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dealing with almost no sex drive while still addicted to masturbating

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- Mon, 17 Feb 2020 08:49:43 EST 2LHwsSys No.407050
File: 1581947383243.png -(595903B / 581.94KB, 629x636) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. dealing with almost no sex drive while still addicted to masturbating
Anyone else have this problem after starting HRT? Like I physically don't want to, not like in a "I want to quit" way but in a "i have 0 sex drive but im still addicted to the dopamine", it's not enjoyable at all anymore unless the desire spontaneously comes into my head, which is like a couple times a week at this point but I still masturbate at least once or twice a day, even looking at wild porn on speed I feel "eh i just want to cum and be done"
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Ian Honeybury - Thu, 20 Feb 2020 07:13:19 EST eBz4gRgi No.407076 Reply
i finally stopped listening to cumtown a few months ago. honestly listening to the show felt like work. good for nick tho
User is currently banned from all boards
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Molly Gunderfetch - Thu, 20 Feb 2020 11:22:15 EST LKzeRb2X No.407077 Reply
>>407076
I'm a big fan but I just watch highlights on YouTube. Dr. Richard F-N is the hero we don't deserve. I've never listened to a full episode other than the /r/smalldickproblems one, the chapo virgin one and ep. 127, the rest have an unbearable amount of comedic dead air

They've always had the problem where their bits are so self-referential that the best ones make almost no sense to people coming in cold. At least 75% of the comedy in bits like these come from knowing who these people are.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6P1O57nxB2M
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OJiPILmwHEY
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pjr6NXAYyW4
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D0w1Ac2dFUw

Podcasts are really just friend simulators
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Cornelius Pongerman - Thu, 27 Feb 2020 23:50:54 EST nPxNOSx6 No.407127 Reply
i did at first. i eventually was able to choose when and if i wanted to go at it. somewhat related; if you want to maintain function and size, youll have to keep doing it to replace nocturnal erections.
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Alice Fambledock - Fri, 28 Feb 2020 20:08:43 EST LKzeRb2X No.407128 Reply
>>407127
>if you want to maintain function and size

i don't even want it full stop
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Fuck Greenfuck - Sun, 29 Mar 2020 15:10:44 EST 0Q1YnMAX No.407212 Reply
>>407128
if you are planning on srs, or even thinking about it, maintaining size is important
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Hedda Crunderfoot - Wed, 08 Apr 2020 18:27:27 EST Ma43uDxH No.407226 Reply
>>407050
if hrt gives you 0 sex drive you're doing it completely wrong. check your T, it shouldn't be at 0 you raging moron
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Eliza Fanforth - Thu, 09 Apr 2020 04:30:22 EST LKzeRb2X No.407228 Reply
>>407226
Starting to come back, I think my dose of spiro was a little high but now that I've had a few more shots of e to make up for that it's coming back. It's come back in an interesting way too. I ended up just not even trying for like a week and a half, the longest I've gone without since puberty probably, but then as desire started to come back it was a lot more focused on all the preamble and foreplay parts, like a lot of what started to work best for me was fantasizing about having an emotional connection to guys I like, painting this whole picture of a life together that almost only incidentally involves sex, but the whole thing is still deeply arousing somehow.

It's all really mental now, like I can just sit and think about it for an hour and barely touch myself once, but when I do, almost every inch of my body feels like an erogenous zone. It's weird to get satisfaction without finishing too. Like eventually I'll just get bored, come back to it after a while, maybe finish, maybe don't, it's as if the pleasure of the whole experience itself makes climaxing obviously good and what I'm going for, but not as absolutely integral to the act as it used to be. It doesn't feel all I'm doing is working towards that split second end and everything up to it is a chore like it did before I started HRT.

One thing that'll take getting used to is the smell, I'm not actually into women much at all, so now that that's starting to change it's kind of a turn off, but I mean that just involves showing beforehand and even if I don't it's not hard to ignore

What is tough in all of this is that I can't really take being single anymore. Even when I'm not thinking of sex, I'll be thinking of guys I used to be with (none of whom I even had sex with, it was always platonic) and all the things we did together. One guy in particular I think about CONSTANTLY, although I never really did get over him. I imagine first dates with different guys, getting to know them, sharing my life with them, and the emotional bond. I would just as soon get with someone who was asexual. For me there's a fine line between going from this feeling of satisfaction where I finally like the way I feel about guys and myself, where I feel like it's normal and makes sense, like I have a place that I no longer think makes me inferior, and thinking about it too much and just making myself kind of sad.

>>407212
I don't think I'll struggle at all to do it at least a couple times a week now, but as it is I don't think I'm really big enough to do the regular inversion thing anyway. With the technology we currently have, I think it'll have to be the one where they take part your gut to make the wall, or whatever, I haven't really looked that much into it yet. I just know even as is it'll be hard to get any depth, but I already have a hole that works, so the surgery would be mostly be for myself for reasons other than sex
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Phineas Crummerhood - Tue, 19 May 2020 15:32:46 EST LKzeRb2X No.407331 Reply
ok that mustve been part of starting, now that ive been on it longer i can not stop thinking about dick, maybe it spikes up and down as your body starts to even itself out with hormones

Cause damn
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Clara Gapperpeck - Tue, 26 May 2020 11:35:41 EST RrzBYzZn No.407345 Reply
>>407228
>>407331
nice! that's pretty on par with what im experiencing now, too. you captured the emotional context of the female libido well. thinking about holding a boy's hand, or cuddling a crush with my head on their chest makes me so happy and embarrassingly flustered. (\////\) i _can_ get off without emotions still, but it is much more effort and less satisfying. just wait until you start progesterone... if youre craving dick now, by god... it makes me want to be submissive af. that wasn't me at all before hrt.

my libido is still far less poignant now. its ignorable and when it rises its like smouldering embers to tend. which im fine with but for the possibility of functionality loss. ill be seeing a urologist today to talk about some way to restore nocturnal erections - i suspect night-time viagra. a normal healthy cis man has about an hour of strong erections every night. and while ive been making myself emulate that through masturbation, its just so not a priority anymore.
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Cyril Wottingpodging - Fri, 12 Jun 2020 20:11:56 EST LKzeRb2X No.407374 Reply
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>>407371
won't have you talking about my good personal friend nick mullen like that
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Hedda Chollybanks - Sun, 21 Jun 2020 18:45:59 EST LKzeRb2X No.407384 Reply
damn the sort of unhealthy sex drive I used to have where I don't want to do it all but feel like I have to is coming back and i'm not for it at all, it feels gross, for a brief shining moment i didn't feel like a predator for liking my own body

my sliver of hope here is that this means the actual addiction aspect of it had less to do with hormones than I thought of it, and after the initial total impotence of starting spiro and started to get this much more intense, much more enjoyable way of experiencing sex, I got used to abusing that high too and now all I want is to 1. not want to do it as much and 2. have it actually feel meaningful and innocent like it did for a time, maybe i just need to up my spiro or e or something, but then again maybe I'm just experiencing a healthy level of sex drive with a broken brain
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Lydia Binnershaw - Sat, 11 Jul 2020 04:20:58 EST BKAjghXA No.407414 Reply
cumtown.org is the palce the sub went after circlejerk shit it down fyi
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Ernest Dresslemone - Sat, 11 Jul 2020 08:10:04 EST LKzeRb2X No.407415 Reply
>>407414
looks to be almost exclusively MDEfags

i like it better on www.420chan.org
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Ernest Dresslemone - Sat, 11 Jul 2020 08:13:38 EST LKzeRb2X No.407416 Reply
>>407415
damn it one HUNDRED percent is, if you like it there you should stay
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Nicholas Drannernag - Sat, 11 Jul 2020 12:43:08 EST 31r/BKcO No.407418 Reply
>>407416
>>407415
Matt is absolutely right about needing a community you can only post in if you like both shows
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Edwin Piblingbury - Tue, 21 Jul 2020 02:07:40 EST i8SyEHXB No.407443 Reply
I use THC mouthspray cuz I like the high - but once I started HRT, the desire went downnnn. I stopped the HRT for a while, and instant bone......well, after 3-4 weeks.

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