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I have a stupid problem by Isabella Wandlechere - Sun, 12 Mar 2017 13:30:51 EST ID:Vmm82eo5 No.514336 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I met a woman on a social media website randomly. I think we had some interests in common, and that's why she contacted me. I'm 22, she was 40 something. She was a Turkish lawyer, politically active, took part in a book club, just a cool person, I was genuinely happy to know her.

We talked and joked every now and then. I posted some art work and stuff, and she wanted me to draw her some pictures for her, so I did.

Then I think after a year of talking and stuff she unfriended me or whatever. I don't know why, but it bothers me. I sincerely miss this person I never actually met.

>lime for reference
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Esther Breddlegold - Sun, 12 Mar 2017 14:14:03 EST ID:UrQwPY3E No.514337 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514336
Internet relationships can be like that. Maybe she started seeing someone really jelaous or something, maybe she got bored/tired. I've been there, it sucks. It doesn't suck so bad as being ghosted by someone you know IRL though
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David Brinderkutch - Sun, 12 Mar 2017 14:27:07 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.514338 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Yeah most of my internet friendships have gone this way. Honestly I don't know how me and the 3 buddies I've got on discord still talk to each other, I've been friends with them for like 12 years now. You'd figure we'd have grown apart by now, not like I'm complaining. It's just how these kinds of things usually go.


Started as a reply, think i need a thread by Lillian Gebberdag - Mon, 06 Mar 2017 16:29:40 EST ID:CfonqoA0 No.514133 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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My relationship was dead a long time ago. I don't know why people stay together after things fall apart; I'm in that boat. Except I'm the asshole trying to leave, and she's clinging to me for dear life. I don't quite understand it.

We barely have sex, if at all, and I've recently been fired to boot. I moved in with her while I was trying to find a new job so that I wouldn't have to pay rent; her fam owns the property. I figured, this relationship is a huge headache and drain on my psyche, might as well get something out of it. Well, I got fired because they knew I was looking, and because I couldn't bring myself to care anymore; another thing I kept alive longer than it should have.

We lived 50 miles apart before, only had sex on the weekends, kept this going for a few years. I used to have a huge libido, was messing around with a few girls when we first started fucking. Somehow it became a relationship with this girl, I dunno why, she drew me in. Well, when sex only happened when she was out here, that was a change. Then eventually my sex drive basically died. I remember, it was a week after I moved in, we still were having sex once or twice a week, and she was crying asking me if I even wanted her. I mean, I thought I was making that pretty obvious when we were living apart, she thought it was the distance but the truth is I didn't want her anymore. I tried breaking up with her 4 times, I mean, you don't say that to someone unless you mean it, but every time I let myself get pulled back in. I think we have sex maybe once or twice a month. I think I may prefer masturbation.

I have a problem with confrontation because I don't like hurting people, which often prolongs problems and makes them worse. I used to have a problem with guilt; self afflicted pain to entrap and ensnare your mind. I still do to an extent, but I can now see the damage it causes over time and no longer feel obligated to really do anything for anyone. I've managed to bypass the reciprocity behavior and can now accept a favor without feeling obligation towards the one who did it.

In any case, I look back on who I used to be and see someone with so much promise. I wish I had never met…
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Esther Harrywine - Fri, 10 Mar 2017 20:06:44 EST ID:o3vIoRWZ No.514298 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>I'm a veteran here, been at 420chan for a while, don't visit the others. This site is my guilty pleasure; an artifact that I should leave in my past to make room for progress in my life.

Bye Lillian! We've had fun here, you and I, many a good time and probably many a bad time too. I'm glad to have... erm... interacted with you. Good luck and SLAYER to you
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Hamilton Cavingtut - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 22:25:41 EST ID:zOfwhgti No.514328 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514289
Right there's really not any excuse for it other than selfishness. There's a difference between two people staying together just trying to make it work. I have a friend just like this. Been dating this same girl for four years and he knows he doesn't want it to last. He does this to every single girl he dates "oh well better than being single". Complains about every ingle aspect of his partner and talks bad about them. That is super shitty and I don't have any respect for anyone that does this to people. Its not normal, and it's not healthy. Most people have figured out by now if something isn't working out then they leave that person and find someone it will work with. Op needs to be alone, that's the only way for him to ever figure himself out and his issues but I'm sure he's like my friend.
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Emma Gonkinmuck - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 22:34:56 EST ID:IHJIJ3DH No.514329 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514291
<<So crucify me or not. I am what I am.

Had to put in my two cents but it sounds to me like you know you are pretty shitty and then when someone pointed that out to you started whining again. This really is one of the whiniest posts I've seen in awhile. Cool I mean it's good to get it out but don't get mad for someone calling you out on it when when you essentially know you are shitty for what you are doing.
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David Brinderkutch - Sun, 12 Mar 2017 12:55:22 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.514334 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514291
You say you aren't claiming to be a victim, and maybe you aren't claiming to be, but you're viewing and reacting to this whole situation from the standpoint of one. You're acting like you've been personally attacked. Yeah, maybe some of the responses are a bit crass, but when you lash out in response, it shows your insecurity is causing you to feel attacked... you know, like a victim. Victim mentality extends far beyond the relationship itself, and into how you interact with others when the relationship is the topic.

Honestly, unless your response is "yeah, I realize I'm willingly participating in a toxic relationship because of personal weakness" and decide to break it off, you need to realize you're doing this to yourself. Sure, the other person that's toxic shares a bit of responsibility and blame, but you're using that fact to rationalize your own behavior and excuse your inability to make a healthy decision for yourself. It honestly doesn't matter what the other person in the relationship does unless they're somehow preventing you from leaving by force. Otherwise, all the shit they do to you is something you've essentially consented to. If you're aware it's going on and you know you have the power to leave and don't, it's your fault, not your partner's.
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Hamilton Cavingtut - Sun, 12 Mar 2017 13:27:43 EST ID:zOfwhgti No.514335 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514334
But its not just the victim mentality, it's all the whining he did in this thread on top of it.


Help by Albert Brookgold - Sun, 12 Mar 2017 10:23:22 EST ID:vKvaev27 No.514332 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>Dont get laid for few years
>Go to underground rager
>hot ass black 18 year old slut keeps sitting on my lap and taking my hand and sucking my fingers and shit
>friend ends up puking all over the place, we have to leave

All i got was a boner and a snapchat
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George Bedgefoot - Sun, 12 Mar 2017 11:27:55 EST ID:OQV2Ceh+ No.514333 Ignore Report Quick Reply
hit that bitch up on snapchat dumbass.


work interaction by Ernest Wannerchatch - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 00:01:42 EST ID:L9x3lDju No.514304 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>Co-workers try to chat it up with me
>Socially awkward/handicapped/retarded
>Try to make a stupid joke so they will go away because its all I know to do
>Try all but outright saying "I am terrible at being social just go away."
>They keep attempting to make conversation

How do I get them to fuck off?
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Lydia Shittingshit - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 00:24:26 EST ID:vNkiRJtJ No.514305 Ignore Report Quick Reply
"Guys, you all seem like nice people but I'm not a people's person. I'm terrible at being social, so I'd rather work in peace and quiet, no offense."

That said, you can't be that awful socially if everyone wants to talk to you. Also, you should definitivily practice on them social skills, even if you don't like it. It's probably your most important skillset in this society.
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Ian Hoffingspear - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 04:51:31 EST ID:KveR7zNs No.514310 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514304
Do you actually dislike social interaction or are you just trying to push them away so then you haven't "failed" when they decide they don't like you.

Social interaction in work has it's uses. It greases the wheels. If people believe you think they're okay then you'll get the benefit of the doubt. It's really fucking useful. I'm pretty bad at social stuff but once people have talked to me and seen that I mean well and I'm trying to be friendly they're much easier to communicate with.

When I send emails sometimes I say something stupid, because they've talked to me in person and heard me on the phone they interpret it the right way. That friendly social experience even if I'm awkward has indicated I want to help. They are then more likely to do what I (usually they as well) need them to do. You don't need to be amazing just show you want them to not hate you. If your workplace isn't garbage tier full of people projecting their dissatisfaction of life on to co workers people actually want to get on with you and it's extra easy.
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Isabella Brugglebury - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 05:33:16 EST ID:B8hLVum7 No.514312 Ignore Report Quick Reply
The only solution is to get better at socializing. That means awkward small talk. No one gives a fuck if you're anxious but you will give a fuck if 10 years down the track you are still where you are now. It's practice dude.
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Nathaniel Nadgefield - Sun, 12 Mar 2017 10:02:47 EST ID:xQY7/x+6 No.514331 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Embrace your awkwardness and babble on like an idiot. Poke a little fun at your awareness you aren't socialized. Vomit on the floor. It'll all work out


Don't think I'm fit for a relationship by Shit Billingshit - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 16:35:46 EST ID:6PIOhE09 No.514319 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I am acquainted with this cute af shawty and was thinking about hitting her up. Then I think about trusting someone that much and sharing so much about yourself. Like nah I like sex and the thought about having a gf but I don't think I actually want to be that THAT intimate with someone. I've been depressed for a very long time, it started to let up when I smoked weed errday - I don't think I have any attractive qualities. Do some of you guys feel the same?
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Thomas Woshstidge - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 19:29:10 EST ID:5Wtawf5H No.514322 Ignore Report Quick Reply
No shut up you annoying teenager
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Esther Breddlegold - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 21:41:48 EST ID:UrQwPY3E No.514326 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Why not? Have you been hurt badly before? Being intimate with someone can be really nice. I mean you get to live things you won't be able to experience any other way. And they are pretty nice and intense experiencies (there's also the counterside of the awfull and intense experiences but well who cares)
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Esther Breddlegold - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 21:43:17 EST ID:UrQwPY3E No.514327 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514326
Also if you don't think you have any attractive qualities (which surely you do have), start working on them.

You can study, get a hobby, learn to do something cool, go to the gym I dunno, there's lots of stuff to do to better yourself
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Charles Murdwill - Sun, 12 Mar 2017 05:54:41 EST ID:6PIOhE09 No.514330 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>514327
ye ill go fuck myself rn tbqh famalam


neverending reality by Wesley Sankinchedge - Sun, 05 Mar 2017 05:34:25 EST ID:r5LgoY5x No.514034 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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The last time I posted here was 2 years ago. I moved from my fathers house because of my bad relations with sister. I felt like most of my stress back then was coused by her. She 's got a poison ivy ,materialist and egocentric attitude but tries to be all cool and empatic when infront od her friends(and shes a good actress). I thought that if i leave, my situation would get better. Now, 2 years later im Living with my Gf and shes the only one that keeps me happy. My father is weak willed And he became more and more accustom to my sisters behaviour. Now i feel guilty for leaving him with her, shes basicly lives of him and im the only person that have a resolve to speak about it(not to mention that shes 5years older then me, 34 now and still squot with her bf at my fathers place). I also cant stop thinking about all the wrongdoings of her to the point that i dream about it almost daily. Its Dead end situation because i tried real hard to resolve it in every possible way before i moved out. Im afraid my mental state was seriously fucked up (it lasted about 10 years before i moved out). ATM my phisical condition is also no better - illness after illness. Now i hate myself because i feel like i could do better job at living my life and this situation. i cant live my life, just suffer and expirience short periods of mental escapes, trying to forget all of this problems exists. I have trouble with finishing any projects that im trying to create ( i dont have a normal steady job, i dont think i could handle IT daily), my abition and motivation is almost nonexisting at this point. I feel like im done, theres no more for me above the place where i am now. Theres no purpose for me anymore but Try to enjoy my time as much as i can and Try to make my Gf as happy as she can be. I dont want to kill myself right now, i dont speak about it, because at one point my Gf said that she wants to do it with me and i cant stand the thought of her killing herself.
I dont know what to do, i tried to prevail my mental issuses but nowadays i puzzle myself if my physical state isnt related to my mind state. I always thought that the shrink isnt for me, that its all im the head and IT worked. Now the problems seemed to outpour on other…
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Hannah Shakelock - Fri, 10 Mar 2017 21:04:48 EST ID:OUrEVNqi No.514300 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514212
There's no fucking way you'd lose 15-20 lbs overnight even if you climbed a fucking mountain on an empty stomach and were completely dehydrated.
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Ian Hoffingspear - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 04:57:41 EST ID:KveR7zNs No.514311 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514300
Yeah. I can put on 10 pounds and then if I've eaten so much my belly sticks out if I then eat at enough of a deficit to burn the fat after a week I'll have done that and lost the 9 pounds of water weight too. But that's fucky. Unless you're also measuring at different times of day and with different amounts of clothing.

changing what you eat does create a short term weight change but it's not sustained. It's an initial shock. If you drop 1000 calories out of a break even diet you might lose 4-5 pounds in the first week and 2 pounds thereafter. If you go from christmas eating to a 1000 calorie deficit you might lose 7 or 8 pounds in the first week. OP however could very easily have lost 5 pounds due to water weight when his diet changed and then the stomach flu means nothing in and dehydration even after holding less sugar and salt (which makes you drink and retain more water) so he could have lost another 5 pounds or more pounds of water weight that way too. His body would be holding less carbs than previously in both situations. A week of normal eating later and some of that stomach flu weight would come back. Now he's losing 20 pounds over 3 months which actually is pretty reasonable.
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Henry Ponnershaw - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 10:59:31 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.514314 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514300
Don't know what to tell you other than what I experienced weighing myself. I lifted weights back then and drank a lot of energy drinks. Chances are dehydration had a lot to do with it, but I ate tons too. Like I said, 3 days off would lead me to lose like 30 lbs, but obviously I couldn't keep losing 15lbs a night over and over indefinitely. It happened as part of the regular cycle of gaining it back.

Again, even now when I don't exercise really at all, I go from 232lbs down to 224lbs usually within a day or two just by changing my eating habits.
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Henry Ponnershaw - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 11:00:48 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.514315 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514314
I also used to run a lot. I was in the military. I'd usually run 3 miles 4 days out of the week.
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Isabella Sopperwell - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 21:39:39 EST ID:ipp5TPlA No.514325 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514314
yeah its definitely not that unusual. last week i hung out with someone who cooked healthy meals for a few days and lost 15 pounds in 3 days. went back to my fast food diet and have gained almost all of it back in the same amount of time.


It's hating time! by Archie Dittingspear - Fri, 10 Mar 2017 15:05:49 EST ID:LMz4zS5C No.514282 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Just post here a famous person that you hate, and write about the issues why you hate that person.
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Archie Dittingspear - Fri, 10 Mar 2017 16:04:19 EST ID:LMz4zS5C No.514288 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514287
A dorky short hobbit that I rate in par with Kardashians.
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Caroline Hangersere - Fri, 10 Mar 2017 17:37:51 EST ID:gu/lq3ms No.514292 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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It's getting harder and harder to keep the faith. It's been years, and he still hasn't come back.
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Martin Chemmerlock - Fri, 10 Mar 2017 18:52:19 EST ID:QVcoJ6HE No.514296 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514287

she is very attractive. dont know what her thing is or that she had a brother but 10/10 would bang
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Archie Dittingspear - Fri, 10 Mar 2017 18:55:56 EST ID:LMz4zS5C No.514297 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514296
Of course she's a nice toy to put your dick in, but at the same time she's a snake with poison.
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Henry Ponnershaw - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 11:08:31 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.514317 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514296
She's no higher than 7/10. That being said I'd bang a 4/10 without much of a second thought anyway, but let's not be making this girl out to look better than she does lol


I have too many women by Frederick Clomblefidge - Fri, 03 Mar 2017 15:45:40 EST ID:8ZGXI+3c No.513961 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hey guys, I posted like a year ago about how I'd meet girls to cuddle with because I was lonely. I'm an introvert and while Im not shy, Im not good at flirting or anything like that. That said, I'm tall, very fit, educated, and handsome. Anyway I did put myself out there more and since that year old post I now find myself seeing 4 women at the same time.

The first is an 18 yo girl who really wants my dick and I think next time she's over Ill give it to her. So far we just cuddled and I grope her ass. The second is a 22 yo Muslim girl who I now see once/twice a week and we have the kinkiest sex you've ever seen. The third is a friend's 24 yo girlfriend(they are open, no he doesn't watch.) And the 4th is a hot 47 yo Japanese MILF.

The 22 yo muslim girl is in love with me. She knows Im seeing other women and we kind of had this agreement that we were open. For her, she is the most kinky/sexual person I have met and I like her more than any of my other girls because she's fun to hang out with and she's beautiful. She is inching to being exclusive. The love on her side is real and she feels hurt when I get with my other girls.

Here is the thing....I'm seeing 4 girls at a time and living it up. Men dream of being in this position and I'm having a lot of fun(although it can be stressful). I also can't officialy "Date" her since she's Muslim and her family would blow my apartment or try to cut my head off. And even though she's a lovely girl and would make a perfect Stepford wife, I can't have a child raised as a muslim. That said I really enjoy my time with her.

If the 22 yo Muslim girl goes away, I'll get sex from my other 3 girls, but I dont really like going out to dinner ect with any of them. Even if I can attract girls well, I find myself becoming personally interested in very few. And weeding through women is hard because of my looks and status. When girls meet me they want to start seeing me all the time and trying to tag along with everything I do.

I really want the muslim girl to sleep with another man and maybe after that be willing to be in an open relationship. Although she is insanely sexual(anal, BDSM, pee, ect...) s…
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Alice Greenforth - Fri, 03 Mar 2017 20:45:19 EST ID:TmVLUmiX No.513976 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Watch My Little Pony Friendship Is Magic.
Not only will you have a great time and learn lots about friendship (which will help you figure out the situation you're in), but you'll instantly be cursed and women will avoid you at all costs.
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Cornelius Pudgegold - Sat, 04 Mar 2017 00:14:08 EST ID:uoA4QU5R No.513983 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>513961
>I can't have a child raised as a muslim.

if you raise a child together than you can decide not to. clearly she isn't muslim muslim
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Lydia Shittingshit - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 01:03:40 EST ID:vNkiRJtJ No.514306 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Bring them all together for an orgy, OP. Sounds like you're all set for creating your very own harem. You could wear a kinky turban for your muslim girl and pretend to be an Ottoman sultan, with her as your main wife and the other three as your concubines. Her parents could probably respect that.

Problem solved.


Besides illegal Government mind control, my life is boring by Oliver Funnerforth - Fri, 10 Mar 2017 21:19:01 EST ID:ZdYDgngH No.514302 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Besides illegal Government mind control, I'm pretty boring. And you can't really talk about eh illegal Government mind control, so I have nothing to talk about. It's kinda depressing. What do?
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Molly Hannerridge - Mon, 13 Mar 2017 12:18:17 EST ID:zbKXnohS No.514369 Ignore Report Quick Reply
schizophrenia is hardly boring nb


How to prepare for social life? by Buck Buttgun - Sun, 05 Mar 2017 16:01:30 EST ID:znuD1zKS No.514045 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hello,

I'm quite a lonely person. The only two people I regularly see are my parents (I live with my mother). I don't have a social life and as such I barely communicate with people. However, I plan on changing the situation I am in and hopefully I will get more of a social life as a consequence.

My question is: how do I prepare for that? I notice that when I go a long time without meeting and talking to people, I feel like I'm a little rusty and awkward.

Is there any way I can prepare myself for meeting new people and making a good impression or being able to hold a good conversation? In other words, to not come across as if I don't speak to anyone for months at a time.

Thanks /qq/
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Walter Brungerspear - Thu, 09 Mar 2017 05:23:45 EST ID:GCRzmhoF No.514242 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Many people have been used this book for advice on how to learn to be social, it was written over 70 years ago, quoted by many famous speakers, and translated into many different languages. I have it to my brother as a gift before he entered highschool as a coming of age gift with the belief that it would help him.

It's called How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie and if you search the reviews on the book yourself you may find that there are benefits for your life of you decide to try it.
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Emma Sillyhood - Thu, 09 Mar 2017 11:59:02 EST ID:64dyEkvW No.514251 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514242
Everybody ought to read that book. The title sounds kinda sleazy but it totally isn't, although you do have to keep in mind that some of it does sound superficially very dated. A modern translation of the title would probably just be something like, "How To Not Be An Ineffective Douchebag 101."
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Wesley Crimblelock - Thu, 09 Mar 2017 12:49:34 EST ID:QVcoJ6HE No.514253 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Well first try to stop living with your mother.
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Martin Pungersotch - Fri, 10 Mar 2017 11:43:46 EST ID:ngLYHpR4 No.514277 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OP, I have a panacea for you.
I'm an introvert. Yet there is something that makes me become an extrovert.
microdosing shrooms.
Try it. Go out to an event you're interested in (alone) after ingesting like 0.5G of shrooms. Suddenly you'll feel significantly more-inclined to be active and talk to people without tripping.
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Augustus Domblehood - Fri, 10 Mar 2017 12:40:56 EST ID:plr4U7Rg No.514280 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Take care of body (and mind), be confident, don't need anything from them, and relax.


What to do when you have lost the one thing by Alice Nillerdit - Mon, 06 Mar 2017 02:42:45 EST ID:ktHn/Vfz No.514077 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I've been through so much shit in my life, that I truly plan to write a book some day.
Was in a relationship for 5 years
We had too many issues, but now I realize how meant for each other we were or are.
He cheated on me with like 3 girls online, many times. So I took the immature way to do the same, but I got out of control.
He started to put up with my shit, instead of the other way around like it began.
I became this bitter and enraged person that just wanted him to feel the pain I was feeling. I felt unappreciated, ugly, not desired, disrespected, etc..
So I was on a mission to insult his character, family (I had issues with his mom) I basically treated him like garbage right to his face.
The mind is some fucked up shit. I kept thinking that I was winning by doing all of that shit.
All I did was pretend I didn't care, I didn't love him (I know many would say, there was no love) believe there was. On the other hand, he was slowly drifting, slowly detaching himself from me.
After 6 years ( our last year was the worst, he barely had sex and barely saw each other) I found this guy, who I believed was the one. The one that was going to finally make me happy.
Without thinking, I told my bf, at the time, that I physically cheated (first time, all others were online) He still sounded like he wanted to make things work
I told him I didn't want anything to do with him anymore. I literally saw him leave my house with the few things he had in my house and his head down.
Like a total selfish bitch, I didn't care.
I started to realize that week that the new guy was not the one, and my ex and I kept talking as friends.
My opinion to him was extremely important when taking life decisions, so he would always call me to ask me what he should do or get my input in stuff and talk about his issues. I did the same.
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Jarvis Nommlespear - Tue, 07 Mar 2017 13:00:56 EST ID:KveR7zNs No.514197 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514196
I have to say it does sound like he's leading you on. People do this a lot.

Cheating and what happened can be forgiven but at the same time you don't have to if you can't. He gets what he wants from you OP, validation, support and attention. He has no need to ever give you what you want.

Walk away. Realise this. There is no one. He fucked up and you piled on the shit. If you both can forgive and commit then good. But if not then the relationship is over and was always over. By now he's either forgiven you, he hasn't, or he carries on punishing because he feels he should. The latter two mean you should get the fuck out of dodge.

His family are on his side. Just remember that. They may not realise what he's doing but that doesn't mean they're not deep in denial and fighting for what is good for him but awful for you.

Also hell yes did you fuck up and do bad things. But beating yourself up and punishing yourself just increases the misery, it doesn't make things better. Instead you should look at why you did the things you did and how to not do them next time and take any steps you need to help with that. Also probably build a life without him. Force him to take a shit or get off the pot.
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Nicholas Sorringdale - Tue, 07 Mar 2017 14:17:11 EST ID:ktHn/Vfz No.514203 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514197
Everything is extremely hard to read, but all true. And it's something I have tried not to think about, but I know it's happening.

I know why I did what I did, because I was completely hurt.

The hardest thing for me was when I was hospitalize for a month, where I was in danger of losing a kidney. And he never wanted to visit me, I was in my country, but he had the money to go. Specially given the condition that I was in, I had to receive two blood transfutions.

When I finally got home, I was dying to talk to him on the phone, because when in the hospital we could only talk for like 5 - 10 min.

The first night I got home I called him, and he started to tell me "you must feel tired, you should go rest" Me: "I want to talk to you I've missed you" he: "We can talk tomorrow, I think you should rest you must feel exhausted"

When I got back to US, I saw his calls and realized that he wanted to hangup to talk to another girl, and they talked until 7 am.

You are totally right, I do feel extremely bad for what I did, but I know why I did it and hope to never do it again.
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Jarvis Nommlespear - Tue, 07 Mar 2017 14:50:24 EST ID:KveR7zNs No.514205 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514203
I'll start with what I hope is constructive criticism.
>I know why I did what I did, because I was completely hurt.
And you also know to handle it differently? Revenge just gave him leverage against you. Cheating is often an option, it's actually sometimes a very relatable option but there's always a better choice. In this case I'd say get a sincere appology and forgive, and if you cannot do both move on. In this case you could forgive but you never got that apology. Cheating or no... well.

There's a lot of situations and things you could have done differently throughout the whole relationship. you won't spot them all but make sure you learn what you can so you can handle all the fuckups (from both parties, because fuckups will always happen, hopefully not on that scale though) better next time.

What matters is making the right decisions going forward because the past is now unchangeable. Good luck.
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Lydia Findleford - Wed, 08 Mar 2017 22:19:03 EST ID:Lsu2uvaQ No.514234 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>online cheating vs physical cheating
lol millennials.
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Fanny Honningridge - Fri, 10 Mar 2017 03:19:47 EST ID:JsQi4/8G No.514269 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514077


I've decided to move the fuck on

Yesterday.

I talked to him, and told him every bit of truth.

That hanging out with him all the time, just having him depend on me, and having to always include him in my plans and if I don't he makes me feel bad about it. Just doesn't let me move on.

I've done a lot of thinking and it's like we are together minus the sex and love, just w/e the fuck he wants from me

Any time he needs to get something done, he follows it by "you are going to help me right" "I want you to help me" with a sweet voice. He knows whats up and what his doing.
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wrote this while i was blacked out drunk. i always think of suicide but its getting louder by Isabella Chullyridge - Wed, 08 Mar 2017 08:47:58 EST ID:+m/lG0b+ No.514222 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I just want to give everything i have to someone, i just want to emotionally give myself to someone and know they feeel the same way about me. I would give anyhting to love someone. But i get too attached too easily and that is unattractive, and shows mental weakness on my part.

Its sad i believe i can gain something to gain love; Weather it be wealth or a different knowledge. I will never be good enough on my own, or as myself.

Is it who i choose or myself?
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Esther Bovingshaw - Wed, 08 Mar 2017 15:41:33 EST ID:zOfwhgti No.514226 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514222
Make yourself a slave to something other than a woman who will leave you.
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Oliver Clanningbury - Thu, 09 Mar 2017 15:37:25 EST ID:wCRGDGFf No.514262 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514222
Awful rape thread is causing a serious lack of posts in other threads why hasn't the other thread been closed yet?
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Doris Congerstone - Thu, 09 Mar 2017 23:02:55 EST ID:tDogmvzg No.514267 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514226

Or a slave to nothing at all!


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