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Advise please by Hugh Drullershaw - Sat, 25 Aug 2018 08:41:44 EST ID:XXWfsfKR No.526340 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Give me advise:

My sisters try to rape me and my gf is half dead and I'm extremely depressed.

My parents hate me

One of my sisters is trying to sell me.

My other sister has been raping and molesting me since i was 5.
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Jarvis Nemmerbury - Sat, 25 Aug 2018 09:59:48 EST ID:CxCtCvYn No.526342 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Welcome to the ignore list
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Molly Bronderhood - Mon, 27 Aug 2018 08:08:07 EST ID:wJavO91C No.526368 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526340
Do you remember making that other thread? If not, maybe you have DID going on.


festi pussy by Albert Clommledock - Tue, 21 Aug 2018 00:09:56 EST ID:OWx1ClP7 No.526275 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I went to a festival with friends back in july. My friend met this woman, they fucked on the last day and have talked every day since and are basically dating. At first I didnt really like her, but ive warmed up quite a bit to her. Me not liking her was all on me just having a bitter taste in my mouth from certain friends having bad girlfriends that dont let them have fun.

We went to a fest with her last weekend...found out shes actually cool as fuck and possibly the coolest girl ive ever seen a friend with. Reason being: When everyone else goes to bed at 2 am and the entire fest is still raging, she says "Hey anon, lets go on an adventure and find you some bitches"

We met these 2 girls, ones 20 and the other one is 22. The one thats 22 is the one I wanted, shes about 5 7, skinny, redhead, nice tits nice ass, kinda looks like shes got a coke habit. I dance with both of them. The friends girlfriend goes to bed around 4 and shortly after this nigga comes up. Were walking around late late so of course theres few women around and its mainly horny dudes trying to get laid, and im a dude walking around with 2 chicks.

This dude doesnt really start any problems but hes annoying. First of all he directs all the attention from the redhead to himself. I dont think he hit on her or even made a move, but after about a half hour of this I say fuck this, im going for her friend. Could tell this dude was just gonna cock block all night.

Me and her friend went and laid in a random hammock in front of a tent where someone was djing. I made out with her and fingered her a bit. Pretty sure the nigga never made a move on her friend because they were very close to us and eventually he said he was leaving the fest at 6 am. I got up and talked to both of these girls for about an hour but was way too tired and said I was going back to camp. I got them on snapchat and left.

Now my friends girl tells me she invited these girls to the next fest, which is new years. And were gonna squad up. Now I already made a move on the nasty but I want her friend. I also dont want to waste my time, and I honestly wont even think much of these girls until than. I wouldnt mind a 3some either, and I hope theres no niggaz around…
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Phoebe Turveywell - Thu, 23 Aug 2018 10:07:16 EST ID:dwxJXzd4 No.526305 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526281
Dude, work out a bunch, and then in 4 months they'll be like "oh wow I didn't even know it was you, you worked out a bunch" and then you will be sexier to them
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Priscilla Crillerdick - Sat, 25 Aug 2018 11:25:35 EST ID:2bBsMclN No.526344 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Let it go OP. It's hard as fuck to do, but you'll feel better for it. You've made a mess of the situation, no thanks to that fucking cockblocking loser but there's more to life than chasing this hoe.

Same thing kind of happened to me. Nepal, psytrance festival, beautiful bohemian german chick that was the eye of all the dudes. Never boned her, too stoned. Then I met her back in Kathmandu, and had great sex. But I wanted more of her, wanted to see her again. Made all these crazy plans about meeting her and then she let me down softly. Very softly, thankfully, saying that I was the best thing that happened to her but that we're getting in each others way of enjoying our trek around the Nepal.

..and she was right. So chin up OP and find some more skank to dip your dick into in the meantime, but keep your cards close to your chest, those girls will be there at new years and the chances are there. That's a lot more chances than most lurkers here get, I tell you h'wat.
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Oliver Hashsten - Sat, 25 Aug 2018 17:38:23 EST ID:y7Mb0MX2 No.526348 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526305

Yeah dude. Being muscular is an easy shoe-in to to getting women to be physically attracted to you. It's almost creepy noticing the difference between how women will act towards you when you're wearing something revealing or form fitting versus something baggy and concealing.

Become Rico suave
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Fanny Hullersut - Sat, 25 Aug 2018 21:46:55 EST ID:dVp8iHEG No.526353 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526348
Or just get a nice suit (get one that's on sale but high quality so you don't pay much) and have it tailored to you (shell out the money for it. It's worth it. Take care of your suit and never disrespect it). I started wearing one and I'm not even in great shape and women have been giving me literal compliments. Like...compliments...me? I think. Me? Compliments? What happened to the guy no one noticed? What happened to the guy that slouched? Oh yea, he's dead. I forgot. This new guy wears a suit. And he stands up straight. And the ladies love him apparently. Not that he cares. He has a suit now.
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Samuel Bummlehane - Sun, 26 Aug 2018 23:50:09 EST ID:HUUepmZy No.526363 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526353
hue


Psychologist by John Chendlecocke - Thu, 23 Aug 2018 15:00:07 EST ID:wpBI363K No.526309 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Today I talked to my doctor about my mental health problems. First time I've ever done that and it wasn't easy. He told me to go to a psychologist and gave me some names and addresses to look up.

I just spent the past half hour looking up psychologists on a site that helps you look for a local psychologist. They all have a picture and a description of who they are and what services they offer, etc.

Now, I know this is going to sound prejudiced and unfair, but looking at those pictures is discouraging me from contacting any one of them. None of them look remotely like somebody I'd want to tell my deepest secrets to. I wouldn't even share my grocery list with half of them. They all look like obnoxious cunts who feed off smug and wear recycled hemp sandals or freshly-graduated rich kids who haven't experienced a single bit of real life, yet somehow will be able to guide mine?

I realize that I'm being biased and I'm sure most of them are genuine and helpful and all that, but what the fuck? Has anyone else experienced something like this before?
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William Crasslefet - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 00:47:12 EST ID:ZQEqJDVB No.526319 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You are starting on a journey inwards OP. They will help you as much as a menu will fill your belly, or a signpost take you to your destination.. at best you will get guidance, but truthfully you will need to learn to discern yourself.

I recommend lectures on kierkegaard the philosopher; i could have saved years of my personal joirney but hey, I'm here now.
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Albert Baddlepen - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 01:36:51 EST ID:FKxdS4gs No.526320 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Just have a sit down with one or three and if you think you'll be eventually able to talk about the deep dark shit with one then stick with that person. You are the one doing the work. They are only the sounding board.

If one starts to give you orders in any way, or does fucking tests, then get the fuck out.

Philosophy is good as the dude above suggests. Personally I like Camus but that's a bit cliche. Still he gave me words to live by. Bit of Marcus Aurelius never hurt either. Basically find the words that will help you endure suffering for the rest of your life in the most natural way for yourself. Maybe that means no fucking philosophy. It might mean quieting your mind or even raging with pure flames. Whatever works.
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Jarvis Pivingwell - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 12:34:15 EST ID:X1WDhwYW No.526331 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526312
Well just as long as you sincerely check you're not doing the first from time to time because I've been there and I've watched people be there. Especially people posting for "help" on internet boards. Don't get me wrong, I don't know you. I'm just saying.

Yeah my therapist was just a middle aged guy with glasses who spoke softly. I actually got therapy from a christian therapy group. I'm not religious and our sessions had no religious content at all, except he would occasionally say stuff a man of faith might you know? They were religious in the sense that they were trying to do what Jesus would do, they offered therapy at a donation rate, that place had expenses as it had rooms, bills, but the therapists worked for free once a week just to help. This guy actually worked a day job as a careers counselor in a college nearby. He felt like a bit of a cliche but his views on dealing with stuff resonated with me and so when he reassured me about things I felt it was genuine. I dunno maybe a man or woman like this is what you want. The risk of "christian counselor" is that you get some AA bullshit instead.

Definitely try a few more sources. Ask around. You're talking euros so I know you're at least 150 miles from me so I won't give you the name of the place I used.
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Oliver Chipperson - Sat, 25 Aug 2018 14:41:14 EST ID:wpBI363K No.526345 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526319
I appreciate the helpful words, thanks. I have never delved into philosophy before. I dropped out of school the week they started teaching us about Socrates. Could you perhaps link me to some lectures on Kierkegaard?

Having skimmed over his Wikipedia page (and, admittedly, struggled to make much sense as a lot of philosophy's terms and notions come across as gobbledygook to me) he does seem like an interesting chap. His thoughts on anxiety definitely resonate with me.

>>526320
>If one starts to give you orders in any way, or does fucking tests, then get the fuck out.
I definitely will. I'm only looking for somebody to talk to. I don't even know if it will help all that much, but I'm sure it would do me a world of good to finally say out loud all the thoughts and worries and feelings of despair that linger around in my mind and take shots at me every waking fucking moment. Only I know about my suffering, you know? Perhaps all I'm looking for is acknowledgment. I don't know.
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Oliver Chipperson - Sat, 25 Aug 2018 14:54:18 EST ID:wpBI363K No.526346 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526331
I fully understand. A lot of what you hear and see, whether in real life or the internet, is a form of posturing. And I'm not criticizing here, I've done my fair share of it. I suppose it comes with the territory. People in a state of depression have a habit of falling at the first hurdle. I'm most certainly one of those people. It's lead to me doing every piece of mental gymnastics possible to excuse myself from not even attempting that first hurdle, fearing I will fail anyway and sink once more into that dark place where only anguish and hopelessness keep you company.

The man you talked to sounds like a blessing, no pun intended. Just a man genuinely wanting to help people. How long did you see him for?

Again, I appreciate your advice and help. I just looked up some more sources of help and found an organization that helps and advises people for free. They claim they'll look at what the best options are for you and help you choose. I think I might go there and see what they make of my problems and if they know any psychologists that would be beneficial to me.

Anyway, thanks again. I'll let you know how it goes if I don't hit the bottle and wake up a couple of months from now.


"aggressive spark" not there in sex life by Samuel Blerryhon - Fri, 17 Aug 2018 01:09:01 EST ID:+Dxwg5ZQ No.526185 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I can never be a man and aggressive during sex and with women. I skirt by and get laid solely off my looks (I busted my ass for years in the gym and worked my ass off) but I'm still a timid fuck who can't venture into the "dark" side of women.

I've never gotten off by a blowjob in my life. I think it's cause I subconsciously don't want to blow a load and "defile" a girl.

I SUCK at dirty talk. I can never whisper something with confidence in a girl's ear and push her boundaries and be the "asshole" that she hates but simultaneously loves. I'm never "desired". Meanwhile a Chad can say something completely goofy like "youre a fucking slut and I'll send you home to daddy covered in cum" and she'll love it. If I did something like that I'd get walked out on and ridiculed.

Girls will fuck me for physical reasons alone ok sure hooray, but that fire in her that she's getting fucked by a Man... I can't trigger it. I can't stoke it.

And then when I hear other guys talk about their sex adventures with women, they seem so... Satisfied. It seems so real. "yeah I came on her tits and she fucking loved it the little skank". I've cum on plenty of tits and other shit and honestly I just forget about it. It wasn't so exciting. That lingering sense of triumph isn't there for lack of a better word.

Something carnal is missing from my sex life. Something aggressive and daring. I can sex multiple girls from tinder or even be in a committed LTR and I still feel like I'm not being masculine enough.

Am I being crazy or am I on to something?
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Jarvis Bisslewill - Tue, 21 Aug 2018 17:30:14 EST ID:OrUEBcNX No.526283 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526195
>everything fun is bad! Stop doing fun things because normal things won't be fun again!

Quit equating every life experience to a drug like the worthless moralizer you are. Quit psychoanalyzing people with lifestyles you find strange because you're desperate to back up your shitty life philosophy. Quit bringing up "dopamine" like you know how neuroscience works and equate all pleasure to this concept Wikipedia learned you about. And finally, quit defining what a "real relationship" is for anybody but yourself. You come off as a conceited asshole standing on a holier than thou platform because you fucked some whores and played with leather.
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Shit Blobblesedge - Thu, 23 Aug 2018 10:34:08 EST ID:hu2aa5az No.526307 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Reading your posts, the crux of the matter seems to be more about feeling inadequate than about getting the kinky sex you crave. Maybe you should focus on being confident and happy in yourself so that your sense of self worth isn't dependent on women, rather than chasing that perfect dark fuck.

You spelled it out in your last post, you have this crazy fear that a woman/partner won't sexually desire you. Is this about you not being a sex god, or is it about an irrational fear that you'll be seen as some dickless weakling? Why do you feel so inadequate? Do you feel undesirabe? It sounds like you already think you're this "beta" and that automatically women will treat you like dirt because of it or something, and that is just total garbage. And you don't have to be nasty and violent in bed to command someone's respect.

>Its ingrained in my head that the more aggressive, and nasty the sex is, the stronger the desire actually is between the partner.

You need to undo this. Your view of sex is quite limited and underdeveloped if you think this is true. Do you read much? Enjoyed any romantic art? Deep, erotic connection is entirely possible without degrading sex. I'm all for people living their truth and giving/receiving pleasure however they like but I'm not convinced that people who are deep into violent kinks etc aren't just picking at their own trauma. Have you ever been in a loving relationship? If the chemistry is right, even missionary can be mind-blowing and carnal. I'm not saying don't get freaky, I'm saying there's countless ways to get hot and sexy, even to be dominant, without being creepy and abusive. If you're with a good match, you'll feel sexy and desired without needing to anally prolapse them. Maybe you just need to fall in love (or at least lust), and appreciate that true passion is actually hard to find, and more about connecting with someone than about fulfilling some fantasy. Sorry for the long post.
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Jenny Cidgehall - Thu, 23 Aug 2018 16:43:38 EST ID:cBYQH4Mo No.526311 Ignore Report Quick Reply
the best sex ive ever had was never aggressive but very tender and loving with lots of grinning and laughing. way more fun to have happy nice sex IMHO.
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Phoebe Bushway - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 18:45:14 EST ID:kPK7t16O No.526338 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526185
Aggressive sex is just one facet of a good time. You have to mix it up a bit when you're in a long-term commitment with someone but otherwise it's OK to be who you are; maybe you'll meet someone who you really want to please, then find it in yourself.

You might be lacking more than just prowess in sexual aggression, but in confrontation in general. Do you feel like you'd do anything to avoid a fight/altercation? You can take up some combat sports, get used to clinching someone around the neck and throwing your knee into them. It's not like you'll start beating women up but you might feel more confident at handling them roughly, which so many enjoy.
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Priscilla Crillerdick - Sat, 25 Aug 2018 11:07:00 EST ID:2bBsMclN No.526343 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>526196
> "oh I'd let my college flings fuck me in the ass but my good boy husband only gets missionary cause he doesn't make me feel like that."

Lmao.

We get it man, you think you're alpha, that you have something to prove. You felt the need to mention in your post that you work out, that your good looking, that you've fucked multiple girls, yadda yadda.

Let you in on a little truth: There's no alpha and beta, that whole psychology between wolves having a pack leader was immediately disproven, by the very same person who came up with the idea. What actually occurs is that pack leaders change constantly throughout the course of the lifetime of the pack and there's no true natural order, no dog falls in line.

The same can be said about primates. Now, how does apply to you? You crave adoration. But not only adoration, but a lust, a lust that seems to be superficial. It's all about you, not about her and that's not right.

Bumping nasties is only half the equation. There are many many girls who are sapiophiles, attracted to brains, not brawn. That deep down is charisma, which is something you appear to lack.

You want girls to want you, then up your pre-sex game. Half of what's hot about sex is what occurs before, not during.

If your greatest fear is that you'll be stuck in a boring sexless marriage, then you don't know many married people. I do, and trust me when you get hitched with the same person and to satisfy urges things get more perverted, not less. Not always the truth, but certainly not the opposite.


Feel like a loser by Hedda Dengerford - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 10:16:48 EST ID:BgYDrKs0 No.526323 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Guys how do i not feel like a loser
i feel like i can't do anything
i know that i can do stuff, or at least have a good shot at doing stuff
i've done tons of stuff that i didn't think i could do
but there is a dark cloud that i can't shake
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Hedda Dengerford - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 10:38:45 EST ID:BgYDrKs0 No.526325 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526324
i wanna go get tattoos but i don't know what to say
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Shit Sonningway - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 11:41:12 EST ID:gDRP1RaE No.526327 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526325

As in what message you want the tattoo to have? Or are you afraid to talk to the tattoo guy?
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Hedda Dengerford - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 11:48:35 EST ID:BgYDrKs0 No.526328 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526327
I am not worried about the content of my tattoos. I am however worried about being awkward
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Graham Geddlewater - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 15:25:49 EST ID:fo1DsC/a No.526337 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526328
Try making a 3rd thread jackass.
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' God !!Bwteoy2D - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 20:46:20 EST ID:hQScIyLB No.526339 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>526328
Yeah, mate, even I have to admit that you;ve made this a bit too two dimensional for most people's taste on this board.

You need to spice things up a little bit. Get a little bitch along, a little hitch down the line.


Anger issues by Esther Clashsirk - Wed, 22 Aug 2018 20:13:13 EST ID:Pwq0Fy/H No.526294 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So long story short I’m dealing with a lot of shit right now and people that were my friends continue to duck me around. Making fake online profiles and making me look gay and amongst other slanderous things. Regardless no matter what I do In terms of drugs I’m still so ducking angry I can’t even handle it anymore.

The original fucker tricked me with my feelings toward another individual to deflect what he actually did. I can’t explain the things I wanna do but I’m to old for this shitX and can’t get in trouble but god damn... idk what to do. I can’t get this shit off my mind and it’s effecting my day to day activities. Not to mention if I do something retaliation will come.
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Lillian Fubberforth - Thu, 23 Aug 2018 22:12:32 EST ID:Pwq0Fy/H No.526317 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526313
It was an old friend from high school i never talked to in 3 years. Only reason i made contact recently with the fucker was because i KNEW this guy was behind it. Regardless yea i was a bitch and he used my past feelings to deflect my anger,

Trust me i knew when i made contact that he was fucking with me. But i got too big of a heart i guess and wanted to hear him out. Regardless i visited him again today and i wasn't a bitch. I'm not going into details but he won't be bothering me again. Fucking pussy had the nerve to not even admit it.

Say what you want man.
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Henry Serrystone - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 02:23:53 EST ID:HUUepmZy No.526321 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>526317
What if he didn't do it and some other more sinister force is waiting in the shadows to spring his real trap for both of you?

What if it's some long lost friend from 4 years ago who had a grudge on both of you?
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Lillian Fubberforth - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 13:01:23 EST ID:Pwq0Fy/H No.526332 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526321
Nah, that’s not the case man. I’ve sorted it out with all parts involved. Even if something comes up I’ve learned a valuable lesson from this.

Heck if I’m wrong who cares at this point. I’m not going to waste my time on tribal crap and if people can’t spot a fake account I could care less anymore really.
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Lillian Fubberforth - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 13:05:50 EST ID:Pwq0Fy/H No.526333 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526321
I feel like this is just a bait post too but maybe your trying to help
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Henry Serrystone - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 13:42:43 EST ID:HUUepmZy No.526335 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526333
I apologize I was being a jackass.


can't or won't get a tattoo by Cedric Fanderford - Thu, 23 Aug 2018 18:30:29 EST ID:BgYDrKs0 No.526314 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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i really wanna get tattoos but i feel like i'm gonna be awkward when i get em
should i just do it or wait a few days until i feel better. i've been smoking a lot of weed lately. maybe i need to be sober for a bit before i do it. or maybe i'm just being a pussy and putting off my destiny
i don't know what to do boys

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i1fqfrX4BWE
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Lydia Pallylock - Thu, 23 Aug 2018 22:55:00 EST ID:CzjBS7Ni No.526318 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I’m a negative nancy who’s popped in and out of here for almost a decade and if I took the money for a tattoo and put it in investments back then, I’d have much more money right now. Money for a family I never expected to have.

Think about whether or not it’s worth it to spend hundreds of dollars to color a specific part of your skin. Chances are one day youll be dead broke and wishing you had the money you spent on colored skin.
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Hedda Dengerford - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 09:55:27 EST ID:BgYDrKs0 No.526322 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526318
damn you are a negative nancy. i'm sorry tattoos let you down.
i think one day we all have to make a choice about where we want to be
if i'm wrong then that's the way it is
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Jarvis Pivingwell - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 12:15:32 EST ID:X1WDhwYW No.526329 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526315
Not a tattoo guy but a lot of my friends have tattoos. It's going to be on your body forever. Research the artist, check their rep, check their existing work, make sure you're happy they'll do your body justice. If you just want a tattoo for the sake of having one you're going to be one of those people with shit tattoos.
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Hedda Dengerford - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 12:23:30 EST ID:BgYDrKs0 No.526330 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526329
fuck your gay ass advice
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Jarvis Pivingwell - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 14:35:08 EST ID:X1WDhwYW No.526336 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526330
Lol you're fucked.


People don't take mental health problems seriously by John Blegglespear - Wed, 22 Aug 2018 17:18:42 EST ID:Y1Z1t2nj No.526288 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I'm back in college for the fall and classes just started up again. I had a panic attack and had to leave class early today. It was in a massive lecture hall with around 100 people in it. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed. My mental health is really bad, to the point that it's ruining my life.

But you know what's weird? People don't seem to think it's a real problem.

When I was a in wheelchair, which was just a minor inconvenience, people understood that I had a problem, and they were really nice and even over-accommodating for me. But when I mention my mental health problem, which is significantly worse than when I had a broken leg, people think I'm just exaggerating it. Just get over it. Just deal with it. There's nothing to worry about. Dumb shit like that.

It's like, if someone can't physically see the problem with their own eyes, they don't think it's real.

Have you ever had issues that people didn't take seriously? How did you deal with it?
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Simon Benderstock - Wed, 22 Aug 2018 20:03:56 EST ID:nrs1TIWF No.526293 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>if someone can't physically see the problem with their own eyes, they don't think it's real.
This reminded me of how I deal with my OCD. one of my compulsions is to pick my skin until it bleeds (excoriation/dermatillomania). so it's like taking my mental problem and making it physical. the usual spots I pick are publicly visible (hands, face, arms, lower legs). I've also been walking on crutches for two weeks, and the over-accommodating is true. Although I've noticed mental health problems in myself over the past decade, I haven't had issues about people not taking it seriously because I don't tell any one, sorry. It does bother me that people confuse ocpd for ocd and ocpd gets belittled.

>>526289
that's a fine reaction and what I would probably do. A class that large shouldn't care if someone leaves suddenly. you're paying for the time in class, so you get to do what you want with the time as long as you're not hurting anyone else or being purposefully disruptive. ask for notes on the lecture.
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Hugh Buzzson - Wed, 22 Aug 2018 20:14:16 EST ID:vYe3Po+d No.526295 Ignore Report Quick Reply
but like, what are you panicking about, maaan
just chill and learn stuff lol
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Isabella Cheddledock - Wed, 22 Aug 2018 20:27:49 EST ID:JYfsXITI No.526296 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526293
There's a lot of overlap with Axis I and II disorders and most people with OCPD have OCD as comorbidity. Likewise, most people with OCD have perfectionistic, orderly traits associated with OCPD. Rhett and Link are shitty sources on the subject btw.
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Simon Pabblelug - Thu, 23 Aug 2018 12:51:47 EST ID:fFqdWlVJ No.526308 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526288

Former college professor. The reason that barely anybody takes anxiety and panic attacks seriously at a college level is because of the countless numbers of students that use it as a way to game the system.

Failing all your exams? Past the add-drop date? Don't wanna take the voluntary withdraw hit on your record? Then find some internet doctor to write a letter saying you have anxiety, have an "attack" in class once, and then you'll get the medical withdraw that doesn't go on your record.

It's a bummer for people who have actual issues, but staged anxiety attacks are the most common scam that undergrads pull in order to wipe bad grades from their transcript.
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Wesley Callydock - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 13:27:06 EST ID:g46HE+48 No.526334 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>526288
Idunno OP. I had my first panic attack a month ago on my way to class, my chest hurt and I just sat there in pain until class was over. I dissociate away from stress though, so the panic attack was more physical than mental.
I say get a pet rat and bring it into classes. Focusing on making sure the little guy/gal is ok and has nomnoms. Not as cool as an orangutan, though.


Gaslit by Sidney Ceblingstone - Thu, 16 Aug 2018 09:36:04 EST ID:gDRP1RaE No.526148 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I was gaslit in a mental ward by a girl who tricked me into caring about her a LOT by probably fake suicide attempts.

Since then she started stalking me and fucking people I knew, when she showed up at uni I literally collapsed and didn't remember it until like 2 years later.

I'm now 7+ grand in debt, have no friends and have more mental problems than I did in the first place.

Halp.
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Fanny Fuckletit - Sat, 18 Aug 2018 11:07:38 EST ID:gDRP1RaE No.526247 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526244

Trust, am completely converted to the good side of the force, even if right now there's a complete asshole of a 'teacher' chuckling behind my back, getting off over doing this kinda cause stalking bullshit purely because she can and because she can get away with it.

However, to me, evil is still evil. I've suffered through absolute hell and I'm not gonna take it anymore, because A) I've paid for what I've done a thousand times over in just about every way possible and B) I grew some damn self-respect while I was at it.

Except not gonna take it anymore is only words, because I -have- truly changed, there's no legal route for reparations even though I've suffered serious psychological damage and suffered acutely for well over ten years.

People are so willing and quick to cast blame and self-serving doubt on someone they've victimised that this shit becomes like some ever shitting perpetual motion machine.

At the moment I'm still being accused of warranting it just because I joined a friggin sec irc channel and made some friends just in case I needed backup sometime, even though absolutely NOTHING malicious happens there and people literally only chat there. On the rare occasions they do do shit (not in at least a year) I stay out of the way, guilt by association?

Literally what the shitting hell.

Now said sec HAVE offered help in getting people back, but I wouldn't fucking take it, are they still not convinced that I've changed yet? Like jesus christ.
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Phyllis Bregglehon - Sat, 18 Aug 2018 12:11:29 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.526250 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526247

Sounds like some of this is kept alive via technology brother. Maybe time to pull the plug and go off the virtual grid.
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Jarvis Coshcocke - Sat, 18 Aug 2018 12:13:10 EST ID:RdJtcLxF No.526251 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526245

Listen man, you're just being stupid.
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George Fuckinghood - Sat, 18 Aug 2018 13:50:36 EST ID:oVfc2b+1 No.526253 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526239
Can definetely relate since I have ptsd and ocd related to humiliation. I've been abused by my mother at home and rejected by peers in highschool. I'm 20 now and shit just goes on, constant intrusive thoughts related to a guy that fucked the girl I loved, constant anxiety of being rejected, flashbacks, chronic depression, etc...
Glad to hear that things can go better, at least. Thanks for sharing your experience.
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Emma Shakeville - Mon, 20 Aug 2018 10:16:13 EST ID:gDRP1RaE No.526269 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526250

Not sure if I could stand staring loneliness in the face that hard, but it could be worth a try, at least trying not to be so honest all the time.


Is there a connection between chalk and a certain drug? by Clara Savingpidge - Sat, 11 Aug 2018 15:45:23 EST ID:8BfTWzdH No.526075 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I know I sound like a paranoid middle age mother, but it's a genuine question.

My sister uses drugs recreationally, as do I, but I don't know what she's using. MDMA and coke I guess, but it hasn't been a problem so far. However last night was the first time an ambulance had to be called so I'm worried. I've seen her drunk and high plenty of times but she was acting straight up weird yesterday, I knew she was on something long before things went bad.

Simultaneously over the last month mysterious pieces of chalk have appeared in the apartment. At first I thought they were a halved pills but they're just short of chalk like the ones used on a board. Random things end up pockets all the time but I've found these pieces of chalk four times now in a short period of time, more than a coincidence even if it doesn't involve drugs.

I can't think of anything, but I know there are less than obvious connections such as MDMA users eating magnesium pills to help with the chewing, so I'm wondering if there's any drug or method of use that would utilize chalk?
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Sidney Broddlehall - Wed, 15 Aug 2018 15:16:05 EST ID:6mp4SimB No.526135 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526115
I tried drawing with it and tasted it and it was chalk. I didn't ask her because if it's something to worry about she wouldn't tell me and straight up accusing her because "I found chalk" sounds retarded
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' God !!Bwteoy2D - Thu, 16 Aug 2018 02:38:53 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.526144 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Chalk is used to prevent teeth grinding while on molly. It covers the teeth with a thin layer that prevents them from breaking when you start grinding hard.
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Albert Punningkot - Thu, 16 Aug 2018 23:50:37 EST ID:RXhXFbbB No.526184 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526144
The lord has speaketh. Abide by his laws or lightning shall strike you mortals.
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Priscilla Sammleworth - Sat, 18 Aug 2018 11:17:17 EST ID:dwxJXzd4 No.526249 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526144
you got a source on that?
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' God !!vVWR8L52 - Sun, 19 Aug 2018 01:05:10 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.526258 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526249
Just try it man, it works!


So ran into this girl from like 3 months ago by Eliza Crarringketch - Sat, 18 Aug 2018 12:16:14 EST ID:xBssPwJc No.526252 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I should start with I suck with women, not terrible, but i'd say just a tier above it, and I haven't had sex for a very, very long while and even then it was more of a lucky fluke thing then anything. And i'm in my late 20's.
So keeping this short.
I went out with a bud to the beach, and he brought 2 girls he knew with him, 1 of which I was kinda interested in, don't ask me why I just was.
I think I could've made something out of it...but I never actually managed to make a conversation that was very long, but we laughed a bit, even poked a bit of fun I think, nothing extraordinary, however, I guess I keep wondering if I could've taken it further? I stopped asking myself about her for a month or two, once we said our goodbyes in that day, I just didn't bring myself to ask for numbers or anything. I don't know.
However, I just stumbled into her today. Saw her in the distance and just walked up and said hi, if a little nervous lol but whatever.
We talked for a bit, again nothing too much out of circumstance, but we traded numbers and the idea hanging out (as in, like me, my mate, and the other girl) was left out in the open - which can mean anything I guess, but the tone for it at least was favorable(she brought it up), as in, she'd be up for it.

I'm wondering though, should I try and talk to her, like try and set up a coffee or something...I have no idea what to do. I still have a lot of issues like, I don't really know how to have fun. Money's ok-ish though.

I don't want to bring myself to be the annoying twat who keeps texting, boring the fuck out of the girl to the point she just flat out ignores you. The fact I also don't get many girl acquaintances (nil) puts a bit of pressure on me, as in, her reaction is worth too much...not sure i'm making sense.

Should I talk to her, maybe ask her out or maybe just talk with my mate and try having us all go out somewhere or something?

pic unrelated.
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Awe' !!Bwteoy2D - Sat, 18 Aug 2018 15:36:57 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.526254 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526252
You've already set yourself up for failure by being needy. The way it works is not that you are getting something from her in exchange for being nice to her or whatever, the way it works is that you offer something to her and if she's down for it then you say come to daddy and do some cool things together. If not, well she's not the only one who is potentially able to appreciate who you are.
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Phyllis Bregglehon - Sat, 18 Aug 2018 17:14:20 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.526255 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Don't hit up her phone for any other reason than the one agreed upon. Mutual, group meet up for hangs. It's kind of annoying when people use friendship as a trojan horse for their own interests sexually and girls are wise to it.

You could maybe get away with some idle small talk but let's try not over invest in a text conversation, this isn't even close to deal breaking. If you feel the energy in the inbox is right, throw a "hows it going anyways" or a link/image of something topical and relevant to past convos. Don't do this shit if it's not gonna be executed with confidence.

Tell your mate you like this chick and want him to jump out with you, he might do the honorable thing and help distract the chick's friend while you get to at least work up a bit of rapor. At this stage, it's all about building up an actual chemistry, rather than securing a date. If you can, incorporate at least one or two drinks into the activities for the day.

Mention things you were wanting to do soon but you really do have to pick your play and gamble on it. Whether it's cinema, music, galleries, events, food... say there is something out there that you are genuinely into, that you've been meaning to "check out". If she bites, she will be like "omg sounds sick i wanna go" and at that point, you play it cool, don't immediately jump down her throat demanding her schedule for the next 2 months.If she doesn't bite, but shows interest, you could always proposition her with "you wanna check it out sometime?" and see how that lands.

From there, you could begin navigating the territory of hanging out with JUST HER, in a public setting. Try keep it fun, try keep it interesting, don't just be a boring robot who wants to get coffee or hang out at a bar until drunk. Show some initiative, and if you feel clueless, just ask friends or lurk facebook to see what cool stuff they get upto for ideas.

It's a tough world to navigate man. Stay authentic, better to find out that a girl isn't into who you are - than in love with who you are not.
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Reuben Danderwell - Sat, 18 Aug 2018 18:23:43 EST ID:vYe3Po+d No.526256 Ignore Report Quick Reply
just text them all and arrange it, see if you guys click and then ask her out
you got this fam


I Hate The Human Race by Beatrice Shittingwill - Thu, 16 Aug 2018 17:07:08 EST ID:AwB3yqIM No.526168 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I hate the human race so much. A while ago, I learned about the murder of Junko Furuta. DO NOT READ THIS LINK unless you want to lose the last shred of faith you had in humanity or if you don't want to be furious.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Junko_Furuta

I hate the human race so much. Hell, I think that story has actually made me racist to Japanese people, who I already had a low opinion of due to their whale hunting, super harsh college and work culture, and other things. No wonder they have an entire mountain dedicated to suicide. Not only that, but so many other fucked up things.

>The Tail of Tears
>The Holocaust
>The Murder of Emmett Till
>The Murder of Kitty Genovese
>The extinction of many endangered species of animals.
>Global Warming
>The North Pacific Gyre
>The Spanish Inquisition
>The Crusades (both sides)
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Hugh Sanningshit - Fri, 17 Aug 2018 03:36:32 EST ID:jfR0c7UU No.526186 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526168
Id say there are good things to focus on in humanity however. Not all of humanity is evil. I think it has to do with the weird reality that the power hungry and greedy are rewarded for being that way. For example, everyone complains about power hungry corporations for decimating the environment and contributing to unequal wealth distribution, but still buy their products because it is cheap and convenient for them. I find laziness and low ambition to be the true evil of humanity that lets people like this gain power and fame.
It’s why I laugh at triggered libtard college students who complain about all of this, but do nothing else to resolve the problems they identify. Everyone usually expects everyone else to agree with them and do it for them as if the rest of us are their lemmings. This doesn’t even have to be something severe like joining armed forces or a police force. Why not spend time researching or developing a way to help. Otherwise you are whining about something that has long been acknowledged and doing nothing to move things forward. I think beating a dead horse is an apt idiom.
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Sidney Fudgesodge - Fri, 17 Aug 2018 10:32:45 EST ID:vYe3Po+d No.526200 Ignore Report Quick Reply
wow poor Junko :(
i'm eagerly waiting for a disease/asteroid/alien to destroy us all so animals take over
all around awful species
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Awe' God !!Bwteoy2D - Fri, 17 Aug 2018 14:03:09 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.526205 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526168
You are where you are, no one is at fault that everything exists, everyone is responsible for what they chose and in every piece of light you can find darkness and in every piece of darkness you can find light. Chose your destiny Beatrice.

Circumstances do not matter, only the state of being matters.

(bro tip: the state from which you take action has more influence on what environment you find yourself in than the state you just ponder, so don't be afraid to ponder, but act on what you prefer)
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Martha Henkinwater - Fri, 17 Aug 2018 15:18:31 EST ID:lBwVUAhn No.526208 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>526176
Yeah, no other creatures are harmed but us by global warming and the garbage patch in the oceans lmao
look at the fucking news you moron
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Shit Govingson - Fri, 17 Aug 2018 22:28:02 EST ID:JY4MVM0x No.526213 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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The Spanish Inquisition was necessary. Spain was overrun by a foreign califate, Ferdinand and Isabella did what needed to be done to rid their land of foreign influence.


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