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how to indicate on dating sites/social media you're a user seeking another user... by Shit Dartforth - Sun, 28 Jan 2018 19:16:55 EST ID:aS5NsVdk No.521811 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Shit Dartforth - Sun, 28 Jan 2018 19:18:45 EST ID:aS5NsVdk No.521812 Ignore Report Quick Reply
oh wow I pressed enter instead of tab somehow what an embarrassment


...without it being incredibly obvious/getting people who just want drugs/a dealer?

I have some pretty decent selfies with dilated pupils, is that too heavy handed?
Ernest Clusslelock - Sun, 28 Jan 2018 19:26:42 EST ID:Bg12vtmc No.521814 Ignore Report Quick Reply
A lot of girls on Tinder say '420 friendly' so I don't see anything wrong with that. It will put some women off but if one of your main priorities is finding a girl who's down for doing lots of drugs then it's probably worth it. Just have a profile that makes it look like you have a life and are at least moderately successful and you should be fine.
Shit Dartforth - Sun, 28 Jan 2018 19:34:48 EST ID:aS5NsVdk No.521816 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Now that I read this, I think I'm overthinking it slightly, I just don't want to be used for drugs but to some extent that will be unavoidable and it'll be really easy to figure out on the first date if someone's doing that. At least I hope.

I cant have sex with my gf anymore... and it sucks by Polly Duckman - Fri, 22 Dec 2017 17:20:13 EST ID:vfv6CJ4n No.520786 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>been dating this girl for 6 months now
>im 6 years older than her (27 vs 21)
>im more sexually experienced than her (shes plain jane vanilla af)

When we first got togeather I would get hard from just making out and my hog would stay hard. But over the last few weeks it takes effort to get aroused and when I am hard I go soft when I penetrate her. She hates suxking dick and her hand job skills are sub-par (this is b/c of her inexperience). I care about her emotionally but it seems like im not that physically attracted to her (or atleast thats how she feels). Its not a nerves/drug issue, so wtf is going on??
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Phineas Hiddlefock - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 09:06:54 EST ID:8l2djH8Q No.521764 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Any partner- male, female, or other- who won't do everything in their power to get their significant other off orally isn't worth shit tbh OP. Dump her
Jarvis Tootway - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 11:19:06 EST ID:Gz8NMxIA No.521767 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Is it because of inexperience? When I met my first boyfriend I read hours reading articles to make sure I'd be able to please him and I found out later that he had been doing the same and although we were both virgins we had a lot of fun together

Well, ok, she isn't a reader, me and first boyfriend bonded over books before becoming a couple so that was bound to happen. But surely you can give her tips? Communicate?
Jarvis Tootway - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 11:21:21 EST ID:Gz8NMxIA No.521769 Ignore Report Quick Reply
(reading is better than watching videos because porn is based on what looks good while people write tips based on what feels good)
Priscilla Gebblefut - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 11:32:08 EST ID:ROGlj1oY No.521771 Ignore Report Quick Reply
this, you have to unlock the freak side in her
Doris Porryworth - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 17:44:08 EST ID:eLRQSL1/ No.521793 Ignore Report Quick Reply
this, I met a shy girl and she was so afraid of having sex at first. I had to hug her and caress her hair and bs like that.
One day I took her to buy some sexy clothes, make her feel comfortable by taking some nice pictures of her wearing more revealing clothing, edited the best and printed them for her. She started dressing more nicely and taking better care of herself, being more open and flirtatious, eventually i come home one day and she opens the door wearing only an apron like "it's time for dessert"

good times

It keeps getting worse. by Matilda Wellynut - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 09:16:46 EST ID:qf3VM/yq No.521781 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I don't have much outside contact with the world so I wanted to share how fucked my life has become ever since falling into serious addiction that is destroying my mind and body.

I haven't felt anything emotional for so long because the drugs are good at locking me out but I'm crying now. I realised that literally the only thing that can make me feel anymore is music - I can't describe what the feeling is, maybe a combination of sadness & beauty that's like a medium which the divine used to connect with your soul.

I don't know what I have become, It's hard to describe and the drugs really have fucked up my brains capacity to reflect on things happening to me - I'm not even on autopilot anymore, it's just a crazy dream.

You spend so much time alone without anyone willingly giving a shit about you; you go on this path of transformation to manipulate others to care about you under the guise of some sort of "self - development". A lot of people do it and only now am I realising what a weird indoctrination it is - it's completely self-centered & ego.

I'm the fuck up kid with attentional/focus/memory issues/autistic -maybe your co-worker or class mate that tries not to be noticed lest it be known how inferior he is. When they do notice its soul crushing, they're making fun of you, getting angry - some think your'e fucking things up deliberately.

I tried to overcompensate so hard without the others noticing.

I fuck up so much I can't hold a job long before getting fired. I'm terrified about the future because all my attempts to just live a normal life have failed my job, relationships with everyone, my family, my ex, my friends - they all fell apart. .

Stuck, I didn't know what to do.
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awe !!vVWR8L52 - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 09:40:50 EST ID:hQScIyLB No.521782 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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The reason you feel sad is because you think you can't have what you want to have and the simple solution to that is to stop thinking that that thing you want is what is going to make you whole and satisfied, but instead looking at it as a game as something fun to do and then you may put yourself into an attitude that you have nothing because nothing out there is going to redeem your soul, but from that place of poorness, you will suddenly start noticing the riches, because once you give up on ever making yourself satisfied (since non of those things are capable of that) you just automatically start playing which what is available, first it's maybe some small and stupid shit, but then it grows, just don't try to accomplish anything you are being guided by your dao, by your passion and you don't have to do anything other than to stop struggling and you don't have to do even that, just fucking steady your thoughts with a bit of meditation and just relax, chill out and do whatever you want to do, take a walk, call a friend, whatever man, shoot some dope if that's the best thing you can do right now and drop your biases, you will get certain results and your brain is used to respond to them in a certain way, but just remain in ground zero, like every moment is a new fresh start, that steadiness is what you are looking for and that steadiness means you don't jump to conclusions and get upset, you just doin' your best right now, don't judge things. if the best thing you can play with isn't even worth doing just laying and meditating is the best option you have, just take it, whatever man, shit might be fucked but you deserve to feel dope and so fuck it, do what excites you now or if you are just tormented by your thoughts, meditate and immediately you will feel relief. Focus on breath or just ambience of reality. Those things you can;t currently play with or enjoy, aren't something that is suddenly gonna make you feel whole either, just like the little games that are available to you now don't make you whole, but they aren't here for that I think, they are there just for kicks. The more you rely on yourself (meditation or just self-confidence) the be…
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Matilda Wellynut - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 10:45:07 EST ID:qf3VM/yq No.521786 Ignore Report Quick Reply
hey dude i really appreciate you taking the time to respond i screened yo shit to reflect. I miss connecting with people so bad. I went to a rave once and had no one to go with so ended hitting up this random dude on community site. This rave is filled with 20 year old kids so I wasnt expecting a 40 year old bald Indian dentist travelling interstate. Needless to say he was the raddest good vibe cunt I ever met zero inhibitions and danced his curry-loving ass off.

We ended up getting split up during the rave I told this random dickhead on some good pills that he danced faster than id ever seen and we ended up hanging Its almost the end of the rave and they put on some classic trance tunes Indianbro shows up at the perfect time.

im drenched in sweat at this point so I tell him to touch my hair which is dripping wet at this point. so thats why your bald I told him and we both cracked up. Introduced him to speed runner and the 3 of us locked arms like faggots till it was over.
awe !!vVWR8L52 - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 10:54:06 EST ID:hQScIyLB No.521787 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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you do your thing mate, thanks for sharing, beautiful moments.
Priscilla Sinnershit - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 11:29:38 EST ID:aUdigX5R No.521788 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Your post seems really honest and it made me a bit sad. It's hard to come by such honesty you know? That's a good thing. Some of what you said reminded me of myself too -I was, as well, the fuck up kid with attentional/focus/memory issues/autistic, whatever, and I still am to some extent. What 'awe' said seems great advice. I don't know if I've got something deeper or better to say, maybe just tell you my concrete experience.

What saved me from drugs was doing excercise. Martial arts in particular. I always liked martial arts, but when I was 18 -same time I got into drugs- I started training rather serious. I abandoned it for some time just to do/buy more drugs. But when I decided to go back, it was rather uncomfortable to train high, or to get high before training; and after training I just didn't feel like doing hard drugs. Now I train martial arts for a living, and have a couple students that had drugs problems (one of them had serious drug issues) and they also tell me martial arts was their way out of it. So maybe there's something there. At least something practical you can try. Besides, there's all sorts of people in martial arts, you'll surely be able to meet someone cool to hang out with.

Someone who's been able to keep me company when I felt most alone is Emil Cioran. A rumanian author who I think captures the anxiety of existence better than anyone. He's somewhat dark and sad, but I've always felt understood when I read him.
Matilda Wellynut - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 18:41:31 EST ID:qf3VM/yq No.521794 Ignore Report Quick Reply
wow dude funny you mentioned martial arts recently i put an ad up for all my boxing equipment to do the exact same thing. I was completely sober for about 3 months before getting hooked again. But during that time i used to train hard everyday.

ill check out emil thanks for the recommendation

dreaming my ex by solly - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 09:26:56 EST ID:tarVG3Zk No.521765 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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8 years after break up , have a new girlfriend for 6 years , really good relationship ; all of the sudden I keep dreaming of my ex . At first it was once every month now it every day. Dont know how to resolve my feelings towards her cause I thought there aint any . Could someone give a usefull tip would appriciate it much.
Jarvis Tootway - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 11:16:48 EST ID:Gz8NMxIA No.521766 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You are saying that the dreams mean you have feelings for her... is there a reason you think that?
solly - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 17:38:09 EST ID:tarVG3Zk No.521775 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Im not sure they mean that , but they change my feelings so they do influence me a lot.
Jack Cendlewill - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 06:40:28 EST ID:COAX7aNZ No.521780 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Feelings are just ideas. You can't control them but they don't have to control you.

The fact you're putting so much thought, but not actually thought into them empowers them. You'll keep dreaming about if if you think about it a lot, it's a cycle. You know there's no feelings but by refusing to actually properly get in and confirm that you're not proving that to yourself. You're leaving shadows and letting them fill with bullshit.

Either put them out of mind or confront them entirely and rationally. Look at why your relationship ended, if those dreams reflect reality or an ideal that never existed. If it did exist, could it really exist now? What is the reality with your current girl like? You can use this distraction and turn it around and examine what DOES work with your current relationship. Why did you break up? Does this girl in your dreams exist or will she (and you) have changed in the last 8 years?
Phoebe Pockwater - Sat, 24 Mar 2018 20:59:57 EST ID:rF2KXOPj No.523033 Ignore Report Quick Reply
dreaming of screaming

It'd be so easy by Edward Deffingtire - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 01:04:10 EST ID:/v/fnY4O No.521753 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Literally all I'd have to do is tie a belt around my neck, secure it around the doorknob, and drop down. Then, I'd be dead before I knew it. It'd take my mom at least a day before she thinks to open the door. She'd probably call my phone and hear it ring within my room. Maybe my dog would scrape at the door and that'd tell her to open it.

Why's it so easy? Why's it so easy to imagine? What demon is there inside of me that blinds me to all the pain it'd cause? It's the demon of my own misery. The demon of my own making. The demon that tells me my life isn't worth it just because... of what? Of whatever nonsense in front of my eyes scares the prospect of life from me? The fact that I'm stuck on a fucking math question? Bullshit.
Jenny Sissleham - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 02:05:48 EST ID:cG0vV5OZ No.521756 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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awe !!vVWR8L52 - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 15:14:38 EST ID:hQScIyLB No.521772 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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just do what you please sir. within what is available and forget your dreams and watch them resurface if you are able to stave off dissatisfaction and remain in the present doing what you please
Phyllis Sonningnare - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 16:08:02 EST ID:1w7xyiy2 No.521773 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>The fact that I'm stuck on a fucking math question? Bullshit.
Phyllis Sonningnare - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 17:27:15 EST ID:1w7xyiy2 No.521774 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>It's the demon of my own misery.


I have depression, and my brain chemistry makes me think tells me I'm wrong when I know I'm right... by Cornelius Gembleston - Sun, 14 Jan 2018 23:50:14 EST ID:Rh2baswa No.521495 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I need your help /qq/

I have come to this board with this issue before. If I went full detail you'd probably remember but I'll tell you what has happened.

A year and ago

>Meet a single mother through a mutual friend. One night am told that we're hanging out. First night went great, and the second night we hung out we ending up having sex. From there we started a sexual relationship. Start having intense feelings for her, one night we're sitting on the couch. Ask her if she's seeing anyone else. She pauses and tells me "No....but I still want to go on dates"

I was shocked, didn't know how to react. I hid my reaction, I know it showed on my face as soon as she said that. She then said "I should've told you"
I didn't respond for a few seconds and she asked me what I was thinking
"I trust you"

>Sexual relationship continues on...over the course of a couple months. I am trying to figure out what its going to become, because I didn't want to end up in a situation where I am being pulled on a string while she waits around for the right guy to show up. The last weekened we had sex, or hung out at all I did see her again after that. Well sorta. She stopped responding to my texts. I would get one text a day back, and I wanted to talk to her about what we were. She wouldn't ever give me any of her time, and acted as if she was too busy to speak to me.
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George Blythewell - Sun, 21 Jan 2018 20:47:25 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.521686 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Tough love is bullshit and there is nothing useful OP can ever salvage from that abomination of a post.
William Smallham - Sun, 21 Jan 2018 22:14:52 EST ID:rTcHh7Rn No.521690 Ignore Report Quick Reply

From a quick glance the post seems well and informative to me.

>Focus on your self and your purpose, the women will follow.

Absolutely true. One hundred percent. Don't even put any thought towards women. Find some hobbies that are also skills practice. Become infatuated with aying an instrument or doing woodworking or art.

Live a passionate life, for YOURSELF, and when you aren't even expecting it, or even looking, the right person will come along for you.

And in the meanwhile you won't even give a fuck that you're single, because you'll be perfectly happy being yourself, bettering yourself every day. It's the damn truth.
Thomas Chettinghall - Tue, 23 Jan 2018 16:17:00 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.521710 Ignore Report Quick Reply
PUAs need to be banned from 420chan, your posts all reek of tryhard to the core. Sheesh.
Isabella Smalldock - Thu, 25 Jan 2018 13:19:57 EST ID:COAX7aNZ No.521740 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>Focus on your self and your purpose, the women will follow.
Not necessarily true. Things might improve, they might not. However if everything else is great then you will be all around happier anyway. No one ever said "what I made my life great for nothing?".
Phoebe Blabblechodge - Thu, 25 Jan 2018 23:59:44 EST ID:THKYnNtc No.521752 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Got anything worthwhile to contribute?

Draining persons by Jenny Sillyfudging - Wed, 24 Jan 2018 08:49:32 EST ID:XdX/HAF1 No.521718 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Have you ever experienced feeling exhausted everytime you hang out with a specific person?
I have one friend that always leave me drained after we have spent time together. The problem is that we live in the same neighbourhood, and that he wants to hang out everyday (which we don't do at this point, because I manage to stay busy.). It actually feels like having a possesive girlfriend sometimes, even though he acts in a hypermasculine way, being from the middle east and all.
I find it hard to pin point exactly what makes me feel this way, but here are some traits I know annoy me for sure:

He always babble on and on about Islam, even though he know I don't believe in it.

He is most of the time in a bad mood, and not directing it inwards like most depressed people, but directing outwards. This results in rants about judgement day, zionistic conspirations and so on.

He likes to talk A LOT, but hates to listen. It is like silence hurts for him or something. This means monologues about the same subject for hours and hours, and sometimes it will be the same subject reoccuring for days.

He cant accept a no. So everytime I want to say no, I will have to have a long discussion.

He is always very judgemental about people, and how they are not acting in the correct islamic way, or just how they are supposed to. He also like to tell me, and other people what they should do, or how they should behave. He will say it like its for your own good, but its not like he is doing better than me or anything. It is just part of his general "I know better than everyone" attitude.

He borrow things and dont return them. He borrow money and take forever to return them, and sometimes only returning some of them. I know this can happen for everyone, and I honestly value friendship over material things. But I feel that in the way he does it, he is just putting himself first.
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Jenny Sillyfudging - Wed, 24 Jan 2018 10:39:48 EST ID:XdX/HAF1 No.521721 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Lol maybe, but when u spend a lot time with someone, it is hard not to care for them in some way.
Samuel Femmercocke - Wed, 24 Jan 2018 11:23:57 EST ID:ROGlj1oY No.521722 Ignore Report Quick Reply
cut him off
Isabella Guddlefield - Wed, 24 Jan 2018 13:22:50 EST ID:JJ+yCUQy No.521725 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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My roommate/coworker is like that. Draining. If I didn't know better I'd think he was autistic or something because he just doesn't understand how to properly behave in social situations.

It's not like he goes around saying really inappropriate things, but he ALWAYS has to be talking about SOMETHING. And it's always something that nobody cares about, and he never knows when to just stop talking.

And when he learns something new, like some news story, or some weird fact about something, he tells EVERYONE. Just randomly out of fucking nowhere he brings it up and starts talking about it, to EACH person when he sees them individually.

Like I said he's my coworker, well one of our semi-regular customers came in the day after my roommate/coworker worked and said something about him. He said he wanted to punch my coworker in the face and said he nicknamed him, "stupid head."

Legitimately after only having known my roommate for five minutes this dude nicknamed him stupid head and wanted to punch him in the face. That's how fucking draining this dude is. People ask me how I handle living with him.
Cornelius Pullylit - Thu, 25 Jan 2018 18:46:08 EST ID:7IGW3+Ip No.521747 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>loud zealous religious faggot thief incapable of active listening who openly disrespects me in every way possible at all times and cares nothing for my thoughts, emotions, or opinions isn't fun to hang out with

help OP every time i slap a beehive a bunch of bees sting me but i dont like being stung what should i do in this situation?
awe !!vVWR8L52 - Thu, 25 Jan 2018 19:45:34 EST ID:hQScIyLB No.521749 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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exactly my thoughts, i was just too jaded to put them to words kek

Fuck by Angus Chummertet - Mon, 22 Jan 2018 20:53:45 EST ID:UZC9gHak No.521693 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Is weight loss really hard to notice or something? I've been eating way less I cut out alcohol and I used to drink like 12 drinks a night or more plus beer and I would never move now I walk on my treadmill and do tons of stuff I'm standing more sitting less eating less fattening food having smaller portions like 50% less sometimes but I still have giant man titties and a fat gut fuck
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James Perryhall - Wed, 24 Jan 2018 12:20:48 EST ID:Gz8NMxIA No.521723 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Keep at it OP, you'll start to see it soon. Take pictures as well, because if you have a habit of being hard on yourself you won't actually notice how much better you're getting.

Don't eat *less* eat different. You can basically eat as many of most types of veg as you want because they are so low calorie.

If you eat less you end up getting a craving and you say "one small chocolate bar won't hurt" and then without realizing it you are having as many calories as you were having before, or more, if you fill up on low calorie healthy food instead it will be easier to resist temptation

I couldn't fucking get over the spoon of peanut butter i was having as a snack when hungry because i'd had a small lunch was 100 calories each time. Have a big lunch, a big big healthy low calorie lunch.
Isabella Guddlefield - Wed, 24 Jan 2018 13:37:11 EST ID:JJ+yCUQy No.521726 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Also, water. Drink a tall glass of water 15-20 minutes before meal time, this helps you feel less hungry, but also water is good for you. You need to drink at least half a gallon of pure water per day. I live in the US, and here supposedly somewhere around 75% of the population is chronically dehydrated, and a portion of those people are so dehydrated that they mistake thirst for hunger.

Beyond that and what everyone else has mentioned, just keep at it. Work out. When you have a choice to take stairs or an elevator, always take the stairs etc. The longer you go the easier it gets to maintain a healthier lifestyle. Eventually it becomes second nature and you don't have to struggle at all, and being fit and healthy is just as easy as it used to be to be unhealthy and sedentary.
Frederick Trotlock - Wed, 24 Jan 2018 16:11:06 EST ID:h/1sxUpj No.521729 Ignore Report Quick Reply
These are both decent points, but it's also possible to look overweight because, well, you are.
Hugh Peshway - Wed, 24 Jan 2018 22:48:45 EST ID:sM5nvTHu No.521732 Ignore Report Quick Reply

It happens gradually dude, its not like a sudden shift thing, its a slow process unless you are going absolutely bonkers with it. just keep at it!
Jack Dazzleterk - Thu, 25 Jan 2018 04:25:11 EST ID:TUgPV7Lr No.521736 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Keep in mind, the fatty areas that make us look... Well... Fat, are the hardest, and last parts to go. I lost about 100lbs. And I still had kind of a gut and man titties for about a year or so.

I fucking hate my life by Chef - Wed, 24 Jan 2018 22:35:14 EST ID:JX/t2BuR No.521731 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I am in an abusive situation where my younger brother of 21, I am 26, is a total psychopath and I have nowhere else to go, he won't leave, I can never be alone, I want to fucking die
Isabella Sallertudging - Thu, 25 Jan 2018 01:52:48 EST ID:oOQyCzbT No.521733 Ignore Report Quick Reply
get a job. A factory job where you have unlimited overtime. work. work your ass off. Don't have a car? Go get a job at a gas station or mcds you can walk to and make a few paychecks and save up for a shitty $800 beater. Work your ass off and move into a shitty studio. Figure your life out from their.
Emma Savingpudge - Thu, 25 Jan 2018 03:15:08 EST ID:jJunvx0Y No.521734 Ignore Report Quick Reply
This. Just don't be a pussy and make this a number one priority in your life right now.

Will somebody hear help me make a budget? by Barnaby Forringpatch - Tue, 23 Jan 2018 02:33:22 EST ID:oOQyCzbT No.521696 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Pretty please? I'm in over my head and need to move soon., lots of miscellaneous debts. I'm pretty bad with numbers.

I currently make $590 a week after taxes, hoping to get some overtime soon. I make $20 an hour and have no dependents, how I'm being taxed 27% is beyond me. I get paid every friday. I started my job in november. I haven't got any overtime yet but theres been lots of talk of it lately, i'm a temp but I'm hoping and praying to at least be getting 8 hours a week here soon.

Here are my monthly dues:
>The 5th-Rent, $375. $350 november-march or april because I shovel.
>the 7th-Lawsuit, $200. Currently owe about $2300.
>the 11th-Credit card. $25-35 a month is the minimum I pay, I owe $500
>The 18th-I pay my mother for cell phone, insurance, and part of a student loan she signed on a few years back. $156 a month, not worried about how much the student loan is because I wont start pay aggressively until I'm free from other debts.
>The 20th-My car, I pay $180 a month and owe $2640.
>The 27th-A different credit card, $35-50 is the minimum I have to pay, I owe $1000
>The 28th-Internet, $35 a month.

If this was just it I'd be able to figure it out, but theres more factors. I just got a letter saying my student loans are delinquent, I thought the money I paid my mother was connected to the same student loan account, it isnt, I have 2 loans. Im $750 behind and am supposed to be paying about $143 a month.
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Barnaby Forringpatch - Tue, 23 Jan 2018 02:33:53 EST ID:oOQyCzbT No.521697 Ignore Report Quick Reply
*here, nb.
Barnaby Forringpatch - Tue, 23 Jan 2018 02:41:23 EST ID:oOQyCzbT No.521698 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Should mention that when I move I'm going to need a new couch and some furniture. I'm also gonna be in need of a bed within the next year-year and a half. I currently sleep on a box spring on the floor. I'd be willing to put this stuff on credit if I had my credit cards paid off a bit. I have a $1500 limit between both cards and I'd like to keep them both at 30-50% to build some credit. Nb.
Basil Drunderman - Tue, 23 Jan 2018 03:59:12 EST ID:acDz4iky No.521699 Ignore Report Quick Reply

You don't mention interest anywhere on all those loans. Realize that usury is cancer and stop letting people steal money from you when possible.

So total income per month: $2360
Total non-negotiable expenses (car, internet, rent, lawsuit, student loan): $804
Total CC debt: $1500
Total Family debt: $2450
Other monthly expenses: $300
Incidentals: $600 car, $350 trip

This seems easily manageable. Do not pay your family for one month, tighten your belt and COMPLETELY pay off those credit cards. Assuming ~20% interest rate that's $350 a year wasted. Not too bad now, but will get worse over time as your credit expands if you don't get a handle on it ASAP.

Next work out an absolutely minimal payment plan with your family the next month (Like $100/month spread across them) and also use your extra cash to pay for the tires/suspension (DO NOT USE A LOAN). Then the next three months also live frugally and use your tax return to pay off both the car and lawsuit
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Oliver Gummleridge - Tue, 23 Jan 2018 14:54:27 EST ID:COAX7aNZ No.521705 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Agreeing with this guy. You're on a very similar rate of pay to me OP, your rent and bills are so low I could only dream but you have a bunch of debts and liabilities, of which several seem to be bad luck or judgement but you can definitely get rid of them and avoid some of them again.

Loans are for when you have a high return business plan and need capital (and education which improves your career might count as this). Otherwise all you're doing is taking a lot from future you to make yourself well off by less. You're reducing the shit you can do with your money throughout your life.

Credit cards are priority one. Once you're past march you can up your contribution to your family. Tell them that it's going up when you start giving them a token amount, it's a gesture of goodwill but you can pay them faster if you're not shitting credit card interest or fucked for a car. I wouldn't put everything into the family, attack the student loan harder. If you're just paying minimum amounts then you're just paying money to owe money. You're just throwing money away. Get those debts out the way ASAP. The loan is pretty huge but you can probably clear your family within a few months while having it come down and actually doing... stuff.

I think the key is to break this down into phases. Once you've dispensed with debts that you're just servicing you can have a tiny bit of fun again but bear in mind the sooner you pay your debts the less you pay.

Other things:

Food can come down. Not eating takeway saves money if you use your brain. You work 40 hours a week so you should have enough energy to think about meals. Buy in bulk, buy stuff for multiple meals. Ramen is not the cheapest way to eat and you can do healthier for less. However you don't need to sink that low. Eggs are cheap protein.

Your social life after March might be alcohol free. It might involve fewer shows for a while. But organise stuff go and hang out with friends at bars anyway, being sober is only awful the first 2 or 3 times, just make sure you arrive before everyone is wasted. Protip from a very occasional drinker here. You'll get the contact buzz instead of th…
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going to try nofap by catflap fap cat - Sat, 13 Jan 2018 21:43:40 EST ID:SoJt0U7C No.521455 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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TL;DR: Gonna see how long I can not fap for. Wish me luck.
I have been fapping to increasingly fucked up shit and staying up late finding shit to which I want to fap is worsening my already broken sleeping pattern. Hence going to try nofap.

I feel like social pressure would help but I don't like the other chans with /nofap/ boards so I'm just going leave this thread here, post updates and hope that feeling like a failure in front of the cool kids will help.

I've removed the curtains from my bedroom window as a precautionary discouragement. Though I wish my cunting neighbor's security light didn't shine directly into my fucking bedroom.

Will start with the reasonable target of 7 days and this is day 1/7 complete.
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catflap fap cat (keep fucking this name up) - Sat, 20 Jan 2018 21:55:01 EST ID:SoJt0U7C No.521675 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Haha, I hadn't noticed that before, that's a good filter.

Thanks for the link. I checked out the thread but I'm kinda coming at it from a different angle to those people. For instance, I'm hoping that if I can break fapping as a habit my horniness will redirect itself into prosocial romantic behaviours like flirting more.

>to just one day (Sunday). I should be able to do that before i stop completely
Pastor Richards, is that you?

Seriously though, good luck! My reasons for stopping is that the search for novelty was steering me to uncomfortable places so I feel like I need to just avoid it as long as possible and hope my brain rewires. Last night was 7/7 so I guess now I'll see if I can make the end of the month which is a more ambitious target for me.

Lydia Fivingman - Sat, 20 Jan 2018 22:43:49 EST ID:hJOAGUjw No.521676 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Im kinda blown away people still post this reaction image in 2018, carry on.
catflap fap cat - Tue, 23 Jan 2018 20:04:43 EST ID:SoJt0U7C No.521714 Ignore Report Quick Reply
last night I had a dream I that I fapped there and then in my bed.
catflap fap cat - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 20:07:50 EST ID:SoJt0U7C No.521795 Ignore Report Quick Reply
My ex has popped up in my dreams a few times. E.g. I dreamt I saw her on some dating apps, go figure.

I'm waking up before 9am more often than usual so that's gotta be a good sign.
catflap fap cat - Tue, 30 Jan 2018 20:27:50 EST ID:SoJt0U7C No.521868 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I feel this abstinence has definitely helped restore some normality into what invokes arousal in me.

I might cut this shit short by 24 hours because it's sort of immaterial at this point. I don't want to slip back into old habbits so I will probably stay away from porn and see how I feel not fapping for another week.

save gf/let her go by Barnaby Gondlesot - Sun, 14 Jan 2018 04:43:47 EST ID:N+I75Jtq No.521465 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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didnt know where else to post this but im freaking out. my gf left... not me particularly but she left to go back to her old smack and crack habits.

shes been there with me through some of the hardest shit ive ever had to deal with. i wanna do something for her now before something bad happens whether shit ends today or not. we get our /benz/ scripts today. which means i can be there for her now since im addicted primarly to /hooch/. or i can do a better job than i did recently (being drunk out of my mind every fuckibg day n not giving a fuck about shit etc)

k wut do... im broke. shes somewhere in mtl but wont tell me where cause she doesnt want me to see her like that even tho dont care n i love her.

this goes out to the people here who know addiction. should i give it my all n try n save her from herself or is her whole dont wanna be found thing an excuse to get high and i should leave her alone even if that means losing the only person that means ANYTHING to me in this world
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James Smalllock - Sat, 20 Jan 2018 04:36:38 EST ID:CPjK4N4f No.521662 Ignore Report Quick Reply
So, you waiting around for her to finish the job?

RIP OP. Couldn't be fucked to do the right thing in death. Killed by his girlfriend for a blast airhorn gas.
Hamilton Wirringway - Sat, 20 Jan 2018 07:49:14 EST ID:N+I75Jtq No.521666 Ignore Report Quick Reply

nah i kicked her out. didnt think i left that part out. now the inevitable sadness of losing someone you share awesome memories begins. i fucking hate you, life. really...
Hamilton Wirringway - Sat, 20 Jan 2018 07:52:47 EST ID:N+I75Jtq No.521667 Ignore Report Quick Reply

bump cause i dont wanna end this thread with 666.
James Smalllock - Sat, 20 Jan 2018 18:09:00 EST ID:CPjK4N4f No.521672 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You had good times but hers is a downward trajectory. You've jumped off that ride so maybe it's time to look at getting your shit together. Women should be the icing, as some other guy said, the topping on your sundae. Make a good sundae so it doesn't need topping. People aren't going to pour actual melted chocolate and fresh crumbled fudge on shit ice cream either. You're young, you can bounce. It'll be hard work but no one ever asked "what if I made my life great for nothing?".
Hamilton Wirringway - Sat, 20 Jan 2018 18:49:27 EST ID:N+I75Jtq No.521674 Ignore Report Quick Reply

thank you. helped put me in a better mindset. fuck her manipulative ass. goes to show aswell that there arent only beaten women these days... i like to greatly exagerrate my shit but shed hit the shit outta me and out of fear of being labeled a wife beating fuckup i never retaliated.

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