/sd/ Sexuality Discussion
(Not sure if the correct board)Im a boy but i feel a lot of envy when i see pics/vids of girls being fucked, i wish i could be in their place, someone told me it could be caused by hormonal disbalance, but i dont really know why this happens meWhat should i do?Pic related
You may be gay or trans?
>someone told me it could be caused by hormonal disbalanceNaw nigga YOU GAY!
>someone told me it could be caused by hormonal disbalance
You are gay.
It's a "grass is always greener" scenario.Imagine you were that woman getting fucked. Now you have to deal with 483472734628346234 shitlords obsessing over you and twice as many calling you a slut and spreading your name/face everywhere. I'd rather die than be a woman. Transwomen are mentally ill.
>>100035anyone with a healthy gender identity would rather die than be the other sex. If I woke up as a man tomorrow I would want to cut my dick off even if it meant bleeding to death... transwomen aren't mentally unwell, they are physically unwell, they have the wrong physical body for their brain. Aaaaaaaaanyway being gay is not the same as being trans. Gey men don't want to be women and some MTFs are lesbians. This could be part of who you are in every respect, OP, ... OR it could just be a kink, maybe you'd have fun dressing up as a woman and being fucked by a man, or being fucked by a woman dressed as a man.. sexuality and gender are very different things, embrace it and see where it leads you
>>100083Why would you do that? Gender is a social construct, if you woke up a girl instead of a boy, what would compel you to care other THAN mental illness?
>>100092you've oversimplified the thing to such a degree that you aren't making sense.>>100023GET OUTTA HERE YA KID
Get a haircut, a real job and a gym membership - then you're gonna stop being such a bitch.Hormonal disbalance, gender fluidity, social construct - what are you, guys, retarded?OP is lonely, bored and dumb - guess fixin 2/3 ain't that bad.
>>100083A strong gender identity is a mental illness. Everyone deviates somewhat from their gender prototype (and everyone has somewhat different gender prototypes) and it's only in ignoring these differences that people can hold onto their gender beliefs. When these differences become too significant to ignore, gender-based identities turn into identity disorders. Feature-based identity is a kind of herd mentality that invariably leads to groupthink in the group and withdrawal from and discrimination against other groups.A truly strong and healthy identity transcends self-labeling and attribute-based grouping to focus on intentional community membership based on goals. True identity can enjoy any form, can't ever be lost, and can't be challenged because it's featureless and internal, not dependent on external factors.
>>100098t. gym bunny
>>100098This motherfucker gets it! Pic related. OP is lonely asf and probably(most definitely) consumes waaaay to much porn to the point he's become bored.>>100101Ah, I see you have a doctorate in bullshit. This whole idea of "there is no gender/gender is a social construct" is just asinine mental-gymnastics to make trannies feel better. I'm entering my 30's, and when I was growing up when people ask what gender a child was they would respond either boy or girl. The bs you spewed is unnecessary over analyzation of basic human behaviors. A male can be sensitive and he is still a boy no matter what people say, and a female can enjoy football and still remain a female. "Genderqueer" is bullshit and a completely unneeded term.
>>100106It's about understanding the origin and structure of the concepts of gender and freeing yourself from self-limiting beliefs.Why don't you try defining exactly what features determine each gender, if you can?When you look at different individuals, communities and cultures in the world and over time, you'll find different behaviors and attributes associated with each gender. If you test each of the elements that are commonly associated with each gender, you'll find that they're redundant. If you dig into biology and look at genotype vs phenotype and try to determine the exact structure of the chromosomes and/or genes that determine biological sex, you'll find it's not so easily defined.It's only by ignoring the available evidence, oversimplifying and sticking your fingers in your ears and going "lalalalalabullshit" that you can maintain your naive views on gender.
YEAH YEAH YEAH YEAH SOLDIER'S DNA
>>100083>anyone with a healthy gender identity would rather die than be the other sex.yeah nah the only people who think this are trans. I'd be perfectly happy if I woke up a woman tomorrow. It'd be weird as shit but fun. Being a man is awesome though, as well. Lighten up
>anyone with a healthy gender identity would rather die than be the other sex.
>>100327Came to post this exact thing.
>>100327That's a broad generalization. Some people are much closer to one end or the other of the gender spectrum than you or I. I wouldn't call it a mental illness any more than I would call androgyny a mental illness. It's just another source of variety in the human condition. I'm a masculine man, and sure I'd make it work if I woke up as a woman tomorrow, but I think I'd be moderately unhappy with my new life. That said, I have things about manhood that I don't like, either.
I can't see anything other than I feel ya
Reminder, wanting to be fucked like a girl =/= wanting to be a girl.One is a short sexual experience, the other is literally a life.
what is stopping you from getting fucked like a woman? you have 2 holes. You might just be bisexual with hetero-preference, or just bisexual. Confused bisexuals are those people who think being gay is a choice.
>>100023I'm in a similar boat. I've had a bit of a progression though.First, I found I like porn, but like you I pictured myself as the girl (at least part of the time, not always).Then I got a blowjob for the first time, had sex for the first time, etc.,. Found while I liked the girl's bodies, I didn't necessarily care so much to receive blowjobs or penetrate them.Then I got the courage to try giving a guy a blowjob, and eventually anal sex, and found it was incredibly hot and better than expected. I wasn't into the guy at all like a girl would typically be into a guy, just his dick. Eventually got with another guy on a regular basis, and started wearing panties under my clothes, shaved legs, etc., and tried to be more of a trap/cd. Could never really pass but it was incredibly hot having him feel up and down my body like I was a girl he was about to bang. I've considered transitioning, but I don't want to deal with the hassle and I'm pretty content as a guy the vast majority of the time. I think I'd be happy really if I could just have a pair of breasts when I wanted, and everything else I could shave and just ignore my penis.I consider myself bi, because I'm more into girl's bodies, even though I like dick a lot. With a girl I'd rather be pegged than have vanilla sex though.
>>100023Do not mind it! Just woke up too much nude female body, sublimation of consciousness and a malfunction in the brain.
>>100023>someone told me it could be caused by hormonal disbalanceDid the person who told you this by any chance have a degree in internet science?
>>100023Or you could be BI or curious. To put it simple, I've enjoyed being fucked by other guys but I've also enjoyed fucking women. :) And I don't think I have a hormonal imbalance because I don't have any health issues and I've been like this always. Was fascinated by both "situations" in my mind even when I was young and had not experienced anything. I guess you could have your levels checked by a doc just to be sure you don't have any imbalances though. Those could affect life in many ways, especially at young age when body is growing up.
>>100602Maybe, but i must say its not only the desire of having sex with another boy, i mean, i wish i could have a feminine body, but not at the grade of hating myself or wanting to cut off my penis...Also i noticed when im like this, also im like more sensitive than normally, dont really know how to explain it
>(Not sure if the correct board)/cd/ is over there
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Just sounds like you want an experience where people fawn over you, take out the reins from your hands and just use you. It's perfectly reasonable to want to be whisked off your feet and taken for a ride once in a while.
>>100622I´d really love to do it some day
Reminder that unless you are having regular sex, it's simply autogynephilia from porn addiction and years of sensory overload. Does this sound like you? >minimal social interaction >drug use>zero to minimal sexual encounters in your life >heavy porn use that started vanilla, but gradually became more and more fetishized >stuff like anal or other hardcore now seems vanilla and boring >stumble across traps or crossdressing >eventually try fapping to it out of sheer boredom and a desire to raise the 'taboo' factor in your porn consumption >continue this cycle for years If that even remotely sounds like your situation, you need to stop watching porn immediately and take a month or 2 purge cold turkey. You are simply desensitized from constant masturbation and endless porn. The human brain was not designed to function on a constant intake of porn and especially not combined with heavy weed smoking. Your dopamine receptors are fried and they need to recharge. This is a very common issue amongst younger men who are introverted or socially underdeveloped. Basically, you are getting off to the idea of having someone be turned on by you due to extended social isolation or lack of sexual relationships. It's not healthy, but it can be easily cured. Simply stop watching porn. Alternative scenario: You are just a closeted faggot like >>100385 here and the shame of accepting your homosexuality is buffered by 'being the girl' so that you can rationalize your attraction to men. They often go on and on about "its only the dick" or whatever excuse they use to justify being "straight" yet having the desire to be fucked in the ass by a man. But the simple truth is that "bi" crossdressers dont really exist. They are often closeted gays, very few ever transition in any real way. That's because they don't want to actually be a woman, they just want to have gay sex without it being 'gay sex'. If you find yourself thinking things like >i consider myself bi, but i find sex with men to be way more exciting and if I do have sex with a female, I want to be pegged You might be a fag. Better to come to terms with it now than when you are 45+ and married. Best of luck OP, either way you should know that your fetish isn't normal. You are either gay, or addicted to porn. There is no "i just wanna be a girl sometimes and get fucked and dominated by a big bear of a man, but then go back to being a man afterwords". That isn't 'bi'. Thats really really gay.
>minimal social interaction >drug use>zero to minimal sexual encounters in your life >heavy porn use that started vanilla, but gradually became more and more fetishized >stuff like anal or other hardcore now seems vanilla and boring >stumble across traps or crossdressing >eventually try fapping to it out of sheer boredom and a desire to raise the 'taboo' factor in your porn consumption >continue this cycle for years
>i consider myself bi, but i find sex with men to be way more exciting and if I do have sex with a female, I want to be pegged
>>100023I have the same thing going on. It's called autogynephilia. I don't actually have any desire to physically transition; it's just a fantasy. Much of the time, I jerk off to straight porn, and I want to fuck girls, but I also look at porn of girls and imagine being in their place. I remember feeling this way from a very young age. When I was 5 or 6 and nobody was around, I remember wrapping a blanket around my body so it looked like a dress and getting a very naughty feeling from this. I also swiped a pair of my mom's panties and pantyhose and wore them. I also discovered the joy of putting on a glove and fingering my ass, which strengthened the fantasy. Around this time, I tried to fight it and make myself be totally straight, but it didn't work. When I moved out on my own and I was able to have packages shipped to me without anyone else discovering them, I started buying a bunch of female clothes and sex toys. I don't think there's anything wrong or harmful in engaging in this fantasy.
>>100695There's nothing morally wrong, but it isn't good for your mental health over long periods of time. I assume you arent having much sexual interaction outside of porn and dressing up like a girl? You would be amazed at how much better you will feel if you just cut out porn entirely for a while and stopped fapping everytime you get the chance. You say you want to fuck girls, but when was the last time you actually did? If you remember feeling like you wished to be a girl from a young age, then you might actually be trans. The thing is, you won't know just by consuming porn. If your only sexual outlets are porn and crossdressing anal masturbation, then that is not healthy, regardless of your actual sexuality.
>>100686>Does this sound like you?>minimal social interaction>zero to minimal sexual encounters in your life>stumble across traps or crossdressingI feel identified with these>...you need to stop watching porn immediately and take a month or 2 purge cold turkeyI tried it before (was 40 days) but it made it worse, instead of calming my desires it made them bigger :s
>Does this sound like you?>minimal social interaction>zero to minimal sexual encounters in your life>stumble across traps or crossdressing
>...you need to stop watching porn immediately and take a month or 2 purge cold turkey
The woman in OPs pic appears and is completely uninterested.Sex workers don't have good lives.
I'm FtM (like lived as a dude for the last 14 years, testosterone for 8 years, surgery 5 years ago) and I enjoy getting fucked PIV as a submissive. It is indeed very enjoyable. Maybe you should try letting a guy fuck you in a dominant fashion.
>>100723Hey, did HRT make your vag juice taste different?I must explore the mysteries of the universe.
>>100726I mean, I don't taste my own vagina secretions, but I can smell them and sure. Went from salty pumpkin smell to stronger salty pumpkin smell with a mysterious "guy" addition. To be completely blunt, what was added in was that hot as fuck musty boy smell that would make me want to smell a friend's boxer shorts out of the laundry in high school.Side note: I was warned and warned that I'd have less lubrication but nothing of the sort happened.
>>100780So you have a slippery, pumpkin-ass literal boipucci. Thank you for contributing to my pursuit of enlightenment.
>>100781no prob breh
>>100780o that's too hot
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