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Mintzs !GD3wBpep0Y - Sun, 13 Aug 2017 12:14:49 EST ID:d5kHsYag No.518069
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Hi folks,

If you're looking to talk to someone immediately about any problems you have in your life and have nobody close to you, come and speak to us!

Join us on IRC on #qq. Most of us have different time zones but if you stay there, one of us will be there.

Don't be afraid to speak up.
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Matilda Grimhood - Fri, 07 Jun 2019 12:17:14 EST ID:+s+a5IEh No.529757 Ignore Report Reply
You're a ticking timebomb. You might have to talk to your husband about saving some money for a decent shrink. He'd rather scrimp and save a little bit than let you suffer. Your happiness brings him happiness and your misery or avoidable death will do the opposite. You know it he knows it.
Lillian Dorrychick - Fri, 07 Jun 2019 12:17:55 EST ID:b2U4Jslk No.529758 Ignore Report Reply
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Go snuggle your husband
It will be okay
Hugh Blythewell - Fri, 07 Jun 2019 13:47:44 EST ID:Lny7/LNo No.529760 Ignore Report Reply
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Not sure where you live, but last time I went to my house doctor, told him about my shit and he both prescribed me freaking anti-depressants (which I didn't take, glad too in retrospect) but also recommended me to a therapist which made it count for insurance purposes.

Ironically that house doctor died from lung cancer late last year, I stopped seeing the therapist after one session and the thing keeping me going positively through life are decriminalized soft drugs. Funny world, this. Still, check if your house doctor can help you. Weed and shrooms are not for everyone.

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George Socklechurk - Sat, 27 Apr 2019 21:43:10 EST ID:HIPgnEp+ No.529024
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Well guys, for the hundredth time in my adult life, I have fucked up.

The day before this I had a pretty bad seizure which I can sort of attribute to my complete lack of good judgement. I'm still feeling kind of fatigued from that.

About a week or so ago (idk, it's been a blur), someone at work said I looked like I could be a school shooter. A very shitty thing to say to someone, for sure. In response, I said, "Hell yeah, better yet, I could shoot up a McDonald's!". People seemed to think that was kind of funny, but looking back on it it was just nervous laughter and I was reading the room wrong (my autism just fucked me over again)... So since everyone thought it was funny, I just rolled with it. I said something like "It'll be the great McDonald's shooting of 2019!!". Everyone started asking, "Are you serious?" and I saying no. Then, someone said, "Yeah, I don't think he would do something like that...". I couldn't resist, and said "Yeah, you don't think."

Well the next day everyone avoided eye contact with me. I realized it was a very fucking dumb thing to say but I didn't think anyone actually took me seriously. A coworker pulled me to the side and asked if I had said that, and I just said, yes, in response to someone actually saying I would shoot up a school. She seemed ok with that answer and I went about my day. The day by normally, aside from the fact that most people wouldn't speak to me. I left an hour early because I wasn't feeling good (had a seizure two days before). Turns out later that day they called the damn cops. Everyone was terrified that I was gonna come in there and kill everyone. No cops came and talked to me at all, they must have just realized it was some kid messing around, but anyway, I got fired

Didn't even know I had gotten fired until a few days after the fact; told one of my managers that I needed a few days off to recover from the seizure so I figured that was the reason they weren't calling me

Nope I got fired and getting fired from a fucking McDonald's for threatening to kill everyone isn't a good thing to put on a resume

Honestly, I only have one job I can put on a resume at this point, and I'm 20, not in school

I broke down crying when my boss told me I was fired, I really loved that job and the people. I can't believe I did something so stupid and I can't believe I left with everyone hating me. My boss seemed sympathetic and said I really should get my mental and physical health together before I work anywhere else. I agree, but I'm too old to still have to be dealing with this shit

So not really sure what to do now. I'm so embarrassed. I've just been smoking weed and playing video games for the past week, not leaving the house for anything. I don't think I've even showered

Life really sucks sometimes :(
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Betsy Himmerway - Fri, 14 Jun 2019 07:24:23 EST ID:2cwan4bv No.529860 Ignore Report Reply
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Keep us updated op
Hamilton Piggletutch - Sun, 16 Jun 2019 01:41:07 EST ID:E508VR5x No.529880 Ignore Report Reply
In this era of disgruntled workers committing mass shootings, your firing was justified.

Henry Gongerford - Sun, 16 Jun 2019 09:43:32 EST ID:KivcXu5j No.529888 Ignore Report Reply

Lmbo, when was the last time a disgruntled worker got a high score?

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Sidney Cloblingtere - Sat, 15 Jun 2019 06:17:52 EST ID:Z3zE5Pnv No.529866
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And she tugged my dick. I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years. It sucks. I've felt for the past while that I probably shouldn't be in a relationship because I keep doing shit that hurts my girlfriend, and I do this stuff because I'm not 100% committed. I haven't been 100% committed because I've been in relationships non stop for 12 years and there has always been a big part of me that has struggled to accept a lifetime of monogamous commitment. A large part of me feels like I need to be free for a while.

I actually tried to break up with my girlfriend last week, but it was so out of the blue (for her), she begged me not to, she told me how much she loved me and that she would do anything. She begged. I felt so bad, seeing her so hurt, I felt so so bad, that I buckled and said I wasn't leaving her. She made me promise her that I'm not just putting it off and that I'm not gonna go break up with her in a week. At that moment, I really didn't feel I would. But as soon as I woke up the next morning, those feelings resurfaced.

Then this happened. I've given myself over to sex and lust, despite the fact my girlfriend is an amazing person. I have to break her heart for a 2nd time in a week, I feel like such a shitty shitty shitty person. I already miss her like crazy but I know it's the right thing to do. Ultimately, she'll be happier without me.

God why is this shit so difficult
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Shitting Gevingwill - Sat, 15 Jun 2019 21:05:46 EST ID:JCATCBbz No.529875 Ignore Report Reply
Henry Pennerperk - Sun, 16 Jun 2019 09:02:50 EST ID:Z3zE5Pnv No.529886 Ignore Report Reply
I broke up with her. Part of me feels like it's a terrible mistake. Is this a terrible mistake? Fuck.
Phyllis Turveyfield - Sun, 16 Jun 2019 09:16:45 EST ID:VxtSuD4E No.529887 Ignore Report Reply
Making terrible mistakes means you're living your life son. Lean into it You are free for better or worse. You are no good in a relationship right now so dont fuck up being single for gods sake

Quit letting fear dictate your actions. You are not destined to be alone forever. You can learn. Life is fucking long. Find a relationship that gives you strength.

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William Gashsune - Sat, 15 Jun 2019 22:48:12 EST ID:mx986IvR No.529877
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Gf cheated on me, took her back, still felt like a bag of crap...so...

Girlfriend went to visit friend

Got drunk, hung out with nonbinary friend and played video games, a distant autist girlfriend jelly, posessively jelly told them off and they slept upstairs.

kissed my nonbinary friend after consoling them.

I feel like shit for "cheating".

The half of me wants to love my girlfriend. Be like "there I did something"

My other half says "just let her go, you havent felt that good about anyone since you kissed trap friend"


<Mr.Brightside plays from Walkman>
Captain Lava ass - Sun, 16 Jun 2019 03:14:06 EST ID:Gs0w/SGV No.529881 Ignore Report Reply
Free love will help you let go.
Not free lust though, there is a difference
Nell Brookbanks - Sun, 16 Jun 2019 06:09:16 EST ID:Lny7/LNo No.529882 Ignore Report Reply
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Ditch the cheating abusive girlfriend, sort out your feelings and talk to the nonbinary friend about it.

You deserve better than to wallow in a relationship that doesn't make you happy in the first place. You're not supposed to feel guilty about telling the cheating GF to fuck off.
Walter Dicklecocke - Sun, 16 Jun 2019 06:36:39 EST ID:Vc3Ib3Ql No.529883 Ignore Report Reply
Your girlfriend sounds terrible. She likely doesn't trust you because she wouldn't trust herself in the same situation. She should be working to earn your trust back if she cared. It sounds like she is using abuser's tactics to beat you down and deflect the blame for her failings to you. Nope the fuck out.

Okay all that said you have fucked up a bit. If someone cheats whether you take them back hinges purely on whether you can trust them again. If you can't it's over. Getting back at them is petty and doesn't make things better, it doesn't build trust, it doesn't wipe the slate, it just makes everything worse. If you truly care for someone you forgive them if you think they're sincerely sorry. Whatever your reason it seems to me that this just indicates to me that your relationship is in trouble.

If you're not going to nope the fuck out put your foot down. What she did to your friend was uncalled for. If she'd not done it maybe you'd have not kissed them but you did sort of prove her right. So I'd say just get out. You both need to put some work into changing things but mostly she does. I feel like if you agree to change then it'll end up being 90% you and 10% not her that does the work.

As for your friend. You've somewhat taken advantage there. They're a friend not an ego boost. Work out your feelings.

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Doris Fanworth - Sat, 15 Jun 2019 13:34:07 EST ID:2sWwtUKX No.529870
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i don't know what causes this or how do i stop it but basically whenever i'm on the verge of falling asleep my neck does this weird muscle contraction that shakes my head and bring me back to reality, almost like if my brain did it as a counter measure to keep me awake

its been going for ages now and it takes me more attempts to finally tire myself enough where i sleep without this occurrence happening
Ian Somblesedge - Sat, 15 Jun 2019 17:30:14 EST ID:Lny7/LNo No.529871 Ignore Report Reply
Have you tried smoking cannabis to see what it does for you? I mean, one of the traits of cannabis is that it relaxes the muscles and it helps people sleep in general.
Clara Hollyset - Sat, 15 Jun 2019 19:15:48 EST ID:Vc3Ib3Ql No.529873 Ignore Report Reply
It's not your neck, it's a hypnic jerk. They're well documented but no one is quite sure what causes them yet. If you're anxious, stressed, drinking a lot of caffeine or whatever it might be causing it. Or you might be unlucky.

I wake up a lot during the night. I think a lot of it is being a light sleeper. You just need to make sure you allot enough time to sleep and don't skip out unless you absolutely cannot avoid it.
Martha Clubbleson - Sun, 16 Jun 2019 00:52:31 EST ID:co/4UQGc No.529879 Ignore Report Reply
Hey op fellow insomniac here. What the other guy said earlier that's just hypnagogic jerks. I suffer from the same thing they suck don't they? At the worst I can have them 5-6 times in a single night. The only thing that works for me without making me drowzy the next day is indica dominant shatter but I have a really high weed tolerance so I would start with indica dominant weed first.

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Ernest Suddleworth - Mon, 10 Jun 2019 01:41:55 EST ID:Rc6WhEsE No.529806
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So basically I've lived in this place for a year and a half and been lying that my landlady lives here who basically is in divorce and moved real quick to another dude -- they lie that she lives here, otherwise the house goes into foreclosure because the ex doesn't want it anymore.

They've turned the place into a rooming house, and basically threw a bunch of responsibilities on me at a time where I really needed to live somewhere.

Now they want me to lie to a bylaw officers face and got us to rearrange every room and etc to look legit. I got two days, and basically, I'm trusted soi am going to be actually speaking to the bylaw person.

This might be my only opportunity to provide both my evidence and blow this whole fucker into the water. It's multi-millions in under the table rent and house/property value basically stolen from some slightly rich, but clearly poor dude somewhere out there.

They've disrespected me at every turn and even get me to pay them more rent while I do all the gardening and etc I don't even legally need to do. And this is basically my only way of real revenge.

I like my roommates, but holy fuck, they sit idly and let me do all the shit for them.

I have a place I can hunker down at for 3 months and am really thinking about calling a moving company, getting my stuff safely out of here, blowing the lid with the bylaw person the next day and then calling the tenancy branch to break whatever the fuck this has been for a year and a half.

I know I can find another place or etc. And start this all over again right, without being made to feel like I'm worthless.

Really, help a brother out here. What do you think? Just from the broad sort of thing? It might sound overreacting. But we literally had a meeting today, was basically tasked with changing all the locks and moving furniture and etc to fulfill their lie while paying more than other people and this that the other thing. And there's no fucking written notice.

I did two hours of yard work, and I don't even fucking have to. I'm being forced to take a day off work. These people do not respect other people. And I have the feeling as soon as this blows over -- it gets worse. I'm so stressed out that I gotta take tomorrow off too.

So clearly, everybody's gonna hate me for their own selfish reasons, so I'm thinking it's absolutely necessary to make sure my belongings are all safe? The only issue, when I blow this lid, I'm doing it in their presence. But I mean, the bylaw people can help me right? Like if I blow this big of a bomb up, they got to be able to speak to the tenancy board for me right? But then again, I'll just take the total loss of the deposit and rent I just gave them to do this. I could give a fuck.

But given how big of a deal this would be financially... Should I maybe be worried about getting lynched?

Any help would be appreciated. At the point my stuff all out, even if somebody snitches, they can't have the inspection happen and thus, cannot avoid having them talk to me. Fuck would it feel good, and I can afford it.

And i just don't see any legal ramifications whatsoever other than the nonlegal ramification to get attacked/lynched. I doubt these people would do it, but a few million dollars in theft will make anybody do anything. Should i call my local police department to make sure?
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William Gashsune - Sat, 15 Jun 2019 22:38:48 EST ID:mx986IvR No.529876 Ignore Report Reply
He got lynched
Martha Clubbleson - Sun, 16 Jun 2019 00:48:07 EST ID:co/4UQGc No.529878 Ignore Report Reply
bump for probably dead op
Walter Dicklecocke - Sun, 16 Jun 2019 06:37:39 EST ID:Vc3Ib3Ql No.529884 Ignore Report Reply
RIP in Peace OP. nb

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Ian Hurrymere - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 18:36:57 EST ID:Y+eN58b0 No.529849
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Been with my gf for a couple months. Have slept together many times, with P in V sex about 5-8 times now. I have never orgasmed with her, but made her cum many times from oral and combos of oral and PinV.

I went for like 2 hours yesterday. felt really close, but it didn't happen then. I can go slow, steady rhythm, pound fast, etc, switch up positions etc. No matter what I can't finish. Haven't came for over 2 weeks now, even masturbating. though I could probably come from masturbating, I want to with her.

What are my options?
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Samuel Clonnerwill - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 22:40:21 EST ID:VxtSuD4E No.529856 Ignore Report Reply
I've had similar problems. Unless you want meds theres not really much to be done apart from keeping a healthy lifestyle and not worrying about it.

You're going to come eventually. Why does it need to be a problem? She's happy. You can jack off if you need to.

Its probably death grip. Just relax and fuck away.
Hugh Brigglesod - Sat, 15 Jun 2019 09:27:40 EST ID:ehhnNOgT No.529869 Ignore Report Reply
Did they mutilate your genitals at birth or something?
Clara Hollyset - Sat, 15 Jun 2019 19:34:32 EST ID:Vc3Ib3Ql No.529874 Ignore Report Reply
Actually on the subject of meds, OP are you on any antidepressants? I know some SSRIs can cause these sorts of sexual dysfunction on occasion. If that's the the case it may be worth switching meds.

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Phoebe Blagglewurk - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 16:11:09 EST ID:xIks5xaS No.529847
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I met a woman, started to fall in love, she had feelings for me, too. She promised she wouldn't get spooked by me being a literal crazy person and abandon me, I promised her the same. We're both badly mentally ill.

She got spooked by me being a literal crazy person and abandoned me. I haven't let someone hurt me this badly in a very long time.
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Emma Pocklenotch - Fri, 14 Jun 2019 03:18:12 EST ID:JCATCBbz No.529858 Ignore Report Reply
Hey there. You didn't do anything wrong. In fact, you did something honorable in putting your truth out in the open for someone else to absorb. The fact is that you took a chance, and it didn't work out. Everyone talks the talk but their actions speak much louder than any words can. So this person wasn't ready to accept your truth and grow and develop with you based on it. That's totally OK! I'm sorry it hurts. This kind of thing happens. I want you to know that there are people out there that are ready for the kind of relationship you're looking for, you just haven't encountered them yet. What's important is to understand that you didn't do anything wrong here. Don't let this define you. I admire your opening up to this person. Just let it go, don't take it personally, and keep on trucking. You deserve and will have happiness, just keep seeking it out. Good wiggles, friend.
Albert Pickbury - Fri, 14 Jun 2019 12:23:07 EST ID:rtmVhGTI No.529861 Ignore Report Reply
Thank you for your words, I appreciate it. It will get better, things even seem a bit better today.

I'm almost 30, and I've been a stunted recluse for most of my 20s, due to Problems.

Only in the last year or so have I started to figure things out, and I was sort of treating this whole experience as part of that. Something that even if it went poorly, I could hopefully use to learn and grow. I'll be able to process this into something positive, eventually, I think.

For now, you're probably right, I just have to keep moving.

Thanks again.
Fanny Hivingbock - Sat, 15 Jun 2019 07:45:54 EST ID:2dpbGRKS No.529867 Ignore Report Reply
>total loner, was perfectly fine without women in my life
>met woman and she forces herself into my life
>fall for it like a dumbass
>she leaves
>now i'm heartbroken and in need of companionship
motherfuck attachment

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Nigel Brushbury - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 18:44:30 EST ID:Ki17+5hC No.529851
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I can get it up, but cant keep it up too easily. I'm overweight but not obese. How the fuck do people actually exercise every day? I do it twice in a week and feel like I've done too much shit.

Ahhhhhhhhh! SOMEONE HELP!
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Albert Suddleworth - Sat, 15 Jun 2019 03:04:37 EST ID:B8zXpQoQ No.529863 Ignore Report Reply
This, a thousand times. The difference for me personally between a 2200 calorie TDEE and a 4200 calorie TDEE is about 10 hours of brutal manual labor, coupled with another hour of weight training afterwards. Which do you think is easier: burning an extra 2000 calories or not eating them in the first place?
Controlling your eating will make you skinnier. You exercise on top of that so you don't still look and feel like shit once you reach your goal weight and/or because you genuinely enjoy it.
Martha Blatherson - Sat, 15 Jun 2019 06:02:36 EST ID:GOcP6uPZ No.529864 Ignore Report Reply
You're probably overdoing it on those days. Just do a bit every day, but most of all reduce masturbation to once a week! I've fappeddaily from ~12 to 28 and I hadproblems getting it up and then coming really fast. Now I get boners when thinking about a girl or seeing one on the street again, it's fucking great. Also try to stay away from porn, I went back to pictures and next step is masturbation from my mind. Porn desentizises you because you feel like you can get all the girls with just a click or two. There are a bunch of Ted-talks and stuff on ED through chronic masturbation, starting at puberty. Most men suffer from that addiction basically, and loads of people think they just have ED or turn to weird porn to get some kind of feeling off of it.

I usually do bodyweight-stuff at home, just whenever I feel like it I do some pushups(just remember to train antagonistic muscles aswell! Maybe look up some antagonistic workout plans you don't need anything for and do those on a low voume), practise handstands(start here with wrist conditioning), do some planks and bridges and stuff. Slowly ease your body into it, starting the day with an hour walk before eating(drink plenty of water beforehand) does a lot for your metabolism.
Also a pullup bar in your house/room would be nice, but a soccer goal or anything you can hang off of works aswell. Training the back is most important, mental state changes with your posture and the back holds you up.

But maybe you actually need to change your eating habits, try reducing produced food and eat whole grain pasta if you have to. Whenever there is sugar in something where it doesn't belong(anything except sweets and soda) I put it back and buy something else. Just eating sugar on a day a week and drinking nothing but water and unsweetened tea is doing a lot for me.

Hope this helps in any way, good luck on your journey
Martha Blatherson - Sat, 15 Jun 2019 06:05:13 EST ID:GOcP6uPZ No.529865 Ignore Report Reply
daily exercise should be the goal though, just never enough to get sore.

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Basil Buzzridge - Wed, 12 Jun 2019 22:28:32 EST ID:2sWwtUKX No.529839
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oh my god i'm gonna melt
Nicholas Dubblefare - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 01:02:55 EST ID:Lny7/LNo No.529840 Ignore Report Reply
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Meanwhile it's rainy and cold as fuck here, I caught a nasty case of the flu as well. Let's fucking trade, I'd love to melt right now.
Clara Soffingpore - Fri, 14 Jun 2019 21:45:41 EST ID:VEtOQMZ1 No.529862 Ignore Report Reply
my cars ac is broken and I live in Texas

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Polly Sinkinstone - Sat, 18 May 2019 04:37:25 EST ID:v5b3l/HX No.529430
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I'm on deployment. This girl DMs me around the first week she got here... I had been here for 2 months by then. It took me a couple days before I have in and started hanging out. I'm 30 and she's 21.

She's immature. Not so much in the young and wild way, more in the yiung/stupid/inexperienced way. We're in the same shop and I out rank her. Not a huge problem, but she always wants to call me by first name in front of people. Or walk home together every day. Or just generally make it more obvious than it needs to be that we are fucking each other. I've told her numerous times not to be so clingy and dumb at work, she either gets an attitude or doesn't listen or both.

Now, to the sex. She says it's her IUD that lowered her libido. At this point idc If that's true or not. It's not satisfying. We have sex maybe twice a week. Maybe. I get head maybe twice a week. I've talked about it plenty, she either gets an attitude or doesn't listen or both. And she keeps doing this thing where she starts giving me head, then stops, then says "that's all you get" or "more later". 10 times out of 10 there is no more later. I told her numerous times don't do that. Just do nothing instead of you're gonna do that shit. Yet she does it the other day, yet again. Ever since then I've been very rude, mysterious, sarcastic, goofy asf, just basically shutting the fuck down.

Idk why I don't just leave her alone? I guess I don't want to see her with other dudes. Or answer questions that people may have as to why we aren't always together like usual. And the craziest part is that she acts an ass when I wanna sleep in my own bed, or not come over, or leave, or be alone, anything. She acts like she can't live without me but is a rude and immature cunt 98% of the time I'm around. Or on her phone. Or napping. I don't fucking get it.
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Doris Supperpidge - Sun, 19 May 2019 14:33:23 EST ID:SeOiTXR9 No.529456 Ignore Report Reply
>I'm on deployment
>We're in the same shop but I outrank her

Jesus Luisus what am I reading
Priscilla Dummerstodge - Mon, 20 May 2019 08:34:15 EST ID:/sFKQ047 No.529459 Ignore Report Reply

Yeah just keep shooting those brown people and taking your agent orange.
Priscilla Mavingsark - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 21:29:58 EST ID:SjZXQAMA No.529854 Ignore Report Reply
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We have talked about this plenty. I've told her numerous times about her attitude, her response to that is "because I want you to hear/understand me". I have told her about the sex, she humors me but it never got any better. Just this morning I'm rock hard and try to make a move and she goes "I just wanna sleeep". Ok dude, whatever. The last time we has sex she just laid there as per usual, and there was no round 2.

I leave in 10 days. She keeps reinforcing this shit about us visiting each other, her waiting to see me. I know its bullshit. I wonder if she knows its bullshit. I haven't been able to figure out what this was all about... I think this was her way to avoid having sex with as many men as she did last time she was here. I'm tolerant, mild mannered, I put up with this many months of no sex and argumentative bullshit. For me it was trying to gain relationship experience that I dont have. I wasnt really using her, I just didnt have a problem with the built in termination date of me leaving here. I wish she put more effort in but I guess she did the best she could. Or at least the best she wanted to give me.

Oh well. Sucks because I dropped another girl I was talking to be exclusive with this one, and it ended up being this thoroughly lackluster experience.

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Wesley Duvingwater - Tue, 04 Jun 2019 10:00:46 EST ID:8JMT0wmI No.529720
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He was found guilty of ten charges, including rape and battery against children, in the early 90's. He always seemed like such an upstanding intellectual, great for discussing politics and ethics. What would you do if you found out your friend was a sex offender?
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Matilda Tillingdale - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 08:05:15 EST ID:8JMT0wmI No.529843 Ignore Report Reply
>Personally, If you had said "this guy was a kind and supportive friend, he'd always go the extra mile to help someone, he was always there for me" I'd be surprised
That actually describes the guy pretty well. He narcan'd over a dozen people back to life this year alone. When I was near-homeless, he was supportive, and when I needed someone to watch my little nephew for the night (jk lol)
>Are you upset because of the level 3 part or the sex offender part?
The RSO part. Level 3 makes it a little worse I guess.
So this is what I would post if I were any of you, but it's different when you've known someone for years and find out that they did something nasty, especially since they were severely mentally ill and it was 30+ years ago. Imagine one of your friends being like "hey btw I'm an RSO sorry I didn't tell you years ago." Imagine it's someone you know and trust. I mean, the guy served his time, so I feel like he's kind of payed his debt to society. On the other hand, child-abuse is pretty much impossible for me to relate to and I struggle to empathize with him, even after he served his sentence.

We had a chat the other day about it and he explained that he lives every day with crippling regret and remorse and self-loathing, so that made me feel more empathy for him. He had a heart attack two days ago, which also helped.

I imagine he'll always be attracted to teen boys, but I guess if he doesn't act on it, there's a noble restraint to it, like that pedo rabbi who never diddled anyone and then told the world on his death bed that he served God by not letting his pedo-ness make him abuse any kids.

Anyway, I just made this thread because I wanted to discuss the situation a bit. I've never had to deal with a friend being an RSO and I thought I might get some interesting perspective here. Thanks for the discussion.
Martin Dattingwidge - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 19:57:40 EST ID:fJyaqqmi No.529853 Ignore Report Reply
I had a friend who turned out to be a child pornographer and went to prison, the scumbag got to stay in the medical ward the whole time due to having diabetes and he's out now. I immediately cut him out of my life completely when I found out, as any decent rational person would do. This is a no-brainer & I really hope OP is just shitposting.
Cornelius Masslefoot - Sun, 16 Jun 2019 07:47:31 EST ID:BsMDZL1i No.529885 Ignore Report Reply
If you like the guy you can always keep tabs on him for the greater good. Being his friend might prevent him doing something bad.

I'd ask him for an explanation though

the usual fag emo shit Ignore Report View Thread Reply
Jarvis Murdstone - Mon, 10 Jun 2019 02:24:02 EST ID:hiKxQg3e No.529807
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so like
there are these insecure straight boys who dont understand what dressing like a crackhead means and like hip hop and guido shit, you know, snooki and the boardwalk kinda shit

i'm actually totally ok with them but i what I dont get is the hate they bring for not hating on gays and just interacting with gay people like you would anybody else

if an elderly flirtatious woman winks at me I wink back same with gays im not interested in

i dont get why men get so fucking competitive about this shit and insecure and shit. if you getting pussy every night regardless like who gives a fuck. i'm tired of having to front all this pussy game on account of these people I just want to flirt with my side hoes, smoke weed and bang my woman. why is this such a big deal to other wannabe hood gangstas especially white immigrant boys
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Matilda Tillingdale - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 08:09:59 EST ID:8JMT0wmI No.529844 Ignore Report Reply
>what I dont get is the hate they bring for not hating on gays and just interacting with gay people like you would anybody else
Some people are just gay-haters OP. It's good that we're straight men who aren't like tha-
>if an elderly flirtatious woman winks at me I wink back same with gays im not interested in
>same with gays im not interested in
A sexy milf is one thing- 60 is the new 40 and all- but nigga you gay if you winking back at gay men. And don't pretend it's about social courtesy and norms, because no gay man has any social expectation for straight men to return their affectionate winks. You do you though OP.
Graham Singerhudging - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 09:56:51 EST ID:Je9nm5wp No.529845 Ignore Report Reply
I can't imagine winking at someone I thought was straight, I don't want to get my ass beat.

OP, maybe you need to think about some things.
Nicholas Dubblefare - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 15:33:44 EST ID:Lny7/LNo No.529846 Ignore Report Reply
>same with gays im not interested in
>OP is implying there are gays he IS interested in
>Probably explains his frustration with his bros hating on gay people
Yo OP you bisexual as fuck at least. You a ho.

How to talk to women who are obviously interested in you Ignore Report View Thread Reply
Nathaniel Donderhall - Sun, 02 Jun 2019 07:12:02 EST ID:836iMfNs No.529690
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I am not autistic. I know that is a strange way to open a post but hear me out. I am not autistic enough to have no awareness of body language. I can tell when women are interested in me or whether they are closed off and uninterested. However, I have no idea how to start a conversation with them or even look back at them once I know they are interested. I freeze up, get incredibly anxious and then don't look at them at all. I proceed to avoid interacting with them and flee in terror like a frightened child. How can I coach myself to be more confident? I am not sure whether I have a fear of rejection or more of an impulse to avoid being seen as a creep. I know it is illogical to think I will e seen as a creep if the girl is very obviously open to talking with me, but I cannot help shaking the feeling regardless.
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Archie Claystone - Thu, 06 Jun 2019 15:50:47 EST ID:8DXKLi1o No.529751 Ignore Report Reply
OP did you get bullied as a child? You have almost the same exact problem as me.

I can talk to girls just fine, even the really hot ones. I do it all day at my job in fact.
However, as soon as I find out they're single (which is rare) I turn into an uncharismatic, distant asshole. I swear I don't even do it on purpose, it's like a reflex.
I blame this on the fact that I got bullied in my teens by both boys and girls. When girls bullied me, it hurt the most because I expected them to be caring and loving. One particularly evil girl "pretended" to like me and told me to meet her somewhere on the playground. By the age of 13 I was cynical enough to realize this could only be an ambush to laugh at me some more.

Needless to say I got trust issues now. I'm afraid to let my guard down around women, even though I know in my brain that I'm not in high school anymore. This is probably why I remain at virgin at 30.
Molly Pevingbury - Wed, 12 Jun 2019 00:03:17 EST ID:aVoxNjSR No.529832 Ignore Report Reply
>However, as soon as I find out they're single (which is rare) I turn into an uncharismatic, distant asshole. I swear I don't even do it on purpose, it's like a reflex.
OP here. Are you me? I have really bad trust issues and was bullied as a child but I'm not sure that I would pin it on that completely. I have a pathological fear of rejection when it comes to relationships. It takes a really unique and beautiful girl, one that I'm afraid I'll miss out on if I don't do anything, to get me to ask someone out. Even then I miss out on opportunities for that all the time.
Doris Saffingstock - Wed, 12 Jun 2019 10:32:28 EST ID:1iiQ8ACG No.529837 Ignore Report Reply
Same. I didn't get bullied though but I got rejected a lot (not just romantic interests) and didn't know how to deal with it properly. Got depressed but eventually got out of it only to make the exact same mistakes again.

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