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GF doesn't want intimacy, wants to sleep alone by Evening Majors - Fri, 03 Mar 2017 17:01:28 EST ID:AVHt7elG No.513964 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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together for 5 years now.
Never had real issues.

My new workplace got very demanding.
Can't do the household when I come back from work.
Need to relax by reading listening to music ans sleep often when I come home from work.

GF seems to have lost interest in physical love.
Didn't have sex for 2 months now (2-3 times a week was normal for us before).

I've lost interest as well, because of all the rejection.

She gets pissy very often, when I don't do the dishes
(its not that there are huge piles or that anything smells. She just has this annyoing perfection when it comes to dish-washing...)
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Memeory Bailer - Fri, 17 Mar 2017 02:09:54 EST ID:NycEgjCL No.514542 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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things can change after some time to think and a good conversation!
My first reaction would be to bail and my first advice would also be to dump that bitch.
But I know how paranoid the lack of sex and sleep can make me, sometimes!

Things like that can happen after 5 years of relationship.
You need to reassure yourself and herself and don't forget how important sex is for social hygiene!

Also its not the end of the world when you have to sleep alone sometimes.
Everybody needs his space sometime!
I use to enjoy my sleeping alone-times so I can indulge in my (rather weird) sexual fantasies and fetish stuff my woman doesn't enjoy so much.

Give each other space and enjoy your (hopefully) long lasting relationship!

I wish you only the best for your wedding!
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Rebecca Bungerdale - Fri, 17 Mar 2017 02:52:49 EST ID:EzXVpmDm No.514543 Ignore Report Quick Reply
He's like a comic book villain with that diction

did i just get trolled
Sidney Goblingford - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 00:26:10 EST ID:n1yNxChx No.514565 Ignore Report Quick Reply
finally.. the perfect synthesis. for centuries ever since the cultivated european aristocrat first discovered ostriches, he had pined for them with an unending and ceaseless LUST. their long, slender limbs. since exiting the pure state of nature, man's perfectability had enabled him to create not only the marvels of the world, but the ability to see truth.. women were quickly seen as that which furthers the genetic lineage, and nothing more.. their shrill voices, their weakness. for years man searched and search until he could BEAR IT NO LONGER. he sailed to africa with whatever means, literal banks were emptied (contemporary equivalent 475 BILLION britbongs fishkettles also known as dollars) and countries were ruined so that man could finally, once and for all, find a replacement for women. and now you have shown me the light. there is a being so magnificent that the GODS themselves would bask in the sheer temerity of this being. that very being is depicted here. the only part of the woman worth carrying on was the capacity for baby making.. THE OSTRICH WAS SUPERIOR IN EVERY OTHER WAY. but alas, a pure ostrich could not propagate the species without genetic testing and research, the costs of which far outweigh our current monetary power. with time perhaps this will change, but for now we have found the holy grail of union. together, man and the ostrich woman hybrid will carry forward the burdens of humanity into the future. for our children will be of the greatest calibre, and our lives forever enriched going on and on into the sunset. rousseau was correct about civilization domesticating man and removing us from our natural capacities, but there was one thing that he didn't forsee in his travel accounts: the ostrich woman hybrid. this will finally square the circle and provide the penultimate solution to the troubles of political society.

i will inform the guild at once and we will begin preparations for extraction.
rendevous is at 19:00 in a week. bring the package

Samuel Brimmlepodge - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 02:48:37 EST ID:I2FTZEKQ No.514566 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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buy a new bed. Solve everything, Swear to god.
David Bubberway - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 03:33:24 EST ID:PiDMdgO6 No.514606 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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thanks. that was a good read.

Personal Issues Board by Angus Cammermit - Wed, 15 Mar 2017 11:08:48 EST ID:ZkKEmZJm No.514440 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So I recently started a board on another platform than here. I just don't think it's healthy to support a drug culture while you're trying to help people.
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Jenny Berrystane - Thu, 16 Mar 2017 14:52:14 EST ID:HlEsXYeC No.514510 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Angus Dondlenotch - Thu, 16 Mar 2017 23:39:56 EST ID:HlEsXYeC No.514534 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Walter Pecklestuck - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 18:19:43 EST ID:mJHhephB No.514584 Ignore Report Quick Reply
William Gettingforth - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 20:41:19 EST ID:j5fiPK2O No.514590 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Something I first though when I saw this thread but couldn't put into words. But now I can.

There is something to be said for this board being rooted in drug culture. While there is the obvious disadvantages ie "dude do LSD it'll solve everything" "dude just smoke weed and remain depressed it doesn't work for me but I do it" kind of posts. If you have a genuine drug problem this is going to give you better advice and more real experience.

A lot of people here are aware of both sides of drugs, and they also realise that alcohol, MMOs, sex and much more can all be abused very simularly. They know how to stop taking various drugs are. What the pitfalls are. They have seen fiends and junkies and know what crossing the line looks like and can give some real advice. Depersonalisation, derealisation and weed "withdrawals" all the way to DO NOT FUCKING GO COLD TURKEY ON BENZOS IF YOU'VE BEEN ON THEM FOR YEARS NON STOP YOU WILL DIE TAPER FOR GODS SAKE. People who have tried some drugs, realised how they can be bad, have know people or watched people on and offline, get destroyed by drugs and all that shit. They know when it's worth giving up and when it's not.

The problem isn't drug culture it's that you get morons giving bad advice and you won't avoid that on hatechan. But you will avoid certain types of bad advice so good luck all the same. Just don't be surprised when the worst shit here (which is not the drug culture) turns up there to a greater magnitude.
David Bubberway - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 03:28:32 EST ID:PiDMdgO6 No.514605 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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You're thinking that people promote drugs acroos this entire website in an even manner, but really -

I've seen more advice on /qq/ to stop smoking weed than otherwise. I do see the occasional recommendation to take psys but usually there is some effort there, like, 'take psys in a comfortable place with comfortable people and focus on your issues. be prepared for a tough time but you will probably grow as a person.'

I mean, 420chan feels like the most welcoming chan for normal people. despite what you might think, that's a positive, and it's what keeps this community around.

Rape Question: Please Help!!! by Wesley Crockletit - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 03:22:41 EST ID:PP6wg+TW No.514603 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Sup guys.
I wanted to know if this is considered rape?

The girl said no so I pretended not to hear her and then I raped and murdered her.

Was this illegal?

Why can't I get my shit together by Martin Cligglecocke - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 01:41:43 EST ID:2u33x6tL No.514597 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I just can't seem to get my shit together. I've been unemployed for months, and I'm supposed to receive unemployment benefits as long as I apply to 5 jobs per week that are in the same salary range and same vein as my last job. A week is defined by the unemployment office as Sunday through Saturday.

I waited until the last minute to start working on my 5th application for this week. I started at 11:45PM, and big fucking surprise my dumb ass couldn't type fast enough and I didn't hit submit until 12:08AM. Since I technically submitted my application on a Sunday, it doesn't count towards my 5 jobs for this week so I'm no longer eligible to receive benefits for this week. I lost $300 because I didn't start my application 9 minutes earlier. I don't know why I always push shit off when I know how critically important they are.

This is petty shit compared to the things you guys are going through, but right now I'm so fucking furious with myself. It's when I do dumb shit like this that I realize how much I hate my own guts, and I do shit like this all the time. All of my failures and my shortcomings are caused by me. I don't think I've ever had a "good day" because I always fuck something up. I'm so fed up with myself that I just wish I was dead man.
Wesley Crockletit - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 02:22:27 EST ID:PP6wg+TW No.514598 Ignore Report Quick Reply
David Bubberway - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 03:06:45 EST ID:PiDMdgO6 No.514601 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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you've got to develop some positive thoughts about yourself, and it's really difficult in our society when you're constantly exposed to other people who look / feel happy. It looks so easy and makes you feel so shit. I dunno, maybe you have other problems, but the way you wrote just made me think that maybe you should learn how to give yourself a chance.

It's really up to you to get started earlier. Why not apply to five jobs today? Do you get distracted? What keeps you from just doing it right now? Is there a lack of self control?

I've gone through that shit, was addicted and sad, I think your best bet is to start in the smallest ways and work yourself up.

I'm telling you some cheesy advice, but go take a cold shower. Like, it sucks right? it's fucking cold water. It's unpleasant, and it doesn't even do very much for you [though cold water is better for your skin]. but if you can make the promise to take a cold shower and not break that promise in between here and the shower, then you've gone and done something that you wanted to do for yourself without giving up or procrastinating. You feel stronger after something like that, even as small as a shower.

I mean, I dunno, but I would feel meh without work. Try to stay busy busy busy and you can't even think about how shitty you feel anymore. It's the law of the computer, we are all just fucking transistors these days, working for the banks, but still - it keeps you sane and alive. then when the day comes that we bust up the suits and the mansions and the waste you'll be there to fight alongside.

Girl gave me the cold finger by Reuben Pinnerdale - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 17:26:41 EST ID:LP7sXigx No.514581 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I haven't did anything wrong to her she had an attraction to me but still decided to give me the cold finger because she wanted somebody more whiter than me that works at mcdonalds. lmao. little does she know I got cash saved up in bank and could have went on trips. but if that's all she cares about is skintone forget about her!
Frederick Burryford - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 00:00:59 EST ID:tDogmvzg No.514595 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I hate when they give me the cold finger. The chilling sensation haunts my ass for days afterward
Augustus Broshridge - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 00:32:36 EST ID:Lsu2uvaQ No.514596 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Did you use any phrasing similar to "cold finger" in her presence? She may have just realized you're retarded.
Wesley Crockletit - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 02:24:18 EST ID:PP6wg+TW No.514599 Ignore Report Quick Reply
David Bubberway - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 02:59:46 EST ID:PiDMdgO6 No.514600 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I mean, if it was cold enough and she put in the wrong kinda places

Steadfastly confused by Phineas Pittfield - Thu, 16 Mar 2017 22:13:39 EST ID:4RIQr7Ju No.514528 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Armchair therapists the world over, I need your advice. I'm a guy in my early twenties. I've had a couple of relationships, but have been single and sexless for the past year. Recently I met the housemate of a friend of a friend. She sort of blew my mind for lack of a better expression. So we talk, and talk some more, to find out we have a few things in common. Lots of eye contact. I invite her to do something pretty casual, a visit to a spring, she says yes and it's a good time, albeit quick.

After this the pace picks up and I really felt she had a strong desire to see me. We get coffee. I don't usually drink coffee and thus become a blabber mouth, although the conversation remains emotive on both sides and we end up sitting at the table close to four hours. Perhaps strike one against me for the word vomit. I invite her to go on a hike with me. It goes really well and I take her home. Eyes were locked on the goodbye hug for a brief instant, before succumbing to the vanilla hug.

We make further plans to go grab some food together before seeing a movie together. The meal is pleasant, we talk for about two hours then leave for the movie. This is it though, game time. Within the first 10 minutes I slide my arm over her shoulder. She touches my hands and we do the finger dance for a few moments. My arm remains for the entirety of the movie.

Fast forward to the parking lot after the movie. There's tension. The best way I can think to diffuse it is to suggest my desire to kiss her. She's been growing meeker throughout the leadup to this. I lean in and engage her, but there's zero response. None. I give up and let her explain herself. I get a half-hearted diatribe about slowness and its merits. She's progressively looking sadder as this goes on. I begin to drive her home and she begins to say she has something to share with me.

I 100% believe I'm about to hear a "I was basically raped" story. I touch her hand and tell her let's talk when we're parked, and give hint that I know this is heavy in some way. Boy was I wrong. I receive the "I've been seeing someone else" line, coupled with the "but there's no feeling&quo…
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Emma Faddleford - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 13:17:11 EST ID:9lpVA52w No.514574 Ignore Report Quick Reply

A better lesson:

>Don't chase women

Let women chase you if it's going to come down to it. Give up seeking relationships. Be happy on the solo groove and anything else is just a plus.
Reuben Creblingwun - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 16:15:04 EST ID:SwxeG+Tj No.514578 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Dind;t read the thread but this is solid advice. Zero neediness is sexy af to womans.
Wesley Birryhudging - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 19:38:32 EST ID:kePygWa7 No.514587 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Coming here because I saw this post on /weed/
>Just don't send a emotional response dude
Extremely important advice for a couple reasons which I'd like to explain and expand on. For starters being emotionally involved will bring pain if she decides against being with you, so its best to go in half hearted in the first place. Be "chill"
Second girls don't like overly attached emotional boyfriends most of the time. You've most likely seen this and heard this with "girls only date assholes" and its because that selfish guys won't get crumbled up and broken when things don't go their way, they weather the storm and carry on. That's the old fashioned man mentality, understand?

If she doesn't choose you, don't take it personal. What you need to do if you're not already like this is become a little selfish and improve yourself. This is sort of like the average advice you might hear "Go to the gym and start lifting." Which is an okay start. Better actions are to get a job and go to school, study, get good grades, and don't let others validations matter to you. If you become a better version of your old self, you're moving in the right direction. The point of improving yourself is to change your mentality from "why would she want me?" to "lol she doesn't want me? whatever her loss." Ask yourself if you found a cool, smart, funny girl, with a good career who was pretty and all would you turn her down? Its the same perspective from woman to man. Nah mean OP?
Shit Honeyridge - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 20:29:42 EST ID:9vn86lM+ No.514588 Ignore Report Quick Reply

OP, it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with HER. Shes in a relationship, she likes/liked you, shes obviously not happy in it if she has the time to go see a movie and have coffee with another man.

But if you like her, you like her, if this has turned you off of her, then so be it, but please dont feel like you arent "up to cut". you're good. Plenty of fish in the sea.
Beatrice Nunderbag - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 23:27:07 EST ID:n1yNxChx No.514593 Ignore Report Quick Reply
listen op
fuck everything you feel you ought to be
you have to be 100% honest about this
i think it bothers you, is this the case?
you will fuck yourself up if you pretend things are ok when they aren't
i'm serious. be careful. that hurt me just reading that man. fuck.

oh i just read
it's good that you were honest. you told her what you wanted.
i think that it wouldn't be wise to keep seeing her if you're not going to get it. even casually.
also there's a difference between fear and instinct/intuition
but yeah, that sucks man.
you sure handled this better than i did once upon a time

am I a bad person? by Phyllis Gackleford - Wed, 15 Mar 2017 14:24:15 EST ID:aeplqru4 No.514446 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Last night I told my boyfriend that I have been cheating on him in our apartment. He was shocked and then he became angry. He left and I haven't talked to him since yesterday but I have a feeling he's coming back to get all of his stuff to leave.

We haven't dated long but I have been unhappy and it started shortly after we began living together. he never gave me enough attention sometimes I feel like he cares more about his video games than he does me. It got so bad we completely stopped having sex and I wait til he left for work to invite a friend over to have sex.

We haven't had any real problems other than a lack of a sex life with each other. I had asked him if we could have an open relationship before and he wasn't very open to the idea even though I said he could sleep with whomever he wanted to.

Really like I feel kinda bad and I don't want to lose him right now. I shouldn't have cheated but I wasn't happy.
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Phineas Dodgespear - Thu, 16 Mar 2017 12:03:48 EST ID:HBK97BJ7 No.514498 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Urge to take bait...rising..
Hedda Clusslebury - Fri, 17 Mar 2017 22:06:48 EST ID:ByaHbKp1 No.514561 Ignore Report Quick Reply
na ur a good person op
Reuben Creblingwun - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 18:03:07 EST ID:SwxeG+Tj No.514582 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Jenny Brumblewater - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 18:56:54 EST ID:S8/3nVvW No.514586 Ignore Report Quick Reply

I like how a woman posts a thread on here and reveals herself to be a piece of shit no one wants to call her out on it and you got beta stallion puss is saying it's a troll because it's a woman and women don't do anything wrong.
Cyril Brambletudge - Sun, 19 Mar 2017 08:38:07 EST ID:2cRqUGEL No.514610 Ignore Report Quick Reply
like it's clearly a troll though?
If it isn't then yeah that woman's a real piece of shit because she shows no remorse and has lame excuses that just get worse the more people probe, but fucking hell it just sounds like a virgin's make-believe on what happens in a girls mind when she cheats.

>Really us breaking up is gonna be his fault beca use he just seems like he doesn't care at all.
I mean if that sentence doesn't scream "TROLL TROLLL TROOOOLLLL IN THE DUNGEON!" then either you're fucking stupid or the OP is.

nb for shitposting

Girl gave me the cold finger by Reuben Pinnerdale - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 17:26:41 EST ID:LP7sXigx No.514580 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I haven't did anything wrong to her she had an attraction to me but still decided to give me the cold finger because she wanted somebody more whiter than me that works at mcdonalds. lmao. little does she know I got cash saved up in bank and could have went on trips. but if that's all she cares about is skintone forget about her!
Reuben Creblingwun - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 18:05:34 EST ID:SwxeG+Tj No.514583 Ignore Report Quick Reply
so like is there a problem here dude?
Jenny Brumblewater - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 18:54:49 EST ID:S8/3nVvW No.514585 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Is she a black girl?

Black girls will date a white guy with no car and no money just because he's white. To them the white skin is an upgrade.
William Gettingforth - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 20:32:19 EST ID:j5fiPK2O No.514589 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I knew a black dude, who when I was almost morbidly obese swore he could set me up with a black girl who was gorgeous just because "white guys don't cheat", he was a total psuedo fuckboi mind you. It seemed appealing but even in the nadir of my life and self esteem I wanted more than to just be with someone who wanted me purely to be in a relationship where they weren't cheated on.
I have a lot of mixed feelings about this OP. I don't know enough about this for them to be a bunch of different theories though.

Firstly if she actually told you or clearly turned you down just because he was white then it's her loss.

However I would be careful about assuming. I hope that having some money saved up and not working a bottom tier job are not the best you can offer. I mean you could have a career path and ambition and that'd be more, or maybe you're responsible stable, kinder, funnier whatever.

Lastly you're mixing your idioms up. Cold shoulder man. You can give someone the finger but that's just flipping them off. Or the cold shoulder. Still at least you didn't declare women like her are a diamond dozen.

Oh wait, if you just want to get laid go somewhere really white and be a respectable black guy. You'll get women throwing themselves at you. Truth be told it's kind of vile because they're just objectifying you but if you just want to get laid it's a fair exchange. If you want someone worth a relationship, worth going on those trips for it doesn't matter where you live or who you are, you're going to find a lot of wrong people before you find the right one.

staying chill by Ian Blidgeham - Fri, 17 Mar 2017 01:07:13 EST ID:Zu1IwOob No.514538 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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How do you keep your cool through daily life?
I often let stress and worry control my life and it's not cool.
When that happens I try to meditate more.

What works for you when your mind starts getting hairy?
Hannah Webberhood - Fri, 17 Mar 2017 01:12:13 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.514539 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I try to rationalize all the reasons why I shouldn't in a very meticulous, deliberate manner so often that I essentially wind up learning not to. It works for me. The only problem is being able to convince yourself to look away from things that need to be seen, and avoiding feeling things that need to be felt then becomes a serious issue.
Clara Shakeville - Fri, 17 Mar 2017 17:46:51 EST ID:qDgNA3C6 No.514550 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I imagine I'm a much less anxious, confident person with their shit together and pretend I'm them to try and find a better headspace, breathe, and remind myself I can control my mindset (mosty)
David Fadgeshit - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 11:29:21 EST ID:KhOSe0X6 No.514571 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I get an injection of b12
Reuben Creblingwun - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 16:18:51 EST ID:SwxeG+Tj No.514579 Ignore Report Quick Reply
what works is stopping sowing the seeds and stoping being bothered by the seeds that are already sown, and that way stop watering em', just let them wither away, just ride it out and enjoy what is. Stop being bothered even in the slightest and it won't become really big and uncontrollable.

I feel like an useless loser. by Shit Blacklepitch - Fri, 17 Mar 2017 18:33:02 EST ID:P1CXh/N6 No.514553 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I feel like an useless loser. In 24 years of my life i haven't achieved anything meaningful. I didn't create anything, didn't finish my novel. Went to really shitty institute. Have a few friends, but sometimes I feel like they don't care about me. Girls never liked me much, had only two of them. Had quite a few failures in professional life. Was fired two times. Never had much money to experience life to the fullest. Never was outside of my country.

Right now i'm really struggling with job searching. I got fed up with office full-time life. I don't want to sit in an office every day. I have been trying to find anything else, but with no luck yet. I feel like I don't have anything to offer to this world. Like I do not fit in it.

I don't see any good future for me. It looks like only bad things await for me further. With passing time my lack of success in life will bother me more and more until I will pass some point of no return. I can't imagine having a wife or a family or a job that wouldn't crush my soul every day. And what's the point of living without a direction?
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Shit Blacklepitch - Fri, 17 Mar 2017 19:27:49 EST ID:P1CXh/N6 No.514556 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Don't you feel like you are running out of time though? I'm so scared of being 24, let alone 28.
William Clinningbury - Fri, 17 Mar 2017 21:11:48 EST ID:QVcoJ6HE No.514559 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>1. Choose skill.
>2. Practice, study, train, research this skill far beyond most people.
>3. Use your talents for self-fulfillment and/or monetary gain and/or self-actualization.
>4. Do you want to add another skill? If Yes, start over at step 1 with new skill. If No, start over at step 2 with old skill.

You are a sentient earthling with vast neural and cognitive capacity. There is unquestionably something in this world you could become exceptional at. The REAL question is, do you really want to offer anything to this world?
Mark Dingleberry - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 13:25:01 EST ID:RP3XrBMl No.514575 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Don't worry about "running out of time" .
Time is not real,there is only now
John Honeyham - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 14:06:23 EST ID:4D3dcOG1 No.514576 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I'm running out of now
Reuben Creblingwun - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 16:13:43 EST ID:SwxeG+Tj No.514577 Ignore Report Quick Reply


Fuck Em All by Henry Godgedet - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 03:01:29 EST ID:E2a2ZttP No.514567 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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My mother is eating my soul along with my sister and my dying grandmother.
My mothers ex-husband is obsessed with me because he feels like he can trust me.
My evil aunt is pretending to not know me because she came to my house when I wasn't home and tried to spread her shitty religion. My lawyer wants to kill me because I owe him $4400 because my mother stopped paying him. My mothers political connections have the cops monitoring me for no reason fucking up my relationships and employment. Ruining my life and landing me with two misdemeanor convictions one a completely fucked situation and the one felony is a vehicle code violation. My dad is cognitively dissonant to the whole situation.

Finally Tyler Durden and I share the same sick sense of humor and I'm on probation.

I'm still pushing through.
It fucking sucks.
William Clinningbury - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 12:39:13 EST ID:QVcoJ6HE No.514572 Ignore Report Quick Reply
sounds like you are the snowflake victim and everyone is teamed against poor you

i suppose you should kill them all
Fucking Bucklestidging - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 12:51:02 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.514573 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Your mom's ex-husband has faith in you and somehow he's bad for that? The rest sounds like bullshit hyperbole

How to Cry by Jack Hedgechodge - Fri, 17 Mar 2017 18:17:47 EST ID:n1yNxChx No.514552 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I have reason to believe that I have a lot of emotion that I haven't dealt with. I find it very hard to express emotion. I had a bad childhood.


I can feel the abscess of sad energy in my chest and IT HURTS

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Ian Grimman - Fri, 17 Mar 2017 22:07:57 EST ID:CFSPhP33 No.514562 Ignore Report Quick Reply
this. i didnt cry from like 4th grade up until i turned 20

stay true to yourself homie and you'll find what you feel about
Clara Shakebury - Fri, 17 Mar 2017 22:18:06 EST ID:LwDdrKTU No.514563 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I cried for the first time in 11 years just a few months ago when my cat died. It wasn't until hours after I had buried her that I even did.
Sidney Goblingford - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 00:11:47 EST ID:n1yNxChx No.514564 Ignore Report Quick Reply

I can't force it, but I believe that I can set the intention.
I'm fucked man, this isn't funny. There's this pit in my chest and I swear it's killing me. My life is suffering immensely, and always has. I need to find out if this is healing. And if this is all true.
I've also been told that suppressing emotions is a learned thing, and a way to survival, but when you block out the sadness and bad feelings, you block out the good.
Fucking Bucklestidging - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 06:29:39 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.514568 Ignore Report Quick Reply
i think the fact that you're fixating on it is actually half of why it's bothering you so much. i was the same way when i virtually lost all my emotions after a concussion. i convinced myself for 2 years that something was really wrong and i needed to find a way to get better (unfortunately dissociatives could give me my emotions back temporarily, which led to some addiction issues). eventually i got over it, and i realize most of my problem was created by me, for being so fixated on how i need to be able to feel emotions again.
Albert Gonningworth - Sat, 18 Mar 2017 06:31:02 EST ID:j5fiPK2O No.514569 Ignore Report Quick Reply
This is how depersonalisation and derealisation work too I think. Though that's just from reading people posting about it over the years.

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