may may

You sound like an awful person. nb
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Fuck Podgenedging - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 18:28:45 EST ID:xNATrwJM No.515612 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515608
Confirmed awful person.

Nothing wrong with using relationships with other human beings to learn about human beings. Plus how do you think all the tonnes of autistic but mostly functional people learn to function? Yeah they have to figure out how to compensate.

Anyway OP I will say this. Don't learn about women from just one woman and do not do it from this one.

She's not an awful human but she's naive, foolish and she's going to ruin a kid's life. She's clearly thinks she can change her husband and you should never be in a relationship on the basis you can fix someone. She's got a poor taste in men and she's a poor partner. She should have left the guy as he's never going to give her what she wants. She probably can do better, but she has to be a better person and the largest part is treating herself with more respect.

But you can't change that I suspect. You can offer an opinion but even that might blow up in your face. But I'm getting off topic.

Don't learn about women using this person. It's not that it's unfair on her but that it's unfair on a lot of women. When I surrounded myself with awful women I learned to distrust, disrespect and under estimate women. Eventually I moved towns and made new friends and befriended some better women and some of the girls I met were actually beyond the scope of what I thought possible for a woman. I had quite a few female friends before but all of them were pretty awful people. Then again they all worked in marketing. It genuinely poisoned my views on women for a while. I suggest making more friends who are girls get to know a whole bunch. Realise that while they are different they're also people and vary quite a lot you can't judge half the population based on one dumb girl.
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Angus Buddlefield - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 18:36:58 EST ID:vfShsVuP No.515613 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515590
OP, one thing you have to learn is that you never Judge your friends decisions. Be that see believes that this awful logic would help her husband change obvisouly is not the answer.

I never give my personal opinions to my friends shitty decisions. I just tell them, I cannot give you any feedback because at the end of the day no one really takes advised seriously, and people always end up doing the opposite. Just be there for her once shit goes down, that is the best you can do.

And dont listen to that jackass about austim just because you ask woman advised about other woman. There is not wrong about that, and I believe he is miss intrepeting your friendship. He assumes your are only her friend to get woman advised, which is not true and he's a fucking idiot because he cant read between the lines. Anyways, good speed OP and just be there for her, and tell her that if is that she believes that she should give it a good thought and whatever decision she makes you will stand beside her.
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Eugene Claydale - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 21:46:12 EST ID:UHQ5Fpvu No.515617 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515612
I've had girls as friends before but not many that wasn't based around sex. I'm not that great with people sure, but autistic nah.

When I say I learn from her I wanted to get more knowledge about how they think and female nature, that sort of thing. She can definitely do better and doesn't need the guy. She has her shit together but she's always bailing him out and sending him money even though he wasn't supporting her when he wasn't in jail.

For her though, I don't think it's really like that. I think it's about the tingles she gets from him. For her to turn him around would give her a rush, I see the excitement she gets when she thinks about them having a child together.

You're definitely right I shouldn't judge all women based upon this one. I actually told her that many women would have left his ass but in her eyes he is the strongest male she can acquire, why I'm not sure.

She got mad the other day when we were talking about this when I tried to explain to her she was thinking emotionally and she says she's not. I told her I wasn't gonna listen to her about him anymore if she's not interested in my opinion. She then said some thing completely irrelevant to try and make me jealous but I knew what she was doing so I deflected it by giving her the answer she wasn't expecting. Completely backfired on her and she got quiet the rest of the ride back to my house.

Really at this point I think the only way she'll get it is to have her plan with the kid backfire which I don't want at all. That kid is gonna be fucked up. For one he's not gonna have a positive father figure and he's gonna learn to be a scum from his dad and his mom who justifies robbing people because 'they did what they had to do'.
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Phineas Gazzleway - Fri, 21 Apr 2017 16:05:25 EST ID:pCPQRsXK No.515658 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515613
yes but also despite getting older and more cynical, you have to guage how serious long running ideas people talk about are. And how close they are getting to being carried out, if you really are worried.


Who Are You To Question The Word of Gods Servants? by Doris Sillynuck - Fri, 21 Apr 2017 03:13:18 EST ID:LP7sXigx No.515646 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I am tired of the way things go in my life. I am not suicidal. A friend threw pity towards me and hooked me up with some hash oil and a vape pen battery. I've been taking micro tokes from the hash oil. One tiny sip of the hash oil sends me into a full stoned feeling. I've analyzed myself with paranoia and anxiety and realized my whole life is almost like I am some sort of dumb ass that has brains but has all the wrong roads laid out for me to make it in life. I feel like I got a mental illness because I can learn, I can gain skills in things but nothing enough to make a living off of. I don't know why every relationship started off sweet with women but ended up on sour notes. Tons of infidelities occurred in the relationships and the exes always make up b.s. to associative friends in the circle. Yet I'm glad that some of those friends see thru the bullshit. But I feel like I am left out on certain activities because my exes are drama queens every single one of them. I really wish things weren't like this. I mean other peoples exes aren't full on drama queen. The very mention of my name sends them into a triggered state. My friends cannot even mention my name around my exes because they always get triggered. They act like if I killed their pets or something. I never did such a thing if anything I am pretty much a nice guy till you start messing with me. But I will never go to the extent of harming another person it's not in my nature I have better things to-do. I feel as if people are just having pity regarding my situation and tried to help me feel better about life. And I do appreciate them for that. But at the same time. I ask myself why doesn't self-help advice work, why doesn't the “dating guru videos work” It seems like these females are immune to it. The choices I've made with new females made things worse. I should have trusted my gut instinct and went with flow like I originally did when I've dated seriously other females and had relationships. I've tried new things. But at the end of the day it sort of worked but it wasn't genuine. I realized the truth behind it all the dating game is a vicious cycle of immature people keeping people on sidelines. I m…
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Shitting Murdshit - Fri, 21 Apr 2017 05:20:17 EST ID:gXEOxC68 No.515648 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515646
stop smoking, start meditation and work on not overanalyzing every single thought of yours. they are just thoughts and have no power over you unless you surrender to them.
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Walter Turveyhood - Fri, 21 Apr 2017 12:52:09 EST ID:zbKXnohS No.515655 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515648
meditation is for hippies and new age faggots in lieu of drugs
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Eliza Durryfadge - Fri, 21 Apr 2017 13:25:41 EST ID:RXWXPxvI No.515656 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Can't you keep your walls of text in a single thread? You've already made three. Stop.
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Phineas Gazzleway - Fri, 21 Apr 2017 15:53:10 EST ID:pCPQRsXK No.515657 Ignore Report Quick Reply
take it to language, poetry, and mathmatics.

Theatre, and ideas involving suggestions. Ideas with suggestions and implications that you tie together to create the picture.

Write, film with your phone, or an old camera. Put your energy into what usually constitutes puzzle games or gambling. But only for gain only. Take the things you make and talk and put them into podcasts and youtube videos.

By connecting and playing the slots, stocks, and economics there you don't lose money, but you see actually what underpins success.

And you work with what patterns actually do and you don't have to take them into painful self medition unless you want to. You get the knowledge of them through practice. And you'll work out why it's taking it hard on you you can techinically work that out through practical thought without the constant stress and adrenaline, until you want it to get intense.


Broke a Condom by Clara Nerringham - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 01:48:04 EST ID:4SKHWbu2 No.515588 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So........ fucked an escort for 40-50 mins. condom broke, pretty sure it was broken for several minutes, I fucked up and didn't say I might think things are wrong, and then I ejaculated into her for a minute. It felt too good, I should have know it was broken, and said otherwise.
Instead I let it pulsate deep into her, while she's wide open and her vag is pulsating around.

She mentioned Plan B, but that's only 1-in-20 chance of success - and - I wasn't' there to witness it. I'm going to go talk to her about it tomorrow. But if she didn't take it, that's like a 50/50 chance, even if I convince her to do it in front of me. I'll give her $5k or more to do it. If that's what it takes. Fucking empty my saving of however many years savings if it takes that.

Idk. Wtf am I going to do. I think she already has a bastard kid, and what if she tries to keep it to get the support? This is fucked, I don't know. Hopefully things are resolved tomorrow.
She seems nice and all, but I mean, my life is already in turbulence as it is. If things shoot the wrong way, oh well, roll with the punches, but... I can't help but want to cry like a little bitch about it, right when I though I was falling up in life. Who knows maybe this will just be another step up. idk. maybe I'm just to drunk, and no one I know has an answer, because there is none..
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Jack Murdhall - Thu, 20 Apr 2017 12:29:04 EST ID:4SKHWbu2 No.515629 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515628

Bought her off with a gallon bag of caps, and had her take another Plan B in front of me.

With any luck, she'll be so fucked that she can't even remember her own name for the next two years.

>>515625

Nope. But I'm sure one of the employees smoking outside saw my face. And I know I've seen him at the bars. From there, all it takes is a decent detective to find me.
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Doris Gorringway - Thu, 20 Apr 2017 17:46:57 EST ID:K6Z0v28J No.515632 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515629
This shit sounding faker and faker with each post you make. Nb 420p and blaze it fag
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Matilda Clayforth - Thu, 20 Apr 2017 18:00:04 EST ID:TX3Ezud6 No.515633 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515623
Wait I thought you was doin´ a bit on hookers there, that'd had been a good one. I commend you.
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Hannah Fammerchire - Thu, 20 Apr 2017 19:23:00 EST ID:Ki1qQY1h No.515635 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515588
lol op thinks plan b works 5%
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Jenny Hubberfurk - Fri, 21 Apr 2017 12:19:31 EST ID:4SKHWbu2 No.515654 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515635

95%, and goes down by the hour. That's why it's Plan B, and not A.

>>515632

Well. More plausible deniability if you think it's fake then. That's what's nice about chans. It could all be made up, and we could all just be shitposting, but no one knows.

nb since resolved


How to stop being clingy by Nathaniel Goodfuck - Mon, 17 Apr 2017 18:57:15 EST ID:GoZz+UFM No.515548 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So I had this girl (pictured) sexting me on Friday. She's an old friend's ex-girlfriend who I haven't spoken to in like 4 years. We're getting hot 'n'heavy and she's talking about sucking my dick and all that shit. Cool right? We make plans to meet up and actually fuck and then it goes to shit.

We text a bit Sunday and I'm trying to be sweet and all that. She calls me but I was busy so she said call me when I'm done. I finish what I was doing and call her, and she doesn't pick up. So I text her something like Hey where you at? and she never replies. This makes me feel like I've fucked up. I was exhausted because I was doing lawn work all day, and fell asleep pretty early. She calls me around 10pm and I don't pick up.

So Sunday comes and I tell her to call me later in the night and I'll make sure to catch it. She never calls me. I feel shitty about that.

Now today, she text me a long apology that she didn't have time, was exhausted, family even cus of easter, etc. Alright thats understandable and all. She was supposed to find out what day she'd be off this week so we could chill, and I ask did she find out. She never replies. I make a dumb comment on her FB and she texts me about that but is now avoiding the question.

I'm not sure where I messed up here. I got excited that she was into me and wanted to talk to her, but I she didn't have time or was actually ignoring me. It made me feel shitty, and I do have insecurity issues and self-esteem issues but I try really hard to bottle that shit up. I just want someone to be interested in me as much as I am them, but it's like a game where you have to pretend you're not interested or something. I don't get it.

My questions are: was I being clingy/needy? asking her to call or saying sweet nothing bs? Is it just her being a slut one day and regretting it the next? Is she ignoring me like it's some game? I can't figure it out guys.

Thanks in advance.
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James Turveycocke - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 17:06:08 EST ID:GoZz+UFM No.515611 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515607
Before you post, take a few deep breaths and try not to rage at anyone and anything that doesn’t tickle your fancy. You are not doing
anything to contribute to the overall health of the board, and instead create an air of hostility.
This makes other people hostile, and things just get worse and worse. RELAX. Before your negativity gets you booted out.


I guess I should've posted on circlejerk there might actually be LESS white knights there.

For those not being butthurt & contributing: haven't spoken to her since I said I lost interest. Nothing really came from her either since intial blow up. Despite wanting to fuck, I'm just not sure it's worth chasing after finding out she has a man and all that. There's other contributing factors since I don't really mind being an instrument in ruining someone's relationship but I don't think she's one of the ones it's worth doing for.
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Angus Buddlefield - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 18:42:27 EST ID:vfShsVuP No.515614 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515610
Legends tells anyone with a + on their name is shit poster. This is not confirm and its just speculation.
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Albert Nickledale - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 20:18:53 EST ID:qgSlhkvl No.515615 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515614
Man I thought that is what my few hundred stank tokens were for
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Cyril Clamblecocke - Thu, 20 Apr 2017 21:06:13 EST ID:o3vIoRWZ No.515636 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>How to stop being clingy
Step One, admit your desperation to yourself. No excuses, no metal gymnastics.

Step Tw...
>Despite wanting to fuck, I'm just not sure it's worth chasing after finding out she has a man and all that.
Okay, no, back to Step One, fox.
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Nell Duckstock - Fri, 21 Apr 2017 11:20:50 EST ID:uQDuqkAT No.515653 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515586

did you fucking take a picture of your phone


Poly Sci BA and Questions about the Future by Oliver Bluffingtet - Fri, 21 Apr 2017 07:00:17 EST ID:N6g2b8iW No.515650 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I'm graduating next year with a BA in Poly Sci. My major GPA is 3.6, overall 3.3 and I don't think I can hack it out in Grad school. I'm not sure I have the work ethic, and I've heard that minorities often get pushed towards doing race-based research. I'm just extremely worries that I made a mistake. I love political science -- truly love political theory and read it constantly during my breaks. I've gotten a 4.0 before but such efforts mean nothing if I can't keep up that level of organization. Yet, my one of my professors is encouraging me to pursue that path because he sees potential in me. I'm so lost. I have no self-esteem, so doing well academically is my only source of pride, yet my own laziness and depression often retards my work ethic.

What should I do? Should I try for Grad school? How do I even market myself if I just walk away.

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Sidney Worthingman - Fri, 21 Apr 2017 08:15:40 EST ID:kAEKpfyQ No.515651 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515650
Well since you've always wanted to be a university professor you kind of have to go to Grad school. You can do it brah, I believe in you.


Educated minority by Doris Sillynuck - Thu, 20 Apr 2017 21:52:26 EST ID:LP7sXigx No.515639 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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And girls don't give me any chance anymore, maybe when I was youthful. but now being close late 30s girls don't bother to give me a chance hell even a mutual friendly encounter. Even fat chicks who nobody wants anything to-do with. I am not even a beta male. I am just a decent well put together guy who manages to survive despite losing the company I worked for. I feel depressed. I smoke hash on my days off. I feel alone. All my friends are busy with their families and having more babies and I am stuck all alone in my home smoking hash oil. I tried to go out and meet new people but I get bullshitted all day.
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Cyril Clamblecocke - Thu, 20 Apr 2017 22:46:14 EST ID:o3vIoRWZ No.515642 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Adopt a kid.

Boom - family! Responsibilities, no more time for whining, someone to love and who'll love you, more than you ever thought possible and more than you ever deserved.
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Hedda Hebberputch - Fri, 21 Apr 2017 01:20:12 EST ID:XuzeqXAg No.515643 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Well my buddy got divorced yesterday and he's been acting cheerful. You never know, you know?
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Charlotte Bomblestock - Fri, 21 Apr 2017 05:24:52 EST ID:HXgn8b9h No.515649 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515639
Tldr
I like your taste in music tho nb/nonproductive


I realized learning was meaningless by Ernest Sottingkat - Tue, 18 Apr 2017 06:53:11 EST ID:LP7sXigx No.515562 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Because life is giving you directions but it doesn't seem to change the current situation to a positive if life is just what it is. An experience. Women I had love for turned away. But that's not the problem. The problem is I practice doing things and learning but what is it all for? It seems like we're aliens. Maybe it's all an illusion?
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Shitting Bishwill - Thu, 20 Apr 2017 16:02:48 EST ID:YtpWG7m7 No.515630 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I feel that OP. It seems like the more we learn, the deeper the hole gets. You learn one things to help you in one situation, then another situation rises forcing you to learn something new. Perpetually, till we die. I'm like, well great. Still feel a general net loss in joy for life.
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Shitting Bishwill - Thu, 20 Apr 2017 16:08:54 EST ID:YtpWG7m7 No.515631 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515597

great, but what are all those things for in the end?
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Phineas Gazzleway - Thu, 20 Apr 2017 21:11:43 EST ID:pCPQRsXK No.515637 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You secretly save those directions for when they are applicable or make sense.

Secretly your becoming resourceful.

And that's basically anthropomorphically the equivalent of a squirell.
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Cyril Clamblecocke - Thu, 20 Apr 2017 22:35:26 EST ID:o3vIoRWZ No.515640 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515631
For this.

Neat, innit?
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Charles Nambleham - Thu, 20 Apr 2017 22:41:39 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.515641 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515631
Do I really have to explain to you why people do things at all? Nobody does things because what they're going to mean for them once they're dead, because they'll be dead. People do things for how they're going to affect them in the present and the foreseeable future. Unless suffering or tediously going through the motions of living in endless boredom sounds like something you're interested in, you have to take steps to make sure that isn't what your current and future existence leads to. Was it really necessary for me to spell something that obvious out to you?


How to make roommate leave by Priscilla Snodwell - Tue, 18 Apr 2017 21:23:01 EST ID:vKvaev27 No.515577 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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My roommate is shit. Im not gonna get into it. I've posted about here more than enough times over the past 2 years.

But I can't move out. My lease is up in september...I have 15 grand in collections from school loans and shit, and i have another $4000 i owe because I just got sued. And even though I could still afford a place by myself and be actively paying for my shit, my credit score is 520 and i'm on probation. Nowhere is gonna accept me thats not hood.

I fucking hate my roommate. No one here understands no matter how much I post how much of a pos this kid is. I work 3rd shift and he insists on watching political news for 6-8+ hours a day on 70 volume when I sleep. I offer to buy him a meal and he orders an appetizer and 3 entrees, one of them being steak.

So I was pretty miserable knowing I would have to live with this fuckface again for at least another year, until my lawsuit is paid off and im off papers. Than I heard him talking to his gf the other day, i could hear what she was saying over the phone and she was asking if he had talked to me about him leaving my apartment yet. He said no and that he still "had to think about it"

My entire mood changed after that. I lit up like a christmas tree. Finally-an opportunity to get this fucker to leave, and have this apartment to myself.

But hes hesitant and I can tell. And I don't blame him. He doesn't make much and hes an entitled college student that thinks the world owes him free school and housing.

How can I make this kids decision for him. I want their to be no questions asked him moving. I need the extra room and the peace of mind I can't stand this motherfucker im gonna go completely berzerk. A few weeks ago I came home drunk and ripped the tv out of the wall and he threatened to call my PO. I haven't drank or talked about drinking or anything with drugs since than, im not going to jail i'm doing this smart.

How do I get this kid to move out? I stopped cleaning months ago and I havent washed my dishes in over a week, and when I do its gonna be in the bath tub. I stopped doing basic chores like washing my sink (we each have our own sink) and taking out the garbage, and I can tell he noticed because it wasnt taken out for a week and he made a big scene when he finally did it. He also asked me to buy some paper towel and I told him no.
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Phineas Gazzleway - Thu, 20 Apr 2017 21:23:46 EST ID:pCPQRsXK No.515638 Ignore Report Quick Reply
you have to work on communicating outside of favor in the mutual need that you to are actually in.

This is why it annoys you because secretly it's a detail from the beginning that is being neglected.

And anger isn't actually just anger, or hate. It's also a mental note of what needs are not being respected in tototallity.

Notice how often radicals, idealists, pessimists, and eternal optimists when they get upset sound angry.

you have to accept each other sounding angry and still be able to communicate as if you were in a anecdote of an old married couple.

Technically, the boiling in side is liner notes for you to be able to communicate more directly to a person that obviously does communicate more directly.

Honestly the only thing he can then do is storm off in a huff. Which may upset you more but leaves you time to sleep.


I secretly went through something like this a year ago and it revolves around every body else's schedule and arrangements working out, and you being a patient person who is indiscrete enough to not begrudge them having them, but hope that they would understand that you need the sleep implicitly when it's needed without that being a conversation that broaches the subject of no more television because that's another restriction


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