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Dumped... again by Basil Sashwore - Sat, 28 Jan 2017 23:53:16 EST ID:NS+wEE+H No.512812 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>just moved to a new city, met a girl through a dating app (not tinder)
>Girl broke off fling with me after 4 months
>made a gracious exit, didn't burn bridges, but did cut all contact on fb, texting, etc.

>"You're ambitious, funny, good looking, and having sex with you was great... but we just don't have a connection. I've hooked up with dudes for shorter periods of time and felt more intimate with them than I do with you, and we've been seeing each other for months"

She also didn't like that I *still* don't have a social circle here.

How the fuck do I recover from this? I feel like total trash.
I feel like shit. I feel worthless, and HUGELY inadequate to those extroverted natural social dudes who can talk a girl into a fucking orgasm.

it's going to be hard as fucking balls to find a girl better than this one. What the fuck do I do?

I really liked her, and it just sucks to know that the hardest thing to improve- my personality, 'game' and 'smoothness' is holding me back. I busted my ass to get fit, a job, and all of that work feels for nothing.
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Sophie Pickstock - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 13:20:57 EST ID:9kSXGOTL No.512946 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You don't know that. No one knows that.

Even if you ignore all the advice in this thread, just think that in a few months time you'll be thinking about this less, then a few months after that you'll hardly think about it at all.

Eventually this wont play on your mind like it currently is and it'll all be in the past, just a memory. You'll feel better eventually.
Clara Wibblebet - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 18:10:01 EST ID:adWLbtSo No.512953 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You gotta just reassess what happened. You succeeded, just not how you thought. I know how it feels. Try to just be intimate with everyone but also have some confidence. You'll have girls feeling a connection to you when you don't. From there you can just choose. It doesn't matter to you if you don't really have it. They are who needs to have it
Phineas Shittinggold - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 18:10:12 EST ID:QIyDMvDx No.512954 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You gotta just reassess what happened. You succeeded, just not how you thought. I know how it feels. Try to just be intimate with everyone but also have some confidence. You'll have girls feeling a connection to you when you don't. From there you can just choose. It doesn't matter to you if you don't really have it. They are who needs to have it
Phineas Billingfoot - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 20:49:57 EST ID:pCPQRsXK No.512958 Ignore Report Quick Reply
probably comes down to belief then

in my last and only relationship that went two years and a half. I was recounting a theory from sociology that was taught about women and men. That men seek an theory of justice out of the idea that it must be a something. You could say an order or even a chaos(in my understanding of the idea) but it was expressed as an order, and that women react based on how they feel. So this was given as a divide to understand what is good and bad. I was discussing it with this said girlfriend and her mother, and at the end they both laughed knowingly and said "sounds like men" this really tripped me out for some reason. I originally was sharing it out of interest, like a new piece of understanding in a macro sense that opens up the brain. I guess probably still trying to seek out encouragement in an exploratory sense for learning or seeing things on a macro level in everyday details. Sort of like what your saying to achieve my ambition which was myriad but consistent and long running, and included the idea of "ideas that go higher." But right then i went from worrying about the romantic and sexual alienation to facing a demon i had yet to face perhaps in the jungian way of the males irrational shadow out of concern over what we would do if there was a conflict between right and wrong. And basically yelled not audibly louder but in hurt stricken manner "what would do if we couldn't tell right from wrong, we would need discussion!" then a lengthy silence followed.

Not only girlfriends but social circles and old friends can find you as an attack even if they don't mean it that way, when you are trying to find your place in the world, but not only that what the world means.

You chose in an idea where in rational gravity, whether grey or not , that what went wrong would have to be some thing you could actually change. Where she explained it on the other side of this divide.

On some level even though you are completely normal, this is actually a matix tier level assertion. You, we, and I look like neo. Solving an intellectual puzzle that seems to assert some indivdual truth situationally even though we have a recognition of the other person's belief in that subject matter. Because skepticism does play.

The other part may seem you whether in your head or hers, or just notes you have accumulated in context, as a kick in the nuts.

because by even asserting an idea as pragmatic as yours the other party might suggest something about you not getting it. You probably don't come from an interpersonal standpoint where asking questions is a bad thing when sorting out problems, because it's meant to start a discussion.
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Polly Brooklock - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 01:48:42 EST ID:V+RrLaKM No.512982 Ignore Report Quick Reply
That's some really dank shit you smoking nigga lmao

Does it ever get better by David Clarringchag - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 21:14:36 EST ID:mR2VxEtA No.512961 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>busiest 6 months of my life are over
>feel like i can start living again
>finally contact friends again
>they aren't interested
>go hang out with girlfriend
>remember why i thought our relationship of 7 years is unhealthy and depressive
>don't want to commit to hobbies i was once good at anymore because i simply don't have the time to commit to them anymore, and being bad at things just frustrates me even more
>spend most of my free week alone wondering why i'm alone and unhappy
>everything will just start again in a few days

How do you remain positive for the future when we are just supposed to slave ourselves away for 40 years, there's no way I can feel excited about that. I just want some personal time to spend on doing the things I enjoy doing, but currently I feel like I'm going to have a mental breakdown sometime soon from just keeping up the status quo

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David Clarringchag - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 22:32:31 EST ID:mR2VxEtA No.512969 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>The only optimistic thing I can see coming out of this is that they literally might have to implement a basic minimum income just to keep everything afloat.

They are currently experimenting with this in my city, check it out. https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2016/06/netherlands-utrecht-universal-basic-income-experiment/487883/

My issue primarily is that I need to work a lot because of my huge study debt. And it's going to take plenty of years to get rid of that dent. Promotions of sorts are not happening for some time either. Feels like living life just to get by, instead of enjoying it. You already got how I feel though
Lillian Pittham - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 22:45:27 EST ID:NoKU4Mj+ No.512971 Ignore Report Quick Reply

That's awesome! I think I heard about that, really encouraging to see it slowly becoming an agenda. A big shame that the Swiss rejected the proposal but I'm confident that over time it will gain more and more public support.

>My issue primarily is that I need to work a lot because of my huge study debt.

How does the student debt repayment system work in the Netherlands? Is it just like a normal private bank loan?

In the UK you only have to make repayments of 9% of your income above £21,000. So basically, if you never make use of your degree and always earn a mediocre salary, you never actually have to pay off any of your debt.

I always thought of the Netherlands as being a more progressive country than the UK, but I guess not everything will be. If your student loan is the main issue is moving to another country to avoid paying it an option?
David Clarringchag - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 22:51:27 EST ID:mR2VxEtA No.512972 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Basicly, they changed things up so now you have to rent the entire thing but against 0% interest rate. Also I took longer than usual because I'm a doofus so that adds up.

>If your student loan is the main issue is moving to another country to avoid paying it an option?
Welp, even so I would miss the Netherlands
Lillian Pittham - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 23:13:58 EST ID:NoKU4Mj+ No.512974 Ignore Report Quick Reply

>so now you have to rent the entire thing

Okay, so do you make the same repayments even if you're earning nothing or a really low income? If yes then I can see that must really suck if you're not on a high income. How much do the repayments come to per month?
David Clarringchag - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 23:28:28 EST ID:mR2VxEtA No.512976 Ignore Report Quick Reply
About 450 a month. The thing also is, I'm still studying at the same time as well. I got my bachelor degree last year but I'm trying to both follow a masters, as having a job, as trying to paying for money I rented to do my bachelor, while trying to live as well. Working as much as I can besides doing university work is killing me but I feel like I have to do it now to avoid even bigger troubles later (e.g. even bigger debts)

ever been in love with your clingy best friend who you fuck sometimes but doesn't love you back by Wesley Draffinghall - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 19:41:11 EST ID:qLFQNtUS No.512955 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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you snore so easy on the fact
you make me so happy
you are the air I breathe
pathetic I know
thank you for asking but I'€™m not sad
thank you for taking 10 seconds to wonder
I'€™ll wake up tomorrow
with an appetite for
juvenile self-destruction
I didn€™t move out because of you
but I didn€™t stay either
I can€™t wait to get high on this angst
might just go because apparently
Im too fucking reactive
over something that
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Phineas Billingfoot - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 20:24:00 EST ID:pCPQRsXK No.512957 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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yes it's not fun.

But you'll make it out.

You will probably do more awesome poetry and get creative.

my zen by Fanny Mackleforth - Wed, 01 Feb 2017 04:46:29 EST ID:wuxp3ASr No.512922 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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tl;dr to beginning of the post: All I want to do with my life is spend hours doing yoga, smoking weed and meditating

longer version:

I would describe myself good looking and muscular, I have a job and enough money to myself a bit richer than average, but that's not because of how much money I spend but rather how little I need to use money. Lately the time I've spent being close with certain people has taught me that there's this type of people who really attempt to make me their partner.

But I am not interested. I jvery regularly want to take my space, withdraw to being alone and get lost in 3-6 hour long sessions of yoga, physical exercise, meditation and smoking pot. I do love being close to people, but I do not want to commit sharing all of me with any one single people exclusively.

I feel like the people who seek close(d) relationships find the same relief in being with their partner that I find when I focus on my solitude.

Is this selfish? Is there something wrong with me? After all, I am honest with people and treat them with respect when I am with them. But should I invest to social relations in a way that affects my own happiness? It seems like so many of us are ready to kind of sacrifice their peace of mind to things that circle around people they feel affection towards.
Fanny Gandledale - Wed, 01 Feb 2017 08:40:34 EST ID:5JYKa3yb No.512923 Ignore Report Quick Reply
What the fuck these weird ass threads man.
If you feel perfectly fine with being by yourself and doing yoga you should just do that lol.
Cyril Pittworth - Wed, 01 Feb 2017 13:25:49 EST ID:583UPQsG No.512927 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I wouldnt worry about being alone
Id worry about your insecurity about being alone
Ernest Blatherridge - Wed, 01 Feb 2017 17:23:35 EST ID:SvrL9OfC No.512933 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Whether or not something is wrong with you is a matter of perspective. Considering your own perspective is the only one that matters to you, I don't see why you care enough to wonder if you're really all that different and if that's somehow wrong. If you want to find out if there's something to investing yourself in a long term relationship, give it a try. There's nothing anybody can tell you that will determine whether it's actually worth pursuing or not. If you try it out with an open mind, you can confirm either way whether it was or wasn't worth it. If you don't feel like bothering with it, then don't.
Eliza Cuzzletune - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 00:28:03 EST ID:rBZAFHJz No.512936 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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I don't think your missing out on having a partner to share things with if you've never had one to begin with. I always felt fine doing my own thing and didn't need anyone else to get to a state of fulfillment until I decided to get into a relationship with someone than that all changed. Being with someone can change the way you view the world in such a way that may seem more profound because it's a view you share with that other person rather than witnessing everything through just the lens of your own perception.

It's like the saying "what has been seen cannot be unseen". Once you see things through the eyes of a partner you can't ignore that extra vision you've acquired and you will always remember what it felt like to share that connection.

It's just fine doing what you're doing! You would know if it was something you were missing because you would be wanting for it which you aren't. There is a lot of downsides and pain that you can open yourself up to just to gain someone else's perspective and I would argue it's not worth potentially sacrificing precious energy that could be harnessed to help you reach a more enlightened state of being.
Cedric Fobberstug - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 16:36:03 EST ID:IuddEkns No.512951 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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You'd get bored of that in 3-6 months. I guarantee it . You're probably just looking for ways to deal with work fatigue.

That transition class didn't do shit. by Angus Sushham - Mon, 30 Jan 2017 19:43:36 EST ID:bQLxRx6l No.512881 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Officially became a retired veteran two days ago after nearly a month of terminal leave. They found bats in the belfry, and I fucked up my knee, so looking at a decent VA disability check. Thing is, now that I don't have to wake up fuckshit early in the morning, or go to work and literally despise every moment of my waking life, I don't know /what/ to do.

I'm living with my fiancee currently in a city I don't recognize, with no connects, the only person I know here is her (kinda right fucked myself there), and my meager list of "hobbies" that I had time to do when I was a militaryfag between working, working out, eating, or sleeping is not cutting it. Planning on school fall semester of this year, but I just kinda feel stalled out. Not sure what to do with myself now that I'm a civvie again.
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Fucking Crinningpuck - Tue, 31 Jan 2017 13:07:39 EST ID:ThAKO7Q1 No.512908 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Basically, OP, you need two things: a community, and a mission. Going to school is one of your options; it doesn't really matter what you decide to do, pick a major and pursue it, and do things like join study groups and the like. Another option is volunteer work. You need to give yourself reasons why you "have to" get up and go do stuff, and people to share the experience with. You're right that degenerating into a NEET won't do you any long-term good, and it's terribly unfair to a partner to expect them to be everything to someone. Just pick something that necessarily brings you into contact with others and go out and make it your new mission.
Fanny Wobblefuck - Tue, 31 Jan 2017 13:31:31 EST ID:SvrL9OfC No.512911 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Where the fuck did this come from? It might lead to it later on, but going off of my own experience, his question is entirely related to there being a huge chasm in lifestyle. Not wanting to wake up at 4:30 am, be in by 5:00 am, and work until 7-10 pm a lot of he time doesn't really make you lazy. It just means you'd prefer a regular 9 to 5 like most civilians have. His question has more to do with what he's going to do for the rest of his life than it does with not wanting to work.
Nigel Sibbershit - Tue, 31 Jan 2017 15:30:19 EST ID:hhQhcuad No.512915 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You've got the opportunity to do a job for love rather than money. Assuming you keep getting those cheques you could work part time or volunteer or do something that you wouldn't be able to live off because of low pay and hours because even then part time work leaves you a little better off.

If you can work full time in the 9 to 5 sense just do that. Remember if those cheques are coming you are able to do jobs for the joy of doing them.

Working a bit gives you something to talk to and a better connection to most people and I'm sure you know that. So why not work? You can take any old job but you can also afford to choose one that you'll be happy to turn up for or that doesn't make you hate your life. If you have a few time constraints it will force you to be more efficient with your remaining hours too.
Cyril Fanbanks - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 12:23:22 EST ID:CfonqoA0 No.512940 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Figure out a place you would like to be in the future. I know that's hard, I'm still doing it myself, but once you have a general idea of what you'd like to do with yourself, you'll be able to move towards that general direction. And if that direction includes an education, do that. School is way more interesting than a 9-5.

I made a diagram of what I liked and disliked about my job, and searched for a subject that fit those criteria. Maybe if you take what you liked and disliked from the military, you could find (or at least spot) a place out there that will satisfy your drives and ambitions.
Cedric Fobberstug - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 16:29:08 EST ID:IuddEkns No.512950 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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This man spits truth. Although I recommend mushies.

i am so goddamn tired by i can feel my insides bleeding. it sucks. - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 13:04:11 EST ID:tKKUSpaz No.512944 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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i started throwing up blood. my ulcers are acting up again. i am an acholic, & i have plenty of the stuff around, but right now it is hard to swallow anything. fuck everything. fuck life. i am to worn out for this shit. i am pretending to be ok becuase i have to run this store. but goddammmit everything hurts right now.
Cedric Fobberstug - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 16:27:35 EST ID:IuddEkns No.512949 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Stop drinking.
Barnaby Gogglechat - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 23:07:30 EST ID:mq3nQLN5 No.512973 Ignore Report Quick Reply
This looks like T-Ds old stuff or someone else from that scene

Ending yet another relationship by Martha Commlecocke - Wed, 01 Feb 2017 13:07:15 EST ID:u7Ks9+5J No.512926 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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No matter how many times I do this it never gets any easier, unfortunately I've come to the conclusion my very young relationship with my girlfriend has to come to an end.
Its been going for roughly 5 months now and theres been little to no improvements on issues we've had from the start and not to mention I can see our life paths straying apart unless I were to of course sacrifice my plans or my significant other sacrifices there and that just doesn't work sadly..
Not to mention I'm a young guy, 22. My mom looked at me the other day and said how I need to get my life together and then it struck me. I really can't afford to be in a relationship. Neither can she.

Tips on my means of execution /qq/?
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Fanny Gandledale - Wed, 01 Feb 2017 15:46:31 EST ID:5JYKa3yb No.512929 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Well, I'm watching Breaking Bad atm and ricin sounds like a safe way to play it if you have the skills, but I guess the simplest way would be a nine millimeter with a silencer.

Good luck with the execution OP.
Cyril Pittworth - Wed, 01 Feb 2017 16:20:20 EST ID:583UPQsG No.512930 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I hate posts like these. They're the dad jokes of the chans. You're not funny.
Fanny Gandledale - Wed, 01 Feb 2017 16:28:00 EST ID:5JYKa3yb No.512931 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Ouch man! I'll definitively try to be funnier from now on! P-p-p-l-ease like me!
Shit Fandersore - Wed, 01 Feb 2017 22:19:28 EST ID:lXjUaJuo No.512935 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Well I thought you were being funny, Fanny. Keep doing you man.
Jarvis Fuckingworth - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 12:51:21 EST ID:hhQhcuad No.512943 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Think about this for a moment. You're in a doomed relationship but don't yet know it. The other person doesn't dislike or disrespect you but they know it's not going ahead. How would you like this to be dealt with?

I'm going to guess it's
>Quickly the sooner it's over the sooner I move on and the less invested I am
>Unambiguously you might want them to say "maybe it can happen one day" but if it can't then you just want that closure
>Be honest but not needlessly blunt. Just tell her how it is.
>Telling her "it's not you it's me" will make her think she can change your mind. Don't use that shit.
>Just tell her what you told us. Don't be needlessly detailed unless she demands it.
>get to the point first then expand on it. Don't build up to it.

She might be angry at the time but she should get over it when she realises you're just doing the right thing if not you dodged a bullet anyway. If you make a sincere attempt to do the above then well, you've done right. You cannot control how she reacts to it, and honestly it doesn't matter as long as you've made a sincere attempt at giving her the "best" dumping you can. You can only do your best.

Why emotionally invest? by Nell Grandwill - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 11:59:53 EST ID:m7/Wj4TK No.512938 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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what the fuck is the point in emotionally investing in something as fickle as another person? What's the joy? What do you actually get out of that that you couldn't get from a group of friends, one night stands/masturbation/hookers, and a dog?
Jarvis Fuckingworth - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 12:34:26 EST ID:hhQhcuad No.512942 Ignore Report Quick Reply
If they're worth shit the investment is paying out the whole time. If it's not then you need to re evaluate your choice of person. You invest and you get your returns pretty fucking fast though you have to keep re investing. Relationships should not be endless months or years of work hoping for a return. If that's the case there's no return coming. Avoid the sunk cost fallacy, it was a bad investment. Get out try again.

So what do you get specifically that those things don't? Only very small things. But you can get more of all the of the things which only the best friends, best dog and best masturbation will give you and those are very limited resources. It's not about something you can't get elsewhere but something you would want a lot more of that you've already tapped out every other avenue for.

That said I'm single and thirsty. My last relationship was profits all the way to be honest.

sorry you opened with "investing" and I've been in an accounting class all day

Friends didn't have my back by Jimmy - Fri, 27 Jan 2017 19:24:33 EST ID:X6cCfJkW No.512775 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I was at a party with some "friends". I have known them for years and one of them was my best friend. Some guys started pressing me for money. I told them no and they said to leave the party or i was going to get jumped. While this whole thing was going, on my best friend was next to me. He slipped away sneakily and walked away like he didn't know me. I was yelling his name to come back and help me but he ignored me. He then started talking to someone acting like he couldn't hear me while i was about to get jumped. I kept yelling his name and he would look at me for a second then look away really fast. I left the party and those guys ended up kicking out my "best friend" and friends because they knew me. I am mad at these friends especially my best friend because if they all had my back we could have beaten them up. I am the most mad at my best friend because he betrayed me the most, he is a fucking pussy. Should i stay friends with them or tell them to fuck off.
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Lydia Brunderfield - Mon, 30 Jan 2017 20:10:17 EST ID:oLzp8YK5 No.512882 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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As i said, we could have won a fight against them, it would have been 7 vs 10 and we were bigger than them. My best friend should have had my back whether we fought them or not. He should not have walked away and pretended to not know me.The gangster punks ended up kicking out and pressing all my other friends too after i left and kicked them out .I understand what you are saying tho.
Lydia Brunderfield - Mon, 30 Jan 2017 20:12:12 EST ID:oLzp8YK5 No.512883 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I have had their backs in situations where they had trouble with punk gangsters.
Lydia Brunderfield - Mon, 30 Jan 2017 20:38:06 EST ID:oLzp8YK5 No.512885 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You are right, maybe i was expecting too much.
Awe' God !!vVWR8L52 - Wed, 01 Feb 2017 16:29:19 EST ID:SwxeG+Tj No.512932 Ignore Report Quick Reply
what you will learn is that your trust is all that matters, how people act is irrelevant to your own composure/
Jarvis Gussleridge - Wed, 01 Feb 2017 22:01:07 EST ID:IYDGbHRj No.512934 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I'm azn.

That being said, I was at a bar with my friends. 4 of us total. I was messing with one of those punching games and this one dude surrounded by 3 females made this "HYAAH" sound when I went up, but not when my black friend went up. I mentioned it to my boys and let it go.

I went up a second time and hit it, same guy made the same noise. I immediately got in his face and asked him if he had something to say to me. He deflected and said something like "Yeah, you have a nice shirt." I just ignored him and went back to the table. I mentioned it to my boys again, saying that kid was pissing me off. They were more offended by it than me.

He was leaving with the girls just then and all my guys followed him outside and made him apologize to me. He was hiding in the car while the girls were trying to talk my friends down.

That made an impression on me. I never had friends that would stick up for me like that before; all of mine before hand would stand at a distance and let my problem be mine. But after that moment, when my friends stook up for me when I wouldn't, I considered them brothers.

So I know what you're talking about OP. You don't have to be some real ass nig to stand up for a friend. I don't know what to say about it other than you either have some pussy ass friends, or they don't give a shit about you.

I would attack someone for starting shit with any of them. They taught me that lesson. Not because they're violent, because they're not. It was because they could stand up for something they believed in and protected someone they cared for.

I lost my erection by Shit Gozzletine - Tue, 31 Jan 2017 06:35:23 EST ID:x4mmBbr4 No.512903 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I used to watch porn and mastrubate on it, since I was 14, now I'm 23 and my dick isn't even getting harder after watching a porn.
I don't know, I lost interest in any kind of horny stuff, am I the only one?
Simon Drullerdale - Tue, 31 Jan 2017 13:29:13 EST ID:WCiWyIpM No.512910 Ignore Report Quick Reply
stop masturbating to pornography for a long while
Nigel Sibbershit - Tue, 31 Jan 2017 18:16:29 EST ID:hhQhcuad No.512919 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Porn has always been middle tier masturbation material for me.

What gets me off isn't necessarily the best ass, tits, or whatever. I mean that's great but it's what's going on. The dynamic, the way the people are experiencing it, the balance of power and position you're in (you know, dom,sub, or being a stallion or being the guy who sneaks in and fucks some guy's neglected wife or whatever) if someone's filming something knowing people are whacking it and they LOVE that it's far hotter than some luke warm anal sex.

Arousal is more than purely physical/skin deep for most people. It's the same reason there's time when you'll have sex (hopefully, I think) and struggle not to blow your load in moments and sometimes it'll take ages or you just won't be able to. It's just where your head is. And if you're watching certain porn it won't put your head in a lot of places.

Anyway what the other guy said. Stop using porn. You don't want to be using it regularly. I'm not a no fapper or "Yourbrainonporn" sort because I've never watched it a lot. It shouldn't be a regular part of masturbation though. Moderation in all things etc etc.
Hamilton Blatherstone - Wed, 01 Feb 2017 11:55:59 EST ID:a0gpU+/s No.512924 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Stop whacking it. Only indulge twice a month.
Cyril Pittworth - Wed, 01 Feb 2017 12:40:49 EST ID:583UPQsG No.512925 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Take a break. After a while you'll bust a nut just by sitting next to an old granny on the bus.

>my dick isn't even getting harder after watching a porn
100% normal. You build up a tolerence/you get desensitized like with everything. Exposing yourself a lot less to it over a period of time will reset you. How long you should take off is subjective, I say until you feel yourself getting aroused by minor things/being able to watch porn and getting a hard on instantly

This so much!

Odd experiences by Jarvis Besslefield - Wed, 01 Feb 2017 03:27:15 EST ID:RVEMMAaH No.512921 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I remember this one time I was very very drunk by myself I blacked out, all I could remember was me talking to someone I remember I actually felt like I was really talking to someone as if I were in a conversation but really it was just myself in the room.

I'm not crazy I am a totally normal dude leading a good life but this experience was something else it struck me in such a way felt like I needed to share this

What's your thoughts? and have you ever had any odd experiences that happened to yourself

Can any of you talk to dead people? by Fuck Dronkinspear - Mon, 30 Jan 2017 14:48:33 EST ID:n9NCGcXe No.512875 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I haven't heard from her in like a month. Last time we talked she was about to leave on vacation. Do me a solid and check the spirit realm because I don't know what the fuck is going on and it's driving me mental.

Okay, thanks, I'm gonna keep drinking now.
Cedric Brobberwater - Mon, 30 Jan 2017 21:13:05 EST ID:n9NCGcXe No.512888 Ignore Report Quick Reply
The not knowing is the worst part. I don't know what kind of person can just vanish without saying good bye, but they're a breed I hope never to meet again.
Albert Wendlechure - Mon, 30 Jan 2017 22:10:43 EST ID:o1pNBrov No.512893 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I'm one of them. We are an odd bunch. I did it once to my entire family. I just stirred in the middle of the night, felt some for real mania and just vanished. I do feel bad about it though but I couldn't ever go back after doing that.

I can't establish friends/relationships in real life but I've vanished from one town to another without any rhyme or reason. Being in one spot drives me up the wall nearly over night at random. I can't go more than 2 years in one town/city. Getting recognized nearly makes me skedaddle. On whoever's behalf. Sorry if it means anything.
Cedric Brobberwater - Tue, 31 Jan 2017 14:10:23 EST ID:n9NCGcXe No.512912 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Wasn't like that. Everything was fine for years and years, there was never the slightest hint of anything being wrong. We're talking the day she leaves and since then fucking nothing.

I just wish I knew whether she was okay or not.
Cedric Brobberwater - Tue, 31 Jan 2017 14:22:24 EST ID:n9NCGcXe No.512913 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Also since I'm still drunk, holy shit what a fucking cunt. Obviously I hope she's okay and happy and everything's cool, but at the same time... fuck me it's enraging. Treated like you never meant anything to them, just took off without the tiniest thought as to how them vanishing without a word would make their "friends" feel.

Like, I'm gonna wonder for the rest of my life. This is literally gonna follow me till the day I die and all because she just didn't feel like saying "alright see ya". I'm not asking for a fucking parade, I just want to know you haven't died. Is that really so fucking much?
George Wuzzlewater - Thu, 23 Feb 2017 08:34:13 EST ID:fEelupr0 No.513748 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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