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useless by Esther Crinningmudge - Tue, 06 Mar 2018 09:46:33 EST ID:cgEtleBY No.522664 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I just moved back into my moms at it's been rough. My depression is skyrocketing which makes me unmotivated which makes me not do anything which makes me depressed and the cycle continues.

I was trying to work for her but my e-mails are not very well worded and she went nuts on me. My mom has bipolar. I painted her washroom. cook for her. help with her work but she always just gives me more shit when she goes off on a bipolar rip. She told me this morning that I am not her son when I got mad about the fact that she gave me more work to do with her business that wasn't related at all the my original job.

She said the scar on her stomach was from me and now look at me. She said I am uneducated and it breaks her heart. I might as well live on the street. I'm 27 now and my birthday is in a few weeks. This all effects me so deeply because she used to say these things to me when I was growing up and now I have no confidence in anything I do. I'm very emotional because of all of this. Can't stop crying. I feel pathetic.

I don't know what this post is for. Just want to die every day. It's been years of me just wanting to die.
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Esther Crinningmudge - Tue, 06 Mar 2018 10:44:51 EST ID:cgEtleBY No.522668 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522667

It's okay. Nobody in real life wants to hear my problems so I understand why nobody on the internet would want to either.
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Cornelius Dusslewot - Tue, 06 Mar 2018 12:35:53 EST ID:FwheuJ8x No.522670 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522664
>I might as well live on the street.

It worked for me. Might want to wait a couple of months depending on where you live though.
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Cornelius Dorryfield - Tue, 06 Mar 2018 13:50:47 EST ID:EW88g1rT No.522676 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522664
Practice those emails, make sure you're matching your skills to the requirements of the jobs. Get a job move out. This is not a healthy environment. You should avoid living with your mother at pretty much all costs. I wouldn't advocate homelessness unless shit gets actually physically dangerous but your mother is a crazy piece of shit and you probably shouldn't have been left with her to grow up.

You know this. You can't undo what happened but you can certainly move forward. Sitting at home and helping her beat you up is the opposite of what you need to do.

Get a shitty dead end job if you need to and just live cheap and apply for something better. 28 is late to start a career but it's not too late. Speaking from experience here.I went from call centre dead end to admin in a good employer, to admin in a department that used my skills, then started mantling up. I'm creeping past people who started years before me now.

Depression makes you worse at everything and your post still reads like someone with working brain cells. You can do stuff. I'm sure.
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William Noshforth - Thu, 08 Mar 2018 10:21:53 EST ID:V+NdO5+D No.522706 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Post your address so I can come rape your mom. That'll learn her.
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David Hecklelet - Sun, 11 Mar 2018 01:11:20 EST ID:dhjvSXwP No.522755 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You're in a tough situation mate. Your mum is unwell and she's displaying some abusive behaviour. It sounds like you've internalized some of it from the past.

It's the old juggling act. In a lot of ways, you are her carer and you're getting punished for it with your own mental health issues.

Get in touch with some mental health services. Talk about some options with them for yourself and your mum.


Weird fucking paranoia by Walter Wudgegold - Mon, 26 Feb 2018 20:34:39 EST ID:TUgPV7Lr No.522541 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So, I'm randomly worried now. I met this girl on Tinder right? Everything's cool, we talk and chat a few days. And we have sex about a week since meeting.

All of a sudden, I am paranoid. Worried she is a mtf post of transgender.
Now it's strange yes, I have NO reason to believe she is. But I'm fucking worried about weird things like that, worried she was really unattractive, despite meeting her and being really attracted.

She still got wet, and my dick got wet inside her.

Am I stupid? Fucking a I'm worried about a lot of shit all of a sudden.

Did I get played? Does everyone else know something I don't? Am I going to be safe?

Something's really weird.
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Barnaby Picklock - Wed, 07 Mar 2018 02:54:18 EST ID:oa5LWDQk No.522689 Ignore Report Quick Reply
What the fuck is this thread
OP, go see a doctor or get off the drugs. It's not normal to suddenly get so paranoid for no reason.
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Beatrice Murdman - Wed, 07 Mar 2018 12:24:06 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522695 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>522689
not on 420 chan it isnt
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Schepperschop - Wed, 07 Mar 2018 16:00:58 EST ID:cbaTdYwW No.522696 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522541
Jim Carrey is the monster!
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Schepperschop - Wed, 07 Mar 2018 16:10:16 EST ID:cbaTdYwW No.522697 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522696
I could not even throw pinecones at his building yet.
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Matilda Nicklewater - Wed, 07 Mar 2018 19:06:27 EST ID:x0x8kil6 No.522699 Ignore Report Quick Reply
smoke less


Sucidal thoughts by Ian Brunnerditch - Tue, 27 Feb 2018 10:24:57 EST ID:Ie47yRfC No.522554 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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How do you deal with them?
For me its getting worse and worse every day.
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Hannah Pillysudge - Tue, 06 Mar 2018 17:05:55 EST ID:bEywldtK No.522681 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I hate feminism, but I do respect woman.
I have nothing against homos, but I fucking hate the LGBT community and it's influence on current culture.
I respect some emigrants, but I hate SJW.
So the question is, do I as a human being have a right to have my opinions and views? Or I should be OK with any shit that the media is forcing me to support?
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Hannah Pillysudge - Tue, 06 Mar 2018 17:18:59 EST ID:bEywldtK No.522682 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Back in 10-20 years ago, when I was watching TV, I was actually enjoying it.
Now all hate each other, atheism, couples cheating on each other, gays and lesbians are in everywhere, the current 30+ years old actors are acting like a 16 years old faggots, the majority of woman are all like a plastic rubber...
So what's next? pedophiles getting equal rights or incest lovers brother and sister merying in church?
Back in a day I was buying a cassete tape for watching a porn, now the television itself is full of porn, girls are talking about their blowjob experience with their ex-partners while kissing their current boyfriends, guys talking about how great is sucking a pussy....
At least, are we all gonna die like a proud human? 'Cause like this, we're becoming worse then animals.
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Molly Sellyfadge - Tue, 06 Mar 2018 18:23:45 EST ID:NGVE7j6T No.522683 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522682
Get woke. Turn the tv off
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Basil Cleckleforth - Wed, 07 Mar 2018 00:35:39 EST ID:dhjvSXwP No.522686 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522682
Why do you care so much about what everyone else is doing for?

You're like the kid getting told off that's saying, "But they started It!"

You choose your own adventure buck. Do you. You didn't start the fire and you can't put it out. The world is going to burn. It'll be a long long time after you're dead though most likely so have fun and do you. Sheesh
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Beatrice Murdman - Wed, 07 Mar 2018 18:50:54 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522698 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522686
what do you mean by do me? how do I do that?


Fucking shit by Esther Pockbanks - Tue, 06 Mar 2018 12:59:57 EST ID:7oTdIRwW No.522672 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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My mom has cancer, I randomly witnessed a murder in broad daylight last week so I'm hounded by fucking police and journalists and curious people and have to be at a trial soon, it was fucked up enough that I was the only real witness and had to watch a dude slip away into oblivion while he was coughing up blood but all this mess on the side. I lost my license because I admitted that I had previously smoked weed (this was after I was completely sober for 7 months) and my apartment was filled with rot so I had to move out.

I now live with my parents, far away in the woods and I'm broke. I love them but it's kinda smothering living with them, and since I'm in the woods I'm not getting anywhere, I feel fucking restless, been gaining weight and haven't had _any_ pootang in 2 years. Getting a job is fucking useless since I can't actually GET to the fucking job, there isn't collective transport here.

I'm just blowing off steam here obviously, but man, what the fuck do you guys do when everything is complete shite? I have my exams in a month, which will probably go to hell and I'll flunk Scandinavian high school as a fucking 22 year old man. But at least I'll have tried, that is the ONE good thing I've done in years.

So, what the fuck dudes, what the fuck can I do to make this shit bearable before I fucking explode?
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Shit Bludgeheck - Tue, 06 Mar 2018 13:13:50 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522673 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>522672
pay attention to how you feel and think thoughts that give you RELIEF, peace, joy, ease. 15 minutes of medination upon waking up will help you do that tremendously. This includes paying attention to how actions, places, situations, people, not just thought patterns that make you feel a certain way. Just pay attention to that and steer in the direction of relief. Just don't be too determined to control this, you will inevitably have difficulty at first cause this takes practice, rather look at it as a game that makes you feel better and better and raises your vibration until you don't even notice it and you are suddenly ecstatic, but don't do it for that, cause it won't work, do it for relief in the present moment.

That;s the best advice I can give you dude.
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Shit Bludgeheck - Tue, 06 Mar 2018 13:17:19 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522674 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522672
also you can try levitation for your transport problem
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Esther Pockbanks - Tue, 06 Mar 2018 13:55:19 EST ID:7oTdIRwW No.522677 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>522673
It's not bad advice dude, I can't meditate well because I usually end up feeling some relief before a flood of badvibes, my anxiety just don't like it for some reason. Maybe it's the quietness of it all or something, or maybe the fucking reflection.

Do you have any advice for how to wire myself to more positive thoughts? I've been trying to get some cognitive therapy but alas, it's a fucking effort that'll take months if I'm not fucking rich and have to get the taxpayers to pay it for me.

Thanks for advice man, have some Tarhiel on me for the sound levitation-tip.
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Shit Bludgeheck - Tue, 06 Mar 2018 14:14:43 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522678 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>522677
you can run, but you cannot hide. Meditation is the ground zero. You meditate, the clouds come-a-knockin' and they say hey look at me I'm this and that problem, oh wow you are meditating so I'm finally getting your attention and am finally able to deliver the message and now that you are downloading the message I'll go on my merry way and the clouds clear and you are left with a clear blue sky. 10-15 minutes man, don't be afraid, it's not much and it will make a difference.

Really to think more positively you just have to chose SLAYER now and when you get into the habit of monitoring how you feel about thoughts/places/actions/etc and choosing accordingly which has many many layers of mastery you can go up and up. People will be blown away by your zen if you get good at this. When you get good at choosing good feeling thoughts you can crash a car or loose all your money and separate with a loved one or some other supposedly really unsettling stuff and not only not get upset but literally imagine scenarios how that might actually be an awesome turn of events for you and get excited even passionate about these events. It may or may not be what you decide to tell yourself that it is, but your energy your vibe is still your vibe and it is how you feel, what your life is. Try on some of those groovy ones man and watch your life transform.
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Cornelius Dorryfield - Tue, 06 Mar 2018 14:57:54 EST ID:EW88g1rT No.522679 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522672
OP I can't promise a solution to everything right now but start with the things you can do.

The trial and murder will be over soon. At least you're in buttfuck nowhere so at least you have privacy. Just get through the trial and that's done. This is something you just have to not fuck up further. You can do it.

You're gaining weight that's the easiest to fix. Eat less exercise more. If you're trapped in the house, the moment its warm enough to get out you should, walk a lot, climb things, do push ups and pull ups and drips and crunches. You won't get super muscular but you'll get fit, you'll get the boost from exercise and you'll burn calories. Eat a smaller breakfast and lunch, ask for smaller portions at dinner or even fucking do some of the cooking for your parents. You will feel less useless and less trapped and these are all small steps.

Your exams are higher priority but longer term. You know what to do for these. Revise and actually do practise questions every day. I used to have a terrible study ethic when I was your age but when I studied again later on I would follow up each bit of revision by firstly immediately testing my knowledge and forcing myself to recall and then doing questions. Generally do a thing. Go over it immediately. Again 20 minutes later. Do some questions. Come back regularly and make sure you don't just do recall. Test your ability to do it. Do practice exams. Don't do them all at the end. Do one early on when you've gone once over everything. You'll identify the areas you need to revise a bit (the strong ones) and the ones that need proper focus (the weak ones) after a week try again. When you finally ace an exam do one more a day or two later. Keep revising.

You've got shit all to do so a couple of hours in the morning and a couple in the afternoon is fuck all. Do it. Actually try. You won't flunk it if you actually try.

Next up your location.

You're in scandanavia so how's welfare? Can you grift shitty errands and save money until you can afford to move somewhere else (with a couple of months savings of course)?

All this meditation and mindfulness and discovering yourse…
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Leaving by Sophie Feckleridge - Tue, 06 Mar 2018 02:00:40 EST ID:oOQyCzbT No.522658 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I've lived in the same area my entire life and its really bad, my parents are good lighthearted people but I can no longer stand them or the people from the town I grew up in.

I live 20 mins away, and don't talk to anyone but my parents. Every weekend I hear about how they see a friend that fucked me over at the bar, or how some random highschool girl was doing shots with my grandma.

I go to trips to see big edm shows and raves in other cities for fun, and I live on my own, and my own grandma talks down to me like im a druggy loser because I dont go to the bowling alley to get drunk with my family and everyone from highschool.

I currently have a very good job paying job, but its gonna shut down in a few years. I also have some debts, but nothing in collections and nothing that won't be paid. I'm considering to begin saving now and when my place closes in 2-3 years packing my shit and driving around the country until I find somewhere I like, moving out their, getting an apprenticeship for either being a residential electrician or plumber and heating/cooling.

Ill might end up living here for at some point but i need to get out of here for a few years and I want to be able to have a nice house in the woods and a good career if and when I come back.

I'm currently 26. Has anyone here ever done this? I always talked about doing something like this when I was younger, but it was always to fuck off and smoke pot. Now I want to get an actual career and am just sick of living in the shadows of a drunk, miserable midwest community.
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Sophie Feckleridge - Tue, 06 Mar 2018 02:12:58 EST ID:oOQyCzbT No.522659 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>I live 20 mins away, and don't talk to anyone but my parents.

i should correct myself, I dont generally talk to anyone from that still lives in my hometown except for my parents, however i have many friends who no longer live there that stayed in contact.
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Walter Pocklock - Tue, 06 Mar 2018 09:07:41 EST ID:ANkygj/U No.522663 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Anon, your ancestors gave up everything they new and had to travel to the new world in search of opportunity. If you have the will, you can go out into the unknown and find somewhere better for yourself. The only thing stopping you is yourself.


how to get drugs. by Martha Drebberledge - Sat, 03 Mar 2018 12:22:21 EST ID:jF725BWz No.522627 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I know, I know, it's "that" question, but I'm a man in my 30's and I'm looking for something other than weed(no judgement over it, it just makes me extremely anxious) I believe MDMA and LSD could be very benefitial towards me -- or i mean, i have a load of problems and I can't quite get around them, such as identity problems, severe social issues and poor self control '-- so i believe these could somehow help me, or so i feel it's worth the shot.
I do have to try something and it's really hard to talk to people and tell them you're just looking for something that might be theurapetical towards you and be taken seriously. The proof is out there but everyone is just concerned about tripping their faces off. I don't want that - for the sole purpose of that, I want to be better, know myself better, i want to be able to have a peek into what the fuck is going on iwth me.
But like i mentioned i suck socially.
And i'm in a cocaine-fueled casino island.

Also I heavily dislike reggae, I just can't feel at ease around it, and I'm not sure I can fake it very well. I don't mean to sound judgemental, I just really don't identify myself with it and I'm aware it's pretty much like crippling myself on this goal of mine.
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Cyril Hurringfane - Sun, 04 Mar 2018 13:10:22 EST ID:t1hALosV No.522642 Ignore Report Quick Reply
you can buy drugs on the openweb with real money btw
plenty of grey market 'lab supply stores' where you can wire transfer your money and receive drugs
I usually don't recommend circlejerk for fucking anything but go read their RC reviews

best of luck, don't buy any chinese fentanyl
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Emma Hattingdock - Mon, 05 Mar 2018 14:30:55 EST ID:Q3TQO9f4 No.522654 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522642

Lol, don't buy RC's either. Get some real drugs, OP.
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Rebecca Pettingham - Mon, 05 Mar 2018 15:12:05 EST ID:eNHfSMxb No.522655 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522633
Cocaine.
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Hedda Murdcocke - Mon, 05 Mar 2018 16:22:22 EST ID:T4M4IPCI No.522656 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522640 if you don’t like the high you can just pop a xan
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Albert Pibberchot - Tue, 06 Mar 2018 08:05:11 EST ID:IaTqRtaT No.522662 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>522627
Bring cash to edm shows, dress all over the top colorful or Jesus or something. Stand out visually, and people will offer you drugs. If you have to buy it you'll have the cash. Bring something low profile to store them in and you don't even have to stay and enjoy the music.

100% serious. I go to a lot of electronic concerts and am usually offered some form of mdma or rc within the first half hour waitin in line. If you're dressed up silly people will automatically want to party with you too.

Hell, simply goiing to shows may help your social problems in the end.


South Korea is racist by John Blunderden - Sun, 04 Mar 2018 13:19:59 EST ID:/0bRPVfi No.522643 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I went on holiday to South Korea, and it was great, Soeul, truly a neon glittering soul. But then I went on the bridge holiday next day acrross overer to North KOrea. But I wasn't there. Anyway when I was there I could see from inside North Korea to South Korea, and it was racist. All of it. The whole thing. But North Korea felt like home, although I couldn't understand how I came from South Korea to get there, but anyway I felt mong the peop le.

South Korea pamphets, hear one get one, now sout!
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John Blunderden - Sun, 04 Mar 2018 13:37:30 EST ID:/0bRPVfi No.522644 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>522643
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Angus Pittshit - Sun, 04 Mar 2018 14:08:50 EST ID:CYqtKTfB No.522646 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522643
The woman in North Korea are naturally more beautiful then the plastic ones of South.
Even their pussies feel like a plastic, it's like you're fucking a rubber.
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John Blunderden - Sun, 04 Mar 2018 14:15:40 EST ID:/0bRPVfi No.522647 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522646

FUCKEEEER, I kwe asked you to partcitpate, you been there, now you know!

FUCKER!!!
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Angus Pittshit - Sun, 04 Mar 2018 15:13:28 EST ID:CYqtKTfB No.522649 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522647
I have a russian citizenship, so I can enter the both countries without any problem, and by the way North Koreans aren't as bad as your faggot media is portraying them.
They are very nice and good people.


relationships by George Pemmerfotch - Tue, 27 Feb 2018 02:06:43 EST ID:USPJbjge No.522548 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Am I like the one fucking person that wished they met someone later in life, or is everyone on this, "I wanted you before one/both of us was "changed"." kick?
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Awe' God !!vVWR8L52 - Tue, 27 Feb 2018 15:28:25 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522560 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>522548
yeah, same, i think it has to do with understanding that they are only gonna reflect you right now.
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Jenny Fuddlesteg - Sat, 03 Mar 2018 00:18:40 EST ID:TQeGA7XC No.522621 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522548

I'm kicking myself for letting things fall through with my college gf after a few years. There'll never be another one of those.

Does it really get easier to relate to people in your 30s?


Personality change by Martin Buckleforth - Thu, 01 Mar 2018 08:36:13 EST ID:4GWcaTQs No.522595 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Some things about my personality seem to have changed in the past few months. It's mostly positive stuff I'm happy about but any sort of personality change seems a bit suspect. Is this symptomatic of anything bad? Should I speak to a doctor? Or can I just carry on and be happy for it?
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Awe !!vVWR8L52 - Thu, 01 Mar 2018 13:58:59 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522603 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522595
It's weird that you notice it just now, but absolutely you can carry on being happy for it.
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Caroline Goodhall - Thu, 01 Mar 2018 17:22:54 EST ID:ROGlj1oY No.522605 Ignore Report Quick Reply
huh kinda in the same situation here, nothing really major happened, i just stopped being so nihilist about life. i'm kinda confused about it too but i just carry on, it is not a mindstate i want to revisit
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Cedric Gevingfield - Thu, 01 Mar 2018 18:05:29 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.522607 Ignore Report Quick Reply
they fine tuned the chemtrails flying over your house
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Oliver Lightshit - Fri, 02 Mar 2018 07:45:49 EST ID:gTInpfSd No.522609 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522607
>chemtrails
>not astral implants
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Basil Ferrysare - Fri, 02 Mar 2018 17:55:02 EST ID:SeiiPtim No.522610 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522595
might be symptomatic of bipolar disorder I guess, that usually first manifests in people's late teens or 20's, but it's probably nothing.


Unable to have healthy relationships by Angus Hocklepig - Thu, 01 Mar 2018 00:29:36 EST ID:vPXIYoJk No.522588 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So basically, thats it i guess.
Im a guy that mostly is considered above average on looks, like who draw attention overall, but fail compensating it with my autistic ways.
Im able tho to get into like one or two small relationships in a year normally, and had a girlfriend once.
Thing is, im unable to have a healthy relationship, im just that over anxious guy, call me a shitty human being, but really jealous kind, i tried having a relationship that wasn't serious, and we could see other people, just that i feel anxious and bad, i didn't act directly jealous or try to manipulate her, but to me, that was hell, i went into a state where i felt "unworthy", and even through i always get compliments and feel i do the right stuff, from dating to sex, i always get that feeling, so i turned emotionally needy, until she told she couldn't give me what i wanted.
Thing is, i may think this was only because it was a open relationship, and maybe if i got into a serious one, i'd feel better, but i know those feelings would still crawl over and destroy me, i feel i can't have any healthy relationships until i figure how to not be needy, but i have no idea about how to not be, how to be independent and confident, i try all those weird mumbo jumbos people normally recommend, i have a good body, i workout a lot, i keep my appearance, i read a lot so i maintain my mind sharp, i meditate a lot to try to become better, last week i spent most days of my week going once to a Zen temple to meditate, so i wouldn't be so clingy after the break up, yet i still feel like this overly anxious fucker.

I've tried to reason psychologically, from a Freudian perspective, i could tell i mostly developed this, cause my mother was the biggest autorithy figure in my life, basically the kind of person who would curse me and call me a idiot for asking for help in the homework, im pretty sure some stuff she did to me as kid, like touching my balls and laughing with my aunties, when i was like 6, fucked me up, but even so, just cause i think "maybe she is the reason", doesn't mean it all stops, i still feel always inadequate, i always become able to love myself when i spend some time for myself, …
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Angus Hocklepig - Thu, 01 Mar 2018 00:33:59 EST ID:vPXIYoJk No.522589 Ignore Report Quick Reply
And needless to say, when its over, it always looks like it hits way harder than for others, since i start feeling more and more incapable, like she was to good for me, i'll never find anyone else cause i don't deserve it...
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Esther Brocklelore - Thu, 01 Mar 2018 09:26:20 EST ID:0cfO9IXf No.522596 Ignore Report Quick Reply
So yeah you need a nice older female therapist that you can talk to about all of this shit right here. Like paid non judgmental mummy who doesn't exist in any aspect of the rest of your life. Don't become attached though obvy.
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Angus Hocklepig - Thu, 01 Mar 2018 10:10:11 EST ID:vPXIYoJk No.522598 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522596
Yeah, i was thinking about going into therapy, i had some bad experiences in the past as a kid and teenager, mainly projecting my mom into the psychologist and always lying so i would get "aproval", but i need one as a adult that i can be honest with.
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Edward Billingway - Thu, 01 Mar 2018 12:59:47 EST ID:COAX7aNZ No.522601 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522598
Maybe you need to have a discussion with yourself. Your therapist could be a guide to help you do that. It sounds like you do all these things but you don't give yourself credit for what you've achieved, or you do those things but measure your worth elsewhere.

Knowing the root of the problem is useful but only as far as it helps you understand the problem and work out what you need to do.

I also suspect you don't date great girls but sell yourself short and then hold yourself hostage because you don't think you can be truly happy but that's just something you need to look at yourself and ask "do I do this?" not a certainty.
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Angus Hocklepig - Thu, 01 Mar 2018 14:54:46 EST ID:vPXIYoJk No.522604 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522601
Yep, i mostly like when its easy to get emotional support, mostly i start dating most girls who look like some easy acess for this, instead of looking into compatibility and character, and yes, mostly i feel useless, like i never achieved anything great, and need to revaluate that.


Dealing with fruit remnants by Angus Nallerwill - Tue, 27 Feb 2018 06:53:11 EST ID:I01TPKFD No.522549 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Fruit remnants lying around, mother keeps complaining about it, and yet when I'm within the vicinity of the bin, I bin things. Even though I have had my mouth on the applecore, I keep it off the floor and placed firmly within the peeled skin of the Satsuma, which in turn lies comfortable in a banana peel, so there's no chance of my oral bacteria contaminating the carpet, and even if it did, there's no particular harm, it's not like anyone eats off the carpet. The fruit remnants are only lying around for 10 or so minutes before I go into the kitchen to get something, and in doing so dispose of the fruit remnants in the bin as I'm passing. There's no use making two trips within twenty minutes, and yet mother cannot accept this. She insists I dispose of my neatly piled fruit skins immediately, even with two minutes of a video to go.

How do I deal with this problem?
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Martin Depperbury - Tue, 27 Feb 2018 16:25:58 EST ID:UJFNl8I5 No.522561 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Let the fruit be. The fruit is part of nature. The trash is part of nature. We are all God. And this thread about picking up fruit off the floor is some serious shit.

Ask yourself, "who is it that's picking up the fruit?" Then, my man, you become an uber woke Buddhabro and the fruit picks itself up. Let the fruit be, let yourself be, and be one with the dirty ass rotting fruit on your nasty ass floor.

Actually, just clean your shit up OP goddamn. Like, this is probably a b8 thread, but like, dude, like, what if someone you love tries to extract the bananadine out of a moldy banana peel you left on the floor? That could get them really sick. Be considerate of your actions and the consequences they have on other people.

I believe in you OP. I believe you can clean your fucking room up.
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Augustus Pungerkadging - Wed, 28 Feb 2018 01:17:41 EST ID:2IaKZ905 No.522576 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Just take some acid already
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George Cemmledod - Wed, 28 Feb 2018 03:39:58 EST ID:80efJqSX No.522577 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I dealt with this problem by learning to eat the skins and cores of whatever fruit I eat.

Sure, arsenic is not great for you and banana skins taste kinda like old shoes, but it saves me getting up at all.
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Awe' God !!vVWR8L52 - Wed, 28 Feb 2018 05:18:46 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522581 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>522577
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Shit Doblingfedging - Thu, 01 Mar 2018 00:55:37 EST ID:JyAen2RO No.522591 Ignore Report Quick Reply
At least you have a mother


Is it possible to learn social skills later in life? by Ernest Gugglelad - Sat, 17 Feb 2018 08:51:17 EST ID:qjsN1w3c No.522322 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I always read people saying how social skills are super important when it comes to just about everything in life. Dating, making friends, getting a job, advancing your career, it all boils down to social skills. But let's say you've gotten to adulthood and your social skills are still shitty, you can't make conversation with strangers, you always have awkward silences, can't tell jokes, etc, is it still possible to learn these things as an adult or are you fucked for life?

Any success stories of people doing this would be appreciated along with an explanation of how they went about doing it.
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Lydia Pezzleman - Tue, 20 Feb 2018 17:48:03 EST ID:ilcXZXCD No.522437 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522433

right in the pussy
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Oliver Bunnerherk - Thu, 22 Feb 2018 02:34:35 EST ID:NEV3gTxa No.522465 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522437
LMFAO
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Isabella Demmerfoot - Sun, 25 Feb 2018 03:55:15 EST ID:kPK7t16O No.522513 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Some socially retarded people are better off failing at life or they might become a tyranical asshole who understands people as things.

In short yes, having at least SOME social skills are essential for navigating the world of people. If not because of some immunological benefits to socialising, or the interconnected link of opportunities to open life up to you, then at least to know how to deal with shitty people who will inevitably try to weasel into your life and fuck you dry.
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Nigel Seddleson - Mon, 26 Feb 2018 14:53:35 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.522534 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522513
>people I dislike should fail
>I'm on an advice board trying to help the very same people I dislike from failing

Are you one of those socially challenged retards, anon?

>ITT: Dunning-Kruger syndrome
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Edwin Sedgebut - Mon, 26 Feb 2018 15:45:11 EST ID:kPK7t16O No.522536 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>522534
Calm down, I was just in a mood for ripping on facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg at the time of writing. I don't want people to fail, I just don't want successful people to assimilate me into their borg hive-mind.

It's really sad you see things that way so easily. Are you often this hostile?


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