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Getting Over An Inferiority Complex by Sophie Blummerstodge - Mon, 12 Dec 2016 20:48:26 EST ID:wcR9wfzO No.511517 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So I found out that for virtually all of my life since I was 14 years old or so, that I have an inferiority complex. People were able to tell because I have a lot of hatred for people, but feel as if I'm trash.

I want to get rid of it, but I have no idea how. I've just been mentally tortured for so long. Do you guys know how to get over one?
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Shit Murdson - Mon, 02 Jan 2017 15:14:38 EST ID:9B6U+M4D No.512064 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512060
In the past, I was depressed. My best was, and never will be, good enough for the success I desire. Me, my friends, my family, we all had high expectations for me. And I was depressed precisely because I was trying my best and failing at every turn. The second I stopped trying was the second I stopped being depressed. It's pretty simple. You know how bootstrap republicans are always saying "society doesn't owe you shit"? Well I don't owe society shit. There's absolutely no reason to torture myself by putting in maximum effort.

>if your lot in life is a bog brusher, you might as well clean those toilets, clean them well
Pffft fuck that. You sound like you've never held a shit job because you were born into privilege. No one appreciates your hard work when you're a bottom-rung worker, even your actual employers. Especially your employers. Do the bare minimum to not get fired and:
>go home early
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Samuel Buzzman - Mon, 02 Jan 2017 18:14:01 EST ID:hhQhcuad No.512080 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512064
I think you misunderstood me a bit.

When I say put in maximum effort I mean to get the most out of life. Not for the sake of society (though some people genuinely do feel better doing that) but for you. If doing the bare minimum and going home early is what makes you happy then do it. But the point is if that's genuinely what will make you happiest do it. If you are in the best position you can be making the most of that position then at least no matter how shit things are you can be satisfied with you, the only thing in life you're stuck with until you die.

The problem is a lot of people don't try at all. They come here post about how they hate all these things in their life, get advice on changing it and dismiss it even though it absolutely is more likely to work out than their current choices. The truth is that they're taking something which is easier short term but will make them vastly more miserable overall. Like after a short period of time their life will be better by enough to hugely offset the effort.

You absolutely always should put maximum effort in. But I don't mean into stuff that makes you miserable, I mean into making yourself as happy as you can be.

I have been depressed as fuck and I too am a massive under achiever. I have worked some shit jobs, was unable to find a permanent job for years at a time, developed insomnia due to anxiety. I that what you're saying isn't necessarily wrong but that some people also use it an excuse to justify taking the short term easy route. I dislike being told I am priveledged because it's an assumption people make. My sister went to a different school than me so I only found out years later, she would act up and they'd let her get away with it because she was one of those kids with a difficult home life. I just got my head down and shut up but the only difference in our home lives was I had a hormonal bitch of a sister yelling at me if I so much as looked at her wrong while she had a much more agreeable brother who kept his head down and just lay on the floor all evening wishing he could die but being sure he'd fuck up suicide and everyone would hate him more. So my point is, I have been up and I have been down, I have failed and been beaten my demons and beaten that back. What works for me might not work for you but I know what worked for me.

Also I appreciate that not everyone can succeed. But also that I think we should respect the people doing the shit jobs. I genuinely believe if someone is doing well enough at a full time job they should be able to pay their bills and have enough money to enjoy a few things, have at least a reasonable set of opportunities for their children and reasonable healthcare. I think it's awful that this frequently isn't true. And that we look down on such people. I said I've worked some shit jobs. I did retail for 3 months and that is something I couldn't go back to. Most customer facing cashiers couldn't do the job I do, but I respect them because I couldn't do their job.

Oh yeah also where I said "more likely" you never know the outcome. It's not even that you get the best results. Sometimes you make the best decision and it just works out far worse than making a worse decision. But with all you knew it was clearly best. Sometimes the massively less likely outcome happens. We have no way to know that and it's dumb to bank on that. So sometimes you're going to get fucked by making the best decision. We need to remember.
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Hannah Blythelock - Mon, 02 Jan 2017 18:33:51 EST ID:85DHLyS/ No.512081 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>512053
Its Ok to hate people, there are good reasons for it, just accept you are misantropic(not in a bad sence). On being trash theres no other way arround it, you have to put in work, read, excersize, do something that is constructive for your life and you will feel acordingly about yourself.
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Martin Sottingshaw - Mon, 02 Jan 2017 22:57:22 EST ID:9B6U+M4D No.512089 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>512080
I *think* we should respect the people doing the shit jobs too. You have to realize that holding this sentiment puts us in a tiny, tiny minority.

Anyway, I guess the point that we both agree on is this: if you're not happy with your life change something. In my case I was depressed when I was trying hard and I stopped being depressed when I stopped "reaching for the stars." Maybe plenty of people on this board are somehow depressed while not trying, in which case they should start trying and see how they feel then. I just don't really understand that personally. But I'm constantly told (mainly by my family) that I'm "taking the easy way out" or "not applying myself" and it super-fucking-pisses me off. Why are they trying to make me feel bad when I'm enjoying my life? Why the unsolicited advice? I guess it's different here, but much of the solicited advice I see on this board reminds me of that so I gotta speak up. I just wanna make it clear that there's another answer:

It's clear the game is rigged, so the only winning move is not to play (or play as little as you can get away with).
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Clara Sunkinnune - Fri, 13 Jan 2017 01:21:44 EST ID:wcR9wfzO No.512383 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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OP here; just an update. I feel a little better, because I haven't drank any alcohol or smoked in roughly two weeks. I haven't gone without alcohol for that long in about three years, so this is a good thing. I honestly feel like getting drunk every night is what put myself in such a rut, which I sort of knew even back then, but at the same time I didn't really have any opportunities, so I don't know what I would have done differently. Whenever I'm in some sort of emotional crisis, I feel the urge to get high or drunk; I still get that way, despite being dry for a while. But on the whole, I haven't felt this good in a while, which is great because I was starting to think that it was all downhill from here.

>>512005

Yeah, it made me think, too. We are so motivated to be successful, but there are only so many ways to do that, and only so many openings. There is a place in the middle, but most just feel like they get the shaft in life, even some of the ones on top. Oddly, some homeless people (the least successful of them all) love life, so in a way they can see right through all of the bullshit that we've bought into. I guess that I'm in the middle ground; I know that what is considered success is not something that I really want for myself, but at the same time, I don't feel like I'm really where I should be in life. I'm no longer so down on myself about it, since now I'm starting to resolve it, but still...I'm not sure. Much self-doubt left in me, still.

I do have to reach out, but I've just been alone all my life. I live in a university town, and I get negative vibes from people. I would leave, but I still have a friend or two here, and I don't want to abandon them. Plus, leaving takes money to do; time isn't a problem, since that is a luxury that I always have, for some reason (the best luxury you can have, really). I do have interests, but my personality doesn't gel well with most people. Plus, my interests are esoteric (fringe philosophy, herbalism, fringe spirituality, psychology) and I just don't have much energy to do a lot with myself, although that part is getting better due to no longer being a drunk.


Changing bad habbits by Danish Male 21yo - Thu, 12 Jan 2017 20:03:22 EST ID:vN2flacF No.512369 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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hi b/ros. been addicted to drugs n alcohol for most my childhood (teen years) now im soon 22 and im tired and depressed and kinda lonely. been close to insanity and slicing my arms just for attention that help is needed. now im living alone got Maybe 2 or 3 friends only see 1 of them, rarely. have had relationships and encounters with sociopaths alot (so if u got questions bout that plz ask) they fucked my selfesteem up many times. i feel more mature and emotionally ready for a new beginning than ive ever felt, but my habbits are keeping me in this shitty circle of heavy drinking, lazyness and i never eat healthy. how do i start if i dont got any social interractions everyday. ( being isolated makes u not care and it makes you fucked in the head. advice from oldfags with experience would be awesome. thanks. cheers
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Betsy Snodville - Thu, 12 Jan 2017 20:05:26 EST ID:vN2flacF No.512370 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512369 btw my balls apparently wanted to say hi too lol
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Phoebe Blonningbury - Thu, 12 Jan 2017 20:16:01 EST ID:XNHppQwf No.512371 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>i feel more mature and emotionally ready for a new beginning than ive ever felt,
>posts balls
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Charlotte Dashbock - Thu, 12 Jan 2017 21:00:47 EST ID:EF2uJ5Hb No.512373 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512369
Unless you are completely at breaking point and you're one of those miracle cases that "sorts their life out" and "has turned their life around" then chances are you're gonna continue to not give a shit for a very long time. There's no real way to get motivated quickly, it takes fucking years.
It's because to do something like this, you have to do it for yourself. Not for anyone else, but for you. It's an oxymoron, but you have to start caring about yourself before you can improve your own life. You have to start finding things you like about yourself, and working on those things. Maybe you did sports as a kid, maybe you're artistic or crafty, maybe you can make a mean dinner. Work at it, force yourself to delve into one hobby, one passion that you really care about, and start improving on that, research it, hone your skills, become the best person you know at your favourite thing.

You're still gonna feel shit and most likely hardly ever have the motivation to do anything, even things you love, but taking time out of your day to do something like that gives you that tiny thing to be proud of. Doing just one thing per week that you can be proud of, that you can be annoyed at that you didn't do better, that you completely cocked up but at least you tried, is better than doing nothing.

Chances are you'lll fall back into your ways 100x over, people are shit and very much creatures of habit, but eventually you'll be able to take on more things at once to be proud of, to motivate you to do a boring chore so you can reward yourself with doing something awesome. It's not about telling yourself "I have to start feeling better about myself", because words of encouragement and trying to think positive thoughts only get so far before they're tiring and irritating. It's about doing something FOR YOU, to make YOU feel proud, to show you CAN do this, and to have a day or two of peace and happiness before the storm cloud envelopes you again, and each time, the memory of that event will be a ray of sunshine cutting through those clouds.

p.s. a good start would be not posting your balls and an easily identifiable tattoo i…
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Clara Sunkinnune - Thu, 12 Jan 2017 22:46:30 EST ID:wcR9wfzO No.512381 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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I recently am trying to quit alcohol and tobacco (haven't drank or smoked in two weeks or so, so as such I believe that is a start), but I really should have done that quite a bit earlier. It wasn't because I didn't know better, but because I had nothing else. I didn't even start drinking heavily until I was 26 and I didn't smoke until I was 29; I started those things because my mother was dying and I was stuck around my family, who were abusive to me at the time. I had no other way of coping, and almost no friends.

Now my mother is dead (has been for almost five years), and I'm away from my family. I still relied on alcohol, though, because I had no other method or means to cope with my severe anxiety and depression. The thing about alcohol, however, is that in my case it only gives relief temporarily; the next day I would be filled with a rage and so much hatred. Alcohol has a tendency to compound anxiety and depression, not do away with it.

In short, I quit drinking because I had done so for over six years and it only made things worse for me. Nothing gets better, or gets solved, when you drink a six-pack of pints every night. Sure, sobriety sucks for a while, but at least in the long term you will have far less problems.

It took me a while to figure it out, or at least to be motivated to actually stop. I don't think it was because I was weak so much as that I felt that I had nothing else for me in life. But now, I'm motivated to try to actually do something with my life, like get back into game creation or growing plants or something.


I miss this girl so much yo by Archie Blarrywill - Tue, 10 Jan 2017 20:00:12 EST ID:zOfwhgti No.512306 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I became friends with this girl, and by the second time we were hanging out, we started fucking. It wasn't just any regular old boring sex, we were FUCKING. First time was for three hours straight in my backseat. The sex was crazy, she even admitted to rubbing one out to me, daydreaming about us having sex.

Friendships don't exactly start out like that I guess...ones that last don't anyway.
Anyway I started having feelings for her, and we were talking about dating while we were meeting up for sex 3-4 times a week. Eventually things started to change, I couldn't help but feel a certain away about her. Take away that crazy sex and I guess I would've been able to loosen up around her a bit but I never could because whenever we were around each other our lips were touching and we ended up being naked together again.

Eventually she told me that she didn't want to hang out with me anymore or talk anymore through a text message. I remember I had just gotten to work when she sent me the text. It was so...unexpected I was distraught. I lost another friend, and I lost someone that I spent a great deal of time with and had a lot of memories...she was gone and nothing I could say would change her mind. She never really gave me any explanation at all.

I did find out she had gotten back together with her ex (I had an idea that this is what happened and why she never explained her reason to me), despite telling me she never would. I feel like if she had just been honest with me then I would've had a lot easier of a time healing.

After that time I had moved out of the house where we were fucking at, because being there evoked so much emotion of in me I couldn't bear sleeping in that bed because I'd lay there and think about everything we did in that room. I remember going back there and I would tear up so hard because of how painful it was.

As corny as it sounds, I think I'm in love with this girl. We haven't spoken since the end of September. I think about her everyday and all day long. I still wonder if she thinks about me (there's no way she doesn't right? her ex and I have the first same name!). Today she popped up on my people…
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Phineas Mabberford - Tue, 10 Jan 2017 20:16:19 EST ID:WCiWyIpM No.512307 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Something tells me that if she got back with her ex right after she was fucking you then a relationship wouldn't be the best idea with her. Are these the circumstances from which mature relationships come? I'm not saying that you shouldn't have tried if you had the chance, but maybe the sex would have been the best part. I'm sure it would get old, and you'd want more of each other. Would you be the type of people to give that to each other? Who knows man. I'm sure she still has feelings for you, but she has a history with that other guy, so it's not surprising she'd pick him over you. No offense.

Don't bottle anything in, don't try to be something you're not. Just feel what you're feeling and you'll right yourself quicker than you think.
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Archie Blarrywill - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 00:11:57 EST ID:zOfwhgti No.512315 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512307
Definitely that was the thing. The sex was amazing, but I wanted more of her. Not in a selfish sense necessarily, but her body wasn't the only thing about her that I enjoyed. She was also a really cool person, but she definitely had some baggage. More than I would be bringing into a relationship.

That was definitely it, I wanted more than just sex at that point. Yeah only she knows if she still has feelings for me or not. There's more than a few reasons that I believe she went back to him, I was always told by her friends that she wasn't happy when she was with him & that dude had a small weiner. Not that that matters to me but it definitely makes women unhappy in a sexual relationship with someone does it not?

I wish I would hear from her or something...just a hello. Anything. ANY FUCKING THING. You're right though. Four months ago I couldnt step into my house without bawling. It's a lot easier now I can actually live but I still think about her constantly and just feel numb.
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David Gocklestock - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 11:59:42 EST ID:35+jbzpY No.512324 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Damn man. You just described my first summer fling to the T, minus the part of moving out. This chick and I met, thought she was super hot, we banged on the first night and continued to bang consistently for a month, including next to a bonfire in the woods (I felt like a caveman tending a fire naked). I chilled with her friends who are cool people, she smoked a lot of weed. We talked about our past relationships quite a but, she made it seem like her most recent ex was way out of the picture. A month into knowing each other, she just texts me saying she doesn't think what we had was what she wanted and she got back with her ex so she can't see me any more. And that was it. Gone.

It's hard man but you'll hit ex to the next in no time, rest easy knowing you have the wherewithal to bounce back
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Archie Blarrywill - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 12:04:25 EST ID:zOfwhgti No.512326 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512324
Wow this is similar to what happened to me. Only thing she never told me she got back with her ex. I found out from one of her friends on facebook, but I had already figured that's what happened. I think we were both rebound man, they had already knew they were gonna get back with their exes more than likely. Girls do this a lot when they get bored and just want to fuck someone else for awhile, then they get back with their ex for security or whatever.

It's really fucked up because it makes you feel so used. I am super cautious about everything women say now ever since I met her. It's really hard for me to believe anything they say now.
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Walter Cevingridge - Thu, 12 Jan 2017 22:15:13 EST ID:zOfwhgti No.512378 Ignore Report Quick Reply
bump


What do I do now? by Angus Henningnig - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 20:27:37 EST ID:r7Plxs2z No.512344 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I've dealt with the "I'm 23 and haven't enjoyed life much yet" issue by moving to my own apartment in Florida, and selling pot and amphetamines with my bf, cuz after not living much for an extended period, you get manic and experimental. That was in 2013/14. In 2015, I moved to LA and worked photography and (legal) sales gigs. I felt so empty after that, in 2016 I moved to Vermont and built an Earth house on a vacant lot in Burlington. Life is kinda boring now, though simple. I moved here to work. I'm a photographer. I feel like no one is real, anywhere! Like I don't really fit a mold. I'm lonely and don't know who I'm looking for, as far as persona, or if I want a partner or just a social group.
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Angus Henningnig - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 20:50:38 EST ID:r7Plxs2z No.512346 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512345
Writing, music,
There are groups but I haven't talked to people much since I was in Hollywood.
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Basil Menderford - Thu, 12 Jan 2017 00:35:54 EST ID:nqZxDylZ No.512350 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512344
Looks like you're lacking one of the most important needs of a human being: a real community. Most of us are, yey competition society. May I suggest looking into the "alternate" societies here on Earth? Squattheplanet.org might be a good place to get a vibe of what's around. If none of this applies/helps I do wish you success in figuring it out and setting yourself on the path to have it.
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David Greenville - Thu, 12 Jan 2017 08:59:24 EST ID:xorMz/zL No.512362 Ignore Report Quick Reply
As someone who has lived in Florida their whole life, what the hell you.you thinking coming here, from California no less...
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Jack Chillyham - Thu, 12 Jan 2017 14:39:08 EST ID:tNhgQN2u No.512364 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512362 no, first I lived in Florida, then Cali, then Vermont.
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Jack Chillyham - Thu, 12 Jan 2017 14:40:11 EST ID:tNhgQN2u No.512365 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512362 no, first I lived in Florida, then California, then vermont.


"Life is a journey" by Nigel Cablingkeck - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 18:25:49 EST ID:sll0S1uX No.512339 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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What the fuck is this advice? Is this the right way to live?
I'm a very results oriented person. I want the end goal, I don't give a duck a bouts "enjoying the journey". I'm willing to work for my goals sure but I never get the joy out of doing something "just for fun" or "just to participate". I want to win, make big money, fuck hot chicks, collect degrees, and literally develop a record of success.

How do I move forward with this in mind? When will I be satisfied with myself? Is the proper way to"enjoy the journey" and essentially watch yourself die?
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Cornelius Hullerdale - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 18:38:22 EST ID:SvrL9OfC No.512341 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512339
> When will I be satisfied with myself?
Never. That's why people are saying this shit in the first place nigga. They're telling you to find satisfaction in doing things instead of getting things, because as soon as you get things you're no longer getting things, and you have to go get more. You don't buy a game to be finished with it after so many hours, you buy it to play it. There's nothing wrong with goals but they shouldn't overshadow everything else.
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Betsy Gackleville - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 18:38:41 EST ID:9vn86lM+ No.512342 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512339

OP, there is no end, its all a journey, its walking up an endless staircase, its walking through a tunnel toward the light which you'll never reach, this is life.
you are always moving forward even if you think you're stationary.
Life is a journey is a phrase to say "enjoy your time" dont go seeking an end goal because you'll never be finished, there is no end, if you want a mercedes benz and you chase it and get it, then what? what are you going to chase after the mercedes benz?

So its not about not achieving anything, its about not focusing on the end, but walking down a path in where you achieve something you want, but knowing that after that, there is more path, and more path and more path and it keeps going till you cant move your legs anymore and your breath becomes short.

Watch yourself die? just, enjoy the journey man, you're going to die one day, smell the flowers, listen to the birds sing, feel the warmth of the sun on your skin.

Theres always something that you're chasing, so enjoy the ride, look out the windows.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dhNFSimQw2A
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Hamilton Dishhare - Thu, 12 Jan 2017 05:39:18 EST ID:5JYKa3yb No.512360 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512339
Life isn't a journey, this is wrong thinking and will cause you unhappiness.
Life is a dance, my friend.

Think about that, maybe while dancing a bit to a song you like, you'll get it soon enough.
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Sophie Nonningstud - Thu, 12 Jan 2017 07:53:30 EST ID:Icl260aU No.512361 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I think "life is a journey" refers the satisfying feeling when you look back at the memories of the work you did to achieve the end goal. That's just the way I see it.

It's all subjective. I share OP's annoyance of stupid motivational cliché sayings, they usually come up from those who went through a 12 step program [step 1: recognize that there is a higher power (lmfao yeah right)].
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Matilda Fonnerfoot - Thu, 12 Jan 2017 15:34:39 EST ID:zbKXnohS No.512366 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512360
No wonder I hate dancing.


Can't stand current generation by Barnaby Bebberwet - Tue, 10 Jan 2017 07:20:42 EST ID:ylVXlyBf No.512291 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I don't know why, but I hate current generation of people, fucking hate the new music, singers, movies, movie stars and popstars, everything seems too fucking faggy and shitty.
I tryed to accept everything, but I can't! I don't know, everything doesen't seem's to be as good as was in past......
Even the past gay singers look more straight then actually the current straight ones.
The woman look so bitchy and unnotural then were in past, everything is to damn facke and shitty.
It's like everything's changed and still changing in a bad way. Am I the only one who feel this way?
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Lillian Drinningbury - Tue, 10 Jan 2017 14:20:06 EST ID:f3p2z4Lf No.512303 Ignore Report Quick Reply
you only listed mainstream media
get real and maybe you'll find real people
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Cornelius Hullerdale - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 18:33:04 EST ID:SvrL9OfC No.512340 Ignore Report Quick Reply
This is just being a person. Nobody that isn't retarded likes that shit. It's weird that you're stuck on it though, because there's plenty more out there in terms of music and whatnot. Pretty much everything is gonna be "faggy" and "shitty" man, you've got to find the things that aren't. Things were always this way, you were just too young, "shitty", and "faggy" yourself to realize it before.
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Shit Cogglenetch - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 18:55:10 EST ID:2uEURCuh No.512343 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Sounds like you just need to get fleeky, Cuz.
There's bare peng shit being shotted out to us, I think you should lighten up.
https://soundcloud.com/ayane-fukumi/you-reposted-in-the-right-meme-friend
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Clara Clarringnark - Thu, 12 Jan 2017 01:38:21 EST ID:vKvaev27 No.512351 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512303
Haha right? OP seems like he wants a reason to be angry. Sounds super edgy. Don't surround yourself with the bullshit OP
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Matilda Fonnerfoot - Thu, 12 Jan 2017 15:36:28 EST ID:zbKXnohS No.512367 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512351
Yeah, there's nothing to be angry about in society right now!

oh wait lol nb


Shame at the life I live by Hamilton Charringforth - Mon, 09 Jan 2017 07:04:52 EST ID:WCiWyIpM No.512250 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I feel ashamed. I'm 24 and I really haven't lived much at all. I only got tastes of it when I was younger, but I wasn't the real deal. Every now and again I suppose I catch wind of people who are real people. They socialize, really talk to and interact with all sorts of people. They have colourful personalities and colourful outfits. I enamoured myself with something that wasn't so; it doesn't exude life because there's nothing actually to it, it was just an abstract idea I took to be reality. They're okay with being flawed to each other. I needed to be perfect.
I wish that I didn't care so much about being perfect back in the day. I wish I had a better attitude. I wish I wasn't too scared to be alive, and that I wasn't so cynical. It feels like it's too late to do anything. I see people alive and I see me, not having lived. It makes me want to blow my head in. I wish I was cool. Not bullshit cool but real cool. ALIVE. I'm too scared. I don't believe that I can do it. I have no will to live. I just want to be alive.
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Sidney Mappersick - Tue, 10 Jan 2017 04:13:43 EST ID:zbKXnohS No.512288 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>512287
PS: It's not getting better, either.
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Molly Cimmleridge - Tue, 10 Jan 2017 22:35:56 EST ID:PfKbqA4c No.512313 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I completely and entirely feel what OP feels. We're the same age, but I feel like I haven't lived these past 6 years at all.
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Edward Tillingstock - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 22:26:22 EST ID:ehhnNOgT No.512347 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512313
yeah, me too. I'm 23, it's been 6 years sinceI graduated and I feel like I've done nothing. I've decided to quit my job and get a bike, maybe strap an electric engine and battery on there and hit the road. I just want to get some life experiences. If I set out each day with no obligations other than to get some interesting and valuable life experiences, I think I can do it. I can set tasks for myself that are challenging and will lead to personal growth and self discovery. At least, that's the hope. I gave notice and now I'm coasting, slowly planning. I'm scared, but every day I live like this, the thought that I might continue on in this rut for the rest of my life scares me a hell of a lot more.
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Archie Pallyworth - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 23:38:43 EST ID:SvrL9OfC No.512348 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512287
Between the social stigma, how much our medical and psychological practices have changed, and antidepressants that have come out, it's not surprising to see the rate of diagnosis go up... at all.
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Cyril Clenderbun - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 23:40:41 EST ID:0jUH3UkL No.512349 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>512347
good luck broseph
just dont get too cooked on them trail drugs haha


Oliver Twist eat your heart out by Hannah Gurrymudge - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 00:55:36 EST ID:b117o51b No.512316 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>be kid
>parents constantly in and out of jail
>13
>mom kills herself
>over the next five years, exaddict dad drinks himself to death
>be 18 and on my own in a cold, cruel, unfair world
Now I'm 20, got my own place with a gf of 3 years
But I can't shake the feelings of death. I wanna die, but I keep on living. Everyone my age always talks about their family... But I'm so alone, now. Even my girlfriend has parents. I've never felt this kind of isolation. No one knows how I feel, I wish to relate to someone in a similar situation, but when I talk to my peers, they just look at me like I'm a sad spectacle. I never asked for this. I loved my parents.
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Hannah Gurrymudge - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 03:08:24 EST ID:b117o51b No.512320 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512317
What about that doesn't make sense?
We started dating when I was 17 in 2013.
And I try to, I have friends I smoke with, but I feel they only hang out for my weed. My D&D group disbanded because people never showed up.
I play guitar, and I dream of making music, but I feel like that's a dead end too
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Phoebe Himmerdit - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 12:02:52 EST ID:1hqogB9q No.512325 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Become closer with your GF's family
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Cornelius Hullerdale - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 13:59:13 EST ID:SvrL9OfC No.512330 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512316
Your problems, excluding how you got them, aren't all that uncommon man. I think a big part of what 's keeping you from connecting to others (considering you've got a long term relationship going and appear to have friends you're not doing too terribly socially) is the fact that they look down at you like you're someone or something to be pitied. That widens the ever present gap between you and other people. See, there's always going to be some barrier between you and others, that's part of being a human being, but there's definitely something to be said about the gap widening more than it has to. Maybe you just wish somebody would treat you like a regular person even after knowing who you are and your story? That way they don't view you as a victim or whatever, but they view you as you and still accept you as you are?

As far as music goes, unless you're some kind of prodigy or have great connections, it's always something you're going to have to do as a hobby... or at least it is never going to be a primary source of income. That's just how it is man, lot's of musicians have to come to terms with that at some time or another.
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Nathaniel Crattingworth - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 15:56:12 EST ID:3XdLerx/ No.512335 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512316
Very similar boat mang. It's very tough and people just don't get it. Try to just be friends with like everyone's families. It's the best you can do
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Walter Hoddleshit - Thu, 12 Jan 2017 22:15:54 EST ID:F6BBbLXR No.512379 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>512316
>>512320

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dATuq8O3920
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jo3zAdXM4Tk

nb


Living like an old man. by D A N K D R E A M S - Tue, 10 Jan 2017 00:55:19 EST ID:QIycI9eo No.512281 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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23 year old, male, from the USA.
I haven't been single in 8 years. Yep, you read that right. I'm starting to get to a point where I realize my window to sexual conquest are going to shut for good. Problem is, I sincerely love my girl. Go ahead, call me an asshole, but I have never cheated on her. My problem mostly lies wherein my desires involve BDSM, and my SO knows about it. She just doesnt have the personality to partake. Shes a very "Good Girl" type chick. Never even smoked weed, and rarely drinks. She has told me shes uncomfortable being dominate, or being dominated in that extreme. I honestly don't think I could berate or really dominate her either. I love her too much. We have a pretty normal sex life, other than the fact that i am the way I am, and she is pansexual and desires sex from a more feminine partner. Being a man, this does not bother me in the least (who doesn't like watching girls bang?).

Anyway.... We have discussed polyamory before, and shes very wishy washy on the subject. She seems to really like the idea until I get involved. She went as far as to start a OKC account to find a female partner. She tries not to be jealous, but I try and respect her and not force the issue when she gets upset. I reassure her I love her, and don't want the same type of relationship with any other girl. She always seems to go back to her argument that she really needs a female in her sex life, starting the cycle all over again.

The big problem is, I'm not getting any younger, shes not getting any younger (shes actually 2 years older than me), and I'm starting to fear that it will never happen. Mostly because I don't want to hurt her, and because she get so jealous. But at the same time, I feel like the chances of us finding a female thats gonna like us both, be into BDSM, and not pick favorites is almost impossible.

I feel I should be out doing crazy shit like 20-somethings do. Making friends and having fun. I dont even have friends anymore to go out with. Most of them have turned into basement dwelling neckbeards, or reclusive drug addicts, who get high and talk about how they know more about music, or anime, than any other human alive. Shits depressing …
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Eugene Blatherford - Tue, 10 Jan 2017 08:06:47 EST ID:s7oi+8P7 No.512294 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512292
OH, but this:

> Being a man, this does not bother me in the least (who doesn't like watching girls bang?)

As somebody with more than a few years of poly under my belt; this is a fantasy. If i'm on a date with somebody else I probably either want it to be strictly a 1on1 date, or I want a threesome scene with my partner that we've all talked about. (which sometimes *is* a hot voyeur scene where one of us is watching... but that's actually a threesome and does require mutual consent and involvement from all parties)

If I just brought a date home and my partner started watching shit would be creepy as fuck.

Sorry, I just had to check that kind of "Lesbians are just doing it for men's attention!" kind of thinking cuz it's so busted.
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Barnaby Bebberwet - Tue, 10 Jan 2017 08:16:11 EST ID:ylVXlyBf No.512296 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Man, I will not reccomend you to do a 3some with a other woman, cause in someday your gf will ask you for a 3some with a other guy, something like double penetration....
Keep that away from your mind, after 8 years of relationship you better think about merrying her and having kids. If you're already about 8 years togather than that means that you both know each other well, and will never find that kind of a partner to stay with that long, go to other city and have sex with 2 hot chicks if you want, and keep that secret from her, I know it's cheating, but one time is not a big crime, if you can keep it secret of course.
Beside the man is the fucker, the woman is the one who's getting fucked, there's a big difference in those 2 things.
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Polly Bluffingway - Tue, 10 Jan 2017 09:31:15 EST ID:WCiWyIpM No.512297 Ignore Report Quick Reply
real talk dawg i'd end the relationship if my bitch suggested poly

if you feel trapped i'd STRONGLY consider getting out. safety is not worth free, nor do i personally believe that genuine love exists with feeling trapped.

imo poly doesn't work, but what do i care. do what you feel is best, just don't settle in matters like this. if she don't want it, you can't get over excruciating jealousy, nor should you try. don't listen to mr buzzfeed over there. don't try to have your cake and eat it too
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Eugene Blatherford - Tue, 10 Jan 2017 09:31:46 EST ID:s7oi+8P7 No.512298 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512296
> Beside the man is the fucker, the woman is the one who's getting fucked, there's a big difference in those 2 things.

I mean, I understand the mechanics here; but can you clarify what you mean by that?
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Martha Dinningwater - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 15:25:42 EST ID:tNhgQN2u No.512334 Ignore Report Quick Reply
The problem you may also be facing, having been loyal to the same girl since age 15, is the need to be dominant. She likes feminine partners, possibly for the same reason? I hate to be the one to recomend this, but how about a "time off" and she can explore lesbianism and you can have fun with a college freshman as you explore the world together! Not the whole world, but ya feel me?


Technocracy and the Fifth Reich by Ebenezer Cledgefoot - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 02:58:34 EST ID:Oa8HzK+C No.512318 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I fantasize about a technocratic transhumanist future where the masses and the old elites are dead, or dying. I am God on Earth the Apothesis of Christ and I decide who live or dies. I am the Absolute Monarch my Regieme is not the Acienne Regieme it is the Regieme Moderne.A world where the intelligencia listens to Dark Side of the Moon.I am Napoleon and Caesar incarnate. Those worthy are able to continue their progeny via human cloning at my will all others will face the oblivion of time.

>I clearly have narcissitic personality disorder.
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Wesley Hishson - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 03:34:59 EST ID:SorHqVtJ No.512321 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I share your dream/disorder.
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Nell Gingersine - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 08:25:05 EST ID:F6BBbLXR No.512322 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>512318
>Dork Side of the Moon
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David Gocklestock - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 08:33:00 EST ID:35+jbzpY No.512323 Ignore Report Quick Reply
What are you going to do with all the Asians, OP?
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Phineas Mabberford - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 12:20:29 EST ID:WCiWyIpM No.512327 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512323
They will all be killed, of course.
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Walter Wacklefoot - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 14:48:34 EST ID:DfxzjMLa No.512333 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>512327
>>512323
Im not proposing genocide, but rather democide.
So of course I will let some Asian people live.


Thread For Hate by Sheev - Mon, 02 Jan 2017 15:05:20 EST ID:dyIjIiuw No.512062 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I got a call earlier. "Hey, we really appreciate you driving 10 hours for two separate interviews, but we're looking for someone more... racially diverse. Sorry!"

So, with my white skin ruining my hopes of scoring my dream job, I decided to head to an interview for another job, 3 hours away. My phone died thirty minutes out, leaving me without GPS. After multiple separate toll booth tickets (no money), I got pulled over for doing 50 in what I thought was a 40 (it was a 30). So in one day, multiple toll tickets, a $100+ speeding ticket, lost my dream job, and then also my back up job, and my car just got a flat tire, and I owe $100,000+ in indentured servitude- I mean college- and you know what?

I would kill myself if the genes that make that easier weren't already extinguished from other an heroes. So instead, I'll just hate. The world is fucked. There may be some hope sure, but fuck you this is a thread about hatred. If you feel the way I do, come post. Nothing else. Just let the hate flow through you.
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Fucking Gashdeg - Tue, 10 Jan 2017 00:16:13 EST ID:+cUd/x7M No.512279 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512278

I hate to doublepost but it was pretty fucked up of this person to slap that pizza out of my hand and wtf I hate everyone now.
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Edward Fecklepork - Tue, 10 Jan 2017 00:34:25 EST ID:SvrL9OfC No.512280 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512275
You just agreed with what I said. All I did was respond to your quip about knowing more white people who happen to be on welfare. My whole point was that, of course you'd know more people, there are more white people than any other group in the country by a wide margin. Saying poor white people is in itself baiting somebody though, so its not a big surprise somebody did something to try and upset you too. The idea that welfare has nothing to do with race was my point from the beginning, and I was just pointing out how dumb your comeback was because it didn't actually say much of anything. If you don't want racists to respond to your posts like racists try not to attract them in the first place by saying shit like poor white people, lol
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Hamilton Shittingford - Tue, 10 Jan 2017 00:58:08 EST ID:CfonqoA0 No.512282 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512272

I just said that to trigger you cause you're being a faggot

>>512276

I understand you're saying that to piss me off, likely due to the welfare comment, but I just want to let you know it's more complicated than my explanation here. Not gonna post my resume on a chan.
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Fucking Clunkinwell - Tue, 10 Jan 2017 21:49:17 EST ID:xQY7/x+6 No.512312 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512278
Couldn't have handled that more appropriatley. Perfect
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Betsy Pummlesutch - Wed, 11 Jan 2017 13:11:51 EST ID:hhQhcuad No.512328 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512278
Only way your response could have been better would have been if you'd said "I thought you wanted a pizza the action" as she ran off. I think what you did was a good reaction.

People suck, but people can be great. You are an example of this. You made all sorts of assumptions about why this women was here and how she insinuated yourself with this group which is shit. However you are also capable of rubbing that pizza in her face so you're also great.

I think you're objectifying everyone here. Expecting "social skills" that don't really exist blah blah blah. This is the thread for people who just want to be angry though so I don't expect you to care about anything except this:

Good reaction. Seriously. Many people will have laughed at your little slice of life story.


I feel like shit by Ernest Goodfield - Tue, 10 Jan 2017 18:49:27 EST ID:oLbh1+52 No.512304 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I am shit. I feel like I just bother everyone. I think too highly of myself when I actually suck. It's weird now I feel like I'm repelling everyone when I used to get along with everyone. Like I'm just fundamentally more annoying now. I am just shit
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Doris Sillychag - Tue, 10 Jan 2017 20:41:19 EST ID:J5FcTPOb No.512309 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Examples? Know any instances when you felt this way? When was the first time you felt it?


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