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Quit my Shitty Restauraunt job. by Quitter McQuittington - Sat, 31 Dec 2016 04:15:44 EST ID:i5MJCSVV No.512008 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Ok so I worked at a restauraunt where the swipe card system didn't work for fuck because the managers were either lazy or incompetent and thus I never got hours, however their rebuttal was "just get a supervisor to swipe you in" and I'm like this place is fucking huge I'm not wasting twenty minutes of my shift to fix your idiot problem.

From working jobs with computerized shedules, I learned that if I'm not scheduled, I'm not working, case closed. I'm not self imposing wage theft because someone didn't RTFM on the workbrain machine.

To top it off, my associates were a Filipino with poker skills, a guy with a business degree, a bartender and a lady who could talk you into a good mood, and here we were, setting up kegs and cleaning up vomit.

Ass backwards restauraunt.
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Martin Fovingwill - Sat, 31 Dec 2016 17:14:34 EST ID:mu8hf6Xw No.512010 Ignore Report Quick Reply
They didn't have any option for you to fill out a time card or something? That would've been workable at least. But hey, it sounds like a low level job and you can most likely find something like it if you just put a little work in. So I don't think you've made that horrible of a decision.
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Betsy Wishbit - Sat, 04 Feb 2017 22:29:43 EST ID:LcZZCFTS No.513049 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Ding-dong, theyre obviously punching numbers
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Cyril Nimmerbanks - Sun, 05 Feb 2017 00:56:40 EST ID:F6BBbLXR No.513051 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512008
Do what must be done. Do not hesitate. Show no mercy.
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Simon Heppergold - Sun, 05 Feb 2017 06:31:57 EST ID:o1pNBrov No.513061 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512008
Get a lawyer. Document the wage/hour discrepancy. File class action for back wages. Fuck up their whole restaurant.

>During the entire time, SPEAK ONLY WITH YOUR LAWYER about the case. Don't tell anyone you are suing them. If it becomes class action, your lawyer will handle it properly. Most will do something like this pro-bona if you show you can certainly win.
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Archie Pittson - Mon, 06 Feb 2017 15:45:36 EST ID:rjFQA/Ol No.513119 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>513061
This isn't even necessary. Simply file a claim with the Department of Labor, they don't fuck around with this shit. The entire operation could be shut down at the snap of a finger.
If you think it would work, you could contact the business and tell them that you expect to be paid for your work or your will be contacting the DoL. That could either scare the shit out of them and they'll pay you right then, or it could lead them to try and destroy evidence of you having been there for the hours you are claiming. Use your best judgement.


Am I being too beta? by Hamilton Drudgelock - Sat, 04 Feb 2017 18:16:14 EST ID:qsWhrwjU No.513042 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I was fuck buddies with this girl for two months. I was really into her and all. We were also really close friends and it was like...just sex. We did fuck every time we hung out though even though that seems contradictory. She was always good at that.

She ended our thing and told me she didn't want to hang out with me or talk to me anymore. I found out later on she got back with her ex.

We haven't talked since September and I never really moved on. I thought about texting her but I don't know if she would even respond to me.
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Charlotte Blackford - Sat, 04 Feb 2017 18:35:11 EST ID:JmukeKk9 No.513045 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Dude she was using you for sex. Nothing wrong about that if you were using her too tho.
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Hamilton Drudgelock - Sat, 04 Feb 2017 18:42:04 EST ID:qsWhrwjU No.513046 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>513045
I absolutely was not using her for sex. I actually had feelings for her but yeah sounds like it. I was supposed to get a house but it didn't fall thru. Shortly after was when she broke it off. She needed a place to stay and chose to go back to her ex. Really I just want to talk to her. We were really good as friends until we started having sex on a regular basis and it just go to be too much for me. Im not really sure how she feels about me. She never told me much other than she day dreamed about us fucking so it sounds like you're prob right
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Reuben Guzzleledging - Sun, 05 Feb 2017 00:50:18 EST ID:sueiY012 No.513050 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>513042
Yea, you got used and sounds like your personality prevented a long-term thing.
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Jack Fiblingbury - Sun, 05 Feb 2017 02:46:19 EST ID:qsWhrwjU No.513053 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>513050

She hung out with me all the time I dont ever remember her flaking even once or showing restraint with the sex. Maybe you're right though. She didn't really give me any real reason or talk with me about it.
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Jack Fiblingbury - Sun, 05 Feb 2017 02:46:19 EST ID:qsWhrwjU No.513054 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>513050

She hung out with me all the time I dont ever remember her flaking even once or showing restraint with the sex. Maybe you're right though. She didn't really give me any real reason or talk with me about it.


broke up with someone I like because of rational reasons, but still feel pain by Nigel Gundleridge - Sat, 21 Jan 2017 13:02:44 EST ID:AS7jtk7m No.512605 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I see most people asking for advice regarding break ups, are on the rejected side.

no one ever breaks up with someone they like because of the odds.
there is a girl I have been going out with for some time (we knew each other for years). we have been flirting for years and she complained about her bf all the time to me. I spent a lot of time ignoring her because of that bf. for me, she wanted a beta orbiter. the flirting got pretty strong, we made out once, she broke up with him one week after that. I don't want to make this too lengthy, but she tried to manipulate me and told me lies plenty of times. I started really, really liking her. she was very passionate and beautiful, probably the prettiest girl I have been with.
however, because of all that manipulation thing she tried to do with me, some childish stuff she did like rejecting my offering to go out because I was busy the time she asked me out and whatnot, tons of lies, being selfish as hell while pretending to be selfless... I broke up with her. even though I still liked her. I saw too many redflags. I couldn't see myself being with someone I didn't trust. she stressed the hell out of me everyday.

I felt immense pain with that breakup. even though I know I did the right thing, I wonder how the fuck you hardly see people going through the same thing. breaking up with someone they like. THIS FACT makes me ask myself if I did the right thing, specially because I feel like I will never be with a girl as pretty and that liked me as much as she did.
now I'm dating another girl, she's much more mature and nicer and I feel I can trust her. sex is better. we don't fight. I barely get stressed at all... but the same happens for every other emotion.

I don't even know what advice I'm seeking anymore. maybe the answer is just keep looking for someone else? swipe on tinder, meet more people? I'm so tired of this. really tired.
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Polly Horringfidge - Sun, 22 Jan 2017 21:36:29 EST ID:lC4u5xZY No.512639 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512605
Consider this OP: doing the right thing usually hurts a hell of a lot more than doing the wrong thing.
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Lydia Wellyforth - Sun, 22 Jan 2017 21:53:07 EST ID:L+FHpvgj No.512640 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I started dating a girl and tgen went to break up with her two or thrre times during thw first few months of our rational. She always burst into tears and begged me not to leave her, so I stayed. I felt sketchy about her for the majority of the relationship and ended up finding out that she had cheated on me for several months with her manager at work.

I knew deep down from the draft that we wouldn't work out, should have just stayed away from her. It definitely sucked more staying with her and finding out the hard, absolute way. I'm such a depressed mess now. God why did I screw up everything??
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Barnaby Dreblingstone - Mon, 23 Jan 2017 08:35:49 EST ID:hhQhcuad No.512651 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512605
As the other guy said, if people dump someone they like it means they're usually doing it on their terms and before the drama and bullshit reaches as high a level. It happens but there's less drama. If you barely hear about a lot of breakups, they just quietly happen that's good.

>>512640
If god were real the answer would be "You didn't". You found out she cheated and are not with her. Sometimes you can do everything right, or at least make the best decisions with the information you have and still get fucked over. It's life, look at what you could have done different WITH THE INFORMATION YOU HAD THEN that is not absolutely stupid and then learn from it. Move on and be better/smarter.
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Simon Honeycocke - Tue, 24 Jan 2017 07:48:25 EST ID:7cac9OY9 No.512679 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512605
Several years ago i broke up with my girlfriend although i still was really into her... it was due to other reasons though (no cheating whatsoever, and she was actually very nice - the problem was actually me being immature and inexperienced since i was just 18 back then). However it was really a hard time for me and it literally took years until i was able to begin a new relationship. But nevertheless, i still consider it as one of my best decisions i ever made... i was really happy for her, when she found a new boyfriend some months after our breakup. A breakup because of rarional reasons is really harder i guess than breaking up because someone hurt you. But it really is worth it, under those circumstances
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Graham Sabblesen - Sat, 04 Feb 2017 21:16:49 EST ID:u/ycNVVY No.513047 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512640
>>512679
>>512607
>>512651
as time goes by and I as I don't manage to find a new relationship I actually like the person, it's starting to feel worse. I'm starting to lose hope of finding love with someone else and thinking about her. when classes start she's going to be there. I have no idea what she's doing with her life. if she's with someone while I'm alone, it's going to hurt pretty bad. and everyone in that class hates me, and my friends are away. all I got going for me right now is work and studying... this year is going to be one hell of a ride.


Extreme things that changed your life by Hyodo Kazutaka - Sat, 04 Feb 2017 13:27:50 EST ID:UAOoyk5x No.513038 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Thing is that there are some books, movies, comics, internet websites, hobbies, etc that made you change radically or motivate you to live to the fullest or explore more about the world.

I'm talking about radical, extreme and proved things that worked. That hit you un the face, made you clash with reality, reconsider your worldview, your worth as person.

For me It was some anime called Kaiji. About a guy with no destination in life who suddenly was immersed in the middle of some fucked up gambling that could take his life or his freedom if he lost in some of the gambling.

Anyways. I started to reconsider my way of life. I'm applying for jobs, avoiding junk food, I'm drug free and I started to approach to girls that I like. I'm going to the gym the moment I get paid.

Also... I want to contribute to society leaving something immortal.

So I wanna know what things changed you, made you want to explore the world or made you have an epiphany.

Recommend me somethings too.


I am at No End by Ebenezer Snodlock - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 02:25:21 EST ID:TtwU0Fna No.512984 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I worship the Demiurge.
Ptah the creator of the Universe, some say Lucifer some say Promtheus.
I am not enough illuminated to know which divine spirit he is.
I am not evil, bad or mean.
But I worship the God of the Material Universe.
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James Mottingshit - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 20:12:38 EST ID:9hkV7fQO No.513023 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>513019
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James Mottingshit - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 20:21:15 EST ID:9hkV7fQO No.513024 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>513019
>the ultimate redpill is that there is an external God

All this Atheist Nihilism is really messing society up. It's a form of religion at one point. They don't have a church but they have a Bible written by Richard Dawkins. There is LeVeyan Satanism as well which is a form of Atheism as well. Religion is a problem look at Islam, that shit is a destructive force.

Religion is man trying to define God. A true believer knows that God defines man through creation. Id est the Big Bang, Physics, Evolution, Biology, etcetera

But thanks for adding to my thread.
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Rebecca Tillingville - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 23:41:53 EST ID:Jwd0QahJ No.513025 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>513019

>external

"Neither shall they say, Lo here! or, lo there! for, behold, the kingdom of God is within you."
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Polly Bapperson - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 23:43:12 EST ID:GE8WHIOP No.513026 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>513024
Thanks for confirming this whole thread is a troll. I encourage you to bring it to a board that isn't intended to actually bring help to those who need it.
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Nigel Pashforth - Sat, 04 Feb 2017 03:24:40 EST ID:c5noXXoX No.513034 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>513026
I have trouble dealing with religious issues.


-FUCKED-I need help but I've never asked for it before-FUCKED- by George Wublingtire - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 10:27:31 EST ID:KBelwzLF No.512993 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I need help but I've never asked for it before.
I've been battling with depression and mental disease since I was 16. I'm 27 now.
So the situation is this. The landlord has hired some guys to do some once a decade maintenance and I haven't cleaned my apartment for 2 years. For real.
You can probably imagine the shame and depression this causes in itself, but I really need help with cleaning it.
I want to ask for help from someone close or the people who are trying to deal with my issues but I never do that.
The only reason I went to ask for help for the mental stuff because I was literally losing my mind and needed meds.

My social skills are normal and I have no problems with anything but asking for help. How the fuck do you do that without losing face and living in shame? I feel like I'd rather kill myself.

I have 2 weeks to get the apartment in shape or I'll be evicted for sure.
I can't move back to live with my mother because I'm a fucking mess and she's of the very worrying type and I have to constantly lie to her about my situation.

TL;DR how to overcome shame?
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Rebecca Hasslemick - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 11:18:31 EST ID:w5xDM4Q+ No.512994 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Just straight up admit it to somebody. The shame is not worth the crime. You have been in a bad place and anyone would be put into the same position in your situation.

I've dealt with this kind of thing before and the blowback is never as bad as the mental torture and fear that you inflict upon yourself every day imagining what other people will think.

So yeah. Life beats shame every day. Throw shame in the bin.
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Caroline Drenningwater - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 11:38:59 EST ID:wyXHXpFm No.512997 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Gotta ask yourself if you want to deal with more shame later or not man. If shame is the problem here, it's clear that asking for help now will lead to less shame felt than if you don't. There's a reason there's a bunch of gay little sayings like "to ask is a moment's shame, to not is lifelong". It's time to stop the bleeding mang. You gonna really sit there and hide the fact your guts are hanging out and you need help sewing that shit back up because it embarrasses you? Someone might go "dude, your guts were fuckin hanging out" and chastise you a bit for not saying something sooner, but is that really all that hard to listen to? As long as you act like you're aware your lifestyle isn't normal, at the point of asking for help, people are more interested in getting things fixed up than viewing you poorly. Afterwards you even feel better that you a) got things done, b) somebody actually knew for once what you are going through, and c) you were able to gather the courage to ask for help and talk about it.
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John Drenkinspear - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 14:06:04 EST ID:gyD9VDjB No.513003 Ignore Report Quick Reply
do you have money? you could pay for a cleaner, there's probably someone in the area who'll do one off jobs like this, search for deep clean, things like that.
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Molly Drummleford - Sat, 04 Feb 2017 02:17:03 EST ID:KBelwzLF No.513033 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512997
I think you're right. Losing the apartment would involve more shame.
Thanks.
It's really fucking weird though. I feel like someone has something to use against me if they would do something out of even pure kindness.
I'm fucked up.


I'm so lost by Polly Claywater - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 23:51:08 EST ID:vKvaev27 No.513027 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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This is pretty long, but I hope someone out their will listen.

I have no idea what i'm doing with my life or where i'm going. I've been posting here off and on for years.

>I'm 24
>I'm on my 2nd semester in school, I pass my classes but I'm not very good at >juggling school and adult life
>I'm on probation for the next year
>I was saying for the past few weeks that i'm gonna drop out of school and get a trade as an electrician (i may have made a post on here within the past few days but I can't find it now)
>I don't even have a car. I'm borrowing my parents until tax return
>I live very close to Milwaukee, WI. There is literally nothing here for me. Since highschool I have gained nothing except about 20k debt, a criminal record, and a bad reputation.
>My seasonal depression gets worse every winter
>I've burned all my bridges, I don't make new friends
>hot chicks and some ugly treat me like shit for no reason, and i'm passed the point of caring, but its really annoying when you dont even want to fuck them and just work with them and they act super bitchy just because theyre good looking.
>I'm really into drug culture and music festival culture but have been limited to expand my horizons with festivals
>I've wanted to leave the state since I was 19 but theres always something holding me back
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Polly Claywater - Sat, 04 Feb 2017 00:32:37 EST ID:vKvaev27 No.513029 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>Tl;dr i'm stuck in midwest hell hole with lots of debt and societys expectations, I'm also on probation. I want to leave to go somewhere with cool people and drugs, im pretty much having a mid life crisis at 24
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Frederick Finnerpod - Sat, 04 Feb 2017 01:09:34 EST ID:9lxOzQJ0 No.513031 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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I am kind of in a similar spot OP, twenty four and trying to figure things out. I think it is fairly common. More of a quarter life crisis in my opinion. Mid twenties is a weird time for a lot of people I think, still "young" but not really young enough for your age to be a valid reason for you not to have your shit together.

I also have been considering the electrical trade, actually doing a 10 week introductory training program in march. I actually just got out of rehab, and am living in a sober house in an area I just moved to. Definitely feel like I squandered a lot of my youth on drugs and alcohol, not even enjoying it that much.

Keeping this about you though, I think you are in a position to be optimistic. You are, as I am sure you have been told (I know I have) "still young". There is a whole lot of opportunity out there. I think having a positive attitude is one of the most important things you can do right now. I know it is easy to feel stuck but if you really want to get out you can, and once you do you will think "why didn't I do this 6 years ago". I am not going to go into my story too much but I have pretty much dealt with the same thing, and I have come out the other end. IDK man I am not all the way there but maybe a little bit further along than you and just wanted to say, you can do it man, not to be cliched but just believe in yourself, there really is a whole lot of opportunity out there. Also, with the drug thing, especially a drug like MDMA if you were using it all the time your hedonic system is probably out of wack and it will take a year or so before you start enjoying life again at its fullest. Anyway dude I am signing off keep the faith
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Polly Claywater - Sat, 04 Feb 2017 01:17:32 EST ID:vKvaev27 No.513032 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>513031
Stay strong brotha


go for second date or don't bother? by Lillian Pittham - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 21:13:36 EST ID:NoKU4Mj+ No.512960 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So I have chronic social anxiety and I went on a date with a girl from Tinder last night. While it could have gone worse, it was bad. There were lots of awkward moments that keep making me flinch when I recall them. Basically here's what happened

>meet girl at pub
>buy drink, chat for 1.5-2h
>conversation is quite fucking awkward a lot of the time
>several bad awkward silences that she kinda rescued
>no sexual tension or flirting
>after a while she asks to go for a joint (of my weed) and suggests her place simply cos it was closer
>go back to hers and watch some show and smoke up and colour for an hour and a bit until she declares she's kicking me out cos she has work in morning

But before I left she asked me what I was doing the next day and what time I was free, then says (words to the effect of) we can maybe continue where we left off. Then after telling her she say something like "I have work till 7.... I might be free afterwards.... *brief pause* actually naah may well be busy. We'll see" (with a tone of reluctance in her voice)

Trying to work out whether her offer was genuine or whether she was just trying to let me down as nicely as possible. It feels more like the latter but I don't fucking understand why a chick would offer to hang out again if she explicitly didn't want to. Thoughts? Obviously I haven't contacted her today but considering it on the weekend.
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Phyllis Shakestone - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 15:29:56 EST ID:n9NCGcXe No.513011 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>513008
Oh, I totally agree. The thing is we both know doing the right thing isn't that easy. Relationships would be infinitely easier and better for everyone involved if we could just be honest. But we're emotional things for better or worse. No doubt she just doesn't want to think of herself as a bad person, but I'd bet you that she's also concerned for you. I don't mean to be preachy but nothing is worse than seeing somebody lose their faith in humanity because of a bad relationship or what have you.

And hell yeah dude, right on. Go out with this other girl and see where it leads.
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Phyllis Shakestone - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 15:54:54 EST ID:n9NCGcXe No.513013 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>513010
Your value as a human being involves a lot more than your physical beauty.
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Lillian Pittham - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 18:14:10 EST ID:NoKU4Mj+ No.513020 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>513011

> I don't mean to be preachy but nothing is worse than seeing somebody lose their faith in humanity because of a bad relationship or what have you.

Lol this is me right now. My relationship with me ex has crippled me to the point where the world seems like an infinitely darker and more hostile place. All the positive qualities I had before her seem to have evapourated and what's left is a bitter, empty, jaded broken shell of a human being. Still love her with all my heart though

This isn't to do with relationships... its Tinder... last thing I want is a relationship. I just wanna see if I can actually have some good sex for once in my life and the occasional netflix and chill partner.

>>513013

And sexual attractiveness involves more than physical beauty.
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William Wundersere - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 19:11:43 EST ID:4RIQr7Ju No.513021 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>513020

As long you put those walls up they'll be there to hold you back. You're playing it out in this thread like you don't give a shit about this. It really comes down to two choices; did you make this thread to share your depression with strangers and ignore their advice, or did you make this thread to garner motivation to take a leap and be brave.

We've all been awkward man, it's fucking awful, I know. But I can tell from your responses that you don't have any real limitations. Your engine is sound, it just needs to get warmed up. If you really think this chick is a no-go, fine. But don't use it to tell yourself a story! Don't make this another bad story to support your idea of "not being good enough". Tinder is full of potential for getting more comfortable in these situations. Do it man. Grease the wheels. Keep at it until you like yourself, until you feel confident.
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Sidney Finderstune - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 19:27:07 EST ID:NoKU4Mj+ No.513022 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>513021

>did you make this thread to share your depression with strangers and ignore their advice, or did you make this thread to garner motivation to take a leap and be brave.

Literally both. I'm a bit of a child.

>But I can tell from your responses that you don't have any real limitations

Can I ask what makes you say this? I'm genuinely intrigued but skeptical as to how you can possibly say this


Neighbour tried to break into my room, no one is helping. by Oliver Bribberson - Tue, 31 Jan 2017 16:52:43 EST ID:3F3jkK/Z No.512916 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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One of my junkie piece of shit neighbours was banging at my window. Then he started trying to bash it in. I have it all voice recorded. Then when he came in he started trying to kick my door down. I had phoned the police. They asked what was happening and told me to pack my stuff (said they would only give me 5 minutes) and took me to my Gran's house. I asked what would happen to my neighbour and they said he was drunk so they would just let him sleep it off. The lock on my door is loose and I am fearful that all my things (Wii U, TV etc) are going to be stolen. I am traumatized by this incident and I don't know why they didn't take him away and not me. I was treated like the criminal. I have evidence of his threatening behaviour and the police are doing nothing. I posted on circlejerk but they just started attacking me because I posted on the_donald. Fuck. Why is no one helping?
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Frederick Worthingfield - Wed, 01 Feb 2017 02:09:46 EST ID:NF8qpOOv No.512920 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512917
Thanks for the advice. I'm in Britain by the way.
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Caroline Fablingway - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 08:12:48 EST ID:gyD9VDjB No.512937 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>they just started attacking me because I posted on the_donald
>Why is no one helping?

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
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Cyril Fanbanks - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 12:08:48 EST ID:CfonqoA0 No.512939 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512920

I would say get a gun, but you're in England.

That situation is why I have a shotgun. And I would answer his actions with a shot of 00 to the chest.

You should get a nice quality sharp and practice with it. Find a spot around the corner in your home that is unlikely to be searched where you are not visible to the main entrance, and practice chilling there silently. Like, Manhunt style. If the guy turns the corner, ambush him and go for the neck.

That'll be your best bet at surviving an encounter with that type of scum.

Other than that, brace your door(s) with a sturdy folding chair at night; put the top of the folded chair under the knob and make sure it doesn't fold out in the direction the door opens. Get a cheap security alarm, like this crap:

https://www.amazon.com/GE-Personal-Security-Window-45115/dp/B00178HMCI/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1486055059&sr=8-3&keywords=security+alarm

Makes noise only, but could scare an intruder off if they think the police will respond to it.
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Jarvis Fuckingworth - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 12:26:30 EST ID:hhQhcuad No.512941 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512920
Well the police here are marginally better but they hate paperwork. Make not sorting your problem out result in more paperwork and they might help. But if you're black you're still fucked, you hear about the race relations officer in Bristol getting tazed for "running at us" by backing away in sight of several witnesses?

As for being poor in a shit area. Well Britain isn't about to go martial but still get out. Why you'd support Trump as a non American is beyond me. Unless it's about TTIP. I have to admit I'm pretty glad that thing is dead, he's done us a solid there. Now we can get back on with destroying our economy all by ourselves by negotiating the worst possible brexit.

None of this helps you though. Just reinforce the locks and barracade as the other guy said in the short run. Work out so you can fight or at least run in the medium and get the fuck out of the area in the long run.
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Doris Pockway - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 12:15:37 EST ID:vKvaev27 No.512999 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512916
Go over there with a baseball bat and a mask and fuck his ass up


two jobs? by Phineas Billingfoot - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 20:17:06 EST ID:pCPQRsXK No.512956 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hey i'm aware that people work two jobs all the time. But being a novice in this situation i need some clerical information. Like if someone could explain what is normal in this situation. I have been applying for jobs for seven months since my last one in june. This week i suddenly got three applications excepted, except only one of them was for a interview that is an audition. The other two were different than any i have had before. One is at KFC i was brought in for an interview but she totally did it different. She asked up front if i had already done the background check, which was different than any prior experience i had in job interviews. Even though i said no up front, she just asked me a few nice questions and she had me sign for one. Which is what took place in my last job about a month after my first interview for it. Then i was called by a dollar general which just asked me if i was still looking for a job, then basically sent me a background check online. I still have the third interview for next week. Today i got the kfc job. And i start on saturday. Now i'm not saying i'll be bad, but do to my long period without work i'm somewhat trying to get in a job i know i will have security at. It's the biggest leap for me to go into fast food but i couldn't turn down the job either as dollar general has not responded and even though i have no suspicion to thank that they won't given the way the process is described online as waiting for my first day after "pre emploment conditions are met." the last time i was in this process with them they took five days and the store hired someone else instead.

I was wondering i told the kfc person i would be available any time of the week, but it's only part time. I filled out the same on my application for dollar general but have not yet met them in person or even discussed my schedule.

Do you think it would be possible or even a good idea to try to discuss this subject with either of my employers given that i just got hired at one, and am planning to when i get hired at the other arrange a schedule where i could work both. Or would i end up in a situation where i have bit off more then i could chew …
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Hannah Dartville - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 06:17:43 EST ID:o1pNBrov No.512989 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512956
Firstly, focus on getting 1 job nailed down. When you have your hours/schedule pretty solid and assuming you aren't on call etc, then look for a second. If you are specifically trying to get 2 jobs, don't apply to everything en mass. Slowly apply to positions as you are declined in a form of revolving door. Again, once 1 job is secured and isn't seasonal or whatever, apply for a new job and list the hours you can work. Or ask for more hours/another spot at your current job.

>NEVER MENTION THAT YOU HAVE ANOTHER JOB AT YOUR CURRENT EMPLOYER.

If you have an offer of employment, only use that as leverage at a job that wants to hire you. Given that you are in shitty retail/fry cook, this doesn't even work because so many people want these shitty jobs so DON'T even bother EVER mentioning that you have 2 jobs or have offers of employment elsewhere etc. Keep all this shit a secret. Don't tell fellow employee's either. Keep everyone at a long distance except for the managers and maybe the supervisors. Coworkers will fuck you to take your hours, spot, wages, job, etc etc etc. THEY WILL TELL EVERYTHING YOU DO! Coworkers shouldn't be allied with or made enemies. They should simply just be coworkers. You work along side them to do the job and nothing else. FUCKING NOTHING ELSE. I'm dead fucking serious, I know supervisors so I know that everybody runs and taddles like a little school bitch.

Working 2 jobs sucks by the way. It is better to find a place that is consistently underemployed and offers incentive/OT. Mainly production jobs. Most jobs will keep your sleeping schedule fucked, you won't ever get full nights sleep and you'll be preoccupied with work your entire life. If you are in relationships, they'll probably suffer a ton. Retail/Sales/Customer Service/Fast food all employ based on a war of attrition. It is better to have 40 shitty people working 20 hours a week than to have 20 decent people that are full time/OT. This category job is a cakewalk too so proles apply for that shit, drop out after they have some money or whatever, they suck, they're lazy etc. 40 people is a bigger pool to pull work from than 20 so when someone drops out…
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Martha Fanway - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 08:11:54 EST ID:Jwd0QahJ No.512991 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512989

What's so bad about dollar general?
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Hannah Dartville - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 08:33:25 EST ID:o1pNBrov No.512992 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512991
Shitty hours, most employ fake gang banger wannabes and the utmost trailer trash, most stores are just a fucking pig pen, typically are run through a district manager who doesn't give a fuck so you get a store manager that is a complete idiot and doesn't need to be a manager and they get robbed often in my knowledge. Pay will typically be the worst in your area.

DG consistently scores among the worst 10 employers.


Dating a close childhood friend by Oliver Duckcocke - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 15:01:06 EST ID:pss+dE21 No.512947 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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What are your thoughts about dating your close childhood friend as an adult?
To those who have done it, how did it go?
To those with rules against it, why do you feel that way?

I have a notion that dating someone who's psychology baked in the same oven as yours might be problematic for the same reason why we dont date our siblings.
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Graham Fuzzleshit - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 15:29:07 EST ID:5JYKa3yb No.512948 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512947
"someone who's psychology baked in the same oven as yours might be problematic"
But it might make it easy to relate to how you both perceive the world and shit too, isn't the most crazy shit I've heard.

I think you should go for it, unless you really have like major second thoughts.
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Ian Papperfoot - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 17:46:13 EST ID:fFco0KOe No.512952 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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she told me I changed. not just since childhood, but since we started dating eight months before I broke off our relationship. I try not to hold the grudge, i had to realize that she was holding onto an image of me and begrudged me for exploring who I was becoming

so, this is really a problem that every couple faces, not just people that have known each other a long time. can you accept that a person is never done baking?

we are kinda raised to believe that at some point we are "who we are", and that is more problematic for all interpersonal relationships, not just dating.
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Lillian Buzzlock - Thu, 02 Feb 2017 20:57:35 EST ID:pss+dE21 No.512959 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OP here
a month ago i broke up with a woman i have known since early childhood.

>attended same preschool
>friends throughout elementary
>shitty home life caused us to latch on to one another, we were eachothers only stability
>spent every waking moment together
>dated in HS and then broke up, i went on a 7 year bender
>phone friendship for 9 years.
>i moved 3000 miles to be close enough to her for the mere opportunity of a relationship
>date and live together for over a year
>broke up the week before christmas

im just trying to make sense of this. i miss her so fucking much.
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Hannah Dartville - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 05:59:56 EST ID:o1pNBrov No.512988 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>512947
It's a bad idea. It is also why I keep female friends at arms reach and never closer. You'll end up hurting everyone involved at some point, it won't work out and you'll burn bridges. I've drifted away from all my childhood friends as well because we all went separate ways in life as we matured. My adult friends are far different in motivations and desires than my childhood friends. The other issue in general with dating inside your friend circle is you'll split everyone apart. My old high school group of crusties and skaters all broke apart when X and Y split over who cheated on who. (Both cheated on each other at the same time.) Then you HAD to take someone's side. You either had X's back or Y's back and you couldn't stick with both. So because they were dating inside the group, everyone got split apart over that bullshit. As I said, it is a bad idea.

My childhood friends are all probably dead, getting fucked and shanked in prison or currently passed out in a public bathroom stall or fiending for drugs and under withdrawals. My very few number of current friends are all focused on their career and we all have a nifty circlejerk of helping each other out in an extremely competitive world. Sort of like Mason's.


Wanna move, on probation, dont know what to do by Doris Pockway - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 01:14:44 EST ID:vKvaev27 No.512981 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>24
>on probation in midwest until 1/2018
>About to drop out of school to pursue a trade, plan to finish my semester and get an apprentice electrician job by mid summer
>Really want to expand my horizons and move out of state though, either to the south west or a marijuana friendly state
>Also don't want to leave my family.

Fuck, I feel so cooped up in the midwest. If I wasn't on probation, I could leave the state shortly after my lease is up at the end of august. I could join a trade wherever I end up and stay there at least until my trade was over. It is very hard to move when youre learning a trade, you need to get permission to leave from your local chapter and get the one youre looking at to accept you, it usually involves flying out of state for an interview.

College is bullshit, I don't know why I started this. If I join a trade, I'll be making good money in a few years and will own a house within the next 10 years. If I stay in school for psych, I probably won't make it, it'll be hard to find jobs, and i'll be in crippling debt.

Anyone ever drop out of college and become an electrician? How'd it work out for ya? I also feel like this country is about to implode and the midwest is one of the safer places I could be right now.
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Doris Pockway - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 01:53:57 EST ID:vKvaev27 No.512983 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Should mention that the reason I dont wait until I'm off probation to move is because i'll have to be paying back my college loans by than (which are ridiculous) and will need a source of income.
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Augustus Cebblespear - Fri, 03 Feb 2017 03:03:00 EST ID:mu8hf6Xw No.512985 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Get the permissions and go for it. There's no guarantee it works out but you'll have a chance. Realistically even with some political upheaval things will be fine with the us in the long run. The systems made to be able to bounce back. Just do your best to get permissions and hopefully end up in your trade of choice. You'll have to transfer your probation but that's not even the hardest part of all this. Got to get yourself set up my man.


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