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The other man by Sidney Bendledure - Thu, 27 Sep 2018 21:52:34 EST ID:G/lDv4Fz No.526829 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Am I doing something wrong?

My girl has a "best guy friend' who she's jokingly mentioned" we'd get married when we're 40 for the tax benefits if we don't have anyone else"

I've looked at the dudes she's dated before me, looked at myself, and looked at this dude, and it's clear as day. We're all muscular dudes.. And this guy actually looks like a fat neckbeard. Hard. He seems like a nice guy and all, but I swear if you looked at their hundreds of social media pics together you'd think they're dating more than we are. Faces touching, real close pics, "love this dude!!" captions etc.

Maybe I'm a little crazy me, but typically a dude friend almost ALWAYS wants to fuck the girl he's "friends" with. Especially if they're bffs.

As for our relationship, we fuck a lot, she introduces me to her friends as her boyfriend, I introduce her to mine as my girlfriend, might meet her parents soon, travel together etc.

Something seems off. Am I one of the "other guys" she fools around with before she settles down with the beta that was always there? Is she spinning plates and fucking us both? Am I overthink it this and men and women can truly be friends? Does she just get giddy off of male attention because she's probably mentally ill?

Is this classic alpha fux and beta bux?

I kinda want to break it off with her now, either because I'm being strung along or she's the type to string another guy along
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Priscilla Gesslebatch - Thu, 27 Sep 2018 22:59:07 EST ID:Je6TlL8J No.526833 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Pretty much this thread should be a conversation with her. We don't really know what's going on but you'd have a decent idea if you looked her in the eye and asked her these questions. Most likely its platonic on her side but maybe not.

Tips though. Focus on your feelings such as how pictures of her physically close to him make you feel insecure and that you are worried that you are just a phase for her. That way she cant turn it around on you. If you blame her, you'll be the bad guy but if you talk about how the things she does make you feel insecure, then you'll be expressing yourself.

If she reacts defensively and cuts you off call her out on it immediately and say that she isnt listening. Make sure that she plays by the rules and doesn't manipulate you.

But yeah if you cant feel secure after a few discussions like that then bounce, but its worth a big boy conversation. If you are thinking about the big leagues this needs to be a regular occurrence.
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Priscilla Gesslebatch - Thu, 27 Sep 2018 23:01:28 EST ID:Je6TlL8J No.526834 Ignore Report Quick Reply
But yeah dont blame her for his feelings though make sure she doesn't ignore his feelings either. Straight up ask her if she thinks he has feelings for her. She may be naive.


lost my job again by bebel shtebel - Thu, 20 Sep 2018 06:29:38 EST ID:LofUj31e No.526724 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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this i becoming to look like a pattern,4/6 month unemployed because work is scarce in my area,get a job,work 6/8 month,lose the job,repeat.
I'm 24 and this is going on since i started working 5 years ago,i just cannot keep a job,and at some point all the major employers in my hometown will know me and i will have to moove if i wanna work.
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Ernest Bigglewater - Sat, 22 Sep 2018 12:04:03 EST ID:SNXcRWOR No.526766 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526740
> INJkLq9MW


>>526724
ILofUj31e

not the same person and this thread is stupid.
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Nigel Blobblelock - Sat, 22 Sep 2018 14:19:38 EST ID:BgYDrKs0 No.526768 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526766
diff computer man
i phone posted at work and then i responded when i got home
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Rebecca Blatherfoot - Sat, 22 Sep 2018 19:10:23 EST ID:NJkLq9MW No.526772 Ignore Report Quick Reply
and when i got home i jacked it to more tranny porn
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Ernest Fonkinhood - Wed, 26 Sep 2018 12:17:12 EST ID:0DOizHVp No.526804 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>526772

This particular negro...
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Polly Blimbletidging - Thu, 27 Sep 2018 05:00:23 EST ID:yt1jlTFA No.526821 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>526740
You said this was a repeating cycle. So you just keep getting caught jacking your rod job after job after... handjob?

I had a full LOL, almost turned to ROFL. this was great. thank you. I hope you find employment soon again.


Give up on my only dream... by James Pugglelotch - Fri, 17 Aug 2018 13:20:17 EST ID:ZHxB44Gj No.526201 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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All I've ever wanted out of life is a kinky dominant girlfriend, but I'm nearly 30 and anyone dominant enough to satisfy has either made some other guy be their boyfriend or is literally crazy. So I guess I just gotta give up the one dream I ever had.

How do I give up my dream and not kill myself?
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Isabella Tootbury - Sat, 18 Aug 2018 20:54:11 EST ID:o1lILmxe No.526257 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Oh shit bro. Did you miss the draft? Because literally every dominant woman in the world was there and they were assigned to be in a stable long term relationship or irredeemably insane. I was there. Fuck man. There's absolutely nothing you can do.

What were you thinking man? How could you miss the fucking draft man? Your life depended on this. How the fuck do you miss the draft???
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Ebenezer Nebberwere - Sun, 19 Aug 2018 03:20:11 EST ID:BWixFWfs No.526259 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>526203
That's an interesting perspective, it feels very fresh when contrasted with this goal-oriented and needy mindset that the developed world has become trapped in. Oliver Cromwell and Francis Drake engaged in genocide.
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Cornelius Nicklewell - Sun, 19 Aug 2018 14:02:54 EST ID:lBwVUAhn No.526266 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526215
Damn, it's almost like everyone has a different genetic load and circumstances beyond their control.

Self-centered like all tripfags.
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Samuel Fuggletetch - Wed, 22 Aug 2018 15:18:02 EST ID:ka63e54W No.526287 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526201
your dream sucked ass
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Litterally Hitler - Mon, 24 Sep 2018 16:29:10 EST ID:l24SCtON No.526785 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>526201
did you try fetlife? not that I did, but I'm trying to get opinions on it. and about that "awe' God" post, fuck you dude. in a airplane crash I would still feel empty and feel miserable for wasting my life, or maybe just panic, and certainly not try to solve any promel of my own, by my own. BUT WAIT OP. I got a better idea. you know I'm only 21 but I've lost a close family member and wasted 4 years of life for a shitty degree. It made me learn that time is counted. That every month is a decisive step in your life. And that each month, you're loosing one. Which is extremely depressing, depresses me too, but imagine like you're playing a game with long term strategy. You want to reach important goals, but fuck, don't ruin the game for it. Don't let you end game be ruined eighter because you're too focused on short terms. I mean, don't let it go man. every week end, every night, you got a chance to speak to a woman. A chance to get closer to a circle of people where your woman is. But don't loose your job and friends for it. It's about equilibrium bro. Oh, btw, I also crave for a dominant kinky gf, but it feels like... mine isn't kinky enough ( partly cause I hurt her, true), friend's gf could be kinky enough but is mentally incompatible with me. But hey, there's only a few girls minds that I can barely know. Sometimes I think : where would my ideal girlfriend be now? what places she goes at? Well, considering what I personnally do, it doesn't give a damn clue, so I'm stuck. But I keep hope you know, I try to make my gf more kinky and I go on fetlife at the same time; I may join those satanists from the Church Of Satan at some point in my life, and I've got friends with whom I share true bonds and who may help me in a way or another. I may roam in martial arts / fighting sports clubs too. You have to show your potential ideal gf interest, and that you're worthy. anyway, good night, and don't count too much on luck.


Let's all meme our health issues until our demons go away by Phyllis Firrywill - Tue, 04 Sep 2018 00:23:37 EST ID:Jy3QZUJi No.526535 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Psyche - they're here to stay
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Frederick Pangerfeck - Tue, 04 Sep 2018 13:34:00 EST ID:X1WDhwYW No.526547 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526535
The irony is those memes are usually just a circlejerk of misery masked as empathy rather than actual positive action.

it's ironic because so is your shitpost
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Litterally Hitler - Mon, 24 Sep 2018 16:01:11 EST ID:l24SCtON No.526784 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>526547
I love you guys. I really do. here. have this meme. it's about you going anonymous to be able to talk to people ( oh, and kinda about me too)


No jerb by Charlotte Fanham - Thu, 20 Sep 2018 00:34:00 EST ID:tAj8imI6 No.526723 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Sup. tl;dr

>Does anyone have any career advice for an introvert piece of shit with no degree and possible disqual for any big company in a service industry economy?

So I've applied to basically fucking everything everywhere locally that isn't waitress kind of shit or stocking shelves. And I've heard fuck all except some spam from job sites and some ghetto types working temp agencies wanting me to go clean gas station toilets for min wage in the absolute hood. Additionally, even the jobs I can apply to are all part time with no benefits and no pay. I've done a budget and looked around a lot at prices of shit and at 14/hr I could survive if I got full time with no benefits. But I would be 1 problem away from going insolvent since I wouldn't save any money.

Sick of being broke as fuck and bouncing around with no fuckin future. I can't take being around people much but could bear it for a job. But fuck living with someone. I hate intimacy, friendships, and social contact. Even a basic room mate would be suicide inducing. I could swing it with 2 jobs but I can't get one and who the fuck wants to work 70 fucking hours a week to still have to pay for health insurance, no retirement, and live in some shithole in a trailer?

>But that is only one point of my post. I had a job before but only made it a few months after an altercation with another coworker that didn't involve the cops and I didn't get fired technically. I just quit on the spot. I've heard that 3rd party hiring companies log everything and I'm wondering if that is fucking up my chances of getting hired. They told me that they had notified a 3rd party for an investigation in which they would be impartial and only follow their recommendations. Would this be reported to 3rd party hiring companies that aggregate lists on prospects? I'm fairly certain most big companies use the same few hiring companies that comb through social media/school/jobs/jail etc and compile ranked aggregates on prospects.

I've also had lots of gaps as neet and dropped out of college twice while only having 1 job for for a few months in summer. I have no connections to get me anything btw, being so anti social. An…
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Hugh Mizzlesere - Thu, 20 Sep 2018 13:19:25 EST ID:Je6TlL8J No.526732 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You are going to be homeless soon if you dont learn how to get along with people.
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KLEZ.fml !!cEQLOiCj - Sat, 22 Sep 2018 15:51:36 EST ID:qQblv7hA No.526770 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Maybe you could go work at Brietbart. You have the personality.
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Rebecca Blatherfoot - Sat, 22 Sep 2018 18:35:46 EST ID:NJkLq9MW No.526771 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526723
What's your living situation like? Do you have anything that you like to do, or liked to do in the past?
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Martin Brookshit - Sun, 23 Sep 2018 05:28:39 EST ID:2cRqUGEL No.526774 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526723
Get a job in a call centre. Highly recommend NOT going for commision based work, because that's a pile of garbage and purely there to exploit the workforce, but seriously even if it's just a normal wage and it's cold calling and all you get to experience is people being absolute shits to you, it's a job. More importantly, it's a job in an office.
Having that call centre work will give you experience on the phone, will give you experience in an office environment, and then stick there for 6 months and then apply for a real office job.
It'll be boring and dull and the call centre work may make you lose your faith in humanity a little, but it's a stepping stone to something better. Even if the office job is the shittest of filing paperwork, generally there's room for progression, there's a possibility you'll be earning more as you go on. Generally the environment isn't the most toxic because the majority of it is just working alone and taking calls, with a few brief interactions with staff otherwise.
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Eliza Cuzzleson - Mon, 24 Sep 2018 14:06:09 EST ID:hRBYIF6G No.526783 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526774
This is a great one for people with no experience. Especially if you can find a contact center rather than call center. The difference is subtle but it's basically receiving calls all day rather than having to call people. These types of jobs are almost always hiring because the high turnover. The good ones are going to have a month or so of paid training before they even let you on the phones.


No Contact by Angus Hadgewill - Thu, 20 Sep 2018 10:48:40 EST ID:KlgKIb50 No.526727 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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My friends and family condemn me for burning bridges. If I ever date a girl and things don't go well, or she does something I don't like, I just peace out and leave. I don't give her the drama she wants. No yelling. A "ok cya" is all I need.

I block her on all social media, block numbers, if we had any mutual friends I drop them and find new friends. Ghost all the way, out of sight out of mind.

"you're way too vindictive anon", "you don't have to burn bridges", "this is a little immature"

Why would I NOT block somebody and cut them out of my life if there's nothing there? I'm not gonna 'stay friends' with an ex while she gets dicked down by the next dude. And what, reminisce about the good times we had while I'm thinking about her naked? Fuck that noise im not an asexual pushover.

What's done is done and breakups are always final. "not burning bridges" implies that at some point in the future I want to leave the option over to start interacting with that person again--what sane fucking person wants to do THAT?

Is there any actual benefit to keeping in contact with exes, and to a lesser extent, any old connection? Any rationale driven by sound logic and not some feel good psycho babble?
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Edward Berryworth - Fri, 21 Sep 2018 15:42:51 EST ID:ODiXwg87 No.526756 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I do this, except less extreme. Like this last girl, she moved away and didn't want things to keep going. I told her before I probably won't "just be friends", of course she tried it anyway. Said no, stopped messaging her. Gave short responses when she messaged me, then said "Ok well If you wanna get together then lmk" and left it at that. I ended up having a party for my bday, and she showed up. It was fine. I talked to her, etc, we both still like each other, then she started messaging mme again. Same line, hmu if you wanna get together or bye. She said she would. Who knows.


Why go ghost when you can just cut contact and do your own thing? If they wanna come back and fuck, cool... Granted we weren't official. If it were a ltr and she showed up at my bday I'd prolly not have taken it so well. Idk.
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Angus Hadgewill - Fri, 21 Sep 2018 15:53:46 EST ID:Vw57gL9y No.526757 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526756
Your post is exactly why burning bridges is the best way to go. That chick clearly just liked keeping in contact with you because it made her feel special when you *tried* to create distance instead of just blocking her outright
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Edward Berryworth - Fri, 21 Sep 2018 16:40:11 EST ID:ODiXwg87 No.526759 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526757

I mean she's a bigger deal to me than I am to her maybe, but she's the one contacting me, she's the one who showed up at the party on my birthday, which means she's the one chasing me around. I was talking to some girl in her city at another girl's apartment who threw the party when she showed up. I didn't even message her on her bday. I think the balance of power here is in my favor.
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Walter Blackcocke - Fri, 21 Sep 2018 19:22:30 EST ID:Je6TlL8J No.526761 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526755
Fuck you're sensitive. I'm assuming that you had a really bad experience in the past that has turned you into a coward. Hey buddy, you're not a soulless husk. You're a still a dramatic af vivacious fuckwit if I have ever seen one, so guess you do have a little bit of emotional resilience. You just need more practice.
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Angus Hadgewill - Sat, 22 Sep 2018 00:44:37 EST ID:+Dxwg5ZQ No.526765 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526761
The final step will be to kill the soul and become machine


Bummed after a breakup went to shit by Barnaby Bliggleworth - Sun, 02 Sep 2018 00:32:29 EST ID:AfIt12yr No.526492 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I was dating this girl for about half a year. It went south, but things were still mutual and we broke up on pretty good terms.

Then things went *further* south. Despite claims of wanting to stay friends she kept acting weird, and eventually threw these huge rants at me through text. They hurt my feelings a bit--she was trying to throw a lot of guilt at me, trying to make it seem like she cared much more than me about the relationship and that she didn't want us to break up, despite her singlehandedly guiding our talks from fixing things together to breaking up. I tried pointing this out and got more shit in return, so I stopped talking to her for a week or so.

Yesterday, she sends me another long text, this time making apologies for the previous ones that were so ""out of character"" for her. In the same fucking text though, she was saying the same things she said in the rant, somehow saying she wishes we never broke up despite being the driving force behind us breaking up in the first place. By this point I was no longer interested in even trying to keep her as a friend. I told her it'd be best for both of us if we just didn't talk for a while. Deleted her on everything, she unfriended me on Facebook.

I don't know what to do next. Downloaded Tinder but I feel like shit for using it, and I don't expect many matches. Generally I feel really shitty and aimless. I'm hurt that I didn't know this chick's real character despite dating her for that length of time, and I don't know if that's my fault or hers.

TL;DR My breakup went from friendly terms to ghosting each other on everything in under a month. Any advice on how to stand up and move forward would be appreciated, my morale is pretty low.
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Thomas Niddlebodge - Sun, 02 Sep 2018 05:11:06 EST ID:2cRqUGEL No.526494 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526492
Yeah that's pretty normal for most relationships.

I don't talk from much experience as I've only had 2, but that's happened with both of mine. Try to stay friendly and talk because it's hard cutting someone out of your life completely when you were so close, but after that initial desperation of still needing some contact, it's better to realise not talking to each other will probably be a good thing.

Like, you seem fine with it but if you're on the other end, a lack of contact will usually stop that yearning feeling of getting back together quicker than torturing yourself by remaining in contact.

You did the correct thing OP. Despite it being her choice, you clearly got out while you still could. You don't need to get back on the dating scene immediately. Reflect on the relationship, find the reasons why she was wanting to break up and either fix the problematic issues, or realise she was uncompromising and awkward about mundane things.

Sometimes it's better being single for a while instead of jumping straight back into dating when you're vulnerable and still a bit hung up on the previous one, because you just bring that old baggage into the new relationship
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Barnaby Bliggleworth - Sun, 02 Sep 2018 14:45:58 EST ID:AfIt12yr No.526498 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>526494
Thanks for the reply, I appreciate the advice. I've done a lot of introspection, I think I understand the things I need to improve on, and a lot of things that were definitely just her-specific issues.

This morning in general already feels a little better than last night. I'll put in the work and I'll make it past this.
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Cyril Buzzway - Mon, 03 Sep 2018 14:11:59 EST ID:HUUepmZy No.526516 Ignore Report Quick Reply
No shame in tinder.

But you'll probably find some crazy ones. I was a crazy one on there. Boy howdy did that ever go well.
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Caroline Dorringhock - Tue, 04 Sep 2018 19:26:22 EST ID:K+JHX4kL No.526557 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526492
>My breakup went from friendly terms to ghosting each other on everything in under a month
lucky you, I carried my exgf in my head for more than 3 years.
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Molly Honeyson - Wed, 19 Sep 2018 17:06:36 EST ID:jFcb6uwf No.526718 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>My breakup went from friendly terms to ghosting each other on everything in under a month

consider yourself lucky.

My Ex-GF was an unbearable hipster-witch who was never satisfied.

She allways wanted to move around, travel every single weekend, wanted to use our money for leasing cars or buying motorcycle-rides and she was really never satisfied.

Then her parents and her hipster-firends started to hate me (I liked travelling, too in fact I love visiting new locations. But Not when beeing poor because of shit-jobs. And I think travelling EVERY weekend is kinda psychotic. Its like running away from yourself).

She broke up with me and I had the worst years following.
I felt so miserable and worthless, allways thought I didn't do enough with my life - but it wasn't the case.

While she enjoyed expensive hipster-parties with champagne, wanted to visit every...single...festival,
I enjoy one festival per year, some random concerts sprikled inbetween and netflix and video-editing and playing drums with my friends occasionally.
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being a miserable cunt since cleaning up by Hamilton Honeylock - Tue, 18 Sep 2018 10:55:59 EST ID:VvT3LNTK No.526705 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I quit daily benzos and opiates about a year ago, have had the odd lapse but nothing beyond a day or two's use in that time. Since then, I feel worse and worse. I hate waking up in the morning, at my job I just want to smash everything up and scream, every day I'm counting the minutes til I can leave but then I feel the same way at home, I feel like I'm only resisting suicide for a bunch of selfish self-absorbed cunts who don't want to help me they just don't want to feel guilty if I did kill myself, there's nothing for me in the world I work a shit job I don't have any skills to get a different one, I don't have a girlfriend and I haven't had one or even had sex in three years, I had one perfect girlfriend and I fucked it up and pretty much every day I feel like screaming I just want to go back to the day we fell out and fix everything it's like my head's full of screaming every day I want to just run into the street and beat someone and just not stop until they're fucking dead I want disasters and plagues and terror attacks I want everyone to feel just as miserable and worthless as I do and I don't see how I can go on like this it's exhausting I just want to get back on the drugs or fucking die, all my friends have girlfriends and are getting places and it's pathetic and a miserable way of thinking but I fucking resent them for their happiness, I think their girlfriends are stuck up cunts who won't introduce me to their friends because they don't think I'm good enough for them and I can't even go to the pub because seeing them all happy makes me go home and cry all night and think about killing myself because I'm so fucking lonely and miserable, it's a disgusting attitude but I really want them to break up I can't feel happy for my friends any more and that's not right - I'm dreading christmas, I don't want to go and sit around with my family and hear about what's going right for them, I don't want to sit there conscious that the fat self-important smug prick I call a cousin has a girlfriend and I don't, I just want to follow someone at night and just smash their head in and make them feel helpless …
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Hugh Furryhood - Tue, 18 Sep 2018 12:07:02 EST ID:BgYDrKs0 No.526707 Ignore Report Quick Reply
i picked up a book the other day regarding what happens after addiction. it is all about making a life, because when we use drugs sometimes people do it to fill a hole in their hearts. it's dangerous when we can't face our sober life. i have a very special relationship with weed and other minor substances, it makes me feel like anything is possible etc etc, and this has an attachment to me because i far prefer this new person that has the confidence and the grace to make anything work. I've been putting off my own life to get high, so i don't have much in the way of real world accomplishments. that will change eventually.
my advice to you is that i don't think things will work if you merely stop drugs. i think you need to address what's causing you to feel the urge to use in an unhealthy way. exercise, get outside, actually having a life if you don't in other words. i'm sorry if this advice seems redundant but it's where i'm at right now. i use because i haven't truly tried working hard on the things i want
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Jarvis Drarrystock - Tue, 18 Sep 2018 12:43:59 EST ID:vYe3Po+d No.526709 Ignore Report Quick Reply
join an MMA gym to let it all out, you can beat people up if they don't fuck you up first
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Frederick Blackgold - Tue, 18 Sep 2018 12:51:49 EST ID:Mb6Lb1tg No.526710 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526707
Generally you're right. Whether it applies to OP is for OP to work out (and hopefully find the right answer). Just stopping drugs is simply removing a symptom. A symptom which worsens the issue mind you. But it doesn't make you better.

As for your girl woes OP it happens. I think my last dry spell ended after 4 years. It resumed instantly. However my friends with girlfriends, and their girlfriends are not an issue. I think this is part of your problem. You're one of those people who puts too much emphasis on one thing. Maybe the rest of your life sucks and it's your new focus, or maybe its like drugs and focusing on it is stopping you making the rest of your life good.

I'm worthless undateable trash. But only in the regards of finding a partner. I have a reasonable job (in terms of money and respect that it affords me I actually like it and believe in what I do so it's better than that reall), I'm working towards getting a house, which is going to be twice as hard as if I just clubbed together with someone else and the house market is doing it. So I'm going uphill alone but I've always gone uphill alone and I will succeed or die heroically trying. I am in good shape. I don't have a deep pool of friends to draw back on because my parents are fucks and I made bad choices at uni but the friends I have are cool and I know that all these people who are doing better than me want to hang out with me and see me as an equal reflects well on me. I have hobbies I enjoy that are mine and I don't share with many friends but that's okay too.

I feel like you aren't that far removed from where I am and that a lot of your issue is perspective. We made mistakes and have to live with us, but if we're doing stuff right going forward than maybe we're not achieving what others can (I think there are chances that were taken away from me and yes I'm annoyed but I can't change that) but we're going from the place we are now in the direction we are heading. And that's the measure of a person. No one gets exactly the same level of privelege in life. You have a unique set of advantages and disadvantages (though many of the individual co…
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Mightve let the (only)one get away by Ebenezer Smallwell - Sat, 15 Sep 2018 17:45:33 EST ID:HXgn8b9h No.526683 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I always knew that if i had a person i could relate to, share my life with, we could help eachother. So a few years back i was taking dabs with a friend and this hot girl. I noticed she kept looking at me, and im an ugly af virgin with mild autism and major depression/social anxiety thats never had a gf so i think she wants to fuck. Shes moving away in a few days and hits me up the night before she does. We drive around all night, smoke, see sights, go on adventures. Bring her home at like 4. The entire time i had a hardon the size of an 18 wheeler, but decided not to. I actually liked her. Shes quite, seems to have all the same problems i do.

Couple years later she moves back to my town. We hang out and she still acts the same. I hit her up every other night over summer and smoke her out. She has depression. Hates groups. Tried to kill herself. Just like me. She wants to fuck, constantly adjusting bra/pants, grabbing lighters or whatever off my crotch. Every time i drop her off at her place she stresses "is there anything else you wanted to do?" Nope. Drop her off. She shared secrets with me. She has anxiety like i do. Quit, like my music. May be kinda autistic too. Parents are shitbags, no jobs, just sit around getting high all the time. She has to walk around in the redlight district to go anywhere.

Finally decide tonights the night, bring her to my house, smoke, talk. She buys half the weed, shes only done that a couple times but shes still in highschool so i understand. Decide its now or never and ask if she wants to fuck. No answer, i read no. Ask if she wants to go home. Kinda. Awkward 30 minute ride, she keeps saying shes sorry and shes a lesbian. Next day, she deleted me on snapchat.

I keep thinking about what if she trusted me to not want that? I couldve been the one to help her. Shes so sexy and lonely somebody else is going to come along(probably already has) and smoke her out and try to fuck her like me. We couldve helped eachother. Now im alone again and so is she because i fucked it up. Should i message her?

Or she just used me to get high i guess
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Hugh Clannernig - Sat, 15 Sep 2018 18:04:30 EST ID:vYe3Po+d No.526684 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>Should i message her?
fucking lol she just wanted free weed
next time go for a kiss and take it from there
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Phoebe Worthingford - Sat, 15 Sep 2018 19:24:30 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.526685 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Bro you never, ever, ask if they wanna fuck.

Awkward.

Any chances you had, probably died with that one move.

These things need to be escalated, mutually, at her pace with a few gentle nudges to catalyse further. So for instance, if she grabs something off of your crotch or during these goodnight "anything else" - a hand touch could've been the move.
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Archie Begglemuck - Sat, 15 Sep 2018 20:12:35 EST ID:HXgn8b9h No.526686 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526685
>awkward
Im an autistic virgin
I mean she was talking about all these scars on her thighs and i kinda just worked my way up her leg before i said it. Idk felt right at the time
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Hamilton Buzzfield - Sun, 16 Sep 2018 04:43:32 EST ID:Je6TlL8J No.526687 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Well yeah her reaction makes sense. It sounds like you didn't even try to kiss her the entire time or anything, and just ignored that side of things and then jumped straight to can I put my penis inside you now?

You don't go from zero to ten in an instant. I understand that you finally felt ready and stuff but you didn't get her in the mood or anything. You were horny I understand but you still have to be patient and considerate when you start having sex. Women are different to men. They dont want to fuck right away. They want to feel sexy and wanted. So yeah maybe look into her eyes next time and go for a kiss instead or as the above guy said play with her hand or something. Flirt.

She also might be a lesbian.
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William Beckleworth - Sun, 16 Sep 2018 08:37:46 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.526692 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526691

It’s just my personal rule. I accept other scenarios can work just as well.


How anxiety now feeling by Fuck Guffinglick - Fri, 14 Sep 2018 08:14:00 EST ID:vKB3YREQ No.526674 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Will by December have Bachelor of Science Biochemistry&Biophysics degree. No idea what to do, not sure and poverty of thought, and why not the reason I came?
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Cedric Handledodge - Fri, 14 Sep 2018 12:46:00 EST ID:Mb6Lb1tg No.526676 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526674
It's not a bad degree for a lot of stuff. Now you've studied it what sort of work do you want to do? What about your degree interested or interests you?

You can easily get a not dead end entry level job anywhere if you don't fuck up your app or interview. You could jump onto a graduate scheme for something unrelated that just wants a brain which can get shit done. You could use something that uses the broad skills and approaches or things which interest you but isn't in your field, you could go into industrial chemistry/biology or further research (in which case get a PHD). One of my friends did biochem and actually got a masters, he did a lot of work in brewing but is now a health and safety guy for a university biochem department. "Oh you want to put both hydrogen and oxygen through that tube? Oh at different times. Well in that case make sure only one can go through at a time".

Your main hazard is decision paralysis not actually being unable to get a job. So start whittling it down. Work out what appeals and start following that thread. Be prepared to start at the bottom.


Getting rid of my "vise" by Edwin Bamblepudge - Thu, 13 Sep 2018 14:02:57 EST ID:ZHxB44Gj No.526662 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Vice or vise?

Anyway, I'm extremely introverted and for my whole life and just sat in front of a computer using the internet as my window to the world. I've been thinking lately I should just get rid of my computer, I don't even play video games anymore. I just browse the future/circlejerk/youtube all day hoping for something interesting to pop up and I hate myself for it.

I've trying limited my computer time but I just don't have enough to do outside of this shit. Also my schedule is weird and the few people I know are ALWAYS busy when I have free time (get off work at night, wake up the middle of the day).

So I guess my only option is to go cold turkey with my computer and just dismantle it, but I dunno its scary.
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Clara Civingbet - Thu, 13 Sep 2018 14:45:51 EST ID:vYe3Po+d No.526663 Ignore Report Quick Reply
get a hobby, class, etc
gettin rid of your PC won't solve being a hermit
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Sophie Hocklekudging - Thu, 13 Sep 2018 21:45:23 EST ID:Y++ZltxA No.526670 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Or you can do what I did and become a programmer. It's possible to be product and still on a computer a lot.
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Basil Docklebanks - Fri, 14 Sep 2018 00:48:11 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.526671 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You are gonna find that you have a lot more time on your hands.

Phones and computers can blink away an hour without realising. An hour can become maddeningly slow without it.
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Archie Clayfuck - Fri, 14 Sep 2018 01:15:37 EST ID:BgYDrKs0 No.526673 Ignore Report Quick Reply
i have an addiction to pot. i believe that i healthy relationship is possible with this as well as the computer.
the conclusion i have come to so far is that it is a wound that i am trying to numb. this wound is made known to be because i have found that i have never been able to face the day. i am so scared of being productive, this being from an incredibly demoralizing adolescence.
anyway, i suggest that you either put it away in a drawer for a week, or continue but on the contingency that you also start doing certain good hobbies. like, "i will watch chinese cartoons after school only if i meditated twice today. once when i wake up, and once when i get home." something like that, attach something good for you to it. i find, though, that if the pull is so strong such that you simply cannot put it down, i suggest physically removing it from your home and just reading a book or something until you stop craving like a maniac. take a week at that point.
however, know that you have the choice. you don't have to live your life this way, you can change.


Being lonely by Phoebe Pullykick - Thu, 13 Sep 2018 16:19:16 EST ID:GwBd4HmX No.526665 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I have no friends, no social life and no job. Not whining here, just stating the facts.

Does anybody else in this situation ever feel an emptiness? I've been in this situation for a long time, but once in a while, I feel as if something is missing on a primal level. Like I miss the experience of interacting with a fellow human, or somebody I can relate to.

I don't do drugs or drink anymore. Maybe I just miss being drunk or high. Anyway, does anyone want to share their experiences? Thanks.
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Beatrice Chollyfoot - Thu, 13 Sep 2018 16:46:43 EST ID:vQ+wYYiI No.526667 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526665
I'm start with sport and again after few years and bad relationship and trauma I have amazing body. Maybe you can try that way


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