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I used to be so fuckin smart... by Fuck Nonkinfatch - Mon, 14 May 2018 18:27:43 EST ID:seAq630b No.524084 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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There was a time when I was gonna be a genius, for sure destined for millions and early retirement. I was selling websites for 5 figures on flippa at the age of 14. I got 1580/1600 on my SATs.

Yet, a decade later, I'm one of the lowest ranking deadbeat burnouts. I got felonies on my record for getting caught with mushrooms, no friends, no employment history, a shitty community college degree, and no good ideas for fresh legal hustles. I compete for pennies with Indian dudes to get any odd programming job I can, on sites like UpWork and Freelancer.

Folks tell me if I work hard and really apply myself, I may be fortunate enough to score a job at McDonalds or something, in spite of my criminal history. I've actually applied there and gotten turned down for the position in the past.

I've been a sad loser since like the 3rd grade, but I always thought one day, it'd get better. Nerds have a tough time in youth but then rule the world later in life. Except, now I'm still a loser. I managed to play it wrong in every way possible.

I want to find something meaningful in my life. I want a way to actually apply my intellect towards something. I'm so sick and tired of camping in the woods collecting cans, or freeloading off of my parents.

Every day I'm constantly preoccupied by thoughts of suicide, miserable with the feeling that I'll never live up to my potential. The last few times I was gonna kill myself, I just did a bit of meth instead, procrastinating my death. It made write short stories and poetry again, like I used to as a kid, back before the depression took over my personality. Now I've been away from any drugs for several months (probation), but the cravings have yet to subside. I live in the middle of goddamn nowhere, and haven't socialized with anyone in over 6 weeks. The isolation and hopelessness is sending me on a downward spiral into insanity.

Sometimes, I wonder, has anyone else been through these types of situations? Can anyone relate to this shit? Should I hold out hope for a better future? Maybe I just accept the fact that I've chosen the life of a low level criminal, stock up on pistol ammo, and head for the city to see what I can hustle…
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Ebenezer Favingnidging - Tue, 15 May 2018 15:40:59 EST ID:Ozm3RS4+ No.524096 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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I'm not in the same position as you, but I feel similarly sometimes. I was top of the class at school and as life got harder I didn't quite keep up with it, and I feel like I'm wasting my potential a lot of the time.

One thing I have learnt though, is that believing in yourself is half the work. Seriously. Some people may not be the brightest bulb in the box at school, but they really start getting shit done because they didn't torture themselves umming and erring about whether they were good enough to do stuff, they just wanted to do it and gave it a shot. Meanwhile, I keep putting stuff off if I don't think I can do it perfect first time. And in your post, you just keep putting yourself down. Of course you won't achieve much if you're constantly telling yourself you can't, or if just give up. You have to change the way you think completely.

As tough as things are, be grateful for what you have. There is great solace in gratitude. What's your plan for the future? What would be a meaningful existence for you?
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Phoebe Gebblestock - Tue, 15 May 2018 21:24:05 EST ID:/pl3Lein No.524102 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>Can anyone relate to this shit?

Yes, more than anything I've ever seen on here.

Especially this part, the knowledge of which is eating me alive:

>Nerds have a tough time in youth but then rule the world later in life. Except, now I'm still a loser. I managed to play it wrong in every way possible.

Really this part too minus the meth (it's alcohol and weed for me) makes me think "are you me?"

>The last few times I was gonna kill myself, I just did a bit of meth instead, procrastinating my death. It made write short stories and poetry again, like I used to as a kid, back before the depression took over my personality. Now I've been away from any drugs for several months (probation), but the cravings have yet to subside.

I don't have any encouraging words for you, but it is actually kinda nice to see someone else have a similar problem to what I have, since part of this fuckery for me is that I've always felt so alienated. I've just always been an outsider, and while at a point in the past it was voluntary, these days I just crave being understood and meeting someone like me like nothing else.
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Phyllis Siblingpedge - Tue, 15 May 2018 23:42:17 EST ID:N3tHkTHy No.524103 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>Nerds have a tough time in youth but then rule the world later in life.

That's not really true, though. In fact, it's almost completely bullshit. Some of them get lucky and have enough of a sociopathic streak to capitalize on that luck, and you hear about them. But mostly, success in this society depends on luck, charm, luck, connections, luck, a certain amount of selfishness and ruthlessness, luck, and luck. Straight-up intelligence stands a fairly good chance of getting you a soul-draining job selling yourself to someone who used to be a mild bully or fratboy jock. They have been lying to you this whole time.
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John Nobbercherk - Wed, 16 May 2018 05:43:48 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.524105 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I can relate pretty well, except I've never had such high esteem for myself or my abilities such that my expectations of myself and my future in life are or were ever as high as yours. Not that that's a bad thing, I've just been a directionless floater in life since the beginning. I myself was much sharper when I was younger and things appeared as though a path for at least easy moderate success once I got out of school were already paved for me--all I had to do was actually follow it.

But, school and grades came so easily that I never really did homework half of the time or did it last minute the day it was due because test taking is something that's easy for me. In effect, my consistent lack of caring and effort in school, among other areas of life, for want of any need of those things or worry that I wouldn't wind up still out-performing an overwhelming majority of my peers (because there it was all an easily exploitable system that I played as if it were sport) sewed in me the seeds imminent failure once I entered a situation that required legitimate investment and application of real effort and dedication. And I don't mean to say that effort or dedication aren't things I'm capable of per se, it's just I had only ever applied myself or even learned to apply myself to things that were of interest to me. If it wasn't immediately gratifying, I simply wasn't capable of forcing myself to care or to do what was necessary.

So, despite being a relatively good and bright kid who was well behaved and right up in the top of my class, the moment I graduated high school everything came fuckin tumbling down like the fuckin End of Evangelion nigga. I enrolled in college and dropped out within 2 months. To pay off the debt and to save face with my parents I joined the Army. I wound up getting kicked out after 2 and a half years because I failed for cocaine in drug screening and left even deeper in debt than I went in. After that, drug addiction and being dysfunctional in society forced me to move back in with my parents. I wound up being unable to hold a job for more than 4 months, and then for nearly 2 years was unemployed, and for over a year of it I fuckin tried, believ…
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Molly Grimhall - Thu, 17 May 2018 06:01:47 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.524123 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524084

Life is pretty weird. Trends I noticed from attending multiple high schools :

A lot of the hot girls who did the sex and party thing early ended up pregnant quite early and basically turned into nobodies. If they weren’t pregnant, they had gone down the rabbit hole of drugs and alcohol pretty deep, now hang around with a 3 day ket, mdma and ecstasy lifestyle crowd and are partying away non stop in shitty flats in dodgy parts of town. Further education was usually pretty half baked. Only a rare few seemed to continue the trajectory of hot girl - good job, nice things and hot boys.

The guys who were kinda “top tier” of the group hierarchies but weren’t irresponsible seemed to never stray too far from their group after school. Maybe it’s relevance, maybe it’s clinging to identity but a lot of these guys just don’t really do much apart from see their friends and get drunk. The older I got, the more boring and beta they seemed. It’s a shame I let some of those guys bully me once, they’ll get a real fright when they meet me now.

The guys who were getting a lot of drugs, sex, fights and mischief from an early age (“the cool ones”) all now have pretty horrible rumours and stories attached to their pasts. For them, they have either pierced the veil and been left with emptiness and feelings of having “past their peak” or they reformed and became very well rounded characters who I respect a lot. The ones who haven’t done either, are still the same, and their life seems chaotic.

With the geeks and smart kids, it generally seems to go only one of two ways. They became really decent people, success with education and career but are quite different socially, can engage well as long as they are spoken to a way which works. Or they go full recluse, nothing important and generally overlooked in life. I think for geeks a lot of it is dependent on their actual exam results.

The stoners mostly turned out boring. They either warped their identities into parodies of their high school years, growing and exaggerating their character with every passing year, never actually changing. Or they sold out, adopted some sort of normative identity and put most of their character behind them in order to be a part of someone else’s group identity. Most likely working in trades, retail or a low tier office job if “smart”.

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So my personality sucks. Or I'm socially awkward. by Edwin Bugglechare - Wed, 16 May 2018 20:54:24 EST ID:jfR0c7UU No.524114 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So, I went on a website called photo feeler to play into my vanity. For those of you who don't know, it is a website where you can get unbiased anonymous input on photos for dating, social media, and work related pictures. I have 4 tests, and all look like this (these two are highest but only by no more than 4% in category.

So I'm not a bad looking guy as it turns out. Maybe I'm just a prick? Maybe I'm awkward?

Any tips for better social skills? More specifically, any place I can go to practice them without it being weird? I was thinking bars and such. But maybe joining a club at my uni?

Input appreciated, and yes, this is sad and vain I know.
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Charlotte Susslesedge - Wed, 16 May 2018 22:42:00 EST ID:jhxT8BUJ No.524117 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>this is sad and vain

i'm glad you're aware
yeah just join classes, clubs, groups, etc. it's like learning how to drive, ALL practice


Gripe General by Hannah Bresslekack - Wed, 16 May 2018 18:41:58 EST ID:WFZ/uYDo No.524111 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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For everything you wanna bitch about that doesn't deserve it's own thread.

>flirting with girl
>think it's going pretty good
>got her number
>she's flirting back (or maybe I thought I was being more obvious than I was and total misread the situation, either way it doesn't matter anymore)
>eventually end up in a group conversation
>she talks about how she wants kids NOW, doesn't care if they're an accident and kind of wants to have them even though she doesn't have a serious partner and then find a guy afterwards
>mfw

Holy fuck. I mean I'm not saying that I'm Rico Suave and I was 10,000% getting a date or anything but man it was disappointing. I thought she was super cool and things were going great, and then I found out she's a crazy person.
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Albert Dadgeson - Wed, 16 May 2018 20:07:39 EST ID:kIkRXbnx No.524112 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You could still put your dick in there though.
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Cornelius Fennerded - Wed, 16 May 2018 21:07:07 EST ID:WFZ/uYDo No.524115 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>524112
I mean, unless she was exaggerating for comedic effect (which it didn't seem like to me but I'm an awkward fuck so who knows) that just doesn't seem worth it at all. Besides, I don't wanna just get laid, I'm looking for something more serious. Not "I want kids ASAP" serious, but way more than just casually hooking up.


gay by Edward Duckwater - Mon, 14 May 2018 19:23:12 EST ID:UZC9gHak No.524085 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>need money bad
>make fake accounts of chicks and sell their nudes
>dont actually do anything gay but feels pretty gay still
>dont really flirt with dudes or look at dick pics or really anything gay at all but having a bunch of dudes try and flirt with you and logging onto girls accounts just feels fucking weird

i wish i could do it it just feels so gay but i need extra money on top of a job because im saving for an apartment and a car to get my life back together and going so i can just start working normally and maybe go back to a shcool out of town or something but it's practically to move far away with minimum wage jobs and shit and i want to use money to reinvest in a business idea i had.

i remember i told my friend i had the idea to do it and he said it was gay and laughed and then i said fuck it and tried it on kik anyway and i just got a few dick pics and shit and just said fuck it and quit. i came back and found a way to do it without receiving pics and shit but it sounds pretty gay.

i mean i guess it's not actually demeaning as whores actually selling their pics and people stripping and shit even jobs like doctors and shit have some gay aspects to them like seeing dudes balls and nurses and shit. im debating on if this is better than burger king and cleaning toilets and shit. i feel like spamming messages is less worse then cleaning up shit or something or the people who have to take care of dying old people changing catheders and shit.

i really just want a normal job and a normal job on the side and shit like that but i can't do that with my life right now
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Edward Duckwater - Mon, 14 May 2018 19:41:35 EST ID:UZC9gHak No.524087 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524086
i dont have morals i just dont want to feel gay lol i dont want to deal with shit all day thats disgusting
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Nell Clullykedge - Tue, 15 May 2018 07:19:06 EST ID:LZcwMVpc No.524091 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Suck some dick for a ride to the airport OP, it's not gay if it's to get out of your moldy house where it's probably currently snowing in your living room.
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Martin Drungershaw - Tue, 15 May 2018 12:50:24 EST ID:XoBFtXHJ No.524095 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524085
Dude. Use more punctuation. Fuck.
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Graham Cenkinshaw - Tue, 15 May 2018 17:20:49 EST ID:fh5xuZgB No.524097 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>even jobs like doctors and shit have some gay aspects to them like seeing dudes balls and nurses and shit
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Lillian Pivingstid - Tue, 15 May 2018 18:18:06 EST ID:+Za00QQ9 No.524099 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524091
And the dog is howling next door unless he killed that. Fucking parents are probably shitting in his bed as we type this even though he needs to sleep.

OP clearly likes dealing with shit all day because oh look here he is posting it. Cross post to /b/ incoming once he's stopped staring at women through his blinds and wondering why they won't fuck him.


Every relationship I've ever been in by David Drushfuck - Mon, 14 May 2018 06:55:01 EST ID:Jbl4u+hU No.524071 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>treat girl like shit
>fall in love if she sticks around
>breaks up with me once I'm treating her well
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Hedda Fibbletad - Mon, 14 May 2018 12:45:14 EST ID:hLeAUbHa No.524074 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524071
don't go out with girls who tolerate being treated badly?
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George Diddlemock - Mon, 14 May 2018 14:02:27 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.524078 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You sound like you've been in one relationship.

We need more details to properly diagnose your problem.
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Reuben Pishwell - Mon, 14 May 2018 14:04:12 EST ID:fh5xuZgB No.524079 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Stop chasing cumdumpsters with daddy issues
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Henry Sankinstock - Tue, 15 May 2018 11:24:33 EST ID:5obtt5xL No.524094 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Stop dating dumbass girls with daddy issues.
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Hedda Dozzlefore - Wed, 16 May 2018 06:06:10 EST ID:lXjUaJuo No.524106 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Stop dating dumbass dads with girly issues.


depression hole by Polly Fuddleshit - Tue, 15 May 2018 09:52:50 EST ID:+kSQWH2i No.524093 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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It's a cycle i can't fix and the downturns seem to last longer and are much worse now. Last night I was dreaming of killing myself which is new. usually it doesn't show up in my dreams. Now it's my entire life. Some people should not have been born. There isn't help for grown men who are sad. We're fucking losers. I'm not a cute problem. I'm a pathetic problem that people don't want to deal with.


How common it is to a mother to be close in a sexually sugestive way to her son? by Isabella Cranderstock - Sun, 13 May 2018 20:35:48 EST ID:FY8UtUb8 No.524064 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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When I was little, my father worked and drank a lot. This made my mother feel very lonely. When he worked overnight, she asked me to sleep with her. We did this a lot, for at least more than a year. I always felt close to her in a sexual way as a child.

When I began to grow, as a teen, she started commenting on my body. Like, making compliments. I won't specify what she said because I always feel like shit when I think of that, or those words for that matter, but she said things that one would only expect his GF to say. I mean, compliments on body and stuff.

Now I'm 23, but I still feel the effects of that kind of treatment. I have troubles with relationships, but mainly with her. I always look for some motherly figure in my GFs, even though I'm able to act like a functional adult.

I just wanted to know if this is common. And what should I do about it. I'm sorry for my English, because I'm not a native speaker. Also, I'm sorry if my post is vague or something like that. It's hard to talk about this subject, and I don't feel well enough to type a lot right now.

Pic somewhat related.
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Doris Dremmleman - Sun, 13 May 2018 22:09:58 EST ID:jfR0c7UU No.524065 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524064
Well, this isn't as uncommon as you'd think. Sad as it is, only sexual assault cases that make the news in terms of interfamily abuse, only includes men. Only time women tend to make the headlines for sexual assault is when the music teacher fucks 14 year olds.

That aside. Finding a relatable maternal figure in women isn't totally uncommon. We now know that we base our senses of attraction loosely on our parents.

I don't think the stuff that you went through defines you. And you have no need to carry shame about the things your mother said to you. She unfortunately used you as a way to cope with her loneliness. I never told anyone OP. But when I was 17, my aunt attempted to have sex with me. It honestly makes me feel disgusted and ashamed. Kinda like blurting a deep dark secret out in the middle of a highschool classroom. I cringe thinking of telling anyone else.

I decided that her shiftiness will make her suffer more than I did. Even now she's humping nasty junkie dick for pills and attempting suicide every other day. I'm a straight A student and former soldier of my country who served honorably. Who lost?

Move forward knowing you are who you are, and you don't step on others to live your life. Nobody like us should feel ashamed for what we were put through. And nobody should be forced to change who they are assuming you can live and let live.

As for relationships. Just be patient OP, you just haven't found the right one. Someone who loves you for you will understand. Trust me.

Good luck OP. I hope you figure this out and become happier in life.
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George Diddlemock - Mon, 14 May 2018 14:06:08 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.524080 Ignore Report Quick Reply
It's common, even in people without that inherently creepy intimate relationship with their mother. You're probably more intimate that most, but that still doesn't really necessitate trauma or any fucked up-ness.

What you should do is tell your mom that the imitamacy you have with her makes you sexually uncomfortable. That is, if it makes you sexually uncomfortable.
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Matilda Washlock - Tue, 15 May 2018 00:16:38 EST ID:efMYd2Nt No.524089 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524080
Well, in my case it did result in trauma and fucked up-ness.
What exactly are you saying it's common, anyway?
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James Crongerlidge - Tue, 15 May 2018 06:18:48 EST ID:USUZpST+ No.524090 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Honestly it sounds like you're psychologically beating yourself up over nothing.
Lots of people are close to their parents, lots of parents compliment their children and sometimes it comes across weirdly, most people base their adult relationships on things they learned from their parents.
Hell even if you exclusively beat off to mother-son incest hentai that's ok. It's not like you're actually trying to bang her.
You feeling guilt over it is the only thing wrong.


the red pill ruined me by Walter Chummerhog - Fri, 04 May 2018 04:20:24 EST ID:OWx1ClP7 No.523852 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I never was much into the Pua stuff on it. And i realized a long time ago that 75% of the stuff on their is whiny neckbeards.

But man, there’s some true wisdom of life you find on that board that you don’t find much elsewhere these days. And it comes down to this. Be a fucking man. If you ever want to be successful in life, you have to learn how to be your own man before you do anything else. You can rely on anything or anyone else.

And I tried to take this mindset and mold it into my lifestyle and make it apart of who I am. And you know what, there have been some bumps in the road but I’ve made it pretty far, much further than I ever thought I would.

And you know what’s fucking sick? To see how spineless and pathetic everyone else is. Not everyone but most. To see people my age who just never figured it out. People who would be homeless with s $12 an hour job if their girlfriend dumped them. People who would die in the streets, at the age of 26, if their mother kicked them out of their basement, because they have no jobs and no skills. To see the same people preaching about Bernie Sanders and how they’re male feminists, and how they envision a society ran by women instead of men.

It makes me fucking sick to my stomach knowing that all of these people will flop over dead. It’s not a misogynyst thing, I don’t have anything against women. I have something against fuckin other men who can’t pull their own weight. Thats the entire fucking generation.
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Cornelius Chebberfotch - Fri, 04 May 2018 12:41:29 EST ID:eusxCiqt No.523860 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523855
This is what I was thinking but far more calmly articulated than I could manage.

Op there is always further to go. Your next step is empathy. Also you're wrong, people adapt. They've live a fucking terrible life but they'd manage because they have to. Either you've never been in that situation, which is to say being a worthless piece of shit and having to cope, of you have and don't realise that it doesn't make you special.

A lot of people don't die when they lose their support, they finally grow up. I think that the reason so many men seem to be worthy of your contempt is because they haven't got to be any better. Their girlfriend dumps them and they would be even more surprised by you how well they'd deal. I was a useless piece of shit and lived. I didn't think to do certain things and be a certain way and then suddenly when your girlfriend/parents/friends drop you suddenly can't NOT think to do those things. They get done. You'd be amazed what most people can actually do when it has to happen.
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Betsy Brimmerwudge - Fri, 04 May 2018 16:04:49 EST ID:GNBLlvaL No.523862 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>I have something against fuckin other men who can’t pull their own weight

So if other men pulled their weight, then you'd fuck them. Got it
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Phoebe Hoshcocke - Sun, 13 May 2018 02:37:48 EST ID:JY4MVM0x No.524059 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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As someone in my late 20s this was maybe the hardest transition/realization that I ever had to make, that most of the people around me were wrapped up in stupid bullshit. You stop being able to relate to them and if you're like me, you just stop talking to them. My advice is to use this constructively and continue to improve upon yourself rather than criticizing others, in the long run we're all dead and every man must reap as he sows.
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Esther Murddock - Mon, 14 May 2018 02:56:25 EST ID:Ze+zbSWF No.524067 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>524059
This.

Hitting mid 20 and after starting college late has me in a weird place. People that are younger than me don't want to be where they are, they want to party, drink, smoke and fuck but they have no desire to actually learn. Some of them eventually make it. An overwhelming majority just sort of hit 25 and suddenly lose a ton of steam. As if partying forever suddenly isn't a reality. The women suddenly crave stability in a partner and a guy who doesn't just play an instrument, but has a job, a car, and maybe some money too. The men, whichever ones haven't become trans or become homeless, are either going along and finding their career/calling. The ones who don't typically drink a lot and bitch about capitalism.

Oddly enough, I have yet to meet someone who has a relatively middle class job that is radically socialist.

I'd say 85% of self proclaimed 'socialists' are extremely poor and bitter. I don't think conservatism 'muh free market' is fair. Quite the contrary, but people need to realize that you need to fucking adapt to survive, no matter who you are. This world doesn't give handouts to people not born into it.

tl;dr I sort of agree with you OP, if only because I'm pursuing a decent trade (software) and have an ironclad work ethic and don't drink all the time. Cultivate hobbies and workout, sure. But I feel like if you're still making bad decisions with money at 25, you need to get a fucking reality check.
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Polly Cobberlore - Mon, 14 May 2018 21:35:10 EST ID:0PJ7z1R+ No.524088 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Being redpilled is rough but necessary. I'm personally on the morally liberal side and fiscally conservative side.

>inb4 GO TO SOMALIA YOU FILTHY LIBERTARIAN

I think it's hilarious that people blame their problems on their surroundings instead of looking at themselves. If they could look around themselves without bias, then they would see their environment for what it is and realize they must adapt.

An intelligent creature adapts to its surroundings to survive. A parasite changes its environment to suit them. Of course you could argue the entire human race is parasitic by that example but what I'm talking about is simply adapting to the world you live in. You are part of the system and if you reap any benefit from it, it is your environment and you must adapt. Championing some dumbass social issue is not an excuse to avoid your responsibility to yourself.

Prior to this year I was a chemist who got fucked over by his previous organization after it was bought out by a private equity company. Now I'm working at a brokerage, licensed to trade securities, and ready fuck everyone else not only to survive, but thrive in the world I was born into. At a certain point you need to open your fucking eyes and do something for yourself, and I pity noone who suffers in this system while refusing to make the change to better their lives.


How Do I Date? by Molly Barryville - Fri, 11 May 2018 02:59:41 EST ID:cBYQH4Mo No.524022 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So I just split from a long term girlfriend and I guess it's time to date now. Should I use the Tinder? The Bumble? I am behind the times. I have never used an Instagram or Snapchat so I feel intimidated by these new apps I was secluded from during my long toxic relationship. Or should I just go out in person to meet people? Have any of you used these dating apps with any success?
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Esther Murddock - Mon, 14 May 2018 03:16:15 EST ID:Ze+zbSWF No.524069 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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I made a tinder profile once. Went on google and just nabbed as many stock-photo male models as I could (all of the same guy, of course.)
Went for a funny/sexy approach. The guy I created was always up for a good laugh, loved the outdoors and was an avid reader. All while looking like a more gaunt ryan gosling with a shittier haircut and massive biceps.

Basically I created the perfect bachelor.

What did I expect to find? Exactly who I matched with. Women who were only interested in a guy who spends every hour in the gym, women with commitment and insecurity issues, 19 year old college freshman who read too much allan ginsberg and major in art (I'm not slutty! I'm just 'experimenting' in college!) and a few attractive, albeit fucked up, moms.

If that's your shtick, go for it. It's kind of like going to a bar. You'll likely find someone drunk/desperate enough to give you a decent night, but it is highly unlikely you will find a suitable long term partner.
and if you have any tattoos enjoy fucking some blow-hard femi-meme-inist/tumblrite with daddy issues. Go right ahead.

Personally? I know none of them can cook worth a shit or have their mental faculties together, or have listened to anything besides bon-fucking-iver, so I didn't bother using any of those sites. I'm also getting older and a lot more jaded. I can't date anyone under 22 now who has read a book other than harry fucking potter.

I say find a social group that does activities you enjoy, you WILL meet cool girls that are into the same things you are into. It just takes being confident and getting them to talk about themselves.
Good luck.
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George Diddlemock - Mon, 14 May 2018 11:16:43 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.524073 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Just go with the old reliable RL tactics.

Find a social circle, ingratiate yourself among it, and start macking on the pretty ones. Go out to bars with them and just talk to a lot of people. Sure it might take you a couple of months but, unless you explicitly want casual sex, you'll know who you're fucking and if they're a cool person.
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Jack Sushmodge - Mon, 14 May 2018 15:10:50 EST ID:nBFbiL70 No.524081 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524069
>find a social group that does activities you enjoy

And if there simply aren't any in your area, then the next-best option is to look into volunteering somewhere. Do not pretend to be interested in something that you're not for the purpose of meeting girls.
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Reuben Gabberridge - Mon, 14 May 2018 16:20:20 EST ID:xBssPwJc No.524082 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524081

I'd volunteer for animal help or whatever but, its only like fat, old crazy cat ladies in that shit.
And yet its the only thing i'd feel motivated towards. I like animals. I like other things too but when it coems to volunteering, its the first thing that comes to mind.
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Frederick Hacklebock - Wed, 16 May 2018 21:28:55 EST ID:CbmOn/hA No.524116 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524082
Good exactly what I want


I got 99 problems and they all bitches. by Betsy Brecklemene - Thu, 10 May 2018 00:28:48 EST ID:0PJ7z1R+ No.524004 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Help plz. I don't know what I'm doing and I'm building a bomb that's going to explode.

Girl 1: Dated for 5 yrs, left her for better job prospects out of state, didn't cut off relationship, met girl 2, caught girl 1 snooping in my email, blew up, broke it off, called her horrible shit, apologized, started sexting, she more horny for me now than she ever been, she wants the D and I'm encouraging a visit, been rocky relationship for years, famalam don't like her, but we have incredible sex chemistry

Girl 2: Met recently, has kid, living w/ baby daddy, they not together but still living together, fucked her, she flakey, push pull relationship, I trying to draw her in, I winning, like her alot but she has massive baggage, she smart but stressed the fuck out, very sexy, want her

I don't know why I'm doing this, I'm just letting my body run wild and letting my brain calculate the maneuvers. I feel like I'm just causing a shitload of future problems that are going to happen, why am I like this. Girl 2, new employment, and recent big success caused massive spike in my T, feels like high school hormones are fucking me up. Now I'm making excuses, I'm good at that.

Give advice please, can't promise I'm going to listen to it.
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Samuel Sudgemog - Thu, 10 May 2018 12:12:04 EST ID:aE5H/II7 No.524013 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524007

Thanks, yeah, i just assume they fuck. And ldrs dont work. Bad sitch both but i don't mind dipping the dick in those situations. Don't see anything worth committing to in either situation but im fuckin worked up right now.
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Simon Pobblebudge - Thu, 10 May 2018 13:44:20 EST ID:hjdKGFK5 No.524014 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524007
who even said anything about winning hearts? lol
just fuck them both OP
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Walter Sisslepet - Fri, 11 May 2018 03:53:08 EST ID:ZUyzq7Pe No.524024 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Angus, here. I mean, if all you're going for is a hole to goop in, my only further advice is to not get attached. You may scoff at it, but that's how you get a 50% fuckin divorce rate.
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Wesley Gobbertudge - Sun, 13 May 2018 19:41:07 EST ID:0PJ7z1R+ No.524063 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Update:

Girl 1 is coming up to see me for a week of S&M roleplay and anal.

Girl 2 wants to continue getting to know me despite the fact that I told her what was happening.

Life gets weirder every year.
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Edwin Grimspear - Sun, 13 May 2018 22:21:43 EST ID:SVGcxz14 No.524066 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524063
Oh yeah when you go with the flow you'll end up in some weird situations. I could tell you some stories but you wouldn't believe me.


Bump when angry (BWA) by Jenny Gallerwater - Fri, 13 Apr 2018 14:51:38 EST ID:nqJb04sx No.523437 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So, I figured I'd make this thread because all of us here have a lot of resentment and anger towards the world. Sometimes when we are dealing with problems in our lives we have to get all of our anger and frustrations out in a healthy way. Thus, I made this thread. Don't be afraid to try to relate to me and any of us here in terms of our issues. We're all in the same boat to some degree. Finally, what ever you're dealing with in life, you're not alone. We are here to hear you out and help.

Anyway, I'm pissed off right now because me and my brother got into an argument last night. He's trying trying to tell me what I'm going to do with my life and how I should be spending my money. That fat fucking slob sleeps all day and can't even make it to a job interview, let alone not being able to pass a piss test since he's always fucked up off of opiates. Maybe he should worry about his own goddamn self and get his life together before he tries to tell other people how to live their lives. He's a fucking hypocrite who needs to mind his own business and stfu!

But, I'm moving out in 2 months. So, he wont be in my life that much longer. Good riddance fuck face. Because after I move I am severing all ties with him and going on with my life and live the way I want to. I will never see him or speak to him again. Trust me, my brother has done so much fucked up shit to me over the years that idgaf what happens to him. He can go fuck himself.

Bump!
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Priscilla Bardshaw - Sun, 29 Apr 2018 18:09:15 EST ID:HVCMaFcp No.523743 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523742
I've been having thoughts of suicide lately. I attempted suicide once and didn't die. I took sleeping pills which I thought would do me in. But, I woke up the next day. Years later nothing has changed. My life has gotten worse and worse. I don't know if I want to live anymore. I have nothing in my life. All I have is loneliness and darkness.
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Ernest Pevinghall - Wed, 02 May 2018 15:29:12 EST ID:JexXLkqH No.523819 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I'm not putting my life on hold for some bitch who wants to treat me like shit. I'm living my life and that's that. I'm going to do what I've been wanting to do for a long time. I'm not going to sacrifice my life for someone who wants to make shit complicated and treats me like utter trash when I'm already stressed out and I've done nothing wrong towards this person. I've made my decision as to where I'll be in a few months. Also, this person has been like this for a while now, going off at the mouth and acting like a complete bitch. I've had it. She can live alone and be miserable alone.
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Esther Sunderfield - Thu, 03 May 2018 18:02:05 EST ID:odLP8pTh No.523835 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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MY LIFE SUCKS

I just wrote a wall of text and deleted it because it was so specific someone would totally be able to discern my special shitty life. I am the strong friend that no one ever helps and I have barely any support for my bullshit. I'm ready to die but don't have the guts to follow through on my suicidal ideations.
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Archie Fiblingsidging - Sat, 12 May 2018 13:34:43 EST ID:Ghj1mx48 No.524051 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I've had it with my mother. Like hell if I'm moving with her when me and her are not on good terms since she has turned into a complete bitch. Doesn't help that she is addicted to opiates either. I'm moving in with my grandmother because I am not going to put myself in a stressful environment with living with my mother and have to put up with her bullshit on a daily basis like I have been for a while now.

This is my life and I'm going to do what's best for me no matter what anyone says. I'm 28 and am not getting any younger. I'm just starting to get out of a deep dark hole that I put myself in a couple months ago and now i have to put up with my mothers bullshit and her drama. I'm not going to let myself get stressed and depressed again, mother or no mother. At this point I really don't care if I see her again or not after I move away from her. All the love I had for her is long gone. She's not the mother that I use to know. That person is gone and at this point she's never coming back which I've come to accept. So, time to live for me and look out for #1 which is me.

Just needed to vent and rant on here.
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Fucking Nickleway - Sat, 12 May 2018 14:25:19 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.524052 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523835
>I am the strong friend that no one ever helps

I've never heard anyone say this who was actually the strong friend.


A subject is required when you catch feelings for your fuck buddy by Charles Cummlemare - Tue, 08 May 2018 08:26:34 EST ID:jZ+H+RqH No.523949 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I've been seeing this girl for two weeks now. We met over tinder and have been acquainted for like a year. I invited her to my place and we ended up sleeping together. Since then we've hung out pretty frequently.

Initially she talked to me in the context of dating but her tune has changed a bit. Last time we hung out she explicitly said "I like you, but I'm not trying to date you." (not in response to me asking her to be in a relationship. I dont remember what the conversation was.) She's had a lot of pretty bad dating experiences. Getting cheated on, abused, etc, so I'm not about to jump right in and ask her to be in a relationship yet.

But I'd like to steer her that way over time. At least make it apparent I'm looking to date her. How could I do that? We've hung out a couple times without sleeping together and I'm taking her on an actual date-date over the weekend
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Phyllis Murdfuck - Tue, 08 May 2018 09:11:20 EST ID:wPwkYQIo No.523951 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Haahahaha man why would you ask /qq/? There's no way we could give you good advice here.

But yeah my advice is to treat her well but pretend that you aren't interested in her that way at all. You have intimacy issues as well. You just want to fuck and she's a good friend that you care about. That's it. Then keep fucking her until it's long term. After a bit go on holiday. She'll be feeling you after the holiday.

Reverse psychology man. Might work. Spilling your guts wont definitely.
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Eugene Wivinglock - Tue, 08 May 2018 11:37:37 EST ID:Cf+ZmOZs No.523955 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523949

Man I shouldn't have given you Jamaicans for breakfast if you're going to be like that.
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Esther Winningdock - Tue, 08 May 2018 13:11:03 EST ID:+Za00QQ9 No.523960 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523949
Just be aware that she said she doesn't want a relationship. If it doesn't work out you only have yourself to blame if your feelings get hurt. So be careful and good luck.
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Basil Fundercocke - Fri, 11 May 2018 17:21:44 EST ID:yMuKm+F6 No.524045 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523949
take your time and really feel it out. if she's pulling the im not trying to date you thing respect that and just stick around. i once was hooking up with someone and it was a similar situation and i did the, "im getting feeligns for you thing" and i said it twice and then she was ended it cus she didn't want to hurt me, which was stupid.

but my current gf and i were fuck buddies/sleeping with other ppl for four months before we started dating and that came about by just having a lot of fun and talking everyday. and then eventually we decided to be exclusive and then we put a label on it. but yeah, go down on her a ton, b cool, and let it grow rather than force it to. also its hard 2 give advice because no one will ever truly know the context of your relationship with her so take everything here with a grain of salt. you probably know what to do better than anyone else.


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