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Brothers a weirdo by Edward Gossleway - Sun, 08 Jul 2018 17:04:35 EST ID:OWx1ClP7 No.525399 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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My brother

>23
>sells drugs
>has the oddest outlook on life I’ve ever heard
>claims he hasn’t felt joy in life since he was 10
>says he makes up stories about his life to pass the time and we know nothing about him
>lives in the city about a half hr away, only comes home maybe 4 or 5 times a year
>hangs out with a bunch of communists
>claims that he’d prefer the family just dropped him and he died alone
>envies a near death situation I had, says he would have just died so he can reincarnate
>says he hasn’t cared about the family since he was 18
>views everyone as a cog in the system
>says that I’m the equivalent in his mind of an old coworker

I told him I loved him and he said it’s not reciprocated. I was kind of abusive to him but it’s just typical older brother shit. He had a pretty normal childhood besides being slightly goofy and always playing the victim

I’m honestly fucking worried about this kid, what should I do?
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Oliver Bripperlet - Sun, 08 Jul 2018 17:06:32 EST ID:USUZpST+ No.525400 Ignore Report Quick Reply
why cant you just leave me alone man
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George Bingerwell - Sun, 08 Jul 2018 17:40:07 EST ID:ka63e54W No.525401 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Nothing

Rnd of thread
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James Chiggledale - Sun, 08 Jul 2018 18:45:26 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.525402 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525400
lol, but this, give the man some peace.
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Ernest Nendleford - Mon, 09 Jul 2018 08:09:38 EST ID:UDTudbJG No.525404 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Look man. Think about it. The guy has been weird all of his life. He's dealt with a lot of disrespect over the years. Some from you but probably more from others. He knows you don't understand him and he knows that you don't respect his worldview. He knows that you think that he should be over his issues already. But he isn't.

Lip service isn't enough mate. It rings hollow.

You have to build a new kind of relationship with him. One based on understanding. One constructed in the present.
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Beatrice Breshlure - Mon, 09 Jul 2018 09:16:44 EST ID:ka63e54W No.525406 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525404
Holy fuck you are insufferable but essentially correct

OP tell us, why would he want to emulate you?
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Samuel Bendletidge - Mon, 09 Jul 2018 13:42:49 EST ID:ehhnNOgT No.525408 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525399
Leave him alone. Sounds like you've done enough damage already.
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Betsy Cridgesed - Mon, 09 Jul 2018 23:03:52 EST ID:sTIjf0j3 No.525411 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525406
>insufferable
What?
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Hannah Bluzzlepack - Tue, 10 Jul 2018 00:03:49 EST ID:OWx1ClP7 No.525412 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525406
The thing is we talk pretty regularly and the conversation seems normal, but occasionally he says this kind of stuff but this was the most about it hes said.


>>525406
When did I imply he should emulate me?
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Barnaby Tillingshit - Tue, 10 Jul 2018 16:18:50 EST ID:o8tIe2Jr No.525415 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>has the oddest outlook on life I’ve ever heard

This is just regular depression
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Lillian Divingpit - Wed, 11 Jul 2018 01:15:39 EST ID:OWx1ClP7 No.525423 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525415
How can I help him fix it? Pretty sure any attempt by me or by most people is seen by him as some ego stroking like "I fixed this kid" or "If he isnt sad I can feel better about myself" but it isnt that at all, im legitimately concerned.
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Beatrice Claystock - Wed, 11 Jul 2018 02:44:27 EST ID:4GThw1az No.525426 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525423
Geez mate do some research about mental illness and the myths surrounding it. Talking about him "fixing it" will get you shot around here. He doesn't have a cold.

Look the main thing is not to judge him and minimize his experience. Just hang out with him and explore any kooky ideas when he brings them up. He just needs someone to talk to that won't recoil in horror.
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Wesley Drabblecocke - Wed, 11 Jul 2018 04:01:54 EST ID:6m+sS69H No.525427 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525423
IDK if you're asking for advice on how to talk to your brother on QQ maybe you should just treat him neutrally like an acquaintance, believe him when he says you don't know shit about him, not worry about him etcetera
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Willingly Wilford - Wed, 11 Jul 2018 04:21:54 EST ID:kPK7t16O No.525428 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525426
This guy has some good advice.

If you have an idea that you can just pull him back into the fold of family bonds then you're probably just going to push him further. He likened you to a former workmate/colleague, that should tell you something about how he viewed being a part of the family. He hangs out with communists? Define that. Are they hippies who live communally? Maybe they have something to offer like acceptance, honestly, etc.

You don't have to be his big brother, you're both adults now and for all you know you have a lot you could learn from him too. You haven't left us with a lot of reasons why your personality isn't equally concerning, to be frank.
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Caroline Gendlekotch - Thu, 12 Jul 2018 00:20:14 EST ID:OWx1ClP7 No.525438 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525428
He hangs out with weird hipsters who are antifa and go to protests. I don't agree with the lifestyle at all but I'll turn an eye to it.

I think i'm gonna try to get him to play some nerdy tabletop rpgs soon, hes loved this stuff for years and has invited me to play occasionally over the years, ive always blown it off. I played munchkin with him and some friends not that long ago, i think im gonna try to play some dnd with him and than try to get him to come play warhammer with me and some friends.
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Caroline Gendlekotch - Thu, 12 Jul 2018 00:25:05 EST ID:OWx1ClP7 No.525439 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525428
>You haven't left us with a lot of reasons why your personality isn't equally concerning, to be frank.

I used to be super drunk all the time and had alot of mental issues, I can see why he doesnt want to be associated with me. I already explained his political views, im extremely conservative and he views me as some sort of alt righter or redpiller type. I've grown up alot but he doesnt see that because he tuned me out years ago

that being said, we have many of the same interests, namely video games and tabletops and electronic music. I'm more into dubstep and hes more into house, this also raises issues. I deeply appreciate and respect house but he views dubstep/festival life as rape culture or something along those lines.
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Jenny Pallyhall - Thu, 12 Jul 2018 01:04:01 EST ID:EAInNdJP No.525442 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525439

Oh god, please don't try to get through to people like this.

I miss when the left wing was about fighting scab labor and promoting fair wages to manual laborers. Now it's a bunch of kooky freaks that are confused about their own genitals.
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Caroline Gendlekotch - Thu, 12 Jul 2018 01:45:39 EST ID:OWx1ClP7 No.525443 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525442
I blame my ex from highschool, whose his best friend, and a die-hard antifa feminist for getting him to think this shit. It’s like some weird elitist post-college hipster communists who won’t hang out with you unless you’re a die hard Marxist, it went from “I’m prettier/more popular than those kids” to “my political views are more just, these Bernie bros are oppressors because they are not left enough” type shit
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Doris Bankinman - Thu, 12 Jul 2018 12:55:23 EST ID:jhxT8BUJ No.525450 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525439
but house music is SO much better...
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Hedda Grimlock - Thu, 12 Jul 2018 16:09:41 EST ID:ILEoj0Ud No.525455 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525443
>>525442
>>525439
If this is the way you approach him you'll never get him back. No wonder he thinks you're epig alt right, I bet you have folders full of bog memes and invest in bitcoin too.
Lay off the 2018 and reassess your position a little.
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Hedda Grimlock - Thu, 12 Jul 2018 16:09:41 EST ID:ILEoj0Ud No.525456 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525443
>>525442
>>525439
If this is the way you approach him you'll never get him back. No wonder he thinks you're epig alt right, I bet you have folders full of bog memes and invest in bitcoin too.
Lay off the 2018 and reassess your position a little.
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Augustus Clablingkurk - Thu, 12 Jul 2018 16:53:37 EST ID:tcVrjtWy No.525457 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525456
???? ??????
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Nicholas Grimdale - Thu, 12 Jul 2018 19:25:16 EST ID:u7Ks9+5J No.525458 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525399
It sounds like your brother went to college
/endjoke

Your idea of hanging out with him is a good one. He definitely is depressed about how things went with your family based off what you said so patching shit up with him is definitely something that needs to be handled very delicately.
I don't know how you will do this, but try to sort out the root of the issues he has with your FIRST then your family. Once you regain his trust and liking he will likely reveal the answer to his issues to you. Be patient and try to "play into his hand" so to speak. I mean this innocently and for the greater good of course.
Good luck.

p.s make your first goal to get him to change his crowd.
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Eugene Pendersane - Thu, 12 Jul 2018 21:19:21 EST ID:ehhnNOgT No.525462 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525457
I think he's trying to say that the reason they don't get along is because his brother is much smarter than OP and is capable of thinking for himself and has a moral code of his own while OP is a mindless automaton that attempts to order the world into a simple and straightforward way of thinking given to him by others that validates his own ego. The latter may be more effective at staving off depression, but it sure as shit doesn't make you a better person. They will never be able to see eye to eye because OP lacks the intellectual abilities required to see things from another person's perspective or accept truths that run antithetical to his ego serving delusions.
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Rebecca Cenderfat - Fri, 13 Jul 2018 03:00:58 EST ID:ILEoj0Ud No.525468 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525462
Shut the fuck up you autist.

>>525457
Take a break from the internet and learn how to accept people as they come. Or go off, overemotionally react like you do on the internet, and join a movement like the rest of the kids, go fight your brother on the streets like the meme you want to become. Your call. You won't be any great standout from your generation either way, no matter how much you may want to believe you do.
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Eugene Pendersane - Fri, 13 Jul 2018 07:06:24 EST ID:ehhnNOgT No.525471 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525468
Explain how I'm wrong. The alt right is a white supremacist group. It allows people to believe themselves superior to most others simply by dint of being born. They spend their time sharing cherry picked examples of other races on the internet to allow them to ego trip and convince themselves that they are so much better and to justify their racism all while ignoring any deeper thought about the issues that require an understanding of history, economics, and sociology and the ability to empathize with others. It is an ideology that simultaneously denies the existence of white privilege while attempting to perpetuate white privilege so that they can take credit for all its benefits. Anyone who calls themselves alt right is stupid, immoral, and delusional. OP should just leave his brother alone unless he wants to rethink his entire life.
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Cyril Gobblestock - Fri, 13 Jul 2018 12:26:56 EST ID:GNKByp2Z No.525476 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525471
Shut the fuck up you autist. nb
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Emma Fannerwet - Fri, 13 Jul 2018 17:10:30 EST ID:cQ971Wyz No.525481 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525471
I still am completely lost on how I’m alt right or any of this. Basically his friends post stuff on Facebook that involves quotes from Karl Marx, Lenin, and Stalin. They also go to protests dressed in all black marching around with flags and hanging out with people who burn down Starbucks and the such. If you show any traditional male or conservative traits you are automatically marked as a misogynist, a white supremacist, and most likely a rapist/“contributing to rape culture”

Yet you call me (in an earlier post) a mindless automoton because I go to work every day, and try to build a positive future for myself? Please kindly go fuck yourself.
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Charlotte Pemblewater - Sat, 14 Jul 2018 02:43:12 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.525493 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Sounds like you have a bad case of living in California.
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Nicholas Chabberdock - Sat, 14 Jul 2018 05:04:57 EST ID:OWx1ClP7 No.525498 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525493
The sad part is I'm actually kinda liberal, I believe in weed gay marriage and global warming. Thats not left enough these days though.
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Graham Sendercocke - Mon, 16 Jul 2018 13:01:57 EST ID:o4d9CKcl No.525566 Ignore Report Quick Reply
your brother sounds pretty cool tbh. in the words of bob marley, he knows where he's going and he knows where he's from.

just let him be what he wants to be. he's probably smarter than you.
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Lydia Crebblefore - Wed, 18 Jul 2018 01:59:44 EST ID:JY4MVM0x No.525604 Ignore Report Quick Reply
This reminds me a little bit of my sister because she is a Bernie supporter and I voted for Trump, and she also has a lot of personal problems although she's been getting it together more recently.

We get along in spite of it all, luckily she's not antifa or else I'd stop talking to her.
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Ian Sonningcocke - Wed, 18 Jul 2018 02:12:20 EST ID:n6VYwRXK No.525606 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525604
What's Americas problem with Antifa? Aren't they the good guys? It's in the name.
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Hannah Worthingstone - Wed, 18 Jul 2018 21:58:02 EST ID:cBYQH4Mo No.525613 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525606

>what is a fascist country's problem with antifascism?
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Simon Nickleshit - Wed, 18 Jul 2018 23:18:00 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.525614 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525604
How do you become antifa?

Just turn up?
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Frederick Hisslebanks - Thu, 19 Jul 2018 01:45:01 EST ID:JY4MVM0x No.525619 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525614
It helps to be a drug addict and/or sexual deviant, but as long as you are committed to suppressing free speech you're in.
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Simon Nickleshit - Thu, 19 Jul 2018 03:30:38 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.525622 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525619
>It helps to be a drug addict and/or sexual deviant, but as long as you are committed to suppressing free speech you're in.

So the definition of antifa is anyone who suppresses free speech? Wouldn't that make actual fascists antifa as well?
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Martha Greencocke - Fri, 20 Jul 2018 12:06:14 EST ID:WEX2Tba9 No.525641 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525622
it would make anti-fa fascists
nb
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Sidney Hockleforth - Fri, 20 Jul 2018 12:49:26 EST ID:Xh0AVsLv No.525643 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525613
get owned, nerds
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uzDwl5WCkaE


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