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I need a girlfriend? How can I find one? by I love you hot woman blowkisses from me - Sat, 20 Jan 2018 12:54:42 EST ID:V0JQntU0 No.521668 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I need a girlfriend? How can I find one?

How to get girlfriend I don't have one.
I am male.
How to get woman as a friend? I am 18 yrs old don't have any friends

I am stalking woman on FB. I don't have any friends.
I love to stalk every woman from 18-26 on Internet. I am doing this from 2014 and I was 14 age. I do alone secertly
It is my favourite hobby. No ones knows it even my parents because if they find out they won't be happy :)

I stalked woman on FB from 18-26 age in my another account and threatened them for not adding me has a friend.

I need gf especially from 18 age and wanna touch young woman in public also sleep with them.
I wanna f*** young woman with their consent anyway
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Hamilton Wirringway - Sat, 20 Jan 2018 13:30:47 EST ID:N+I75Jtq No.521669 Ignore Report Quick Reply
youre a terribly bad troll... on the topic of being 18 horny and a virgin. fuck kid you havent seen just how bad things can get.


Help by Archie Worthingwill - Fri, 19 Jan 2018 03:22:19 EST ID:oOQyCzbT No.521626 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Some girl thats really nasty keeps trying to fuck. I am not attracted to this girl in the slightest. Shes sweet, yea, but i just cant do it. We also have very little in common.

it started months ago. Maybe last march, maybe longer. She grabbed my hand at a bar and walked outside with me. That was it, and i mostly forgot about this.

Now over the months shes started obsessing over this and asking about it all the time. Asking if I remember it. Last weekend she took her friends phone and called me from snapchat and started asking when she was drunk. I was sitting at home tripping on acid watching joe rogan and was very weirded out by it.

Shes in the same friend group so I gotta see her but ive been trying to avoid her and her friends as much as possible. They keep inviting me out to the bar 3 times a week. I'm trying to avoid bars for the most part of the year, I did nothing but party last year. I can party sometimes but rarely, and I dont want to spend the time I am partying with someone im not even interested in trying to fuck me and get free drinks.

Should I tell her to get fucked?
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Nigel Pittway - Fri, 19 Jan 2018 23:58:02 EST ID:cG0vV5OZ No.521652 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>521641
>she's a beast

Are you sure you're not gay, bro? What city is this girl in?
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Matilda Chinnerbat - Sat, 20 Jan 2018 02:09:59 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.521653 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I usually try not to laugh at anything that isn't actually meant as a joke that shows up around here, but goddamn OP, you really askin this right now? Lmao nigga

>The thing is, this girl isnt "just average looking", shes a beast. I couldn't even get it hard for her.
Get some coke and binge drink with her and you'll be all set man.

Well, that, or tell her sorry you don't like her, gonna have to deal with it because it's not gonna change. Chances are she'll keep making play-like advances on you, but from that point you can tell her to fuck off to her face and she probably won't even care. I think some girls like pining for guys they literally know will not get with them and never have a real chance with in the future for some reason, not the first time I've noticed this pattern before. And when I say that, I mean it's happened to me with a girl that weighed only like 20lbs less than me (and I'm 6' 1" 215lbs... fuckin rip, sheeeiiiit).

All I did is tell her I don't like her at first, and when she like fuckin coo'd my name and shit any time I'd pass by afterwards or whatever I'd just reply back "nope, not getting with you, quit trying" and she never actually seemed to even feel any kind of emotional impact from it at all. Sometimes I'd be a dick just because it was going on for like 2 and a half years in high school by that point, but I guess in her eyes I could never do wrong or something, fuck if I know.

So, tell that girl no, and either she's gonna react like this girl did for me (which is annoying as fuck, hope this isn't the case), or she's gonna be upset for a little bit and probably melodramatic as fuck over it but then move on in almost no time like happens with most things in life.
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Reuben Murdforth - Sat, 20 Jan 2018 02:11:50 EST ID:oOQyCzbT No.521654 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521652
Lincoln, Nebraska. She makes my skin crawl.

>>521650
id say maybe a 3
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Nigel Pittway - Sat, 20 Jan 2018 04:10:00 EST ID:cG0vV5OZ No.521660 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>521654
The Heartland, huh? I thought you people were supposed to be all compassionate, and folksy, and lovable... well... I'M ALL DISILLUSIONED NOW!

I was keenly interested in your part of the country, having grown up around NYC, 30 years on the East coast... I wanted to visit Omaha, meet some people, see what it's all about...

BUT, NOW YOU'VE GONE AND DONE IT!

THE CAT'S OUT THE BAG!

AMERICA IS NOTHING BUT A BIG FAT LOAD OF GAY DICKS!

I hope you're happy, bro.
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Nigel Pittway - Sat, 20 Jan 2018 04:18:00 EST ID:cG0vV5OZ No.521661 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>521654
I just hope you realize... every time you DON'T fuck this girl's pussy... Jesus sees you, man.

He sees you.


I suffer from long-term memory loss, is there a way to restore it? by Esther Sumblewit - Fri, 22 Dec 2017 17:21:05 EST ID:1LBECkuo No.520787 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I have a friend who blames me for forgetting some details we talked about few weeks or months ago. For example I can forget if he watched some movie or not, despite the fact that we talked about that movie 2 months ago. He tells me that weed is drying my brain and he is probably right to some degree. I don't smoke that much, but I do that frequently, 3-4 times per week or so. Usually I do this 2-3 hours before sleep, one little puff of vape. Have been living like that 4 years or so.

I don't have troubles in everyday life with my memory, be that work or something else. Not so long ago I learned how to play acoustic guitar and I remember a lot of chords, so my memory is not that bad. But my friend tells the truth - I really can't remember something that we talked about 1 or 2 months ago, let alone 5 months or more. Do you usually remember some details like that? I have fried my brain with weed or my friend just has very good memory? Anyway I decided to smoke less (like 2-3 times per week) and support my long-term memory with something else. What can I do to restore it?
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John Ninkinford - Wed, 17 Jan 2018 22:22:42 EST ID:h/1sxUpj No.521582 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521572
>I think that weed fucked my eyes up. I always got really red eyes when I smoked and they we're quite itchy when sober. now I need glasses :sadface:

Sounds pretty unlikely. Eyesight often deteriorates with age, even in your 20s, and especially if you do a lot of close work (using a computer for example).
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Hugh Doffingpick - Thu, 18 Jan 2018 13:25:32 EST ID:sCrTtsfI No.521596 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521582
you're probably right :) I'm now 31 and has worked as a computer technician for the last 10 years, so that's a more likely cause of my bad eyes.
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Hugh Doffingpick - Thu, 18 Jan 2018 13:37:54 EST ID:sCrTtsfI No.521597 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521574

At what time of day do you usually smoke? How much do you smoke? How long before going to bed? How many hours do you usually get for sleep?
>late afternoon around 4-8pm, not much prly 2 joints, i do not smoke up till 2 hours before bedtime, 8 hours
Do you remember what you talked about with your friends few weeks or months ago? For example: a movie, a book, a videogame. Can you forget it until they bring it up?
>sure I can forget if it was forgettable, but I do remember tiny details about most our conversations and the things we did, movies we saw etc.
How many details do you remember from the book that you read (or game you played or movie/tv show you watched), for example, a year ago? Do you remember a lot of scenes or dialogues from them?
>yes. I easily remember scenes and dialogue in movies as well as wording and phrases in books
How many languages do you know? Do you have problems with learning languages in general? Do you forget words?
>I know some.. I'm proficient in danish (my native), english and in lesser extent german and spanish. I'm fascinated by languages, especially greek right now because so many pre- and suffixes come from greek, so it's kinda fun to make new words by connecting greek stem and suffixes. like -phobe or -phile or -theque
Do you sometimes forget what you did a few days ago? Like "Hmm, what I did in Monday? Shit, I don't exactly remember..."
>no, not really
How often do you exercise or take vitamins? Do you eat healthy food?
>I eat healthy and exercise on a semi-regular basis.
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L - Fri, 19 Jan 2018 02:20:01 EST ID:3tUKGVd1 No.521623 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521597

Mate I wouldn't worry so much.. I reckon your mate is just winding you up.

I mean if it does concern you though maybe try quitting for a few months? It certainly won't do you any harm. However I will say that your brain is only gonna commit to long term memory stuff you consider important. Sounds to me that you might be learning Greek as you find it interesting and thus important to you. Perhaps details about movies and conversations aren't so to you.

Which I'd consider perfectly normal in my opinion but I mean that's just me
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Shit Drunningdale - Sat, 20 Jan 2018 03:58:15 EST ID:1LBECkuo No.521659 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521597
Damn, I am so envious of you. My lifestyle doesn't differ much from yours, but your memory is so much better than mine. And I smoke a lot less than you. Maybe I should learn more languages and eat more healthy food? Other things that you do I do as well.

>However I will say that your brain is only gonna commit to long term memory stuff you consider important
It makes sense. But I am art-geek and this stuff is pretty important to me on intellectual level. Books, games and movies are source of inspiration for me because I am trying to become a writer and I want to try to shoot movies in future. Usually I forget content of books and movies after 6 months. Not like I forget all about it, I remember the main plot, but majority of the details usually disappear from my memory. I thought it's normal, but then I met my friend (I talked about him in OP post) and I read guys like >>521597 and I feel like memory disabled cripple. And I don't smoke that much compared to some of my friends.


im cold by Ian Claystock - Sat, 13 Jan 2018 10:07:34 EST ID:UZC9gHak No.521444 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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how can i be not cold when my parents are so poor?

>live in coldest climate in the world literally
>parents cant afford heat dont have a proper heat source
>just run this stupid ass pellet stove that puts out literally 0 heat half the time i just put my hand near it and its blowing out even colder air lol
>temp inside the house is like 50 degrees and the kitchen is even colder i swear that shit is like 40 degrees
>every time i leave my room my skins hurts from how cold the house is
>its even colder outside dont worry im not going out there freedom aint for us country folk
>literally fucking a hell storm of blizzards in every direction every day non stop doesnt stop
>look outside 30 feet of snow freezing blistering cold winter warnings on the weather channel every day dont even need to check whether
>WARNING SNOW MORE SNOW SNOW ICE SNOW COLD SNOW DONT DRIVE ICE SNOW ICE
>literally nothing to do

i want to move to the city but its getting really hard to find apartments far away as fuck. should i just go be homeless or something for awhile this is fucking rediculous guys pic related which is why i think id rather be homeless on a beach literally looks like this every day of the week
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Charles Dartridge - Mon, 15 Jan 2018 20:21:21 EST ID:HzPEmHCv No.521526 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521515
Mold is not going to kill you short term. Inhaling mold spores will fuck up your lung capacity, but then again, you inhale mold spores every single day no matter how clean you think your house is.
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Edwin Senkinfure - Mon, 15 Jan 2018 22:55:47 EST ID:koppzVUZ No.521528 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Join the army or go somewhere warm and be a hobo

Fuck your cat
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L - Fri, 19 Jan 2018 02:59:34 EST ID:3tUKGVd1 No.521625 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521528

This OP.

Fucking your cat will greatly increase blood flow to the extremities. It's important to thrust in a circular motion as this has been shown to give the best results in case studies. If your penis isn't too big one cat should last you 2-3 days and you should have your doctor prescribe you a new one at least every 10 days.

You might think fucking a dog to be a better option, however don't be fooled by those crackpots that might reccomend this. This will most definitely not increase blood flow to the same degree and might even cause undesirable side effects. Conversely however being fucked by a dog may well help you in the short term.
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Fuck Brullybury - Fri, 19 Jan 2018 07:51:01 EST ID:bgqQ931m No.521629 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Just move. Stay in a hostel until you can find an apartment to rent. I hate the cold too so I headed to Florida. They don't even know what snow looks like down here lol.
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Isabella Himblestare - Fri, 19 Jan 2018 11:45:26 EST ID:tHgs9thR No.521639 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>521526
your mom's pussy is mouldy, my house is SPOTLESS.


Biracial and Awkward by Hannah Brarringshit - Mon, 15 Jan 2018 00:23:15 EST ID:tiBuSQx/ No.521497 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Any black people on here, how do I stop being fucking weird? I'm mixed (black/white) and I was raised by white people in a primarily white neighborhood and I feel like I have no clue how to be around other black people. It feels like there's some key experience I must have missed growing up or something. Doesn't help that I already had raging social anxiety that makes me worry incessantly about sounding stupid and basically never chill out.
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Martha Cludgebury - Thu, 18 Jan 2018 20:15:18 EST ID:UHQ5Fpvu No.521609 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521497

I'm bi racial and an outcast and I've made this exact same thread and got zero replies.
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Edward Hundlegold - Thu, 18 Jan 2018 20:22:06 EST ID:bCeezdRo No.521610 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>521578
>a rainbow of friends

>>521609
Maybe you're just a dick.
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Polly Candleshaw - Thu, 18 Jan 2018 20:59:17 EST ID:kYf4Ivkm No.521612 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521610
No one posts on /B/ anymore, ops story isn't that rare or different. There's tons of people like us, theres been movies about it and rappers have had similar lives before the fame.
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Molly Pittville - Thu, 18 Jan 2018 21:23:21 EST ID:TUgPV7Lr No.521614 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521612
Logic can't go 5 words without rapping about it.
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Martha Crivingtag - Fri, 19 Jan 2018 02:07:08 EST ID:cG0vV5OZ No.521622 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>521612
>>521614

So, you guys are telling me... the African-American community discriminates against half-blacks?

Ain't that some shit?!

That's fucked up.


Just waiting to die and now things are finally reaching the end. by Phineas Sennershaw - Thu, 18 Jan 2018 19:53:04 EST ID:MmrPhmSM No.521608 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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No one can own my decisions and why I’ve chosen them. We make choices every day on this earth. I chose this travesty of wasted humanity and squandered good intentions, this idle life led in vain and full of strife. It is with a sound mind and body I will chose to part with it.


Yet as someone who doesn't believe in free will, I don't think anyone ever truly 'chooses' anything. We live in a deterministic universe of cause and effect, and the mechanisms of our brains are the products of causality just as much as the movements of balls on a pool table.
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Edward Hundlegold - Thu, 18 Jan 2018 20:55:38 EST ID:bCeezdRo No.521611 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>521608
So, you're saying that Ferris Bueller never intentionally took his 'day off'... you're saying he was just following some pre-determined grand design? That's how you see it?

Well, shit... that's not as cool.
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Albert Grimspear - Thu, 18 Jan 2018 20:59:56 EST ID:/pl3Lein No.521613 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Bye, Phineas! Maybe I'd miss you if I knew who you were.
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Caroline Pavingstack - Thu, 18 Jan 2018 21:49:28 EST ID:SoJt0U7C No.521616 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521608
I had mad 3 day existential crisis thing last summer when I realised the futility of fretting over existential crises was self-referential. Just laugh or cry about it until you brain forgets you don't have agency, it'll happen.
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Edward Hundlegold - Thu, 18 Jan 2018 22:08:34 EST ID:bCeezdRo No.521617 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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He was a good boy... he did good things...

He had good intentions...

He didn't believe in free will...

He played pool...

So long, Phineas... shine on you crazy diamond.
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Hedda Dedgeture - Thu, 18 Jan 2018 22:35:17 EST ID:7IGW3+Ip No.521618 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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reductionist materialism is a cancer meme on the human spirit

i will forever refuse to drink this koolaid


I need some courage by Nell Blatherdale - Thu, 18 Jan 2018 10:20:51 EST ID:YBhCK3rH No.521593 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I'm gonna begin to look for a nearby therapist today. So I've had a month off of work because of >reasons. I've spent a lot of time a lone to myself and my thoughts so the progress I had mad is over and done.

Basically I cannot live like this anymore. I feel like I'm alive but in the backseat not quite taking control of my life. Just letting my thoughts control everything I do.

The last time I tried to get help was over six or seven years ago. I didn't access to insurance and I still dont. They peoppe were treating me like I was some junkie when al I wanted was someone to talk to. I m absolutely terrified to call these places and tell them that I need help.
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Oliver Mizzleham - Thu, 18 Jan 2018 15:32:26 EST ID:ZelRnzXl No.521601 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521593
It's one of those things, either you've got it or you don't.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R6da9U6Xjd8

And, if you really want it... prepare to live with the responsibility for the rest of your life.


My Imagination by Simon Gammleshit - Wed, 17 Jan 2018 19:04:56 EST ID:9DmUMIXr No.521576 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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My imagination is fucking with me I have to at least go back and see. Even if there is nothing or nobody there it doesnt matter it s for my own peace of mind. Im tired of this shit fucking with me.
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Dextrolord - Wed, 17 Jan 2018 20:57:28 EST ID:xmLJIsps No.521579 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>521576
I like this pic more tho
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Jack Ducklemadging - Thu, 18 Jan 2018 05:43:45 EST ID:cG0vV5OZ No.521589 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>521576
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BXkm6h6uq0k

;)


therapy by Phineas Grimcocke - Wed, 17 Jan 2018 13:16:33 EST ID:ujaLT2cC No.521564 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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How do i choose a therapist/psychologist?
I just want to change my life, i'm getting more depressed every week and i just want to try anything so i thought therapy might be a good idea. But there are so many therapists and other; How do i choose? Do i pick one at random?
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Phineas Grimcocke - Wed, 17 Jan 2018 14:56:58 EST ID:ujaLT2cC No.521571 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521568
Care to tell me why?
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Ebenezer Duckman - Wed, 17 Jan 2018 17:45:59 EST ID:MhmWGZgw No.521575 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521571
why evidence based is better? Dude...
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Oliver Blendlesitch - Wed, 17 Jan 2018 20:38:32 EST ID:7IGW3+Ip No.521577 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521569

>psychosomatic

this word means "the mind affecting the body" so you are completely wrong. it's psychiatric, it's the mind fixing the mind.
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Walter Grandman - Thu, 18 Jan 2018 00:38:50 EST ID:QiUmoRgl No.521587 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Shop around until you find someone that you can talk to about the deepest darkest facets of your personality and life.

You want to break that part of you out of the underworld and expose it to other people.
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Phoebe Blashville - Thu, 18 Jan 2018 13:12:52 EST ID:KNPKPtfT No.521595 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521577
Ah I never looked into the exact definition I always assumed it meant all the work was done by your mind rather than specifically it affects your body, though I guess I learned today, thanks. I've had one or two psychosomatic mental illnesses but I wasn't thinking of them when I responded to OP.

My point stands though. It is all in your head. Believe in your therapist or fail. Or find another. Probably not the middle one really.


How to stop liking someone by Eugene Punningway - Tue, 16 Jan 2018 07:45:02 EST ID:mebCYYdS No.521538 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I've got this thing we're I fall for people pretty hard and fast.

So I've been involved in this community group with her for about two years and she's sort of the kindest person I've ever met. I looked up to her a lot and the way she would interact with people. Anyway we sort of started talking a lot, a few weeks ago, and ended up sleeping together recently, though both really drunk.

I just woke up from a dream where we just lay in bed together next to each other.

Now I think I like her, but I don't think it can work out because we live quite a distance away, as well as not wanting to complicate things with our group.

Has anyone found a way to help them stop liking someone faster?
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Esther Smallstock - Tue, 16 Jan 2018 09:00:35 EST ID:USUZpST+ No.521539 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Yeah you just have to find a way to cut yourself off from contacting them entirely then you get drunk for a few years while alienating yourself from everyone you know. It's not ideal but in a dozen years you might be getting over her.
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Lillian Briffingnick - Tue, 16 Jan 2018 09:43:14 EST ID:sM5nvTHu No.521542 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521538

Dont give up man! go into it, liking someone is good for you, you learn a lot from relationships long and short, complicate things, fall in love, its so worth it.

I know im just an internet stranger, but never turn your back on the possibility of love.
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Archie Brookfoot - Wed, 17 Jan 2018 10:52:00 EST ID:mebCYYdS No.521559 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521539
I have gotten over someone like that before, but alcohol wd's arent fun enough to go through again

>>521542
She did call me up two days later to see how I was feeling and stuff, and said that although she is really attracted to me (and I her) that we probably aren't what we need at the moment, given how our careers have us in different places. I can sort of agree in that in the sense that she's a big inspiration to me and I wouldn't want to wreck that with a relationship. Like I look up to her a lot

I guess there probably is no shortcut though, or everyone would know by now
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Emma Siddlegold - Wed, 17 Jan 2018 11:13:02 EST ID:J2o0M78I No.521560 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Time, time heals everything.. little by little, just stop loving that person or just don't care anymore and it will hurt less and less.
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Cyril Worthingwill - Wed, 17 Jan 2018 13:50:44 EST ID:3zVoJY1k No.521565 Ignore Report Quick Reply
There's not really a way to stop liking someone. I tried a lot of things. None worked. Ended up just going no contact. Even been with other girls since. I still get worked up thinking about her a year+ later, but I just try to focus on the future. Keep moving forward. I'd not chase her but if you think something real is possible, keep hanging out and hooking up. Keep your options open though.


STD PARANOIA by Samuel Drushfuck - Wed, 17 Jan 2018 02:00:28 EST ID:kihmGBd1 No.521552 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hey guys,


I really need some genuine advice especially from any possible medical professionals that happen to be here as well. I'm a 20 year old male and every time I have sex with a new partner even with a condom I'm absolutely terrified that I've contracted an STD, especially the ones that you can't get rid of like Herpes. The first time I ever had sex it was with an older more experienced girl and I used a condom and never really worried about it. The second partner I fucked this girl I was in love with and didn't use a condom and came inside of her (she was on birth control). Never was worried about that. It was only when I got drunk and had sex with this girl without protection when I was 18 that was kind of promiscuous that I freaked the fuck out and started getting tested for every possible STD i could and going to the doctor for every little bump or ingrown hair ive ever seen down there. They say at planned Parenthood it takes about 4-6 weeks for every thing to show up so I would find myself being extremely depressed until i waited out the incubation periods and then it takes another 2 weeks they tell you to wait after your test and if you don't get a call, your results are normal. I made sure to get tested for everything including both strains of Herpes and I've never tested positive for anything, except once when I got molluscum when I was fucking these two girls at the same time. That took months of treatment and was absolutely miserable before it finally went away. Anyways, After I finally got rid of my molluscum i went months and months without having sex basically just to make sure it was gone and because I wasn't really in the mood to have sex after that. All my tests came back clean and i didn't have anything and My molluscum never came back so December 2017 I assumed it was okay to become sexually active again. This girl invited me over and after basically begging me to fuck her I finally caved, but made sure to wear condoms both times we had sex. Now I'm stuck in the same position I always seem to put myself in. I have 11 more days until it's been a month since we had sex so I can go and get tested, and then 2 weeks after that to make sure I do…
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Lillian Miffingdale - Wed, 17 Jan 2018 07:39:28 EST ID:7RNmJIpa No.521555 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521552
Get a dakimakura and stop seeing 3dpg
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Rebecca Dasslechon - Wed, 17 Jan 2018 07:40:20 EST ID:USUZpST+ No.521556 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Possibly psychiatric help for your paranoia
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Phoebe Codgebedge - Wed, 17 Jan 2018 08:30:47 EST ID:7IGW3+Ip No.521557 Ignore Report Quick Reply
just hit the blunt one time and see if that don't change yo' perception of what's important in yo' life.


How to live a meaningful life when you don't matter by Albert Mattingsatch - Sat, 13 Jan 2018 18:17:47 EST ID:WVjY5Vb6 No.521448 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So, before I get the stupid optimistic, "you matter", "aww don't say that..."

Some people are designed to die alone. And some people truly don't matter at all. Remember all the people who've died in the dark ages? Remember all the people who have died in prehistoric times?

How about this, do you feel remorse for those who died nameless with no justice? Do you remember anything they have done?

What's the difference between a tombstone and a dumpster? If nobody cares about you, it's irrelevant. Happiness is subjective and irrelevant. Only afforded to a select few.

I still want meaning. But nobody wants me around, so volunteer work is out of the question (I've tried endlessly).

What can I do? I'd rather life be a little more than a grey, meaningless blur.
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Albert Lightstone - Mon, 15 Jan 2018 13:19:57 EST ID:YeKAEOKH No.521512 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521493
I'm of the opinion that taking substances to deal with misery is a high risk path to addiction. Drug addiction isn't guaranteed if you take most substances but if you have the mentality of "I must fill a hole" you're more likely to get addicted to just about anything, and you're also more likely to take a high risk drug.

I mean you currently take one of the nastiest substances going while you wait for your anti withdrawal medicine for one of the few more dangerous ones. You aren't on benzos yet and you're using opiates better not worse so I suspect you won't get desomorphine so you're past the worst. But what fucking life is that?

OP is having an existential crisis, he should resolve it, not run from it. Once he's solved it experimenting with drugs is a fun way to spend some time or practice experiencing new perspectives though.
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Phineas Piffingham - Tue, 16 Jan 2018 02:28:41 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.521534 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Why exactly is mattering something you naturally feel is a requirement for living your life meaningfully? I can see where the two states of being are likely to intersect at some point... even have some synergy or symbiosis together. But, I'm not getting where you're coming from by implying that either one is necessarily contingent upon the other to be possible.


What a meaningful life is and what it entails is a decision and a belief you personally construct. Mattering, either to some institution, entity, other people, other forms of life, or what have you is set of shared beliefs between all parties involved (or at least beliefs that interact with and influence each other). Ultimately you're limiting factor when it comes to deciding whether or not something (including yourself) matters or not.



Values, interests, beliefs, and perceptions all being relative to one another as a fact does not invalidate them in and of itself whatsoever. I'm honestly confused where it is that so many people wind up coming to the conclusion that everything is without point and nothing has meaning. Or rather, I can see choosing to come to that conclusion, but not as a result following as the logical consequence of everything's relativistic nature.



It's as if the true realization and understanding of its relativity and how deeply it shatters people's previous belief systems, faith, and convictions causes people to preemptively come to the conclusion that, in reality, nothing actually matters or could ever have meaning. Truthfully though, such statements could never apply to any kind of all-encompassing, unbiased observer, because none such exists or can exist. The truth isn't that nothing has meaning and doesn't matter, but that things could only ever have meaning or matter to consciously aware beings capable of mentally constructing a model of the reality they inhabit--the function of which hinges on differentiating objects and concepts in the world, which necessarily as a consequence establishes hierarchies and structural constructs to sort these into (not to mention their survival as beings mandates behaviors to sustain their existence, thus placing various values on nutrients…
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Phineas Piffingham - Tue, 16 Jan 2018 02:52:12 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.521535 Ignore Report Quick Reply
----------PART 2||Answering your question--------------

As far as how to go about living a meaningful life, it's important not to forget what exactly it is that we are, as human beings. We're animals... we have basic drives, instincts, we have rather complex social interactions driven by these, along with desires, hopes, and dreams driven by them as well. No matter how much we consciously believe these things to be of little to no value, to not matter, or have no meaning, we cannot escape that these things all arise as consequence of our functioning a living and conscious, aware, intelligent/sapient beings. Literally the structure of our nervous system has been molded and developed through the course of time and our evolution such that it causes these things.

Look at structure of our societies and how they were run during the course of our history as a species. No matter how archaic or backwards a lot of it may seem, the fact that that's how life was for so long for us as animals and the fact that it worked in terms of our survival, how ingrained it all is in our unconscious is undeniable.

To live a life of meaning, you have to embrace the fact that there is suffering inherent in existence as a living being and accept that without resentment or bitterness, and you need to take on more responsibility in your life. Mature and become an adult in all the cliche and again, sometimes rather archaic seeming ways you've always been told to in life. Take care of yourself and your affairs and become good enough at it that it could even be feasible for you to actually take on taking care of somebody else and there affairs, whether or not you have kids. Be a good person who at least always tries to tell the truth and who avoids to the best of their ability to add any additional suffering to the suffering already present in the world and help others out. Learn to trust people even though most of them likely don't deserve it and might hurt you as a result of it.

In the end, you don't actually need to matter at all to feel like your life has meaning or to like yourself as a person. Mattering winds up coming as a matter of course if you do all of those things I said and is just the i…
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Hannah Novingville - Tue, 16 Jan 2018 03:47:06 EST ID:cG0vV5OZ No.521536 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>521535
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zd11cRuljMk
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Dextrolord - Wed, 17 Jan 2018 04:05:19 EST ID:xmLJIsps No.521553 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521512
I got clean off benzos recently too. I used to be way depressed and anxious all the time and it really interfered with my life. Now I've found the right medicine for daily use, kratom, and what drugs I like for fun.

I know that the classic view is life shouldn't revolve around getting high and stuff but I'm way happier now, and even in my darkest opiate days, than I was sober and suicidal.


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