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weekly motel by Lydia Soblingforth - Mon, 29 Jan 2018 22:42:32 EST ID:UZC9gHak No.521836 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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im looking to go to move to a new city and use a weekly motel for awhile to get on my feet.

i found a few on craigslist then opened up a yellowpages page and found a bunch of them but it's really hard to find any weekly rates i have to use ctrl f and look through the comments really fast with a list of like 200 hotels. i have no problems with quality i just dont want bed bugs and i want the cheapest ones avaliable.

im finding a lot for like 225-300/week but im not finding anything cheaper than that but people in the comments are saying they found some for 170/week. i thought i would be guranteed bed bugs but a lot of the ones around 250/week don't really seem to have them and i saw places that costed 400/week and still had bed bugs problems so i don't think living cheap will be too bad. i dont mind if its beat up a little i just want a semi working AC since its a really hot city.

do you have to always book these things or can you just show up and pay? can you check a room for bed bugs before you pay or can you at least get a refund if you find them? i really don't want to pay $250 bucks then walk in and see bugs crawling around my bed and then just have to walk out get an uber and then go to the next one and hope i don't need reservations for them and shit and they're all across the city like hours away almost.

i think its easy to tell which one has bugs though because they show up on the registry and people tell you in the comments but i don't think every single room in the place has them. i guess i can always hit a regular hotel in the middle of my search but i kinda wanna do everything straight forward and without spending or wasting money
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Lydia Soblingforth - Mon, 29 Jan 2018 23:41:03 EST ID:UZC9gHak No.521841 Ignore Report Quick Reply
oh wow im surprised its that easy to get money back the service sounds AWFUL how do i find places besides just online? im only finding like 10-20 online spread throughout the whole county i really wanna know where they are by location and stuff incase im there and stuck in an area

can you just call ahead and see if they have a lot of rooms left or do you have to book it. if the first hotel ends up being a bust should i just start calling all the other ones? are they common at all? like any section of a city will have a handful of them so i can find a couple close to me or are they always just spread out really far?

sorry never done anything like this
Oliver Badgeworth - Tue, 30 Jan 2018 18:42:28 EST ID:2woSsADF No.521866 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Sure, you can just call and see what they have available. There's always a chance someone might take the rooms that they have in between when you call and when you show up if you don't book, but if they have lots of rooms available it's probably not a big deal. If you don't like one, go find another one. It's pretty simple. Businesses often locate themselves near their competitors because of economic reasons so you're likely to find motels near other motels. Just look it up online. I don't see why you're so worried about this, staying in a motel isn't a big deal. Btw, lots of motels have beds that are sealed in plastic (cause people have hella sex on them) so you don't have to worry about bed bugs.
Jack Ferringstock - Tue, 30 Jan 2018 20:42:20 EST ID:AHw0fUKB No.521870 Ignore Report Quick Reply
What is this bullshit
Why not rent an apartment with some roomies

Are you old enough to be on this website Lydia?
Hamilton Cruffingtot - Wed, 31 Jan 2018 02:14:24 EST ID:h/1sxUpj No.521872 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I'm pretty sure this is the same guy whose parents won't drive him to the airport. If so this is real progress.
Angus Brongerdan - Wed, 31 Jan 2018 13:42:58 EST ID:UZC9gHak No.521883 Ignore Report Quick Reply
alright im gonna try and call ahead and make note of which ones have the most rooms avaliable and shit

i was looking up the bus routes on google maps in between the apartments and its like 2 hours of walking and busses to get across the city almost in some places but they're not all super far apart

to the other guy not one single person will rent to you unseen

Not Getting On Well With Group As long as everyone else by Polly Pammlenutch - Tue, 30 Jan 2018 00:37:14 EST ID:pA7WlH1n No.521844 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I watched a sports game with a group of people and had fun for a little bit. I drank pretty fast and had fun for most of the time.

Sometimes toward the end though, I tuned out. I couldn't feel apart of the moment and went silent. I'm glad it was timed well enough so that everyone left after I was ready but I definitely couldn't have taken it if it had gone much longer.

I don't want to worry too much but I feel like I'll be the odd one out because I want to get away from everyone faster than they want to get away. I'm not sure exactly what it is but I feel like I'm at some kind of social disadvantage, even when I'm drinking the drink that's supposed to make people more socially active.
Simon Blamblekock - Tue, 30 Jan 2018 01:56:08 EST ID:IaTqRtaT No.521846 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You don’t have to force set timeframes on socialization. If you want to be friends with the group yeah you’ve gotta spend time with them, that’s what being part of the group is. But if you want to go to the party go, if you don’t then don’t. If you’re tired and socially exhausted let them know you’re gonna head out and it’s been fun.

There doesn’t have to be some big ordeal over how you hang out, if they like you then just spending a little time here and there is fine.

Jobs by Phyllis Wodgefoot - Wed, 24 Jan 2018 15:19:39 EST ID:TaFne6hd No.521727 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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How do I find a decent paying job without stresding myself to death? It seems like everything around is beneath me, outside of my skillset, or too temporary. I need something immediately so school and training is a pointless recommendation.
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Charlotte Chockledotch - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 00:35:08 EST ID:t3K3xeJD No.521778 Ignore Report Quick Reply
buzz phrase is a buzz phrase
Simon Peffingshaw - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 00:49:37 EST ID:lXjUaJuo No.521779 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Now that's a buzz-phrase
Albert Bebbertick - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 22:11:22 EST ID:xLSah8qQ No.521796 Ignore Report Quick Reply

You stop your buzz-phrasing right now, mister.
Awe' !!vVWR8L52 - Mon, 29 Jan 2018 18:30:31 EST ID:hQScIyLB No.521834 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Sidney Hirringridge - Mon, 29 Jan 2018 23:24:14 EST ID:4hVthpz2 No.521840 Ignore Report Quick Reply
The fact you're so fired up over someone else casting off the phrase "cognitive dissonance" probably indicates you suffer from "cognitive dissonance"
You're so neurotypical.

"depression" by Augustus Shakeshit - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 10:00:46 EST ID:JsmIk+Ly No.521783 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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The first time I was put on anti-depressants was at 14. I'm 22 now and my life is a wreck. I have a support network in my parents and my sister but my parents have given up on me and I don't feel comfortable talking to my sister. My friends have all moved on.

I'm trying university again. I've missed half the lectures. I feel trapped because all the advice I get online is people telling me to build self-worth at a job, and the workload in this course is too intense for a part time job. My sleep routine can be perfect, I go for a run every night, but in the morning I can't make myself get up and when I study at home I can go an entire day of 6-8 hours and read 10 lecture slides when obvious internet procrastination is minimal.

I'm not currently on anti-depressants and I've been seeing a therapist weekly or once every two weeks for nearly 3 years. I'm starting to even miss assignments. The obvious thing is to drop out, but I went all in this year.I only have 3 months left, and I've reengaged with people to the extent I'd say 15+ people tangentially know I'm in university. To be honest if I can't make it into second year I have to kill myself, this is my last chance and I've known that for over a year.

I don't want to be this way. I'm thinking of abusing amphetamines long term, pretty sure I already have some brain damage. At least it'll help with concentration and enthusiasm to get up / interact with people. I bought into the LSD meme and it did nothing, just 8 hours of not being able to work. Did it twice. The "self-discovery" aspect was just brooding over my situation, how I'm an asshole, and how I've fucked everything up, my genetics. The exact same stuff that goes through my mind anyway. Now I might be feeling even worse now, might be from depleted serotonin levels or the guilt from taking a psychedelic drug 1 room from when my mother sleeps.
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Nathaniel Fasslelun - Sun, 28 Jan 2018 17:26:51 EST ID:USUZpST+ No.521810 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I found it helped me realise it's better to get focus doing sensible things like eating healthy, getting enough sleep and exercise instead of taking chemicals.
Cyril Porrypit - Mon, 29 Jan 2018 08:50:27 EST ID:jOBQO+s8 No.521826 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I've been through this too, majored in physics, felt like a piece of shit for not working, felt trapped and like I was acheiving nothing, constantly torturing myself with fears of failure etc... My advice would be, firstly, don't trust yourself to study at home, ever. I found it so much easier to focus on campus - I hated being the dickhead in the library watching memes on youtube when other people are hard at work. Also I fell into the trap of "oh I got up 2 hours late today, guess this day is ruined and I'm just a piece of shit". Took me years to discover that... I'm not a piece of shit... I can roll up at the library at 4pm and still get a couple of hours of
work done before the evening... And as long as I did a little something almost every day, I wouldn't totally screw myself over.
Secondly, you are being unnecessarily cruel to yourself. Just cruel. Love yourself, count your blessings - I know it's cliched but the truth is there is huge solace to be found in gratitude. You are actually doing really well. You're at uni again, despite the shit you've gone through - that's an achievement. And you're doing physics and maths, which is actually quite fucking challenging. You're going running, something a lot of people struggle to pick up, and it's really good for you. You're capable of having a healthy sleeping pattern. You're maintaining relationships. And most importantly, you don't want to feel like this anymore.

But all this stuff about doing meth or modafinil or whatever are just you running from your problems. Just like procrastination, it's the easy way out, barely even a short term solution. And for jebus sake failing first year won't ruin your life, don't be silly.
Fanny Fublingson - Mon, 29 Jan 2018 18:09:26 EST ID:COAX7aNZ No.521831 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>Its not in my genetics
Not true. Plenty of girls end up ripped without steroids though a lot of them aren't big they look athletic. As a man you will gain muscle if you do it right. Don't buy into -morph bullshit. There's a reason you see it more on /b/ than on fitness discuss. Fitness discussion is just "how do I do it?".

I think you probably are very good at procrastinating or making excuses. You put yourself down but don't try anything. I think you're good at a lot of other stuff too but you don't even try. You just want easy ways out, magic bullets, low effort solutions.

I've been there so I'm pretty sure you're full of shit but I'm not sure how to break it. For me it was a case of depression having it's ups and downs as it does and giving me a little break and me just going to town. Once I got going it did come back but I was strong enough to keep going forward.

Also key is accepting failure and just saying "well okay, what can I do to mitigate this" (note: not prevent and also not "I can't do anything") and then exercising damage control. Imagine if when you drop your wet laundry on the floor you've spent your whole life putting it back in the basket and wearing dirty clothes for 2 weeks, "why even wash weekly? I always drop it "you say and put your four day old, now muddy underpants back on. One day you pick everything up quickly and realise that only 2 items got dirty, you hang the rest up and dry. "my life is so much better, I'm wearing clean clothes, I've come so far".

No I was not literally like this but I had that mentality and so do you. Unfortunately I cannot just transfer the knowledge to you, your depression means you fight it. But maybe if you pay attention to what I say, when you get that little break you'll consider it again and give it a go and when it starts to work you'll realise what you're truly capable of.
Isabella Tillingforth - Mon, 29 Jan 2018 23:08:13 EST ID:/sZVDlEX No.521838 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Good luck OP. I basically did the exact same thing as you except I ended up dropping out the second time as well due to depression. I wonder how my life would have gone if I had just buckled down and done my coursework and graduated. Maybe it would have been better, maybe worse, who knows. It definitely would have been nice to have the options that a degree gives you though.
Betsy Dripperkeck - Tue, 30 Jan 2018 00:42:57 EST ID:TIWOZl94 No.521845 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I dropped out myself. I had depression, social anxiety, a suicide attempt and all of the rest. I got help for that stuff but it didn't help with the study. Every semester I skipped lectures, handed in assignments late and started crying uncontrollably when the end of semester came close

The problem was I wasn't being honest with myself. I didn't want to get a degree and land a shitty job that makes money killing myself. When you've been suicidal half your life you don't believe a lot of the bullshit. But I still believed that I had to become somebody that I wasn't. I don't have to be anybody that I'm not, my friend. And now I just am.

After that there's only up

The butt of the jokes. Is it a problem? by ItsNot2001 - Mon, 29 Jan 2018 12:08:33 EST ID:0e9B8Fmo No.521827 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So, im probably overthinking this, but i have had a lot of time to think recently and there's something that's bugging me a bit.

I have a lot of friends across multiple social groups, and I am a well liked guy. However, in these social groups, I am very often the one who takes the brunt of the jokes, the one who has the most references and in jokes about, the goof.

I dont particularly care about this, i am confident enough and happy enough within myself. If anything sometimes I just get tired at people's lack of ability to think of something witty and just to reference something I did or said from years and years ago. But mostly i dont really care.

Im very unconfrontational about it all. Mostly because i dont care and also because biting at their bait is just giving them exactly what they want. So i normally just play along or joke with them too.

I will say at this point, the hazing i get is almost exclusively from the guys in the social group. I never have any of the girls join in with the 'banter'. Quite often I'll have the girls argue with the guys and defend me when they say stuff. Its all very alpha male, gorilla's jostling for position type of thing.

But, im wondering if i should be more upset about this? When new people join our social circle, guys and girls, they are quickly introduced to this culture of in jokes around me. Ive never cared, but im wondering if all this is seriously hurting people's first and lasting impressions of me.

I'll emphasise that im not the only one who gets jokes said about them. I live in the UK and taking the piss out of your mates is the only way guys communicate over here, but i would say i probably take more of the abuse than most.

So yeah. Is this an issue? I've never really given a fuck but I'm wondering if i should start to. And even if i do, how do i go about this without biting at their shitty banter and giving them reactions they want?
Fanny Fublingson - Mon, 29 Jan 2018 12:56:11 EST ID:COAX7aNZ No.521828 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>because i dont care
Well no, you clearly do.
>I live in the UK and taking the piss out of your mates is the only way guys communicate over here
That's also not really true. Though a lot of friends do take the piss. It's intercourse though, not just one person being pelted with jokes most of the time. I sit and talk about life, jobs, that sort of shit with my friends. I'm genuinely interested in if J can find something he actually wants to do his life and if also J decides to keep climbing the ladder and if he's going to get this house. I know I'm getting old.

You have a few choices. You can shut up and put up, if it's not ruining your chances of getting laid or landing jobs or people trusting you then it might be fine.

You can just tell them it's getting old. Like it's just old in jokes and not genuine wit. Most likely to make you look dull but also most likely to make them genuinely re evaluate their behavior.

You can call them out. Next time they call back something from 5 years ago, you point that out. If you can't do this with any wit it's going to be like the above but without as much chance they'll genuinely rethink things.

You can shit talk them back.

You can find new friends.
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Awe' !!vVWR8L52 - Mon, 29 Jan 2018 17:59:23 EST ID:hQScIyLB No.521830 Ignore Report Quick Reply
holy fuck op, that's some trip you've got here.

Simple just do whatever the fuck you want.

how to indicate on dating sites/social media you're a user seeking another user... by Shit Dartforth - Sun, 28 Jan 2018 19:16:55 EST ID:aS5NsVdk No.521811 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Shit Dartforth - Sun, 28 Jan 2018 19:18:45 EST ID:aS5NsVdk No.521812 Ignore Report Quick Reply
oh wow I pressed enter instead of tab somehow what an embarrassment


...without it being incredibly obvious/getting people who just want drugs/a dealer?

I have some pretty decent selfies with dilated pupils, is that too heavy handed?
Ernest Clusslelock - Sun, 28 Jan 2018 19:26:42 EST ID:Bg12vtmc No.521814 Ignore Report Quick Reply
A lot of girls on Tinder say '420 friendly' so I don't see anything wrong with that. It will put some women off but if one of your main priorities is finding a girl who's down for doing lots of drugs then it's probably worth it. Just have a profile that makes it look like you have a life and are at least moderately successful and you should be fine.
Shit Dartforth - Sun, 28 Jan 2018 19:34:48 EST ID:aS5NsVdk No.521816 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Now that I read this, I think I'm overthinking it slightly, I just don't want to be used for drugs but to some extent that will be unavoidable and it'll be really easy to figure out on the first date if someone's doing that. At least I hope.

I cant have sex with my gf anymore... and it sucks by Polly Duckman - Fri, 22 Dec 2017 17:20:13 EST ID:vfv6CJ4n No.520786 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>been dating this girl for 6 months now
>im 6 years older than her (27 vs 21)
>im more sexually experienced than her (shes plain jane vanilla af)

When we first got togeather I would get hard from just making out and my hog would stay hard. But over the last few weeks it takes effort to get aroused and when I am hard I go soft when I penetrate her. She hates suxking dick and her hand job skills are sub-par (this is b/c of her inexperience). I care about her emotionally but it seems like im not that physically attracted to her (or atleast thats how she feels). Its not a nerves/drug issue, so wtf is going on??
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Phineas Hiddlefock - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 09:06:54 EST ID:8l2djH8Q No.521764 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Any partner- male, female, or other- who won't do everything in their power to get their significant other off orally isn't worth shit tbh OP. Dump her
Jarvis Tootway - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 11:19:06 EST ID:Gz8NMxIA No.521767 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Is it because of inexperience? When I met my first boyfriend I read hours reading articles to make sure I'd be able to please him and I found out later that he had been doing the same and although we were both virgins we had a lot of fun together

Well, ok, she isn't a reader, me and first boyfriend bonded over books before becoming a couple so that was bound to happen. But surely you can give her tips? Communicate?
Jarvis Tootway - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 11:21:21 EST ID:Gz8NMxIA No.521769 Ignore Report Quick Reply
(reading is better than watching videos because porn is based on what looks good while people write tips based on what feels good)
Priscilla Gebblefut - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 11:32:08 EST ID:ROGlj1oY No.521771 Ignore Report Quick Reply
this, you have to unlock the freak side in her
Doris Porryworth - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 17:44:08 EST ID:eLRQSL1/ No.521793 Ignore Report Quick Reply
this, I met a shy girl and she was so afraid of having sex at first. I had to hug her and caress her hair and bs like that.
One day I took her to buy some sexy clothes, make her feel comfortable by taking some nice pictures of her wearing more revealing clothing, edited the best and printed them for her. She started dressing more nicely and taking better care of herself, being more open and flirtatious, eventually i come home one day and she opens the door wearing only an apron like "it's time for dessert"

good times

It keeps getting worse. by Matilda Wellynut - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 09:16:46 EST ID:qf3VM/yq No.521781 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I don't have much outside contact with the world so I wanted to share how fucked my life has become ever since falling into serious addiction that is destroying my mind and body.

I haven't felt anything emotional for so long because the drugs are good at locking me out but I'm crying now. I realised that literally the only thing that can make me feel anymore is music - I can't describe what the feeling is, maybe a combination of sadness & beauty that's like a medium which the divine used to connect with your soul.

I don't know what I have become, It's hard to describe and the drugs really have fucked up my brains capacity to reflect on things happening to me - I'm not even on autopilot anymore, it's just a crazy dream.

You spend so much time alone without anyone willingly giving a shit about you; you go on this path of transformation to manipulate others to care about you under the guise of some sort of "self - development". A lot of people do it and only now am I realising what a weird indoctrination it is - it's completely self-centered & ego.

I'm the fuck up kid with attentional/focus/memory issues/autistic -maybe your co-worker or class mate that tries not to be noticed lest it be known how inferior he is. When they do notice its soul crushing, they're making fun of you, getting angry - some think your'e fucking things up deliberately.

I tried to overcompensate so hard without the others noticing.

I fuck up so much I can't hold a job long before getting fired. I'm terrified about the future because all my attempts to just live a normal life have failed my job, relationships with everyone, my family, my ex, my friends - they all fell apart. .

Stuck, I didn't know what to do.
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awe !!vVWR8L52 - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 09:40:50 EST ID:hQScIyLB No.521782 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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The reason you feel sad is because you think you can't have what you want to have and the simple solution to that is to stop thinking that that thing you want is what is going to make you whole and satisfied, but instead looking at it as a game as something fun to do and then you may put yourself into an attitude that you have nothing because nothing out there is going to redeem your soul, but from that place of poorness, you will suddenly start noticing the riches, because once you give up on ever making yourself satisfied (since non of those things are capable of that) you just automatically start playing which what is available, first it's maybe some small and stupid shit, but then it grows, just don't try to accomplish anything you are being guided by your dao, by your passion and you don't have to do anything other than to stop struggling and you don't have to do even that, just fucking steady your thoughts with a bit of meditation and just relax, chill out and do whatever you want to do, take a walk, call a friend, whatever man, shoot some dope if that's the best thing you can do right now and drop your biases, you will get certain results and your brain is used to respond to them in a certain way, but just remain in ground zero, like every moment is a new fresh start, that steadiness is what you are looking for and that steadiness means you don't jump to conclusions and get upset, you just doin' your best right now, don't judge things. if the best thing you can play with isn't even worth doing just laying and meditating is the best option you have, just take it, whatever man, shit might be fucked but you deserve to feel dope and so fuck it, do what excites you now or if you are just tormented by your thoughts, meditate and immediately you will feel relief. Focus on breath or just ambience of reality. Those things you can;t currently play with or enjoy, aren't something that is suddenly gonna make you feel whole either, just like the little games that are available to you now don't make you whole, but they aren't here for that I think, they are there just for kicks. The more you rely on yourself (meditation or just self-confidence) the be…
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Matilda Wellynut - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 10:45:07 EST ID:qf3VM/yq No.521786 Ignore Report Quick Reply
hey dude i really appreciate you taking the time to respond i screened yo shit to reflect. I miss connecting with people so bad. I went to a rave once and had no one to go with so ended hitting up this random dude on community site. This rave is filled with 20 year old kids so I wasnt expecting a 40 year old bald Indian dentist travelling interstate. Needless to say he was the raddest good vibe cunt I ever met zero inhibitions and danced his curry-loving ass off.

We ended up getting split up during the rave I told this random dickhead on some good pills that he danced faster than id ever seen and we ended up hanging Its almost the end of the rave and they put on some classic trance tunes Indianbro shows up at the perfect time.

im drenched in sweat at this point so I tell him to touch my hair which is dripping wet at this point. so thats why your bald I told him and we both cracked up. Introduced him to speed runner and the 3 of us locked arms like faggots till it was over.
awe !!vVWR8L52 - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 10:54:06 EST ID:hQScIyLB No.521787 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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you do your thing mate, thanks for sharing, beautiful moments.
Priscilla Sinnershit - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 11:29:38 EST ID:aUdigX5R No.521788 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Your post seems really honest and it made me a bit sad. It's hard to come by such honesty you know? That's a good thing. Some of what you said reminded me of myself too -I was, as well, the fuck up kid with attentional/focus/memory issues/autistic, whatever, and I still am to some extent. What 'awe' said seems great advice. I don't know if I've got something deeper or better to say, maybe just tell you my concrete experience.

What saved me from drugs was doing excercise. Martial arts in particular. I always liked martial arts, but when I was 18 -same time I got into drugs- I started training rather serious. I abandoned it for some time just to do/buy more drugs. But when I decided to go back, it was rather uncomfortable to train high, or to get high before training; and after training I just didn't feel like doing hard drugs. Now I train martial arts for a living, and have a couple students that had drugs problems (one of them had serious drug issues) and they also tell me martial arts was their way out of it. So maybe there's something there. At least something practical you can try. Besides, there's all sorts of people in martial arts, you'll surely be able to meet someone cool to hang out with.

Someone who's been able to keep me company when I felt most alone is Emil Cioran. A rumanian author who I think captures the anxiety of existence better than anyone. He's somewhat dark and sad, but I've always felt understood when I read him.
Matilda Wellynut - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 18:41:31 EST ID:qf3VM/yq No.521794 Ignore Report Quick Reply
wow dude funny you mentioned martial arts recently i put an ad up for all my boxing equipment to do the exact same thing. I was completely sober for about 3 months before getting hooked again. But during that time i used to train hard everyday.

ill check out emil thanks for the recommendation

dreaming my ex by solly - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 09:26:56 EST ID:tarVG3Zk No.521765 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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8 years after break up , have a new girlfriend for 6 years , really good relationship ; all of the sudden I keep dreaming of my ex . At first it was once every month now it every day. Dont know how to resolve my feelings towards her cause I thought there aint any . Could someone give a usefull tip would appriciate it much.
Jarvis Tootway - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 11:16:48 EST ID:Gz8NMxIA No.521766 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You are saying that the dreams mean you have feelings for her... is there a reason you think that?
solly - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 17:38:09 EST ID:tarVG3Zk No.521775 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Im not sure they mean that , but they change my feelings so they do influence me a lot.
Jack Cendlewill - Sat, 27 Jan 2018 06:40:28 EST ID:COAX7aNZ No.521780 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Feelings are just ideas. You can't control them but they don't have to control you.

The fact you're putting so much thought, but not actually thought into them empowers them. You'll keep dreaming about if if you think about it a lot, it's a cycle. You know there's no feelings but by refusing to actually properly get in and confirm that you're not proving that to yourself. You're leaving shadows and letting them fill with bullshit.

Either put them out of mind or confront them entirely and rationally. Look at why your relationship ended, if those dreams reflect reality or an ideal that never existed. If it did exist, could it really exist now? What is the reality with your current girl like? You can use this distraction and turn it around and examine what DOES work with your current relationship. Why did you break up? Does this girl in your dreams exist or will she (and you) have changed in the last 8 years?
Phoebe Pockwater - Sat, 24 Mar 2018 20:59:57 EST ID:rF2KXOPj No.523033 Ignore Report Quick Reply
dreaming of screaming

It'd be so easy by Edward Deffingtire - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 01:04:10 EST ID:/v/fnY4O No.521753 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Literally all I'd have to do is tie a belt around my neck, secure it around the doorknob, and drop down. Then, I'd be dead before I knew it. It'd take my mom at least a day before she thinks to open the door. She'd probably call my phone and hear it ring within my room. Maybe my dog would scrape at the door and that'd tell her to open it.

Why's it so easy? Why's it so easy to imagine? What demon is there inside of me that blinds me to all the pain it'd cause? It's the demon of my own misery. The demon of my own making. The demon that tells me my life isn't worth it just because... of what? Of whatever nonsense in front of my eyes scares the prospect of life from me? The fact that I'm stuck on a fucking math question? Bullshit.
Jenny Sissleham - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 02:05:48 EST ID:cG0vV5OZ No.521756 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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awe !!vVWR8L52 - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 15:14:38 EST ID:hQScIyLB No.521772 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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just do what you please sir. within what is available and forget your dreams and watch them resurface if you are able to stave off dissatisfaction and remain in the present doing what you please
Phyllis Sonningnare - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 16:08:02 EST ID:1w7xyiy2 No.521773 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>The fact that I'm stuck on a fucking math question? Bullshit.
Phyllis Sonningnare - Fri, 26 Jan 2018 17:27:15 EST ID:1w7xyiy2 No.521774 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>It's the demon of my own misery.


I have depression, and my brain chemistry makes me think tells me I'm wrong when I know I'm right... by Cornelius Gembleston - Sun, 14 Jan 2018 23:50:14 EST ID:Rh2baswa No.521495 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I need your help /qq/

I have come to this board with this issue before. If I went full detail you'd probably remember but I'll tell you what has happened.

A year and ago

>Meet a single mother through a mutual friend. One night am told that we're hanging out. First night went great, and the second night we hung out we ending up having sex. From there we started a sexual relationship. Start having intense feelings for her, one night we're sitting on the couch. Ask her if she's seeing anyone else. She pauses and tells me "No....but I still want to go on dates"

I was shocked, didn't know how to react. I hid my reaction, I know it showed on my face as soon as she said that. She then said "I should've told you"
I didn't respond for a few seconds and she asked me what I was thinking
"I trust you"

>Sexual relationship continues on...over the course of a couple months. I am trying to figure out what its going to become, because I didn't want to end up in a situation where I am being pulled on a string while she waits around for the right guy to show up. The last weekened we had sex, or hung out at all I did see her again after that. Well sorta. She stopped responding to my texts. I would get one text a day back, and I wanted to talk to her about what we were. She wouldn't ever give me any of her time, and acted as if she was too busy to speak to me.
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George Blythewell - Sun, 21 Jan 2018 20:47:25 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.521686 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Tough love is bullshit and there is nothing useful OP can ever salvage from that abomination of a post.
William Smallham - Sun, 21 Jan 2018 22:14:52 EST ID:rTcHh7Rn No.521690 Ignore Report Quick Reply

From a quick glance the post seems well and informative to me.

>Focus on your self and your purpose, the women will follow.

Absolutely true. One hundred percent. Don't even put any thought towards women. Find some hobbies that are also skills practice. Become infatuated with aying an instrument or doing woodworking or art.

Live a passionate life, for YOURSELF, and when you aren't even expecting it, or even looking, the right person will come along for you.

And in the meanwhile you won't even give a fuck that you're single, because you'll be perfectly happy being yourself, bettering yourself every day. It's the damn truth.
Thomas Chettinghall - Tue, 23 Jan 2018 16:17:00 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.521710 Ignore Report Quick Reply
PUAs need to be banned from 420chan, your posts all reek of tryhard to the core. Sheesh.
Isabella Smalldock - Thu, 25 Jan 2018 13:19:57 EST ID:COAX7aNZ No.521740 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>Focus on your self and your purpose, the women will follow.
Not necessarily true. Things might improve, they might not. However if everything else is great then you will be all around happier anyway. No one ever said "what I made my life great for nothing?".
Phoebe Blabblechodge - Thu, 25 Jan 2018 23:59:44 EST ID:THKYnNtc No.521752 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Got anything worthwhile to contribute?

Draining persons by Jenny Sillyfudging - Wed, 24 Jan 2018 08:49:32 EST ID:XdX/HAF1 No.521718 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Have you ever experienced feeling exhausted everytime you hang out with a specific person?
I have one friend that always leave me drained after we have spent time together. The problem is that we live in the same neighbourhood, and that he wants to hang out everyday (which we don't do at this point, because I manage to stay busy.). It actually feels like having a possesive girlfriend sometimes, even though he acts in a hypermasculine way, being from the middle east and all.
I find it hard to pin point exactly what makes me feel this way, but here are some traits I know annoy me for sure:

He always babble on and on about Islam, even though he know I don't believe in it.

He is most of the time in a bad mood, and not directing it inwards like most depressed people, but directing outwards. This results in rants about judgement day, zionistic conspirations and so on.

He likes to talk A LOT, but hates to listen. It is like silence hurts for him or something. This means monologues about the same subject for hours and hours, and sometimes it will be the same subject reoccuring for days.

He cant accept a no. So everytime I want to say no, I will have to have a long discussion.

He is always very judgemental about people, and how they are not acting in the correct islamic way, or just how they are supposed to. He also like to tell me, and other people what they should do, or how they should behave. He will say it like its for your own good, but its not like he is doing better than me or anything. It is just part of his general "I know better than everyone" attitude.

He borrow things and dont return them. He borrow money and take forever to return them, and sometimes only returning some of them. I know this can happen for everyone, and I honestly value friendship over material things. But I feel that in the way he does it, he is just putting himself first.
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Jenny Sillyfudging - Wed, 24 Jan 2018 10:39:48 EST ID:XdX/HAF1 No.521721 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Lol maybe, but when u spend a lot time with someone, it is hard not to care for them in some way.
Samuel Femmercocke - Wed, 24 Jan 2018 11:23:57 EST ID:ROGlj1oY No.521722 Ignore Report Quick Reply
cut him off
Isabella Guddlefield - Wed, 24 Jan 2018 13:22:50 EST ID:JJ+yCUQy No.521725 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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My roommate/coworker is like that. Draining. If I didn't know better I'd think he was autistic or something because he just doesn't understand how to properly behave in social situations.

It's not like he goes around saying really inappropriate things, but he ALWAYS has to be talking about SOMETHING. And it's always something that nobody cares about, and he never knows when to just stop talking.

And when he learns something new, like some news story, or some weird fact about something, he tells EVERYONE. Just randomly out of fucking nowhere he brings it up and starts talking about it, to EACH person when he sees them individually.

Like I said he's my coworker, well one of our semi-regular customers came in the day after my roommate/coworker worked and said something about him. He said he wanted to punch my coworker in the face and said he nicknamed him, "stupid head."

Legitimately after only having known my roommate for five minutes this dude nicknamed him stupid head and wanted to punch him in the face. That's how fucking draining this dude is. People ask me how I handle living with him.
Cornelius Pullylit - Thu, 25 Jan 2018 18:46:08 EST ID:7IGW3+Ip No.521747 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>loud zealous religious faggot thief incapable of active listening who openly disrespects me in every way possible at all times and cares nothing for my thoughts, emotions, or opinions isn't fun to hang out with

help OP every time i slap a beehive a bunch of bees sting me but i dont like being stung what should i do in this situation?
awe !!vVWR8L52 - Thu, 25 Jan 2018 19:45:34 EST ID:hQScIyLB No.521749 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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exactly my thoughts, i was just too jaded to put them to words kek

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