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Started to hate children by Intricate Urology - Thu, 16 Nov 2017 03:21:33 EST ID:uDCgIcJL No.520066 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I've been working as a pediatrician for 5 years and enjoyed my job
but burned out at some point
due to too inhumane working-hours and not enough time to relax.

Then my parents got badly injured in a car-crash, both got bedridden and unfortunately died maybe a month later due to complications in their spines and internal organs.

I was devastated. Couldn't work anymore and needed 3 years to somehow recover.
I quit my nursery job because it took its toll on me
and tried to get a foot into IT-tech, but had zero luck.

At some point I got a call from a state-funded youth-office and they've been looking for social workers.
A good friend of mine suggested me!

So, yeah.
It started really great.
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Hugh Clibberson - Sat, 18 Nov 2017 08:20:54 EST ID:dJGuoqo1 No.520127 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You need to take time out, work in a different sector for a while. I don't know where you are but in my country social workers are often on rotas, so at least a few months of the year they can do desk jobs and de-stress. They also get free counselling. This is what you deserve, but you aren't getting it, so find a way to provide yourself with it. Find a way to get a few months away, or even a year, that will allow you to go back again when you are rested.

I think that if you had the support you needed you would be okay, this is all your employer's fault, not the job, not the kids.
Wesley Pemmlestock - Sat, 18 Nov 2017 08:41:38 EST ID:w1xq6GLK No.520128 Ignore Report Quick Reply
What reason do you even have for posting this? He said he was a pediatrician for 5 years and quit. He was probably a pediatrician for 5 years then quit. You sound bitter as fuck.

OP you sound like you’ve legitimately had a bad life for a while now. I don’t have much good advice because those problems are so heavy. I will say I hate kids too. I was a teacher for several years and it was similar. The administration and staff were pretty frustrating to work with and the kids were just horrible. At its core it felt like a sales job except the customers were only there because their parents made them go. And children are unbelievably cruel to each other.
Walter Fuckingshaw - Sat, 18 Nov 2017 16:11:29 EST ID:UIGxwzNr No.520132 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You're burnt out. For the love of god quit your job.
Additional Bugs - Sun, 19 Nov 2017 05:25:49 EST ID:MvqmKnOi No.520139 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Dude, you could be me!

I started to hate my job nearly 6 years in, and I still don't know how I managed to cew through these fucking 6 years!

Same game: Administration, Teachers and superiors didn't give any fuck,
promised me to transfer me to a better job (social-worker for children with disabilities!) and it got worse every day.

I seriously burnt out
it started with shaky hands every time I went to work, migraine and stomach-pain,
went to the doc and pulled the emergency brakes.

Got sick-pay for two months now and I am using the time to find another job.

NO job is worth getting your brain fried for!
Hedda Muckledock - Mon, 20 Nov 2017 08:42:36 EST ID:4lkoUUtn No.520176 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Doctors who work in research get paid well and have better schedules and less one on one patient involvement. The idea is to remain cold and clinical.

Yojimbo by Ernest Fossleshaw - Wed, 15 Nov 2017 03:20:33 EST ID:Uq1BbSqM No.520028 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Many of you are pretending like I was dead, but the truth is that I've been married and moved to Australia.
Now I'm a daddy of 2 kids, and my life is great. So eat my shit haters
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Graham Bangerkadge - Fri, 17 Nov 2017 17:21:01 EST ID:La64au5G No.520111 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>no trip
>magically isnt a fatass living in moms basement in ireland anymore
>had two kids in the span of 3years
>cant even fill in the blank to the phrase he coined himself
>gets the country he lived in wrong.

checkmate son imposter confirmed
Martin Mebberlot - Fri, 17 Nov 2017 23:11:26 EST ID:BoXXADnx No.520120 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You've embarrassed yourself more than the OP tbh.
John Pullerway - Sat, 18 Nov 2017 03:59:58 EST ID:Hx/5rY4q No.520122 Ignore Report Quick Reply
my nigra plz i dont give a fuck what idiots on an anonymous imageboard think.

i just dont feel people should disrespect an old friend.
Emma Bocklelore - Sat, 18 Nov 2017 21:59:26 EST ID:37djlT33 No.520136 Ignore Report Quick Reply
The ruse is up no ones buying your bullshit


Betsy Smalldock - Tue, 28 Nov 2017 20:40:24 EST ID:3f3vk1ax No.520364 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Dead men's words hold no meaning.

Girlfriend steals my sperm by Ebenezer Sandlenodging - Thu, 16 Nov 2017 00:47:13 EST ID:84x/yQdu No.520057 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So I have this pet project where I keep cumming to a jar and keep it in the refridgerator. I share my apartment with my girlfriend, and she knows better than to touch the jar, but lately I have noticed that the amount of sperm in the jar has stagnated, even though I keep cumming in it as much as ever. I don't want to call her a thief, but there is really no other suspects than her, allthough my mom has spare key to our apartment but that is a possibility which I dont want to entertain right now.

Question is, how do I approach my girlfriend with this query?
Yojimbo - Thu, 16 Nov 2017 18:21:32 EST ID:+UZ7DPH3 No.520085 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Ahh, my eyes! Fuck, everything got more retarded then were back 4-years ago...
Fucking Wonkinteck - Fri, 17 Nov 2017 06:50:54 EST ID:Qa5TrN+U No.520103 Ignore Report Quick Reply
How about a spaghetti dinner? There is a Chinese story about a prisoner that collected pieces of wire he found on the floor and kept them in a jar. When the jar was full and he wanted some other way to pass the time one day he decided to break the jar open and count the pieces. When he broke the jar open he cried because all the pieces had become one big tangled clump he could not beak apart. Have you considered that your sperm might be compacting and solidifying?
Hugh Clibberson - Fri, 17 Nov 2017 19:43:15 EST ID:dJGuoqo1 No.520114 Ignore Report Quick Reply


Hide the remote. Accuse her of stealing it. When she denies it, bring up the sperm. She will confess to this lesser offence if she is guilty, because no one wants to be accused of stealing a remote. It will work. 200% guaranteed
Cyril Farringbanks - Sat, 18 Nov 2017 09:54:09 EST ID:qnpf4h+M No.520129 Ignore Report Quick Reply
the only option is to eat all of the sperm yourself before your girlfriend does

How does someone get raped so many times andhow cna it be prevented by Matilda Gurringshaw - Sat, 04 Nov 2017 17:18:10 EST ID:LPstuck1 No.519819 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I know this one girl who's supposedly been raped many times as she describes; but never reports it.
>supposedly raped by a gang in the woods at 9
>raped by two men in psyche ward at 15
>raped by trucker while she off her meds and lived in the woods naked for three weeks
>raped by dude on lsd at 21
supposedly messed up her bone structure and she is in constant pain
>forced to have sex with drug lord at 25 for a place to stay
>had sex with disgusting chinese store owner at 27 for a place to stay

How is this possible and do you think she is lying?

Also she has schizophrenia, and posttraumatic stress disorder.
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Ebenezer Dammermock - Sun, 12 Nov 2017 03:41:26 EST ID:LPstuck1 No.519961 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I did for 6 years, but they ambushed me last year and insisted.
Said it was because she felt safe with me............

Other than that idk, I feel like if I met her earlier in life, I could prevented alof bad shit from happening to her. Idk man feel bad.
Walter Wedgestock - Wed, 15 Nov 2017 23:21:32 EST ID:Gz+TYri8 No.520051 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Honest question. How do you walk around when you are filled with so much bullshit? I can smell the stench through the screen.
Charlotte Murdhall - Thu, 16 Nov 2017 19:45:50 EST ID:viaB/bNq No.520089 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Well I have conversations with people from different walks of life all the time for my job. So I just have been exposed to a lot more bullshit. I'm leaving in 15 minutes to see a lady that is psychotic and pissed herself.

What about you? Why are you full of shit?
James Grandhall - Fri, 17 Nov 2017 08:36:06 EST ID:wg/43xhN No.520104 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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OP you gotta stop making threads about this chick

this is like the 4th time

either bang her or don't
Fuck Burringsock - Sat, 18 Nov 2017 04:14:49 EST ID:LPstuck1 No.520123 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I have in the past, this was before she told me of her schizophrenia.
It's just that her life is the most maddening and eventful I have witnessed.

Reality check! by Lillian Bettingman - Tue, 14 Nov 2017 17:12:33 EST ID:0nygACw3 No.520019 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Bipolar here.

If it wasn't for weed, excercise, medication and/or mania and weird beliefs I would commit suicide in a second.

I am beyond embarassed by my life.
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Alice Sonkinford - Tue, 14 Nov 2017 21:03:29 EST ID:F6BBbLXR No.520022 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Caroline Dartspear - Tue, 14 Nov 2017 22:16:10 EST ID:c7k1hDPc No.520023 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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It makes sense that you need exercise to maintain. Its one of those things I only appreciate when I haven't had any in a while.
Rebecca Handletut - Wed, 15 Nov 2017 09:54:21 EST ID:kAEKpfyQ No.520040 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Honestly I don't know if I can handle the bottoms sober I feel good like I've been to the bottom enough times that I'm not scared of it anymore, but only with weed. If the government takes my weed I honestly don't know how it will go for me. I basically just stop eating entirely and stop moving and become like some sort of half man, half slug creature. Part of the reason I'm moving out west is to get legal weed. I don't look forward to mania anymore though because I always say and do things that I regret and that bring me shame and make it hard for me to face people while depressed without insane anxiety. I hate that it's the only time I ever interact with people anymore. I just go into a cycle of having to use drugs or be manic to feel comfortable interacting with people, then coming down and having intense anxiety about how open I was and retreating into isolation and depression.

I just want to be stable in mild depression. That is my new goal. I want to not be a little bitch and be controlled by my fears while depressed and not go out of control. Luckily I've never been manic while not on antidepressants so I think if I stay away from the antidepressants I'll be able to achieve this.
Rebecca Pammleled - Fri, 17 Nov 2017 08:59:02 EST ID:HjyK/1MH No.520105 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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I don't look forward to mania but it makes me not suicidal.

It just makes me think I already committed suicide and am in the afterlife.

Oh and I go literally bear-spirit angry berserk mode.

OP here btw.

The one thing I hate most is all the edgelords and regular people telling me I don't need meds even though they have never seen me crazy or whatever. It's like the reason I don't seem to need it is because I have it. The stigma against taking meds is the dumbest shit ever.
Fanny Hammerbork - Sat, 18 Nov 2017 07:06:12 EST ID:6OmeeR23 No.520126 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I think the problem is that a lot of people are dumb about meds in a lot of ways. A bit off topic, but I think I know why a lot of people do that. Remember you're dealing with limited humans bombarded by all sorts of bullshit trying to make sense and they'll often simplify and I can understand how much this shit would annoy you... BUT I think you should try to understand that they mean well, a lot of the time they're just out their depth.

Meds are definitely beneficial for a whole bunch of people but for some illnesses (which manic depression is not one) they're often over prescribed when the depression is the symptom of thought and behavior patterns rather than a brain biochemistry problem. In these cases the right meds can do help you hold it together long enough to get your life on track even then however. But a lot of people know several people who've been prescribed meds long term for something they need therapy and life changes for and watched their lives and mental and physical health get worse instead of better. I've seen it a lot. One of my friends eventually found meds that worked for him but even then it was only because he changed how he looks at life that he's gotten over it.

Anyway a lot of people are too stupid to realise mental illness takes a range of varieties and forms with a variety of causes. So they either blindly pop pills or they decry all medicine as blindly popping pills. No one really explains what prescription medicine really means either. That it means it's not safe enough to be OTC but when a doctor, who is a human with human judgment, decides based on their experience in the hugely complicated sphere of medicine that the benefits outweigh the risks and harm that they issue a prescription for a medicine. That they are making the best guess as someone who is better qualified than most but they can get it wrong sometimes and that doesn't mean they're always wrong. That prescription medicine is not supposed to be harmless or considered it because it'd be OTC and that there's always a judgement made by a human. That the human will get it wrong doesn't mean they know better than most people. People just have to…
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Nightmares by Henry Pettingway - Wed, 15 Nov 2017 08:35:16 EST ID:juEZBKSh No.520037 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Got terrible nightmares 3-5 times a week from PTSD, any ideas for reducing these nightmares? They are they type that's hyper-realistic and wake me up at 4am
Rebecca Handletut - Wed, 15 Nov 2017 09:32:12 EST ID:kAEKpfyQ No.520038 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Have you tried smoking indica weed before bed?
Henry Pettingway - Wed, 15 Nov 2017 10:08:01 EST ID:juEZBKSh No.520041 Ignore Report Quick Reply
That's kinda the problem, that works 100% but I can't afford/get weed all of the time. Kinda a bandaid fix.
Charles Brookson - Wed, 15 Nov 2017 22:18:43 EST ID:jPpWgI0N No.520046 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Your only hope besides dangerous or expensive drugs, is to research lucid dreaming and meditation. Lucid dreaming is real, i've done it. You can realize you're dreaming while you're dreaming, and if you do, you can control it. I used to be raped by demon spider beasts every night as a kid. And I'd be ripped apart and eaten by velociraptors. Every fucking night. I could feel it too. Hurts a lot, being ripped apart.

So finally one night, while dreaming, I realized it's a dream. I was fearful, raptors were "out there" around the house, I knew...somehow. I knew there were dinosaurs ready to eat me and they knew I was in there and they were hunting me...as far as my senses were telling me. So then I thought
>Wait a minute...raptors? Dinosaurs? Why have I never heard of this before? Why is this not fitting in to what I know as reality? Why does this make sense?
>It doesn't make sense? It...it DOESN'T make sense...It's not real...this is a dream? This is a dream???
>Raptor walks around from corner, it sees me.
>Oh god. Oh jesus. Why oh god no. NO. NO! PLEASE GOD NO! OH MY GOD NO!
>If it's real...I can't do anything...I thought with tears and wet pants
>If it's a dream...if it's a dream at least I won't have to SUFFER THE RIPPING
>I mustered up all of my will, and closed my eyes, and held my breath, and just...it's a body sensation and emotional sensation I don't think we have a word for in english

I opened my eyes and the raptor was gone. And after making it disappear, I could do anything I wanted. I manifested objects, environments, characters, people. Anything I wanted. I could fly.

I did fucked up shit though in my dreams when I realized I was all powerful and eventually I lost the ability to do it. Even if I realized I was dreaming I'd just wake up. No more powers. No more control.
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Beatrice Gobberspear - Fri, 17 Nov 2017 06:19:58 EST ID:Svgtf+UD No.520101 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Have you heard anything about EMDR therapy? It's supposed to reduce symptoms from PTSD or just general trauma like child abuse. It's worth a shot since it claims to do permanent change.
Beatrice Brobberpit - Fri, 17 Nov 2017 06:27:44 EST ID:xlhndTdQ No.520102 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Any time I realize I'm dreaming and go lucid, I immediately conjure up a celebrity and rape them. I usually go with Drew Carey, not sure why.

Where there's a whip, there's a way. by Hamilton Horrypatch - Fri, 17 Nov 2017 04:18:35 EST ID:qUKSBqSp No.520097 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I don't wanna go to war today, but the lord of the lash says nay nay naaay.

Any advice would be appreciated.
Angus Munderbadge - Fri, 17 Nov 2017 05:22:31 EST ID:Evz4feKy No.520098 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Dope ass song!

Boonk by Cornelius Bunfield - Thu, 16 Nov 2017 06:34:36 EST ID:UZC9gHak No.520072 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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How do I be more like boonk gang? I've always wanted to be a famous rapper and I'm a total bitch. This nigga lived in Miami on the streets and pulled crazy pranks risking jail time and shit.

This nigga walked in a church like 80 pounds soaking wet and screamed fuck y'all in front of 100 people until people came trying to fight him and when they did he just got in their face and tried fighting until they backed down and when he got kicked out he just walked up to the camera and kept saying gang shit.

I literally cant even stand up for myself to people half my size that can't even fight. This nigga can literally rob people for fun but whenever I try to rob a dealer I bitch out. I'm thinking of going to be homeless in a big city and just rob and do stupid shit on camera until I'm famous and not a bitch too
Jarvis Hommleman - Thu, 16 Nov 2017 15:59:46 EST ID:F6BBbLXR No.520080 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Well, you've gotta do what you've gotta do...

Just gonna fuck off and die. by Jack Sungerput - Sun, 12 Nov 2017 22:15:18 EST ID:RTb17M1N No.519974 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I just want to fuck off somewhere and die, how do I just disappear?

Like I want to be a missing person's case nobody takes note of and forget about quickly.

Suggestions? I live in southeast US.
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Graham Coblingforth - Mon, 13 Nov 2017 11:06:31 EST ID:cChHTxSS No.519988 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Nazi really has become the most effeminate insult out there. I can't even read it without hearing it being said in a gay man's voice
Fucking Sennerbot - Mon, 13 Nov 2017 14:48:24 EST ID:UjNuOR6B No.519994 Ignore Report Quick Reply
does hedonistic lifestyle mean doing really hard drugs?
Wesley Pishdit - Tue, 14 Nov 2017 14:17:03 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.520015 Ignore Report Quick Reply
nu-male has got to be the most generic insult out there, I can't hear it without hearing a whiny piddly little 16yo rage against the system half-dropped voice.
Walter Wedgestock - Wed, 15 Nov 2017 23:02:46 EST ID:Gz+TYri8 No.520048 Ignore Report Quick Reply

> Nazi
> Pro-hedonism
> pick only one


And you're the only one who's even used the term in the thread. Tired of being called out for acting like a unic?
Ebenezer Sandlenodging - Thu, 16 Nov 2017 00:07:59 EST ID:84x/yQdu No.520054 Ignore Report Quick Reply
In 1939 Nazies invaded Poland
In 2017 the nazies invade 420chan
History repeats itself first as tragedy, then as farce.

Almost died again by Cyril Drimmerneck - Mon, 13 Nov 2017 20:12:44 EST ID:0PJ7z1R+ No.520001 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I went to a concert with my gf and sister and her friends.

I took some benzos I never tried before.

The police found me outside in the parking lot with frost on my body. They brought me to the station to warm up and sent me to the hospital.

I woke up in the hospital and was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder and recommended to see a therapist. First session was today.

I came out here looking for a job, and now this happened. I probably have a police report on me now, though I will not have been charged with anything. I assume any company who looks at me will see it.

I feel like I just fucked myself for life. Probably the worst part about it is I don't even care that I almost died. It doesn't bother me at all.

So now what? What the fuck do I do?
Cyril Drimmerneck - Mon, 13 Nov 2017 20:14:55 EST ID:0PJ7z1R+ No.520002 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Some extra background:

Been unemployed for 11 months now.
Edward Sadgefit - Mon, 13 Nov 2017 21:49:50 EST ID:JI9kO00V No.520003 Ignore Report Quick Reply
If anything was recorded, it was done so in a medical record. Not even the government can dig into them. Let alone your employer.
Cyril Drimmerneck - Tue, 14 Nov 2017 15:41:15 EST ID:0PJ7z1R+ No.520017 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Thank you
Simon Sarrygold - Tue, 14 Nov 2017 16:38:13 EST ID:xRl6iQCM No.520018 Ignore Report Quick Reply
that situation sounds like a "wake up call" to me... but thats just what i feel
David Cleshfick - Wed, 15 Nov 2017 17:14:06 EST ID:Svgtf+UD No.520045 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Just reinforcing what >>520003 said.

You need to be charged with some kind of crime(innocent or guilty doesn't matter) for there to be a record of you in a court database that companies can see. Mental health stuff where the police get involved isn't going to do anything.

Unless you have some medical debt now you aren't in much of a different position than you were before this happened.

Bad Roommates by Basil Shittinglock - Wed, 15 Nov 2017 05:40:02 EST ID:qnpf4h+M No.520031 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hey guys, so I need advice on how to deal with a bad roommate. Our rooms are connected in such a way where I can hear everything he says. He likes to go on the phone and talk to his Colombian relatives after I go to sleep and it keeps me up. I've talked to him a few times and he says he doesn't care.

What can I do? Is it a good idea to fuck with him back? I was thinking of knocking on his door repeatedly so he can't have his conversation, but that might backfire. He's probably in his early 30's, I'm 25. I talked to the landlord and she says she'll talk to him, but who knows if that will work. I need to move for January, but maybe I'll do it in December because of this. I like my landlord, she's a nice Chinese lady, the price is good, she's accomodating, etc. etc. so I want to avoid fucking her over. I told her I'd stay until January, but if this thing doesn't get solved I might have to. I'd feel bad for her.

I have this new place lined up that's available December, but I want it so I'm covering December's rent for the new place. I might, however, because of this problem, just move out in December. I'm not on a lease, legally I can just go and not pay December for the place I'm at now.

So what the fuck do I do? Any advice? I'd appreciate any shitty roommate stories if you have them.
Sophie Paddlesut - Wed, 15 Nov 2017 06:19:37 EST ID:6BzybYjN No.520034 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Get a fan or listen to music with good headphones or give him a trachiotomy
Rebecca Handletut - Wed, 15 Nov 2017 09:43:38 EST ID:kAEKpfyQ No.520039 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I swear to god we need a sticky on this board that says: "If you hate where you live or the people you live with, MOVE SOMEWHERE ELSE."
Martin Finderwell - Wed, 15 Nov 2017 10:24:24 EST ID:JI9kO00V No.520043 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Yeah, sorry OP. Best you SHOULD do is move if he doesn't give a shit. I know its not like its a simple matter to just move. But doing anything to mess with him just seems like things will get far worse. Just move and let him be someone elses problem. No need to sink to his level.

Why is it always about a girl? by Fanny Blimmerkit - Thu, 02 Nov 2017 11:49:07 EST ID:E0Rd8CeB No.519780 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hey /qq/ it's been a really long time but I'm finding myself stuck between a rock and a hard place. I've recently been more interested and emotionally available for a relationship, my last one was really bad and left me rather jaded so it's a nice change of pace. Everything changed with a pretty decent acid trip. It was a really good day, weather was perfect, got a new skateboard, buddy who I told I would share with was available so we dropped. After a while of wasting time at the park we had to find somewhere else to take the trip, somewhere less public and obvious. He found someone I had never met before that lived downtown so we made our way down there and met up. We went back to her place because I don't do so great in public while under the influence.

It was love at first sight...I've never seen anyone so beautiful before in my life and as the trip started to ramp up and peak it only drove this feeling farther. We didn't do much while we were there, sat around and listened to music, watched Archer in a whole new way. We left her when she needed to pass out for work and started talking about her almost immediately. We were both rather awestruck at her captivating beauty and at some point we had a bit of a misunderstanding with each other and the whole situation but it's been cleared up. Somewhere along the way he made it seem like she was in a shitty relationship, like it wasn't going to work out so I jumped on it without any shame and told her upfront that I like her face. Much to my surprise it was well received so we started talking more, it was all pretty awkward but the details of feelings and such were explained clearly and with nothing but respect for her and the situation I thought she was in. She recently ended the relationship and this is where things take a turn, they are both still absolutely in love with each other. The only reason it ended at all is because they physically don't have a future together. It wasn't until after all this that I learned they were both first generation from England so he's completely stuck there and she can't leave, with Trump's new policies they're done for as far as a relationship goes. Now she's t…
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Betsy Mushridge - Thu, 02 Nov 2017 17:14:58 EST ID:jcyBhnZV No.519784 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You're not thinking logically at all. You don't know her so you just have a crush.

Go outside. Talk to a female.
Graham Hagglehood - Fri, 03 Nov 2017 10:51:49 EST ID:8t4SFLYE No.519797 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I have, this all happened over the course of a few months. I didn't literally mean in love jesus, I was just using the expression.The whole Trump thing is all within the details of the DACA change up. She has the option to leave but then she wouldn't be able to come back, however her whole life is here.
Sidney Shakespear - Sat, 04 Nov 2017 08:21:06 EST ID:/HAo1uaC No.519815 Ignore Report Quick Reply
send a dic pic. then she will either say "Haha no" or " lol wut" or "nothing".

If she says the first one that means she does not fucking like you like that, and she is too nice to just be straight up abrasive and shut you down like she should for sending her The dick pick.

If she says "lol wut" then she probably lieks you, but that does not mean that she liked your dic pic, but that does not guarantee she will actually start to like you like boyfriend girlfriend, and you will have to employ more tactics to get her to be your girlfriend next time.

Now if she says "nothing", then that is when Im not exactly sure what to tell you because those type of girls usually always have something to say and I really don't know what they think. This is a blunder to me as I usually have had much more experirience with LSD psychedelic drugs in general than most people, plus I know how to talk to all kinds of womoen whether I want t
John Sonnerbut - Sat, 11 Nov 2017 23:02:12 EST ID:oIKZCpHC No.519957 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Nell Shittingdock - Wed, 15 Nov 2017 06:49:37 EST ID:GKOsw8SK No.520035 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I think you should keep her in mind while at the same time persuing other women, but make no mention of it to her.

This is because if you wait for her and your heart is there for her to take at whenever she wants it (if ever) then you're hurting yourself. How long can you bear to hold out your hand offering your affection yet perhaps never get what you want in return?

Also if she sees you offering your everything (commitment only to her) and you've received nothing in return (sexual favors/commitment) you raise her up and put yourself in a position where you appear to be lower than her because if you were of high value you wouldn't offer yourself and tolerate receiving nothing return. accepting a relationship like this (usually by being tolerantly passive of it) very often does make you appear to be a low value man. You demonstrate an intolerance to it by not doing boyfriend things while she doesn't do girlfriend things, instead you leave her to herself if that's the way it's going.

Don't get caught agreeing to an unfair deal because it makes you look unattractive. Go chase other women and your mentality will change and you'll be more likely to get her and if not then so be it, because you're not a low value man who would be crushed about not getting that special girl, that's unattractive, you're a high value man who knows he can get other women so he doesn't put everything he has on the table right away, the woman you choose to be exclusive to has to earn that opinion of her, that's attractive.

I know it might sound strange to say don't tell her because that doesn't directly influence your situation but trust me, indirectly it will. Also, it will feel better focusing on yourself rather than her.

Lastly, if you're not physically escalating you're missing the point.

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