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#qq on IRC by Mintzs !GD3wBpep0Y - Sun, 13 Aug 2017 12:14:49 EST ID:d5kHsYag No.518069 Report Quick Reply
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Hi folks,

If you're looking to talk to someone immediately about any problems you have in your life and have nobody close to you, come and speak to us!

Join us on IRC on #qq. Most of us have different time zones but if you stay there, one of us will be there.

Don't be afraid to speak up.
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Phineas Soblingford - Sun, 13 Aug 2017 15:51:04 EST ID:bwJOb6Ln No.518073 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518069

who is us? which IRC server? how do I know you won't gently nudge me over the edge like that nurse who used to enter the suicide pacts and then her skype always "failed" at the last minute so she would just watch the other person die and then move on to the next person?
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Thomas Hobblekore - Mon, 14 Aug 2017 08:11:39 EST ID:iATmjcFJ No.518079 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518073
username of the said nurse?
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Mintzs !GD3wBpep0Y - Mon, 14 Aug 2017 08:29:02 EST ID:d5kHsYag No.518080 Report Quick Reply
>>518073

Haha, what the fuck! No, no nurses here.

irc.420chan.org #qq
Us = Anyone in the channel, there's about 10 of us who normally reside there for anyone coming in with problems. Three of them are people who have come in with problems before and have stayed.
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Hugh Smallgold - Mon, 14 Aug 2017 10:14:03 EST ID:bwJOb6Ln No.518081 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518080
http://www.independent.ie/world-news/europe/internet-nurse-is-notorious-suicide-voyeur-26642530.html OK it was a male nurse pretending to be a female nurse, you can see how I would misremember that
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James Bunspear - Mon, 14 Aug 2017 20:14:37 EST ID:JjCIWimW No.518088 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518069
anyone recommend an IRC client?
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Simon Gocklehick - Tue, 15 Aug 2017 08:50:57 EST ID:RWMYdvNQ No.518091 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518088
http://webirc.420chan.org/
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Jack Pickfuck - Thu, 17 Aug 2017 14:04:08 EST ID:bvxd4h2s No.518125 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518088
I already have installed XChat but I've never used it and I don't know if it's good.
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Angus Cezzlechare - Thu, 17 Aug 2017 17:28:46 EST ID:/brn2RiX No.518132 Ignore Report Quick Reply
man now i gotta look at a fuckin banana whenever i visit this board
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Eugene Pickfoot - Fri, 18 Aug 2017 07:48:37 EST ID:dIFWQvnm No.518141 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>518069
remove banana
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Ebenezer Bardforth - Mon, 21 Aug 2017 14:58:58 EST ID:bJ2LE8mc No.518239 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>518132
It makes me think of snorks from STALKER. And I hate snorks.

mintz ruins something once more.
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Samuel Memblecocke - Fri, 25 Aug 2017 06:48:33 EST ID:1505Uoxr No.518336 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518132
I bet you this fucking banana saved some lives

just reminds me of the druids off star wars
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Cornelius Cabberspear - Fri, 25 Aug 2017 09:42:16 EST ID:nvypr5d8 No.518337 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Is this shit pinned or something? It's always at the top every time I visit qq.
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William Bubbersodge - Fri, 25 Aug 2017 13:41:55 EST ID:UjNuOR6B No.518340 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518337
yeah if u look at the header at far right u see a little paperclip
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Eugene Dabblestone - Sat, 26 Aug 2017 16:38:48 EST ID:ikpnFLjC No.518359 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>518340
Oh I didn't notice.
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Walter Dongerworth - Sat, 26 Aug 2017 21:35:19 EST ID:eH7FoqZP No.518365 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518363
Did you try what >>518091 suggested? It uses your web browser. If it helps, I'm using Chrome.
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Phineas Drerringlut - Tue, 29 Aug 2017 23:18:52 EST ID:S4bGwxLS No.518450 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518091
Just follow this link, set your nickname (or leave it as Reuben, it doesn't matter) and then when you are connected type "/j #qq"
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John Surrywet - Wed, 30 Aug 2017 01:07:13 EST ID:pmugxqoG No.518452 Ignore Report Quick Reply
..
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Sidney Sendlehood - Fri, 15 Sep 2017 15:23:55 EST ID:gI2h8Ggi No.518810 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518452
hello my friend
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David Shakeshit - Fri, 15 Sep 2017 16:43:36 EST ID:xWV2176R No.518811 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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I have two friends that genuinely like me, yet I hang out with this one asshat that always rips me of. Do I even deserve happiness?
Having a borderline personality disorder is so much fun.
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Fanny Blackspear - Wed, 20 Sep 2017 03:03:43 EST ID:Ix5ljcqH No.518872 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518811
Must suck. Maybe act the way you would if you loved yourself.

I care for a lady with borderline and schizophrenia and yeah the borderline stuff is tricky, keeping us on our toes avoiding any slight trigger. But then the delusions kick in and it's just a tragedy really.
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Hedda Honeyhall - Wed, 20 Sep 2017 03:28:20 EST ID:JI9kO00V No.518873 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518811
It's been taking sheer willpower to get over mine. I really struggle with the false/true abandonment perception. Makes me push people away that probably had no intention of abandoning me. Takes A LOT of concious effort for me to talk myself out of those thoughts, and not breaking all my shit at the slightest bit of frustration.

But I'm getting a lot better. It doesn't suck that I have BPD. It sucks that BPD will never get a chance to shine through me again. Sucks for BPD that is.

Don't need to pump yourself full of meds either, just a strong will, and a desire to change. It's not going to happen magically. Make the concious effort to do what you know is right for yourself.
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Hedda Honeyhall - Wed, 20 Sep 2017 03:30:03 EST ID:JI9kO00V No.518875 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518873
And if it helps or matters, I suffer from cluster B traits.
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Oliver Bunspear - Mon, 25 Sep 2017 08:52:06 EST ID:EaBcbC0O No.518984 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518069
But I thought IRC was an aggressive shithole of pretension and pride?
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Cedric Femblefedging - Sun, 01 Oct 2017 00:43:57 EST ID:NgmtMeLq No.519126 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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I have some weird bumps on my legs that I'm concerned about, can I post pics and get your guys' advice?

BWH
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Gnarly McGoblin - Sun, 01 Oct 2017 13:12:22 EST ID:XNoolq1Y No.519133 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I kina accidentally purposefully stabbed myself one inch deep in my arm today with dirty scissors.
Now I got high and regret doing it. Lef-loathing whoops.
I've come to the conclusion that every human being can be a natural disaster on its own.
>>519126
Don't post infected wounds or leprosy-ebola-tier pictures. Cysts are okay.
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Charles Damblecocke - Mon, 02 Oct 2017 13:34:17 EST ID:WV91K+Uu No.519158 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519126
/med/ is slow but this is totally a /med/ issue.
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James Sivingsadging - Mon, 09 Oct 2017 00:13:45 EST ID:i632blqC No.519257 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519126
go to a physician
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Fucking Winderman - Wed, 11 Oct 2017 04:55:22 EST ID:IFilL+Bm No.519306 Ignore Report Quick Reply
It hurts to live. How am I so sensitive? Am I autistic or what?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=atyvdC15HFA
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Fucking Winderman - Wed, 11 Oct 2017 05:00:35 EST ID:IFilL+Bm No.519307 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519306
I AM FUCKINNG WINDERMAN AND NO ONE CAN STOP ME!
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killshot - Sat, 14 Oct 2017 23:08:38 EST ID:a/UwdCqG No.519410 Ignore Report Quick Reply
don't forget to put it down on the new world order
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killshot - Sat, 14 Oct 2017 23:10:03 EST ID:a/UwdCqG No.519411 Ignore Report Quick Reply
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g9XZQttjc-g
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killshot - Sat, 14 Oct 2017 23:12:18 EST ID:a/UwdCqG No.519413 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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until the coming of JAH!
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Jack Fangold - Wed, 18 Oct 2017 00:28:53 EST ID:Gl/wq+Sz No.519486 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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what a wonderful idea and sticky
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Barnaby Dartway - Tue, 31 Oct 2017 16:29:20 EST ID:5/+dXwEn No.519750 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Well, I'm a 24 years old Armenian guy who's living in a country wich is a full of shit and corruption, with no future, with no hope, with a jobs where companies are taking people and making them to work for free about 1-2 months and then saying that they don't need a new employee(so let's just say a country with no jobs), and even if you're working, you're getting.
Here you must work 10-12 hours just to get 4-5$ per day.
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Esther Fuckingson - Wed, 01 Nov 2017 21:57:53 EST ID:zoMNIEw8 No.519766 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519750
Shit mang you gotta dip outta there. Come to US and make $20 an hour. Spend it all on things you don't need and be just as miserable but with more grandiose steps in between
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Polly Bromblekit - Thu, 02 Nov 2017 06:52:00 EST ID:2YnyrWIY No.519774 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519766
I would if I could, my uncle and grandmother are living in US about more then 27-years, they're sending me a visa but your fucking emassy aren't letting me to go there.
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Reuben Packlefure - Thu, 02 Nov 2017 08:28:47 EST ID:T3h0qR5w No.519777 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519774

I'm sorry. I hope you end up making it here. We would love to have you! I wish you the best
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Gnarly McGoblin - Thu, 02 Nov 2017 11:16:35 EST ID:EGdPFm/E No.519779 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Can you fall in love with a couple, or is it impossible due to social standards?
I drink too much.
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Polly Bromblekit - Thu, 02 Nov 2017 15:23:32 EST ID:5iKbT0pV No.519782 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519777
Thank's a lot!
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Sophie Duckstone - Thu, 02 Nov 2017 19:20:27 EST ID:5yYYR0y+ No.519787 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>519779
>social standards
nigga what

poly relationships are shit 9 times out of 10 because at least one person won't be able to handle it. it has nothing to do with social standards ya goof, romantic entanglements with more than one person are messy and prone to disaster and should be avoided at all costs because human beings are overwhelmingly not meant for that.
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Albert Chinnernatch - Sat, 04 Nov 2017 08:06:36 EST ID:2F6ZF59I No.519814 Ignore Report Quick Reply
My life has been pureshit for a long ass fucking time. I dont think ive been content in my entire life. My throat hurts after fucking a japanese prostitute and putting her cum in my mouth, im relapsing into my addiction and now i cant get this fucking juice bottle open. Fucking hell. Worst of all theres an asshole doing gardening late at night and its almost certainly a hallucination. Fuck.
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Charlotte Clonnerstitch - Fri, 10 Nov 2017 21:43:03 EST ID:sM5nvTHu No.519937 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519787

>this

Niel strauss wrote a whole big bit about poly relationships in his book The Truth. Basically someone is going to vie for the attention of someone and the other person will be left out and then that will cause drama and the person who is the focus of the attention with try to balance it out by giving the other people attention which upsets the original person who wanted attention which makes the person give them a little more attention which upsets the other people and so on so forth until it all collapses and everyone goes home.

He said the only way it can actually theoritcally work out is if all members of the relationship are fully committed to poly relationships. but he noted what normally happens is you have two people currently in a mono relationship who branch out to have sex with other members who are basically just being used for sex, there is no real relationship because they tend to stick together no matter what where the other people are always left on the outside of the actual relationship but are lulled into the false sense of a relationship by ticking the boxes of "dates" and so on.

Its a great book you should read it.
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Sophie Pockworth - Sat, 11 Nov 2017 15:32:13 EST ID:KbKvqV7e No.519946 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519937
There's quite a few stable arrangements that can work but I have to admit I've only seen relationships where everyone had a primary partner work out. Whether it's actually just open with one couple or it's a complex arrangement, every poly arrangment I've seen or even read about has involved several stable couples coming together. Not everyone has to be poly though. You could have two couples with a partner who is very demanding and one who doesn't mind a bit more free time. Next thing you know you've got 2 guys getting more shed time while their girlfriends go fuck.

I've seen several poly arrangements fail and the reason is always the same shit that'd kill a normal relationship however there has been much more variability in the fallout.

All that said I couldn't be fucked with poly relationships because that shit always gets fucking complicated and navigating one relationship is both plenty for me and more than I am usually able to get. Also what I said doesn't directly contradict anything you said because it does require everyone be fully committed not just to poly relationships but that particular one. And yes a lot of the time it's often just an open mono relationship trying to pretend it's more. And aside from the pretension, as long as you're honest with everyone involved that is actually fine.
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Cedric Pickbanks - Sun, 12 Nov 2017 01:29:12 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.519959 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519946
>every poly arrangment I've seen or even read about has involved several stable couples coming together. Not everyone has to be poly though

The problem with these is that they're basically just threesome groups.

I despise poly'amorous' relationships because there's no actual love involved. You want a third for fucking. If you tell me you want a third for anything else you're a lying shit. You want a third because muh variety. Fine. Be honest about it. Don't bullshit people along with this idea that love is cheap, because it's not. It never is.
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Jenny Clashhood - Sun, 12 Nov 2017 07:04:41 EST ID:KbKvqV7e No.519963 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519959
They weren't threesome groups.

There were definitely primary and secondary couples but there was never a threesome. And there was definitely emotional involvement and/or love. I knew I still know one, this was one of the messier breakups these people so you're not going to persuade me you know them better. I don't want to go into the personal details of my friend's personal life but the breakup made it clear he lost more than just a warm hole or even a friend with benefits when he lost his second partner. But she was his second partner.

They weren't going with cheap free love though. These were people who put a lot of effort and thought into making it work, and ironically fell into normal relationship pitfalls. Maybe these arrangements are really rare (the exceptions that prove the rule or whatever) but I know what I saw.
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Cedric Pickbanks - Sun, 12 Nov 2017 16:35:04 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.519967 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>519963
Plenty of people say they see it, none ever step forward for perusal. I've seen many more times people hurt by the mad desire for a third over helped.
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otherkevin - Mon, 20 Nov 2017 04:38:18 EST ID:OpyraFTY No.520175 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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the vast majority of people that come through never establish themselves.
i think that anyone with the time to engage with the community on its own terms will find that they can drum up an insightful conversation.
i think that it's unfair to expect strangers to engage with your shit basically on the premise that you want them to.
gotta make it worth their while, one way or another.

tldr; this isn't a therapist's office. lower your expectations.
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Ebenezer Sunnerbeck - Thu, 23 Nov 2017 04:03:00 EST ID:ZMDYtLUz No.520224 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>520175
Doesn't mean your advice can't be retarded, and it is, often.
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Phyllis Dartville - Fri, 24 Nov 2017 15:55:31 EST ID:JE9PIiPq No.520247 Ignore Report Quick Reply
There's no one there
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Albert Sirrysudging - Sat, 25 Nov 2017 10:34:39 EST ID:OpyraFTY No.520256 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>520224
clear case of retardation.
see: semicolon
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Hamilton Fasslewell - Thu, 30 Nov 2017 02:06:43 EST ID:/Be4u+Fy No.520388 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Fucking sick of this banana cunt's face eveyrytime
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Jack Muttingfield - Thu, 30 Nov 2017 23:40:55 EST ID:esuyK5FE No.520402 Ignore Report Quick Reply
unsticky this thread no one is going to be saved from suicide by a qq IRC and the banana is far too tiresome
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James Soblingway - Sun, 03 Dec 2017 11:10:42 EST ID:5mr627pH No.520454 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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the banana is my friend
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d !ipeno1eqFw - Sun, 17 Dec 2017 13:42:55 EST ID:pFLtCPbC No.520704 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518073
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AECH !EfVwyVp5SE - Sun, 17 Dec 2017 13:45:01 EST ID:pFLtCPbC No.520705 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518069
thanks
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Phyllis Fibberwane - Fri, 22 Dec 2017 05:37:11 EST ID:B9o+UJ3t No.520773 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518073
I'm on the server sometimes, and I know for a fact that the only people who even have /qq/ on their auto join are decent people. They wouldn't bother with it to troll as it's dead most of the time. It's basically just there in case someone wants to talk and there are people around. But we're not there all the time.

You have a decent chance of catching me on there any night ~10pm-1am Central.
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Frederick Tillingfoot - Sat, 30 Dec 2017 13:04:02 EST ID:Oc0QiVvJ No.520971 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>520454
It has no idea that you even exist.
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Eliza Tootspear - Mon, 01 Jan 2018 17:57:50 EST ID:h/1sxUpj No.521054 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518073
"She" also turned out to be a 40something year old man.
nb
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Alice Sibberville - Mon, 01 Jan 2018 18:07:04 EST ID:8Ct4z7es No.521057 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>520971

lol
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Reuben Pickford - Tue, 02 Jan 2018 23:07:24 EST ID:B4kGJF8k No.521112 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518069
mind me if i ask how to join the IRC? never use it before
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Reuben Pickford - Tue, 02 Jan 2018 23:09:44 EST ID:B4kGJF8k No.521113 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518069

https://420chan.org/irc/ (didn't help at all) i must be retarded i guess
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Rebecca Porrystone - Wed, 03 Jan 2018 09:00:49 EST ID:USUZpST+ No.521124 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521113
Do you know how to use google?
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Hamilton Blungershaw - Wed, 03 Jan 2018 15:08:27 EST ID:TaHn706/ No.521134 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521124

boogle
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Esther Lightfield - Sat, 06 Jan 2018 08:43:19 EST ID:kAEKpfyQ No.521220 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521113
A link to the board IRC is at the top right corner of the page.
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Caroline Greenstock - Fri, 19 Jan 2018 07:54:19 EST ID:aizVVceY No.521630 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>521220
funt
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Reuben Chuffingdale - Wed, 24 Jan 2018 10:03:10 EST ID:siIHIzFP No.521719 Ignore Report Quick Reply
are you a new mod mintz
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Mintzs !GD3wBpep0Y - Sat, 03 Feb 2018 09:22:28 EST ID:d5kHsYag No.521944 Report Quick Reply
>>521719

Yeah amigo, sorta new.
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Isabella Sangermit - Sat, 10 Feb 2018 21:13:55 EST ID:kB1LgM62 No.522091 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>521944

I, for one, welcome our new overlord Mintzs. May you herald a new age of modding, less akin to a steaming heap, and more alike a golden Hiffwe statue. Praise be!
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Ernest Fuckingfuck - Sun, 11 Feb 2018 19:35:06 EST ID:7IGW3+Ip No.522133 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522091

why doesnt he start by banning the neonazi on /n/ that i reported 6 times
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Ernest Snoddale - Tue, 13 Feb 2018 12:10:29 EST ID:Q3TQO9f4 No.522185 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522133

Because Spunky was the only mod that bothered with /n/ and now he's fallen from grace because of frogposters on proxies constantly bitching about him on /420/
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Clara Drallercocke - Tue, 13 Feb 2018 16:06:10 EST ID:WEiGJLMT No.522197 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522185
you mean because spardot has been drinking the alt right koolaid
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Isabella Saffingville - Tue, 13 Feb 2018 18:31:56 EST ID:ilcXZXCD No.522201 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522185

if you think the criticisms of spunky are coming from frogposters you are talking out of your ass. kirt and spardot have both acknowledged he has been overmodding. he ruined a /lit/ thread by mistake. genuine 420channers had their pitchforks out for him for a little while. they even made that hilarious gem where all the retarded-style mods were comforting brainless spunky
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Ian Bemmleridge - Tue, 13 Feb 2018 21:25:16 EST ID:Q3TQO9f4 No.522204 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522201

That /lit/ thing was because of how nuking works (all your posts everywhere gets deleted), and I'll take Spunky's over-modding over too little modding any day. Remember the 2016 election? If Spunky wasn't around, /n/, /b/ and /pol/ would have been overrun with 15 year-old frogposting cunts and everyone else who weren't retarded or underage would've jumped ship.

The only thing separating this site from 4chodes is that this chan is actually moderated. People who get banned will always bitch and moan about it, however.
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Martha Dinnerbury - Wed, 14 Feb 2018 04:20:19 EST ID:ilcXZXCD No.522215 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522204

all im saying is criticizing spunky, does not mean someone is a frog
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Simon Fanworth - Thu, 15 Feb 2018 09:43:42 EST ID:jmwR2CRr No.522260 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522204

Can spunky please be unleashed upon /b/?

Also I felt like killing myself but I feel better now. #bipolarlife. Wonder how long it will last haha
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Mintzs !GD3wBpep0Y - Thu, 01 Mar 2018 13:40:51 EST ID:d5kHsYag No.522602 Report Quick Reply
I'll keep trying my best for the site to keep it clean.
Please keep reporting if people are being shitheads.

Also, don't forget to drop in and see us on IRC if you're ever lonely and want to talk.
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Eliza Seffingman - Wed, 14 Mar 2018 08:25:48 EST ID:AzHAtHBn No.522800 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>522602

Bless you, mintzs. You give me a faint sliver of hope that we may yet return to our formorous gloriosity... Ah. Well. Have at, and be well!
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Edwin Sicklefoot - Tue, 20 Mar 2018 13:25:11 EST ID:Po6uY38Z No.522924 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522204
youre that guy in /420/, god you fucking people
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Polly Benningnodge - Tue, 20 Mar 2018 18:58:05 EST ID:Q3TQO9f4 No.522945 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522924

Yes, and I am here to persecute you. Better watch out, for I have entered certain suggestive words into the report field so you'll probably be banned any second now.
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Alice Sundlebanks - Wed, 21 Mar 2018 14:41:57 EST ID:Po6uY38Z No.522960 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522945
>persecute

more like obsess when you could user-ignore
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Frederick Cluddleshit - Thu, 22 Mar 2018 15:11:32 EST ID:mhfl7mmC No.522984 Ignore Report Quick Reply
chet - ban
nechet - ne ban
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Frederick Cluddleshit - Thu, 22 Mar 2018 15:13:15 EST ID:mhfl7mmC No.522985 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>522984
рoaврды
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Gail W - Tue, 03 Apr 2018 04:27:11 EST ID:RM0nUBdj No.523250 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518069
It kills me when a super tease wants to ask you what you think of them being with someone else.
The auto response to this kinda bullshit should always be nothing. They'll be like "what?" Exactly what it sounds like I don't think of you and blahblag.

Nb this isn't a problem I just get annoyed easy.
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Wesley Brookworth - Mon, 16 Apr 2018 10:09:50 EST ID:Q2NCY030 No.523482 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>518069
nice, could you send me some money? I'm dry and your talk won't help me but money will. I'm glad you're here for me
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Ebenezer Snodman - Tue, 17 Apr 2018 06:26:12 EST ID:qrma4kyX No.523507 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523482
i dont have money but i can send u my love?
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Angus Gundledale - Tue, 17 Apr 2018 20:53:18 EST ID:vATdGl2v No.523525 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523250
I believe you've nb'd a stickied post my dude
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Cedric Blibberway - Tue, 24 Apr 2018 17:38:22 EST ID:Gsj6KPRg No.523599 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I am in a relationship but i miss my ex. We have similar minds. We both still have feelings for each other. He tries to contact me. Do u believe that you can be friends with someone you still have feengs for?l
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Sidney Greenhood - Wed, 25 Apr 2018 06:17:58 EST ID:4q0D8s60 No.523609 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523599
No, especially if you're in a monogamous relationship with someone else.
Gotta wait for those feelings to die before you can be friends; and that's what it is: death. You must learn to grieve those feelings and accept that they are fading.
Unless somehow you end up being with him again. In that case, good on ya
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Reuben Burringwill - Fri, 27 Apr 2018 13:25:17 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.523668 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523599
Yes it absolutely is.

The way I think of it, unless you were literally only in it for the sex, relationships are predicated on complimentary personalities. Why would you cut someone who complimented your personality out of your life forever just because you don't get to be naked and sweaty with them anymore?
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Augustus Brunningfoot - Fri, 27 Apr 2018 14:05:19 EST ID:glZ6cPk8 No.523669 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523668
Because the reason you bonded before was your complementing personalities, and a straight consequence of that was having sex, which isnt about getting naked and sweaty, is about connecting with the person that compliments your personality.
so if you're in a relationship and happy its a fucking joke to be friends with your ex still, if youre not happy just get out of the relationship and get together again.
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Wesley Cundlestidging - Sat, 28 Apr 2018 11:37:45 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.523710 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523669
Do you have friends that you don't have sex with?
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Hamilton Buzzwell - Sat, 28 Apr 2018 12:00:24 EST ID:FhIorvpc No.523711 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523710
Yes. none of them are girls. why would you not have sex with someone who you are attracted to both physically and emotionally? it's basic human instinct. there's no girl/guy friendship unless one of them is ugly as fuck.
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Wesley Cundlestidging - Sat, 28 Apr 2018 13:22:58 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.523712 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523711
Cause a thing called self control exists, and it's useful if you want to navigate the world.

Wouldn't it be useful even in just the sense that you don't get led around by your dick by people who have far more experience playing sexuality as an advantage than you will ever have?
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Wesley Cundlestidging - Sat, 28 Apr 2018 13:28:20 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.523713 Ignore Report Quick Reply
And I'm not talking like volcel bullshit, I mean just the capacity to not fuck a girl you get along with just cause you get along with them, and at least be vaguely okay with that.

I get it might be hard, but to say it's impossible just means you've never bothered to try.
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Thomas Cusslefoot - Sat, 28 Apr 2018 14:23:51 EST ID:ZeRHOq54 No.523718 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>523711
>it's basic human instinct. there's no girl/guy friendship unless one of them is ugly as fuck.

That's bullshit and you know it, the only people who think this way are insecure men. I've never met a woman or a happy man who thinks like you do. Everything in life is not about sex, we're more than just animals. Sex is just one of many ways to form an emotional bond with someone. If you can't tell the difference between idle lust and genuine love you'll be doomed to a life of the former.
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Hugh Brusslewill - Sat, 28 Apr 2018 15:55:49 EST ID:OHp7Bid0 No.523720 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523718
>That's bullshit and you know it

I think what he meant to say was that there's no girl/guy friendship where both are attractive without one wanting to have sex with the other (even if, realistically speaking, it's not going to happen).

I have never been "just friends" with a girl I find attractive, because I would always be trying to have sex with her and if it didn't work I would ditch the friendship because the blue balls I'd get would be too painful. The only situation in which I could be "friends" with an attractive girl is if she was one of the following:

a) the girlfriend of a friend or relative, in which case it's more of circumstantial friendship and I'd probably not be attracted to her anyway due to her relationship with a friend/relative
b) a lesbian, in which case I'd do my best to get a threesome going or convince her to ride the disco stick at least once in her carpet munching life

That's it. Anyone who tells you any different is either wrong, gay or a total beta stallion.
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Nell Sucklecocke - Sat, 28 Apr 2018 21:22:42 EST ID:2P3gvdxW No.523723 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>I want to have sex with someone. Therefore we can't be friends.
It's not the sex part that's the problem though guys. You know it's the feelings. Despite pretending to be penis enthralled grunts, it's true that men are precious little wildflowers that bloom at the remotest emotional intimacy that they don't get from other blokes. Thats what you men are afraid of when you say you cant be friends with women. Falling in love too soon to any girl that lets you be yourself for 5 minutes around her.

We don't have to have sex with everybody we want to. We don't fall in love with everyone we have sex with. We don't even have to like someone to have sex with them. It's all bullshit to protect your fragile little emotions bros. Take it from a guy preaching the same shit 10 years ago.
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Jack Clayworth - Sat, 28 Apr 2018 22:39:18 EST ID:C+6NY20y No.523724 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523720

now take all of this knowledge and imagine your job is mostly females in yoga pants and you want to bang almost every coworker and you will begin to know my suffering
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Emma Docklelock - Sun, 29 Apr 2018 00:16:12 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.523728 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523720
How is it "alpha" to not be able to handle the mildest sexual tension without pain and misery? The only thing not having a handle on your sex drive makes you is far more likely to become a rapist.

I mean, replace sex with drugs here:
"I have never been 'just friends' with a girl who can get me drugs, because I would always be trying to get drugs off her, and if I couldn't get them I would ditch the friendship because the withdrawals would be too painful."
Does that make you "alpha" or a manipulative fucking addict?
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Hannah Clattingbanks - Sun, 29 Apr 2018 12:47:22 EST ID:HyExONGu No.523739 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523723
Yeah but it's also possible to just be friends with a woman without falling in love.

It's probably easier if you're shit at women and have a lot of practice at not getting hungup on them than if you're used to getting what you want most of the time.
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Wesley Sudgedale - Sun, 29 Apr 2018 23:58:29 EST ID:omtoMFde No.523751 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523739
No shit.

Lol to the second thing though. I dont think anybody ever really gets what they want but if you're having regular satisfying sex, it's a hell of a lot easier to disregard an opposite gender friend's attractiveness.

It's the incels that mow down people in the street after all.
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Nicholas Lightbury - Mon, 30 Apr 2018 08:08:13 EST ID:glZ6cPk8 No.523754 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523718
?
What you're saying is kinda irrelevant especially the last sentence
what i was trying to say is that, to me, it's impossible to be friends with someone that i find attractive sexually. and im not a fucking autistic virgin beta, i have a long term gf and have had my share of girls in my life. i dont even get too upset about "rejection" or try too hard or at all. It's just the fact.
I can't be "friends" and "I want to fuck you" at the same time with someone. To me that's contradicting. I also don't like pointless flirting. girls who have many guy "friends" actually don't, they just tease and flirt with them all the time, endlessly, keeping the guys hopes up. that's "friendship" between attractive guys and girls in my experience.
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Nicholas Lightbury - Mon, 30 Apr 2018 08:12:38 EST ID:glZ6cPk8 No.523755 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523712
but what the fuck is the point being friends with someone, hanging out, just to control my will to fuck her??? I can hang out with guys and that way i dont have to worry about controlling my boner.
its not like I fuck every single girl i talk to, or i think i will, i just dont make friends with the attractive ones, cause why? just to "control" my desire to fuck her all the time? what is the point when you don't have to do that with guys?
if you have to constantly control your feelings around someone you can never be honest friends. If you always think "damn this bitch is fine, i want that ass" in the back of your head you can never be completely honest with that bitch.
It's not about being able to control it, of course i dont go up to every single female aquintance of mine trying to fuck them.
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Rebecca Farringsuck - Mon, 30 Apr 2018 10:55:17 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.523756 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523755
>that way i dont have to worry about controlling my boner
>of course i dont go up to every single female aquintance of mine trying to fuck them

So what you're actually worried about isn't fucking them, but getting a boner in public? Presumably if you were gay, you would have been completely unable to form friendships with guys?
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Nicholas Lightbury - Mon, 30 Apr 2018 11:13:20 EST ID:glZ6cPk8 No.523757 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523756
Omg man. The word "boner" wasnt supposed to be taken literally there.
I'm just saying don't you find it kinda dishonest if you have to "control" your sexual urges all the time around your friend? because if she's a hot girl that's all you can do. So how can you really be friends when she talks about her bf and all you can think about is boi i'd tap dat ass. how does that work? because if you tell her about your desires the friendship is gonna be ruined, if you don't then you're holding your feelings back in front of your friend. That's not a honest friendship to me, more like a game to see who fucks who first, or who rejects who first.
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Nicholas Lightbury - Mon, 30 Apr 2018 11:19:18 EST ID:glZ6cPk8 No.523758 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523757
And thats why i say it only works if one party is ugly as fuck so there's no sexual tension. if there is it can never be an honest friendship because one or both parties will always hide their real reactions and feelings. thats not a fucking friendship
sorry for double post
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Basil Gumblespear - Mon, 30 Apr 2018 22:29:01 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.523777 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523757
>So how can you really be friends when she talks about her bf and all you can think about is boi i'd tap dat ass.

So if one of your guy friends got a hot girlfriend you felt like fucking, you'd have to stop being friends with them You wouldn't be able to be "honest" about fucking his girlfriend, so the only option available to you is to never talk to him, right?
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Fuck Dennerforth - Tue, 01 May 2018 01:23:25 EST ID:JbZ9OEV8 No.523781 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523757
How often do you have sex? Don't you get enough to at least ignore your lust for a few hours?
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Jarvis Dartbanks - Tue, 01 May 2018 11:49:04 EST ID:glZ6cPk8 No.523783 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523781
All the time.
you just dont want to understand the point. its not about having difficulties controlling my desire to fuck them or i feel like its overwhelming or i always think about it, its the fact that they exist and always will exist, because im a heterosexual male and she's a good loking woman. And sexual desire to me has no place in a friendship
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Jarvis Fingerwell - Tue, 01 May 2018 18:07:49 EST ID:Wbtk0bF7 No.523791 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523783
Not even fuck buddies?
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Jack Harringchudge - Tue, 01 May 2018 18:18:33 EST ID:eusxCiqt No.523792 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523783
So feelings are feelings. You cannot control your feelings only how you act on them. I think it's stupid as fuck to be held responsible for feelings. Actions and intentions are different from feelings. If your feelings control you and you have absolutely no control over them then get therapy. You do not have to engage with every feeling you have, they are like ideas. Sometimes you have good ideas that steer you in the right direction and you should seek to encourage such thoughts, while if you have dumb ideas you should learn to acknowledge them briefly then just let them be. If they often occur then change your patterns of behavior and thought so that they become rarer.

I think you're making excuses and this isn't the real reason. Or you're just being a drama queen.
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Wesley Clirringhood - Tue, 01 May 2018 23:21:31 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.523804 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523783
>its not about having difficulties controlling my desire to fuck them or i feel like its overwhelming or i always think about it

Then what IS your problem?

It seems like you've simply defined friendship as having no sexual thoughts whatsoever, and therefor you couldn't possibly be friends with girls, despite the fact that sounds like it would be simple for you. The inconsequential nature of these thoughts is apparently irrelevant.

Are you really discounting half the population from friendship based on absolutely nothing but this vague principle that doesn't make any sense?
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Simon Dragglesadging - Wed, 02 May 2018 05:15:15 EST ID:glZ6cPk8 No.523813 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523804
to me it makes sense, i dont want to secretely/seldom want to fuck my friends... feelsbadman.jpg i'm completely fine with guy friends, girls aren't as fun most of the time anyway. I'm yet to see an IRL scenario where there's real honest friendship between a guy and a girl and the girl isn't just leading the guy on
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Simon Fanville - Thu, 03 May 2018 08:46:46 EST ID:lf45wIaf No.523831 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523813
Just don't go wrassling with your best bro then
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Charlotte Dindlefield - Thu, 03 May 2018 08:50:14 EST ID:glZ6cPk8 No.523832 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523831
that would be bredy gay
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Eliza Brimmleforth - Thu, 03 May 2018 19:05:29 EST ID:GdUFLhMN No.523839 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523813
Get married friends.

I'm feeling suicidal as all get out and hate myself.
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Eliza Brimmleforth - Thu, 03 May 2018 19:06:49 EST ID:GdUFLhMN No.523840 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523839
and I can't log into irc. NB.
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Esther Packleforth - Sat, 05 May 2018 13:22:29 EST ID:hjdKGFK5 No.523869 Ignore Report Quick Reply
i hate everything today
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Caroline Givingson - Sun, 06 May 2018 18:51:53 EST ID:KoTr0pX/ No.523890 Ignore Report Quick Reply
R.I.P. Syn, I understand that he was a good guy and all, but isn't it the time to remove that fucking "Fuck Cancer" post from below the page?
Even Yojimbo didn't got a such a long honor when he died, nobody just gived a single fuck about him to honor his memory!
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Martha Gattingbury - Mon, 07 May 2018 03:02:07 EST ID:yUhAjzvV No.523914 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523890
Yojimbo didn't die
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Hannah Cligglegold - Mon, 07 May 2018 10:53:06 EST ID:hjdKGFK5 No.523922 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523890
the banner stays for at least a year, fuck you!
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Phyllis Ceppernadging - Wed, 09 May 2018 07:24:47 EST ID:USUZpST+ No.523984 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523890
Just use block element.
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Betsy Chullernet - Sat, 12 May 2018 18:22:21 EST ID:im6khaI6 No.524056 Ignore Report Quick Reply
No seriously. Does /asp/ mean anti social personality?

How and where the fuck do I get help without people recognizing my car?
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Charlotte Herringspear - Sun, 13 May 2018 02:16:15 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.524058 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524056
Pretty sure the abbreviation is ASPD. Asp usually just refers to aspies.
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Phineas Tillingwater - Mon, 14 May 2018 03:26:40 EST ID:m19TYEQf No.524070 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524056
>Where the fuck do I get get help without people recognising my car?

Do you live in a small town or is it paranoia you need help with?
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Betsy Drarrywock - Sun, 03 Jun 2018 20:57:22 EST ID:g/HREnuZ No.524588 Ignore Report Quick Reply
My whole ISP has been G-lined, how the fuck am I supposed to connect

Virgin Media is like the biggest ISP in the UK
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Sophie Fuckingfoot - Tue, 05 Jun 2018 07:35:58 EST ID:QsbKOlZ5 No.524628 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524588
Welcome to 420chan. I'm glad at least I can post here, there was a time when my entire broad geographical location was banned from the site.
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Edwin Fenningwater - Tue, 05 Jun 2018 08:00:27 EST ID:USUZpST+ No.524629 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524588
No it hasn't.

t. same ISP
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Nell Granddock - Tue, 05 Jun 2018 12:24:47 EST ID:dsn+wF/X No.524636 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524628
Probably during the russian botnet attack? That was a case of (I would hope regretfully though I imagine it was actually a pretty indifferent action) throwing some baby out to prevent the drowning in bathwater.


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