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Sex in Public by SixSecondWonder - Thu, 14 Sep 2017 13:33:41 EST ID:XOvQygx5 No.100009 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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So my GF and I have been kinky for a while now. We currently like going to femdom nights where I go down on here, get spanked, etc. Fun times, low pressure. Soon we are going to a standard play party, where it'll be less kink, and more about just having sex.

While I've gotten it in the ass at the earlier nights, this will be the first time I'm expected to "rise to attention" and give it to her. The idea sounds hot as hell, but reality has me worried I'll be a limp noodle.

Theres a lot of factors making me a little concerned; the fact other people will be around (also having sex Im sure, but still), the fact her play partners will be there, and the fact my package isn't anything special. I know a ton fo this shit is in my head, but still.

How do you public fuckers, and swingers manage to keep it up with all the pressure and anxiety?
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Sidney Blarrystit - Thu, 14 Sep 2017 14:05:27 EST ID:E99Lg5MM No.100010 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Take a hard dick pill
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Cedric Clannerdurk - Thu, 14 Sep 2017 21:44:26 EST ID:BWjjtyn5 No.100011 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>100009
Just focus on the pussy...
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Hamilton Wommlenuck - Fri, 15 Sep 2017 02:11:05 EST ID:5OC3WBpK No.100016 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>100009
"public fuckers" don't feel pressure or anxiety. they actually like that sort of attention.
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Sidney Fuckingwell - Wed, 27 Sep 2017 17:29:26 EST ID:oI1ylmD8 No.100073 Ignore Report Quick Reply
> How do you public fuckers, and swingers manage to keep it up with all the pressure and anxiety?

If you don't get fear boners, or enjoy the risk of being caught, public fucking just may not be for you. There are lots of situations which seem hot in concept, but aren't in reality.
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Thomas Pickstone - Thu, 28 Sep 2017 16:08:23 EST ID:dVTv408w No.100076 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>100073
>>100016
Truth. It arouses us.

We're also the kind of people who like extreme sports and other adrenaline-fuelled high-risk stuff.

It's not for you OP. Try it out once or maybe twice, but don't try to... be what you're not.
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Angus Sundertatch - Fri, 06 Oct 2017 18:46:49 EST ID:ip1Ah09V No.100097 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Bruh ... why? Personally, there's nothing wrong with a lil femdon, but taking it in the ass at a party? As a man, who goes there with his "girlfriend"? ... I dunno, just feeling bad for you.
Just fuck in public like a normal person - park, secluded parking area, the alley behind the bar. The thrill of getting caught is what makes me raging hard, but yours ... don't know, OP - you either take too many meds, or too little.
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Hugh Pockhall - Wed, 24 Jan 2018 18:14:21 EST ID:Z1nDCP/U No.100319 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>100009
How'd it go OP?
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Sophie Cronninghark - Wed, 07 Feb 2018 07:46:36 EST ID:EN/i5wgg No.100359 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>100010
Good short term plan, but they're hard to find and it's not a good long term plan

>>100011
Good advice, I find "losing yourself in the situation" is the best thing to aim for

>>100016
Everyone feels anxiety, no need to be so quick to judge
Experiencing anxiety in the lead up to your first public group sex event is entirely rational
And by no means does that 'disqualify you' from being a 'public fucker'

>>100097
Are you trying to sound super judgy?
Maybe trolling bait for angry replies?
Maybe just a dick and you don't realize it?
So many options!


Interesting chats op, would be keen to hear how you got on
Hoping op still visits... Pretty ancient thread...

Definitely relate to these feels, bi male, decent range of experience on both sides of the fence
Been to some group events, run some gangbangs, still sometimes feel stage fright

Seems entirely reasonable to me, my advice would be:
  • Forgive yourself for feeling the anxiety, totes normal, ignore the haters and trolls
  • Be comfortable enough with yourself that the self doubt subsides
  • If you get past the above two, you'll be able to enjoy yourself and performance won't be an issue


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