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How do I Open Relationship! by Sophie Wepperkark - Sun, 12 Nov 2017 22:57:01 EST ID:8ZGXI+3c No.519975 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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I have a girlfriend. She's a lot younger, in her early 20s. Im in my early 30s. We met on a cuddle date and have since fallen in love. I always said I wanted to be open. Im her first relationship. She's an awesome girl! She said ok to being open because she really likes me, but she does not like it, and says she "does not enjoy thinking of me with another woman."

Most women consider me attractive. I'm good looking, tall, fit, white, educated, good career ect. The point is, a lot of girls get interested in me. I really like my girlfriend, but come on I want to me open so I can get with all these other girls. I was also in a committed relationship for most of my 20s so after I left that for the first time in my life now I get to sew my wild oats.

This girl I met at an event was 17 but lied and told me she was 18. She turns 18 for real on later this week and wanted me to take her out. I'm asking to see her ID. Just a dinner, and holding hands date. She's head over heels, and she's hot a fuck, and a giggly teenager. I want to hit it. It's really fucking nice to be my age and have a hot as fuck teen into you. Most guys never get this chance.

That said, I have a girlfriend and although we are open, I have not acted on it much. I know she will hate the idea of me waiting for a girl to turn 18 then start seeing her. So I tell my girlfriend before the date? Or only after I have sex with this 18 year old? Or just tell her after the hand holding date that I might fuck her soon? Do I need to tell her all since we are open?

This seems like a hot situation, and it kind of is, but this drama stuff caused me a lot of anxiety today. I dont think it's wrong if I fuck the teen, but I dont want my girlfriend to get upset. It's a weird situation that causes me stress.

How would you handle the situation if you were in my shoes?
Sophie Sungerdock - Sun, 12 Nov 2017 23:22:41 EST ID:4uGF5XEv No.519977 Ignore Report Quick Reply
cuddle date?
hand holding date?
what the fuck?
Nathaniel Dibbersurk - Mon, 13 Nov 2017 01:18:19 EST ID:zNi4Z9hV No.519978 Ignore Report Quick Reply
fuck teen
dont tell gf

win win
Eugene Gimmleham - Mon, 13 Nov 2017 02:33:22 EST ID:M+WnTWTA No.519979 Ignore Report Quick Reply
How do you meet someone while going on a date with them?
Sophie Wepperkark - Mon, 13 Nov 2017 03:29:47 EST ID:8ZGXI+3c No.519981 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OP here,
Sorry, I met the teen previous at an event. We just talked. Kind of stayed in contact. Now she's back in town and wants to meet with me for a date.
Eliza Deckledock - Mon, 13 Nov 2017 05:52:44 EST ID:Evz4feKy No.519985 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You can only do an open relationship with someone who is on the same page as you. This girl isn't. Don't string her along if she's not into it (even if she initially says she is).

Stay away from dat jailbait. Even if they're near not-jailbait status. Those gals are fucking crazy.
Fucking Clorrywill - Mon, 13 Nov 2017 09:35:00 EST ID:kAEKpfyQ No.519986 Ignore Report Quick Reply

So what you're saying is you have a standing agreement with your gf that allows you to fuck other women and you have a 17 year old girl who wants your dick but is willing to wait until she turns 18 to hop on it and you don't know how to handle this situation?

Come on dude. You know exactly how to handle this situation. You know exactly what's going to happen the second that bitch turns 18.
Sophie Wepperkark - Mon, 13 Nov 2017 16:43:07 EST ID:8ZGXI+3c No.519996 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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OP here,
Holy shit, it felt so hot last night when I talked to teen girl. It just felt good. Later on before bed I jerked off then I started to think "No, too high risk, too high drama."

Today I talked to a friend who I talk about sex and stuff with. He said its hot a fuck, but he would not do it.

I'm starting to think this is a bad idea. My gf wants to come over to nap and in a weird way I dont want her to come over and kiss me ect because I feel guilty even though I have not done anything with teen girl. I just want my gf to get fucked by another man first, so then she will be more ok when I fuck someone else.

But I still have the date scheduled pending seeing that photo ID.
James Soshstine - Mon, 13 Nov 2017 17:43:54 EST ID:dJGuoqo1 No.519999 Ignore Report Quick Reply
lmao you are my ex 4 years ago

break up with your GF, if you want her to be with someone else you shouldn't be with her
if you want to be with someone else you don't want to be with her

oh, and leave the child alone
Edward Sadgefit - Tue, 14 Nov 2017 04:57:53 EST ID:JI9kO00V No.520007 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OP, think about it. Do you think she's just going to dissappear after you guys fuck? Younger women like older guys because we have FAR more experience than anyone their age will. This kind of plays into "getting it".

One thing I've found is that teens are fucking needy. And the hotter she is, the worse off the sex will probably be. Best blowjob I have EVER recieved came from a fat chick.

tl;dr: This sex will be nowhere as good as you think it will be. Just watch the movie Don Juan. I feel this will be you when you finally hit it.
Barnaby Wogglewirk - Tue, 14 Nov 2017 05:26:45 EST ID:0uf2TvAO No.520008 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OP you will eaten by your ego and hedonistic ways - no one will ever love and you will never love anyone and frankly you deserve it
Lydia Blottingpit - Tue, 14 Nov 2017 06:05:13 EST ID:x3g5Z6DX No.520009 Ignore Report Quick Reply
If one of your partners is against the idea of an open relationship, you're fucking doing it wrong
Walter Wedgestock - Wed, 15 Nov 2017 22:54:11 EST ID:Gz+TYri8 No.520047 Ignore Report Quick Reply

What type of fucking loser are you that you are creeping on 17 year old girls at 30? You deserve every bad thing that's coming your way for only thinking with your dick.
Emma Clayham - Wed, 15 Nov 2017 23:59:40 EST ID:qnpf4h+M No.520053 Ignore Report Quick Reply
you're gonna hurt 'em
hope it's worth it.
William Tillingridge - Thu, 16 Nov 2017 03:44:37 EST ID:kmnKAjqT No.520067 Ignore Report Quick Reply
This is why casuals shouldn't do hedonism. Those that can roll with the punches are never the ones that "choose" it.

You already fucked up OP, only thing left to do is to turn into the skid.
Jenny Pockway - Thu, 16 Nov 2017 04:00:44 EST ID:8ZGXI+3c No.520069 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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OP here,
Date with Teen Girl is canceled. She sent me a pic of her ID, and I could tell it was photoshoped. She then had her friends wish her happy birthday on social media, but I did not buy it. In the end she sent me a few pics of her unedited ID at a few angles and yeah she's still 17 for a few months, and she will spend her birthday far away but will come here later to visit family. I feel like a weight has been lifted even though I was about to get hot teen pussy.

Honestly I don't go after younger girls. I find them attractive but the crazy pushes me away. She hit on me. I look really young for 33 and young girls just go after me. My girlfriend is 10 years younger than me, I have a teen cuddle buddy, last year I fucked a hot teen and it was amazing, and I had a different under age girl lie to me.

All my friends think Im the shit for this stuff, but really dont go after these girls, and even though sex is nice and hot, and it's cute to flirt with an attractive young girl, the age does not make them more or less hot to me.
Samuel Pammerpot - Thu, 16 Nov 2017 04:36:09 EST ID:viaB/bNq No.520071 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I think you might benefit from dating a woman that's at least 28 mate.

For your personal development. The environment you choose shapes your growth. You already seem a bit stunted.
Cedric Blinderhood - Thu, 16 Nov 2017 07:43:10 EST ID:Evz4feKy No.520073 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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You fucked up.

And I'm not talking about this situation. I'm talking about your past and your decision making. Keep falling for them young girl's lies. They're not the ones that are going to have to face the consequences. The only people that should be checking IDs are bouncers, cashiers, and bartenders. Otherwise no matter how young you look, on paper you're still an old pervert.

Rather than be obsessed with celebs you should try and focus on yourself for a while. Maybe?
Jenny Pockway - Thu, 16 Nov 2017 17:41:27 EST ID:8ZGXI+3c No.520083 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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OP here,
Well the stunted growth is kind of true. For all of my late teens/20s I was in a relationship so I just flat out never had any dating experience. In these past few years I have been free to sew my wild oats for the first time.

I just never expected girls to be so motivated by sex like men are, be so fucking sneaky about it, or kind of objectify men. Really made me start to see all this feminist stuff as bullshit. Girls are so fucking sneaky when it comes to sex!
Yojimbo - Thu, 16 Nov 2017 19:15:30 EST ID:+UZ7DPH3 No.520088 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You do realize if she was 17 then you're a pedophile
Angus Munderbadge - Fri, 17 Nov 2017 05:33:44 EST ID:Evz4feKy No.520099 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Women cheat just as much as men, if not more. They're just better at keeping their mouths shut though.

Look bruv... it's great that you're getting all this attention on top of having a gf, but if you don't play your cards right you're going to lose it all. Best case scenario you're left single. Worst case Ontario your ass is getting pounded and passed around in jail.

What you should be focusing on is getting your girlfriend to come around to the idea of being in an open relationship. She agreed to it but from the sound of it she isn't into the idea. Either dump her, swap her out for someone who won't get emotional, or get her to see someone else at the same time. If the latter happens you can warm her up to the idea of an open relationship. Getting kinky and sharing what happens with other people on both your parts may help.

Pic related since it's the only thing you seem to respond to.
Fuck Blunningpit - Fri, 17 Nov 2017 09:31:25 EST ID:QB67sPEC No.520107 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OP, the fact you had to put an exclamation mark says it all to me.

>She's an awesome girl!

Get help you raging faggot

Isabella Trotlock - Wed, 29 Nov 2017 02:10:34 EST ID:ehiQjzru No.520371 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Go to circlejerk's r/polyamory. Look at how much drama being in an open relationship causes and how it can break a relationship and then how in denial those people are about it. Not that it can't work, but 9 times out of 10 it won't.
Walter Grimhall - Wed, 29 Nov 2017 06:14:59 EST ID:oXo9Ddud No.520374 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You sound grooooossss. No wonder you have to date young and stupid girls.
Rebecca Hagglenudge - Wed, 29 Nov 2017 12:01:47 EST ID:0PJ7z1R+ No.520379 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Dude don't fuck up that girls first relationship. If you want to bang the teenager, leave your gf alone.
Ebenezer Mobbleled - Fri, 01 Dec 2017 06:49:18 EST ID:JI9kO00V No.520408 Ignore Report Quick Reply
My name's op, and I'm a desperate faggot who has to fuck 18 y/o teens, because everyone my age can smell the bullshit.

Lol op, I cant stand bottom feeders like you, willing to manipulate teenies.
William Fevinggold - Fri, 01 Dec 2017 13:29:56 EST ID:/j1uSyoO No.520414 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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OP, I've been in a open relationship and the rule of thumb for the most part is that is a "no go", my man. A co-worker asked and I turned her down because I knew she liked me and I really enjoyed her company. We made out a couple of time out of drunken shenanigans, but I made it pretty clear to her that was as far as we we're going to go.

Needless to say she stopped talking to me for two weeks and we have remained good friends since almost a year now and she has stopped asking me for sex because I told her it will ruined the relationship and she will be the one to fall for me. We just remained friends till then now and I havent spoken to her in like 2 weeks because I've moved jobs and I kinda seeing someone, but we have gone out to eat like a couple of times the past month. Very rarely will both people say "this is just a open relationship" when in reatlity it isnt because you will start acting like a couple "or the person will" and you guys will talk like your dating. Terrible Idea OP, cant have it both ways. It either date her or just be friends.

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