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Should I get a girlfriend to enhance my social standing? by Cedric Geddlelotch - Sat, 10 Feb 2018 02:21:05 EST ID:PMkO/Z8a No.522046 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I've been lurking 420chan since 07 and it goes without saying that I've seen a lot of posts in the vein of 'how do I get a girlfriend?' My predicament is different; I am trying to figure out whether I should get a girlfriend.

As background, I'm nearly 30, and I've only ever casually hooked up with girls (when I was in college), or fucked prostitutes (the last five years of my life). I like having sex with women, but have never had any desire to be in a relationship with one. I guess that this is what people call MGTOW, although I don't think of it that way. Either way, I realize that my lifestyle is not the norm, and I own that.

A lot of things about my personal life are not reflective of the norm; for instance, I spend a lot of my free time getting drunk/fucked up on drugs. However, I work in a client-facing role in financial services, and it's the kind of situation where your coworkers and clients are routinely telling you about their personal lives, and expecting you to tell them about yours. I frequently have to go to happy hours with clients and listen to them talk about their kids (which I will never have, as I have had a vasectomy). I usually just lie/evade when they ask me about what I do in my free time. But as time goes on, I have begun wondering: should I date a girl just so that I have something to tell people about, as part of my cover story?

A lot of people would say 'No, fuck it, don't cave to societal pressures, just be yourself.' That's easy advice to give, but for me, leading the life that I want to live involves finding a balance between the kind of person that I want to be in public, and the kind of person that I am in private. Another person would say that I am looking to get into a relationship for the wrong reasons, and would be leading the girl on, but I think that relationships always involve some degree of give and take, and besides, I'm only capable of a casual type of situation, I'm not trying to get some girl to fall in love with me.

What are your thoughts on this? Has anyone else faced a similar situation, of having to date someone to fit into society? I'm okay with being a weirdo, but the sad reality is that …
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Martha Buzzshaw - Sat, 10 Feb 2018 04:33:05 EST ID:E2Ygihgn No.522060 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I would say your lifestyle is not the standard but it is at least approaching the norm if not already the norm in many places. The birthrates and very delayed marriage or people not getting married at all is testament to that.

>What are your thoughts on this? Has anyone else faced a similar situation, of having to date someone to fit into society? I'm okay with being a weirdo, but the sad reality is that it's detrimental to my professional life for other people to look at me that way.

Your situation reminds me of gays trying to find someone to pretend to be their wife/husband for them.

My suggestion is go ahead BUT be clear about your intentions and that you're basically looking for a woman to pretend/simulate being your wife. Make sure to tell them you've had a vasectomy and to tell them what you won't be having kids. If possible find a woman who is sterile like yourself, that way you don't have to worry about a woman changing her mind about wanting to have children, as she is as sterile as you are. If you find the right woman you will be able to keep up a charade then for however long you want.

Do you care about the ethics of your situation or this purely about optimizing your image? Not saying these two things are opposed to each other, they probably go hand in hand, but just curious.
Reuben Brorringlutch - Sat, 10 Feb 2018 05:42:19 EST ID:WgyPPNJu No.522066 Ignore Report Quick Reply
If you don't feel the need than no. I lived the same lifestyle until I got too lonely - not the same.
Problem is people are just extremely unchill - especially women. You think you'll find some cool girl to date and it's gonna solve the problem you described at your work? dude, you are going to have so many shitty new problems/situtations it's not worth it just for that reason. If you don't want a relationship it's gonna make your life hell to be in one, especially since you seem to really value your private time.
William Didgeridge - Sat, 10 Feb 2018 16:59:04 EST ID:7IGW3+Ip No.522082 Ignore Report Quick Reply
just wanna say OP i respect your honesty with yourself. just use the same honesty with partners (obviously you dont gotta divulge all this right off the bat, but slowly reveal your intentions and desires over time)
Matilda Chavingshit - Sun, 11 Feb 2018 10:31:35 EST ID:h3uESiW8 No.522110 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Don't get a girl unless you want that specific girl.

Girls are fucking annoying. You would only want to put up with one you liked/loved if you thought about this fact.

Lexapro by Shitting Crullerford - Mon, 05 Feb 2018 00:31:15 EST ID:QLlNYiAG No.521978 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I'd put this in /other/ but I would like a response this month sometime and I figure more people here would know about it anyway...

I just got prescribed Lexapro for generalized anxiety & depression. This isn't the first time It's been prescribed to be but I decided not to take it last time because I'm worried about the side effects, how it will change my brain as well as wanting to be able to take other, more fun drugs e.g. LSD, MDMA & DMT.
This time I'm considering taking it and seeing how it goes but I'm still worried. Mostly I just want to take MDMA with my partner which I haven't done before but I haven't been able to get any, and now if I start Lexapro It's going to be a fuck around... I haven't looked anything up recently but I'm assuming you can't or shouldn't take MDMA on Lexapro.

Can anyone tell me about their experiences with it? Side effects, how it effected your recreational drug life etc

pls & thank
Matilda Sishwon - Mon, 05 Feb 2018 00:34:00 EST ID:Hq1w6n58 No.521979 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Look dude, if you're not going to take this shit seriously then why bother?

But yeah mdma won't get you high on lexapro
Basil Grimdale - Sat, 10 Feb 2018 23:03:30 EST ID:UJWvcQpd No.522092 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>I'm worried about how this prescription pill will change my brain
>But I don't have any issue doing MDMA, LSD< & DMT
Barnaby Snodfield - Sun, 11 Feb 2018 23:36:39 EST ID:wkFPzJuB No.522141 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Are you serious dude? If you bother to go to therapy and be diagnosed in order to take something to help you recover then probably the best path to go is to wait some time before doing other drugs.
Ebenezer Fissledock - Mon, 12 Feb 2018 05:04:49 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.522151 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Nobody (besides the retarded microdosers) does DMT or LSD often enough to induce serious changes in neuroplasticity. You take SSRIs every single day. It's well and enough hoisting the observable effects of these substances as evidence of their "severity" but guess what: you don't feel the way your brain changes, or atrophies. The entire point of the SSRI drug class is to reverse structural changes associated with major depression and anxiety symptoms in a wide range of mental illnesses. To dismiss the potential effects of a given drug out of hand is not only ill-informed, it's quite reckless. Numerous incidences in psychiatric can attest to people going through negative or severely negative outcomes because they didn't read the fucking label.

And for my money, I distrust the newer escitalopram/citalopram when it comes to adverse event in general than I would over occasional LSD use.

>One should not conclude from the discussion by Lam1 that escitalopram is free of cardiac risks. Citalopram and escitalopram differ marginally in terms of their risk of prolonging the QTc interval sufficient to link to torsade de pointes (TdP). Citalopram and escitalopram each demonstrate a dose-dependent QTc prolongation.1 Although the magnitude of QTc prolongation appears to be greater for citalopram than escitalopram, the dose–QTc correlation is similar for both drugs. While the U.S. Food and Drug Administration and Health Canada issued warnings only for citalopram, the Medicines and Healthcare Products Regulatory Agency in the United Kingdom issued safety warnings for both citalopram and escitalopram.2 The threshold for clinical significance of the QTc interval is an absolute duration of 500 ms or longer or a change from baseline of 60 ms or more.3 The warnings did not specify whether any participants enrolled in the thorough QTc studies exceeded these thresholds for either drug.

Chronic pain, doomed to medication? by William Dugglepidge - Sat, 10 Feb 2018 17:15:14 EST ID:Apk6cuJ3 No.522084 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Scoliosis and general deformity of my whole fucking body; right shoulder blade is weirdly located and cuts into the back of my ribs, and one of my ribs are squished between the rest, my hips are slightly crooked and my whole chest is very mildly rotated. All of this comes together in an experience of chronic back- and shoulder pain,

I've suffered from panic attacks for about 10 years now, very seldom now, but more often in the past. I can defuse them quickly now since I know the worst that can happen is death, and death isn't really a problem at all. Anyway.

The panic attacks: A symptom of panic, anxiety, is shallow breathing, and my shoulder blade and rib problem creates a kind of pain where it feels like I'm wearing a terribly ill-fitted backpack with heavy weights in it basically all the time I'm not lying down or hunching over weirdly. And this pain causes shallow breathing, which 'simulates' aspects of panic, and so this triggers full-blown panic attacks at times. It's a cluster fuck of biological bullshit, basically.

The first drug experience I had was alcohol and nicotine, for the first time together. It was the most amazing feeling I'd ever felt. Complete loss of self-consciousness, and a numbing of all this pain. I could breathe freely for the first time, emotionally and physically. At ease, finally. So now, 10 years later, -ish, I'm on-and-off drinking regularly. Just had a period of 10 months dry, no alcohol at all, before that I drank every day for like 1.5 years. Now I've been drinking again for the past month, every day, drunk right now, and I'm struggling to motivate myself to NOT drink. Because in the end, I'm so fucking fucked. I can't sleep unless I drug myself with alcohol or weed. Fucking back pain on one hand, tinnitus, bullshit anxiety, nonsense. Weed works for the pain, too, somewhat. I often get anxious when I smoke, but the anxiety is paradoxically positive --- it's like I'm losing all my worries, and that sense of loss gives rise to a brief feeling of stress and worry, but when the idenficiation with those worries is dissolved, the experience flows smoothly from there. IT also helps OK with the physical pain, but alcohol is WAY better for that... WAY WAY better. holy shit.

My future, all I see in my future, it's just dead. I see days of bliss, sitting on a park bench, blissed out of my mind, drunk beyond my mind, temporarily soaked in cannabinoids, smoking some pipe tobacco, just staring into infinity, waiting for the bubble to pop, releasng the air into the greater atmosphere, death, whatever.

socially I have no future; professionally? haha! no! That's NOT my game. I'm dead already; I'm the undead, man, slash damage don't work on me, gotta use blunt weapons for this one.

I want help, I do, but I trust no one you know? So I self-medicate, the pain, the physical and mental pain, they go together, but I feel so fucking helpless and alone? And all I know to do is to study, and learn, try to make friends with death, try to actually become OK with dying, which isn't wrong really although it's taboo in our culture to speak about it in this way? But I don'tknow..

I was coming home from work the other day and a stray neighbourhood cat walked up to me and brushed up against my leg, so I squatted down and started petting it and it purred and then jumpedup onmy bent knee, and kept brushing it shead on me, and I kept petting it. I felt loved, or aprreciated, you know? THis cat, this cat, it spoke to me in its own way, but I couldn't speakback to it becuase it doesn't speak human lagauge, I could only pet it, But I wnat tot tell it I love it, and I do, I did, If you see an animal hyou should make it feel at peace ifyou can, feed it or pet it or something, tell it life is OK, right? because we are also wild animals like that, just caught up in this game of society, but really we're still wild animals running around in the forest surroundd byb infinity and celestial dome of stars and whatever
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Shit Pangerstedge - Sat, 10 Feb 2018 19:00:48 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522085 Ignore Report Quick Reply
fast herbs/tinctures fruit n vegs
Nigel Blytheforth - Sat, 10 Feb 2018 20:56:07 EST ID:ExV9NxsJ No.522090 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Just keep trying different things. Maybe CBD oil or curcumin or kratom. Figure out what lets you be the most functional. I highly doubt it's alcohol.

tcejbuS by Lydia Snodlock - Thu, 08 Feb 2018 11:19:38 EST ID:USUZpST+ No.522017 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I've been exercising with increasing regularity since early Jan, been eating regular and healthy meals, been drunk only once in the past fortnight or more. Taking some supplements, no other drugs. So why the fuck do I feel so off? I'm not depressed, the mind fog has gone, no cravings, I can think and see with a clarity of focus I haven't had in years. I'm making progress with my purpose in life, there are people I could reach out to if I wanted to socialise. But I feel wrong. Like I don't fit in my own skin. Constantly uncomfortable, ill at ease. What's wrong with me?
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Clara Pumblestene - Thu, 08 Feb 2018 20:16:45 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522022 Ignore Report Quick Reply
b12 is deff not snake oil and many people could use dha epa

99% is snake oil tho
Phyllis Cluvingbodge - Fri, 09 Feb 2018 07:45:46 EST ID:USUZpST+ No.522027 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Will do, just feels weird.

Piracetam, citocholine and l-theanine but not every day.
Oliver Honeyridge - Fri, 09 Feb 2018 16:08:30 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.522030 Ignore Report Quick Reply
b12 is irrelevant in a modern western diet. It's for vegans and starving Indians.

Fish oil should be eaten from fish.

Daily reminder there is no evidence the supplement form provides the same benefits the natural form does.
Nicholas Wettingfod - Sat, 10 Feb 2018 12:23:17 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522074 Ignore Report Quick Reply
wrong and wrong

>Fish oil should be eaten from fish.
this could be true but most people eat toxic fish so that would be an inferior option, but for other two things you are just talking out yo ass. most re defficient in b12 and fish oil is demonstrated to prevent brain degeneration.
Polly Bardfoot - Sat, 10 Feb 2018 15:19:03 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.522081 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Nice nu-age memes soyfriend Continue telling yourself lead filled Chinese supplements are the key. nb

I need a girlfriend? How can I find one? by I love hot woman - Tue, 02 Jan 2018 00:26:26 EST ID:lC1ihMoK No.521071 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I need a girlfriend? How can I find one?

How to get girlfriend I don't have one.
I am male.
How to get woman as a friend? I am 18 yrs old don't have any friends

I am stalking woman on FB. I don't have any friends.
I love to stalk every woman from 17-26 on Internet. I am doing this from 2014 and I was 14 age. I do alone secertly
It is my favourite hobby. No ones knows it even my parents because if they find out they won't be happy :)
Stalking a woman is the best as long nothing cross limit

How to get a gf on internet? I am single 18 years old don't have any friends.

What is dumbass? Are you a dumbass?
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Jenny Fipperlod - Tue, 02 Jan 2018 08:46:22 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.521080 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I love woman - Wed, 03 Jan 2018 06:31:04 EST ID:PEyP5r/O No.521120 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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I just stalked woman from 17-28 on my another FB account and threatened them for not adding me as a friend.
I love woman - Wed, 03 Jan 2018 06:33:11 EST ID:PEyP5r/O No.521121 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I just stalked woman from 17-28 on my another FB account and threatened them for not adding me as a friend. So f** you
Cyril Claygold - Fri, 09 Feb 2018 22:17:07 EST ID:YuRv6Ntp No.522037 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>14 years of age
>no face when
Cyril Claygold - Fri, 09 Feb 2018 22:18:02 EST ID:YuRv6Ntp No.522038 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Oh man, how far back did I bump this from. My bad

ANGRY THREAD by Sophie Bardford - Sat, 03 Feb 2018 17:44:55 EST ID:QLlNYiAG No.521952 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Lydia Hovingshaw - Wed, 07 Feb 2018 04:23:14 EST ID:QLlNYiAG No.522008 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>junkies don't get mad at junkies
have you ever met junkies? They do nothing but fight and back stab one another
Molly Breckleville - Wed, 07 Feb 2018 12:20:45 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522009 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I mean you don't get mad at a yellow duck for being yellow if you are a yellow duck yourself. Junkie example was too general to illustrate the point.
Barnaby Dartstock - Thu, 08 Feb 2018 04:09:56 EST ID:nWVWbjAg No.522015 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Seriously though, you really cant trust anyone these days. I just lost a sister, a worthless one no doubt but i just hate my luck in life
Jack Sangergold - Thu, 08 Feb 2018 09:17:07 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522016 Ignore Report Quick Reply
amor fati
Oliver Honeyridge - Fri, 09 Feb 2018 16:10:47 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.522031 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Yeah you do. You internalize all of the external world's hatred and project it onto members of your own.

Junkies get mad at junkies, degenerates get mad at degenerates, minorities get mad at minorities. All attempting to create totems of feces from their wretched state.

Buy lots of Kratom or quit it? by Phineas Foggleladge - Tue, 06 Feb 2018 20:23:26 EST ID:IaTqRtaT No.522001 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Well folks I’ve been using kratom for about half a year now daily to deal with what began as constant nausea and stomach aches. Doctors said they think it’s stress related because everything checks out physically but not much I can do about my life being less stressful, I mean it’s pretty chill maybe I just have subconscious anxiety.

Anyways, I’m seeing that some shops are carrying less and less, and there’s news the FDA is back on their witch-hunt for it. Should I buy a lot of it and slowly taper off, hoping my stomach issues are gone? Or should I just quit now so I don’t have to worry about it?

Idk, my problems I’m treating might be gone I haven’t noticed anything for like two months now but i do take about 5g a day of the wonderful bitter powder.
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Graham Drucklechere - Wed, 07 Feb 2018 23:27:18 EST ID:VfdAO0Sb No.522014 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Don't have any answers for you OP, would suggest checking /OPI/ if you haven't already.
Walter Mirrystock - Thu, 08 Feb 2018 22:42:26 EST ID:Ki1qQY1h No.522024 Ignore Report Quick Reply
suicide is the answer
Hannah Fombleston - Thu, 08 Feb 2018 23:07:10 EST ID:D/kqCC9R No.522025 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Why haven't you done it then?
Charles Pockstock - Fri, 09 Feb 2018 04:20:14 EST ID:NCapruGh No.522026 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I reccomend taking a dose of Jordan Peterson and cleaning your room, just to get the ball rolling.
Fucking Fuckingworth - Fri, 09 Feb 2018 12:59:20 EST ID:IaTqRtaT No.522028 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Thanks man. I decided to do this and am trying CBD. As a sort of control I went without kratom for two days and the withdrawal was about as bad as caffeine. Felt groggy and had some trouble focusing.

Today is the first day of CBD and idk I think the kratom withdrawals are still hitting but feels better than the previous days.

Neighbor girl by Shitting Fishchidging - Sun, 28 Jan 2018 05:22:51 EST ID:oOQyCzbT No.521799 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>live in basement under business
>super hot ass neighbor
>talk to her today
>"yea my boyfriends outta town for work, you should bring some beers over
>go to bar across the street to see friends shitty band
>stop at her house beforehand to give her incense cuz she asked if i had any, gave her my number
>Got drunk, ditched show walked back and knocked on door. no answer.
>she knocks on my door 5 seconds later, tells me to come over
>has some pregnant chick over
>doesnt wanna drink because friends pregnant, ends up drinking a beer at some point
>smoke like 3 blunts with preg trash friend
>the neighbor girl is laughing at all my jokes the entire time, i pass most shit tests.
>She says shes going to bed, asks me to leave. I ask for snapchat and she gives it but hasnt added me back.

I wanna pound this girls brains out. whats the next step. Should mention that throughout the night she kept mentioning "problems with boyfriend" but whenever i asked what was happening she said it was personal and shut up.
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Hedda Chullymudging - Sat, 03 Feb 2018 14:18:36 EST ID:TNGxHAKH No.521951 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>Women throw themselves at men who aren't shitheads.

But his advice if actually sound.
Jenny Bubberwot - Mon, 05 Feb 2018 22:13:09 EST ID:uiJIIsiL No.521993 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I agree you should go for it. If she does want to fuck you then you're going to have to wait until an opportunity when you have privacy so she can act on her desire.

The other possibility is that she just wanted to feel desirable and validated

Go for it if you want or of you think you can't resist but accept the possibility of facing the consequences of getting caught.

But definitely don't accept a position of just her friend, and by that I mean don't contact her if she isn't into you, leave. No friendship.
Jenny Bubberwot - Mon, 05 Feb 2018 22:13:09 EST ID:uiJIIsiL No.521994 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I agree you should go for it. If she does want to fuck you then you're going to have to wait until an opportunity when you have privacy so she can act on her desire.

The other possibility is that she just wanted to feel desirable and validated

Go for it if you want or of you think you can't resist but accept the possibility of facing the consequences of getting caught.

But definitely don't accept a position of just her friend, and by that I mean don't contact her if she isn't into you, leave. No friendship.
Shit Dablingbore - Wed, 07 Feb 2018 14:50:06 EST ID:gHR3/qJO No.522011 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>smoke like 3 blunts with preg trash friend
>She says shes going to bed, asks me to leave. I ask for snapchat and she gives it but hasnt added me back.
>I wanna pound this girls brains out. whats the next step.

Move on my friend.
Priscilla Parrywater - Thu, 08 Feb 2018 14:01:30 EST ID:bwDBYADy No.522020 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Dude you are fucking creepy haha. Where did you even get a computer?

overthinking shit about the office twat by Charles Lightlock - Sun, 04 Feb 2018 08:06:35 EST ID:lnO9d30e No.521961 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Some people will claim to be open with you and want to talk of stuff that may be bothering them or you, in some way or another, and they'll do this under the pretense of "cleaning" it out with you. Like, something that is related to your friendship or work relationship.
In the end you get half a word in and you're scrambled for a conversation that is more about the other person talking about what and how things are then whatever it is that you're thinking. You will give a full effort to listen to that person but that person will only be half-assed through whatever it is you're saying. And when you are finally just about to have some half say into it but the conversation is off now, i mean your little bits, hardly made a point without being constantly interrupted, but the other person feels realized and that everything is done and over, and this person is bored and off to whatever.

And if you're that person, a big fuck you, you self-serving little shit, dragging people around a mudslide of thoughts that were closed off for a reason, so you can feel like you're an """open""" and """approachable""" person. Fuck you for making people like me having to second guess what i would believe to be kindness for bullshit. You don't give a single fuck about anything but your side of things or any claims for honesty, and what is infuriating is not only you -will- believe you are doing us both a favor, idiots like me will believe you too.
fuck you for wasting my time to the point I am still thinking about it.

I just wish I could've known.
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Wesley Lightfield - Mon, 05 Feb 2018 18:33:34 EST ID:COAX7aNZ No.521990 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You're obsessed with being pushed around but only a truly insecure person feels weak for sometimes letting go. Not being a bitch isn't about standing up and getting angry about every single thing but actually looking at a problem and saying "is this worth fighting? Or does it matter?". The fact you're afraid of being a bitch rather than just happy to be who you are and do what makes sense to you is another large part of your problem.

You have to stop getting upset that you're not always on top. The world's most powerful man (maybe) can't even hide is impotence and he's alpha dude bro as they come. He can't even get a boner for his daughter any more. It's just about knowing when to draw the line and when to let it go. It's also about knowing that people will let you do your thing sometimes. I'm quite happy to defer to people a lot. I'm not a confident or pushy or assertive person but no one would call me a bitch and if they did they know I'd just think they were a fuckwit. And that's the thing, I'm not a bitch because I say so. If you're in charge it's because I'm confident in you but also in my own judgment that you're best handling shit. but I'm not afraid to say "yeah I got this".

Anyway it's not something you can magically "get" from advice on the internet. The best you can hope for from this thread is you try some stuff and eventually the stuff people said will clock.

I will say try being more positive though. You actually reacted the right way by not making a scene. You also have to realise she was some drunk girl. You've made this big deal over nothing. You've not thought how she saw it. Hell she cared enough to talk. Maybe she didn't like you but she felt something, you weren't just beneath her, she couldn't just walk way.
Martha Turveystock - Tue, 06 Feb 2018 16:48:57 EST ID:IYQ19BSQ No.521998 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Honestly, the sad thing is, I couldn't have it from her.
Yeah, i mean i'm never happy to be pushed, played, or whatever it was, but, it's just worse when it's from her.

>The best you can hope for from this thread is you try some stuff and eventually the stuff people said will clock.
I know waht you mean. trust me I do. I know the diference between knowing and realizing and these things happen in my life sometimes and I can hear all of what you said but when its under my skin, it's like no reason gets there... right? so here i wait...for the clocking process I guess.

>I will say try being more positive though
Can't say I know how to.
By doing positive actions i presume. I don't know how to do that. Like I'm mostly just...negative I think.
Molly Breckleville - Tue, 06 Feb 2018 19:53:22 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522000 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>Like I'm mostly just...negative I think.
John Blammledore - Wed, 07 Feb 2018 02:09:05 EST ID:TsMfXxRv No.522006 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Well, maybe i'm being dramatic :)

Ebenezer Pockgold - Wed, 07 Feb 2018 18:07:50 EST ID:COAX7aNZ No.522012 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I guess "try being positive" isn't much use. Just focus on the things you can do, the things you can influence and the options open to you. When things go wrong look at what you can salvage and what you can learn. Once you have those, or if there is neither of those then move on to something you can influence. You will find that positive just sort of turns up after a while.

Panel Interview Tomorrow by Ian Sicklecocke - Mon, 05 Feb 2018 02:26:56 EST ID:loFqoohq No.521981 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Any tips for performing well in the interview?

I just finished reviewing my flashcards of potential interview questions and answers. I have my clothes set aside and ready, I'm bout to get some nice good sleep so the information I went over today is archived into long term memory. I just want any extra tips anyone is willing to drop in order to achieve success. Also you should know this is my second interview ever. My last was 9 years ago working for burger king. This is for a government position that i'm well qualified for.

Thanks guys i'm nervous and excited to get this done.
Ian Sicklecocke - Mon, 05 Feb 2018 10:18:30 EST ID:loFqoohq No.521983 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Well fuck guys the skellyten told me errything i needah know
Graham Funderdan - Tue, 06 Feb 2018 14:38:39 EST ID:COAX7aNZ No.521997 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Bit late now, but read the job description, the person they want and skills to demonstrate and make sure you remember that when answering their questions. You're there to prove you're the guy they're after. They have described this person for you already.
Edwin Goodway - Wed, 07 Feb 2018 01:06:16 EST ID:Uaxv2FmG No.522003 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Think of it as a practice round. Be honest, authetic and believe that youre good for the job

Can't think clearly/positively without weed by Fucking Hinninghodge - Sun, 04 Feb 2018 18:27:43 EST ID:HrHfEsme No.521970 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I've been smoking from 17-23 and I feel like I can only be positive and really understand my emotions, and realize that I have anxiety and probably depression, when I smoke weed. Is this because of long term use? I stopped for the last month but I don't know if it helped. So idk if it's underlying issues or I messed up my brain with pot. It kinda frightens me how much it helps me, as I need to take time to think about things thoroughly and weed helps a ton with that.
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James Sozzlewug - Mon, 05 Feb 2018 02:17:42 EST ID:SLZ94LIZ No.521980 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I have these issues too, had self esteem and social anxiety stuff well before. I don't think you messed your brain up. I think you should try to quit for a while. Like you I was 17-present (24). I went to college but haven't applied my degree. I think the world is pretty much fucked, anxiety and depression are healthy responses to bad shit. No answers from me though, and I've read a bunch too.
Charles Drorringpuck - Mon, 05 Feb 2018 08:53:19 EST ID:/n9Vcucz No.521982 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Yeah, all my life.
Wesley Lightfield - Mon, 05 Feb 2018 12:42:23 EST ID:COAX7aNZ No.521984 Ignore Report Quick Reply
there is no answer. You just have to push on and make the most of it. I'm not saying that shit goes away or anything just that it's a truism that making the best of things is the best option. Maybe you can't beat your self esteem upright or stop being nervous around people but you should just do as much as humanly possible to make the things you have even a modicum of control over a bit better.

Anxiety and depression are understandable and relatable responses and yes maybe even healthy, and yes I've been there. Am there sometimes. But that doesn't mean you can curl up and die.

As for OP and others, it's not that there's a broken brain or addiction mechanism that won't go away in a few weeks maybe couple of months (you're not exhibiting schitzophrenic tendancies) but you may have not yet learned to cope or at least get by because you used drugs as a refuse. Therapy can help. But line it up with a series of small minor positive improvements in your life for best results.
Edwin Nummlehall - Mon, 05 Feb 2018 22:03:09 EST ID:GiCOfox9 No.521991 Ignore Report Quick Reply
you can stop and get back to normal, weed is fun but has its costs.
I sometimes have to quit for drug tests at work or whatever, I'm a little depressed and frazzled at first, but then I get like super productive, start working out and showering regularly. It's not so bad to be sober.
OP - Tue, 06 Feb 2018 11:42:17 EST ID:aE5H/II7 No.521996 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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I can get by I'm just startled by how much weed can help me think. I don't need it but it really can help me sort through my mental anxieties. And its fun as fuck and takes my mind off and helps me be more present. I hashed out my self esteem issues on paper so maybe a therapist can help guide me towards making positive change. OP

Teeth by Cedric Hallerkuck - Sun, 04 Feb 2018 22:06:21 EST ID:sRVEkWhK No.521975 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Long story short, my mouth made-out with some ceramic a long-time back and now it's full of caps and crowns. My incisor just popped off and I'm stick with this short jagged saw-blade.

Is there something I can do to keep it from rubbing on my tongue or gums until I can see someone tomorrow?
Hamilton Serringnack - Sun, 04 Feb 2018 23:17:28 EST ID:m4hby6Jl No.521976 Ignore Report Quick Reply
melt candle wax and press it over it?
Cedric Hallerkuck - Sun, 04 Feb 2018 23:30:45 EST ID:sRVEkWhK No.521977 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Thank you.

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