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#qq on IRC by Mintzs !GD3wBpep0Y - Sun, 13 Aug 2017 12:14:49 EST ID:d5kHsYag No.518069 Report Quick Reply
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Hi folks,

If you're looking to talk to someone immediately about any problems you have in your life and have nobody close to you, come and speak to us!

Join us on IRC on #qq. Most of us have different time zones but if you stay there, one of us will be there.

Don't be afraid to speak up.
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Phineas Soblingford - Sun, 13 Aug 2017 15:51:04 EST ID:bwJOb6Ln No.518073 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518069

who is us? which IRC server? how do I know you won't gently nudge me over the edge like that nurse who used to enter the suicide pacts and then her skype always "failed" at the last minute so she would just watch the other person die and then move on to the next person?
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Thomas Hobblekore - Mon, 14 Aug 2017 08:11:39 EST ID:iATmjcFJ No.518079 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518073
username of the said nurse?
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Mintzs !GD3wBpep0Y - Mon, 14 Aug 2017 08:29:02 EST ID:d5kHsYag No.518080 Report Quick Reply
>>518073

Haha, what the fuck! No, no nurses here.

irc.420chan.org #qq
Us = Anyone in the channel, there's about 10 of us who normally reside there for anyone coming in with problems. Three of them are people who have come in with problems before and have stayed.
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Hugh Smallgold - Mon, 14 Aug 2017 10:14:03 EST ID:bwJOb6Ln No.518081 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518080
http://www.independent.ie/world-news/europe/internet-nurse-is-notorious-suicide-voyeur-26642530.html OK it was a male nurse pretending to be a female nurse, you can see how I would misremember that
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James Bunspear - Mon, 14 Aug 2017 20:14:37 EST ID:JjCIWimW No.518088 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518069
anyone recommend an IRC client?
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Simon Gocklehick - Tue, 15 Aug 2017 08:50:57 EST ID:RWMYdvNQ No.518091 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518088
http://webirc.420chan.org/
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Jack Pickfuck - Thu, 17 Aug 2017 14:04:08 EST ID:bvxd4h2s No.518125 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518088
I already have installed XChat but I've never used it and I don't know if it's good.
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Angus Cezzlechare - Thu, 17 Aug 2017 17:28:46 EST ID:/brn2RiX No.518132 Ignore Report Quick Reply
man now i gotta look at a fuckin banana whenever i visit this board
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Eugene Pickfoot - Fri, 18 Aug 2017 07:48:37 EST ID:dIFWQvnm No.518141 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>518069
remove banana
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Ebenezer Bardforth - Mon, 21 Aug 2017 14:58:58 EST ID:bJ2LE8mc No.518239 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>518132
It makes me think of snorks from STALKER. And I hate snorks.

mintz ruins something once more.
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Samuel Memblecocke - Fri, 25 Aug 2017 06:48:33 EST ID:1505Uoxr No.518336 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518132
I bet you this fucking banana saved some lives

just reminds me of the druids off star wars
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Cornelius Cabberspear - Fri, 25 Aug 2017 09:42:16 EST ID:nvypr5d8 No.518337 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Is this shit pinned or something? It's always at the top every time I visit qq.
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William Bubbersodge - Fri, 25 Aug 2017 13:41:55 EST ID:UjNuOR6B No.518340 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518337
yeah if u look at the header at far right u see a little paperclip
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Eugene Dabblestone - Sat, 26 Aug 2017 16:38:48 EST ID:ikpnFLjC No.518359 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>518340
Oh I didn't notice.
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Walter Dongerworth - Sat, 26 Aug 2017 21:35:19 EST ID:eH7FoqZP No.518365 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518363
Did you try what >>518091 suggested? It uses your web browser. If it helps, I'm using Chrome.
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Phineas Drerringlut - Tue, 29 Aug 2017 23:18:52 EST ID:S4bGwxLS No.518450 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518091
Just follow this link, set your nickname (or leave it as Reuben, it doesn't matter) and then when you are connected type "/j #qq"
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John Surrywet - Wed, 30 Aug 2017 01:07:13 EST ID:pmugxqoG No.518452 Ignore Report Quick Reply
..
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Sidney Sendlehood - Fri, 15 Sep 2017 15:23:55 EST ID:gI2h8Ggi No.518810 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518452
hello my friend
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David Shakeshit - Fri, 15 Sep 2017 16:43:36 EST ID:xWV2176R No.518811 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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I have two friends that genuinely like me, yet I hang out with this one asshat that always rips me of. Do I even deserve happiness?
Having a borderline personality disorder is so much fun.
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Fanny Blackspear - Wed, 20 Sep 2017 03:03:43 EST ID:Ix5ljcqH No.518872 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518811
Must suck. Maybe act the way you would if you loved yourself.

I care for a lady with borderline and schizophrenia and yeah the borderline stuff is tricky, keeping us on our toes avoiding any slight trigger. But then the delusions kick in and it's just a tragedy really.
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Hedda Honeyhall - Wed, 20 Sep 2017 03:28:20 EST ID:JI9kO00V No.518873 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518811
It's been taking sheer willpower to get over mine. I really struggle with the false/true abandonment perception. Makes me push people away that probably had no intention of abandoning me. Takes A LOT of concious effort for me to talk myself out of those thoughts, and not breaking all my shit at the slightest bit of frustration.

But I'm getting a lot better. It doesn't suck that I have BPD. It sucks that BPD will never get a chance to shine through me again. Sucks for BPD that is.

Don't need to pump yourself full of meds either, just a strong will, and a desire to change. It's not going to happen magically. Make the concious effort to do what you know is right for yourself.
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Hedda Honeyhall - Wed, 20 Sep 2017 03:30:03 EST ID:JI9kO00V No.518875 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518873
And if it helps or matters, I suffer from cluster B traits.
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Oliver Bunspear - Mon, 25 Sep 2017 08:52:06 EST ID:EaBcbC0O No.518984 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518069
But I thought IRC was an aggressive shithole of pretension and pride?
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Cedric Femblefedging - Sun, 01 Oct 2017 00:43:57 EST ID:NgmtMeLq No.519126 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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I have some weird bumps on my legs that I'm concerned about, can I post pics and get your guys' advice?

BWH
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Gnarly McGoblin - Sun, 01 Oct 2017 13:12:22 EST ID:XNoolq1Y No.519133 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I kina accidentally purposefully stabbed myself one inch deep in my arm today with dirty scissors.
Now I got high and regret doing it. Lef-loathing whoops.
I've come to the conclusion that every human being can be a natural disaster on its own.
>>519126
Don't post infected wounds or leprosy-ebola-tier pictures. Cysts are okay.
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Charles Damblecocke - Mon, 02 Oct 2017 13:34:17 EST ID:WV91K+Uu No.519158 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519126
/med/ is slow but this is totally a /med/ issue.
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James Sivingsadging - Mon, 09 Oct 2017 00:13:45 EST ID:i632blqC No.519257 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519126
go to a physician
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Fucking Winderman - Wed, 11 Oct 2017 04:55:22 EST ID:IFilL+Bm No.519306 Ignore Report Quick Reply
It hurts to live. How am I so sensitive? Am I autistic or what?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=atyvdC15HFA
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Fucking Winderman - Wed, 11 Oct 2017 05:00:35 EST ID:IFilL+Bm No.519307 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519306
I AM FUCKINNG WINDERMAN AND NO ONE CAN STOP ME!
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killshot - Sat, 14 Oct 2017 23:08:38 EST ID:a/UwdCqG No.519410 Ignore Report Quick Reply
don't forget to put it down on the new world order
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killshot - Sat, 14 Oct 2017 23:10:03 EST ID:a/UwdCqG No.519411 Ignore Report Quick Reply
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g9XZQttjc-g
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killshot - Sat, 14 Oct 2017 23:12:18 EST ID:a/UwdCqG No.519413 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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until the coming of JAH!
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Jack Fangold - Wed, 18 Oct 2017 00:28:53 EST ID:Gl/wq+Sz No.519486 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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what a wonderful idea and sticky
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Barnaby Dartway - Tue, 31 Oct 2017 16:29:20 EST ID:5/+dXwEn No.519750 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Well, I'm a 24 years old Armenian guy who's living in a country wich is a full of shit and corruption, with no future, with no hope, with a jobs where companies are taking people and making them to work for free about 1-2 months and then saying that they don't need a new employee(so let's just say a country with no jobs), and even if you're working, you're getting.
Here you must work 10-12 hours just to get 4-5$ per day.
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Esther Fuckingson - Wed, 01 Nov 2017 21:57:53 EST ID:zoMNIEw8 No.519766 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519750
Shit mang you gotta dip outta there. Come to US and make $20 an hour. Spend it all on things you don't need and be just as miserable but with more grandiose steps in between
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Polly Bromblekit - Thu, 02 Nov 2017 06:52:00 EST ID:2YnyrWIY No.519774 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519766
I would if I could, my uncle and grandmother are living in US about more then 27-years, they're sending me a visa but your fucking emassy aren't letting me to go there.
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Reuben Packlefure - Thu, 02 Nov 2017 08:28:47 EST ID:T3h0qR5w No.519777 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519774

I'm sorry. I hope you end up making it here. We would love to have you! I wish you the best
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Gnarly McGoblin - Thu, 02 Nov 2017 11:16:35 EST ID:EGdPFm/E No.519779 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Can you fall in love with a couple, or is it impossible due to social standards?
I drink too much.
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Polly Bromblekit - Thu, 02 Nov 2017 15:23:32 EST ID:5iKbT0pV No.519782 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519777
Thank's a lot!
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Sophie Duckstone - Thu, 02 Nov 2017 19:20:27 EST ID:5yYYR0y+ No.519787 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>519779
>social standards
nigga what

poly relationships are shit 9 times out of 10 because at least one person won't be able to handle it. it has nothing to do with social standards ya goof, romantic entanglements with more than one person are messy and prone to disaster and should be avoided at all costs because human beings are overwhelmingly not meant for that.
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Albert Chinnernatch - Sat, 04 Nov 2017 08:06:36 EST ID:2F6ZF59I No.519814 Ignore Report Quick Reply
My life has been pureshit for a long ass fucking time. I dont think ive been content in my entire life. My throat hurts after fucking a japanese prostitute and putting her cum in my mouth, im relapsing into my addiction and now i cant get this fucking juice bottle open. Fucking hell. Worst of all theres an asshole doing gardening late at night and its almost certainly a hallucination. Fuck.
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Charlotte Clonnerstitch - Fri, 10 Nov 2017 21:43:03 EST ID:sM5nvTHu No.519937 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519787

>this

Niel strauss wrote a whole big bit about poly relationships in his book The Truth. Basically someone is going to vie for the attention of someone and the other person will be left out and then that will cause drama and the person who is the focus of the attention with try to balance it out by giving the other people attention which upsets the original person who wanted attention which makes the person give them a little more attention which upsets the other people and so on so forth until it all collapses and everyone goes home.

He said the only way it can actually theoritcally work out is if all members of the relationship are fully committed to poly relationships. but he noted what normally happens is you have two people currently in a mono relationship who branch out to have sex with other members who are basically just being used for sex, there is no real relationship because they tend to stick together no matter what where the other people are always left on the outside of the actual relationship but are lulled into the false sense of a relationship by ticking the boxes of "dates" and so on.

Its a great book you should read it.
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Sophie Pockworth - Sat, 11 Nov 2017 15:32:13 EST ID:KbKvqV7e No.519946 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519937
There's quite a few stable arrangements that can work but I have to admit I've only seen relationships where everyone had a primary partner work out. Whether it's actually just open with one couple or it's a complex arrangement, every poly arrangment I've seen or even read about has involved several stable couples coming together. Not everyone has to be poly though. You could have two couples with a partner who is very demanding and one who doesn't mind a bit more free time. Next thing you know you've got 2 guys getting more shed time while their girlfriends go fuck.

I've seen several poly arrangements fail and the reason is always the same shit that'd kill a normal relationship however there has been much more variability in the fallout.

All that said I couldn't be fucked with poly relationships because that shit always gets fucking complicated and navigating one relationship is both plenty for me and more than I am usually able to get. Also what I said doesn't directly contradict anything you said because it does require everyone be fully committed not just to poly relationships but that particular one. And yes a lot of the time it's often just an open mono relationship trying to pretend it's more. And aside from the pretension, as long as you're honest with everyone involved that is actually fine.
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Cedric Pickbanks - Sun, 12 Nov 2017 01:29:12 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.519959 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519946
>every poly arrangment I've seen or even read about has involved several stable couples coming together. Not everyone has to be poly though

The problem with these is that they're basically just threesome groups.

I despise poly'amorous' relationships because there's no actual love involved. You want a third for fucking. If you tell me you want a third for anything else you're a lying shit. You want a third because muh variety. Fine. Be honest about it. Don't bullshit people along with this idea that love is cheap, because it's not. It never is.
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Jenny Clashhood - Sun, 12 Nov 2017 07:04:41 EST ID:KbKvqV7e No.519963 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519959
They weren't threesome groups.

There were definitely primary and secondary couples but there was never a threesome. And there was definitely emotional involvement and/or love. I knew I still know one, this was one of the messier breakups these people so you're not going to persuade me you know them better. I don't want to go into the personal details of my friend's personal life but the breakup made it clear he lost more than just a warm hole or even a friend with benefits when he lost his second partner. But she was his second partner.

They weren't going with cheap free love though. These were people who put a lot of effort and thought into making it work, and ironically fell into normal relationship pitfalls. Maybe these arrangements are really rare (the exceptions that prove the rule or whatever) but I know what I saw.
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Cedric Pickbanks - Sun, 12 Nov 2017 16:35:04 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.519967 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519963
Plenty of people say they see it, none ever step forward for perusal. I've seen many more times people hurt by the mad desire for a third over helped.
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otherkevin - Mon, 20 Nov 2017 04:38:18 EST ID:OpyraFTY No.520175 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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the vast majority of people that come through never establish themselves.
i think that anyone with the time to engage with the community on its own terms will find that they can drum up an insightful conversation.
i think that it's unfair to expect strangers to engage with your shit basically on the premise that you want them to.
gotta make it worth their while, one way or another.

tldr; this isn't a therapist's office. lower your expectations.
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Ebenezer Sunnerbeck - Thu, 23 Nov 2017 04:03:00 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.520224 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>520175
Doesn't mean your advice can't be retarded, and it is, often.


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