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Relationship shit by Henry Clibblesatch - Mon, 07 May 2018 09:13:56 EST ID:A8o246TI No.523917 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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How does one deal with the fact knowing the girlfriend/fiance has sucked other various cocks with the same lips that kiss you, has been dominated by other various men before, has been cummed in her mouth by various other cocks in the past?
This is killing me lol, as funny as it may sound. I will never love her truly and it sucks. To make things worse, she was the one who literally told me about all this stuff in the start of our relationship.
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Barnaby Mudgeket - Mon, 07 May 2018 09:27:53 EST ID:dKJn5NpZ No.523919 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You have more sex.
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Edwin Clommleville - Mon, 07 May 2018 09:40:55 EST ID:6suAgQ1M No.523920 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>she was the one who literally told me about all this stuff in the start of our relationship.
like how? "oh btw before we get serious, you need to know I had sex with other men before I met you"
that's obvious unless you live in a religious community.
deal with it I guess. sex is fun, women have sex. sorry.
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Charlotte Bunson - Mon, 07 May 2018 13:18:08 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.523925 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523917

I guess you gotta distinguish between past and present.

Everyone has their past, everyone has their present.

The two are not the same. It's like calling out Windows 10 for shit it was upto in Windows Vista. I genuinely used to feel how you did, like, if a girl had been up to too much, I didn't feel empowered I suppose? For me, it was more about knowing that I may not be as "good" in a dick size/sexual performance sort of way.

It's insecurity and it's on you bro.

TBH these days I'm pretty happy with a girl who's been about the D in the past but kinda put the more excessive consumption of men regularly behind them. It means they know a lot about sex, are good at it and you can feel good about the fact that your Queen chose you, even though she couldn't be anywhere else right now.

I recommend you reflect on feelings of inadequacy towards other men/women, obsessions with purity/impurity and all the other sexual hang ups that come with being you.

This shit won't help your brain long term bro. I've never met a girl who hasn't fucked other guys before, that shit will just drive you mad.
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Archie Baffingwell - Mon, 07 May 2018 13:49:48 EST ID:dVp8iHEG No.523927 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523920
>sex is dangerous
>women have diseases
>she will ruin you
ftfy
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Archie Baffingwell - Mon, 07 May 2018 13:50:35 EST ID:dVp8iHEG No.523928 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523925
Oh fuck YOU. Past matters. Past is who you are. Live a lie by pretending the past doesn't exist at your peril.
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Hugh Chepperhall - Mon, 07 May 2018 14:55:49 EST ID:huj7hNcx No.523930 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523927
incel detected.
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Hannah Cligglegold - Mon, 07 May 2018 15:12:13 EST ID:hjdKGFK5 No.523931 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523928
yes but she's with you right now instead of the better dick...
you're all so fucking mentally weak, holy fuck
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Archie Baffingwell - Mon, 07 May 2018 15:15:38 EST ID:dVp8iHEG No.523932 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523931
It's called having the self worth to say "No" to a self proclaimed whore.
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Hannah Cligglegold - Mon, 07 May 2018 15:37:06 EST ID:hjdKGFK5 No.523933 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523932
nah it's called being a fuckboi virgin
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Archie Baffingwell - Mon, 07 May 2018 15:44:57 EST ID:dVp8iHEG No.523934 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523933
Sure it is Hannah. Well since I'm bisexual and not a virgin, I wouldn't want to fuck a manwhore or a girlwhore, but you have a fine time with your STDs and HIV over there OK? Please stay out of my area, me and my monogamous partner are enjoying our lives without any diseases or violent drama, thanks ^o^
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Beatrice Dartman - Mon, 07 May 2018 20:13:53 EST ID:hjdKGFK5 No.523937 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523934
will do, enjoy 1834!
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Matilda Hibberchon - Mon, 07 May 2018 20:26:22 EST ID:fh5xuZgB No.523938 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>523937
>anyone who isn't interested in being ride #94782 for the neighborhood cum dumpster must live in 1834
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Beatrice Dartman - Mon, 07 May 2018 21:47:42 EST ID:hjdKGFK5 No.523939 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523938
yup
stay assblasted in víctorian times
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Simon Fuckinglock - Mon, 07 May 2018 22:57:16 EST ID:dVp8iHEG No.523942 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523939
Not him but I'm not assblasted at all. In fact I'm the opposite, because I have someone I trust and know and believe in who has supported me and stood by me and worked with me who I've given myself to fully and completely.

You'll never get that with fly by night sluts. You'll get a hollow hole right where your chest is like that sad guy on /b/ who posted about his addiction to hookers. nb
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Matilda Hibberchon - Mon, 07 May 2018 23:24:12 EST ID:fh5xuZgB No.523944 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>523939
I'm not the guy you were talking to m8, just here to laugh at you
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Esther Hecklekodging - Tue, 08 May 2018 05:54:05 EST ID:EAAVHfAI No.523948 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523942
Fuck off guys please like damn
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Hugh Pockshit - Tue, 08 May 2018 10:09:08 EST ID:aUdigX5R No.523953 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523942
I don't get it. You talk about whores like they werent human. Like it was even a bad thing. I get that about diseases, but if you both get checked and none of you has anything, what's the issue then? Wouldn't you fuck someone if you were into her and she was into you? Fucking a lot people doesn't say anyhing about how trustworthy you are, or how stable or how nice you are. This is like, some old ass christian shit.
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Simon Fuckinglock - Tue, 08 May 2018 12:21:44 EST ID:dVp8iHEG No.523957 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523956
Found the pedo guys
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Beatrice Dartman - Tue, 08 May 2018 13:31:59 EST ID:hjdKGFK5 No.523961 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523957
yeah cus fucking kids is the topic at hand, why do prudes deflect everything?
inb4 "druggie degenerate"
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Jarvis Chizzlefuck - Tue, 08 May 2018 13:42:16 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.523963 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523928

I didn’t say the past doesn’t exist, nor did I say it didn’t matter.

The past matters a lot less than the present does. If you’ve done your wild phase and came out better for it, that’s a good thing. It gives you experience of life, knowledge of what you want etc.

The past is entirely relatively to how you’ve dealt with it and evolved since then. I have a murky past in certain areas and do not feel it reflects who I am now. I am an upgraded operating system compared to that outdated one.

Sorry for triggering you but it’s important to give people an open chance. A girl with no discernible past is just as prone to dumb shit or borderline shit. It’s about giving people a chance if you like them and they have similar values to you towards relationships now.

The past means not much
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Simon Fuckinglock - Tue, 08 May 2018 13:51:34 EST ID:dVp8iHEG No.523964 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523963
Keep pretending that the past is unimportant at your peril, as I've said. Well you said nothing new so I was forced to reiterate.
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Beatrice Dartman - Tue, 08 May 2018 14:37:24 EST ID:hjdKGFK5 No.523966 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523962
>You don't know me at all. But keep pretending. It's funny.
>calls me a pedo out of nowhere a few posts above

you're hypocrisy incarnate, like all prudes
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Cyril Clayshit - Tue, 08 May 2018 15:03:30 EST ID:ij7nWt/j No.523967 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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All women began life as sperm, deep within their dad's balls. They're not cumdumpsters. They are cum.

Therefore, heterosexual sex is the gayest thing you can do. It's like using another man's cum as jerk off lube, if other men had stuck their penises into the cum before you jerked off with it.

Furthermore, if a girl sucks your dick, and years later on your wedding day you kiss her on the mouth, you're gay now. It's homeopathy, simple science. Coming into contact with something infuses the essence of it into it. Scientifically speaking, your girlfriend is a penis for all intents and purposes.

My hand touches dick twice a day for 15 minutes at a time. I'm not gay, so I just never touch that hand, except with my dick, as my dick is already gay :( and therefore a lost cause, incapable of spreading the disease and turning my entire body into a penis, which would be super gay, as I touch my body at least twice a day for 15 minutes at a time, sometimes more if I'm thinking about some cute guy I saw that day.
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Fuck Barddale - Tue, 08 May 2018 15:13:55 EST ID:Pe4kmxV0 No.523969 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523964
Nobody is saying the past is totally irrelevant. You, however, seem stuck in an extremely rigid all-or-nothing mentality that's going to do nothing but hurt you and probably hurt anyone with the misfortune to deal with you. If you can't deal with nuance, you have no business being in a relationship of any kind with anyone.
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Simon Fuckinglock - Tue, 08 May 2018 16:46:01 EST ID:dVp8iHEG No.523971 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523969
You either misread the context of the conversation or you're on the same ideological side as the ones I'm arguing against.

Two people should only be in a relationship if they're relatively equally experienced in bed. Girls dating guys who are pigs, or guys dating girls who are whores, are only hurting themselves. OP needs to know this.
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Frederick Sablinglock - Tue, 08 May 2018 18:35:20 EST ID:WFZ/uYDo No.523972 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>523971
lol what

People should only be in relationships where the other person cares about them as a human being. If you're a virgin and you meet a girl who has slept with however many dudes, literally the worst thing that happens is sex is disappointing to mediocre for her at the start and that's assuming that you're one of those weirdos who doesn't eat pussy, if you finish early that's not ideal obviously but just fucking go down on her dude it's not rocket appliances.

anyway, she teaches you how she likes it, you get better, now the sex is fine to great and whoah you actually care about one another so the relationship is going swimmingly as well.

>>523967
Whenever a guy is naked his dick is touching the air. That means when you breathe, you're breathing in his dick fumes. That's pretty gay guys.
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Martin Druzzlestetch - Tue, 08 May 2018 19:28:28 EST ID:2zlZGpe+ No.523973 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523917

I've learned to never bring up sexual history. It's never a good answer for either person to hear, so why bother. Once a girl let's me know that she's fucked around, I'm done. You stallions can say shit like "She chose me, I must be so special!" But that's not the way I see it. Women who sleep around don't give a shit, they're hedonists like everyone else. They lucked out by finding a guy who values more than their cunt, and they're going to unconsciously use you for all you've got. Welcome to 2018, it's hell.
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Fanny Grimbury - Tue, 08 May 2018 19:49:40 EST ID:3A/9rSkO No.523975 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523974
>people arguing against me is a favor in my point lmao you just care too much
Anyone else dismiss the arguments of people who use tactics like this? Middle school children come up with better.
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Sidney Pivingwater - Tue, 08 May 2018 21:15:29 EST ID:WFZ/uYDo No.523978 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523974
nigga you gotta be trolling. my entire post was saying that even two people with wildly different amounts of sexual experience will be fine as a couple as long as they care about each other, i never said sex was or wasnt important. all i said was you're an idiot for saying "two people should only be in a relationship if they're relatively equally experienced in bed"

i think hookup culture is cancerous and creates deeply unhappy people but going "omg she's had sex with all her longterm partners that she was faithful to for the entirety of their relationship, how can i ever be with her knowing that she's a regular human being with sexual desires?" is fucking ludicrous. your sexual experience (or lack thereof) doesn't matter in terms of whether or not you should date, it's totally irrelevant. it matters insofar as it's about the most intimate thing you can do with another person and i think throwing it around like those shitty bead necklaces at mardi gras is a disservice to everyone involved, but you're just a complete nutter
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Nathaniel Drenderstock - Tue, 08 May 2018 22:10:20 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.523979 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Since you copy pasted this thread from /b/, I will copy paste my reply:

Does she not shower and brush her teeth? Wash her hands? Go to the doctor regularly?

All it sounds like is that her telling you what she's done just makes you aware of what you haven't done, and that's making you irrationally jealous. Why can't you just be the man who's dominating her in the present and enjoy that?
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Walter Bibberstone - Tue, 08 May 2018 23:05:02 EST ID:N3tHkTHy No.523981 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523971
I read you fine. You're cooking up idiotic, moralistic, arbitrary bullshit about what's permissible or appropriate, as if your feelings about what other people are doing with their genitals somehow objectively reflect reality.

And the sad thing is, you could actually be making a reasonable point here; there is one to be made. And that would be, plenty of evidence suggests that a significant experience discrepancy between partners can, and often does, lead to one of them feeling left out, inadequate, insecure, or suchlike, especially if they had some self-worth problems to begin with. And that's going to require a lot more reassurance and compassion, and laughing at them for their feelings or telling them "just stop feeling like that" is counterproductive. You could make that argument.

But you're not. You're just getting butthurt about someone having the audacity to have had more sex than you, and drawing the conclusion that sexual experience is somehow diagnostic of their worth as a person and the value they can (theoretically, of course) bring to a relationship.

An experience disparity stands a good chance of being a challenge. But any two people who are basically healthy and competent and care about each other can overcome that with some effort -- and if you're not healthy, maybe you should be seeing a therapist on the side. (If the relationship seems totally effort-free, the other person is probably faking it and will eventually slide a knife into either your ribs or your wallet.) Regarding someone as a "pig" or a "whore" for having more experience than you, though, really just says you aren't mature enough to have any yourself.
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Eugene Nollerchadging - Wed, 09 May 2018 10:29:08 EST ID:/w81+TdG No.523991 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523973

There is truth in this post. But also plays blind to change.

Some women were sluts then stop.

Some men were sluts then stop.

I’ve seen people who used to slay it, settle down with kids and a partner. People change, they pierce through the emptiness of their consumption. It can happen. Il conceed not all can change, some will behave as you described.

It’s the individual.
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Jack Snodforth - Wed, 09 May 2018 19:28:23 EST ID:vATdGl2v No.523994 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Being jealous of a partner's sexual conquests is a red flag that you should get help, especially if you're a man jealous of a woman . You are just deeply insecure about your lack of experience and it's ruining your current relationship that is producing many sexy times as it is
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Fanny Hodgechock - Wed, 09 May 2018 19:41:25 EST ID:dVp8iHEG No.523995 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523994
Shameful
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Fuck Conkinham - Thu, 10 May 2018 18:38:57 EST ID:593fRQ7a No.524019 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Just pretend to be Christian and rape kids like all the other sick fucks.

Or you know, stop being a brain washed.
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Hedda Fibbletad - Mon, 14 May 2018 12:47:11 EST ID:hLeAUbHa No.524075 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523917
CBT man, you have some cognitive distortions that need rooting out and deleting

General rule, if you find yourself believing something that
  1. you know is fucking illogical and stupid
  2. does not benefit or protect you in any way
  3. actually causes you harm

CBT!
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Shit Nocklewill - Tue, 15 May 2018 08:29:29 EST ID:HQNjUe2o No.524092 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Man wtf is this thread. Let me add some wisdom for your little anons so your life hurts less:

>people don't change
>a bike is a bike
>emotions are the spice of sex
>a hook up is exciting but empty
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Walter Hebblekag - Tue, 15 May 2018 18:29:55 EST ID:kIkRXbnx No.524100 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524092
>people don't change
That's not wisdom. People change all of the time.
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Augustus Mottingforth - Tue, 15 May 2018 19:28:24 EST ID:3A/9rSkO No.524101 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524092
>>524100
Surface personality traits can change but temperament is more about genetics and upbringing.

>In psychology, temperament broadly refers to the aspects of personality which are biologically based, or innate, rather than learned. Babies are typically described by temperament, but longitudinal research in the 1920s began to establish temperament as something which is stable across the lifespan.[1]

Nowadays we have far more intensive research collaborating this, looking into sleeping habits and the clock genes and how they relate to mood reactivity and the onset of major mental illnesses.

https://www.jad-journal.com/article/S0165-0327%2815%2900008-7/abstract?code=jad-site
https://www.jad-journal.com/article/S0165-0327%2814%2900062-7/abstract
https://www.nature.com/articles/npp2009230
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0304394008012305
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/ajmg.b.30602
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/ajmg.b.30601
https://www.europeanneuropsychopharmacology.com/article/S0924-977X%2807%2900081-8/abstract
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/j.1399-5618.2010.00843.x
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Charlotte Ciffingchere - Wed, 16 May 2018 00:45:35 EST ID:0PJ7z1R+ No.524104 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524100

You're gonna get hurt real bad thinking like that. Good luck.
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Frederick Merringchud - Wed, 16 May 2018 14:50:44 EST ID:+Za00QQ9 No.524108 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524101
Yes and no. If people get a sharp shock they can change a bit. Their core personality doesn't change but if assumptions they made about the world change they may find they suddenly think and act differently about a few things. If they had that assumption all along they'd have been like that all along. Saying people can't change at their core is fine, saying they'll always do the same things and have the same relationships is bullshit though. Saying that you should be cautious about these people is okay, don't get me wrong. I just think this feels like there's an argument going on between two points and the reality is clearly in the middle.

People would say I've changed. My approach and attitude to life have changed, how I treat people has changed, the way I view groups has changed. I have not really changed but the assumptions I base my behavior on are different and so a lot of the results, actions I take and things I value have changed. But at the same time I am recognisable as me in a lot of ways.

Now if you assume someone did one thing so they'll always do that thing you're dumb. However people don't just change out of nowhere and they're really just the same person. A previous slut might find someone who changes their entire view on relationships, they're not different, they've just realised that there's a higher level of enjoyment from this new approach than they previously assumed was possible.

The crucial thing though is what effect this has on the world. People can alter their behavior and decisions in such a way that it alters the nature of their relationships and lives.

Now if I was dating someone and they'd slept with a bunch of people that wouldn't bother me enough for me to seriously considering bailing on that alone. If they felt the need to casually bring it up for no reason I would on the other hand consider that a red flag.
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Doris Trotworth - Wed, 16 May 2018 15:26:55 EST ID:dVp8iHEG No.524109 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524108
*high af right now*
Once a friend told me I "changed", during a fight we had. I told him to go fuck himself pretty much. I hadn't changed at all. I just had started speaking my mind. I was being true to myself, if anything. Little bitch pissed me off so much, I really hated that guy but put up with him for a long time because he was cute.
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Archie Seckleford - Wed, 16 May 2018 15:30:21 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.524110 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524101

Nah fam I know plenty of people who went from thug/high volume sex to gentleman.

Know girls who went from proper slut shit to settled down long term, boyfriend and wholesome stuff.

You full of shit but at the same time not. Id say a good measure of someone is the previous 3 years.
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Molly Guddlehall - Wed, 16 May 2018 20:18:14 EST ID:0PJ7z1R+ No.524113 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524108
>>524110

There's a reason why a slut finds it hard to maintain a long term relationship. It's part of their nature.

And those that "changed," I guarantee that if a better partner comes along, that they still qualify for, the slut will give it up because that's just who they are at their core. Enter an LTR with them at your own peril. If you marry one, you deserve to lose 50% of your property.
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Albert Dadgeson - Thu, 17 May 2018 00:33:15 EST ID:kIkRXbnx No.524119 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524113
Re-read your own bullshit mate. It's hateful. You aren't a good person. Maybe that's why you don't have anyone.
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Nigel Femmlehed - Thu, 17 May 2018 01:27:55 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.524120 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524113
If you marry anyone you deserve to lose 50% of your property, because that's basically all marriage is for nowadays for either gender.

But what you're saying about relationships doesn't make sense. Firstly, a "slut" in the traditional sense of someone who likes sex with lots of people, that doesn't necessitate them not being able to hold down a relationship so long as the person they're with knows they like to do that and is fine with it. You probably aren't fine with it. But that's your problem to deal with, not the slut's. Necessitating your partner change what bothers you makes as much sense as them expecting you to be fine with it. If one's bad, the other is bad.

Secondly, of course there are people who manipulate their partners and run from relationship to relationship. They'd do that whether or not they were fucking around. They do it by, you know, manipulation. Those people tend not to even enjoy fucking around, they only do it because it gets them where they want to be.

So yeah, narcissists may be sluts, but sluts aren't inherently narcissists.
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Molly Grimhall - Thu, 17 May 2018 05:33:58 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.524122 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524113

Dumb observation. Plenty of people are capable of cheating or getting bored and leaving when a better model shows up. That behaviour isn’t exactly indicative of a slut past. Midlife crisis, unsatisfactory partner, unfulfilled goals, they settled for you and your sexual ineptitude... there are tons of great reasons why your future non slut wife is gonna leave you, hahahaha.

I ain’t gonna lie. I do feel there are valid observations to make about why a girl who was a slut isn’t an ideal partner. But it’s very much about how they grew from that experience - for some they become cold inside and for others, they value the love of someone.

Your shitty hostile attitudes are pretty transparent. You project this long winded, pseudo psychological narrative that tries it’s best to sound like a legitimate argument onto a whole spectrum of society. You do not even allow for exceptions.

This is basically your version of calling someone jolly african-american. This is hate speech. Basically racism.

I guess you felt inferior and rejected by women, so now you do this. Just like white supremacists.
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Betsy Hangerlare - Thu, 17 May 2018 13:04:06 EST ID:+Za00QQ9 No.524133 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524122
I think you're over projecting. This guy is more bitter than mescaline cactus but we don't even know it's a guy. Ad hominen doesn't really prove much except you feel you have something to prove.
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David Fedgefudge - Thu, 17 May 2018 20:45:48 EST ID:0PJ7z1R+ No.524146 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524119

I got 2 mate, and I never claimed to be a good person.

>>524120

What I'm stating is for people who are promiscuous, for instance I guy I know juggling 4 girls atm, I don't think he could actually pull off a traditional relationship between 2 people under the standard contract of, "We aren't fucking other people."

My ex has a 35 year old sister who hops between "serious relationships" at a rapid pace because she get's bored as fuck in a hurry and chases after that new cock that resembles the daddy that walked out on her at a young age. The sad sack she lands later in life, if she ever does, is going to be cheated on as soon as chad mcfootlong grabs her ass and tells her to meet up in the alleyway behind the bar.

>>524122

Salty as fuck famalam. The truth stings.
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Fuck Cemmerham - Thu, 17 May 2018 23:39:44 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.524147 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524146
>What I'm stating is for people who are promiscuous, for instance I guy I know juggling 4 girls

But what I'm asking is if your definition of "promiscuous" is just about the having lots of sex, or is it inherently about this transgressing of relationship boundaries?

Cause you know, the latter is inherently manipulative, and the former isn't.
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Fuck Cemmerham - Fri, 18 May 2018 01:31:25 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.524149 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524148
Then I disagree. It often goes against the terms of a relationship, but not necessarily, and therefor if you think it does then that simply speaks to the fact that you don't want relationships on those terms.
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Fuck Cemmerham - Fri, 18 May 2018 01:32:58 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.524150 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524149
Unless you're literally only speaking on the level of statistical frequency, in which case I agree but can't understand the morality/disgust aspect of your argument.
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Fuck Cemmerham - Fri, 18 May 2018 08:09:40 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.524153 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>524151
What I also don't understand is this tallying of sexual encounters as if you can render someone's life into statistics.

I mean, is it at all interesting to tally your drug experiences for any other reason than dick-measuring? If you actually like taking drugs, you're gonna talk about singular significant experiences, or why you like taking them and how they make you feel. Those are the interesting parts. The number is only relevant when compared to other numbers.

This reminds me of the Alan Watts quote, people aren't really materialist today, they're abstractionist. If you really want to be a hedonist, why care about the numbers? Enjoy the reality you actually possess.

Also for the first time I can actually post a TISM song and both it's relevant and someone will probably remember it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ENnAa7rqtBM
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Emma Cruggleshaw - Fri, 18 May 2018 16:14:40 EST ID:dVp8iHEG No.524161 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524153
If the girl I'm shooting for used to use heroin every weekend, it will not affect my opinion of her in the same way as if she was a daily user/junkie.

Get off your high horse (Even though there's a dildo strapped to the saddle).
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Graham Cingerfack - Fri, 18 May 2018 20:48:41 EST ID:VtZdLiJr No.524162 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524161
Woman A is 25 years old and has slept with 100 people. Some men and some women. Although she has slowed down due to a previous relationship and in the 3 months she has been single has had sex with 5 people whereas she was faithful to her partner for 2 years.

Woman B is 20 years old and has slept with 50 people since she lost her virginity 2 years ago. She was actively trying to fuck as many people as possible.

Woman C is 30 and has never had a relationship. She says has slept with two men before but she is murky on the details and gets angered thinking about it.

Woman D is 22 year old virgin and devoutly religious. She quotes the bible and think most people are going to hell.

Who do you marry????????

Lol. This isn't how relationships work. It's not a game of statistics and probability. It's about teambuilding. Who is the best asset for you? It could be any one of those women. You just don't know because all you know are the most basic superficial details about how many times they have sex. It's only one element in how they interact with the world. You aren't just a statistic mate. You could have a great marriage if you found a significant partner and wanted to.

Generalisations feel good because they are easy but human beings are chaotic by nature and can't conform to any rule as they will break them out of spite or any other emotion really.
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Martha Dricklemud - Sat, 19 May 2018 01:50:38 EST ID:dVp8iHEG No.524168 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524166
If I make a vow to only like red, does that mean non-red things are immoral?
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Nicholas Gindershit - Sat, 19 May 2018 04:33:30 EST ID:RNr1UAS3 No.524171 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524165
Ah, so you are worried about what other people think.

It’s just insecure guy, after all that...

I hope you find the girl of your dreams... less than 10 people

Plenty out there tbh. My last 2 relationships were with girls who had only had sex with 1 other person before me. Grab em post school/start of university if you want. Usually smart girls with boobs and a bit of sexiness but still understated. These women are great.

But now I’m not so fussed. I’m older, I realised that lives just moved differently and those girls left me so it’s not like girls are more loyal if they’ve fucked less people. If anything I’m sure it drove my ex to leave just to doscover what lay on other pastures....
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Cyril Miffingmotch - Sat, 19 May 2018 09:29:10 EST ID:0PJ7z1R+ No.524176 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524149
>>524150

>can't understand the morality/disgust aspect of your argument.

The disgust aspect comes from my disbelief that other people disagree that the past does not reflect future performance. To me it's as clear as day. I do not believe people change beyond the shallow waters they show to the world. The depth of that ocean is the same ocean it's always been.

The argument that the youth changes as they get older is false. Their actions from youth forwards are them slowly getting comfortable in their own skin and dropping their mask.

But I do agree people can be forced to change. If you mentally break them it forces a change, like the military during boot camp, or breaking a racing horse. But that's entirely different from what we're talking about.
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Graham Cingerfack - Sat, 19 May 2018 09:58:17 EST ID:VtZdLiJr No.524179 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524176
So are you letting yourself off the hook too? You don't need to change because you can't? So you're just getting comfortable with being a shitty person?

I mean take them off all of the way then and relax.
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Cyril Miffingmotch - Sat, 19 May 2018 11:02:02 EST ID:0PJ7z1R+ No.524182 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524179

I like who I am. Not everything, but it comes with the full package. When you accept yourself, you accept the negatives as well. And there are always negatives.
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Samuel Pittspear - Sat, 19 May 2018 13:04:02 EST ID:yqJgzgN7 No.524185 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523917
my girlfriend was a virgin from Poland that has only kissed one other guy previously, and my dick is the first one she has ever touched
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Awe !!vVWR8L52 - Sat, 19 May 2018 16:20:24 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.524187 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523975
haha, You aren't even replying to my post dude and no, I'm not in middleschool nor would I know what that is.
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Nathaniel Grandway - Sun, 20 May 2018 04:51:47 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.524196 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524176
>The argument that the youth changes as they get older is false. Their actions from youth forwards are them slowly getting comfortable in their own skin and dropping their mask.

So you don't think anyone learns from their mistakes, or develops different goals or at all changes their course of actions, everyone is simply following the trajectory set in their teenage years?
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Phyllis Brandlefuck - Mon, 21 May 2018 06:16:38 EST ID:3A/9rSkO No.524226 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524189
>>524108
>>524196
Temperament is the anvil on which personality is forged. It shapes the development of your personality whether you like it or not. This isn't the same as saying personalities can't change. You can always shape a billet into something new. But the anvil doesn't change. And the anvil is set in stone at a young age.
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Spicy Meat - Mon, 01 Oct 2018 15:38:59 EST ID:JApIaCT6 No.526895 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>How does one deal with the fact knowing the girlfriend/fiance has sucked other various cocks with the same lips that kiss you, has been dominated by other various men before, has been cummed in her mouth by various other cocks in the past?

The only way you'll conquer this is if you plow through enough women yourself to not care. Its hard to be mad at a girl who's fucked 20 dudes in one summer if your lifetime total is 70+

A girl who tells me about the time she kissed a girl once is laughable to a guy who fucked a dudes wife.

A girl who says she's into bdsm and has been tied up once is laughable to a guy who tied a girl to a chair and jerked off on her three times and let semen dry on her body.

You only "win" by being better, otherwise enjoy hiding that insecurity from your girl
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Phineas Chebberhore - Mon, 01 Oct 2018 17:22:36 EST ID:LVLZpkrK No.526897 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>524226

You're wrong.
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William Fanman - Mon, 01 Oct 2018 18:43:51 EST ID:jnas4L6T No.526899 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OP you realize this psychotic obsession could be applied to every human on the earth right? Think about it, every single person poops, pees, farts, and gets all kinds of sexual fluids on themselves, on their hands. Think of how many times something gross has been on your hands. How many times you accidentally got a little cum, piss, shit, or other gross stuff on your hands. You might say "but you can wash your hands!!" well you can wash your vagina too. The microscopic level of the other mens' cells will wash and slough off over time, just like poop and pee. Do you go into a restaurant and think "how can i enjoy this food when the chef has touched HUMAN FECES over 100 times in his life!?"
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Nell Tootson - Mon, 01 Oct 2018 19:05:02 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.526900 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526895

Sounds like overcompensating but there is a measure of truth to it.

Girl can't make you insecure if you've gone off and done your own thing too.
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Ian Messleforth - Mon, 01 Oct 2018 20:13:58 EST ID:NJkLq9MW No.526902 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523917
in short, i think you need to be honest if it comes from insecurity, but i also think you need to honour your feelings as your own. this does not make you bad. i do think it is a bad thing generally to have the track record of a prostitute.
other people aren't better than you if they find it's fine to date a wife that fucked the whole town before she fucked him. listen to yourself, don't shame yourself for feeling this way because it's better, generally, to be exclusive and pursue relationships of quality. not to say that all long terms are good and all short terms are bad. generally speaking though if you engage with a woman for an extended period of time and get to know and appreciate her more than just physically and briefly youll find that that is much, much better than short term things. the more you engage with debased behaviour the more you become debased. that being said, sometimes casual sex is good. ultimately it is a case by case basis, whether something is good or bad, but the pieces fall as such such that casual sex tends to a degraded nature and the soul melding is of an uplifting one.

listen to yourself. if it feels bad, get out because you wont change how you feel by shaming yourself or forcing yourself to be ok with something youre just not ok with. you want a girl who has had less dick in and around her mouth, this isn't bad. as i said though be honest with yourself and maybe consider the underlying reasons for why this goes on. if you discontinue do it respectfully.

another thing: if your girl murdered someone and then genuinely repents of it, is it so weird to not want to have anything to do with her? maybe she's learned but eh, it's your decision, which is just as valid as hers. you should be ok with one another, find someone youre ok with
if i had a cool girl who for instance used to be in a heavy s&m thing, like all manner of domination, then yes that's a deal breaker for me. i won't apologize for that

in short what you're feeling is going on in you, and you should honour that. it is however not pleasant to date a girl who has had miles and miles of dick, and these are legitimate grounds for judgement for what you want in a partner. it doesnt make you better, nor does a willing stallionold have the right to claim he is better than you because he lets his wife get plowed by men from craigslist

my 2c. even though pennies were made illegal in the great canadian war of the goose
best of luck lad
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Spicy Meat - Mon, 01 Oct 2018 22:11:50 EST ID:+Dxwg5ZQ No.526905 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526900
>Sounds like overcompensating

Desperate times call for desperate measures
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Edward Wackleville - Tue, 02 Oct 2018 03:33:36 EST ID:20tVjWfD No.526908 Ignore Report Quick Reply
This thread was both entertaining and highly depressing because it is a pure exemplification on human nature. Everybody is both right and full of shit at the same time, and it is all just so ultimately petty.

I've only known of sexual conquest working to get dudes out of that kind of mindset though. So maybe you need to break up OP and go and have your fun then come back to her or someone else when you're more mature and have grown more. Otherwise, I don't see how the relationship will work if you are a boiling pot of insecurity and jealousy. You're going into the relationship not as equal or superior but as an inferior to her. You're going to get the shit end of the stick at some point.
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Matilda Gazzlelerk - Mon, 15 Oct 2018 23:16:44 EST ID:bHQi7ZX+ No.527195 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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shit like this about my girl wouldn't bother me 1/10th as much as it does if we had any sort of regular sex. she's told me about how sex was always a daily thing in all her past relationships and to talking about how much she even just enjoyed giving head. meanwhile here it's a hot month if anything happens twice in four weeks. in a near 3 year relationship I can count on one hand how many times she's blown me.
it feels like I must be the least attractive man in the world by a long shot. i feel pathetic and humiliated and retarded for even caring but at this point im so frustrated I can't fucking help it at all. i cant sleep for hours laying in bed like a god damn pussy mulling over all this shit ive got in my head
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Augustus Mattingcocke - Mon, 15 Oct 2018 23:55:16 EST ID:xeQtH2nf No.527197 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527195

Take her on dates. Keep dating her, forever, like once a week or once every other week. Change things up every once in a while. Communicate, ask her why she isn't interested in sleeping with you as much as she's talked about enjoying sex? Try to find out what's wrong. Initiate sex more. Maintain more confidence.

Start trying to identify and solve the problem, because there's a problem mang. My first guess is you're too comfortable in your relationship and she's not really getting emotionally fulfilled enough right now. The couple that has more fun together will have more sex. Don't just live day in and day out and treat her like a roommate. Twice a month isn't going to cut it. Studies show happiness keeps going up from more sex until you hit the once a week mark.
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Shit Billingdale - Tue, 16 Oct 2018 10:18:30 EST ID:FzibHVoI No.527209 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523917

Girls have told me about their sexual past and the shit they've done.

I used to care. Then I went out of my way to get my notch count into the 70s and had degenerate sex involving peeing, threesomes, BDSM, swinging, fucking peoples wives and girlfriends, cheating on women. I did a deep dive into degeneracy and honestly I could always do a little more.

Anyways I'm pretty unphased now solely for the fact that I've done more fucked up shit than a lot of "sluts" have. Sure there's the occasional turbo slut with a 100+ notch count who will best me but I really could give two shits if some college girl let a dude she just met cum inside her mouth--I've actually peed on a girl before so that shit is amateur to me.

I conquered the disgusting monster by being an even worse monster.

Being a selfish manipulative asshole has its perks aye
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Priscilla Wabbleman - Thu, 18 Oct 2018 08:38:20 EST ID:jeyD+EBD No.527270 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527209
So you are turning yourself into a turboslut so that you have more dating opportunities? I mean yeah smart plan.

You piss on a girl, and then you're a dark lord all of a sudden. Then nothing can hurt you. Yeah man right on. Hahaha
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Reuben Suddlefidge - Thu, 18 Oct 2018 18:55:15 EST ID:IV9dlIIT No.527293 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527197
this guy gets it. just because you get into a relationship doesn't mean it doesn't need maintenance.
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Nigel Dammlenad - Thu, 18 Oct 2018 19:53:19 EST ID:N8SnPlnn No.527294 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527209
What are the downsides?
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Ebenezer Wavingcocke - Thu, 18 Oct 2018 21:17:23 EST ID:asgjCqsC No.527296 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>527294
So yeah that guy has to feel like he's in control, which is normal, so he's got this idea that he's a bad guy and using everyone around him. They are they masses and he is above them and fucking them over because he has to. Because he's a monster and that's the only way he can live in this world

Truth is he's just a dude going through some shit and he's done some shitty things but who hasn't?
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Charlotte Shakebury - Thu, 18 Oct 2018 22:53:39 EST ID:GiCOfox9 No.527298 Ignore Report Quick Reply
you can get over her sucking dick by you sucking dick
it's not really dirty, tho genitals have funny smells
don't be such an uptight bitch about it
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James Crebbershit - Sat, 20 Oct 2018 11:07:49 EST ID:TGBxjEDz No.527337 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>523981
Based Walter


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