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How do I reach this goal? by Oliver Banningshit - Mon, 13 Mar 2017 08:01:22 EST ID:/2QxagqM No.514363 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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All I want is to have sex with atractive women. Not "cute" attractive, I mean HOT. Women who people see and go "damn she's fucking hot". I want to experience what it's like to have a fuck buddy. I want to feel what it's like when women who I hooked up with send me lewd videos/pics of themselves and tell me they have to feel my dick inside them again.
I don't care if it's shallow or if I have an underlying issue or whatever. I fucking NEED this. I suffet because I don't have any experiences even close to this.
I was an "untouchable" at school, didn't do anything until 20, lost virginity at 24. It was literally craiglist trannies, prostitutes and two fat chicks eho gave themselves willingly who I also dated. I'm 26.
Good looking and in good shape, It's my psychogy (anxiety/depression) which is fucked. I made a lot of progress in general but in this specific area it seems I'm not moving forward.
Yes, I realize my "history" is fucked up, but I NEED this. What to do?
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Phoebe Broffingderk - Mon, 13 Mar 2017 09:39:25 EST ID:9vn86lM+ No.514364 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514363

So what they do and pretend nothing is wrong, sweep it under the rug until you're 40.
Anxiety? pfft not when you have anti anxiety meds like cocaine and alcohol.
depression? pfft not when you have party drugs like cocaine and mdma.

Just lie, manufacture your life to be as unrealistic as they do, make sure you have a "insta" which you spend 30 minutes getting a good picture to upload every day. Become a vegan and or involved in some kind of cause, NEVER EVER talk about video games or anime or even television unless they bring it up and even if they do, talk very little about it.

then when you upload your vegan meals or atleast your healthy meals everyday, post topless pictures of yourself every day, maybe you even pay instagram the fee to get your page looked at more often, you'll find some insecure hot girl trying to do the same thing as you.

Then you're a match made in heaven. Buy her lots of things with your 6 figure paycheck, go out shopping with her every weekend, make sure you have some kind of adventure planned every weekend, either going shopping or hiking somewhere or something like that.

Then you're in!

Its a lot of work, but eventually you'll just both settle, but beginning you're going to have to put in lots of work forming an online persona which you CAN LIVE UP TO. As i said if you're feeling a little anxious just take a bump of cocaine or a shot of vodka. If you need to really bond with her organise to take mdma together.
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Hugh Gavingbanks - Mon, 13 Mar 2017 10:54:26 EST ID:UrQwPY3E No.514367 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514364
Well i'm gonna give you sort of the opposite advice. Just because I can't seem to do what this guy does

If it's true that you're already good looking and in good shape, just go out. Go out as much as you can. And involve yourself in physical activies involing women. Acrobatycs, juggling, stretching, yoga, dancing. These girls are usually pretty nice people and they are haaawt. Maybe not in a slutty way, but they are definitely hot.
I'm really bad at pretending so being honest is all I have left. Try to be someone interesting and funny.
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Fucking Fuckingwater - Mon, 13 Mar 2017 15:52:08 EST ID:ngLYHpR4 No.514380 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Dear OP.

Get plenty of money, and then get a reasonable sugar baby.

You'd be amazed at how many hot chicks I've fucked just from meeting up with them and taking them out on fancy dinner dates and then to smoke weed and drink expensive booze at my little pad.


Can't program, want to be a programmer, stimulants no longer work by Eliza Hegglelock - Fri, 10 Mar 2017 20:34:42 EST ID:9B6U+M4D No.514299 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I really want to make a career shift to something respectable and programming (making web apps and conducting data science specifically) is the only thing that remotely interests me. I'm stable and self-sufficient currently, but I just think I can do better and make more money. I am definitely one of those scumbags who can be made happy solely with money...and the corresponding increase in social status.

I have pretty bad ADHD. I used to be able to take some amphetamine and pound out some code in my spare time. I have a few sites in my portfolio and a small following on Kaggle. Unfortunately no stimulant helps me anymore. Meditation and exercise and eating healthy are great and I do them, but I still can't focus on code when that's all I have in me. I think my body adjusted to the stims so now they only get me to my baseline where I am a piece of shit who plays video games all day.

Not only is it common knowledge that the future is programming, my brother who got a comp sci degree and became one of those 20-somethings earning six figures told me that I'd probably dig working at his place. So I'm pretty sure this is a good path for me. I just don't know how to get there because I used to rely on stimulants to motivate me and they no longer work.

Any ideas?
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Henry Ponnershaw - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 10:55:11 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.514313 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514303
It sounds like you've built up a tolerance. Unless you've been abusing very large amounts for extended periods of time, your reaction is normal. Nothing has been broken, you just can't expect things like drugs to work forever unfortunately. It can take a long time for your brain to go back to normal after doing like stims daily for long periods of time.
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Hugh Blytheworth - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 21:20:00 EST ID:tokXoL+1 No.514323 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514299
Get your doc to prescribe Strattera and or lurk /r/nootropics
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Jenny Cedgewell - Sun, 12 Mar 2017 21:46:41 EST ID:F/znGGuO No.514354 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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OP, I would recommend you consider going to the doctor and ask to be switched to a different class of stimulant for your ADD, such as Focalin or Vyvanse. Although you may now be tolerant to amphetamine, you will likely find luck with a different group as most ADD patients do. Worst case scenario, you may have to take a very different stimulant that isn't similar to amphetamines, such as Strattera or Modafinil. Either way, I think going for a long term career that fulfills you and feeling healthy and functional is worth it.
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Molly Hannerridge - Sun, 12 Mar 2017 22:03:54 EST ID:zbKXnohS No.514355 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Stimulants are a short-term solution. No clinical study has established their effectiveness after about two years even at therapeutic doses.

Nootropics are BS. If you want motivation, you'll have to learn it the hard dumb slow way like everyone else.
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Rebecca Pankindit - Mon, 13 Mar 2017 09:45:09 EST ID:9B6U+M4D No.514365 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>514313
I think I'm gonna go with your advice and take an extended T-break AND an extended break from trying to improve my life. I can't do meaningful work without stimulants. It sucks, but denying the reality of the situation isn't productive. Should 6 weeks be sufficient?

>>514354
Tried the whole gamut of stimulant drugs, "working my way up" from Strattera. Goddamn Ritalin was a nightmare. Vyvanse was okay, but Adderall definitely works best for me. It's just now that my tolerance is too high. I think a fulfilling career is good too, but I may just have to come to terms with the fact that I don't have the brain for it.

>>514355
Sounds about right. I'm at the 3 year mark now. Nootropics are BS. It sucks that I simply cannot program without stimulants. I've tried. It doesn't matter how hard I try. Sober, I stare at the code I wrote yesterday on stims and get immediately overwhelmed. It's a pretty bad feeling, like Flowers for Algernon kinda.


LONELINSS by Hannah Pillerchuck - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 18:20:23 EST ID:l1kgdLmr No.514320 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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It's so fucking loud... aloneness, sure, but lonelinss, damn... why?

I have no words for it, and yet I must speak about it? HOW? TO WHOM?

AHHHHHH
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Hamilton Sisslehall - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 18:58:37 EST ID:qDgNA3C6 No.514321 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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me too
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Samuel Sozzlepune - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 21:26:56 EST ID:821ft5+E No.514324 Ignore Report Quick Reply
its fucking crazy OP
i got fired before christmas and been at home lonely as fuck all this year
i need to find a community but i dont really relate to anything, i obsess about this every single day which makes it even more difficult to solve it
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Doris Credgefut - Mon, 13 Mar 2017 04:43:49 EST ID:m2Phfows No.514362 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514324

You could be like my grandfather and make your own community. He had 3 wives. At the same time.


Success Stories by Henry Pickridge - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 12:34:46 EST ID:Xg3AQvPh No.514318 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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This is a thread for success stories. Share your own or others. If you haven't had your own yet, keep going!


I used to post here intermittently a few years back. I was still in the middle of my Psychology degree and would try to be a compassionate armchair therapist for people with problems who posted here. I rarely shared my own problems because I thought they were unworthy or would be rejected because of how 'nice' i had it.

I wasn't really passionate about my degree. I had resigned myself to eventually being a therapist and social worker because I thought I could do it and it would be nice to help people and I needed a real job. I made no money. I had no real friends I saw outside of school. The majority of my socialization came from my family, who I was living with. I spent the vast majority of my ample free time getting high, masturbating, drowning in the internet, playing video games, and flaccidly pursuing my creative hobbies. I was mostly content, occasionally joyful, and really just passively depressed. I didn't really feel actively sad, but I felt no motivation or desire to make my life more than what it was.

Three weeks before my graduation I met a guy who is now a good friend, and two years later things are so different and it's crazy. I feel fundamentally like the same person but my day to day is nothing like it used to be.

I work as a jazz musician 2-5 nights a week.
I have a cute girlfriend that I love and live with rent free downtown (her affluent parents pay for it).
I'm half way through my music degree which my family fully supports and always thought I should have done anyway. I'm planning to eventually work on a doctorate and get a teaching position at a university.

I'm legitimately popular in a way at school that I've never been before. People like me and I have a growing group of actual friends who I hang out and jam with regularly.
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Samuel Faggleham - Sun, 12 Mar 2017 20:33:23 EST ID:STF3ejnn No.514351 Ignore Report Quick Reply
So what advice do you have for those people who are still not there yet? My problem is that I can't really find a passion, or a hobby that I care about enough that I think "fuck yeah let's spend a million hours on this" .

I used to feel like that about programming but not anymore. Maybe if I get into something specific like videogames...
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Eliza Derrycocke - Mon, 13 Mar 2017 00:59:45 EST ID:dI0Zb270 No.514357 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514351

I've been playing music. I play drums and guitar, as well as making digital music on my computer. I can sit down and play my guitar pretty much nonstop for hours. It brings me so much joy
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Martin Diffingdore - Mon, 13 Mar 2017 01:37:13 EST ID:37Cn1fpV No.514359 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I've recently rediscovered deism. In fact I read an old post that was made by me about my own deism, but I guess the following year a lot of shit happened that caused me to forget about it. Now I'm trying to see what happens from here now that things are a bit calmer for me now.
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Lillian Sezzlekun - Mon, 13 Mar 2017 01:48:55 EST ID:N6jnGwzr No.514360 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514351
You don't really need to find a passion. That comes from naturally becoming good at what you're doing. In other words you can develop one but if you don't want to go that route, look at what you were drawn to as a child. What fascinated you?

>I used to feel like that about programming but not anymore. Maybe if I get into something specific like videogames...

You're already on your way to finding something exciting that relates to something you already enjoy. Try making small games in python or maybe a larger project and see if that sparks anything for you.


I have a stupid problem by Isabella Wandlechere - Sun, 12 Mar 2017 13:30:51 EST ID:Vmm82eo5 No.514336 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I met a woman on a social media website randomly. I think we had some interests in common, and that's why she contacted me. I'm 22, she was 40 something. She was a Turkish lawyer, politically active, took part in a book club, just a cool person, I was genuinely happy to know her.

We talked and joked every now and then. I posted some art work and stuff, and she wanted me to draw her some pictures for her, so I did.

Then I think after a year of talking and stuff she unfriended me or whatever. I don't know why, but it bothers me. I sincerely miss this person I never actually met.

>lime for reference
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Esther Breddlegold - Sun, 12 Mar 2017 14:14:03 EST ID:UrQwPY3E No.514337 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514336
Internet relationships can be like that. Maybe she started seeing someone really jelaous or something, maybe she got bored/tired. I've been there, it sucks. It doesn't suck so bad as being ghosted by someone you know IRL though
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David Brinderkutch - Sun, 12 Mar 2017 14:27:07 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.514338 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Yeah most of my internet friendships have gone this way. Honestly I don't know how me and the 3 buddies I've got on discord still talk to each other, I've been friends with them for like 12 years now. You'd figure we'd have grown apart by now, not like I'm complaining. It's just how these kinds of things usually go.


Started as a reply, think i need a thread by Lillian Gebberdag - Mon, 06 Mar 2017 16:29:40 EST ID:CfonqoA0 No.514133 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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My relationship was dead a long time ago. I don't know why people stay together after things fall apart; I'm in that boat. Except I'm the asshole trying to leave, and she's clinging to me for dear life. I don't quite understand it.

We barely have sex, if at all, and I've recently been fired to boot. I moved in with her while I was trying to find a new job so that I wouldn't have to pay rent; her fam owns the property. I figured, this relationship is a huge headache and drain on my psyche, might as well get something out of it. Well, I got fired because they knew I was looking, and because I couldn't bring myself to care anymore; another thing I kept alive longer than it should have.

We lived 50 miles apart before, only had sex on the weekends, kept this going for a few years. I used to have a huge libido, was messing around with a few girls when we first started fucking. Somehow it became a relationship with this girl, I dunno why, she drew me in. Well, when sex only happened when she was out here, that was a change. Then eventually my sex drive basically died. I remember, it was a week after I moved in, we still were having sex once or twice a week, and she was crying asking me if I even wanted her. I mean, I thought I was making that pretty obvious when we were living apart, she thought it was the distance but the truth is I didn't want her anymore. I tried breaking up with her 4 times, I mean, you don't say that to someone unless you mean it, but every time I let myself get pulled back in. I think we have sex maybe once or twice a month. I think I may prefer masturbation.

I have a problem with confrontation because I don't like hurting people, which often prolongs problems and makes them worse. I used to have a problem with guilt; self afflicted pain to entrap and ensnare your mind. I still do to an extent, but I can now see the damage it causes over time and no longer feel obligated to really do anything for anyone. I've managed to bypass the reciprocity behavior and can now accept a favor without feeling obligation towards the one who did it.

In any case, I look back on who I used to be and see someone with so much promise. I wish I had never met…
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Esther Harrywine - Fri, 10 Mar 2017 20:06:44 EST ID:o3vIoRWZ No.514298 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>I'm a veteran here, been at 420chan for a while, don't visit the others. This site is my guilty pleasure; an artifact that I should leave in my past to make room for progress in my life.

Bye Lillian! We've had fun here, you and I, many a good time and probably many a bad time too. I'm glad to have... erm... interacted with you. Good luck and SLAYER to you
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Hamilton Cavingtut - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 22:25:41 EST ID:zOfwhgti No.514328 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514289
Right there's really not any excuse for it other than selfishness. There's a difference between two people staying together just trying to make it work. I have a friend just like this. Been dating this same girl for four years and he knows he doesn't want it to last. He does this to every single girl he dates "oh well better than being single". Complains about every ingle aspect of his partner and talks bad about them. That is super shitty and I don't have any respect for anyone that does this to people. Its not normal, and it's not healthy. Most people have figured out by now if something isn't working out then they leave that person and find someone it will work with. Op needs to be alone, that's the only way for him to ever figure himself out and his issues but I'm sure he's like my friend.
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Emma Gonkinmuck - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 22:34:56 EST ID:IHJIJ3DH No.514329 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514291
<<So crucify me or not. I am what I am.

Had to put in my two cents but it sounds to me like you know you are pretty shitty and then when someone pointed that out to you started whining again. This really is one of the whiniest posts I've seen in awhile. Cool I mean it's good to get it out but don't get mad for someone calling you out on it when when you essentially know you are shitty for what you are doing.
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David Brinderkutch - Sun, 12 Mar 2017 12:55:22 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.514334 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514291
You say you aren't claiming to be a victim, and maybe you aren't claiming to be, but you're viewing and reacting to this whole situation from the standpoint of one. You're acting like you've been personally attacked. Yeah, maybe some of the responses are a bit crass, but when you lash out in response, it shows your insecurity is causing you to feel attacked... you know, like a victim. Victim mentality extends far beyond the relationship itself, and into how you interact with others when the relationship is the topic.

Honestly, unless your response is "yeah, I realize I'm willingly participating in a toxic relationship because of personal weakness" and decide to break it off, you need to realize you're doing this to yourself. Sure, the other person that's toxic shares a bit of responsibility and blame, but you're using that fact to rationalize your own behavior and excuse your inability to make a healthy decision for yourself. It honestly doesn't matter what the other person in the relationship does unless they're somehow preventing you from leaving by force. Otherwise, all the shit they do to you is something you've essentially consented to. If you're aware it's going on and you know you have the power to leave and don't, it's your fault, not your partner's.
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Hamilton Cavingtut - Sun, 12 Mar 2017 13:27:43 EST ID:zOfwhgti No.514335 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514334
But its not just the victim mentality, it's all the whining he did in this thread on top of it.


Help by Albert Brookgold - Sun, 12 Mar 2017 10:23:22 EST ID:vKvaev27 No.514332 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>Dont get laid for few years
>Go to underground rager
>hot ass black 18 year old slut keeps sitting on my lap and taking my hand and sucking my fingers and shit
>friend ends up puking all over the place, we have to leave

All i got was a boner and a snapchat
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George Bedgefoot - Sun, 12 Mar 2017 11:27:55 EST ID:OQV2Ceh+ No.514333 Ignore Report Quick Reply
hit that bitch up on snapchat dumbass.


work interaction by Ernest Wannerchatch - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 00:01:42 EST ID:L9x3lDju No.514304 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>Co-workers try to chat it up with me
>Socially awkward/handicapped/retarded
>Try to make a stupid joke so they will go away because its all I know to do
>Try all but outright saying "I am terrible at being social just go away."
>They keep attempting to make conversation

How do I get them to fuck off?
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Lydia Shittingshit - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 00:24:26 EST ID:vNkiRJtJ No.514305 Ignore Report Quick Reply
"Guys, you all seem like nice people but I'm not a people's person. I'm terrible at being social, so I'd rather work in peace and quiet, no offense."

That said, you can't be that awful socially if everyone wants to talk to you. Also, you should definitivily practice on them social skills, even if you don't like it. It's probably your most important skillset in this society.
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Ian Hoffingspear - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 04:51:31 EST ID:KveR7zNs No.514310 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514304
Do you actually dislike social interaction or are you just trying to push them away so then you haven't "failed" when they decide they don't like you.

Social interaction in work has it's uses. It greases the wheels. If people believe you think they're okay then you'll get the benefit of the doubt. It's really fucking useful. I'm pretty bad at social stuff but once people have talked to me and seen that I mean well and I'm trying to be friendly they're much easier to communicate with.

When I send emails sometimes I say something stupid, because they've talked to me in person and heard me on the phone they interpret it the right way. That friendly social experience even if I'm awkward has indicated I want to help. They are then more likely to do what I (usually they as well) need them to do. You don't need to be amazing just show you want them to not hate you. If your workplace isn't garbage tier full of people projecting their dissatisfaction of life on to co workers people actually want to get on with you and it's extra easy.
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Isabella Brugglebury - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 05:33:16 EST ID:B8hLVum7 No.514312 Ignore Report Quick Reply
The only solution is to get better at socializing. That means awkward small talk. No one gives a fuck if you're anxious but you will give a fuck if 10 years down the track you are still where you are now. It's practice dude.
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Nathaniel Nadgefield - Sun, 12 Mar 2017 10:02:47 EST ID:xQY7/x+6 No.514331 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Embrace your awkwardness and babble on like an idiot. Poke a little fun at your awareness you aren't socialized. Vomit on the floor. It'll all work out


Don't think I'm fit for a relationship by Shit Billingshit - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 16:35:46 EST ID:6PIOhE09 No.514319 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I am acquainted with this cute af shawty and was thinking about hitting her up. Then I think about trusting someone that much and sharing so much about yourself. Like nah I like sex and the thought about having a gf but I don't think I actually want to be that THAT intimate with someone. I've been depressed for a very long time, it started to let up when I smoked weed errday - I don't think I have any attractive qualities. Do some of you guys feel the same?
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Thomas Woshstidge - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 19:29:10 EST ID:5Wtawf5H No.514322 Ignore Report Quick Reply
No shut up you annoying teenager
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Esther Breddlegold - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 21:41:48 EST ID:UrQwPY3E No.514326 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Why not? Have you been hurt badly before? Being intimate with someone can be really nice. I mean you get to live things you won't be able to experience any other way. And they are pretty nice and intense experiencies (there's also the counterside of the awfull and intense experiences but well who cares)
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Esther Breddlegold - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 21:43:17 EST ID:UrQwPY3E No.514327 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514326
Also if you don't think you have any attractive qualities (which surely you do have), start working on them.

You can study, get a hobby, learn to do something cool, go to the gym I dunno, there's lots of stuff to do to better yourself
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Charles Murdwill - Sun, 12 Mar 2017 05:54:41 EST ID:6PIOhE09 No.514330 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>514327
ye ill go fuck myself rn tbqh famalam


neverending reality by Wesley Sankinchedge - Sun, 05 Mar 2017 05:34:25 EST ID:r5LgoY5x No.514034 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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The last time I posted here was 2 years ago. I moved from my fathers house because of my bad relations with sister. I felt like most of my stress back then was coused by her. She 's got a poison ivy ,materialist and egocentric attitude but tries to be all cool and empatic when infront od her friends(and shes a good actress). I thought that if i leave, my situation would get better. Now, 2 years later im Living with my Gf and shes the only one that keeps me happy. My father is weak willed And he became more and more accustom to my sisters behaviour. Now i feel guilty for leaving him with her, shes basicly lives of him and im the only person that have a resolve to speak about it(not to mention that shes 5years older then me, 34 now and still squot with her bf at my fathers place). I also cant stop thinking about all the wrongdoings of her to the point that i dream about it almost daily. Its Dead end situation because i tried real hard to resolve it in every possible way before i moved out. Im afraid my mental state was seriously fucked up (it lasted about 10 years before i moved out). ATM my phisical condition is also no better - illness after illness. Now i hate myself because i feel like i could do better job at living my life and this situation. i cant live my life, just suffer and expirience short periods of mental escapes, trying to forget all of this problems exists. I have trouble with finishing any projects that im trying to create ( i dont have a normal steady job, i dont think i could handle IT daily), my abition and motivation is almost nonexisting at this point. I feel like im done, theres no more for me above the place where i am now. Theres no purpose for me anymore but Try to enjoy my time as much as i can and Try to make my Gf as happy as she can be. I dont want to kill myself right now, i dont speak about it, because at one point my Gf said that she wants to do it with me and i cant stand the thought of her killing herself.
I dont know what to do, i tried to prevail my mental issuses but nowadays i puzzle myself if my physical state isnt related to my mind state. I always thought that the shrink isnt for me, that its all im the head and IT worked. Now the problems seemed to outpour on other…
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Hannah Shakelock - Fri, 10 Mar 2017 21:04:48 EST ID:OUrEVNqi No.514300 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514212
There's no fucking way you'd lose 15-20 lbs overnight even if you climbed a fucking mountain on an empty stomach and were completely dehydrated.
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Ian Hoffingspear - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 04:57:41 EST ID:KveR7zNs No.514311 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514300
Yeah. I can put on 10 pounds and then if I've eaten so much my belly sticks out if I then eat at enough of a deficit to burn the fat after a week I'll have done that and lost the 9 pounds of water weight too. But that's fucky. Unless you're also measuring at different times of day and with different amounts of clothing.

changing what you eat does create a short term weight change but it's not sustained. It's an initial shock. If you drop 1000 calories out of a break even diet you might lose 4-5 pounds in the first week and 2 pounds thereafter. If you go from christmas eating to a 1000 calorie deficit you might lose 7 or 8 pounds in the first week. OP however could very easily have lost 5 pounds due to water weight when his diet changed and then the stomach flu means nothing in and dehydration even after holding less sugar and salt (which makes you drink and retain more water) so he could have lost another 5 pounds or more pounds of water weight that way too. His body would be holding less carbs than previously in both situations. A week of normal eating later and some of that stomach flu weight would come back. Now he's losing 20 pounds over 3 months which actually is pretty reasonable.
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Henry Ponnershaw - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 10:59:31 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.514314 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514300
Don't know what to tell you other than what I experienced weighing myself. I lifted weights back then and drank a lot of energy drinks. Chances are dehydration had a lot to do with it, but I ate tons too. Like I said, 3 days off would lead me to lose like 30 lbs, but obviously I couldn't keep losing 15lbs a night over and over indefinitely. It happened as part of the regular cycle of gaining it back.

Again, even now when I don't exercise really at all, I go from 232lbs down to 224lbs usually within a day or two just by changing my eating habits.
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Henry Ponnershaw - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 11:00:48 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.514315 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514314
I also used to run a lot. I was in the military. I'd usually run 3 miles 4 days out of the week.
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Isabella Sopperwell - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 21:39:39 EST ID:ipp5TPlA No.514325 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514314
yeah its definitely not that unusual. last week i hung out with someone who cooked healthy meals for a few days and lost 15 pounds in 3 days. went back to my fast food diet and have gained almost all of it back in the same amount of time.


It's hating time! by Archie Dittingspear - Fri, 10 Mar 2017 15:05:49 EST ID:LMz4zS5C No.514282 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Just post here a famous person that you hate, and write about the issues why you hate that person.
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Archie Dittingspear - Fri, 10 Mar 2017 16:04:19 EST ID:LMz4zS5C No.514288 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514287
A dorky short hobbit that I rate in par with Kardashians.
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Caroline Hangersere - Fri, 10 Mar 2017 17:37:51 EST ID:gu/lq3ms No.514292 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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It's getting harder and harder to keep the faith. It's been years, and he still hasn't come back.
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Martin Chemmerlock - Fri, 10 Mar 2017 18:52:19 EST ID:QVcoJ6HE No.514296 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514287

she is very attractive. dont know what her thing is or that she had a brother but 10/10 would bang
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Archie Dittingspear - Fri, 10 Mar 2017 18:55:56 EST ID:LMz4zS5C No.514297 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514296
Of course she's a nice toy to put your dick in, but at the same time she's a snake with poison.
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Henry Ponnershaw - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 11:08:31 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.514317 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>514296
She's no higher than 7/10. That being said I'd bang a 4/10 without much of a second thought anyway, but let's not be making this girl out to look better than she does lol


I have too many women by Frederick Clomblefidge - Fri, 03 Mar 2017 15:45:40 EST ID:8ZGXI+3c No.513961 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hey guys, I posted like a year ago about how I'd meet girls to cuddle with because I was lonely. I'm an introvert and while Im not shy, Im not good at flirting or anything like that. That said, I'm tall, very fit, educated, and handsome. Anyway I did put myself out there more and since that year old post I now find myself seeing 4 women at the same time.

The first is an 18 yo girl who really wants my dick and I think next time she's over Ill give it to her. So far we just cuddled and I grope her ass. The second is a 22 yo Muslim girl who I now see once/twice a week and we have the kinkiest sex you've ever seen. The third is a friend's 24 yo girlfriend(they are open, no he doesn't watch.) And the 4th is a hot 47 yo Japanese MILF.

The 22 yo muslim girl is in love with me. She knows Im seeing other women and we kind of had this agreement that we were open. For her, she is the most kinky/sexual person I have met and I like her more than any of my other girls because she's fun to hang out with and she's beautiful. She is inching to being exclusive. The love on her side is real and she feels hurt when I get with my other girls.

Here is the thing....I'm seeing 4 girls at a time and living it up. Men dream of being in this position and I'm having a lot of fun(although it can be stressful). I also can't officialy "Date" her since she's Muslim and her family would blow my apartment or try to cut my head off. And even though she's a lovely girl and would make a perfect Stepford wife, I can't have a child raised as a muslim. That said I really enjoy my time with her.

If the 22 yo Muslim girl goes away, I'll get sex from my other 3 girls, but I dont really like going out to dinner ect with any of them. Even if I can attract girls well, I find myself becoming personally interested in very few. And weeding through women is hard because of my looks and status. When girls meet me they want to start seeing me all the time and trying to tag along with everything I do.

I really want the muslim girl to sleep with another man and maybe after that be willing to be in an open relationship. Although she is insanely sexual(anal, BDSM, pee, ect...) s…
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Alice Greenforth - Fri, 03 Mar 2017 20:45:19 EST ID:TmVLUmiX No.513976 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Watch My Little Pony Friendship Is Magic.
Not only will you have a great time and learn lots about friendship (which will help you figure out the situation you're in), but you'll instantly be cursed and women will avoid you at all costs.
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Cornelius Pudgegold - Sat, 04 Mar 2017 00:14:08 EST ID:uoA4QU5R No.513983 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>513961
>I can't have a child raised as a muslim.

if you raise a child together than you can decide not to. clearly she isn't muslim muslim
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Lydia Shittingshit - Sat, 11 Mar 2017 01:03:40 EST ID:vNkiRJtJ No.514306 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Bring them all together for an orgy, OP. Sounds like you're all set for creating your very own harem. You could wear a kinky turban for your muslim girl and pretend to be an Ottoman sultan, with her as your main wife and the other three as your concubines. Her parents could probably respect that.

Problem solved.


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