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just need to vent by Hamilton Sannerfere - Mon, 20 Mar 2017 16:01:35 EST ID:rsP7RrTt No.514645 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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hey i just need to let this out and someone hear it

Seriously, man, I am so sick of smoking away every god. damn. day.
I can't even believe it; 4 years since I started smoking weed, and the last 3 1/2 full fucking years have been spent high or miserable.
I only realized because my friends were talking about fucking parties of all thigns and tracing back the last three years of birthday parties we threw for our friend, I just saw it all, three years I barely even remember, barely can stand to think about, just bullshit between a few drug filled high notes, barely feel like anything has changed.
My hands found my face and I just sat there, staring into the ground like "what the fuck..."

8 years ago I had just entered college- the town I came from was a backwards shithole and I had been basically homeless and couch surfing the last two years of high school, but I put all my energy into keeping a high gpa, and got into a out of state college. I was crazy into being a fighter, I was all about doing whatever needed to be done, overachiever, never even touched drugs. I stayed outside a lot because it was the only thing i could appreciate for free. I poured all my crazy into art and learning and trying to move past the bullshit I grew up in. I moved, left basically nothing behind but a few friends, living out of my truck, made it through two years stressed out keeping everything together- when my college said I owed them $8,0000 I didn't have before I could re-enroll. There was no one I could ask for this money, Soon after, lost my job- job market in this town was terrible, spent a year trying to save money between gigs and jobs and food and rent in winter, and came away with basically nothing except keeping the debt stable.
This destroyed most of my social life I had made and life just became a long series of constantly managing looking for work. Then my car died. I had no money to fix it or rent and was homeless again, and moved in with a friend in a different city.
I told my self, this is my new beginning, I'm starting from day one, right here!
Nothing worked out. I got a new job writing like crazy, I put a ton of a passion into it and tried to use it to rebuild my social life and connections and i did get recognition... most of what it got me was a lot of drama, and the impossible expectations of strangers. The jobs you get between internet writing don't provide that much. None of it was really enough to get anywhere, and then my friend lost there house and I got really sick and it caused all kinds of pain flair up and extreme exhaustion I and ended up moving in with an ex, living a mattress in their kitchen, because I was barely able to keep up day by day and only had the money i had saved and the internet to connect with people.

life just fucking fell away. Things got dark internally. I just barely could deal with trying to stay connected to people- I became so fucking depressed and avoided people. my old friends all thought I would "make it" and seemed disappointed in me. my close relationships were suffering and internally everything and everyone seemed meaningless, and i was starting to have serious breakdowns. my life reduced down to this shitty lonely room, staring at the roof, barely able to got up and down stairs. Barely able to think clearly.

But then, randomly, while at a free clinic trying to get anyone i could to look at my joint pain, I met this person I really clicked with- she introduced my to a bunch of herbal heath practices which ended up helping a lot with my exhaustion, and I was able to get to more doctors, and eventually started making a real recovery.
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Molly Cenderham - Mon, 20 Mar 2017 20:18:06 EST ID:n1yNxChx No.514647 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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i'm gonna say it's the weed, and anything else that you have going on that's fucking up your body. if weed is bad for you, it's bad for you. don't do it.
at least, that's my experience in my own life.
you can get your drive back, though i don't know exactly how. i think good health is the place to start.

that, and don't block out the sadness

good luck

girl by Samuel Grimdock - Wed, 15 Mar 2017 23:12:01 EST ID:fh02z0OB No.514480 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Met girl over summer, we hit it off, she started pursuing me, I kinda pushed her away for various reasons (mostly insecurity and I didn't know how to handle it), she moved on, I decided I wanted her pretty bad, we started hanging out again, she ended up fucking my friend after we all hung out, I got mad and told her not to talk to me unless she wanted to get together, she got mad at me and shit, basically they ended up in a relationship. I accepted it and let her become a friend. Then he dumped her and we started talking again for like a week, but I never made a move again because I'm fucking retarded, then they hooked up again after a party. So I told her not to talk to me unless those two are done and she wants to get together, and she basically just said "I'm sorry that's how you feel" or some shit.

Am I being a dick? I wasn't trying to be punitive or anything, I just really don't want to be the "friend" here. I don't want to pretend like it's fine when she's fucking our mutual friend and I'm obviously still into her. I want what I want and I don't want to settle on this. I mean, I'm talking to other girls and shit too, but she's really got me. I'm pretty sure I'm not gonna back down and let them make me into a "friend" of hers again, even if they continue with a relationship. It's not what I want. Am I being a dick? Like we're all in the same friend group and hang out every week or every other week or so to get fucked up. Idk man.
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Samuel Grimdock - Thu, 16 Mar 2017 17:18:05 EST ID:fh02z0OB No.514516 Ignore Report Quick Reply

At least I know I'm delusional though. That's why I told her we shouldn't talk in the first place. I know how awkward and shit it is to have someone pining after you and getting in their feelings about shit you were barely aware of. I've had girls act that way towards me, get mad at me, etc, all for shit that was barely on my radar at the time.

To be fair, I did hurt this girl over the summer. She was really into me, we would snap every day, she sent explicit stuff, etc. I can't even blame her for fucking the guy after a while because I was so fucked up in my head. I've been getting a lot better and focusing on growing as a person, becoming less of an anxious mess, etc, but I still have a lot of sexual insecurity so when things heat up with a girl I'm really into, I get a little distant. There's been other girls but idk, with them it just doesn't feel the same.

I guess I'll just do what I told her we'd do and not talk to her unless she ends up wanting me. Going back on that now would make me look like a weak little bitch again. I'm not really okay with being just friends with her, so fuck it. I couldn't think of a better way to handle this situation.
Walter Drengerstock - Thu, 16 Mar 2017 19:04:53 EST ID:S8aa+yjs No.514519 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I didn't read what anyone else in this thread said and I don't really care but for you that doesn't sound like an ideal situation to be in. Are they your only friends? Maybe try hanging out with other people for awhile. besides if you keep hanging around them then you aren't really giving her a chance to miss you.

So meanwhile you're hurting because you're friend got the girl you want and you are idling waiting for your turn. Doesn't sound like it will end well friend.

You're gonna do what you want at the end of the day and make your choices based upon the delusions you built around her but theres alays other choices you could make. Just remember that.
Phineas Dinkinweck - Fri, 17 Mar 2017 00:47:26 EST ID:fh02z0OB No.514535 Ignore Report Quick Reply

I went and hung out with some other friends tonight, which was sorta fun. The people I hung out with are sorta intertwined with the group I normally chill with in a way, but meh, maybe I'll start kicking it with them. I got invited to hang out with the girls friend but I assumed she would be there so didn't go tonight. Even though me and the girl's friend are kinda close. Idk. I might have hurt her too at this point. It's hard for me to tell.

You're right though. I'm just gonna see about hooking up with some hoes on tinder or something and hopefully deal with some of my insecurities. If she ever hits me to hang out, I'll go for it, but unless that happens I'm gonna avoid her. It's not what I instinctively want to do, I want to be around her and talk to her and shit, but nah. This is hard. I'm a few beers deep but I set up plans to take one of the guys out to some bars before he goes a few hours away to work for a while. At least for this weekend I don't think I'll have to see her.
Nell Snodbury - Fri, 17 Mar 2017 01:27:14 EST ID:k1vvRgQN No.514541 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Move on man. Meet new people. Makes new circles. There's another girl that's as sexy as your current one but who will want you
Jarvis Bunningshit - Mon, 20 Mar 2017 14:57:58 EST ID:fh02z0OB No.514644 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Welp. We ended up getting into an argument after she came over to get something from my house, and she basically just kept repeating that we're "just friends" and I told her nah, don't want that, and it was this whole big thing so now we basically just agreed to ignore each other from now on. Lol.

Miss my ex in a platonic way by Nigel Porringchedging - Mon, 20 Mar 2017 05:51:30 EST ID:vKvaev27 No.514627 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I've posted a bit about this girl before years ago

>4 years ago
>started dating girl who was very close friend growing up
>she started cheating on me the day my best friend killed himself, with another friend
>Shitty as fuck year

I haven't seen or talked to her since 2013
>at after party of some show
>See her, im like wtf
>end up sitting at this party with her for 4 hours doing blow and talking
>Take her home, lay on her couch with her for like 12 hours talking about life
>She lives at ex boyfriends house, on the couch
>She was a travelling crust punk for 3 1/2 years
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Nigel Porringchedging - Mon, 20 Mar 2017 08:07:24 EST ID:vKvaev27 No.514632 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Now she just started following me on instagram at 6 am so i'm just confused
Nigel Porringchedging - Mon, 20 Mar 2017 08:46:55 EST ID:vKvaev27 No.514633 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>You could ask if she wanted to crash on your couch or something instead of living in squalor, but it might be emotionally draining on both of you. It would still be a better environment tho, and maybe a better arena for her to stop drinking her life away and start applying for better work to get her own apartment or something. Maybe gettin some professional help

I've thought about this, but theres no way she'd want to live by me. I don't live in the city, and i'm moving even further into the boonies in a few months to be closer to my apprenticeship. Plus, she doesn't seem like she wants to better herself that much. She did mention that she has some money saved from her pizza job and is getting an apartment in a better part of town though.

>Honestly, it's probably best to just leave her alone. It's a good thing wanting to do something, but usually people in situations like that don't want pity or help.
True, but I thought it was strange because she told me that I'm the only person shes told that shes gotten raped, she hasn't even told her best girlfriends because she thought they'd judge her, so I thought it was a cry for help from someone she trusts. She said that the only other person shes told is her ex boyfriend whose couch she lives on and hes just completely disgusted by her, and she also says that she doesnt believe in psychologists, she believes in telling people she trusts about her problems.

>I have been in something kinda similar, and I just ended up pretty jaded by the whole affair. I don't know tho, you just gotta do what feels like the right thing to do. It might be as easy as being a friend to her, grabbing cup of tea once in a while or something.

Yea, I'll probably offer to take her out for breakfast sometime soon, or go see an old friends new band.
Nathaniel Hidgemedging - Mon, 20 Mar 2017 11:16:34 EST ID:n1yNxChx No.514640 Ignore Report Quick Reply
you can try to help when you can but only badness will result from trying to control her or things in general
Nigel Porringchedging - Mon, 20 Mar 2017 13:45:26 EST ID:vKvaev27 No.514642 Ignore Report Quick Reply
yea, i learned this from her years ago.
Blackie-Chan - Mon, 20 Mar 2017 22:21:07 EST ID:YSgLqHnY No.514652 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>Miss my ex
I'm gonna stop you right there. Once someone scars you so much that you can't forgive them, even when they apologize, you should just excise them from your life.
So your ex's life went to shit after you two broke up. What does that have to do with you or your life?
Don't let your ex's shitty luck or judgement fuck up your life.

Rape Question: Please Help!!! by Wesley Crockletit - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 03:22:41 EST ID:PP6wg+TW No.514604 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Sup guys.
I wanted to know if this is considered rape?

The girl said no so I pretended not to hear her and then I raped and murdered her.

Was this illegal?
Cyril Brambletudge - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 08:29:45 EST ID:2cRqUGEL No.514609 Ignore Report Quick Reply

you see we don't know all the facts. Did she go back to your house? Didn't she know murderers LIVE in houses? I mean she's just an idiot if she went home with a random stranger that could be potentially a murderer. Maybe she shouldn't have been wearing clothes that exposed her neck that would entice people into wanting to slit her throat or choke her?

OP I think you're a fine dude and you did nothing wrong. It's clear it was her fault.
George Menkinville - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 22:04:42 EST ID:gu/lq3ms No.514613 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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it'd be illegal not to
Thomas Nunnerdale - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 23:05:53 EST ID:LwDdrKTU No.514616 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>Was this illegal?
not if you're in hawaii
Cedric Goodfuck - Mon, 20 Mar 2017 08:55:54 EST ID:htL0lErB No.514634 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Yes this was illegal
Nathaniel Hidgemedging - Mon, 20 Mar 2017 11:04:10 EST ID:n1yNxChx No.514638 Ignore Report Quick Reply
i'm pretty sure you're fine dude

About a girl by Oliver Dartstock - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 16:04:33 EST ID:UrQwPY3E No.514611 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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tl;dr: took some time with a girl and want to tell her how I feel. Better to do it in person or write her a letter?

I'd been dating this girl for a couple months. We got along great. After some time we started falling for each other, we both said some really nice things to each other and shared many unique moments, it looked like it'd eventually have to step up to a relationship or die. Then, suddenly, while she was away visiting her home country, she distanced herself from me without explanation. We still talked, but there was definitely something off. We sort of talked it out after a week of awkward conversations and everything went sort of back to normal, but we decided we owed one another a talk.

When she came back, we talked and she told me her entire life was on crisis. That she didn't know wether she wanted to stay in this city (or country), whether to keep studying what she was studying, whether to settle in the country or to travel around the world, and whether to be with me or not. That being said, she cried the entire time we talked, told me I was very dear to her, and that I was way too nice, and that her friends told her she was stupid af for distancing herself from me. Apparently she always does the same thing: as soon as she starts getting close to someone, she runs away, or looks for someone else to keep her mind off the first guy, until the first guy dissapears and then she loses interest in the second guy as well. Anyway, I though I was going to be the exception to the rule... sadly I'm not.

Anyway, we decided to take some time, do whatever, and then talk again and see where each of us is, and what each of us wants. Honestly, I though she'd've spoken to me by now, it's been more than three weeks already. I miss her and still want to be with her, but this is turning pretty fucking bleack and depressing, and I don't think I can take this sort of broken-up-but-with-chance-of-going-back situation much longer.

Even if I feel chances of it working are dim, I still want to know I did everything in my reach to make it work, and be sure she knows how I really feel. I don't want to wonder, in a couple months, 'what if I'd spoken to her again'…
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Clara Gagglemack - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 16:55:47 EST ID:TX3Ezud6 No.514612 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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There's some things to take in mind. If she still wants to break things off, would you rather have gotten to meet her a last time, or would you rather have that you only meet her again if she feels the same way?
And even if know you can get the phrasing right much easier in a letter, it won't have the emotional impact of getting it out face to face. You can't hold a letter in your arms. You can't watch her face as she reads your words.

I think meeting her is the right thing. Even if you end up apart, there's more of a solid ending to it, making it easier to accept that this is the way it is.

I wish you the best of luck!

GF doesn't want intimacy, wants to sleep alone by Evening Majors - Fri, 03 Mar 2017 17:01:28 EST ID:AVHt7elG No.513964 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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together for 5 years now.
Never had real issues.

My new workplace got very demanding.
Can't do the household when I come back from work.
Need to relax by reading listening to music ans sleep often when I come home from work.

GF seems to have lost interest in physical love.
Didn't have sex for 2 months now (2-3 times a week was normal for us before).

I've lost interest as well, because of all the rejection.

She gets pissy very often, when I don't do the dishes
(its not that there are huge piles or that anything smells. She just has this annyoing perfection when it comes to dish-washing...)
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Memeory Bailer - Fri, 17 Mar 2017 02:09:54 EST ID:NycEgjCL No.514542 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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things can change after some time to think and a good conversation!
My first reaction would be to bail and my first advice would also be to dump that bitch.
But I know how paranoid the lack of sex and sleep can make me, sometimes!

Things like that can happen after 5 years of relationship.
You need to reassure yourself and herself and don't forget how important sex is for social hygiene!

Also its not the end of the world when you have to sleep alone sometimes.
Everybody needs his space sometime!
I use to enjoy my sleeping alone-times so I can indulge in my (rather weird) sexual fantasies and fetish stuff my woman doesn't enjoy so much.

Give each other space and enjoy your (hopefully) long lasting relationship!

I wish you only the best for your wedding!
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Rebecca Bungerdale - Fri, 17 Mar 2017 02:52:49 EST ID:EzXVpmDm No.514543 Ignore Report Quick Reply
He's like a comic book villain with that diction

did i just get trolled
Sidney Goblingford - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 00:26:10 EST ID:n1yNxChx No.514565 Ignore Report Quick Reply
finally.. the perfect synthesis. for centuries ever since the cultivated european aristocrat first discovered ostriches, he had pined for them with an unending and ceaseless LUST. their long, slender limbs. since exiting the pure state of nature, man's perfectability had enabled him to create not only the marvels of the world, but the ability to see truth.. women were quickly seen as that which furthers the genetic lineage, and nothing more.. their shrill voices, their weakness. for years man searched and search until he could BEAR IT NO LONGER. he sailed to africa with whatever means, literal banks were emptied (contemporary equivalent 475 BILLION britbongs fishkettles also known as dollars) and countries were ruined so that man could finally, once and for all, find a replacement for women. and now you have shown me the light. there is a being so magnificent that the GODS themselves would bask in the sheer temerity of this being. that very being is depicted here. the only part of the woman worth carrying on was the capacity for baby making.. THE OSTRICH WAS SUPERIOR IN EVERY OTHER WAY. but alas, a pure ostrich could not propagate the species without genetic testing and research, the costs of which far outweigh our current monetary power. with time perhaps this will change, but for now we have found the holy grail of union. together, man and the ostrich woman hybrid will carry forward the burdens of humanity into the future. for our children will be of the greatest calibre, and our lives forever enriched going on and on into the sunset. rousseau was correct about civilization domesticating man and removing us from our natural capacities, but there was one thing that he didn't forsee in his travel accounts: the ostrich woman hybrid. this will finally square the circle and provide the penultimate solution to the troubles of political society.

i will inform the guild at once and we will begin preparations for extraction.
rendevous is at 19:00 in a week. bring the package

Samuel Brimmlepodge - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 02:48:37 EST ID:I2FTZEKQ No.514566 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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buy a new bed. Solve everything, Swear to god.
David Bubberway - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 03:33:24 EST ID:PiDMdgO6 No.514606 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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thanks. that was a good read.

Personal Issues Board by Angus Cammermit - Wed, 15 Mar 2017 11:08:48 EST ID:ZkKEmZJm No.514440 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So I recently started a board on another platform than here. I just don't think it's healthy to support a drug culture while you're trying to help people.
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Jenny Berrystane - Thu, 16 Mar 2017 14:52:14 EST ID:HlEsXYeC No.514510 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Angus Dondlenotch - Thu, 16 Mar 2017 23:39:56 EST ID:HlEsXYeC No.514534 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Walter Pecklestuck - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 18:19:43 EST ID:mJHhephB No.514584 Ignore Report Quick Reply
William Gettingforth - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 20:41:19 EST ID:j5fiPK2O No.514590 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Something I first though when I saw this thread but couldn't put into words. But now I can.

There is something to be said for this board being rooted in drug culture. While there is the obvious disadvantages ie "dude do LSD it'll solve everything" "dude just smoke weed and remain depressed it doesn't work for me but I do it" kind of posts. If you have a genuine drug problem this is going to give you better advice and more real experience.

A lot of people here are aware of both sides of drugs, and they also realise that alcohol, MMOs, sex and much more can all be abused very simularly. They know how to stop taking various drugs are. What the pitfalls are. They have seen fiends and junkies and know what crossing the line looks like and can give some real advice. Depersonalisation, derealisation and weed "withdrawals" all the way to DO NOT FUCKING GO COLD TURKEY ON BENZOS IF YOU'VE BEEN ON THEM FOR YEARS NON STOP YOU WILL DIE TAPER FOR GODS SAKE. People who have tried some drugs, realised how they can be bad, have know people or watched people on and offline, get destroyed by drugs and all that shit. They know when it's worth giving up and when it's not.

The problem isn't drug culture it's that you get morons giving bad advice and you won't avoid that on hatechan. But you will avoid certain types of bad advice so good luck all the same. Just don't be surprised when the worst shit here (which is not the drug culture) turns up there to a greater magnitude.
David Bubberway - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 03:28:32 EST ID:PiDMdgO6 No.514605 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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You're thinking that people promote drugs acroos this entire website in an even manner, but really -

I've seen more advice on /qq/ to stop smoking weed than otherwise. I do see the occasional recommendation to take psys but usually there is some effort there, like, 'take psys in a comfortable place with comfortable people and focus on your issues. be prepared for a tough time but you will probably grow as a person.'

I mean, 420chan feels like the most welcoming chan for normal people. despite what you might think, that's a positive, and it's what keeps this community around.

Rape Question: Please Help!!! by Wesley Crockletit - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 03:22:41 EST ID:PP6wg+TW No.514603 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Sup guys.
I wanted to know if this is considered rape?

The girl said no so I pretended not to hear her and then I raped and murdered her.

Was this illegal?

Why can't I get my shit together by Martin Cligglecocke - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 01:41:43 EST ID:2u33x6tL No.514597 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I just can't seem to get my shit together. I've been unemployed for months, and I'm supposed to receive unemployment benefits as long as I apply to 5 jobs per week that are in the same salary range and same vein as my last job. A week is defined by the unemployment office as Sunday through Saturday.

I waited until the last minute to start working on my 5th application for this week. I started at 11:45PM, and big fucking surprise my dumb ass couldn't type fast enough and I didn't hit submit until 12:08AM. Since I technically submitted my application on a Sunday, it doesn't count towards my 5 jobs for this week so I'm no longer eligible to receive benefits for this week. I lost $300 because I didn't start my application 9 minutes earlier. I don't know why I always push shit off when I know how critically important they are.

This is petty shit compared to the things you guys are going through, but right now I'm so fucking furious with myself. It's when I do dumb shit like this that I realize how much I hate my own guts, and I do shit like this all the time. All of my failures and my shortcomings are caused by me. I don't think I've ever had a "good day" because I always fuck something up. I'm so fed up with myself that I just wish I was dead man.
Wesley Crockletit - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 02:22:27 EST ID:PP6wg+TW No.514598 Ignore Report Quick Reply
David Bubberway - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 03:06:45 EST ID:PiDMdgO6 No.514601 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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you've got to develop some positive thoughts about yourself, and it's really difficult in our society when you're constantly exposed to other people who look / feel happy. It looks so easy and makes you feel so shit. I dunno, maybe you have other problems, but the way you wrote just made me think that maybe you should learn how to give yourself a chance.

It's really up to you to get started earlier. Why not apply to five jobs today? Do you get distracted? What keeps you from just doing it right now? Is there a lack of self control?

I've gone through that shit, was addicted and sad, I think your best bet is to start in the smallest ways and work yourself up.

I'm telling you some cheesy advice, but go take a cold shower. Like, it sucks right? it's fucking cold water. It's unpleasant, and it doesn't even do very much for you [though cold water is better for your skin]. but if you can make the promise to take a cold shower and not break that promise in between here and the shower, then you've gone and done something that you wanted to do for yourself without giving up or procrastinating. You feel stronger after something like that, even as small as a shower.

I mean, I dunno, but I would feel meh without work. Try to stay busy busy busy and you can't even think about how shitty you feel anymore. It's the law of the computer, we are all just fucking transistors these days, working for the banks, but still - it keeps you sane and alive. then when the day comes that we bust up the suits and the mansions and the waste you'll be there to fight alongside.

Girl gave me the cold finger by Reuben Pinnerdale - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 17:26:41 EST ID:LP7sXigx No.514581 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I haven't did anything wrong to her she had an attraction to me but still decided to give me the cold finger because she wanted somebody more whiter than me that works at mcdonalds. lmao. little does she know I got cash saved up in bank and could have went on trips. but if that's all she cares about is skintone forget about her!
Frederick Burryford - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 00:00:59 EST ID:tDogmvzg No.514595 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I hate when they give me the cold finger. The chilling sensation haunts my ass for days afterward
Augustus Broshridge - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 00:32:36 EST ID:Lsu2uvaQ No.514596 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Did you use any phrasing similar to "cold finger" in her presence? She may have just realized you're retarded.
Wesley Crockletit - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 02:24:18 EST ID:PP6wg+TW No.514599 Ignore Report Quick Reply
David Bubberway - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 02:59:46 EST ID:PiDMdgO6 No.514600 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I mean, if it was cold enough and she put in the wrong kinda places

Steadfastly confused by Phineas Pittfield - Thu, 16 Mar 2017 22:13:39 EST ID:4RIQr7Ju No.514528 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Armchair therapists the world over, I need your advice. I'm a guy in my early twenties. I've had a couple of relationships, but have been single and sexless for the past year. Recently I met the housemate of a friend of a friend. She sort of blew my mind for lack of a better expression. So we talk, and talk some more, to find out we have a few things in common. Lots of eye contact. I invite her to do something pretty casual, a visit to a spring, she says yes and it's a good time, albeit quick.

After this the pace picks up and I really felt she had a strong desire to see me. We get coffee. I don't usually drink coffee and thus become a blabber mouth, although the conversation remains emotive on both sides and we end up sitting at the table close to four hours. Perhaps strike one against me for the word vomit. I invite her to go on a hike with me. It goes really well and I take her home. Eyes were locked on the goodbye hug for a brief instant, before succumbing to the vanilla hug.

We make further plans to go grab some food together before seeing a movie together. The meal is pleasant, we talk for about two hours then leave for the movie. This is it though, game time. Within the first 10 minutes I slide my arm over her shoulder. She touches my hands and we do the finger dance for a few moments. My arm remains for the entirety of the movie.

Fast forward to the parking lot after the movie. There's tension. The best way I can think to diffuse it is to suggest my desire to kiss her. She's been growing meeker throughout the leadup to this. I lean in and engage her, but there's zero response. None. I give up and let her explain herself. I get a half-hearted diatribe about slowness and its merits. She's progressively looking sadder as this goes on. I begin to drive her home and she begins to say she has something to share with me.

I 100% believe I'm about to hear a "I was basically raped" story. I touch her hand and tell her let's talk when we're parked, and give hint that I know this is heavy in some way. Boy was I wrong. I receive the "I've been seeing someone else" line, coupled with the "but there's no feeling&quo…
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Emma Faddleford - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 13:17:11 EST ID:9lpVA52w No.514574 Ignore Report Quick Reply

A better lesson:

>Don't chase women

Let women chase you if it's going to come down to it. Give up seeking relationships. Be happy on the solo groove and anything else is just a plus.
Reuben Creblingwun - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 16:15:04 EST ID:SwxeG+Tj No.514578 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Dind;t read the thread but this is solid advice. Zero neediness is sexy af to womans.
Wesley Birryhudging - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 19:38:32 EST ID:kePygWa7 No.514587 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Coming here because I saw this post on /weed/
>Just don't send a emotional response dude
Extremely important advice for a couple reasons which I'd like to explain and expand on. For starters being emotionally involved will bring pain if she decides against being with you, so its best to go in half hearted in the first place. Be "chill"
Second girls don't like overly attached emotional boyfriends most of the time. You've most likely seen this and heard this with "girls only date assholes" and its because that selfish guys won't get crumbled up and broken when things don't go their way, they weather the storm and carry on. That's the old fashioned man mentality, understand?

If she doesn't choose you, don't take it personal. What you need to do if you're not already like this is become a little selfish and improve yourself. This is sort of like the average advice you might hear "Go to the gym and start lifting." Which is an okay start. Better actions are to get a job and go to school, study, get good grades, and don't let others validations matter to you. If you become a better version of your old self, you're moving in the right direction. The point of improving yourself is to change your mentality from "why would she want me?" to "lol she doesn't want me? whatever her loss." Ask yourself if you found a cool, smart, funny girl, with a good career who was pretty and all would you turn her down? Its the same perspective from woman to man. Nah mean OP?
Shit Honeyridge - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 20:29:42 EST ID:9vn86lM+ No.514588 Ignore Report Quick Reply

OP, it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with HER. Shes in a relationship, she likes/liked you, shes obviously not happy in it if she has the time to go see a movie and have coffee with another man.

But if you like her, you like her, if this has turned you off of her, then so be it, but please dont feel like you arent "up to cut". you're good. Plenty of fish in the sea.
Beatrice Nunderbag - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 23:27:07 EST ID:n1yNxChx No.514593 Ignore Report Quick Reply
listen op
fuck everything you feel you ought to be
you have to be 100% honest about this
i think it bothers you, is this the case?
you will fuck yourself up if you pretend things are ok when they aren't
i'm serious. be careful. that hurt me just reading that man. fuck.

oh i just read
it's good that you were honest. you told her what you wanted.
i think that it wouldn't be wise to keep seeing her if you're not going to get it. even casually.
also there's a difference between fear and instinct/intuition
but yeah, that sucks man.
you sure handled this better than i did once upon a time

am I a bad person? by Phyllis Gackleford - Wed, 15 Mar 2017 14:24:15 EST ID:aeplqru4 No.514446 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Last night I told my boyfriend that I have been cheating on him in our apartment. He was shocked and then he became angry. He left and I haven't talked to him since yesterday but I have a feeling he's coming back to get all of his stuff to leave.

We haven't dated long but I have been unhappy and it started shortly after we began living together. he never gave me enough attention sometimes I feel like he cares more about his video games than he does me. It got so bad we completely stopped having sex and I wait til he left for work to invite a friend over to have sex.

We haven't had any real problems other than a lack of a sex life with each other. I had asked him if we could have an open relationship before and he wasn't very open to the idea even though I said he could sleep with whomever he wanted to.

Really like I feel kinda bad and I don't want to lose him right now. I shouldn't have cheated but I wasn't happy.
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Phineas Dodgespear - Thu, 16 Mar 2017 12:03:48 EST ID:HBK97BJ7 No.514498 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Urge to take bait...rising..
Hedda Clusslebury - Fri, 17 Mar 2017 22:06:48 EST ID:ByaHbKp1 No.514561 Ignore Report Quick Reply
na ur a good person op
Reuben Creblingwun - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 18:03:07 EST ID:SwxeG+Tj No.514582 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Jenny Brumblewater - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 18:56:54 EST ID:S8/3nVvW No.514586 Ignore Report Quick Reply

I like how a woman posts a thread on here and reveals herself to be a piece of shit no one wants to call her out on it and you got beta stallion puss is saying it's a troll because it's a woman and women don't do anything wrong.
Cyril Brambletudge - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 08:38:07 EST ID:2cRqUGEL No.514610 Ignore Report Quick Reply
like it's clearly a troll though?
If it isn't then yeah that woman's a real piece of shit because she shows no remorse and has lame excuses that just get worse the more people probe, but fucking hell it just sounds like a virgin's make-believe on what happens in a girls mind when she cheats.

>Really us breaking up is gonna be his fault beca use he just seems like he doesn't care at all.
I mean if that sentence doesn't scream "TROLL TROLLL TROOOOLLLL IN THE DUNGEON!" then either you're fucking stupid or the OP is.

nb for shitposting

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