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Any Enbies in here?

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- Wed, 24 Jul 2019 16:57:43 EST VUmb+i4Q No.406291
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I'm looking to see if there are any AFAB or AMAB people who are Non-Binary (NB, or Enby).

I myself used to come to this board seeking information on transitioning and found a lot of talk of mysterious hormones (Spiro and Estro) and very very little talk of FTM or AFAB struggles with transitioning.

As soon as I launched myself into gay circles I found place where people weren't apart of the binary and they used the gender-neutral pronouns "they/them" where as I had heard only of these "wildly radical 27,000 other genders and their own specific pronouns and some of them want to be dragons and helicopters." When the reality was most of these Non-binary people just wanted to opt out of the gender game and I resonated with that after finding out how men would begin to treat me in the workplace as soon as they figured out I was trans. It grossed me out and I immediately understood what they were all about so I adopted an Enby centiment all the while still feeling the desire to "pass."

What does that even mean when I don't want to play a part in the gender binary?

Also, I really felt personally attacked by the contrapoints video about transtrenders, specifically with the phrase "Have fun being a male lesbian who fucks cats." Lol so if that's you, you're not alone.

I really want to hear your stories and what you feel about this sort of thing. And if there's a better place for Enby chats, let me know!!

Thank you.
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Fiend !!1C9jE+w+ - Sat, 03 Aug 2019 03:09:18 EST GrBVOpdz No.406331 Reply
>>406291
> Non-binary people just wanted to opt out of the gender game
> Enby centiment all the while still feeling the desire to "pass."
This is basically how I feel. I've only recently started my transition, and I do want to get to the point one day where I "pass," but I don't like the way the binary still changes how people get treated.
> What does that even mean when I don't want to play a part in the gender binary?
The way I think about it is like– I want to help break the binary, but from the other side.
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Archie Goodstock - Sat, 03 Aug 2019 10:57:14 EST VXOdpzl8 No.406332 Reply
>>406331
damn i leave for a couple years i come back and Fiend is trans
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Reuben Hogglemeck - Sun, 19 Apr 2020 14:22:20 EST Ko8zqCvM No.407248 Reply
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Enby here. Switching over to being nb was cool after identifying as a transgirl for a year or so cause it was all the benefits of hormones, a new name, and whatever pronouns I wanted (she/he, no "they" cause i dont want to annoy people and literally no one would use it), but without worrying as much about passing, pronouns, or being an embarrassing retarded faggot trans liberal in public.
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Fuck Serringpadge - Mon, 20 Apr 2020 06:57:31 EST LKzeRb2X No.407251 Reply
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>>407248
lmao @ this post

4ch*n has seriously fucked up an entire generation of vulnerable people into not only thinking this level of self-loathing is healthy and acceptable but actually makes you a BETTER person somehow.

They reel you in with the misanthropy right around the time in your life you're first starting to deal with uncomfortable facts about your sexuality and gender identity, and keep you there because you end up building an entire persona around being plugged into a botnet of the absolute dregs of society, and you start to equate your nonissue as being the same as everyone else's actual fucked-up-ness, like we somehow live in a society where being gay or trans is as universally reviled as being a Nazi or a pedophile.

It's not worth it to hang on to this level of cognitive dissonance just to have the illusion of superiority
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Rebecca Buddlestotch - Mon, 20 Apr 2020 13:48:43 EST g/Bx05E8 No.407253 Reply
>>407248
>>407251
Yeah I...pretty much agree actually.
but I am a faggot trans liberal.
It's okay to be they lol
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Lydia Shittingstock - Mon, 20 Apr 2020 22:52:17 EST LKzeRb2X No.407254 Reply
>>407253
>but I am a faggot trans liberal

you do not have to qualify your posts like this
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Fuck Clendleshaw - Thu, 23 Apr 2020 16:58:37 EST LKzeRb2X No.407264 Reply
>>407259
that's cool, i figured it was tongue in cheek after I replied
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George Cludgepon - Tue, 28 Apr 2020 03:22:27 EST Oc36Wdvo No.407265 Reply
>>407248
I would use “they” and correct myself if I misspeak because I have a feeling that it would drive you mad.
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Hedda Blackdock - Tue, 28 Apr 2020 17:52:50 EST LKzeRb2X No.407266 Reply
>>407265
>I would misgender you on purpose because I disagree with you

ok

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