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#qq on IRC by Mintzs !GD3wBpep0Y - Sun, 13 Aug 2017 12:14:49 EST ID:d5kHsYag No.518069 Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hi folks,

If you're looking to talk to someone immediately about any problems you have in your life and have nobody close to you, come and speak to us!

Join us on IRC on #qq. Most of us have different time zones but if you stay there, one of us will be there.

Don't be afraid to speak up.
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Wesley Brookworth - Mon, 16 Apr 2018 10:09:50 EST ID:Q2NCY030 No.523482 Ignore Report Quick Reply
nice, could you send me some money? I'm dry and your talk won't help me but money will. I'm glad you're here for me
Ebenezer Snodman - Tue, 17 Apr 2018 06:26:12 EST ID:qrma4kyX No.523507 Ignore Report Quick Reply
i dont have money but i can send u my love?
Angus Gundledale - Tue, 17 Apr 2018 20:53:18 EST ID:vATdGl2v No.523525 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I believe you've nb'd a stickied post my dude

Given Up by David Cumblenene - Mon, 16 Apr 2018 21:00:12 EST ID:rxxDj+8t No.523490 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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How do you deal with the fact that you'll always be an unattractive black male with a broken family and no job prospects?

I'm 20 and feel like my life is falling apart. I literally failed my HS/secondary school exams here in Ireland. I went to a further education institute but that didn't go so well so ever since Dec 2017 I've been applying for jos. I've applied to 40 places so far and not a single response apart from 2 clothing shops that called me to do a retail test two weeks ago but I haven't heard back from them.

I see all my classmates IRL and on Facebook really enjoying their lives. I know people say ''don't compare yourself to others, it gets you nowhere'' but honestly, how can I not when nearly everyone has a girlfriend, has a minimum wage job that earns them money and more importantly, is white and attractive? I met one of my classmates that told me he passed with flying colours in his HS exams and is now going to do medicine. He earns €15 an hour on his freetime, has a girlfriend who is modelling in London, and goes to parties with his friends that have loads of heroin, coke, meth, ecstasy, ketamine every weekend. Meanwhile I'm here broke, have no skills, suicidal, only company are my shitty parents, and I literally can't do anything.

My only hobby is applying for jobs but I think I'm about to give up that as well as life itself. I drank about 1L of antifreeze (ethylene glycol) last week and am amazed I haven't died from renal failure.

Hope the thread isn't filled with ''suicide is selfish/cowards way out'', ''someone has it worse than you''. I've heard it all before but posted here because I imagined you guys would be more empathetic and open minded.
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Awe !!vVWR8L52 - Sat, 21 Apr 2018 15:56:09 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.523573 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>still calling opinions facts
Way to go OP, someone has to act as an archive to all of that old and stale shit.
Nigel Honeyhood - Sat, 21 Apr 2018 16:39:03 EST ID:3A/9rSkO No.523575 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Why are Euros so obsessive about their inept peacetime force, having to "hype it" into this "elite fighting force" trying to emulate the old Prussians?

It's pathetic.
Thomas Dottingson - Sun, 22 Apr 2018 08:50:35 EST ID:i6MKK9HT No.523580 Ignore Report Quick Reply
We really aren't. The only one trying so hard is you here.
I posted this. I basically agreed with you and just tried to shed some light on how it's not really a viable alternative in Europe to enroll in the military for a "job". It's not how it works here. You'll get minimum wage for years and will not be doing anything of excitement or importance. That's all I was saying. Not a big meme. We aren't in a lot of armed conflicts you know. And when we are, our troops fight on your side in Afghanistan. Just so you know, a lot of European soldiers are helping you guys out there.
I have no idea what those 'old prussians' supposed to mean and I'm european. I have no idea what are you trying to imply with that. Honestly. They had some elite forces or something? I don't even know or care.
You're really in the wrong. It's okay man. You can have the most super duper military and guns in the world. We don't care.
Rebecca Nickledock - Sun, 22 Apr 2018 17:20:19 EST ID:3A/9rSkO No.523583 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>make a bullshit fuss about your requirement which are actually no harsher or fairer than American requirements, backpedal and claim it's all shit anyway

The endless self-defeater.
Ian Dablingbork - Sun, 22 Apr 2018 19:08:45 EST ID:C383G7rM No.523585 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>How do you deal with the fact that you'll always be an unattractive black male with a broken family and no job prospects?

Honestly you could dig deep and get focussed. I recommend healthy eating and exercise. I also recommend quitting all vices including tobacco and alcohol. Per your job prospects I recommend you bullshit a resume, but make sure you can back it up.

Per uglyness, there are alot of very wealthy black celebrities who happen to be ugly. I recommend personal care and a good haircut. Also a suit will likely help you get by in society. Get a hobby and develop a skill(s) this shit is all about mindset and applying yourself.

potential relationship problems? by Hannah Drushhood - Sat, 21 Apr 2018 12:28:01 EST ID:yjOXNvLQ No.523570 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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My girlfriend was raised to be very religious and she can be very close minded or ignorant about certain things which I understand as she lived a sheltered life because of her parents who emotionally abused her by making her feel bad about her appearance and weight when she was really young.

The other day we made plans and at the last minute said she forgot that she had to go to a meeting for an organization she is in. She made an assumption about what I would be doing all day after she canceled our plans last minute and it did upset me but I never fully told her why it did.

It was one of those "you're gonna do this all day" kind of comments. Am I overreacting or do you think I should tell her how it made me feel?
Hannah Drublingridge - Sat, 21 Apr 2018 14:31:45 EST ID:dVp8iHEG No.523572 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Tell da trooth. Tell da trooth.
Thomas Dottingson - Sun, 22 Apr 2018 08:57:42 EST ID:i6MKK9HT No.523581 Ignore Report Quick Reply
something is missing from this post, OP.
I can't put my finger on it. But in this form, for me at least, it is impossible to comprehend what you're actually trying to say.
Cornelius Sankincocke - Sun, 22 Apr 2018 12:41:38 EST ID:q7NC3IuN No.523582 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Things missing
>whether he would have spent all day
>if she disapproves of thing
>possibly what thing is
I mean I'd have guessed play video games or smoke weed and OP could have offered to ensure he was free, especially if she knew when she'd be free. But if he did that and she couldn't commit and had already screwed their plans then she should probably realise she's being selfish. I somehow doubt this is the real issue.
George Snodgold - Sun, 22 Apr 2018 17:37:10 EST ID:WRXPb8Vm No.523584 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Pretty much what you just said is what she insinuated I'd be doing. It was more that she canceled our previous plans a d then immediately jumped to oh you're gonna smoke and play video games all day.

Ya se fue y lo enterré, y eso era todo. by Reuben Micklekere - Sun, 22 Apr 2018 06:39:03 EST ID:tiBuSQx/ No.523579 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I finally got back a letter my grandpa wrote to me, in which he links his philosophy career, me being transsexual, and his imminent death. He was one of the few people who was kind to me consistently in my abusive family, and my grandparents instantly accepted me, much unlike everyone else. There was a lot of stuff I missed when I was younger (it's a long letter) but that's even more valuable to me now, reading at nearly 28 instead of nearly 18.

It's painful and I miss him. Just wanted to say that to someone. That's all.

If anyone wants to say anything about anyone dead that they loved then they should do it.

I keep fucking up my life by Edwin Niffingchud - Sat, 21 Apr 2018 17:20:36 EST ID:QkN9pOBF No.523577 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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First time poster here. Before I get started, I read some of the other threads on here and they made me feel a little better, I'm thankful I'm not addicted to heroin or anything. Not trying to gloat over any of y'all that are, I hope you all get the help you need.

That actually kind of ties into my issues: normally I try to stay positive but it's getting harder by the day. I'm 30 and I live with my parents. They're great and amazingly supportive but I'm living with them because I went back to school to get my teaching certificate. Basically put my life on hold for 2 1/2 years to do it and went into debt but I took the tests and got the sheet of paper. The problem is, I fucked up and got my cert in the field of PE and those openings don't come up very often.

Not too bad so far right? Well I figured while I looked for a full-time teaching job, I should try to find something to hold me over and pay bills (had to quit my last job because it conflicted with my student teaching). I wound up eventually getting on as a director for an after-school program in a lower income area. Legally I can't go into too much detail (confidentiality and all that) but some of these kiddos are in not so ideal settings outside of school. I really try my best to do right by them though and make the day as fun as possible.

So far so good right? Well I'm in there yesterday and the principal comes in and asks to speak with me. Apparently I've had several complaints filed against me that I was totally unaware of. I'm a little less than a month into this job and this Monday I'll have to face complaints that I can't even prepare for. My supervisor says they have my back and when I asked my coworkers if I'd said or done anything out of line, they were just as confused as I was but it's kind of terrifying because idk what I'm being accused of.

Did I mention my truck died shortly after I started working there and I had to get a new car? Haven't even put a payment on it and I may already be forced to resign from this job which will of course put me into even more debt.

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Sophie Clozzlelut - Sat, 21 Apr 2018 19:22:00 EST ID:q7NC3IuN No.523578 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Well you don't know if those complaints are legit. They may be bullshit. And if they're not there's a good chance it's just "Okay, so don't do this in future". I suspect your qualification can be leveraged for tangential things as well as "Look, I can jump through hoops and demonstrate a mix of some effort and some talent in a combination that adds up to a high enough amount to get a piece of paper". You can go TEFL or something for experience, though that's a cop out. If the school stitch you up make sure you have the evidence/conversations so you can at least get them to give you a good reference when you apply for a new job.

Your career isn't over and that piece of paper isn't worthless even if you don't teach. Worth the time and money? Maybe not. But a key to surviving life and the inevitable shit, failure and misery we endure is to salvage what you can. You drop your laundry on the floor you don't just roll it around in the mud, you pick it up, see what's still clean and put the rest on so at least it'll be clean at some point. Don't lose your shit. Just focus on getting what you can out of things. Eventually you'll get good enough that it's success.

In the end we die and fail at everything OP. Focus on the things you can win.

There's something up my bum by Fucking Simblegold - Sun, 08 Apr 2018 13:58:01 EST ID:bdaX/qoh No.523333 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I've got this uncomfortable kind of itch, in my rectum, it's weird, it's not quite an itch, but somewhere between an itch and a tickle, as if there is a little spider crawling in my rectum. It's as seriously disturbing feeling, and all I can imagine is some little speckled, crusty motherfucker spider scuttling around in there. I've never had anything like a spider in my ass before, although a few years ago I did mysteriously see a spider in the toilet after I took a dump, though not a big one. Any advice, so far I have stuck a small old broken pencil up my bum out of curiosity to see what might happen, but it's like nothing happens, and then I take the pencil out and the "scuttling" starts again. It's just awkward and worrysome and not a nice sensation.
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Cyril Chishwot - Sat, 14 Apr 2018 09:34:43 EST ID:HJRNf/XO No.523449 Ignore Report Quick Reply
WORMS YOU HAVE WORMS or parasites GO TO DOCOTOR FOR WORMS or maybe a vet
Graham Pickham - Sun, 15 Apr 2018 00:41:12 EST ID:QQ6bGqYn No.523463 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Just buy fucking worm treatment pills (can't think of the proper name) at the chemist.

> I had a maggot infestation from eating wild mushrooms once and was able to get rid of that by drinking lots of tea and eating nothing

Or you know, continue with the bait.
Barnaby Sullerridge - Mon, 16 Apr 2018 01:33:33 EST ID:dFnBHUUb No.523480 Ignore Report Quick Reply
its probably a jerbel up your ass
Jenny Nicklespear - Mon, 16 Apr 2018 12:33:12 EST ID:FwheuJ8x No.523485 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>as if there is a little spider crawling in my rectum
>some little speckled, crusty motherfucker spider scuttling around in there
>I've never had anything like a spider in my ass before, although a few years ago I did mysteriously see a spider in the toilet after I took a dump

So I suspect what we have here is in fact a trapdoor spider has taken residence inside your rectal cavity, briefly emerging only to snatch passing insects before quickly retreating back in to the dank depths.

I mean think about it, it's the perfect place - if there's a cockroach crawling around your leg at night, and you move while you're sleeping, it's instinctively gonna go for the warm dark retreat and try to burrow its way in to your anus. It's practically a free meal.

The sensation you're feeling is just that the spider's been there long enough for it to have time to lay its eggs, which have now hatched. You're gonna be shittin' webs for weeks kid.
Eliza Goodcocke - Sat, 21 Apr 2018 16:47:09 EST ID:o/mRPhYl No.523576 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Ayahuasca may help. The MAOI often stuns worms/parasites.

But.. just go to the doctor, you aren't in a rainforest away from civilization.

I watched...a snail...crawl... by Hamilton Deckleshaw - Wed, 18 Apr 2018 15:21:10 EST ID:Bo2wHaQY No.523538 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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...along the edge...of a razor...a straight razor...that's my dream, that's might nightmare, crawling, slithering...along the edge.......of a straight razor.
Henry Grandford - Wed, 18 Apr 2018 19:20:19 EST ID:dVp8iHEG No.523540 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Apocalypse now but the typo makes it fail
Awe !!vVWR8L52 - Sat, 21 Apr 2018 15:58:34 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.523574 Ignore Report Quick Reply

I often find massive myself having massive arguments with myself about being gay by Simon Brookhood - Sun, 15 Apr 2018 08:41:34 EST ID:EIEtNyio No.523465 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Don't know about it. Right?
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Caroline Gibblewill - Thu, 19 Apr 2018 18:11:34 EST ID:/pl3Lein No.523549 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Here's the thing though. It's completely possible to be gay without having to announce it or make it this landscape of associative ideas that you have to visit in your mind. If you're gay just let it be what it is, it doesn't have to be anyone's business if you don't want it to be (that is to say unless you stick it up their ass).

I know the feeling I think because I am at least a little bisexual and initially I hated the thought of it because there are so many things associated with it, including this godawful idea about "coming out" and "celebrating yourself" and all that fucking crap that cynical reclusive people like me have no interest in.

Really all these terms, gay, bisexual, pansexual etc. etc. I understand that they serve a purpose to inform others on whether or not they can hit on you or if they should shield their butthole around you, but they have become muddied with culture, a culture that many of the people who otherwise would fit these categories don't like. You don't even need to think that you are gay, you are just you. Seriously, fuck these faggy ass homo-words.

tl;dr: It is what it is, and it really isn't much.
Walter Porryham - Fri, 20 Apr 2018 03:08:34 EST ID:42wGzjUi No.523554 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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nigga, you a gay homosexual.

Nicholas Murdford - Sat, 21 Apr 2018 03:20:34 EST ID:wJWwXGAC No.523567 Ignore Report Quick Reply
If you have to argue with yourself about your sexuality, that means you're confused. If a chick with a strapon will do, then you're not gay.
Hedda Durryworth - Sat, 21 Apr 2018 08:50:51 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.523569 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I agree with what you said, but you almost made it sound as if you've already decided OP is in fact gay since his experience reminds you of your own. I'm not saying you have already decided that, just that what you wrote gives off a vibe that that's the perspective you're coming from. Also, I realize somebody can be in denial about some aspect of themselves and being gay isn't an exception, but at the same time having random and/or intrusive undesirable thoughts that are perceived to be homosexual or meaning one must actually be homosexual simply because they're having them just makes things even more confusing and simply isn't the case.

Experiences like those don't mean you're gay (of course, they don't exclude the possibility either obviously lol). The problem with having intrusive thoughts or feeling like you're really emotionally close or attached to a male friend is that, for better or worse, emotional intimacy (especially with another guy) beyond sexual relations with a woman is foreign to most guys because quite honestly the rest of the world doesn't give a fuck about you and doesn't want to hear you complain all the time and talk about your feelings or deal with somebody they feel reacts to things in an overly sensitive manner. If it weren't ingrained in us to treat women much, much differently than we do other men (mostly better, but that's a pretty big generalization to make I guess) from childhood, and women weren't the major biological barrier for successful reproduction they are, chances are they'd be treated just like men too. When they control whether or not you have any sex at all and you grew up knowing how fucked you'd be with the rest of your family and the whole of society for not treating a woman properly, you just play the game the best way you can--meaning women can afford to be emotionally intimate and complain about their problems, because it just so happens that nature chose them to be the sex with highest demand and lowest supply (of gametes). In other words, men have to be productive and useful to have value, and women that are capable of reproducing are simply inherently valuable becau…
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Sophie Clozzlelut - Sat, 21 Apr 2018 13:05:34 EST ID:q7NC3IuN No.523571 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Some of that stuff is a reaction to other people's reactions, real, imagined and historic. Which is to say it's sort of tradition. And if you figure out that your sexuality isn't the assumed default that you're just raised as if that's what you got, that's got to be harder than just being straight and everyone assumes you're straight and then the opposite sex do it for you and you never have to think twice. So not only have you done what straight guys like I have never done, but you've done what a lot of gay guys don't do too. Instead they just assume hey I've been told I'm straight, "I just to work hard to get an erection for women and overcome satan giving me boners for 19 (or 17 in some cases) year old boys and be the republican senator for this state so I can fight the people who failed where I did". Not realising they're the failures that straight people don't deal with that etc. Maybe I'm just over stating it because I've not done it and don't know how easy it is but a lot of people fail hard even as they fuck men behind their wife's back.

fuck I'm a brit and there was a big scandal when an MP was found fucking a man behind his wife's back and she was devastated. Except now she's got a girlfriend so I guess they were in a marriage of convenience to help deny their shit and no one complained about the lack of sex as a result.

So I mean if you want to have a big gay celebration you earned it. But if you don't then you've also earned the the right to just get on with doing who or what you want without making a fuss.

But also that some people just become obsessed with the idea of a sexuality because of the stigma, media attention or whatever and it doesn't mean shit. Maybe OP is surrounded by homophobes but spends ages with people acting like it's normal and talking about it constantly and he can't get it off his mind. Maybe OP is struggling with women and hasn't been in that life fire situation. Maybe porn doesn't work too well it's hard to feel that connection to someone going through the motions on a screen and/or fucking someone who clearly is not you

Need advice by Augustus Worthingdock - Sun, 15 Apr 2018 12:11:32 EST ID:16hFTHk+ No.523467 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So i have this neighbor that is my age, but she is even more retarded than me. Serious learning disability i think, been a NEET most her life, medical issues etc.

Anyway i was drunk, she came over, she was sober btw, didnt wanna drink lol. She just sat there showing no initiative, so i sat closer, put my arm around her and kissed her, she seemed to like it. So i fingered her until she came and she jacked me off, she didnt want to do anything else.

This was her first time doing anything sexual, and shes like 25.
Im scared that she'll think we're together now,

What should i do? What would you do? I think i want to be friends with benefits, But im embarassed by being with her and dont want people to know.
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Hedda Smallcocke - Wed, 18 Apr 2018 09:19:16 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.523533 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>I'm not trying to be Jesus

One of those threads that's burned into my retinas.
Sidney Driblingwag - Wed, 18 Apr 2018 12:46:40 EST ID:fFqdWlVJ No.523534 Ignore Report Quick Reply

>form Jessica

oh god that thread. That fucking thread.
Ian Dartman - Wed, 18 Apr 2018 17:59:51 EST ID:q7NC3IuN No.523539 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I used to have 3 screenshots but my hard drive died. Yeah that card, the coloured in elephant. I mean don't get me wrong she wanted the dick badly but it was all sorts of fucked up confused feelings there.

Sorry OP I think we've derailed. On the bright side, /qq/ has seen much weirder shit than your problem and I hope you take reassurance in this.
Archie Sublingshit - Thu, 19 Apr 2018 10:04:52 EST ID:huj7hNcx No.523541 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I remember that shit anyone have the complete thread.. I remember him posting pics of her drawing some retarded as shit.
Basil Duffingnack - Sat, 21 Apr 2018 08:00:12 EST ID:IELQWNNM No.523568 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Status update?

Bump when angry (BWA) by Jenny Gallerwater - Fri, 13 Apr 2018 14:51:38 EST ID:nqJb04sx No.523437 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So, I figured I'd make this thread because all of us here have a lot of resentment and anger towards the world. Sometimes when we are dealing with problems in our lives we have to get all of our anger and frustrations out in a healthy way. Thus, I made this thread. Don't be afraid to try to relate to me and any of us here in terms of our issues. We're all in the same boat to some degree. Finally, what ever you're dealing with in life, you're not alone. We are here to hear you out and help.

Anyway, I'm pissed off right now because me and my brother got into an argument last night. He's trying trying to tell me what I'm going to do with my life and how I should be spending my money. That fat fucking slob sleeps all day and can't even make it to a job interview, let alone not being able to pass a piss test since he's always fucked up off of opiates. Maybe he should worry about his own goddamn self and get his life together before he tries to tell other people how to live their lives. He's a fucking hypocrite who needs to mind his own business and stfu!

But, I'm moving out in 2 months. So, he wont be in my life that much longer. Good riddance fuck face. Because after I move I am severing all ties with him and going on with my life and live the way I want to. I will never see him or speak to him again. Trust me, my brother has done so much fucked up shit to me over the years that idgaf what happens to him. He can go fuck himself.

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Betsy Pimmlewog - Sat, 14 Apr 2018 20:47:20 EST ID:o/W0gRwD No.523461 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I can relate op
My sœur attempted to assist me. I never want to talk to that wench again, but the scars that have been left from all the bad memories won't fade away, I can't forget what happened, and I can't forgive.
Betsy Pimmlewog - Sat, 14 Apr 2018 21:30:01 EST ID:o/W0gRwD No.523462 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I can relate op
My sœur attempted to assist me. I never want to talk to that wench again, but the scars that have been left from all the bad memories won't fade away, I can't forget what happened, and I can't forgive.
Angus Fanfield - Tue, 17 Apr 2018 19:00:02 EST ID:A9U7nio2 No.523523 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Just worried.
Nicholas Wommerdone - Wed, 18 Apr 2018 14:48:19 EST ID:BcgArs1M No.523537 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Lol are you me?

For real dude why do you giant fucking speakers on the outside of your car. Maybe if you put the speakers inside the car, you wouldnt need to listen to it so loud? Also fix your fucking muffler.

Every night I wake up betweeen 3 and 4 am cause it sounds like the apocalypse outside.
Lydia Gorrystuck - Thu, 19 Apr 2018 17:22:20 EST ID:b3ilCUG1 No.523547 Ignore Report Quick Reply
My mom has been acting like a bitch all day towards me and I've done nothing to her to make her mad. The more she does this shit to me the more I push her away. I already feel so disconnected from her because the way she treats me when I'm the only one here for her since my grandmother is fed up with having to pay her Bill's when it's my mother's responsibility to pay them. She has turned on me and I can do nothing else but to stay away from her. She is addicted to opiates and it just gets worse and worse as time goes on. I feel like she has just given up on life and doesn't care about anyone or anything other than her drugs. I already resent her for the things she didn't do and what I went through when I was younger because she was never there in terms of giving a shit about me and my wellbeing.

Need some fucking advice by Walter Blackspear - Tue, 17 Apr 2018 00:17:36 EST ID:Dj4iKd1w No.523492 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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GF is pregnant and is couch surfing, I'm out of a job and can only take bus because I got a DUI. I'm 2 months clean from heroin and I'm currently living with my parents, however, I only have like 1-2 weeks before I have to get my own place again. I don't have a job currently and I need to make some money(preferably legally) What can I do? Not only do I need a place but I need to support the GF too. I'm such a nervous wreck, I don't sleep at all, I cant hold a meal down at all either. By the grace of God please someone give me some advice that can help. I am so desperate. Please help!
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Walter Blackspear - Tue, 17 Apr 2018 16:38:31 EST ID:Dj4iKd1w No.523520 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OP here. Just so happens today I get 2 calls within 45 mins for 2 different job interviews in the pharmacy field(im a pharm tech) and I made an agreement with my parents that they would drop me off at my job until I'm stable! Now, how do I go about telling my parents that the gf is pregnant? They dont want anything to do with her and think she's trash since she's Puerto rican and my parents are judgmental ass Cubans and they look down onto her because they have money and her family doesn't. It's some sad shit :(
Martin Fanbanks - Tue, 17 Apr 2018 17:55:41 EST ID:C+6NY20y No.523521 Ignore Report Quick Reply
it rhymes with shmashmortion
Eugene Chemblelodge - Tue, 17 Apr 2018 19:34:30 EST ID:wwYUHG20 No.523524 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Idk man I wouldn't tell them until you absolutely have to. Or at least until you can get to your job independently. Cause right now you're not in a great position to break that kind of news.

Maybe once you're settled and have somewhere to stay and a job they'd be less upset about it.
Molly Nannerfield - Wed, 18 Apr 2018 01:24:00 EST ID:DNOvPvws No.523528 Ignore Report Quick Reply
you dont seem ready to be a father op.
Hedda Smallcocke - Wed, 18 Apr 2018 09:13:31 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.523532 Ignore Report Quick Reply
What good will a slash contortion do them now?

I got a friend in need. by Barnaby Pickforth - Sun, 15 Apr 2018 20:42:10 EST ID:00c5LZ5A No.523476 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I work with this guy, he's in his mid 30s; the best way to describe him is that neck-beard anime stereotype that we all know and love. But he has a heart of gold, a good ol' sense of humor and is one of my better friends despite his recluse nature.

He wants to buy a house; move out from his parents place and begin living the solo life, and I am super supportive of this notion.
However their is one major issue.

About 3-4 years ago, he got into Twitch Streams, found some Asian girl who plays his favored MOBA and started donating copious amounts of money to her. I won't go to into detail as towards how much money hes given this random internet cam-whore, but lets say I've seen solo donations of just over two-grand.
This isn't the only Twitch mama I've seen him donate too.

Fast forward to today, hes only a month or two away from trying to get a down payment on his home, and all of the sudden this streamer just so happens to be moving to our state. Plays that MOBA with him on a nightly basis and has sort of put a wedge between him and the rest of our social circle. I've even herd rumor that shes looking to co-sign on his new home and move in when construction is finished.

I've tried talking to him about it in person, but he only gives short handed answers and keeps most of the details to himself.
I feel like my friend is being played as a sugar daddy by someone who is going to suck him dry and run; worst yet I don't know how to approach him about the topic. He's going to be in a world of hurt once the rug is pulled out from under him and I want to help him understand that.

Should I just let nature take it's course or is there a way for me to talk to him about this situation? At the very least is there a way for me to nudge him to be cautious with his money?
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Clara Cudgecocke - Tue, 17 Apr 2018 10:38:54 EST ID:6suAgQ1M No.523512 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Yeah that's definitely what you should do. Use that story to talj about things which haven't happened to your friend yet but certainly will, like how the stripper moved with your friend then lied to get money from him or whatever similarities there may be.
If he's not too far gone, hopefully when these things start happening he'll be like "oh wait, that's exactly what happened in that story anon told me, I see through the bullshit now".
James Bedgeridge - Tue, 17 Apr 2018 11:10:59 EST ID:EAvdFt3F No.523514 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Edward Socklenit - Tue, 17 Apr 2018 11:32:15 EST ID:IaTqRtaT No.523515 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You should tell him how you feel but he's an adult and by 30, if he hasn't learned this lesson then he's not going to learn it from you. It will ruin his life for a while but it's his life to ruin.
Hugh Senderleg - Tue, 17 Apr 2018 12:34:46 EST ID:q7NC3IuN No.523517 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Tell him but remember its his life to fuck up. One of my friends married a woman like this. All his friends told him she was bad news but he thought he was in love. Anyway 10 years later he's grateful his friends tried and divorcing her was one of the best things he did. He lost a lot of money, some of it was given by other people.

Remember you're concerned, you are just raising a concern. If you berate him or try to force him he'll withdraw. Accept that the odds are he'll ignore it and you just want to say your bit without upsetting him. Maybe it'll get through. It probably won't. As a friend you should try and as a friend you should be ready to pick the pieces up later.
Nell Dranderdotch - Tue, 17 Apr 2018 17:57:34 EST ID:2cRqUGEL No.523522 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OK so in a way you should let him do his dumb decision but
>I've even herd rumor that shes looking to co-sign on his new home and move in when construction is finished.

No. Put your foot down and make sure that his home is HIS home. If he's still living with his parents then he might not fully understand the weight of having someone co-sign and how that could seriously fuck him over. It's a massive commitment and it's a huge weight on your shoulders, but he should buy the house solely in his name and no one else. After that he can decide who moves in with him and he can set rent privately and completely legally without any worry about the worth of the house being taken out for whatever reason.

He's clearly got money to burn if he's dropping serious money on twitch whores, so let him make his dumb decisions on the "small-time" issues (though obviously tell him that he shouldn't, but he's gonna anyway), but you should completely advise him to make sure that any property, any large value items, such as cars, expensive belongings, should be signed to him and only him. Tell him it's less about trust (because I'm sure he trusts that girl a lot, even if she is a con artist), more about legal ramifications and simplifying paperwork, as well as if the worst happens needing to pay less on court fees/splitting money.

Be there for him when she breaks his heart, but sometimes people gotta learn from their stupid mistakes when it comes to relationships. Just try to guide him out of any big financial issues

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