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Idk what to do by Advice please - Thu, 07 Sep 2017 19:39:19 EST ID:EISCZ3zY No.518658 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I have been in a relationship for several years now and I don't even know how to meet new people anymore. I don't want to just go "hook up" with people. I just need some friends. I thought about bars but I don't enjoy drinking....how do you build a friendship off somthing that you don't do often?
Ian Trotdock - Sun, 26 Nov 2017 09:01:04 EST ID:5mr627pH No.520278 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You can order tea in a bar, look at Worf, Worf orders prune juice, and what about that guy in the departed, he was tough as nails, he ordered cranberry juice. People will make a joke about it for sure, you laugh, then everyone goes back to talking about whatever else they were talking about. You leave when it starts to get boring because everyone else is drunk. You can even have one drink to fit in, then swap to the prune juice afterwards. You can still make friends this way.
Hamilton Blavingcocke - Sun, 26 Nov 2017 15:25:27 EST ID:PYtZfh+Q No.520294 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I go to bars and often just drink diet coke or whatever flavoured caffiene water. No one notices. It's weird as fuck the first few weeks but you're just going out and talking to people and having a few. A lot of the time no one notices because they're busy getting drunk. If you arrive while people are fairly sober you won't even notice them getting drunk most of the time.

Otherwise, what interests do you have?

The smart man who landed his plane upon the sand. by Edward Boshsick - Sun, 26 Nov 2017 08:37:00 EST ID:H4/K+PyO No.520277 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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My brother was injured by a particularly deadly Aurora Borealis recently.

Buy me a book.

want to have gross sex w girl from the past by Jenny Snodlock - Fri, 24 Nov 2017 03:53:21 EST ID:kDcqedp3 No.520237 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I met this girl on my 18th birthday. We both had s/os at the time. I had seen her at school for a few years and thought she She ends up becoming one of my best friends post-highschool. She basically is just kindof a lost hoe for a long time that jumps between friends and fucks everyone, its bad news.

She ends up dating me and this really bad thing happened where a close friend of ours kills himself. This destroys everything. We had an abusive relationship but the summer after this was just nightmares and drama. I'm not even gonna get into it.

fast forward 4 years, I ran into her at a party and hadn't seen or talked to her in 4 years. Shes a complete alcoholic bum. She basically just started drinking every single day and tried to live this stupid life where she pan handled around the country with a couple of losers. The guy that she cheated on me with and ended up with was a complete pussy that never fucked her or anything.

She ends up coming over every weekend for a few months and is a complete drunk. Can't function without booze. I didnt see her not drunk once, but it made her seem normal. We tripped on acid together once and that was crazy. I remember looking at us in the mirror and I looked like this badass gta character and she looked like a hot ass girlfriend and I pictured us in a videogame jumping on a motorcycle and gunning some people down or doing some crazy ass gta shit because of how badass we looked.

She left the state to go live with her mom. Her mom begged her to go to rehab. Finally one night she had some severe stomach issues and ended up in urgent care. They told her she had to stop drinking or she was going to die within the next year or 2. Keep in mind she is 24.

So shes been clean since late july and lives in a different part of the country and just smokes weed all day. I talk to her every day. Pretty sure she has another dude but doesnt tell me but i could give a shit about that. After all the drama and bs from over the years I have a deep love for this girl. We'll probably never be together like that again but I hope she stays sober. She seems like the type that I wont see for years and will meet up with and lay around in bed with and have amazing sex wit…
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Jack Cuddlemotch - Fri, 24 Nov 2017 08:28:26 EST ID:GNiaZN9Q No.520243 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Please OP no.
Cyril Gunningmidge - Fri, 24 Nov 2017 09:39:47 EST ID:1DRFfAiT No.520245 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You're going to ruin your life if you do that. Straight. Up.
Walter Bopperfield - Sun, 26 Nov 2017 04:57:00 EST ID:oOQyCzbT No.520267 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Dude no thats exactly what im trying to move away from
Barnaby Herrywat - Sun, 26 Nov 2017 07:41:15 EST ID:UZC9gHak No.520274 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I gurantee this girl has been raped and traded sex for money multiple times
Hedda Goblingstodge - Sun, 26 Nov 2017 08:00:08 EST ID:oXo9Ddud No.520276 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You think she orders extra cheesy bread too? The dirty litle mouse.

Women, lemme tell you, wooo boy.

Moving by Graham Hecklewere - Sat, 25 Nov 2017 23:01:19 EST ID:L9x3lDju No.520260 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Planning to move out of my parents basement and in with a friend in a couple months. Not sure if I am ready, how do I know if I'm ready!?
Samuel Blytheman - Sat, 25 Nov 2017 23:13:01 EST ID:YbkuspGF No.520261 Ignore Report Quick Reply
you're ready man don't worry about it
Rebecca Feppershit - Sun, 26 Nov 2017 02:55:19 EST ID:qnpf4h+M No.520264 Ignore Report Quick Reply
yeah just go with it. shit, if i figured things out as well as i have, you can.
Hedda Goblingstodge - Sun, 26 Nov 2017 07:35:26 EST ID:oXo9Ddud No.520273 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Spread your wings you littel babby butterfly
Ian Trotdock - Sun, 26 Nov 2017 14:22:06 EST ID:5mr627pH No.520289 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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manifest fabulousness

i got the sad feelings by Rebecca Feppershit - Sun, 26 Nov 2017 03:10:16 EST ID:qnpf4h+M No.520265 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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i just feel so so sad. i don't know. i guess i'm a loser but it's hitting me really hard right now. it's like it's too late to live life? have an enjoyable, fun life? i'm halfway o 26, lifetime of depression yadda yadda. things are better sort of now but i think i missed life. i'd rather not have been born, yknow? i thought there were all sorts of great things in life for me, but i guess not. i guess. there's still hope for something but that image of having everything is dying. i don't have professional prospects, just finishing an undergrad in philosophy. i just got a job part time working in a kitchen. i've got energy issues.. i can't really get out of bed so well. i've got things to fix this, finally. but things are gonna be tight. i think it's the winter, this sadness. i get no pussy, never really dated much, never really became a man. i'm skinny fat. i hate my life, honestly.
maybe it's not too late but damn this is gay and it sucks and fuck

what do
Rebecca Feppershit - Sun, 26 Nov 2017 03:17:07 EST ID:qnpf4h+M No.520266 Ignore Report Quick Reply
i need to start lifting
Hugh Higgledale - Sun, 26 Nov 2017 05:33:53 EST ID:h/1sxUpj No.520269 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Not a bad start, cardio is more important for regulating mood and energy levels though.

I hope it's not too late, because I'm almost 29, have no uni degree and work part time in a kitchen. I'm not giving up yet, nor should you.
I have managed to quit opiates and I'm in better shape than I've been in for years. Now I just need to actually fucking do something with my life.

You've got this OP.
Simon Gommerletch - Sun, 26 Nov 2017 07:17:38 EST ID:esuyK5FE No.520270 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>undergrad in philosophy
Hedda Goblingstodge - Sun, 26 Nov 2017 07:21:35 EST ID:oXo9Ddud No.520271 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Hap penis is like a sweet sweet lady;
Once you stop wanting it, it comes to you

At that point it doesn't even matter
because you've learned to accept being miserable (sad)

But once you've grown comfortable with misery--
then you can truly enjoy life.

You can do it to,
just let go and dream away

Personal Improvement Journal by 66 - Mon, 20 Nov 2017 15:26:24 EST ID:cChHTxSS No.520181 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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This thread is dedicated to personal improvement. I am a perennial failure when it comes to getting my life in order and actually achieving something worthwhile. I reckon I might have more success if I keep a journal. I have decided to create a journal on here, in the hope I will feel slightly more accountable, knowing there might be people checking in on my progress. And who knows, maybe I will even inspire somebody to make a change in their life, that would be very nice to hear.

I'm not going to state any clear-cut goals just yet, because I seem to stay motivated more when I set progress as my main objective instead of a set target. The main ambition is to get rid of the bad habits that are ingrained into my lifestyle and replace them with beneficial habits.

Here's a small list of things I want to do, change or get rid of.
>get rid of internet addiction
>get rid of excess fat
>be more creative
>improve my focus (which has been shot to pieces due to 24/7 internet usage)
>educate myself on various subjects
>get a job
>be more physically active
>acquire and save money to travel

Good luck to anyone out there who is in a similar situation as me.
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Esther Nungerbig - Wed, 22 Nov 2017 13:07:32 EST ID:6OmeeR23 No.520219 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Eat some fat. You're working out as hard as I do on about half the calories and losing about 3 pounds every 2 weeks. You're probably running 1500+ calories deficit and you'll find you get tired and lose energy soon. The less fat you are the less deficit you can run without impacting how you feel and your performance at the gym.

That said maybe if you eat like this for a few days then just stick another 500 calories of protein and fat (dark chocolate, like 85% cocoa will do you well for this or nuts, both have fibre too) in you'll still lose 10 pounds before christmas, maybe 15.

I think I'm a similar sort of crazy about food to you. Over time I am slowly getting better at it though. When I first lost my weight I swung almost as much as you and was pretty close to that level. The truth is that we both have an eating disorder. Over the years I've been working at swinging less. I don't have prolonged binges though sometimes it's nice to eat everything I can for 2 days. I either have to spend a lot of time obsessing over my weight and when I next get to let go or I resign myself to being fat, and I choose the former, I've done both and it's better. However I'm working at cutting my excesses from both ends. Much shorter binges. Less punitive diets. The worst thing is worrying about stuff with friends because it'll fuck with my gym or food and the stress that causes. In time I've learned to binge less, after a couple of days you feel like shit physically anyway, but instead of binging I both occasionally have an evening where I eat what I want with friends or whatever (which ends up a mini binge a lot of the time but then it's a week at 500 calories to diet off because there was less food, more distractions and most importantly I have a rad time sharing food with friends) and still manage to diet less extremely (or diet the same and when people bring cake into work actually pick a slice of cake or couple of chocolates). The hard part and what you need to focus on is not planning and sustaining binges. The hardest bit is the afternoon after when the sugar cravings resume. But if you power through it on day 3 instead of day 7 you will enjoy li…
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Fanny Pickcocke - Thu, 23 Nov 2017 13:05:48 EST ID:5mr627pH No.520231 Ignore Report Quick Reply

a shoe isn't a sock, it's not pedantry
Fanny Pickcocke - Thu, 23 Nov 2017 13:07:58 EST ID:5mr627pH No.520232 Ignore Report Quick Reply

losing weight is all about what you eat. no matter how much you exercise the calories you burn doing it will be nothing compared to how many calories your body burns just keeping you alive. Don't tell someone they can eat shit so long as they exercise, that is bullshit made up by coca-cola so people would keep buying their poison. Exercise to live longer, feel better, fight depression, and look hot, do NOT exercise to lose weight, because it doesn't help. Diet is what matters.
Clara Claffingpirk - Fri, 24 Nov 2017 19:16:09 EST ID:q2oceEuN No.520250 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>hey guys can we go to in and our burger
shut the fuck up Donny. You're out your element.

I have a few theories about how you extrapolated "eat shit" from "eat some fat" and saying to eat about 500 calories more.

Also losing weight is not "all about what you eat" that is the largest part but if you're going to be finnicky it's not "all" because how much you burn is important. Find someone who is 5 foot tall and 100 pounds and someone who is 6 foot 6 and 200 pounds and tell me if they eat the same their weights will act in the same way. Exercise makes a difference. A professional athlete who eats what I do will shrink about 2 pounds per day.

Now I know that's extreme. But the point is that exercise does matter. For most people food is far more important but exercise can still make 500 calories of difference per day between two relatively ordinary people. I'd say I burn more calories than a lot of the people in my office but all the guys are tall thin and exercise a lot. We're also all accountants though so in versus out is pretty natural to us. Even if we don't do the numbers, we all know that if we suddenly do more exercise our weight changes. One of the guys I work with started cycling to work and back every day. When he started he lost 3 kilos in a month, he had to eat more because he was already pretty skinny. When winter came he rolled back his intake.

If you're talking about the bingeing what I said to equates to eat less shit and diet less extremely. 1000 calories a day is not recommended for anyone ever. Especially not someone who goes to the gym 6 fucking times a week. OP exercises pretty hard. Maybe I'm wrong but he doesn't strike me as someone to do things by half measures, it shows in his diet, he does not go sit on the exercise bike 15 minutes and read the newspaper then do some stretches with a 1KG weight in each hand then just lie on the mats in different poses for 10 minutes. He's either sweating floods or risking a hernia most nights I'll bet.

Now I may be wrong, but I have a feeling OP and I are a lot alike. And if I'm wrong a lot of my advice doesn't stand. And y…
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66 - Sat, 25 Nov 2017 02:20:33 EST ID:QB67sPEC No.520253 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OP here, my apologies for the disappearance act but I've actually had a couple of busy days believe it or not.

>Much shorter binges. Less punitive diets.
This is what I am aiming for. I know I'll always love eating wicked amounts of food, but I hope I can get into a mindset where even my worst binge is tolerable and when I'm on a strict diet, I don't punish myself too hard if I have a little lapse. I've noticed it's more of a psychological thing with me. If I'm on a strict diet of say 1500 calories, if I overeat slightly and bump it up to 1700, there's this feeling in my mind that says "well, you've gone 200 calories over the limit, the day is finished, you might as well go 3000 over the limit now!" and then I lose all control.

Anyway my diet is still going strong. I'm truly surprised by how little the hunger has affected me so far. 1000 calories a day and I'm actually not even that hungry or tired most of the time.

>Eat some fat.
I know I could probably do with some more fat, but my diet isn't entirely fat free. The almonds I eat contain quite a bit of fat and so does the salmon filet.

Your observations aren't far off. I am taking it a little easier than I normally would on the exercise side of things, because I've made mistakes in the past and with a 1000 kcal/day diet I don't want to exert myself too much. For instance, last summer, I decided I wanted to lose some weight and started doing a 500 calorie deficit diet. But I also took up HIIT. In fact, I was doing HIIT every day. My HIIT sessions lasted 20+ minutes and I did burpees before and after. After almost a month of that I felt what I describe as being "physically depressed". Then I went on an almighty binge and stopped exercising until I got some motivation back and flew straight back into over-the-top HIIT sessions.

Anyway, I appreciate the concern and I've definitely learned from my past experiences. I still exercise every day but I'm taking it a lot easier because with this 1000 kcal/day diet I know I'm going to lose the fat anyway so I'm mainly just exercising to keep the little muscle I have inste…
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Not sure if upset over nothing by Thomas Brerringlore - Tue, 21 Nov 2017 03:48:48 EST ID:zd9WTQ4Y No.520191 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So i've been friends with this girl for 4 or 5 years and we've always been tight. I'm sure it doesn't help my case, but out of honesty, we did date for a month or two and have definitely hooked up. In the end, we had a mutual breakup on account of not really having romantic feelings, it was just out of loneliness and horniness.

Anyway, a couple months ago i moved in with her and her fiance who I've actually become quite good friends with over the last year. Ordinarily if they wanna kiss or be romantic for a second thats totally cool with me, but I would expect that if they want to do that shit for a solid 45 minutes they would go do it in private, instead of directly next to me on the couch where the setting had priorly been us chilling and playing games or some shit. Thing is, I'll be chilling there and they get all into it, so I leave, cause why would i just sit there while they do that. Then i get treated like I'm being pissy or something, when in fact I just don't wanna sit there while they fuckin kiss. There is no pleasure in that lol.

Additionally, this girl who I always talked to all the time (including the year of her being with her fiance) has just resorted to being on the phone or computer whenever it's just us. The second the dude comes home, they both act like we should all do something, and then just talk to each other. Then after like 30 minutes they'll mention something to me, and obviously after that long I've tuned them out, and once again, I'm the one being weird.

I just feel like this doesn't have to be a weird situation and they are making it into one. In all honesty the guy is not nearly as bad about it as she is.

I don't expect anyone to believe me, as i know how this sounds, but I have absolutely no longing for romance with my female friend. I just miss being homies and not being subjected to being a 3rd wheel in the 1st degree. I don't get why
A. they can't hog the fuckin living room / aka go do their shit in private
B. Why a close friend of mine has just totally lost value in me the second i moved in

Yes, I'm a bitch and i get upset about dumb things. Lay it on me.

Thoughts? Questions?
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Augustus Greenshaw - Tue, 21 Nov 2017 10:27:25 EST ID:hzUsxH14 No.520194 Ignore Report Quick Reply
who the fuck moves into a engaged couple's house? specially if you had a thing with the lady... like, wtf did you expect?
Fanny Goodfuck - Tue, 21 Nov 2017 23:30:16 EST ID:rEMAXPCg No.520211 Ignore Report Quick Reply
tldr, find another place to live, it's not going to change.

Without talking about what's "right", you're acting like you're all just friends and you and your female friend have no history and you're all just hanging out.

1) You're not all just friends. You're all friends, but not all only friends. They have a different relationship completely independent from yours. This separates you from them in a completely impersonal nothing-about-you kind of way.

2) you currently now today (present tense) still have a history a history with the woman this guy has chosen to be his lifelong partner. That affects things. Saying things have changed doesn't make it not true that you still have that past.

3) It's their apartment as much as it is yours, they can do whatever they want wherever they want. You can too. More importantly understand that if you ask them to go elsewhere then you're a burden and they will resent you whether they comply or not.

Lastly, in my opinion living alone is good, but that's just what I think. Other than that if you feel like your getting stallioned why wouldn't you want to move out?
Nigel Choddlepudging - Wed, 22 Nov 2017 04:30:25 EST ID:zd9WTQ4Y No.520213 Ignore Report Quick Reply
It was actually her idea for us all to move in together. I'm not in "their house", we all got a new apartment and split it 3 ways. Granted, I did leave a lot blank, but you've made quite a few misjudgments about the nature of the agreement. I do however think you are onto something within me not understanding my own emotions at times.

I guess I just went into this having been promised it wouldn't be weird, which I suppose I shouldn't have believed, and now it is weird and I don't like it.

I see your point.

I was admittedly emotional-drunk at the time of being upset about this. On further thought, I do believe that I am missing the closeness of a friend, but to a greater extent, I am reminded of how emotionally lonely I am.

I do still think that at times they could be slightly less... in your face obnoxious tumblr couple about it, but also that I am being a little bit overly sensitive about it.

Unfortunately, as our lease has just begun, I will be stuck in this situation for a while. Perhaps I can use this as an opportunity to emotionally mature past an envy that I deny having. This may just be a case of "I'm unhappy, and you are being very happy around me and that makes me upset"
Lydia Brimmlelock - Wed, 22 Nov 2017 23:15:29 EST ID:MJ3Fsqw9 No.520220 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Ask her questions about her day
Ebenezer Gendletun - Thu, 23 Nov 2017 13:09:01 EST ID:JI9kO00V No.520233 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Well OP. I see two options. Either open a dialogue with them, or let things keep going the way they are, and see if you get over it. The latter is honestly the worse choice I think you could do. Because you may get over it, just as likely as it will build until you explode. Its usually general etiquette to not do things like that in front of others.

In all honesty OP, I think your being used as a self esteem booster. Some woman (like men) enjoy driving exes with new lovers. A sort of (I still got it). Next time this happens, watch to see who engages it, her or her bf.

If it' her bf, more than likely they are just being inconsiderate. If she usually instigates it, Id say shes trying to make you jealous, and maybe react in some way.

I know this all sounds like Lifetime Movie Network drama. But far more woman casually do this kind of stuff that any would ever admit.

Future note. NEVER live with exes and their new romantic partners. It generally turns bad, or someone (in this case you) feels like they are living on top of others. Even if both sides pre-establish it not being awkward. The whole situation is just fishy OP.

tl;dr: Open a dialogue with them. Ask if they could be a little more conciderate. I dont believe you are over reacting by getting a bit upset by this.

broken for life by Fucking Trotgold - Sun, 05 Nov 2017 05:52:46 EST ID:tiBuSQx/ No.519832 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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My ex beat me up a lot and emotionally, verbally, financially abused me for four years. I already had bad mental health probs (borderline/CPTSD) from a pretty fucked-up childhood but I swear it pretty much broke my brain and I've had like 1000 times worse PTSD ever since. I now have flashbacks that are pretty much psychotic, scream and thrash in my sleep, and feel like a ghost that's been inhabiting a dead meatshell for the last few years. I dissociated more often than not before; now it's continual and I sometimes forget who I am or lose time. This stuff also ruined my physical health in a big way and right after I fled that relationship I got diagnosed with an autoimmune disorder, probably kicked off by the masses of stress I'd been experiencing.

I've learned to handle this in some ways, like mindfulness meditation, art, etc, and I'm going to a DV survivor's group soon. I want to think positive but honestly, I've been headsick since I was 11 and I know that any improvement after all this junk is gonna be small. How do I deal with knowing that I'll probably be severely mentally ill forever, and worse, that it was other people who did it to me?
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Walter Nudgeforth - Sun, 19 Nov 2017 05:29:56 EST ID:6OmeeR23 No.520140 Ignore Report Quick Reply
In all honesty when he said "I hope you all burn and hate you" but then accused me of insults in my response to that I knew it was a troll post or not worth bothering. nb
Jack Dracklemire - Mon, 20 Nov 2017 15:59:56 EST ID:dI9LUL1u No.520183 Ignore Report Quick Reply

TALK WITH HIM, TRUST ME! I had same prob
Hugh Finkinville - Wed, 22 Nov 2017 05:51:39 EST ID:guf43YXH No.520214 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Don't listen to this person.

OP, that picture was my life for almost three years. You can't rationalize with people like that. The best thing that I ever did myself was get away, although I initially failed. I went back several times and it's because I thought that I could do no better, that it was my lot in life and that it was futile to fight it. For the love of all that is sacred to you, don't ever go back.

The road is very difficult and many fall by the side, but it's not impossible to go on. The struggle is real for me, too, but I've improved myself in small ways and I have some semblance of peace of mind. If nothing else, my life is somewhat manageable now and I now see potential for a future in which I may find some contentment at last.

Try to find value within yourself, wherever you can. Don't go back.
Simon Sattingwill - Wed, 22 Nov 2017 06:14:18 EST ID:h/1sxUpj No.520215 Ignore Report Quick Reply
This, after 4 years of physical abuse the time for talking is well and truly over.
Ernest Hinkinway - Thu, 23 Nov 2017 09:32:44 EST ID:RPdsvUVL No.520229 Ignore Report Quick Reply

anybody else a fucking loser? by Henry Blommleforth - Thu, 02 Nov 2017 23:48:05 EST ID:O1saLBUb No.519791 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Anybody else a fucking loser?
>skinny fat, want to be in good shape
>$12 an hour shipping and receiving job, got it today
>serial job hop, on my 6th job this year because I get jobs just to escape where im working and its always just as bad if not worse, or just doesnt pay
>can't stop raving, quit way way way back on drugs though despite rolling last week, nothing like i used to, love bassnectar shows
>live in shitty apartment under business in shit ass town
>weird connection to the town i grew up in where everybody is a fucking townie loser
>my grandma always shows me pics of old friends i grew up with hanging out at local bars and wonders why im not like them, it bothers the fucking shit out of me
>want to get an apprenticeship, can't find one
>want to become a jacked up bro, too lazy, dont have the money to eat, not disciplined for shit
>want to learn music theory, cant hold attention span
>when im off and not at shows i sit in my underwear and play diablo 2 and watch joe rogan all day
>~30k in debt (thats an exaggeration, probly closer to 20)
>Cars a broke ass pos, driving my parents spare car, getting my car fixed soon
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Jack Sollyway - Sun, 19 Nov 2017 19:17:46 EST ID:oXo9Ddud No.520159 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>I wanna be a jacked bro going to bars with a nice car

Even your desires are lame.

It's all a mentality thing. You've been conditioned to suck because you look up to jackasses.
Augustus Brallerville - Mon, 20 Nov 2017 00:26:50 EST ID:78HqkL9Z No.520169 Ignore Report Quick Reply
This is going to sound ridiculous on this website but qq is a sincere place so this is what I think will help you.

I want to be better than I am, I have wanted to be for a long time, I didn't understand why I couldn't make myself do the things I needed to do to get me where I wanted to be. I was pissed off about it in a weird way because I was the one at fault.

Quit smoking and doing other things. I used to enjoy smoking daily, I think I can still go to work in the day and learn things, I don't think it's wrong. But truthfully even though could, I actually won't, so don't. My motivation and self discipline coincidentally decided to return when I gave it up.

I could masturbate and still go talk to girls, I could, but actually I won't, so I don't. Now I for this disputable reason i indisputably happen to be much more confident and in the last year and a half my lifetime count jumped from 2 to 10.

I could do my same workout routine even if I didn't give up cigarettes, but actually I won't, so I don't smoke cigarettes.

Am I right? Not necessarily, but if your priorities actually line up with what you say you want then you'll both make the changes and feel good about the decisions you made. Moreover, I think if you don't actually live in a way that's in line with what you say you want, and you don't feel bad about it, that suggests that those things you say you want aren't actually your priorities. Good luck to you.
Henry Gittingfoot - Mon, 20 Nov 2017 01:30:06 EST ID:qnpf4h+M No.520172 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Wait I don't understand this. I'm struggling with the same thing. Could you elaborate?
William Durringtit - Mon, 20 Nov 2017 02:30:18 EST ID:/0UqJTl7 No.520174 Ignore Report Quick Reply
What I mean is that even though it's possible to have vices and still succeed in bettering yourself, it just doesn't happen. Do your vices directly cause your failure? Maybe. Does giving up your vices directly cause your success? I don't think it works like that either. However, They're related, that's for sure.
Hannah Pedgeshit - Tue, 21 Nov 2017 12:49:50 EST ID:3W9wFkmT No.520195 Ignore Report Quick Reply
i fucking hate joe rogan, that's your problem right there. stop watching joe rogan, he's such a moron

help me break this off by Emma Clayham - Thu, 16 Nov 2017 00:20:53 EST ID:qnpf4h+M No.520055 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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please help me end this casual relationship. i'm 25, she's 28. we met on okcupid, we've hung out twice in two weeks and had sex. this girl is not very attractive, verging on but not quite "okay", but she had big biiiig boobs and i was horny. the most unattractive thing about her though is that she is beginning to emotionally invest in me. i hope it's not true, but i think it is. i think she's depressed, maybe i'm something of a interesting event in her otherwise work grinding life. again, i hope i'm wrong, but i don't think i am. i didn't want to hurt her, i was just really horny, and we were talking a bunch about life and stuff. if i was her, i'd want to know, but there's a part of me that wants to be shitty and ignore it and hope it goes away. i don't want to see her again. but i hate ripping the bandaid off. she's clinging. it feels gross. i don't want to subject myself to it but i know she's in pain. i don't want to take on her shitty energy. i have enough problems

i'm gonna relay a bit of our convo lately.
>Good luck on your paper
>Thanks, have fun with your sister
>Hey, are you free sometime this week?
>Nope, school's back on for now
>her: You did say you had class monday to thursday. sorry i must have forgot
>her: well next time we spend time together, we need to have a curfew so you can get your work done
>her: I passed my exams! yay!
>me: lol well that must be a relief. congrats
>her: i've been happy dancing all day
>her: i'm off tomorrow and feel like celebrating. are you available after class tomorrow?

i want to send her the following
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Henry Gittingfoot - Sun, 19 Nov 2017 20:53:36 EST ID:qnpf4h+M No.520161 Ignore Report Quick Reply
you are mistaken, my bernie sanders supporting young friend. what you are doing is living in a conceptual world that was created for you; thusly you have assumed me to be something that was preconceived by you and the media you consume
Jack Sollyway - Sun, 19 Nov 2017 21:21:14 EST ID:oXo9Ddud No.520162 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Really? Because you seem pretty knee deep in politics.

You're rockin' a beard most likely to hide your insecurities.

And you're telling me you don't drink? Comeon, Henry, fess up.
Henry Gittingfoot - Sun, 19 Nov 2017 21:42:40 EST ID:qnpf4h+M No.520164 Ignore Report Quick Reply
youre angry and wrong
Jack Sollyway - Sun, 19 Nov 2017 22:35:42 EST ID:oXo9Ddud No.520166 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Liar. I'd expect as much from a political junkie.
Henry Gittingfoot - Sun, 19 Nov 2017 22:48:42 EST ID:qnpf4h+M No.520167 Ignore Report Quick Reply
no. go away

It's so eeeasy not to try by Betsy Dinnerbury - Sun, 19 Nov 2017 08:20:22 EST ID:msgauNWX No.520147 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Let the world go drifting byyy
If you never say hellooo
You won't have to say goodbyeee

It's so easy not to tryyy
Never stay around to cryyy
Move along when troubles come
Like a mindless butterflyyy

For what good is it to LOOOVE
When the loving always ends
Travel on the road that's straight
Not the one with hills and beeends

It's so easy not to tryyy
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Yojimbo by Ernest Fossleshaw - Wed, 15 Nov 2017 03:20:33 EST ID:Uq1BbSqM No.520028 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Many of you are pretending like I was dead, but the truth is that I've been married and moved to Australia.
Now I'm a daddy of 2 kids, and my life is great. So eat my shit haters
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Graham Bangerkadge - Fri, 17 Nov 2017 17:21:01 EST ID:La64au5G No.520111 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>no trip
>magically isnt a fatass living in moms basement in ireland anymore
>had two kids in the span of 3years
>cant even fill in the blank to the phrase he coined himself
>gets the country he lived in wrong.

checkmate son imposter confirmed
Martin Mebberlot - Fri, 17 Nov 2017 23:11:26 EST ID:BoXXADnx No.520120 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You've embarrassed yourself more than the OP tbh.
John Pullerway - Sat, 18 Nov 2017 03:59:58 EST ID:Hx/5rY4q No.520122 Ignore Report Quick Reply
my nigra plz i dont give a fuck what idiots on an anonymous imageboard think.

i just dont feel people should disrespect an old friend.
Emma Bocklelore - Sat, 18 Nov 2017 21:59:26 EST ID:37djlT33 No.520136 Ignore Report Quick Reply
The ruse is up no ones buying your bullshit


Betsy Smalldock - Tue, 28 Nov 2017 20:40:24 EST ID:3f3vk1ax No.520364 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Dead men's words hold no meaning.

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