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Old girlfriend problems by Phyllis Ferrysot - Tue, 11 Apr 2017 15:00:28 EST ID:bh62+BfD No.515383 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I mightve posted about this a bit here a few weeks ago, but more has happened and i cant remember if i have or not.

So a few weeks back I ran into an ex girlfriend. She cheated on me and left me a few years ago. Before we dated we were best friends for years. We chilled every day pretty much all day and I always secretly wanted to fuck her. When I ran into her i was rolling and on coke and she was wasted. She told me that she got raped a few months back when she was growing pot in a legal state, and that she couldn't trust telling anyone or having sex with anyone, and that she came back home immediately.

For the past few weeks since ive seen her she kept hitting me up to chill occasionally. I went over their after work this morning.

She was drunk sitting around smoking cigs listening to sad piano music. We talked about an old friend who died alot. She told me that she cant stop drinking because shes afraid she'll die if she stop. She told me all this shit, about how she loves me and never stopped loving me but just couldn't be around her when I was being abusive in many ways and there was so much drama with different love triangles going on and a friends death at the time. She said that she forgives me for mistreating her and that she knows that a big part of it was her wrongdoing and that she was being the bad guy. It was an emotional part of our lives for everyone.

I'm in the process (and have been for years) of reclaiming my life. I dont drink as much, I very rarely use drugs (the coke and molly was an exception that night cuz i went to a show but i dont do stuff like that almost ever anymore). I have an adult career job now and will live in my own house without a roommate soon.

She recently lost her job from drinking on the job. She is an emotional trainwreck, she says shes leaving the state again in a few months to go grow pot because the dude who raped her left.

I love this girl and its much more than when we were dating and in a very different way, its more of the way you love an old friend or lover. I've never felt this way about anyone before. She tells me she loves me and it feels sincere.

But, I'm at a completely different point of my life than her. I'm going to get little sleep because she kept begging me to stay at her house and cuddle with her, now my sleep is gonna be screwy. I keep telling her that she needs to learn to love herself and that shes a beautiful person and needs to see it, and that I realized a long time ago that me or no one else can save her and that its on her. I'm not gonna destroy my life to save this girl, it took me a dear friends suicide, blackout drinking for months, and ending up in rehab to realize that. I've come along way and i'm not going back.
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Wesley Mattinghall - Tue, 11 Apr 2017 15:31:56 EST ID:bAj8skhr No.515384 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You're sort of an idiot but see how it goes. If she doesn't turn up then well, stop wasting time.

Alcohol withdrawals can kill. If she gets really bad then a low dose of benzos or tapering may be the only way. Look up delirium tremens. Make sure if you do taper you actually taper her.

People do need to save themselves to an extent but honestly they need the help of others. On one hand being there and offering it if she needs it is good. But if she is not yet (or ever) ready to take it then don't keep wasting it on her. Find some other outlet for your "kindness".

I have that tshirt. Can't beat the buzzo.
Frederick Gonkinworth - Tue, 11 Apr 2017 15:51:43 EST ID:bNv/bif7 No.515385 Ignore Report Quick Reply
idk if shes ready for it yet. She says she knows she needs help and that shes a wreck but can't find it in herself. She says that ever since she got raped shes been completely disgusted with herself. She used to be a big time sloot and honestly I dont think she really has sex anymore from what it seems like. She does nothing but sits in her room and gets drunk and cries all day.

Thanks. I dont need another outlet for my kindness, i never reach out to people and haven't since this girl. I could have a few other girlfriends right now (not serious relationships but ya know) that are better looking and have their shit together more than this girl but I choose to spend my time with this girl because I still care about her to a degree
Molly Cronderville - Tue, 11 Apr 2017 21:14:56 EST ID:o3vIoRWZ No.515393 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>I choose to spend my time with this girl because I still care about her
That's nice, but. You care about yourself too. You're the ONLY irreplaceable person in your life.

>I want to help her
>But she can't even help herself, so i'll save that for someone else
Yes. Save it for yourself, the strength and effort needed to build that good life.

>I'm in the process of reclaiming my life
You're at a delicate point in life. Don't get distracted, don't get pulled in. I disagree with Wesley. You're still too unsteady and vulnerable to roll with it and see where it goes. Who you associate with has a huge impact ("you can tell a man by his company", "birds of a feather flock together", dozens of ancient wisdoms attest to this).

Alienate her for now for the good of both of you.
At this point in time, you need to surround yourself with people who are the type of person you strive to be, for it will help you get there.
At this point of time, she needs to get real help from psychologists for her trauma and addiction, not a crutch in the form of a sympathetic ex.

Be realistic. Doing it is the best for both. This is one of those many times where good actions and decisions are hard and may seem cruel at the moment. But I hope you know they have to be made. Just like you now know why your mom didn't let you eat candy before dinner.

Trippy by Ernest Binnerchag - Tue, 11 Apr 2017 18:44:49 EST ID:RVEMMAaH No.515389 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Alright so long story short, I was in a relationship with this one girl couple years ago we had our ups and downs off and on type deal, I really loved her fell for her hard etc

We absolutely never talked in how long like a year plus long time anyways, I thought about her here and there as time past you know kind of reminiscing type deal, ya I miss her at times

Well this is the weird thing, I had a random dream of her last night it was pretty much about us saying sorry to each other hugging and we kissed it felt like how it was back in the day, so I woke up from that dream and I felt really reminiscent I really started thinking damn I miss her type of feel

As I was waking up I started checking Facebook while thinking about her reminiscing, a friend request pops up and bam it's her adding me after how long of no communication

What the hell I thought too myself, here I was just finished having a dream about her and looking back reminiscing then out of no where adds me what a coincidence

pic not related
David Bardwill - Tue, 11 Apr 2017 20:11:16 EST ID:zPu+Cn1i No.515390 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Synconicity dude, the unexplained but understandable phenomenon we often enounter in life. It's really cool to imagine that we are capable of forging this kind of link with people we come across in life.

My advice, don't get too excited. Approach this with curiosity and joy for reconnecting and keep an open mind. It's just as good to renew the friendship sometimes.

So I managed to get a girls numbah by Phineas Cuttingmedging - Tue, 11 Apr 2017 06:39:15 EST ID:583UPQsG No.515374 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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What should I do to take it to the next level?
I've been thinking of asking her out for a cup of coffee next week. I have no idea what I'd talk about. I have successfully given off the impression that I am a functional human and not a drug-enjoying, friendless dude in the midst of a permanent existential crisis. What do you even do outside with a girl? Like, how do I not chocke or embarrass me?
End goal isnt sex but a human connection so help a mofo out.
Ernest Tillingbanks - Tue, 11 Apr 2017 07:53:07 EST ID:35+jbzpY No.515375 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Are y'all of drinking age? Get a drink with her. Very casual, plenty of places have outdoor drinking areas, and you can kind of judge what type of person she is by the way she orders/what she orders.

If not a bar, then yeah a cafe would be great, and maybe a walk in the park afterward, talking about a bunch of stuff.
Be goofy, be funny, don't try to be too suave or you may make her think you're just looking for something short and sweet.

dizziness ruining life by Maya - Tue, 04 Apr 2017 16:13:28 EST ID:x7WE7nJb No.515144 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I spend a lot of time in bed due to chronic dizziness. It sucks the joy out of my life and makes everything feel like a chore. Even sitting up in front of my computer is hard. I recently went 4 days without even showering. It might be part of my fibromyalgia. Sometimes it is accompanied by crippling pain. It started years ago but has grown progressively worse. Being in bed all the time is boring and sad. I see a neurologist and recently made an appointment with a doctor who specializes in dizziness. I saw my primary about it and she ordered 6 different blood tests. The neurologist has tried every migraine treatment on me. I am doing everything I can to solve this but was wondering if anyone has any advice for me. Whether it be how to make it go away or cope with how I can't do the things I love anymore....
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Esther Crudgenetch - Tue, 04 Apr 2017 18:47:02 EST ID:jPpWgI0N No.515151 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I don't know about dizziness much OP. But I have hellish tinnitus that will never leave me. Got it this year in one ear, the side I sleep on. So I had to buy specialized speakers that go inside my pillow to play white noise so I can sleep. I hope the power never goes out for any incredible length of time.

Dramamine is used for carsickness, no idea how it will help with dizziness. Might even make it worse not better.
Also, it's odd...but I'm post number 515151. That's cool to me.
Maya - Tue, 04 Apr 2017 19:13:27 EST ID:x7WE7nJb No.515154 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Aww yeah, I've tried Dramamine. It didn't do anything.
Ian Sellerman - Tue, 11 Apr 2017 03:12:15 EST ID:pso6apAS No.515366 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Is it something like Benign Paradoxical Vertigo, OP?
Ian Sellerman - Tue, 11 Apr 2017 03:13:03 EST ID:pso6apAS No.515367 Ignore Report Quick Reply

My bad, I mean "Benign paroxysmal positional vertigo"
Fuck Bollerwark - Tue, 11 Apr 2017 05:27:45 EST ID:g2Okxe3A No.515371 Ignore Report Quick Reply
look up MTHFR and b12 therapy,

I need some perspective pls by Fanny Clablingterk - Sun, 09 Apr 2017 23:54:27 EST ID:Rf/wuFK3 No.515325 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So I'm at what feels to me a point where I feel the need to ask serious questions to someone and my intuition with these things tends to be a little obtuse. I need some advise on how to go about this or if I should at all. Here is the situation.

I have known this girl for about six years. I worked with her for about 3 days a week for 4 years. We talked a lot during that time and it was obvious that there was something between us. I knew that she would be a keeper but I also knew I had no intention of actually being with someone long term at the time and I made that clear. She got a boyfriend I got a girlfriend and a better job everything between us is kosher. After about a year of not seeing each other she hits me up. She and her friend, a girl I was casually friends with at work do bar trivia on Tuesdays. She complains about her BF, OK whatever who doesn't complain about their SO. But of course now that I'm seeing her out of work I'm starting to see this whole new side of her that I'm really into. And in those rare moments when we are alone together she has made it clear she is still really into me. I've been single for about 6 months and I have more or less just let it be because I want her to decide what the fuck she wants. But now I've met one of her friends and we are hitting it off. I feel like if this happens it may ruin any chance that I had with girl A. Should just tell her I wanna fuck her friend but I would much rather fuck her? I just want to know if this bitch is stringing me along or if she's just to scared to be alone again.
Martha Hiblingford - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 01:38:01 EST ID:qgSlhkvl No.515328 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You basically have the right idea. Just say you have a thing for her and need to know if she wants to do it before you make yourself available to someone else.
Obviously it isnt cool to put your life on hold and honesty is best
Frederick Hemmerhood - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 02:41:16 EST ID:g2Okxe3A No.515330 Ignore Report Quick Reply
uhhh this sounds horrible
as in, she has a boyfriend, shes not yours and if she makes herself available because youre giving her an ultimatum about fucking her friend... then thats not good

fuck her friend
Oliver Dartworth - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 07:52:59 EST ID:vATdGl2v No.515331 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I'd say the same. Girl A had a boyfriend, girl B does not. Tell girl A you want to get with girl B and see what she says
Charlotte Dartfield - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 18:13:18 EST ID:bAj8skhr No.515352 Ignore Report Quick Reply
This sounds like the best option though unless girl A says something particularly good. I don't just mean "oh I'll leave my guy" but unless you're 120% that she's actually in the process of exiting the relationship and can't just leave him due to super extenuating circumstances AND she has a good reason that she even got into that situation... well girl B is actually available.
Charles Smalllock - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 23:03:31 EST ID:FAczAueA No.515364 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Cool much appreciated.

I dont know by Nathaniel Duckman - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 18:53:04 EST ID:Y2SXQhpT No.515354 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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What does mean when girl you like(and she knows about it) fuck somebody else, and write you afterwards, not about that but just normal conversation.
Sophie Sungermock - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 19:52:17 EST ID:jPpWgI0N No.515355 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Wow. It means cvckoldry.
But seriously, it means she got railed by some fag that ain't you, and then thought "OH I WONDER WHAT OP IS UP TO! I JUST GOT RAILED!" so she hit you up, because she doesn't see you as threatening. She likely sees you as "one of the gals".
Hedda Dallyket - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 20:08:39 EST ID:R4eSEcR1 No.515356 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I knew a girl like this once. I just recently told her to fuck off after she was posturing about me being weird. I knew her since I was like 20 and I'm 28 now. She was 16 when I first met her but we never did anything. We always hung out and she knew I liked her. She had me pick her up at a guys house she had been fucking. Knowing I liked her but she was using me because she knew Id do anything she asked (because I liked her).

We were still friends up until a couple of weeks ago. I decided to tell her how I really felt about her then she blocked me on facebook. Called my phone but I didn't pick up haha. Bye bitch.
Phineas Cuttingmedging - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 22:49:49 EST ID:583UPQsG No.515362 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I mean if this is her protocol behaviour after getting a good dicking then you should be worried. Otherwise she might like you.
Nathaniel Brookhood - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 23:02:10 EST ID:sCFGPRvB No.515363 Ignore Report Quick Reply
It means she's a filthy slut and you shouldn't like her anymore.

Am I an asshole? by Cyril Chenderhall - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 16:37:57 EST ID:nDF8a3If No.515348 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So a friend of mine who I've known for about a year now started telling me she liked me, but she barely knew anything about me so I was just like WTF? We are not sleeping together but she wants to. She's married to a guy who is always in and out of jail. Told me that he "may have killed someone" while they were dating. I've put her in the cakefart and kept her there because I think she's a fucking idiot.

I've always taken care of myself as far as my appearance goes, and especially in the last two year I've taken to working out everyday so I'm in the best shape I've been in. This tends to attract the most vapid of women, and this chick is like at the bottom of the totem pole as looks wise, and personality wise. There's nothing about her that is interesting and she has guys trying to fuck her. It's not that easy for men to get laid, a woman gets pussy just by existing. Okay, i'm all about being honest with people. She seems to have this over inflated ego because random dudes hit her up for sex on Facebook and I told her that wasn't a good thing and that it makes her a slut for sleeping with men she barely knows while her husband is in jail.

She thinks shes hot as shit, and she told me she gorgeous and I negged the fucked out of her. She sent me sad face emojis and shit. I'm like tired of being nice but sometimes you gotta tell people the truth, especially when they try to brag about how guys are hitting them up all the time. When she hasn't accomplished anything in her life besides being married to a guy with ADD at one point who she bossed around so he left her ass. Now she's married to a thug wanna be type who stays in jail. Doesn't support her or work at all. Living that gangsta life yooo

People are stupid and give me headaches.
Charles Mettinglack - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 17:29:28 EST ID:CFSPhP33 No.515349 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You're probably a fucking retard too

Ignore them and move on
Hedda Dallyket - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 20:20:11 EST ID:R4eSEcR1 No.515357 Ignore Report Quick Reply
your the only retarded one here
Hedda Dallyket - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 20:20:11 EST ID:R4eSEcR1 No.515358 Ignore Report Quick Reply
your the only retarded one here
Nathaniel Bimblenot - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 21:45:09 EST ID:Wt8UMMMt No.515360 Ignore Report Quick Reply
jesus christ. i'd rather read the schizo threads than this drivel. you are shit and i dont care OP
Nathaniel Brookhood - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 22:40:31 EST ID:sCFGPRvB No.515361 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Nah you're not an asshole, she's sounds like a terrible person.

How to be my normal self? by Edward Wambleshit - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 14:12:37 EST ID:idI3VRUZ No.515338 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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People I know in life always tell me at certain points that I sound or look good, but most of the time I'm not "good". I feel as though I'm not acting like my normal self and my brain is stuck in an annoying loop where I'm trying to act normal but failing.
Ernest Brookway - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 14:56:53 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.515339 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Sounds like you have some social anxiety. Do you think of it in those terms? If so, how bad do you think your social anxiety is? How much does it lead to isolation, awkward social situations, etc.?

Ways to get over anxiety pretty much include exposing yourself to the things that stress you and recognizing neurotic thought patterns that either trigger anxious thought loops or continue feeding the loop. When you recognize the mindset, feelings, or those common thoughts that either cause, add to, or prolong the anxiety, you can proactively stop what you're thinking about. From there you can change your attitude and starting thinking about anything that isn't going to contribute to your problem.

So, exposing yourself to stressors means putting yourself in more social situations. The more experiences you have in an environment, the more commonplace and less intimidating it is. I don't know if you've played any sports, but once you practice an activity enough your body learns the activity with muscle memory, which allows you to perform the physical actions effortlessly without thinking about each and every step to go through. Learning to feel comfortable in social situations is just the same, you need practice being in places with several people and with interacting with these people. You're stuck trying to act normal but not being your normal self because you're talking about trying to be two different "normal"s. One is normal in a social sense, the other is normal with regards to your typical behavior when nobody else is really around.

Getting experience with how to respond with the variety of ways people will respond back to what you've said (which includes lots of body language) is what winds up giving you the confidence to say things without being afraid of sounding weird or creepy. You essentially build up a library of experiences that teach you what topics and what specific responses to give to people in a variety of situations, and whether they are appropriate or not. Until you actually build that library of experiences up, you're going to be stuck in a mode of perpetual self-moderation... wondering if you sound weird and if you should or shouldn't sa…
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Edward Wambleshit - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 15:13:54 EST ID:idI3VRUZ No.515341 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I'm not really talking about social situations as much as I'm talking about how I feel on the inside. Sometimes I feel good and people notice it without me saying anything when I'm just going about my day.
Ernest Brookway - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 15:23:24 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.515343 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Oh, I thought you were saying that they said you looked good but it was during the times you didn't feel like yourself. What exactly do you mean by not feeling good? Like you're having an off day or what?
Edward Wambleshit - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 15:32:31 EST ID:idI3VRUZ No.515345 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I have schizoaffective disorder depressive type. My schizo symptoms are under control but I'm always depressed.

Balls deep in Bullshit by BewareTheLongWeinerOfBeavis - Thu, 06 Apr 2017 20:51:22 EST ID:qgSlhkvl No.515243 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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What do I do about my fuckhead uncle?
He is like 50 years old and on god knows how many drugs, just got out of prison last year for smashing his car into my moms and busting in the house trying to hurt her. Mom is so nice, she drops the charges and we dont see him for a couple years. He starts talking to mom again and is sucking up and she actually lets him move in to our inherited house. Simply because there was no will mom and him both had their names on it, but mom has been living here and paying taxes for several years and if he had any control over the house, he would loose it or sell it. He doesnt give a fuck about it being his moms. So anyway, he moves in and pays the electric bill like 3 times and never pays anything after that. He gets paid disability btw because he had a stroke from drug useage. We find out he has been spending money on whatever he wants, new cellphones, plasma screen, he spends all his food stamps. We dont get shit and he eats our food, uses our water, our power, and steals shit. while blaming me for it disappearing and saying all sorts of shit about me just to make himself look better because he wants to freeload. He bad mouths my mom and she just takes it. We even found his heroin needles. Other people say he is iv'ing more than just that. He has other places to live, but he wants to be a shithead on purpose and come here because its legal for him to do whatever. The cops even said we cant really get rid of him without taking the house to court which then the house would be sold and we would have to move. I dont want to just piss him off because then he throws a tantrum and calls the cops for no reason who then show up and bug everyone for an hour before leaving again. I want him out of this house or deceased and im not putting murder on my hands or going to jail for just curbstomping his crack dick in the dirt so idek dude. I may slap him around some though and deny it just because of how confrontational he is in a house he dont even pay to live in and trashes however he wants while staying fucked up and talking shit to everyone he knows. What do you guys think? I will not ruin my progress in life by going to jail over him. How the fuck is america so screwed you cant kick som…
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BewareTheLongWeinerOfBeavis - Thu, 06 Apr 2017 21:30:40 EST ID:qgSlhkvl No.515251 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Everyone here hates him and he is paranoid from the stuff he uses so he thinks everything that goes wrong is us trying to get him. This keeps him away from here for longer periods of time, but we cant just move his stuff out unless he actually moves out. I hate how cornered we are. I have considered going to jail just to help my family, but to be sure it worked I would have to kill him if I did and I really dont want to spend that much time in prison. No matter how bad it is here, he would use us as a storage unit just to be a dick before he would ever move out. He lives in the damn dining room btw so it isnt even a bedroom, but he put up curtains and all his shit is in there
Beatrice Pittdale - Fri, 07 Apr 2017 10:23:33 EST ID:ngLYHpR4 No.515273 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OP, there is a really easy solution to this.
Call the police.
Tell them your uncle moved in with you, he's an abusive drug-abuser, and tell the police to come to your house some day when you know he's on drugs. It's that simple. He goes back to jail, you get away from him.
Betsy Cresslepore - Sat, 08 Apr 2017 13:20:38 EST ID:sVVeQTaC No.515305 Ignore Report Quick Reply

yeah, just clean up everyone's naughty bits at an off site location and call the police the day he does shit again.
Fanny Clablingterk - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 00:02:29 EST ID:Rf/wuFK3 No.515326 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Give him money to support his shitty habits. Accelerate his decent to degeneracy. Give him all the tools he needs to destroy himself without being implicated. Then just take advantage in his growing weakness. Fucker won't be able to resist. You don't have to do anything but watch.
Martha Hiblingford - Mon, 10 Apr 2017 01:36:05 EST ID:qgSlhkvl No.515327 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I sincerely wish I had the resources to do this.
This fucker could eat through 100 grand in a week or two though and still survive.
He only gets jailed when his cash runs out and he gets caught.
Dead or in prison though, its only a matter of time

Being An Idiot by Phoebe Sankinhood - Thu, 30 Mar 2017 18:56:49 EST ID:wcR9wfzO No.514978 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So something happened today.

Yesterday I was visiting a friend in public, and I said some dumb joke about how I when I was eight years old I saw a Native American Pow-Wow or something like that, and I thought that I saw the men's naked penises underneath their loincloths at the time. About twelve years later, I mentioned it at a community college class that I was attending at the time, and the female teacher (who was a Sociology instructor) said "NO!!!" and an older dude laughed at me and said that I was gay.

I meant to say it as a casual joke, but apparently a lot of people gave me really weird looks.

When I went to see my friend today, she took me outside and told me quite sternly that I said something really inappropriate that time. I immediately felt really embarrassed and told her I was sorry, and that I've been losing my mind a little bit. I know that it was an inappropriate thing to say, but I was "in the zone" back then and I had no clue about my surroundings. She toned down quite a bit and said that she personally wasn't mad at me, but that I had to be very careful. I believe her, and since I've known her for six years I don't think she's going to disown me, but I feel like I'm losing it. Saying inappropriate jokes is a classic sign of emerging psychosis, and she has been able to tell that I've been "left of center" as of late, due to my father's reckless sailing trip down the coast of Mexico and whatnot.

I've been through a lot of shit, but I thought that I was getting better. I have no anger towards anyone, I've never harmed anyone, and I've felt this odd sense of inner peace recently even though I occasionally see things late at night. I've been practicing trance-like states recently, so I think that it might be affecting my brain a little bit. I no longer drink alcohol and I seldom use drugs anymore (I only use DXM, and I've decided that there is no point to it anymore outside of using it once in a blue moon). All I do is smoke non-additive cigarettes now.

I really thought that I was getting better. The fact that I actually felt embarrassment means that I'm not completely detached from reality. …
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Fanny Droshferk - Fri, 07 Apr 2017 02:31:03 EST ID:ytk1fNFa No.515264 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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You know like just dont tell that joke in public again. Those kind of jokes you tell to your drunk friends at a bar or something where its ok be a little racist since everyone is kinda racist. You dont have psychosis and i think your friend totally overreacted and is riding a pretty tall horse but just let it go and stop telling jokes in class or to your teacher where they are obligated to report this kinda shit. You're adorable really lol
Edwin Donningstone - Sun, 09 Apr 2017 01:09:38 EST ID:wcR9wfzO No.515310 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Yeah in all fairness it was partially my fault. I have no filter, but I was used to her listening to me repeating quotes from Beyond Scared Straight ("I will take your shoes! I will take your virginity!"). Like I said before, I knew her for several years and I was not prepared for the reaction. I especially didn't like how she acted like everything was fine when she was likely the one who reported me, or at least knew about it. She should have told me about it, like a friend would.

It just goes to show that someone who you think is solid, isn't sometimes.

Not many people can take a joke like that anymore but to be banned from a place that makes up half of the fucking town (a town of only 25,000) for even a year is fucking ridiculous and the fact that I could potentially end up in jail for even taking a wrong turn is potentially life-ruining. I told our mutual friend about the whole thing and she just said it was time to move on to something else, which she is right about but I guess I needed a swift kick in the ass or something. I'm on disability for a psychiatric condition so I don't have a lot of options now but to stay in my apartment or go run errands. I'm likely going to move to a rural town in Washington State in a month or two but that is better than here, especially since I've been here for seven years and this is kind of a zone of pain at this point. I mean, the fact that my mother is dead and my dad is fucking a stranger on my mother's death bed is a no-brainer. I've wanted to put some distance between me and my father but mostly everyone was like "No, don't do it." Now, it really seems like the most sensible option.

Oh well; it could have been worse and I guess it is time to move on, even though it happened sooner than I thought that it would. I wanted to move on but I had no real option at the time, but things happen.
Jack Fangold - Sun, 09 Apr 2017 14:29:38 EST ID:omX2BDyl No.515318 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Do they consider that joke racist or what? I don't even see the edge in that joke. Sometimes there's an edgy joke that I like but others think is offensive but I had no idea that someone could find a joke like that offensive and I'm Swedish so I have a lot of experience with retarded "anti-racists".
Sophie Fickleshit - Sun, 09 Apr 2017 18:18:50 EST ID:UxiKRMGt No.515320 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Yeah i don't get it either, it must be that the people in the states are generally retardedly insensitive to childish non sequiters
Albert Badgestudging - Sun, 09 Apr 2017 22:37:22 EST ID:wcR9wfzO No.515324 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Probably. The university has gotten a lot more touchy over the past five years or so, which is odd because in the 00s it was the least political campus in America. When I was an undergraduate there, there was hardly any LGTB movement (there was a popular drag show, though) and no one really cared about anything. The religious folk were also a lot more prominent. There isn't really a lot you can say around there without offending someone these days. It kind of takes the fun out of the whole college experience, especially since it is sort of popular to make false rape accusations (not to say that rape is never a problem).

I just don't know. Everything at least seemed to be stable until now. I always had a feeling that something like this was going to happen, but not for such a stupid reason. I've said a lot worse in the past. People really need to get over themselves and grow a thick skin. Fortunately, I'm not alone in thinking that.

(Former) best friend going out with ex of 2 and a half years, friendship over by Edwin Dicklemag - Fri, 07 Apr 2017 07:04:17 EST ID:34xwTbAU No.515269 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So to make a bit of a long story short one of my closest friends of 6 years has been going out with my ex girlfriend, with whom we went out with for 2 and a half years. It's been like that for a year but it's only really recently that I stopped lying to myself and realised I'm not ok with this at all. I basically severed my friendship with him. My ex girlfriend is a total cunt who I don't want to see, and even if she wasn't, it would still be really fucking weird. We talked about it and "fixed" things etc but she sent me some bullshitty annoying cunt email recently and from that point on I decided fuck this, fuck them, fuck this situation. There was zero consideration for my feelings, zero effort to do anything about the inevitable fuck up of our friendship.

To make it worse, he's tried to paint our distancing (prior to my severing the friendship) as something else. He said that he grew away from the people who weren't there for him during his tough times he went through not so long ago and closer to the people who were. I supposedly fall in the former. This is despite the fact that when me and that ex girlfriend broke up I tried to open up to him about how upset I was and all he could said to me was "Sorry man I don't know what to say I'm not good at this type of thing". So for him to turn around and say that he feels distant from me because he didn't fucking open up to ME, because I didn't prod into his emotional life after taking the hint that he doesn't like talking about emotions, just really fucking hurts. It stinks of him trying to rationalize all of this, trying to make it seem like our fucked up friendship is something other than the fact that he's decided to go out with my ex of 2 and a half years without any consideration for me. He says "I can't help who I fall in love with" but that I think that's total BULLSHIT. Me and another best friend of mine loved each other for a while, just after she broke up with her ex of 2 years, who happens to be a very good friend of mine. But we decided NOT to pursue it because we knew ultimately it would fuck up our relationship with that person forever, plus in the long ru…
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Cedric Dremmermid - Sat, 08 Apr 2017 06:18:55 EST ID:zjRwPz4D No.515298 Ignore Report Quick Reply
It's so hard to say man. The good times we've had between us over the past 6 years have been fucking amazing. It's hard to think that they mean nothing now, but at the same time I can't forget them. I just don't know what to think, but I know you're right, someone who has their best friend's interest at heart would not so blindly and inconsiderately get involved with their ex. For the record, this isn't the first time either. About 2 years ago one of our friends, who he has known since he was a kid, was going out with a girl. They only went out for like a month or two, but pretty much straight after breaking up my former best friend started going out with her. It was after they went for a year, and broke up, that he started going out with my ex. Find your own fucking girlfriend ffs - does it not make you feel weird as fuck?

Thanks man, that's a good perspective to have and one I do try to look at regularly. There's something to be learned from every experience, good or bad.
Hannah Puttingdock - Sat, 08 Apr 2017 12:56:02 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.515303 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I've got a lot of mixed reactions to all this. In one sense, I want to side with you friend somewhat for a few reasons. One reason is that you realize this girl is a total cunt, and in the interest of actually getting over your past relationship (and not just pretending to by completely removing her from her life in an attempt to bury your feelings or at least avert your eyes from it), this presents an opportunity for some actual growth on your part.

Now granted, since you know she's a cunt I can see why you might be tempted to try and dissuade your friend from being with her, but I think respecting his autonomy holds higher priority than trying to save him from future pain. He's his own person, if he already knows how things were with you two and still does what he wants anyway, let him. Even if this is just the girl trying to make you feel even more like shit because shes really that much of a sadistic cunt, he's still able to make his own decisions and I don't your feelings should necessarily trump his rights in that regard.

Now personally I look at things the way you did when you said you weren't going to go out with that one girl because you didn't want to potentially fuck up a friendship over it. That doesn't mean I necessarily think that you'd have been in the wrong if you had decided to go out with her anyway though. It's cool you considered your friend's feelings like that, but all this talk of what "real friends" would do is a little too shaky as a point for me. It's got subtle feelings of pretentiousness in it... not in how you use it, but the idea of it itself is too reliant on the context of the situation and even on the questions you ask and use it as a moral guide for. Think about it this way. If you ask if real friends would let a girl come between them and say that the answer is no, it would seem to imply that whoever is going after the girl should stop. Really it could be the person who isn't happy with the other guy going out with the girl though. If the question you ask is, "would a real friend let a girl that's going out with his friend be something that drives them apart?", it implies that the guy with the…
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Charlotte Trotbury - Sun, 09 Apr 2017 05:58:33 EST ID:uVdQhRLQ No.515313 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Good post, and thanks. Before my ex sent me an email I was up for trying to work with this. It made me uncomfortable but I was going to give it a shot, because I loved him and didn't want to lose him, and as far as I was concerned me and my ex weren't on bad terms. Why did I feel we were on good terms? Because the year before we had 2 separate emotional conversations where we both apologised to each other for all the bad stuff, and then thanked each other for all the good stuff. So on that note I presumed we were cool even if not necessarily friends or whatever.

Fast forward a year later, and I'm after talking to my friend about how different friendship is lately and how it's because of my ex (despite him slipping in the "growing away" bs). Then, like a day later after talking to him and supposedly fixing things, I get an email from my ex, her telling me that she wants to "clarify" that we're not on good terms. I told her I'm confused cos the last things we said to each other were very positive to which she basically says (not word for word) "Oh yeah, I forgot, well seeing as how you decided to bring yourself into my personal life I'm telling you". That just made me rage. Her going out with my best friend is not me bringing into her personal life, the opposite really. That sentence alone just reminded me of what a self-righteous, passive-aggressive, annoying fucking cunt she is and since she has basically openly declared hostility with me, there is no way I can pretend or force myself to have a functioning, normal relationship with my friend. That, plus I'm pissed off at him for having done NOTHING about it in the first place. Like he could've taken me out for a pint before they had started seeing each other, or fuck even at the very start, and talked about it then. Instead he let this bullshit awkwardness fester between us for a few months, really inappropriately brought it up at a festival (which I brushed aside), then said nothing again and was happy to let that awkwardness fester until I had to fucking bring it up again like 2 weeks ago or whatever it was.

Plus, again talking about that "I've grown away from fri…
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Charlotte Trotbury - Sun, 09 Apr 2017 06:01:43 EST ID:uVdQhRLQ No.515314 Ignore Report Quick Reply
And thanks to anyone who read and responded. Between my extremely depressed mother, being on the verge of breaking up with my girlfriend of 2 years and losing one of my best friends to my ex, I feel so emotionally sapped and fucked up. I can't do it anymore.
Walter Pocklefoot - Sun, 09 Apr 2017 20:46:59 EST ID:Wt8UMMMt No.515322 Ignore Report Quick Reply

but bro did you watch that kangaroo fight

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