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dos and donts on POF by James Gevingfudge - Wed, 23 May 2018 03:02:52 EST ID:4xQFxBrF No.524259 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I wanted to ask a specific question but thought this could be a good thread for anyone else, basically I've started using POF, and ran into a few problems - one being that some girls respond with what seems to be enthusiasm and then just randomly stop replying. I've started conversation off well with one, and am wondering A - if it happens again and she doesn't reply for a few days, should you send a second message or let it go (this is in the case of girls who have actually been conversing with you then stopped, not just harrassing those who don't reply at all lol). And in general, if you have success with apps like this, could you give any tips/tricks - I know this seems really spergy but all of my previous girlfriends I met IRL and I don't know how to go about it digitally

thanks for any help
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Nell Blucklemark - Thu, 24 May 2018 06:52:31 EST ID:4xQFxBrF No.524294 Ignore Report Quick Reply
does anyone have any advice whatsoever
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Augustus Greenville - Thu, 24 May 2018 08:42:09 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.524295 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524294

It appears the best method is to just be direct.

Secure the real world, non committal meeting in a public place. Time / place and maybe offer an extended plan. Have places to visit or things to do. You can go default settings or tailor it - it feels like women really do want someone who breaks norms. For instance a wild or wacky date day will be much more interesting than the default script of coffee / bar. Doing different stuff to the usual in your city. Bike rides with food are fun.

I think due to volume of people available it’s about securing the in person.
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Edward Fuppershit - Thu, 24 May 2018 08:58:06 EST ID:qRZpDiou No.524296 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Get out there, don't get scammed and be resilient.


Remember when it was called the baw blog? by Priscilla Mobbleville - Wed, 23 May 2018 07:27:28 EST ID:BgYDrKs0 No.524265 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Boy, what a long time ago that was. But I need to talk to you about something.
Do you understand the really important thing that's going on right now? Have you felt it yet?
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Jack Cendlestock - Wed, 23 May 2018 11:27:52 EST ID:dVp8iHEG No.524272 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Yea I remember bawww but forgot about it until you mentioned it. Weird how that happens.

I feel it. Like the hush in a stadium when the lights go down. Nobody says so, but they all are waiting, and expecting for the show to start. That show in this instance, is ww3.
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Cedric Hudgepat - Wed, 23 May 2018 19:33:25 EST ID:1MkKfc51 No.524281 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Those were the days indeed. Fun fact, qq is just bb upside, a nice little homage to the days of old.
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Esther Honeyspear - Wed, 23 May 2018 19:44:12 EST ID:qTml9FbR No.524282 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524281

I thought qq was like crying eyes or something?
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Esther Blullyforth - Wed, 23 May 2018 20:13:17 EST ID:1MkKfc51 No.524283 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524282

I've never thought of it that way, you could be right. Only one way to find out...
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Fucking Diddlebug - Thu, 24 May 2018 04:41:17 EST ID:jfR0c7UU No.524292 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524283
Yeah, it started as QQ, and to help the image Q_Q. I'd like to believe the lower case as a homage though.


everything bores me which makes me boring by Nell Brondersork - Wed, 23 May 2018 06:44:52 EST ID:w501ywK5 No.524260 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Which becomes a bigger issue when I'm constantly thinking about women.
I'm currently on holidays in a "tourist" hot zone and I feel like I'm hardly making the best of it when i go, lie down on the fucking beach, and I am still thinking about women. I'm here in my place, trying to pick up a book and I'm still thinking about them. I go on Tinder and get like the 1 occasional match which, obviously leads nowhere, and i am still thinking i can pull it off.
It's like I can't see what's best for myself, fml.
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Nell Brondersork - Wed, 23 May 2018 12:27:36 EST ID:w501ywK5 No.524273 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524263

I've done gym for a while, i like physically draining myself, but I just can't afford it, and i'm too far from a gym anyway.
I jog every other day.

I like music(guitar), for like, 5 minutes and then it gets boring because I can't do it better. Same goes for drawing. Keep having to do this shit on my own, noone's out there to help, I have a lot of bottled emotions and i pick up the damn fucking things around me that are supossed to be my "vehicles" of expression and they never come close.
I just get bored all the time. I'm good at nothing and I know it. I fucking hate it
I wish i could take drugs but as luck would have it I have anxiety attacks with weed. Ever had a insane desire to "flee" while a girl's talking to you about her travels around Sicily? Heart pounding like your life is at stake for no reason? yeah that's how it works for me.
So, can't smoke weed, can't hang around anyone cool and get other drugs because of that and - i'm boring.
Being boring kinda affects everything now that I think of it.

Yeah I mean I do like cooking, and all that, but unless you're in my living room what does that matter?
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James Clayhood - Wed, 23 May 2018 15:06:30 EST ID:jhxT8BUJ No.524275 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524273
you're being a complete pessimist
you like cooking? go to a cooking class and there will be girls
i mean you're in a tourist hot spot, arguably the easiest way to meet people and you lie down alone on the beach ffs
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Name - Wed, 23 May 2018 16:17:42 EST ID:w501ywK5 No.524276 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524275

Where im livinh, stuff like "meetups" where one would find these cooking classes aren't that widespread but I could look more into it to be fair, but social media classes are done more in benefit of old posh people.
And yeah i lie alone in there because i'm a boring, average looking asshole.
I know i'm being a bit pessimist but i feel like this whole "develop hobbies" thing is something that is recurring in my life and i must've fucked up big time somewhere in the way as nothing seems to stick and i can't help but fall back to every distraction i find.
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Ernest Clommertot - Wed, 23 May 2018 17:40:55 EST ID:kIYushxh No.524277 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>524273

I don't know what to tell you. You're definitely in a slump, but there's no magical cure. It's not easy to beat boredom and depression.

Honestly I think drugs would at least change something in you, but that doesn't appear to be much of an option for you. You mentioned playing guitar gets born after five minutes, but if you were fucked up on drugs you could probably sit there for hours jamming and having a good time.

I don't man. I like drugs and music, hiking in the woods, reading non-fiction. I have tons of hobbies, enough that when one of them isn't appealing to me I have a dozen more to choose from.

I wish I could help, but I don't really know what to say. Jogging is good. Keep up with that at least. Well, good luck. Please update us if anything changes for you. I hope you make your way through
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Fanny Dibblebury - Wed, 23 May 2018 22:25:15 EST ID:w501ywK5 No.524285 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524277
>magical cure

Wish there was :)

Well I'm happy I at least got it off my chest, it was, uh, rattling? Something like that.

Thanks for listening everyone.


I spent a few days in an inpatient psych ward. by Kureizi-chan - Fri, 18 May 2018 08:25:50 EST ID:avtEn6L3 No.524154 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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It was the second or very most trialing period of my life.
I'll never frown upon mentally ill people ever again, not that I did but I didn't fully respect them or understand their position.
The current medical care industry is TOTALLY FUCKED.
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David Darringpare - Sun, 20 May 2018 23:08:06 EST ID:h2bl60Tp No.524217 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524154
no shit its messed up. thats why you should be against psychiatry and big pharma. nobody is as much of a victim as they have to agree to being in order to get treatment. pick up your balls!!
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Phyllis Brandlefuck - Mon, 21 May 2018 06:13:33 EST ID:3A/9rSkO No.524225 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524217
This wouldn't be a problem if we focused on mental health as a community issue first and not an individual one, supporting families over outpatient clinics. Nobody listens. They think by bullying individuals on the internet they can stop this crisis. Good luck.
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Martin Cammlestone - Tue, 22 May 2018 05:21:00 EST ID:x02brCtF No.524250 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524225
Is this what the study was about?
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Priscilla Mobbleville - Wed, 23 May 2018 07:40:27 EST ID:BgYDrKs0 No.524267 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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that is because you are an infinite being and they are trying to subvert you to a diseased way of living. in fact the whole of the world is awash in sickness and decay, and the arbitrary renderings of man he imposes on himself and others. this world is fallen
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Kureizi-chan - Wed, 23 May 2018 18:51:45 EST ID:dkC0pcX9 No.524279 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524217

I was forced to go otherwise I would be sent to jail
The piece of shit doctor was so dead set on forcing me to accept their diagnosis that I was schizophrenic ...
I had to try REALLY hard to control my temperament.
Also I think one of the employees tried gaslighting me, as I was walking to my room she said to me "we are in control of you" ...
I hope the whole medical and pharmaceutical industry crashes and burns soon.


Think she is interested? by Sophie Sunnernet - Mon, 21 May 2018 04:17:18 EST ID:ZHxB44Gj No.524221 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>Meet girl during group event
>Get her number while people are exchanging numbers
>Afterwords get lucky and she had parked in the same direction as me
>Muster up all of my courage and ask if she would like to get together for lunch
>She says yes if we can work out a good time for it
>Text her later that day commending on something we talked about
>No reply
>Text her later in the week asking if she wants to do something that weekend
>"Sorry Anon, this weekend isn't going to work. Maybe another time?"
>Respond with "Sure just let me know when you're open."
>No reply

So if she had no interest I probably wouldn't have gotten a reply at all, right? Assuming she has some interest how should I proceed? Try again next weekend?
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Frederick Cruddlewodge - Tue, 22 May 2018 06:04:12 EST ID:AkBTpOns No.524251 Ignore Report Quick Reply
some actual decent and accurate advice from a few different posters here

you surprise me qq
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Simon Clacklefatch - Tue, 22 May 2018 14:48:16 EST ID:jhxT8BUJ No.524254 Ignore Report Quick Reply
no
ahould've asked her irl
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Esther Gellerworth - Tue, 22 May 2018 18:25:02 EST ID:WFZ/uYDo No.524256 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>524221
>So if she had no interest I probably wouldn't have gotten a reply at all, right?
No, she was being "polite". Personally I think that shit's pretty lame and the opposite of polite, just be honest and stop playing these shitty games, but she was definitely trying to let you down gently.

From the get-go it was "if we can find a good time for it", if she wanted to she'd just say yes and you guys'd go from there.

>Try again next weekend?
No, don't try at all. General rule of thumb is if somebody says let's reschedule and doesn't suggest a different date then they're not interested.
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Walter Hellernuck - Wed, 23 May 2018 07:26:54 EST ID:HQhRtuTy No.524264 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Honestly I would text her back and be like, "look if you weren't interested you shouldn't have said anything. I understand now you were just trying to be polite. But fuck you!"

I called a girl out and said fuck you one time and then the next night we had sex. It could work?
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Augustus Sushkag - Wed, 23 May 2018 07:30:38 EST ID:YKf00BKo No.524266 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524264
Neckbeard advice


some article by Shit Gombledock - Sat, 19 May 2018 16:53:35 EST ID:USUZpST+ No.524188 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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some article about how DNA lives on in women from all the men they've slept with has made me melancholy about my ex of half a decade ago that I still haven't really got over

I don't know I just wanted to vent. I guess I need to get out more
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Martin Saffingsock - Sat, 19 May 2018 23:05:03 EST ID:dVp8iHEG No.524193 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524188
Huh. Why'd it make you think of your ex? Doesn't it make you realize how much gay sex you've had now?
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Clara Chubblefoot - Sun, 20 May 2018 11:06:40 EST ID:n3o9Xhgl No.524200 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524188
Microchimerism is real. Look it up.
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Fuck Chocklestone - Sun, 20 May 2018 17:05:07 EST ID:qMd3DUjJ No.524203 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524200
Yeah, it applies to pregnant women, not just anyone who has fucked (if cum could absorb through skin gay men would be impacted too).

Good attempting to shoehorn real concepts into Facebook cuntpasta logic.

>The most likely source of male Mc [microchimerism ] in female brain is acquisition of fetal Mc from pregnancy with a male fetus. In women without sons, male DNA can also be acquired from an abortion or a miscarriage. The pregnancy history was unknown for all but a few subjects in the current studies, thus male Mc in female brain could not be evaluated according to specific prior pregnancy history. In addition to prior pregnancies, male Mc could be acquired by a female from a recognized or vanished male twin, an older male sibling, or through non-irradiated blood transfusion

Go on, cite me Naturalnews as a response. I want you to go full retard. Do it.
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Hannah Nocklecocke - Wed, 23 May 2018 00:29:39 EST ID:WgEq97Jf No.524257 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524188
>>524203

Scientists detect microchimerism. They don't have details on the source of the DNA.
Sex-moralists make up an explanation.
There is no evidence that supports the explanation.

More generally, the scientists chose a convenient example of microchimerism to look for. Y chromosomes in a female would tend to stand out.
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Edward Hubblemon - Sun, 27 May 2018 18:07:07 EST ID:3A/9rSkO No.524379 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524257
>blah blah blah unfounded speculation because I waaahhhhh to believe
back to the future with you Marty


24 need help by Lillian Millybine - Fri, 11 May 2018 23:23:35 EST ID:tqLCqqy2 No.524047 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So I'm a guy and I was raped when I was 12. I finally met my dad when I was 18 and he got me my first girlfriend when I was 19. She was a stripper who lived next door. She was 25 and beautiful. I never called her after we fucked. I guess I was still fucked up in the head from being raped and never telling anyone. I dropped out of engineering college a month later and was homeless for 4 years. Never masturbated until I was in jail. Spent 7 months in jail over a false accusation. Started masturbating because there wasn't anything to do. Thought about her and called her for the first time when I got out. She's 30 now and I'm 24 I still haven't had a relationship with someone and it looks like she's past her prime.
I want to kill my self can someone talk me through it?
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Charlotte Honeyforth - Sun, 20 May 2018 18:45:14 EST ID:0j3WPAPJ No.524206 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524205
Like this girl who's 19 was going through some stuff where her dad died and she was looking for me to hug her and I couldn't do it. But I did at the end and it just felt wrong. She needed a hug right then and I couldn't.
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Phyllis Brandlefuck - Sun, 20 May 2018 22:59:28 EST ID:3A/9rSkO No.524214 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524050
>blah blah blah talk yourself out of bad life events

CBT is bullshit and mindfulness is overblown. Community mental health services or bust.
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Martin Mucklewell - Mon, 21 May 2018 10:41:58 EST ID:SutoWtdw No.524230 Ignore Report Quick Reply
In all seriousness, this is exactly the sort of thing professional therapy is there for.

Also, if "shame" is really what you're feeling, meditate on how sick it is to blame someone for something that is completely and totally not their fault. You were a kid. Someone did this to you, something nobody should ever experience or do. But whoever did this to you is the one who should be ashamed. It's not your fault, you didn't deserve it. It also happens to a lot more people than this society as a whole is willing to admit or accept. Most people find it traumatic; that's not a reflection on you.

There is no dishonor in seeing a counselor or therapist. Helping you feel better about yourself, as you deserve to, is probably beyond the capacity of some random strangers on the internet. Good luck.
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Wesley Napperwater - Mon, 21 May 2018 20:44:07 EST ID:3A/9rSkO No.524239 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524230
>In all seriousness, this is exactly the sort of thing professional therapy is there for.

It's there to provide a band-aid to the leaky dyke. It's not effective, especially not when severity ramps up. The most severe schizophrenics end up on the streets or in prison. Deinstitutionalization killed mental health in this country because it forced people like you to start seeing it solely as an individualist issue rather than a community issue. You can thank Carter and Reagan for that.
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Nigel Chishshit - Tue, 22 May 2018 03:11:46 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.524249 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524239

Please explain more. I keep seeing you shilling for community but have no idea what that is.


Depression and hygiene by James Pevingman - Tue, 22 May 2018 03:00:56 EST ID:mBFPcjON No.524248 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I'm on another forum that brought up the issue of depression and hygiene, and it was very interesting and it brought up some questions for me. I thought I'd ask them here too.
If you suffer from depression but are "high-functioning" by societies standards, how do you deal with this?
I'm depressed as fuck and when unemployed, I could go 4 or 5 days without bathing. I'd go two days without brushing my teeth.
Now, I work 50+ hours at two jobs, and as depressed as I am, I can't go more than two days without a shower. I'd rather be 30 minutes late than go in 3 days unshowered. I also will FORCE myself to brush my teeth every morning if I work. I just can't go out into society without being somewhat decent. That's the anxiety that comes with depression, hah.
Anyway, anyone else struggle with this? I absolutely hate getting ready, which wasn't the case before I had depression and anxiety. When I'm actually out and about, I'm not as depressed and I'm glad if I "got ready" for the day (picked out a nice outfit before, showered and put on my makeup, etc), but it's sooo absolutely tedious and intimidating in the morning that I just want to give in and call in sick.
Hopefully this makes sense, I'm drunk as shit and stupid.
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Alice Hummerridge - Tue, 22 May 2018 13:24:42 EST ID:wuy30QqH No.524253 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Dude its so fucking hsrd for me to do laundry. Idk why I just have to walk to the machines in my appartment complex and put in some coins. If it wasnt for my job I would smell so fucking bad.

So in short, yes


Depression by Augustus Bunnermutch - Thu, 17 May 2018 13:03:34 EST ID:OHp7Bid0 No.524132 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I hate the fact that I have a tiny voice inside of me that knows what I should do to get out of my depression, out of my rut of being a miserable, unhappy failure, but I just can't bring myself to listen to it and do the things I need to do to change my situation.

It's like I'm addicted to being in this miserable state. I feel like shit and I feel guilty and ashamed about my behavior and my miserable life, but I just can't bring myself to care enough or feel enough to change it.

I know I'll hate myself for throwing away a big part of my life just because I'm miserable and won't change it.
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David Bluffingstock - Sun, 20 May 2018 08:04:16 EST ID:aHEi5b5M No.524198 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524170
From the sidelines this actually comforted me abit. I've been a mess for almost a decade. Recovery has been spotty and more like hitting your head to concrete wall while your doctor says "don't give up, you've gone a long way". It's a crushing feeling when only given way to get better is to return to the wall and keep hitting. As if I didn't feel pretty damn defeated already. You just showed me another way. Regardless of whether or not it works, it 's soothing. Thanks man.
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Phineas Nicklehood - Sun, 20 May 2018 17:24:13 EST ID:WFZ/uYDo No.524204 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>524194
i'm gonna bury my head in your ass
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Nicholas Granddale - Mon, 21 May 2018 05:31:20 EST ID:oCNeJQKN No.524223 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524194 what the fuck are you on about?
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Phyllis Brandlefuck - Mon, 21 May 2018 06:12:24 EST ID:3A/9rSkO No.524224 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524204
>>524223
Mental health from a family/community perspective or societal death.
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Sidney Sabblehood - Mon, 21 May 2018 17:05:16 EST ID:/pl3Lein No.524237 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524170
>I was able to heal from one bullying episode by finding a person who hurt my feelings on Facebook, I asked them why they would do that to me and they couldn't even give me a real answer and they didn't even remember me.

What was the bullying about, if I may ask? This sounds familiar.


moms by Sidney Chellerson - Mon, 21 May 2018 16:33:26 EST ID:4hBEIt21 No.524235 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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i hate my mom. she'll be placid one day and the next day she'll be hellbent on making everyone's day shitty. she brought back some sweets from the bakery, and I ate two of them and she threatened to kick me out of the house because of it. I mean what the fuck? then she went on about how pathetic I am and how I need to move out because it's too depressing watching me smoke weed and work a menial job. also she asked to see my penis when I was 12 and I never told anybody except my current girlfriend. I'm 23 now. wish I could kill her sometimes. I wouldn't but I feel like she's responsible for so much of the shame and self-hatred I have for myself that I wish she would just go the fuck away forever. It'd be easier if she was just insane all the time, then it'd be easier to hate her and dismiss her and put her in a fucking home or something. But no, she likes to be sweet when it's convenient to her mood swings. How can one person make me feel so fucking shitty..
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Sophie Sirrybanks - Mon, 21 May 2018 20:51:48 EST ID:4A7JZiMV No.524240 Ignore Report Quick Reply
and why don't you move out?
she's probably just as tired of you
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Edwin Chuddledale - Mon, 21 May 2018 22:31:42 EST ID:4hBEIt21 No.524242 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524240
I don't have the funds. I have a job but it's not enough.


Post-break up rant by Shit Bammerlock - Mon, 21 May 2018 15:27:55 EST ID:r08QUQyP No.524232 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>Girl i used to date breaks me up via text
>Write her thank you telling how she felt and good wishes
>Apologize if she felt nervous when I wanted meet her more often ie. more serious relationship

In a way I guess it was a blessing. She is going to Spain for 3 months and had family issues. I was forced to see her after breakup because we work in the shopping centre (different jobs) and saying hi out of good manners but I quit because she ignored it.

One night i was infuriated by her rude behaviour. Chose to write her a letter. I wrote that I forgot to tell her I forgave her for breaking me up via text and that I have no desire for revenge ( I deleted her number so I had to write). This helped me to cope despite she never answered.

I have accepted the fact that I was rejected but she is still an annoyance in my life whenever I see her. I don't think there is anything else other than let time heal wounds but it really sucks.
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Phoebe Sevingchotch - Mon, 21 May 2018 15:34:06 EST ID:OHp7Bid0 No.524234 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524232
To be honest it sounds like you're behaving in a very respectful and mature way. Time heals all wounds, you're right.


I feel all alone now by Graham Tootshit - Sun, 20 May 2018 21:46:20 EST ID:1/0uv5Dp No.524211 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>meet qt german girl last year
> go on a couple dates
>everything is going well we like eachother want to spend more time
>couple more dates go on she tells me she just wants to stick as friends
> ignore her for a few days then she comes back with crazy interest in me
>only wants to hang out with me always makes future plans
>we're going good and she starts to refer to me as her boyfriend
> hang out multiple times a week over the course of several mo months
>feel like im falling in love with her
>one day i told her that i loved her
>she tells me that she would never be romantically interested in me, would never reciprocate and doesn't love me back
> she leaves to go back to her country
>trys to tell me she really likes me and really misses me
>told her i missed her too
>tries to convince me to come visit her
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Cyril Clazzleson - Sun, 20 May 2018 22:22:24 EST ID:EAInNdJP No.524212 Ignore Report Quick Reply
She just wants attention
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Cyril Clazzleson - Sun, 20 May 2018 22:24:23 EST ID:EAInNdJP No.524213 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Just leave it be, like I said she just wants attention. Fuck this hoe
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David Darringpare - Sun, 20 May 2018 23:05:52 EST ID:h2bl60Tp No.524215 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524211
Got to find someone else. That's how life can be - being alone makes you strong anyway. If you don't need them then they'll be there.
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Samuel Worthingbury - Sun, 20 May 2018 23:26:36 EST ID:xPmGb3w4 No.524218 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>like eachother
>wants to stick as friends
>crazy interest in me
>she would never be romantically interested in me
>she really likes me and really misses me

She either doesn't like you that much or you're not being enough of a man/yourself


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this helps staff resolve issues quicker.