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Virgin scared to have sex when the opportunity arrives by Sophie Bricklested - Thu, 08 Jun 2017 00:03:57 EST ID:S+AqeTnV No.99733 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I feel like maybe this is a good place to talk about this. Essentially I am a 27 year old virgin guy and have over the course of the last month, met a girl on a dating site and things have been going well.

Too well in fact you could almost say. Now, even though I'm as old as I am I have pretty much zero experience in dating women and only very recently reached a level of comfort in myself where such a thing is even possible. Our second time meeting in person I slept at her place and we did some lewd thing and she was acting like she wanted to have sex.

Third time we meet I stay over there again, same kinda thing progresses only this time she straight up is telling me she wants to have sex, no just hinting or anything about it. I nervously respond that I like to really get to know someone before I have sex with them. She asked how long and I said until I know them really well. Maybe such behavior gave away that I was a virgin on its own but I did not tell her I was. I am nervous to do so as I feel it's a little embarrassing at my age. I am getting ok with myself that I am quiet to other people about it because it feels like such a mark of my social ineptness.

I guess where I'm going with this is after thinking for way too long, I realize the actual act of sex itself scares me. The chance of getting an STD or a pregnancy happening being two of the main factors. I'm still not sure if I even really want to date this girl either and I feel so indecisive about my feelings for her but that's more a story for qq I suppose. Maybe even this story is.

I know this is a fear most people would have gotten over as teenagers if they even had I'm just now getting to a place where having sex is even something that is really possible. I have also kinda wondered about how soon is it expected if I really do want to follow thru in dating this girl.

Is there any other people who may have felt this way or do feel this way that have any advice? Is it just because I'm not with the right girl possibly?
Alice Mengerpock - Thu, 08 Jun 2017 19:27:36 EST ID:UgaZyXgx No.99738 Ignore Report Quick Reply
i would just say something along the lines of "fyi i haven't done this since i was in my teens and i'm nervous as hell, but let's go." with any luck she'll take the lead a bit, after all you both want to have fun here.

  1. foreplay. important.
  2. awkward happens. don't get hung up on it.
  3. use a condom.
  4. communicate.
Beatrice Crammerletch - Fri, 25 Aug 2017 15:29:06 EST ID:fA+r/o+R No.99942 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Sorry to necro thread but just tell her you are a virgin dude. She will understand probably.
>The chance of getting an STD or a pregnancy happening being two of the main factors
Sex scares me for a lot of reasons but not those reasons. Just wrap your dick you dumb ass. Or make the girl get tested and prove she is on the pill. Sheeshers.

??? by Frederick Bullyspear - Sat, 12 Aug 2017 05:42:13 EST ID:PsX0xBeD No.99894 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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You guys ever start jerking off then stop because you're touching a dick and that's pretty gay
George Brookdale - Sun, 13 Aug 2017 00:08:25 EST ID:Q26Tii5o No.99897 Ignore Report Quick Reply
The only medicine for this is to masturbate with somebody elses penis
Oliver Sanderwutch - Sun, 13 Aug 2017 15:34:55 EST ID:jZ7ddMvy No.99904 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You mean like with my b hole? That's not a bad idea actually. It's not gay because it's not like I'm grabbing it right?
Phineas Blillywet - Sun, 13 Aug 2017 18:18:35 EST ID:hCUwElnm No.99905 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Ebenezer Pitthall - Sun, 20 Aug 2017 12:50:16 EST ID:i0jXwlRG No.99924 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>that gif
Oh. My. God.
James Brigglefuck - Mon, 21 Aug 2017 08:19:04 EST ID:maYLC0U4 No.99927 Ignore Report Quick Reply
That's a waste of a perfectly good ball python.

Fappin by Fuck Bammerket - Sun, 20 Aug 2017 09:16:47 EST ID:IoOyNBM2 No.99920 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I used to fap for hours on adderal. Ive quit that but miss being able to do that. Is there anuthing else that will help last that long? Booze? Weed? Dietary supps?
Beatrice Fasslefield - Sun, 20 Aug 2017 12:09:41 EST ID:hXGXnLjt No.99922 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I fap for hours on tryptamine psychedelics all the time. They make me absurdly horny, especially 5-meo-mipt. The only catch is they prevent me from coming, which for me is a plus. It's like nonstop edging without the bother of having to stop, start, adjust your pace, etc. You can just go full blast with a good onahole and ride the pleasure vibes for hours, nonstop.
Fuck Bammerket - Sun, 20 Aug 2017 12:16:57 EST ID:IoOyNBM2 No.99923 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Any psychedlics in particular?

Genital mutilation. In 2017. How to stop that? by Priscilla Fodgemit - Sun, 25 Jun 2017 04:16:51 EST ID:Yk4J+yvM No.99771 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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2017 and there are still sub-humans who mutilate the genitals of little girls!

What to do against that?

Whats the cause?

Poor education? Poverty?
Religious brainwashing?

What would be most effective to break the circle of father, mothers or shamans cutting away the pleasure-organs for generations and generations,
robbing the girls of enjoying sex for ever?!

Should someone pay an army that would seek these motherfuckers out and put a bullet in each of their heads until this stupid idea dies out?
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Continuous Vaults - Sun, 30 Jul 2017 05:35:02 EST ID:jiU2VP32 No.99866 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Never thought I would need to take a break from /sd/.
but I need now.
Samuel Greenstock - Mon, 31 Jul 2017 18:26:40 EST ID:i1T8bsSM No.99868 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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So.... That's great? At least she's pure plus I don't have to worry satisfying her. Too bad colored are ugly af.
There are other ways to reach orgasm beside rubbing a clit.
Nicholas Muddlefoot - Sat, 05 Aug 2017 08:12:36 EST ID:ghS4YcjF No.99878 Ignore Report Quick Reply
religion or junk science. merica does that to boys because some geinocologist told the military "maybe it would help"
Molly Claffingstone - Mon, 14 Aug 2017 01:07:44 EST ID:MraBACd+ No.99908 Ignore Report Quick Reply

>merica does that to boys because some geinocologist told the military "maybe it would help"

William Pimblewater - Sat, 19 Aug 2017 17:34:15 EST ID:EkLB7SsC No.99918 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Actually America does it to little boys (and used to use acid to melt the clitoral holds of girls) because of Doctor Kellogg. He was a 7th day adventist Christian whom believed that a righteous path was to eat 2 bland, vegetarian meals a day and to regularly perform Yogurt enemas. He believed that Masturbation was "self-abuse" and that desensitizing the genitals at birth was the best way to prevent sexual feelings and self-abuse. That and making sure to have a super bland breakfast. Which is why he invented Special K.

Exploring sexuality by Nicholas Suddledale - Thu, 10 Aug 2017 15:39:04 EST ID:rr0iKzdn No.99886 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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My partner is worried about her low sex drive.

To me it's lovely enough that she does get moderately aroused and very wet, but since she is worried and intrigued, I'd like to hear suggestions about further exploring the sexuality of someone with low sex drive, someone potentially asexual. She has never had an orgasm (like 30% of all women) but wants to feel how it's like.

Advanced foreplay tips? Good toys considering low sensitivity? Etc?
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Nathaniel Tootforth - Mon, 14 Aug 2017 14:41:27 EST ID:SUp/N4Bg No.99911 Ignore Report Quick Reply
My last gf had a hysterectomy and warned me that making her orgasm wouldn't be easy. From then on, I made sure she had at least one every time. I've got low sex drive myself, but I enjoyed the intimacy and giving her pleasure, though I totally felt like faking a headache sometimes to avoid fucking.

My 2 cents to help your partner achieve an orgasm:

First, ease her worries, that shit's enough to kill any chance at an orgasm. She needs to know that she's fine the way she is and orgasms aren't expected of her. Free up some time, 2 hours or more, so that there's no rush. Get her into a mindset of "let's just explore and see what happens, and if it goes nowhere then I'll still be happy that I got to play with you". She needs to focus on the immediate sensations, not the end goal.

Try different kinds of background music, I like uplifting or psychedelic trance but to each their own.

Next, get her excited. Sounds like you can handle that part. Make sure she knows that you're enjoying playing with her. Now you need to explore and try different things. She should give you regular feedback. If it doesn't work for her, try something else. If she's unsure, be patient or make tiny adjustments. If it works, persevere! There's literally infinite variations of things you can do with your hands or mouth or even other body parts. My ex enjoyed it when I pushed my fingers in deep and spread them inside her. I would get her bucking then hold my hand and fingers still and let her move on me, that worked wonders.

Educate yourselves on physiology and the differences between clitoral and vaginal orgasms. You may have more success focusing on her clit or her g-spot, or alternating between the two, or stimulating both at the same time. My ex loved it when I stuck my tongue in her, then licked hard and slowly up to her clit (but not hard on her clit). I would alternate that licking with light sucking on her clit. Hard pressure with my tongue and lower lip on the area between her vagina and clit worked great when she got close to orgasming.

As for toys, I suggest a massaging shower attachment for the bath to start with. A simple vibrator could do the…
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Hannah Murdshit - Fri, 18 Aug 2017 00:48:53 EST ID:dVTv408w No.99912 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>Educate yourselves on physiology and the differences between clitoral and vaginal orgasms
Hannah Murdshit - Fri, 18 Aug 2017 00:55:40 EST ID:dVTv408w No.99913 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Sorry, clicked something by accident, BRING BACK THE DELETE POST FUNCTION, GODDAMNIT. Anyway,

>>Educate yourselves on physiology and the differences between clitoral and vaginal orgasms
Hannah Murdshit - Fri, 18 Aug 2017 00:56:55 EST ID:dVTv408w No.99914 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Right, forget it.

Graham Picklock - Tue, 22 Aug 2017 14:42:39 EST ID:KS3KrywE No.99931 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Women who can come from their vaginas can probably also come from their elbows, there is nothing in there to make you come, it is purely psychological. Not that it isn't real, you can make anything release all those chemicals in your brain, in theory.

Alternatively, vaginal orgasm is just clitoral orgasm, the clit somehow managing to get stimulated on the way.

physically-impaired-porn? by General Zord - Sat, 27 May 2017 03:41:13 EST ID:gBlL8812 No.99696 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I am more than curious about disability-porn.

Can't take my mind of it.
Not found any, though but I am fantasizing about this every day!

Not affected by any disability myself, but I am horny af when imagining some things!

Is it really rare?
Could there be any explaination for this?
John Claygold - Sat, 27 May 2017 08:06:25 EST ID:rV+Y96/e No.99697 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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There's at least amputee porn in pornhub, if that counts. Haven't found any full quad amputees where the chick is just a torso but there are some with no legs, missing one leg, missing legs below knee and both hands and stuff like that.

Great faps.
Phoebe Pockforth - Mon, 29 May 2017 12:11:34 EST ID://y3luFY No.99699 Ignore Report Quick Reply
There's a charity called hand angels who give out wanks to the disabled
Olmtar Refidr - Tue, 30 May 2017 07:49:15 EST ID:ZCFkCU+F No.99706 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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I want video-proof.

For research-reasons.
Bender Offender - Mon, 26 Jun 2017 08:20:40 EST ID:YaM59C5Z No.99778 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Anyone knows boards or forums with videos or more pics?
Phineas Blillywet - Sun, 13 Aug 2017 18:20:56 EST ID:hCUwElnm No.99906 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Favorite "little things" about sex by Eliza Dombleham - Mon, 17 Jul 2017 15:56:12 EST ID:vKySIGFB No.99839 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>when she's in doggie and you slide your bare penis into her pussyhole which is right down by the asshole and you watch as her vagina grips and welcomes it with warmth

>when she sucks on your finger while you fuck her

>making her cum so hard she can't talk for 20 seconds

>making her moan loudly when she's a very quiet shy, girl

>making out and knowing your going to fuck good so there's no rush or pressure
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Nathaniel Porrystug - Thu, 27 Jul 2017 15:29:10 EST ID:UhvYyim9 No.99861 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>making her moan loudly when she's a very quiet shy, girl

I get sooo hot for this. I absolutely love banging chicks that are really innocent and kind of quiet and shy. I knew this really hot American chick once (live in Yurop), she was a total free love hippy who did yoga (and hot a perfect body and ass, holy fuck) and did not drink or do any drugs. She was so nice and friendly and polite, and just sweet and cute. Not like my regular female friends that I bang, who although hot, are much rougher around the edges. Anyway getting with her was heaven, I remember we were totally naked and she was on top kissing me with her perfect small body, fat ass and balanced tits. She said "I'm sorry, I really don't have much experience doing this" with a cute innocent smile, before I said "don't worry about it" and gently pushed her down. She then proceeded to give me an A+++ blowjob, seeing her choke on my big cock before swallowing my load is a fap memory I will have with me 'till I die.

Goddamn whenever I post on this board I always end up getting a boner.
Nathaniel Porrystug - Thu, 27 Jul 2017 15:32:41 EST ID:UhvYyim9 No.99862 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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By free love I don't mean polyamory and promiscuity but rather loving everything and being positive etc. Her obvious apprehension about sexual matters made it all the hotter when I did get with her.

That's kind of why I'm not huge into banging sluts. I have turned down some good looking women before just because I found them less attractive knowing they had screwed a lot of my friends. Not that I give a shit who and how many they personally screw, at all, but I just find it way more attractive when a woman is "hard to get" and kind of closed off. I get off on the seduction, the chase, the sexual conquest.
Simon Wacklebanks - Tue, 01 Aug 2017 23:44:42 EST ID:E99Lg5MM No.99869 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Basil Smallson - Fri, 04 Aug 2017 10:33:36 EST ID:HhlWXdrs No.99875 Ignore Report Quick Reply
when i put my penis in my wife's vagina
Archie Smalldock - Sun, 13 Aug 2017 13:06:48 EST ID:TbCEaLyo No.99901 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>nibbling on her ear while we fuck super fast in missionary
>>when we kiss and my face is covered in juices after I've been eating her out for 30 mins
>>when my partner is willing to give me deep throat for 2 hours til I cum.
Only had one partner that would do the above :,( . It was sooo good, and so passionate.

Circumcision by Alex - Thu, 18 May 2017 00:50:14 EST ID:Xk1DWjDe No.99675 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So I wanted to know how this works.
Pros and cons of it, does it hurt, and all the stuff you can tell me about it.
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Barnaby Drozzlehall - Sun, 21 May 2017 19:54:06 EST ID:hXGXnLjt No.99686 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>Cons: You remove perfectly good, functional, vital erogenous tissue from a sexual organ for no good fucking reason. You expose yourself (or your baby) to potential future sexual impotence and medical problems.

>Pros: None

Bottom line, if you do it to yourself, it's stupidity, but whatever. If you do it to others who cannot consent (babies), it's mutilation and should be prosecutable the same way we would normally punish, say, chopping off a stranger's arm. Harshly. It does not protect against anything and is a holdover from a puritanical age where its shitty side effects were considered desirable (makes sex less fun, makes it harder to wank). It continues as a modern medical practice mostly because of cultural inertia, and because *doctors can sell your baby's foreskin for money.* No lie. They'll run fistfuls of baby foreskins through a blender and sell the fibroblast smoothie to research labs because it is a valuable source of neonatal human cells. I repeat: modern medical associations like the AAP still stand by circumcision because it's a fucking racket. They harvest your baby for body parts and profit.

You can't say my attitude is an overreaction. The burden of proof lies on circumcisors to explain why ritual mutilation of babies is so vastly beneficial that it outweights the inherent risks involved with any surgical excision. But there is no vast benefit. There is not even a modest benefit. There is no benefit. It is just plain evil, perpetrated upon others for evil reasons (puritanical fervor or financial gain)
Barnaby Drozzlehall - Sun, 21 May 2017 19:57:45 EST ID:hXGXnLjt No.99687 Ignore Report Quick Reply
And for the record, FGM is abhorrent as well. Hurting others against their wishes is uniformly abhorrent. It all needs to end. Anyone who is anti-MGM/FGM and not the other is not a real activist and has not really thought their position through. It is a human rights issue, not a gender rights issue.
Frederick Brinkinhall - Wed, 31 May 2017 10:10:08 EST ID:Mco+9baO No.99714 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I've been circumsized, and I'm European. My parents not only decided to cut a part of my dick off, they did it with the full knowledge that it'd make me the odd one out every time I take off my pants. And people will assume I'm either Muslim or Jewish, and I don't fucking like that one bit in the current political climate.

I've confronted them on it, and they say it was a medical necessity. This is bullshit. A quick examination reveals that phimosis goes away on its own in the vast majority of the cases. They also got into the usual crap about how it puts you less at risk from STD's, keeps your dick clean and other garbage that can be solved by teaching your child to bathe regularly and, when they come of age, to practice safe sex. None of that is so hard that it's a valid excusing for literally mutilating the genitalia of your child. The bottom line is, they did it because they felt like it.

The result is simple: I have much less feeling in my dick than others, or at least, that's what I guess from what non-circumsized people say about their dicks, and the fact that when I wear a condom, I barely even feel that I'm fucking someone. It feels like a piece of wood. I'm lucky in that I'm into BDSM, so I love rough play with my dick. I solve the issue of decreased sensation by increasing the sensation itself.

But it's never going to be normal that I ask for more teeth with a blowjob. Or that I prefer blowjobs and various other jobs over sex with a condom on.
Phoebe Cipperson - Thu, 01 Jun 2017 12:59:41 EST ID:UlbiT29b No.99717 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Severe Phimosis doesn't just "go away" though. But if it's mild to moderate then it often does. Mine only got cured once I started getting laid because otherwise I only begrudgingly pulled that thing back to wash it. Ouch. When I had sex the first few times it hurt but I didn't care because it was good anyway. The worst thing was I'm a loser so I had to wait until my mid 20s until I even realised there was a problem and not normal because it suddenly got better.

I don't know how much pain you were in. Or if they were just worried. I'm not saying your parents or most parents are right to do what they did but you are looking for the worst in this situation and drawing the absolute worst.

Being British though nudity is still basically a thing we don't do so your odd one out penis wouldn't be an issue here. The only people who don't hurriedly change in the corner are old men at "I don't give a fuck" years old.
Murik - Thu, 10 Aug 2017 22:41:22 EST ID:4HE3g62j No.99891 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I'm cut. I live in Europe, I don't know if it's becuase there's less cut guys around here, but girls seem to prefer it one girl I was with before I met my wife said that uncut guys can some times smell bad?? In school I don't know if it was out of quriosity or what but I got laid alot. The girls used to call me "dolphin nose", I think in my last year at school I got more blow jobs than grades.

How to deepthroat by Clara Hozzlewater - Fri, 14 Jul 2017 17:14:57 EST ID:F8QGgPpV No.99822 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So i've started seeing this girl recently and I really want her to go all the way down on my dick but she cant. She says that she gags very easily and is in experienced... How can I train her to start sucking sick like a vacuum?
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Martha Chegglestock - Sat, 15 Jul 2017 09:16:05 EST ID:E99Lg5MM No.99827 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I got news for you... she probably doesn't want to or she would.
Lillian Brorringlock - Mon, 17 Jul 2017 11:23:31 EST ID:8yEqpSTA No.99838 Ignore Report Quick Reply
One thing I miss about my ex is her deepthroating skills. She could swallow my entire big cock with ease, never a word of bother from her. Swallowed it all too with glee. She gives fucking awesome blowjobs. Apart from that she was a bit of a cunt.

My current girlfriend tries but her mouth is just too small. Oh well.
Henry Dobblebury - Tue, 25 Jul 2017 13:35:05 EST ID:e0qBzomd No.99854 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Brushing the back of my tongue didn't help at all. What worked for me was getting a thick soft double dildo and shoving it into my throat repeatedly. Wanting to learn was essential, it can be traumatizing otherwise, and having the opportunity and the tools to do it at my own pace and without judgment helped a lot.

If I had to learn on a real guy, it would've had to be someone I trusted very much, like enough to play asphyxiation games and puke on him and still be safe and respected, who'd be extremely supportive and patient, willing to stand or lie there and get practiced on even if I just kept gagging and crying. Unfortunately, I don't know any such guys. :(
Eliza Bardshit - Wed, 26 Jul 2017 14:02:19 EST ID:KS3KrywE No.99857 Ignore Report Quick Reply
That sounds traumatic, I didn't have to go through that. Maybe you were in more of a rush, it took me about a year of tounge brushing and generally putting the toothbrush back there till my throat stopped freaking out.. never puked or anything like it
Nicholas Muddlefoot - Sat, 05 Aug 2017 08:09:30 EST ID:ghS4YcjF No.99877 Ignore Report Quick Reply
tell her not to worry, you're hung like a shrew and won't reach past her eyeteeth anyway

swipe right to fill void by Charles goodfooke - Sat, 06 May 2017 01:18:20 EST ID:bZO84gEp No.99621 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So I have a personal inquiry that I'd want advice on. I'm 26, American and an attractive male, but ever since I started dating my earlier 20s, I dont think I've had a serious relationship. Almost every date I've gone on with women typically ends with me hooking up with my date whether thats sex, like a week ago or Monday when I brought a girl home from an okay tinder date and ended up eating out her out in my bedroom until she came and called an uber after an hour or s of cuddling/making out Ended up going on a second date with her Wednesday and she wanted to hold hands and kiss. I was okay with it but idk, felt like there was something lacking. To go back to my original point I guess it always feels like people I do end up meeting and vining with, sex or not always give me the response of not looking for anything serious or something rather.

How do I get out of this cycle? The longest I've been with a chick so far is 3 months and even then we're just 'friends' who smoke and fuck. I doubt things will work out with me and this chick I've talked to since february due to moving and distance implied but how do I move beyond being a one night stand or fuck buddies in the future?

Is any other relationship type worth it at this point?

Stop using okc and tinder?

Feels like these women want all the affection but none of the strings honestly. Go with the flow? Go abstinent? Fuck.
Esther Fanspear - Sat, 06 May 2017 05:37:32 EST ID:5li4sIuT No.99624 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>having sex on the first date
>expecting a serious relationship

people these days.... " - -
Graham Gankinwill - Sat, 06 May 2017 11:49:16 EST ID:bZO84gEp No.99628 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Eliza Dombleham - Mon, 17 Jul 2017 16:47:16 EST ID:vKySIGFB No.99841 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I actually have this exact problem. I'm 21 and never have had a girlfriend, just fuck buddies for about a month, hookups, and one night stands

I literally don't know how to into gf
And what is having a girlfriend like? What do you do when you aren't fucking? I mean I've gone to dinner with girls and stuff but there's never been the "meat" where I really really really enjoy spending time with that person where just being with that person makes me happy, though that's what I'm longing for...
Eliza Bardshit - Wed, 26 Jul 2017 14:22:03 EST ID:KS3KrywE No.99859 Ignore Report Quick Reply
It is like having a friend who you enjoy touching. You watch tv together and she puts her legs up on your lap. You read books while leaning on each other. You go to the park and you complain about how you hate the world and she gives you a packet sandwich. You go to the cinema and do not make out because fuck that cost 8 dollars and you can make out anywhere
Oliver Cushshaw - Fri, 28 Jul 2017 19:24:20 EST ID:kAYaJLjI No.99864 Ignore Report Quick Reply
tinder is obviously advertised as being for hookups and not serious relationships. i don't understand how anyone could be so stupid as to expect a serious relationship from tinder. otoh i fucked my girl on the first date and we're still together after four years. but we met in person like real human beings

How long did it take you to cure death grip? by Meat - Tue, 11 Jul 2017 15:28:07 EST ID:GsorfEIe No.99813 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I'm coming up on almost 4 weeks of no fap/porn viewing after finally accepting I've had terrible death grip syndrome for the past few years. How long would you recommend abstaining from masturbating/watching porn all together? Should I also abstain from sex? Any advice would be nice!
Walter Pozzlenetch - Tue, 11 Jul 2017 19:20:57 EST ID:59fCk60M No.99815 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Enjoy your prostate cancer. Orgasm at least 21 times a month to lower your chances of getting cancer in your plumbing.
Thomas Givingbodging - Mon, 17 Jul 2017 23:26:32 EST ID:MSitl8C0 No.99842 Ignore Report Quick Reply
None at all? Just loosen your grip and take it easy on the fapping.
Martha Turveyfoot - Tue, 18 Jul 2017 09:38:30 EST ID:4Zqr/h6C No.99844 Ignore Report Quick Reply
...But why? Why are some people forcing themselves against masturbation? If you feel the need then jerk off, if you don't, then don't. The only thing you're doing is fucking up your balls, you have to keep your hormones in balance if your body asks you to, just like eating or pissing. Unless you have chronic masturbation illness, then gradually
Chadwick Bandersnatch - Tue, 25 Jul 2017 03:35:06 EST ID:GJTBJXuo No.99852 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Not OP but some people just need to work extra to curtail their vices. Some people are inclined to smoke too much, and need to exercise extra self-control to avoid getting high every day and becoming unproductive. Same thing with drinking, same thing with jacking off, same thing with eating fucking sugary junk food that triggers your pleasure receptors quickly. I personally admit to struggling with two out of these four things.
No bump because I haven't managed to go a single day of nofap yet and have no relevant advice for OP.
Oliver Cushshaw - Fri, 28 Jul 2017 19:21:38 EST ID:kAYaJLjI No.99863 Ignore Report Quick Reply
you don't cure death grip by not masturbating, that's like correcting bad running form by not running. you have to learn to jerk off without squeezing your dick so hard unless you're never going to masturbate again

hi ;) by Anny - Wed, 26 Jul 2017 14:20:41 EST ID:o1fGBUgb No.99858 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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hi for all ;)

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