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Stories of bounceback? by Molly Guttingway - Mon, 15 May 2017 21:57:53 EST ID:PnhjQ/9o No.99672 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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How much does jacking it less help with staying hard once you've been at it for awhile?

I was one of those former kids that got put on Adderall too young and have spent a few years now doing stims and being addicted to masturbating. And now, while I can still get hard, It's a sincere effort to have a really quality erection for more than a few minutes.

So I wanted to ask for feedback from people who had similar experiences for advice on recovery? How much did you have to cut back to become normative again? I've already had good success from taking vitamin d supplements, any other good advice?
Barnaby Shakefuck - Thu, 18 May 2017 14:53:53 EST ID:RYQE/RYC No.99677 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Try herbs like horny goat weed and longjack.

Girlfriend wants sum fuk I don't what do by Lillian Gossleput - Sat, 13 May 2017 10:13:32 EST ID:DLtdphzE No.99657 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Me and my girlfriend had lots of sex when we started dating a few years ago, then a semi-dry spell followed when I was horny, she wasn't. Eventually I stopped being horny as well. This period of rare sex lasted for a couple of years. Now my girlfriend got a stable job that makes her feel safe, and she keeps wanting sex, while I still don't. Whenever we fuck I keep thinking up ways to sperg out during sex and then have to keep myself from laughing. I can't take sex seriously anymore, I can't take porn seriously anymore, I can't take fapping to imaginary crap seriously anymore unless there's a massive fantasy power imbalance which I just can't bring into real life. What do?
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Henry Findlechedge - Sat, 13 May 2017 16:44:40 EST ID:yAKa0pT/ No.99661 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Sounds like low testosterone. Its very common these days.
If you had high test you'd take sex serious.
Molly Clobberlet - Sat, 13 May 2017 17:15:11 EST ID:as1yXSjG No.99662 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Coolidge effect.

Actually have the same problem, if you can call it that. Part of it is that she just doesn't take care of herself and doesn't look sexually appealing. Just kinda let herself go, then I let myself go, then she did the whole turning me down when I wanted to fuck, which killed my sex drive, and now she bitches about not getting fucked.

I can do porn no problem, that works just fine.. which I guess for me suggests the Coolidge effect, but noting that you can't do porn, that is a bit odd.

Maybe it is low testosterone, but I don't think that low testosterone is a normal diagnosis for that kind of an issue. Although, there are studies that show that married men and fathers have lower testosterone than the average single man. Some people believe that these are evolutionary hormone changes that increase the likelihood of a male to ensure the survival of its family unit.

So I dunno, maybe you just need to fuck another broad.
Shit Blablingway - Sun, 14 May 2017 10:56:23 EST ID:VEXwlfFI No.99664 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>massive fantasy power imbalance

Tell me more jokester
Charles Blipperdock - Mon, 15 May 2017 05:39:05 EST ID:DLtdphzE No.99669 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Could be. Should check it out.

I doubt it's Coolidge and I don't wanna cheat.

I dunno, like being a tentacle demon From Beyond TM and fucking all her orifices with heroin-secreting ribbed tentacles while telepathically mindfucking her? That sort of thing. A simple dick is not enough.
Lillian Chunnerstone - Mon, 15 May 2017 17:19:23 EST ID:3Ocn0Q5c No.99670 Ignore Report Quick Reply

>I dunno, like being a tentacle demon From Beyond TM and fucking all her orifices with heroin-secreting ribbed tentacles while telepathically mindfucking her? That sort of thing. A simple dick is not enough.

Have u tried mutual masturbation to tentacle porn or sex in a vat of jello or perhaps learning hypnosis and hypnotizing her to sex you there's an idea

Child paintings by Emma Buzzshaw - Mon, 01 May 2017 16:14:01 EST ID:mkal/EhM No.99604 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Should super realistic paintings of children in sexual acts or poses be considered child porn? I mean, real children were often used as models for the paintings.
Edward Coddledock - Sun, 14 May 2017 18:33:46 EST ID:mkal/EhM No.99668 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Asexuality and Sex Appeal by Shit Dridgekine - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 02:13:58 EST ID:/pVCpj4o No.99549 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Would an asexual person feel attraction to features such as tits or ass? It's just sex they don't want, no?
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Charles Soblingdan - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 16:56:24 EST ID:ayjak/lm No.99553 Ignore Report Quick Reply
A lot of people believe asexuality isn't real because everyone takes the limits of their own imagination to be the limits of reality, and the smaller-minded they are, the more they link perceived deviance to a moral issue inside their simple worldviews. That said, it's a little understandable because "asexuality" covers a huge array of manifestations, from "people who just have a really low libido" to "people who are actively disgusted by the very idea" and all sorts of things in between. As a general matter, though, people who would call themselves "asexual" generally aren't lacking in any sense of aesthetics. So the best generalized answer you can get is "some of them."
Emma Bunbury - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 18:44:50 EST ID:jhvfOtES No.99554 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I worked with a girl who described herself as asexual, and she would still find people cute / hot and would still enjoy lewd humor which I found kind of confusing. But I guess it demonstrates a healthier worldview for an asexual person to have than one who clams up and blocks off any concept of sex in any context.
Shitting Hongerridge - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 23:26:11 EST ID:b0uqe0+a No.99556 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I've met plenty of asexual people, its really not that crazy of an idea. I'd say more of a lifestyle (be it choice or not) that people just get used to.
Samuel Bangernad - Sat, 29 Apr 2017 17:19:58 EST ID:liHwCr+0 No.99594 Ignore Report Quick Reply
It depends on the asexual person in question.
Graham Grimspear - Sun, 14 May 2017 16:40:41 EST ID:WU21h0az No.99667 Ignore Report Quick Reply
As a beautiful form yes especially faces. But the biggest part of the appeal of say an ass or tits is the sexual attraction part. and yes there are people with an extremely low libido without a doubt which is what asexuality is. I'm at least 90% hetero and yet I can appreciate a beautiful male body even if it doesn't cause me any arousal.

Identify fetish. by Polly Mankinlat - Mon, 08 May 2017 09:30:08 EST ID:Yxrmvmv6 No.99635 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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There is a turn on I am wondering if there is a fetish - ish name for.
Having sex with one person and thinking about someone entirely different.
And even if you have sex with that entirely different person, you still get turned on by thinking about somebody else.

Is there a name for it?

(Picture unrelated)
Graham Grimspear - Sun, 14 May 2017 16:32:09 EST ID:WU21h0az No.99666 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Phyllis Pankinson - Wed, 24 May 2017 17:22:44 EST ID:hk2SFpV1 No.99692 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I think this is just called 'the grass is always greener on the other side.'
I could see this developing, but the reality is it would make you always be an asshole to everyone you ever fucked.

how to be the leader? by Nathaniel Donnerway - Thu, 20 Apr 2017 11:36:05 EST ID:xX5obDOM No.99558 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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so i like my coworker but he seems like a sexual brickwall. like being cute and nice to him isnt going to be enough to get him into bed. so i have to do all the leading which ive never done before. what are some ways i can slowly win him over without scaring him off? also he may be a 40 year old virgin lol even my other coworker has that vibe about him
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Caroline Smallbanks - Sat, 22 Apr 2017 14:00:02 EST ID:jhvfOtES No.99568 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Like is he just oblivious? Make your interest in him really cartoonishly obvious and he should get the picture.
Charlotte Fizzlestone - Mon, 08 May 2017 12:34:37 EST ID:f+D+vStv No.99636 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Does he seem like he might be attracted to you even if he doesn't do anything?
Could you start being a bit physical when talking to him?
Cedric Guzzlelat - Tue, 09 May 2017 01:46:44 EST ID:s63MH99F No.99637 Ignore Report Quick Reply
> "Hey Anon! Close your eyes plz" kiss his lips or grab his dick
> Next him and have sex with a man
choose one
Jarvis Fasslenatch - Tue, 09 May 2017 05:02:49 EST ID:xev7E4Wk No.99639 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Two weeks ago, I would've thought you were talking about me. However, one of my coworkers got through to me and now we're screwing like bunnies and she's already hinting at marriage. So maybe I can help you.

She had flirted with me for a while. Touching and rubbing my arm during a conversation, talking about getting together for coffee, telling me she would be alone over a long weekend. I wasn't oblivious about her actions, I just didn't see it going anywhere since I lacked experience in how relationships started, didn't have the confidence to take a chance and felt comfortable and safe in my isolation.

She got me to commit to asking her out for coffee sometime. This was right before the long weekend I mentioned previously. I felt like I had a promise to keep, so I called her to ask her out. I intended to just get coffee (we virgins tend to take things very literally), but found a live band playing at a pub she recommended, which turned it into an evening date. She requested I pick her up and drop her off since she didn't like driving in the dark.

We never had coffee, drinking light beers / cider instead, and shared a platter of finger foods. She's a talker, and kept the conversation going all evening, with the occasional contribution from me. She got close and into my personal space - sitting face-to-face on a bench with knees touching, leaning close, really got my attention.

When I dropped her off, she invited me in for coffee. We talked late into the night, and when I finally left I kissed her goodbye. A long, intense hug from her before I got into my car convinced me to ask her if I could spend the night. She agreed, and gently guided me the rest of the evening, taking care never to push me but not letting me back out easily either. I wasn't ready to make any kind of commitment and told her so, she was ok with that. The rest has been a natural progression.

OP, I suggest you take it one tiny step at a time with your coworker. Offer an opportunity and let him take a step. If the steps are small enough and he's interested, he'll go where you want him to. Once the ice is broken with sex, his confidence will grow and he'll start to bel…
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Graham Grimspear - Sun, 14 May 2017 16:26:36 EST ID:WU21h0az No.99665 Ignore Report Quick Reply
ITT sexy icebergers meet normal chicks oblivious to the autistic side of the moon

some penis-sheat by Mixed Feelins - Sat, 13 May 2017 17:52:16 EST ID:uTEcHCjX No.99663 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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  1. what happens when you get an erection in this?
  2. why am I aroused by this?
  3. whats the name for this thing?
Thomas Shittingstone - Wed, 17 May 2017 19:35:27 EST ID:/n8x5TJh No.99674 Ignore Report Quick Reply
its to collect piss for people who cant control their bladders

When your grilfriend is "asexual" by Lumny Smiley - Sun, 07 May 2017 03:59:12 EST ID:5li4sIuT No.99631 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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What would you do?

Isn't this a slap in the face?
Graham Siblingsudging - Sun, 07 May 2017 09:06:59 EST ID:liHwCr+0 No.99632 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I would talk with her to understand what she means. At the moment she identifies with a label, but why? There's any number of different factors or reasons why she might be using the term. Perhaps she just doesn't like or trust you. Perhaps she's gay and repressed. Perhaps she's just not attracted to anyone, but could still enjoy sex. Perhaps she had bad experiences with men. Perhaps she has hormonal issues. Perhaps ______ (fill in the blank).
Clara Goodlock - Sun, 07 May 2017 13:12:58 EST ID:jhvfOtES No.99634 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Maybe it makes me an asshole, but I think a securely asexual person should be ok with their non-asexual partner fulfilling his/her sexual needs with someone else. Ideally, asexual people will couple with one another, but everyone knows feelings don't always work out ideally and compromises usually need to be made.
Cedric Guzzlelat - Tue, 09 May 2017 01:49:40 EST ID:s63MH99F No.99638 Ignore Report Quick Reply
She isn't asexual, she doesn't want you.
> asking for sex
> having an "asexual" gf
wtf is wrong with you?
Nigel Gettingstone - Sat, 13 May 2017 09:38:09 EST ID:mfzu8SJC No.99656 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Asexual is just another word for diminished libido and is an indication of a physical health issue, possibly depression but many other things can cause diminished libido.

# of sexual partners by Augustus Sopperdark - Sun, 29 Mar 2015 18:03:30 EST ID:l8c3DqOO No.93090 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Mine is 4 whats yours? Male

Also tell me your gender
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Lillian Clogglebanks - Tue, 09 May 2017 20:56:59 EST ID:a8oWbgPq No.99641 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>but a bit over two years ago i met the person i want to spend the rest of my life with
>we'll be together in person for the first time next month.

...best pf luck.
Edwin Chazzlepare - Tue, 09 May 2017 22:02:49 EST ID:5K9nDZFT No.99642 Ignore Report Quick Reply
What bewilders me is not so much the amount of people women fuck, but that guys here fuck so very little (I include myself). That either means that women fuck a huge amount of other women, or that there are some guys (that obviously don't frequent this website) that get laid even more than said girls. Teach me your ways, masters

Also 25 / M / Around 8 or something, all female.
Phineas Dendlefirk - Wed, 10 May 2017 04:21:08 EST ID:Ju+f7H+6 No.99644 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Guys generally have low standards for casual sex so very attractive ones can just fuck new girls all the time.
This is detrimental for men and women since the natural choice for everyone is to pick the one you're most attracted to if several people want to be with you which causes women to just get casual sex with the most attractive guy instead of a relationship with a guy in her own league even if she'd rather have real relationships than just casual sex.
Ernest Goppercocke - Wed, 10 May 2017 10:22:13 EST ID:XzjG1Lkn No.99645 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Male, 4 partners, 26 years of aging.

I lost my virginity at age 18 then had no sex for 7 years went to a mental ward and started getting it in again.

I have 4 now but anticipate like 5 more.
Nigel Gettingstone - Sat, 13 May 2017 07:55:43 EST ID:mfzu8SJC No.99655 Ignore Report Quick Reply

5 more in life I mean.

I'm not very ambitious.

Weird Sex by Jarvis Blackworth - Sat, 06 May 2017 03:29:48 EST ID:5hJShYTU No.99622 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So I have this girlfriend and I'm her first. We've been together for a while but I'm posted at a different town for three months, and it's the first time we've spent time away from each other for a long time.

She's always mentioned how she's open to anything, but was pushing that as soon as I come back, I'm off work for a month, as is she, so we're just probably going to fuck all the time. She's asked me to do whatever I want to her when I get back and she'll be open to it.

We've been pretty vanilla lately, but I've been slightly fingering her ass during sex and she seems to be in to that. I proposed adding another girl as long as she's in to that as well and she said she'd try to find someone. Is their any suggestions I should be thinking about? Those were the biggest kind of "fantasies"I could think of. She called me really vanilla after it so I think she was hoping that I'd say some more risque stuff, but I didn't want to scare her saying something really weird.
Oliver Bunfuck - Sat, 06 May 2017 04:55:39 EST ID:5pzIvUpK No.99623 Ignore Report Quick Reply
she just needs to cum so weirder shit seems ok
just give her the d
Ian Divingbanks - Fri, 12 May 2017 14:25:12 EST ID:vCZ2nawx No.99653 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Footplay is pretty accessible as far as kinky shit goes. Watersports might be fun, or diapers.
Lillian Sigglelock - Fri, 12 May 2017 18:00:38 EST ID:d4WsaeqI No.99654 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Clearly she has something specific in mind. Just ask her what she wants!

"You should come over, no one will be home" by Frederick Huzzleman - Wed, 10 May 2017 16:08:18 EST ID:r5qCGAJP No.99646 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>ok so there's this girl
>we've known each other for like 8 years
>strictly platonic, nothing romantic/physical
>over the years though, little bits of sexual tension and flirtatiousness here and there
>one day straight up tells me she's attracted to me
>can't do anything about it, she's dating this other guy
>such is life, I'm not all that busted up over it
>so we're hanging out two weeks ago
>she tells me to come over again specifically after a certain date because bf will be gone and she'll have the house to herself for like a month

so is she DTF or am i reading way too fuckin far into what is most likely a regular hangout invite?

apologies if off-topic
Ernest Goppercocke - Wed, 10 May 2017 16:23:04 EST ID:XzjG1Lkn No.99647 Ignore Report Quick Reply

She's DTF if you don't fuck it up like the awkward sasquatch missing link piece of shit you are.
Sidney Lightforth - Wed, 10 May 2017 23:18:13 EST ID:FyJYFT2m No.99648 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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seems likely. an old roommate told me something super true which could be related.
it's never in the bag until its in the bag. if you show up, and the vibes aren't right, that's just the way it is. it does seem as though she wants your organs.

So this lady by Caroline Wibbersine - Fri, 05 May 2017 16:20:47 EST ID:C8E6MU+W No.99615 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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is coming to my house tomorrow and we most likely will get to fuckn

we met in the psych ward both completely nuts we take meds

anyway in the ward i talked about being tied up and she said it turned her on like a faucet of cum flowing from her pussy.

but later she said she had no desire for this.

I attribute herchange of desire to her fickle nature and mental illness as I, too, am a fickle man but what are some ways i can convince her to tie me up without being too obvious about it, i need subtlety.
Hugh Begglecheg - Fri, 05 May 2017 17:25:59 EST ID:kAYaJLjI No.99617 Ignore Report Quick Reply
i don't know just try some random stuff and don't get too attached to the idea because crazy people say things they don't mean sometimes. if she doesn't bite it's not worth pushing it considering the circumstances.

imo someone who isn't actually into being a dom is more likely to hurt you because they're not being mindful of what they're doing, double points for mental illness
Frederick Lightson - Fri, 05 May 2017 18:37:01 EST ID:4SF5KrAF No.99620 Ignore Report Quick Reply

>imo someone who isn't actually into being a dom is more likely to hurt you because they're not being mindful of what they're doing, double points for mental illness

mm good point thanks,

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