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I wish my girlfriend would lose some weight by Fanny Goodstone - Wed, 14 Feb 2018 00:53:25 EST ID:sauTrkls No.522206 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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So I'm dating a really great girl who I'm in love with - this is my first real serious relationship with love etc. (I'm 27)
only problem is she's 185 pounds/5.1 feet
good tits/ass, very beautiful face, we have sex almost every day so I AM attracted to her. I just find myself looking at thin women on the street and wishing she could wear what they wear and look like this because looking like a slut + the fact I love her so much would make my dick and maybe whole being explode with pleasure
she knows she's fat she's not one of those fat acceptance feminists but she doesn't actually make effort to change this because of laziness
she half tries... it's just not enough
I don't really know how to approach this because it's not a deal breaker, like I said she's not obese I do enjoy her physically very much
just wish that with all the other good stuff she could also be hot thin slut sonetimes y'know?
if she keeps getting fat it's gonna be a real problem
on the other hand I hate dating, don't think that "hot" women are good partners in general and have experienced sex with hot women (escorts though)
idk these feelings are bothering me - would be unfortunate if the relationship suffers from something she could relatively easily change but doesn't because of laziness
Emma Blackfield - Wed, 14 Feb 2018 01:14:04 EST ID:rpbAQbO4 No.522207 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I'm just saying for myself I don't give a shit how much my partner weighs or if they wouldn't be considered 10/10....none of that shit matters. If I connect with them and I actually love and care for them, they're a fucking 10/10 to me and all that matters. Go and wear yoga pants or short ducking skirts, bikinis whatever the fuck, you still look sexy as fuck to me.
2 cents
Henry Gaddlehall - Wed, 14 Feb 2018 01:34:24 EST ID:sM5nvTHu No.522208 Ignore Report Quick Reply

if she lost weight she would probably find someone else, no offense op but theres a reason why she is with you and why you are with her.

If you want some model type i hope you have a decent 6 pack and have been on roids a few times, jus sayin, because as soon as she loses the weight you want those kinds of guys will pounce.

Just appreciate her for who she is, dont try to improve her, just enjoy the moment man.
Betsy Hublingdot - Wed, 14 Feb 2018 02:02:59 EST ID:Km7nxoPl No.522210 Ignore Report Quick Reply
This. Plus her weight really isn't that bad imo. That's pretty average. Not skinny or like a model at all but just... normal. Take her to the gym maybe or find someone else. No one is perfect.
Ian Pirringstone - Wed, 14 Feb 2018 02:53:00 EST ID:ix6xytiq No.522214 Ignore Report Quick Reply

The best thing you can do is to try to get her to come to the gym with you and go on runs/bike rides with you. If she doesn't want to improve herself it's not good, but it will make you have a better relationship if you are both working to improve yourselves together.

I wish my girl were thicker
Cedric Mankinserk - Wed, 14 Feb 2018 04:51:03 EST ID:COAX7aNZ No.522218 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I wouldn't pressure her into going to the gym, but next time she says she wants to lose weight or brings it up suggest something. Losing weight isn't going to happen without dietary (and drinking changes) though. You'll definitely have to do it with her whatever you do and make sure you're in fine shape too.

A couple of my friends are engaged to women of similar build, they're both very pretty due to awesome genetics and in their situation I'd probably be happy with them because they're both great fun/nice. Ironically the biggest problem from where I sit would be both are smokers. However that said I actively work out and honestly struggle with my weight but I enjoy the health too much to give it up, I guess someone who reciprocates the effort a little would be nicer. I dated a girl who had an amazing body and 10/10 personality but she did not "dress like a slut". If you're not dating someone who wants to show off her body she could just dress how she does now.

If you have a girl sending those signals looking like that she's going to have all the chads pounce. This is pure vanity so I'd say it'd be ironic if that occurred or if she continued to dress modestly because she's not about that. If you get her to make that effort though remember you better be doing something demonstrably equivalent or harder, unless you're already the best dick, funny and working a great job it'll need to be something extra as well. You also better appreciate. This isn't her letting herself go and then working on getting it back in line (which is both reasonable to expect and still a really great thing for a partner to do) this is you moving the expectations. I am just thinking in terms of fairness, but if you are being unfair she's unlikely to be thrilled by that.
Henry Crubbledale - Wed, 14 Feb 2018 04:51:14 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522219 Ignore Report Quick Reply
no runs, but bike rides are amazing if shes capable of that. Eat low fat vegan food WITHOUT oil and cook her meals so that shes less tempted. boom done.
Cedric Mankinserk - Wed, 14 Feb 2018 07:52:42 EST ID:COAX7aNZ No.522227 Ignore Report Quick Reply
185 pounds is pretty average if she's 6 foot 1. 185 is severely but not near morbidly obese. I'm 175-180 pounds and I'm 20% taller, 20% wider boned, 20% bigger organs and I can lift my own weight in several ways. I'm a man but I've known women who could make the same claim.

I'm not trying to sound like I'm having a go but it's not a healthy weight. It's only average if the average is unhealthy. I know a few girls at her weight who work out hard and they're quite fit but they're still at increased risk of cancer and muscular and skeletal related problems.

Though as I said, OP is being vain and selfish, he should consider what he's trying to do and if he'll get the results he expects and what he's offering in return.
Matilda Wattingshit - Thu, 15 Feb 2018 05:34:54 EST ID:1twTBPo0 No.522256 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Thanks for the previous advice - not responding to the posts individually because I'm gonna think about what you said, the specific practical advice too, and implement it to a degree as yet unknown to me because it would also depend on her reactions.
>OP, just wondering, what is your height and weight? you think its fucking easy to change you weight? lets see you set an example for your gf.
yes, it's easy. I developed some very unhealthy eating habbots as well as a liking for beer during my younger years when I had awesome metabolism so just ate whatever didn't gain weight.
later in life this changes - so those unhealthy habbits caused me to gain noticeable weight, I developed a gut.
so I just started eating full healthy two meals a day no snacks no soda only the occasional beer etc.
I don't work out, there's no need. I have almost no body fat after all these years so I a lean sexy look.
she met me at the point of my life when I was already like this but the point is: yes, it's easy to watch what you eat and if you do you'll lise weight.
Betsy Pickhall - Thu, 15 Feb 2018 08:05:50 EST ID:COAX7aNZ No.522259 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>literally 2 sentences into the post
>20% taller, 20% wider boned, 20% bigger organs
Are you one of those people can't read more than the first sentence in a post then loses his shit?

Now maybe you genuinely thought I was saying I'm 7 foot 3 or something. But it's pretty obvious I was saying
>I'm 6 foot 1
>I'm lighter than this girl and I am not underweight
>this is not a good sign
Shitting Babblespear - Thu, 15 Feb 2018 10:18:13 EST ID:ROGlj1oY No.522262 Ignore Report Quick Reply
ehh youre vain and superficial
its ok, i'm going thru the same thing
James Handerfet - Thu, 15 Feb 2018 19:33:05 EST ID:RG/iThmY No.522278 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Not op, but me personally, I go through a lot of effort maintaining my body. I am not lazy. I don't want to date a lazy person. Many people are overweight simply because they eat unhealthy food, eat too much food, and don't work out. If I pass on dating a girl because she's overweight it's not because she's fat, it's because she's lazy. I actually have a thing for fat chicks, but lazy people annoy me, so I mean, yeah. Go figure.
Jack Seddlenurk - Fri, 16 Feb 2018 02:33:43 EST ID:ROGlj1oY No.522290 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OP is strictly talking about wanting his gf wear shit skinny girls wear, thats extremely vain

nice projection though... i guess
Beatrice Crenkinnot - Fri, 16 Feb 2018 03:56:50 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522292 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Don't listen to these guys OP, you have the right to want to play with a girl that looks a certain way that you enjoy. This is not superficial, this is just a desire like any other desire, are you going to call anyone with a desire or a wish a shallow or superficial person, hypocrites?
Jack Seddlenurk - Fri, 16 Feb 2018 09:29:34 EST ID:ROGlj1oY No.522294 Ignore Report Quick Reply
i'm not even judging him, i said i'm going through the same thing but yes having desires about your girlfriend being hotter is superficial
Beatrice Crenkinnot - Fri, 16 Feb 2018 09:40:28 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522295 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You make it sound as if that desire is something op shouldn't have or entertain which is bullshit. How is it vain? and what does vain even mean to you?
Jack Seddlenurk - Fri, 16 Feb 2018 11:01:48 EST ID:ROGlj1oY No.522297 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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i'm rly not
Beatrice Crenkinnot - Fri, 16 Feb 2018 13:07:40 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.522298 Ignore Report Quick Reply
neither is he afaict, he just wants hot bitches to fuck, he doesn't want to be a hot bitch himself and even in that case it would be arguable whether or not that;s vain.
Sidney Hunderfield - Sat, 17 Feb 2018 06:18:18 EST ID:jAXGvxDa No.522318 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I think you have serious psychological issues with women. I think you need to go to therapy. I don't think you are emotionally mature enough at present to have a girlfriend.

Yes, if you want a thin girl that is a legitimate want, there is nothing wrong with a sexual attraction to an adult. The problem is everything else you said besides that.
Ernest Gugglelad - Sat, 17 Feb 2018 08:26:13 EST ID:qjsN1w3c No.522321 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Just tell her. Good communication is key for any relationship. Physical attraction is also key.
Caroline Hembledock - Sat, 17 Feb 2018 09:40:04 EST ID:63ccNEDg No.522325 Ignore Report Quick Reply
can you elaborate? would make sense because I started dating relatively late (when I was around 23) and between 19 until then I fucked trannies and prostitutes (first experiences of everything from kissing to sex was during that time)
so I don't have a "normal history" regarding my sexual/romantic development.
Fuck Gagglestone - Sat, 17 Feb 2018 14:16:27 EST ID:ilcXZXCD No.522331 Ignore Report Quick Reply
wow the white knight faggotry in this thread is far beyond what i expected. why defend fat people? it is their own fault. if OP wishes his gf wasn't so fat that's reasonable. doesn't mean he has "problems" lmao
Lillian Worthingspear - Sun, 18 Feb 2018 23:30:43 EST ID:r6RDja3H No.522371 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Lead by example!
If you're getting super in shape and eating healthy she will join in.

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