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How to stop being clingy by Nathaniel Goodfuck - Mon, 17 Apr 2017 18:57:15 EST ID:GoZz+UFM No.515548 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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So I had this girl (pictured) sexting me on Friday. She's an old friend's ex-girlfriend who I haven't spoken to in like 4 years. We're getting hot 'n'heavy and she's talking about sucking my dick and all that shit. Cool right? We make plans to meet up and actually fuck and then it goes to shit.

We text a bit Sunday and I'm trying to be sweet and all that. She calls me but I was busy so she said call me when I'm done. I finish what I was doing and call her, and she doesn't pick up. So I text her something like Hey where you at? and she never replies. This makes me feel like I've fucked up. I was exhausted because I was doing lawn work all day, and fell asleep pretty early. She calls me around 10pm and I don't pick up.

So Sunday comes and I tell her to call me later in the night and I'll make sure to catch it. She never calls me. I feel shitty about that.

Now today, she text me a long apology that she didn't have time, was exhausted, family even cus of easter, etc. Alright thats understandable and all. She was supposed to find out what day she'd be off this week so we could chill, and I ask did she find out. She never replies. I make a dumb comment on her FB and she texts me about that but is now avoiding the question.

I'm not sure where I messed up here. I got excited that she was into me and wanted to talk to her, but I she didn't have time or was actually ignoring me. It made me feel shitty, and I do have insecurity issues and self-esteem issues but I try really hard to bottle that shit up. I just want someone to be interested in me as much as I am them, but it's like a game where you have to pretend you're not interested or something. I don't get it.

My questions are: was I being clingy/needy? asking her to call or saying sweet nothing bs? Is it just her being a slut one day and regretting it the next? Is she ignoring me like it's some game? I can't figure it out guys.

Thanks in advance.
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Betsy Sennerhot - Mon, 17 Apr 2017 19:34:13 EST ID:tDogmvzg No.515552 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You should probably not post naked pictures of other people on the internet
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Esther Blackdale - Mon, 17 Apr 2017 19:51:36 EST ID:qgSlhkvl No.515554 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515552
1 If she happens to see this post its probably over lol.
2 youre not clingy, girls like that are just whoreish teases. Find someone who isnt in it just for the sex or playing with your head dude.
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Matilda Bupperstat - Tue, 18 Apr 2017 11:58:06 EST ID:35+jbzpY No.515566 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Bitches have windows. Her's was short and you missed it, sorry buddy. Wash your dick and keep it movin
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William Branderway - Tue, 18 Apr 2017 14:04:11 EST ID:GoZz+UFM No.515568 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>515566
OP Here.

Yeah I asked her if she wanted to chill the night we were sexting and she made up some excuse about it.

Well, I appreciate everyone's advice. I texted her something along the lines of: "I'm sorta losing interest in this TBH. Just text me when you're tryna have fun again, I'm not into whatever this is" And she BLEW UP. Changed her FB photo to her kissing some fat dude (maybe her boyfriend?) and posted 50 something subliminals at me lol.

So I guess she was just trying to have me as a side-piece cus I'm much better looking than whoever was in those photos. Feel like I dodged a bullet on this one.

To the guy saying not to post naked photos, I figured it'd help this not get buried. Sorry Mr. White Knight.
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Alice Seblingbury - Tue, 18 Apr 2017 14:24:08 EST ID:omX2BDyl No.515571 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515568
Top lelouch you dodged a bullet.
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Edward Biggleway - Tue, 18 Apr 2017 19:07:04 EST ID:qgSlhkvl No.515572 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515571
This.
That girl is a psycho whore. Youre lucky you stayed uninvolved
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William Branderway - Tue, 18 Apr 2017 19:10:16 EST ID:GoZz+UFM No.515574 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Few more for you guys, yeah I'm happy I dodged this shit too. She does have a nice body though oh well.
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William Branderway - Tue, 18 Apr 2017 19:11:23 EST ID:GoZz+UFM No.515575 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>515574
Enjoy nb.
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Eugene Norringway - Tue, 18 Apr 2017 23:25:31 EST ID:qgSlhkvl No.515583 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515575
Those are some nice big nipples
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Angus Buddlefield - Tue, 18 Apr 2017 23:32:20 EST ID:vfShsVuP No.515584 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515574
Fuck, man. That is one nice ass.
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Samuel Hoffingdone - Tue, 18 Apr 2017 23:49:09 EST ID:CfonqoA0 No.515585 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Remember, the crazy one's are the best fucks.

You just assume more risk when you go after them.

OP, if you're still here, you have your hook stuck in her snatch. You can reel her in. I mean, she went all publicly/secretively rejecting you because you rejected her first!

She wants you now because she feels like she can't have you. You should reel her in and stick it in her butt.
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James Turveycocke - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 00:46:38 EST ID:GoZz+UFM No.515586 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>515585
OP Here.

See I've been debating this as well. I'm thinking of something like "Look, I was honestly looking forward to getting to know you again & if you just wanted me on the side you coulda said so, I'm cool with it." and see where that gets me. Cus I do want to fuck the shit out of her, but I'm not going to deal with dumbass games to get pussy when I live in a world of Tinder/Bumble.

More comments and opinions are welcome.
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Cedric Sezzlelark - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 04:24:16 EST ID:HXgn8b9h No.515594 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515586
Is the fat dude like strong fat or just fat fat? Id check first
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Eliza Bresslepadge - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 09:14:47 EST ID:tldOIKN9 No.515595 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Are you me?
I'm in a similair situation, OP. I don't want to waste bandwith with making my own thread so I thought that I could piggy back on this shit. Been talking to this girl over the phone for a few weeks after I got her contact irl. She became quickly lovey dovey with me. I got excited and gave her a lot of attention back. I've asked her out a few times, everything from studying, having a coffee, to a party. You can guess what she answered: just excuses like "I'm busy most of the time", ''I'm going to my friends place", "I'm slow with new people". As if. She was the one who liked my the first and sent heart emojis the first time we talked. She's even sent provactive pics, giving me nicknames, and compliments. Recently the bitch has been cold af. I also think it's because I'm clingy or showed interest too fast.
Got pic related as advice from another chan which seems sounds but I'd like more input. We're both young and she claims she doesn't have a lot experience with guys. I've been thinking of giving her space for days and if she shows interest again then cool. I don't understand why I would be led on. I don't want to be a puppy on her leash, orbiting her. Fuck, I ignored another girl at the party who gave me vibes because of this chick.
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Eliza Bresslepadge - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 12:27:05 EST ID:tldOIKN9 No.515600 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>515595
Maybe it's the blunt talking but I think Ive been way too clingy. Real anxiety, man
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Martin Huvingchore - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 13:34:58 EST ID:UHQ5Fpvu No.515601 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515548
Ouch yeah you are being clingy and that is unnattractive to most women who have options because it shows you are needy and lack hobbies. Try not talking to her for awhile and see if she contacts you again but I doubt it is likely since you have shown her you are a beta bitch. Even posting her private pics up is a rather sad display and to me says you deserve to be in the beta bitch place you are in nb
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James Turveycocke - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 13:43:09 EST ID:GoZz+UFM No.515603 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>515601
Someone seems riled they can't get a girl to said them nudes lol. 2/10 troll here's one for you buddy I can tell you're lonely
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Martin Huvingchore - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 15:08:57 EST ID:UHQ5Fpvu No.515606 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515603
Lol! Says the guy with the + in his name.
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Esther Dartville - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 15:29:50 EST ID:otv2YF5O No.515607 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515603
This thread us embaressing brahma if I knew the girl I'd show her so she would quit talking to you and then you'd be on her crying about how she ditched your ass
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James Turveycocke - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 17:03:40 EST ID:GoZz+UFM No.515610 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515606
Don't know what a + even means bro
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James Turveycocke - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 17:06:08 EST ID:GoZz+UFM No.515611 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515607
Before you post, take a few deep breaths and try not to rage at anyone and anything that doesn’t tickle your fancy. You are not doing
anything to contribute to the overall health of the board, and instead create an air of hostility.
This makes other people hostile, and things just get worse and worse. RELAX. Before your negativity gets you booted out.


I guess I should've posted on circlejerk there might actually be LESS white knights there.

For those not being butthurt & contributing: haven't spoken to her since I said I lost interest. Nothing really came from her either since intial blow up. Despite wanting to fuck, I'm just not sure it's worth chasing after finding out she has a man and all that. There's other contributing factors since I don't really mind being an instrument in ruining someone's relationship but I don't think she's one of the ones it's worth doing for.
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Angus Buddlefield - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 18:42:27 EST ID:vfShsVuP No.515614 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515610
Legends tells anyone with a + on their name is shit poster. This is not confirm and its just speculation.
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Albert Nickledale - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 20:18:53 EST ID:qgSlhkvl No.515615 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515614
Man I thought that is what my few hundred stank tokens were for
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Cyril Clamblecocke - Thu, 20 Apr 2017 21:06:13 EST ID:o3vIoRWZ No.515636 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>How to stop being clingy
Step One, admit your desperation to yourself. No excuses, no metal gymnastics.

Step Tw...
>Despite wanting to fuck, I'm just not sure it's worth chasing after finding out she has a man and all that.
Okay, no, back to Step One, fox.
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Nell Duckstock - Fri, 21 Apr 2017 11:20:50 EST ID:uQDuqkAT No.515653 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>515586

did you fucking take a picture of your phone


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