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#qq on IRC by Mintzs !GD3wBpep0Y - Sun, 13 Aug 2017 12:14:49 EST ID:d5kHsYag No.518069 Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hi folks,

If you're looking to talk to someone immediately about any problems you have in your life and have nobody close to you, come and speak to us!

Join us on IRC on #qq. Most of us have different time zones but if you stay there, one of us will be there.

Don't be afraid to speak up.
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Molly Famblehood - Tue, 03 Jul 2018 14:24:55 EST ID:cBYQH4Mo No.525256 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525239

u prob got scabies n crabs n shit dude see a doc and burn all your linens
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Nell Brishsterk - Tue, 03 Jul 2018 17:03:06 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.525263 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518141
WISDOM
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Sophie Grimford - Mon, 09 Jul 2018 10:36:23 EST ID:F9Vg456V No.525407 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518080


Lost more than half of my friends by Archie Nallyhood - Wed, 11 Jul 2018 00:17:48 EST ID:u7Ks9+5J No.525421 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So it seems my life is coming to a pinnacle in drastic change. Like most change it's difficult to cope with and it's bought me here to writing this post.
My same friend group since high school has been dissipating since graduating (like most of them) but we all always managed to stick through a lot. Even got through a few of us moving and coming back to our home town. We all always came back like nothing happened.
Now a rift has been spiked between me and the rest of this core group. Another person, of course. After high school I moved away for two years across the country only to come back. While I was gone a friend of a friend within the group had made themselves acquainted. I never have had a problem with this, usually I just get along with whoever any of us bring around. Even if I kind of think they suck deep down. However this person... we both really do not get a long at all. In the worst way, we play nice but scold and scoff when we turn our backs. Both of us are guilty, but just about a month or so ago after more then a year of this going on one of my friends finally told me he hates me. Revealing the cat to be out of the bag so to speak. So I took this chance one night at the bar while we were all out about a month ago to confront him. Normally, I probably wouldn't confront someone I care about as drunk as I was but I really don't like him. I'll admit I was wrong to do this but if I'm being honest I have done worse on drunken evenings with my friends. My friends have equally done worse to me even. Either way after a very awkward and tense confrontation I shrugged it off but slowly my friends just stopped calling me entirely. Tonight I was buying pot from one of the few who still chat with me, he told me he heard I was "fucking up" I didn't even know how to respond because if anything I've been doing great. I quit cigarettes and barely even drink I don't understand and feel really hurt. Lied to.
This sort of brings me to my point, I want to let go now. I want to lose myself within bliss, positivity, and prosperity. I find that if I look within and less whats or WHO is around me I will be much happier.... I dunno. Any anons have ANYTHING to say? Eh tha…
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James Blugglecocke - Sat, 14 Jul 2018 15:29:14 EST ID:jhxT8BUJ No.525507 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525489
sad post?? i said losing all your friends is okay...
what's stopping me from running marathons? i alreary bike a lot of kms
negativity in a board like this is pretty useless
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Phyllis Trotdale - Sat, 14 Jul 2018 16:14:48 EST ID:YKf00BKo No.525508 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>525507
Sounds like a whole lot of denial to me. The people you mentioned before are anomalies. The vast majority of humans suffer serious psychological consequences when cut off from social interaction.

Do what you want but I'd feel bad if I didn't point out what a risky path you're choosing.
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Eliza Fuckingwater - Sun, 15 Jul 2018 08:04:36 EST ID:u7Ks9+5J No.525522 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525508

OP here I agree with this guy, social interaction is vital more often than not. On the contrary the guy you're arguing with is right. There are people out there who are true misanthropes and really hate peoples company.
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Hamilton Firringlit - Tue, 17 Jul 2018 12:06:35 EST ID:ka63e54W No.525592 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OP everybody in this thread trying to bring you down is a sad piece of shit. Youre fine just do you lil nigga
BUT STAY AWAY FROM TOXIC PEOPLE
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Hamilton Firringlit - Tue, 17 Jul 2018 12:08:02 EST ID:ka63e54W No.525593 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525508
False benevolence. Whether you know it or not youre full of shiy


Nobody likes me by Lydia Niddlelotch - Sat, 14 Jul 2018 02:30:23 EST ID:ZHxB44Gj No.525492 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I'm so unlikable even bots never swipe right.

But for real tho I'm on multiple dating sites and the only likes I ever get are:
A) Must of accidentally swiped right and never respond to a message/remove me as soon as its a mutual like
B) Large black women who don't need no man and LOOOVE JESUS AND JESUS BETTER BE IMPORTANT TO YOU even tho I have "Atheist" as my religion.
C) Girl from another fucking country probably just hoping for a green card.

Even then I only get a like maybe once a month. I've never had a second date. Thinking bout just killing myself I'm nearly 30 and the best I could hope for is so desperate bitch with kids, and I fucking HATE kids.

I was suckered into paying for A-List, its fairly worthless. The people who like you are put into your DoubleTake queue and if you didn't like them there, you won't now either.

Did Tinder remove the thing that shows how many likes you have, or do I just have 0 likes now? I had 3 before but they were probably in the above categories I listed.

Is Bumble and better then Tinder or the same shit by a different name?
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Cornelius Doblingteck - Mon, 16 Jul 2018 17:09:54 EST ID:G7fVT5UZ No.525574 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525568
Apparently
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Cornelius Doblingteck - Mon, 16 Jul 2018 17:09:54 EST ID:G7fVT5UZ No.525575 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525568
Apparently
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Fucking Fossledodge - Tue, 17 Jul 2018 01:01:32 EST ID:iDhJIrfY No.525582 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525541

I disagree dude. You can change your environment, sure, but you can't change instinct.
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Samuel Sindletere - Tue, 17 Jul 2018 10:08:49 EST ID:81j26VWJ No.525588 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525582

Dumb comment bro
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Archie Sattingford - Tue, 17 Jul 2018 11:26:05 EST ID:TNGxHAKH No.525591 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525582
Misogynist comment bro


Love America Fuck the Government by Nicholas Pubberforth - Tue, 17 Jul 2018 11:04:19 EST ID:79pPgq+a No.525589 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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You can literally put anything on paper and a database and people will believe it. It's funny how the government fucked me for some pretty ironic and innocent shit. Now the government is fucking itself on television for the world to see. I think it's pretty nice how most governments are either incompetent illegitimate or both. Not just the US Government by all of them be it Russia,China or fucking Great Britain.

I'm not an Anarchist by any measure. But according to the government I'm illiterate despite scoring in the top 90% in most subjects my whole life. How can you post on an image board if your illiterate.
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Nicholas Pubberforth - Tue, 17 Jul 2018 11:06:02 EST ID:79pPgq+a No.525590 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Please feel free to correct my grammar and punctuation errors.


Nickelback by Polly Buddlebatch - Tue, 17 Jul 2018 01:17:21 EST ID:TzcInDeF No.525583 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I’ve always thought highly of myself but I heard a nickelback song on the radio and thought “hey this is pretty good” then I saw the artist. Wtf happened to me
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John Biblingman - Tue, 17 Jul 2018 01:23:55 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.525584 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You know they do blind taste tests for a reason.

Maybe if you gave less of a shit about abstract notions of cultural value and simply enjoyed what you find enjoyable, you wouldn't need to "think highly" of yourself in the first place.
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Samuel Sindletere - Tue, 17 Jul 2018 10:07:54 EST ID:81j26VWJ No.525587 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525584


BOOM HEADSHOT

FLAWLESS VICTORY


social anxiety/ SSRIs are my last hope by Ernest Drubbledale - Wed, 11 Jul 2018 18:14:13 EST ID:eVn9U1FC No.525432 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I have crippling social anxiety that has only gotten worse and so far nothing really works for it. It has fucked up my life to the extent that forming close friendships is almost impossible, and so I spend all my time alone except when I go to raves. It has fucked up my lovelife and made me ruin almost every single opportunity with women I have ever had. I desperately want a girl in my life but the just the idea of starting a conversation with a girl I don't know is too anxiety inducing to consider. My communication issues and inability to perform in the bedroom due to anxiety caused me to lose the only woman I ever got to love. I hate the social aspect of educational establishments too much to attend and cannot hold down a job. Basically... it's pretty much ruined my life and I'm wondering if I should give up and try to figure out how to make the best from a life of solitude.

I have tried all manner of supplements including 5-HTP and St Johns Wort. Even with alcohol, GHB and benzos, yes I feel calmer around people when I take them, but I still feel too inhibited and cautious to go up to somebody and start a conversation. If somebody talks to me while I'm on them, I won't start panicking as easily, but I will still feel too inhibited to open up and have a conversation that actually interests them. The conversation will be awkward and boring and they will look at me funny and quickly leave.

HOWEVER... there are two drugs which were able to completely cure my social anxiety and allow me to interact and bond with other people like a normal human being: MDMA and aMT. In the early days of using/abusing them, I discovered a newfound ability to positively engage with other people that I had not ever unleashed before. I made lots of connections at parties and every single one was made under the influence of these drugs. However, once the drug wears off, then so does the effect. Ironically, I found that my reliance on these substances made my anxiety worse due to the long-term effects of neurotoxicity associated with serotonin-releasing drugs. I had to stop taking these substances for a long time, which led to me completely ceasing to make friends, however I have been re-experimenting with them…
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Albert Drunnernin - Mon, 16 Jul 2018 07:48:56 EST ID:JzqRdu3G No.525559 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525530
Worse, they're genetically programmed to be social and thereby assume everyone else must be by default. So they result to faux-liberal overspins about the mind and humanism and all this nonsense it's painfully easy to see was garnered by little of their own choices and everything of the dice.

End result is they shun massive groups of people while preaching the social religion. Mind over matter, yeah. Keep telling yourselves that until you rot and recycle in the ground.
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Fucking Siffingchutch - Mon, 16 Jul 2018 13:08:11 EST ID:s8FZ3vWE No.525567 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525559
Great example of the way of thinking that not only prevents one from improving but also from even trying at all. You're no one who should be giving advice to anyone.
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Ernest Saddlefield - Mon, 16 Jul 2018 19:18:37 EST ID:ML0J5oxj No.525576 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525567
Great insults and no refutations like most of the religious sect on this board: if you offer any viewpoint that serves a counterpoint to your personal saints, off to fire and brimstone with them. You were programmed to act this way, yet you have the gall to claim you deserve to preach for all who may not be programmed your way.

And what is your version of "help"? Shouting pathetic at the downtrodden expecting your esoteric variant of 'tough love' will win the day? You're a joke, and a shining example of the moron who sets out to do well and does everything in direct counter to his goal. Go on, shift OP's mindset. All you demonstrate is how crtically flawed yours and the majority of this board's mindset really is. That's why your curiated 'lolcows' keep making the same old threads. They have nowhere else to turn, and you react by turning them into a mockery until the rejection forces them to off themselves. Truly, you are a savior, not a drug addled reject with a God complex.
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Simon Brettingcocke - Tue, 17 Jul 2018 05:24:28 EST ID:s8FZ3vWE No.525585 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525576
You really don't get it at all. I'm not religious. The reason your attitude is disgusting is because this life is all we have. We get this one single incredible chance to live life, you live in a first world country, and making the choice to blame society and your brain as an excuse to be a sub-par human. not going after the things that you want just takes that one chance and shits all over it. Yes, it's gross. And the fact that you find it acceptable shows everyone the kind of person you are. This is the reason you repel people away from you. You need to internalize this and actually take the steps to make a change. When will you say enough is enough? Become a person you yourself can love, this is the actual answer to your problems. I'm not sorry about your poor, fragile feelings. Make something great of yourself, why don't you believe your worth it? If you thought you were worth it you would make a change. I see you don't. I see the cycle, but you have to break it and make some progress. This is why my posts are so harshly worded, you must refuse to be complacent with this life you've been living. If I encourage you to be okay with the way things are that hurts you most of all. Make. A. Change.
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Augustus Brinkinson - Tue, 17 Jul 2018 06:22:02 EST ID:gc9kjgVP No.525586 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525576
>crab bucket posting
Most people can improve. You just want them to not try so you don't feel so bad about your own decision. But you've come here to post this because somewhere in your head you doubt your decision. Funny.


"Friends" disapearing because of their crotchfruits (and still demanding favors) by Megalo Nakapacifist - Sat, 17 Mar 2018 03:29:18 EST ID:DZIUR4rS No.522843 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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A very good friend of mine managed to breed and now has two crotch-fruits squeezed out of his soon-to-be wife.

He gave up his job,
just to move to his wifes home to breed there,
without even considering the dangers of missing money and missing spare-time! We were still best friends at the time.

Its been 3 years now and despite him promising meet-ups we never seen each other again, only some shitty pics of his crotchfruit over social-media.

The meetings we had with my GF and his fiance just stopped slowly. No more going to concerts, no more driving to the beach, no more gaming together, no more watching movies together, no more parties, no more crazy shit.

Now he has no job, no money and no friends.

It just sickens me I lost a good friend I could talk and laugh about everything!

AND NOW THE WORST PART:
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Jack Duckbanks - Sun, 15 Jul 2018 03:01:00 EST ID:Vw6L6x8D No.525519 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525511
"Breeder" is a term for someone who's only notable contribution to anything ever is polluting the gene pool. There are people with kids who did something, but there are also people who did nothing but have kids and talk similarly. They then want other people to have kids as well so they can feel validated. Obviously the opposite yet just as vocal minority of the "childree" is off their rocker too. nb
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Hugh Crannerstock - Sun, 15 Jul 2018 23:21:19 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.525544 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525519
>They then want other people to have kids as well so they can feel validated.

Thing is, I've only ever met a handful of those people, but I've seen a disproportionate shitload of the child-hating reverse.
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Betsy Funkingold - Mon, 16 Jul 2018 05:02:29 EST ID:SkDWkTPF No.525553 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525544
I am in a long term relationship and we decided not to have kids and we consistently got pressure from most people who have had kids for a while until they gave up. But no shit there were a few times that i had to go deep to justify my position. I mean I had people arguing that I should have kids for at least 10 minutes.
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John Biblingman - Tue, 17 Jul 2018 00:09:03 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.525580 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525553
Is it with the air of deep social judgement, or is it with the air of sharing a hobby they find far more interesting than you do?
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Cornelius Sonkinson - Tue, 17 Jul 2018 00:34:59 EST ID:TEx/3Mtm No.525581 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525580
It's like they are on a beach with a stranded whale slowly dying.


I have no self actualization by Walter Pitthall - Wed, 11 Jul 2018 22:08:09 EST ID:p8F58cXv No.525435 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>homeless, orphan at 18
>4-6units/semester since then
>24
>own my own business
>it grosses 60k+
>compete in powerlifting to the top 15%
>have a relationship with a woman I will likely marry

Why dont I feel successful.
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Rebecca Badgegold - Mon, 16 Jul 2018 14:51:56 EST ID:aOtx1yRO No.525569 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525449
Solid advice. Constant success is not something to strive for, its not something that exists and where it does it teeters into the morally questionable ; look at any cunt CEO, like Musk and Trump or the unsustainable, like any rockstar.

Just. Let. Go.
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William Gonnerstirk - Mon, 16 Jul 2018 15:04:12 EST ID:a+7YeS+8 No.525570 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525569
>>525515
>>525463
>>525459
>>525449
>>525440
>>525436
incels and betas
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Eugene Febberteck - Mon, 16 Jul 2018 15:05:28 EST ID:wJavO91C No.525571 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525435
Because your childhood, or rather perhaps just the end of it, left mental scars?

Or maybe its having to find your own way, out to the wolves at 18, you maybe set your life up just to survive and it went well, but wasnt your "living your dreams" or whatever.

I was pretty successful before becoming disabled, but didnt like it because it was the career field I was pushed into rather than what I wanted to do.
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Nathaniel Heddleson - Mon, 16 Jul 2018 21:05:30 EST ID:p8F58cXv No.525578 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525571
I would like to say I agree with your argument but, I do not know if I sought out to pursue a dream. My dream was simply to live comfortably and escape my hell. Now I escaped my hell and I dont know if this is what I want to do. I would like to say my job and business brings my fulfillment and I am in a happier mood from work even when I enter my work with a bad mood. I think that means I have a job I can do forever, at least without wanting to kill myself.
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Hugh Fasslemetch - Mon, 16 Jul 2018 23:59:35 EST ID:dVp8iHEG No.525579 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525435
OP you sound like you feel lucky, but not successful. Get over it. You earned what you have. Stop having impostor syndrome.


Recovering drug addict seeking advice by Ian Buppernat - Sun, 15 Jul 2018 03:34:11 EST ID:MZCO9pBq No.525520 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I was doing meth on and off for about three years. I was always a functioning, self-medicating addict who was able to take enough precaution and consideration into self-care that things never got out of hand. Here I am now, in love in an amazing relationship, but in order to keep it, I'm having to abstain from drugs. I no longer have interests. I just bought a new laptop and I don't even know what to do with it. All my motivation seems to stem from drugs at this point, and without them, I don't seem to have any motive at all except for the concretely laden expectations and standards I've set for myself, particularly pertaining to fulfillment in my work and reaching the basic goals I've established, What are some good websites? Starting points for me? People of interest who I might be able to follow and subscribe to? Is there a site similar to StumbleUpon? I recently tried revisiting that site and its being replaced with a shitty app. Are there online AA meetings? How can I meet people? I'm attempting to reconnect with life through sobriety and I need some sort of guidance. Things to invoke passion and thought within me. I have anxiety about the way I spend my time, and I would like to spend it on things worthwhile. I just turned 26.
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Lydia Singerfoot - Sun, 15 Jul 2018 04:19:35 EST ID:42wGzjUi No.525521 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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David Dricklechadge - Sun, 15 Jul 2018 08:06:31 EST ID:Qy3FigJL No.525523 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Congratulations. What sticks out to me from your post is that there's so connection between staying clean and being in this relationship, I commend you on looking for motivation. My favorite motivational book is Mastery by Robert Greene. Anyway, it's a good idea to shift your reason to be clean from doing it for the relationship and just doing it for yourself. Good job and good luck, don't give up.
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Frederick Seckletetch - Mon, 16 Jul 2018 01:31:17 EST ID:CTqbcxEA No.525548 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525520
I hear NA works, turn to the god of your understanding
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Molly Sadgetat - Mon, 16 Jul 2018 21:04:25 EST ID:ehhnNOgT No.525577 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Ask the doctors to write you a prescription for meth so your gf will be okay with it.


Life is difficult, also elephants by Jenny Draggleway - Mon, 16 Jul 2018 15:24:18 EST ID:dwxJXzd4 No.525573 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hello, I just wanted to apologize to everyone. Life is really hard. I know lots of you have problems with depression, and anxiety, and sometimes aggression and jealousy. It’s okay to be hurt. I won’t lie to you and say that your life will necessarily get better. That simply isn’t true. Literally billions of human beings have lived and died on this planet. Many died from diseases, violence, starvation… But we can build a better world. So don’t feel too hopeless. As thinking creatures we have agency, and it’s possible for us to turn things around and make a happy life for ourselves and other. Have a good day.

>also elephants


Everyone likes nobody likes me by Nicholas Cashworth - Mon, 16 Jul 2018 15:12:24 EST ID:/JS1h9ph No.525572 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Ya know. Fort do.


TL;DR I fucking hate myself by Priscilla Bablingville - Sun, 15 Jul 2018 21:53:26 EST ID:+5NtMrCY No.525542 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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My dad was diagnosed with end stage liver cirrhosis in February of 2017, and I pretty much, on the spot, without question agreed to be his caretaker the second he told me. While I knew I was in for a ride through hell in helping him through this, which I have little problem with, I didn't take into account his personality and how it might get in the way of certain things, or the toll that watching the only person who raised me and gave me everything I wanted as a kid constantly being on the verge of dying (my mother left our family when I was 15-16 and was always too focused on her hardly progressing military career before that to actually help raise me. Yes, I'm still bitter about that at 22.) would take on my mental health. It's been a year and a half, and I have had to see some really horrifying shit happen to him that shook me to the core. I've seen his legs swell up like Macy's Day Parade balloons, his gut fills up with fluid and around his lungs that he has to go to the hospital to drain twice every week, he basically has a colostomy bag on his belly button because he has a hernia that the doctors refuse to fix until he gets his transplant surgery, I watched him go through hell for months just to clean out his asshole enough to get a colonoscopy so he could get on the transplant list, he was in a medically induced coma around my birthday last October due to him having an allergic reaction that no one expected to happen with one of the chemicals and I had to see him on a breathing tube. I've seen some shit that would break most and depress the fuck out of many I'm in the latter. He won't let anyone else help through this even for a moment because he doesn't trust anyone to be as accepting and understanding as I am throughout this whole process. He won't let anyone in the house, not even my mother, because he doesn't want anyone to see him in the condition he's in. That's gonna be important information later. I quit my job, stopped hanging out with friends, stopped socializing with people all to take care of him, and I just don't feel like it's enough. I'm couped up in my house all day and night waiting for…
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Priscilla Bablingville - Sun, 15 Jul 2018 22:01:01 EST ID:+5NtMrCY No.525543 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525542
OP here. Just to clarify something, many of my friends who have the free time to help him have offered, and he refused quite angrily every time.
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Frederick Seckletetch - Mon, 16 Jul 2018 01:26:01 EST ID:CTqbcxEA No.525547 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525542
Jesus loves you,
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Hugh Crannerstock - Mon, 16 Jul 2018 01:36:25 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.525549 Ignore Report Quick Reply
This is a shit situation that would burn anyone out. So don't feel like you've failed because you're burnout after a year and a half of dealing with someone else's drawn out death.

>now I feel extremely guilty for caving into his insecurities and trying to do too much and not forcing him to accept someone else's help to make sure he doesn't get sick because his immune system isn't entirely shot but it's just weakened enough that a flu might be able kill him

Sounds like you dad is not coping with the idea that he's dying. There is no "through this" for him. You're helping him die in comfort.

Have you had that conversation with him, and if so, how does he feel about it?


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