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#qq on IRC by Mintzs !GD3wBpep0Y - Sun, 13 Aug 2017 12:14:49 EST ID:d5kHsYag No.518069 Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hi folks,

If you're looking to talk to someone immediately about any problems you have in your life and have nobody close to you, come and speak to us!

Join us on IRC on #qq. Most of us have different time zones but if you stay there, one of us will be there.

Don't be afraid to speak up.
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Albert Drubberpun - Fri, 21 Sep 2018 04:40:21 EST ID:KF3yGmDF No.526747 Ignore Report Quick Reply

you gotta fight for your right back in, i had to do a dance and send it to them it worked tho
Phyllis Sozzlestod - Sun, 23 Sep 2018 21:04:54 EST ID:dVp8iHEG No.526777 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Nah he should just evade and post pictures of his scrotum in retaliation
Ernest Ferryseck - Mon, 08 Oct 2018 18:37:40 EST ID:NJkLq9MW No.527056 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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i had to draw this in order to get unbanned. i was like nigga you want me to draw what

Childhood Realization by John Clumblewill - Mon, 15 Oct 2018 03:50:30 EST ID:vUaVEVlD No.527170 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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As an adult I'm starting to realize how utterly naive I was as a child, even as a teenager.

In school I would put myself around other kids who treated me like crap, but I didn't even realize it. I think I just desperately wanted to fit in and have friends.

Even in highschool my 'friendgroup' wasn't kind to me at all, and I have no clue how I would consider them friends or even spend time around any of them.

I only truly realized this in the last couple years running into old classmates, now as adults. I was really friendly to them but in return I could tell they were intimidated by me. And it stings a bit considering how many of them still are friends and hangout with eachother on a regular basis.

Now that I'm older reflecting on how I was treated it freaks me out a bit and I'm wondering if this is normal?

Seeking help by William Claywill - Sun, 14 Oct 2018 17:52:38 EST ID:TZiiBsES No.527164 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Ever since I started smoking I've had this feeling that I couldn't get rid of.
While trying to get high I only worsen the feeling and literaly throw up every single time.
Its as if feeling as a disappointed,paranoia,anxiety,depression,humiliation,shame,fear,guilt mixed up all together with constant negative thoughts.
It was bearable until I did coke and weed and now its that times thousand. I can't enjoy any high anymore, I always throw up.
I don't want to die I want to fix this but I don't know what to do please help me.
Please help me
Wesley Donnerspear - Sun, 14 Oct 2018 18:00:25 EST ID:vYe3Po+d No.527165 Ignore Report Quick Reply
stop it? it's just weed
Molly Beshstet - Sun, 14 Oct 2018 18:09:43 EST ID:BMrBkVc9 No.527166 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Yeah stop smoking weed. Take time out for several months or more and if that doesn't work just quit. It's likely not a purely physiological reaction so it should go away if you can just let the connections break.

Of course if it is a physiological reaction then it's important you do it less. So Time out and then not using it for ages/ever is probably for the best if you experience this. It's pretty hard to get mentally ill smoking weed but if you experience symptoms while high and keep smoking, it's not unheard of (I've seen people say it's happened on /qq/) that they get worse and last longer until one day you get high and then sober up and they're there.

Don't smoke weed until next spring. And I mean when it actually gets warm, not the 1st of March. I'd say avoid coke and don't step up other substances to compensate. If possible be sober for a while. If you can't be sober for a while DEFINITELY be sober and sort out the root cause because that's what's making you feel like this whether it's brain problems or just trauma or anxiety
Walter Clenninghall - Mon, 15 Oct 2018 02:01:31 EST ID:TZiiBsES No.527169 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Thank you my man

Stupid Blog Post Incoming by Lillian Pinnerchitch - Thu, 11 Oct 2018 17:35:54 EST ID:jnas4L6T No.527107 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hey /qq/,

Just needed to type this out and shoot it off to the interwebs. Sometimes it helps to put down swirling thoughts into words. This year has been one of the most tumultuous and up heaving of my life, in good ways and bad. I'm not trying to whine or complain because I know countless people have it far worse than me, I'm more just trying to identify what I am feeling so I can work on changing it.

In May I got out of a 5 year relationship with a girl who I lived with. We were essentially married without being married, shared vehicles and condo that we were paying off, went to family things together, etc. However we would fight all the time and sometimes the fights would get extreme, hours of screaming, etc. The last two years were particularly hellish. Finally I had the means and the will to break things off so I got a new car, new apartment, and moved, all within a week.

I then began dating as rapidly and voraciously as possible to mask the pain and loneliness I felt (this is my first time living alone) and went through a couple girls with whom things quickly deteriorated for mutual reasons. However, I met a girl who I dated for a couple of months that was the most compatible-with-me human I have ever met. We had numerous hobbies in common, impressed each other constantly with things we knew or skills we had, made each other laugh non-stop, always made each other feel better, and of course the sex was out of this world.

Surprise, she is also an alcoholic, benzo addict, and worst of all, an IV heroin addict. After multiple crazy episodes (I made some threads about them), she ended up ghosting me. We met up for dinner to talk things over a couple weeks later but I was so angry at how she had left me like I was worthless after the intense love and passion that we had shared, that I just walked out and left her there. We haven't communicated since, over a month I guess.

I'd been drinking a lot to suppress my feelings, and continuing to try to date, even though I had little to no love left to offer, I just wanted companionship I guess. Now I have two very nice, very sweet girls who both want to date me exclusively, no matter how many times I try to say I need time or I'm not ready they are both so eager to make things serious. I feel guilty to keep seeing them (and of course, guilty that I am seeing them simultaneously) because I know they are almost definitely going to end up hurt in the end.

I don't want to hurt people, but I am realizing this little junkie adventure has really crushed my heart and soul. I put so much into trying to make it work with her, she filled me with so much joy, that when things fell apart it's like I just can't do it all over again. After such a long years of hell she was like a beacon of hope that things can get better, and then the beacon just burned out and disappeared.

I know I sound like a cunt probably but that's what I'm dealing with. Got a bunch of lovey dovey texts from them I need to respond to but I can barely bring myself to shower or eat let alone woo another person's heart. I dream about this girl every night, all night long, and just wake up feeling so sick and miserable. Why can't I just logic away the feelings?
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Hamilton Drumblestine - Thu, 11 Oct 2018 18:58:41 EST ID:jeyD+EBD No.527108 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Yeah that's the thing hey, if you were to follow your heart you'd almost have to be even more jaded and cynical than you are now because that's the kind of mindset you'd need to be able to accept her behavior. You cant close your eyes anymore and the pain on going back to her would be immense and persistent.

So yeah, you will have pain no matter what you do my friend. That's the price of infatuation. It is intoxicating.
Eugene Giffingcocke - Fri, 12 Oct 2018 13:17:29 EST ID:Pwq0Fy/H No.527131 Ignore Report Quick Reply
> you will have pain no matter what you do my friend. That's the price of infatuation. It is intoxicating

sorry just regurgitatingbuttt
Nell Henningbanks - Sat, 13 Oct 2018 06:46:37 EST ID:BMrBkVc9 No.527142 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Your relationship failed, instead of growing or learning or coming to terms you jumped into a series of relationships. You will continue to hurt others and yourself unless you stop drinking, stop running and face your shit like a real adult who wants to grow. Start with working out why your long term relationship failed. Why did things deterioriate? Why didn't they get fixed? Could you avoid it? How much was you and how much was just you picking the wrong person. The list goes on, it's 5 years there's a lot of things to learn. The goal isn't to beat yourself up but to look at bad decisions you made, actual mistakes not things you that were right given a flawed information set either. Stop dating, stop drinking. Actually do something that is good for you.

Your life has the potential to get worse but not to get better if you just keep doing this dumb shit OP.
Reuben Blackville - Sun, 14 Oct 2018 18:12:29 EST ID:6VelNwAJ No.527167 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Very good post!
I also was in a very long relationship that ended like a year ago. There are some other parallels too, the failed ltr was also quite like a marriage, then afterwards a fast cut with lots of dating amd drugs/alcohol. Now i'm in a better relationship, but not with a borderline girl - doenst matter.
Maybe look at it this way: could it be that ypu were not at all over your long term relationship when you dated the junky girl? Possibly you projected your desire for intimacy and the warmth of your lost relationship in your new girl (?). So when you miss her smile you actually miss the smile of your ex girlfriend before. So with this in mind it might be helpful to learn to "not love" your ltr partner. This way the feelings for your junky gf might also disappear.
Often borderline personality disorder partners seem to be perfect in the beginning of a relationship because they tend to lie. Therefore it might be quite difficult to forget them or stop loving dem despite them being very toxic partners.
For letting go of an ex look into the recent research of sandra langeslag and michelle sanchez missouri (there was a recent paper, covered in mainstream media)
Eliza Winnergold - Sun, 14 Oct 2018 20:27:09 EST ID:EAInNdJP No.527168 Ignore Report Quick Reply
She is a dopehead. She will consistently put her needs over yours every single time.

can you even trust any women? by Graham Clenkinwot - Thu, 13 Sep 2018 02:48:19 EST ID:xeQtH2nf No.526656 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I've heard of so many girls cheating, my friends who are girls have cheated (most of them I think?), even the ones who don't overtly cheat play all sorts of fucked games. Idk I got dumped like 2 months ago and while the thing wasn't that serious to begin with, I can't get it out of my head that she's out there getting railed lol.

My buddy's girl of 2 1/2 years he found out today was fucking another guy for a year and a half of their relationship and she dumped him. How are there even people capable of that? And why does it feel like that's the fucking norm now? I'm afraid of getting into anything anymore because how the fuck do you trust? It's like they're all scheming ass emotionally driven animals. There's gotta be some good ones out there, right?!

I feel like my whole life I was taught like, okay this is how things are in relationships: monogamy is the norm, most girls are respectable and good to men. Lots of men are shitty, but there's still good dudes or whatever and they can do alright. It's starting to look like it's mostly shitty people out here and there's a couple of us non-shitty people. I do okay attracting girls and getting pussy or whatever but it just feels like love is just an idea that is super fucking rare and somehow made it into the mainstream... But it's not real, is it?
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Angus Grandfoot - Fri, 05 Oct 2018 00:20:35 EST ID:v/5SmLId No.526987 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I don't think statistics works like that. There are factors that make someone less predisposed to cheating, like not being a lecherous asshole (man or woman). Someone who sees sex as the main value of a relationship is probably likely to cheat because sex is probably all they're after anyway.

At the very least make sure the person you're with doesn't treat the act of love making as simple fucking. That's Wilhelm Reich's advice for sexual hygiene: sex is an act of love, and separated from love it becomes pathological.
Beatrice Brinkinnack - Fri, 05 Oct 2018 00:59:12 EST ID:+eu7fILs No.526991 Ignore Report Quick Reply
im a guy and only would behave like this if i knew the girl was 100% loyal then i could be

im thinking about just being a total slut tho like there's no point because there's no way to know and a lot of the time its all shit. i did have a loyal girlfriend before tho and i cheated a few times mostly just kissing though. but she always hung out with dudes that came to hang out with her brother when i asked her not to thats a little suspect i dont care who you are
Archie Brenderpick - Fri, 05 Oct 2018 12:00:44 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.526998 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>I didn't invite her up. I don't think anyone would have told my ex, or even known about it. Fuck that though. If my ex were in a similar situation I honestly do not know what she would've done.

I can't tell if you're paranoid or jealous or both.
Albert Brepperlack - Fri, 05 Oct 2018 13:08:52 EST ID:xeQtH2nf No.527000 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Both to some extent I guess? That's why I made the thread. This thread and reading Mark Manson and shit has helped a bit. It sucks because it seems like no one but PUA types have any clear heuristics for this type of shit. And those seem dubious. My ex would hang out with a lot of people, had tons of male friends, etc. I couldn't say shit because I was always going out and partying w/ friends too. In the beginning she was even getting texts from this guy who she slept with who used to be her best friend prior... She told me about it etc, but idk. Where do you draw the line? Is everything cool until you actually catch them? I never went through her phone or anything, so probably I wouldn't have known... Like ever.

Shit doesn't seem to have a standard solution.
Reuben Blackville - Sun, 14 Oct 2018 17:48:35 EST ID:6VelNwAJ No.527163 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Hey op! Guy here
I have never cheated on one of my girls, and have never been cheated on. However i have often heard of close male friends who have been cheated on.
This and the somewhat growing acceptance for infidelity in the media has really got me thinking about all this thing. It really is scary to think about this and for real, it makes one think twice about starting a family.
I dunno, of course a girl will first off say about herself that she would never cheat on you... but you know, we are only human and what does a word count? I always take into account that it might happen, maybe i am an pessimist, but i recon that the hurt would not be as strong when i expected it beforehand.
In a relationship i just tell my partner to be true to me, i say if she cheated on me that she tells me. I would propably not get angry, but either ent the relationship or just "cheat" on her myself. I propably wouldnt even consider it cheating then since if she fucked someone else the relationship status automatically turns into open for me.
I guess its all just a matter of your attitude. Have a plan, expect the worst, dont give too much of a fuck...
But what do i know, maybe i'm just too much of a sociopath as i dont invest too much emotionally in another person

addiction by Esther Decklelock - Sat, 06 Oct 2018 20:50:31 EST ID:FSsw7BQ2 No.527022 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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how do i stop masturbating iv been faping since i was 11
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Edwin Blackdale - Mon, 08 Oct 2018 13:08:54 EST ID:RO4g+pTF No.527047 Ignore Report Quick Reply
have you ever tried to continue fapping so much that eventually you just can't anymore?

not actually joking realty. over consumption of porn and overmasturbation causing men to get erectile dysfunction is actually fairly common these days. can't really keep fappin wit a flappy fapper. so good news buddy, just keep goin until you literally can't anymore
Hedda Hingershit - Mon, 08 Oct 2018 16:17:28 EST ID:42wGzjUi No.527054 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Find better uses for your time. Maybe... learn proper grammar and punctuation.

How old are you anyway?
Shit Drollywat - Thu, 11 Oct 2018 13:59:56 EST ID:sQDM5bBX No.527105 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Burn your hands so that it hurts trying to jerk off. Might turn you into a sadomasochist but there ain't nothing better than finding new kinks
Reuben Blackville - Sun, 14 Oct 2018 17:09:08 EST ID:6VelNwAJ No.527162 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Hey bro! Same boat here... so i want to give you some constructive advice... i struggled with porn addiction and masturbation and of course i came across the whole nofap thingy. That was like five or six years ago. My longest (!) Nofap strike was three weeks long and i have not achieved longer abstinence times ever since. The three week abstinence was quite at the beginning of my nofap experience. I also was in a relationship most of the time, sometimes having weak erections, but really seldom actually, so i thought that the three week nofap streak and regular sex with another human being was enough to "reset" my brain.
However, when not in a relationship/dating i always went back to porn and masturbation.
I dunno but after all these years i came to the conclusion that nofap just isnt for me.
BUT what i have found also was that the real problem is not the masturbation but the porn. And i cant stress this enough: dont beat yourself up because you cant keep your fingers off of yourself. It really just makes the whole situation really bad, destroying your self confidence. It makes you believe that you are weak. But you are not weak just because you masturbate, nofap just isnt for everyone. I find that i can masturbate daily and have strong desire for my partner, also having sex daily, with strong erections. There are just some people with an extremely high sex-drive, maybe get your testosterone levels checked ;D
Just cut out the porn. Nofap is a bit of a fad i guess. I really believe there are people who greatly profit from doing nofap, but dont forget that people are different. For my part, my confidence doesnt suffer _at all_ when i ejaculate daily (be it from masturbation or regular sex - quite the contrary. When i cum daily i sleep better, have no desire to watch porn and since i stopped beating myself up because i cant do nofap my confidence actually got better. And i fuck my gf like a madman.
Porn is the problem, not masturbation.

1 year later by Ebenezer Brapperfield - Sat, 13 Oct 2018 06:07:34 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.527141 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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October 2017
  • deep in the void of 6 months into unemployed, isolating myself, no chicks, no social life, no nothing not even weed, would wake up and porn, Netflix & Xbox (not even forums), contemplating suicide because I got sectioned for the 2nd time. I was moving so little that I’d lose my balance walking and my hands hurt from Xbox. Didn’t think I was going to move on from my ex.

October 2018
  • been working out, had sex / mini relationships with a few chicks this year, been drawing a lot, got a job that gives me 20-30hrs a week, social, confident, doing fun things. Still broke, still a bit of a loser for my age / level of education but fuck it.

Idk, I remember some of my posts here last year and felt like celebrating. Things are better, things got better. Things are going to continue to get better.

If u going through something, give yourself the time required to make a change. Small steps lead to big progress n all that.
Angus Criblinghidging - Sun, 14 Oct 2018 04:00:14 EST ID:kBAl0NE6 No.527151 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Very happy to hear that! Congratulations! What steps did you take to make things better?
Molly Sonkinville - Sun, 14 Oct 2018 16:51:49 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.527160 Ignore Report Quick Reply

It started with pretty small steps.

Rather than gaming all day, I’d stick movies on and draw for the same of time.
Then I started to see close friends more often.
Then I got pretty serious about art, so I found a vision and purpose again.
Then I got a sick tattoo and started to work out bcuz self esteem.
Then I started going on Tinder and meeting women successfully.
Then I started cycling more and spending time outdoors.
Then I got a job with low tier hours.

It’s not been one big success montage. Did Have some pretty rough times during this series of events. I still get random bouts of depression for a couple weeks and struggle with energy fatigue/paranoid insecure thoughts.

But it’s better than before.

Mental illness by Dale Earnhardt jr - Mon, 28 May 2018 20:44:25 EST ID:g9t4tORB No.524448 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hey all,
recently I have been seeing and hearing shit that isn't there.
This started a couple days ago with me hearing a beeping noise while over at my friends that no one else could hear, I thought I just had good hearing until it started changing frequency at which it beeped and then I realized that it was probably in my head. I've had pretty intense auditory hallucinations in the past but this one was just so real. these past 24 hours have had even more hallucinations both visual and auditory and I have been incredibly paranoid about everything.

what the fuck should I do?
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Polly Grimforth - Mon, 17 Sep 2018 00:57:29 EST ID:9eHG5dWu No.526696 Ignore Report Quick Reply
really? Me too
Im renting a ryder truck next week and getting the fuck out of dodge. We shall see how it goes...
Emma Bunham - Mon, 17 Sep 2018 01:08:09 EST ID:jfR0c7UU No.526697 Ignore Report Quick Reply
What about a vacation to clear your mind. Plan a week off. Take your car or buy a bus ticket and just disappear for a week. Let yourself calm down and leave a plain note “went on vacation”, so nobody knows where you are, but won’t report you missing or some shit to the police. It’s always helped me when shit gets bad. Also, if you make all the money, set some ground rules for shit.
I have combat PTSD and bipolar. Shit can get BAD. I’ve learned I’m getting bad when I lie over benign shit before I realize it (like, someone asks if I had done something like work, and despite having finished, I’ll say I didn’t). I have no fucking clue why.
Good luck though, pulling for you.
Alice Cinnerburk - Sun, 30 Sep 2018 12:42:20 EST ID:uFSIIlhv No.526873 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Well, since I made my last post 2 weeks ago, I will tell you that things are getting better, slowly but surely. I am seeing my old therapist again and he already has helped me so much. I'm meditating again and am going back to the gym on Tuesday. I'm 178lbs now as of today and I truly proud of myself for sticking with my diet for many months and getting what I need out of it. Also, my hygiene has gotten better. I'm showering and everything else on a daily basis unlike before when my hygiene was horrible and I feel better about myself now just from taking care of myself better than I have in quite a while. Finally, I started my suboxone taper today. I'm done with opiates. Don't need them anymore as a crutch. I'm better than that now. I know that things can only get better from here. My recovery is the most important thing in my life right now. I will get better mentally and emotionally.
Hamilton Goblingspear - Sun, 14 Oct 2018 12:05:03 EST ID:PMiKxfAC No.527156 Ignore Report Quick Reply
2 weeks later since my last post. ive been on subs now for 2 weeks and have lost some weight and now going back to the gym, im starting to feel a bit happy again. starting to meditate everyday starting today. i know itll help me which it has before, things are starting to look up for me.
Molly Beshstet - Sun, 14 Oct 2018 12:38:39 EST ID:BMrBkVc9 No.527157 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Taking pride in the shit you do and always be working towards something or multiple somethings is a good way to make life a lot more satisfying and a lot less soul destroying.

I am worried people are only nice to me because they think I am retarded. by Eliza Droblingstock - Fri, 12 Oct 2018 18:01:18 EST ID:Snkz6Zsi No.527136 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Ebenezer Gizzleford - Sat, 13 Oct 2018 09:12:37 EST ID:USUZpST+ No.527144 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>“All through my life I've had this strange unaccountable feeling that people are only nice to me because they think I am retarded, and no one would tell me that."
>"No," said the old man, "that's just perfectly normal paranoia. Everyone in the Universe has that.”
Ebenezer Brapperfield - Sat, 13 Oct 2018 19:26:06 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.527150 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Don’t bastardise hitchhikers guide to the galaxy quotes for your own devious agenda.
Albert Brookhood - Sun, 14 Oct 2018 06:58:20 EST ID:USUZpST+ No.527153 Ignore Report Quick Reply
It's a really common paranoia though. Ask around.
Cyril Herrystock - Sun, 14 Oct 2018 07:15:41 EST ID:eUNsGCnf No.527154 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OP doesn't seem retarded

Moved to a small town and hate it here by Simon Crongerwill - Fri, 05 Oct 2018 05:39:50 EST ID:DGXx8e01 No.526995 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I just moved to a small town in NC about 2 weeks ago, population of around 2,400. I was pretty excited about it because this is my first time having my own place with no room mates in about a year and a quarter. There is absolutely nothing to do here though. And the people here in general seem very gossipy and miserable. I'll give some examples...
*So I rarely leave my apartment outside of looking for work, getting some cigarettes, picking up a money order, or getting a small bite to eat. I smoke a lot on my side porch (about once an hour sometimes a bit more frequently) and I guess where I'm most seen. So I had picked up a money order the day before at the nearby Food Lion and go into the dollar general to pester them for a job. And as soon as I come in a guy starts telling a story about how smoking is such a bad habit and "his brother" is trying to quit so recently switched to smoking outdoors and people who can't afford to smoke shouldn't be smoking. I'm pretty sure he was taking a shot at me, So I just ignored it and continued on with my day
*I go to the Bojangles where I have been trying to work to eat last sunday. By the way I'm white and one of the assistant managers is black and ghetto. And I order my food and she is saying something to one of her workers and I didn't catch it all but she said "I can't afford it" in response to something and laughed a little. I just looked at her and smiled and sat down and ate, cleaned my table off, and left.
*Today I went to Food Lion after doing an application for there to try to speak to a manager and to pick up another money order to cover my internet bill. I was smoking a cigarette outside before I went in and a woman starts up a conversation with me. Doesn't even get a pleasant word out of her mouth just starts talking about a woman who had just drove off in a nice car, said that she used to talk to her and since the woman had become well off, she never speaks to her anymore. But she's no better than anyone else because her husband runs the gunshop and got in trouble for embezzlement. I just said well we all have our flaws. And wished her a good day and went inside Food Lion, where I immediately hear…
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Phineas Fuvingpad - Sat, 06 Oct 2018 19:21:30 EST ID:DGXx8e01 No.527019 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Wow. So I was just sitting on my porch and seen two girls drive by. And I heard one of them say "somebody said he was a rat". Really?!? Lol I went through this in high school when I had to move. I guess because I'm white and wear glasses or something. I guess in one sense I am a rat. It's my goal in life to fight human trafficking and I wore a shirt recently I won in a contest that says end sex slavery on the front of it and on the back advertises a local non profit. But damn I like to smoke weed cmon people. I hate when people judge me like that and they don't even know me. You'd think people would have the common sense to know if i was here to bust a narcotics ring I wouldn't walk around with such a bold shirt on...
Fanny Trotlock - Sat, 06 Oct 2018 19:59:11 EST ID:BMrBkVc9 No.527021 Ignore Report Quick Reply
This thread has brought the crazies out.

2500 isn't a town though. It's a large village. It doesn't matter what most people think as long as they don't dislike you enough to work against you. If you are decent and easy to get on with then you will have no problems. People may talk shit but it won't go anywhere. If you do something cool or are just all around decent that will also spread. Just be considerate of your neighbours and they'll say nice things behind your back.

2 girls could be talking about anyone. There's 1200+ guys in town they might be talking about. Or they might even be talking about a chinchilla. Don't go nuts, just take some time to establish yourself. The judging here is either two way, or it's everyone here judging locals who may not even know about you.

If you are insecure enough that you're not reading half the posts in this thread and wondering who hurt them then you might be so insecure and paranoid it puts others on edge. Chill a bit. We've all been through shit at some point that was unwarranted but if you assume the worst your defensive posture will make people uncomfortable very quickly.
Jack Brookfield - Sun, 07 Oct 2018 02:13:05 EST ID:pg97IcjR No.527026 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Thread needs Log Lady.
Esther Brurringwone - Wed, 10 Oct 2018 21:16:42 EST ID:LVLZpkrK No.527096 Ignore Report Quick Reply
why is East Point in your OP?
btw that hookah bar next to Chairs sucks
Cyril Herrystock - Sun, 14 Oct 2018 06:51:48 EST ID:eUNsGCnf No.527152 Ignore Report Quick Reply
> it's a small town and there is nothing to do
> why does everyone keep making conversation with me and concerning themselves with my life

eh.. I wonder

Can't stop worrying by Emma Wopperstatch - Sat, 13 Oct 2018 15:44:54 EST ID:j8vD/8dp No.527147 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I can't stop worrying about losing my job, being mugged or killed for no reason and my health, I'v always been like this but it's become really bad lately, quite often I find myself short of breath nad sleepless because I can longer stop worrying about everything, what should I do.
Hamilton Honderstack - Sat, 13 Oct 2018 18:54:42 EST ID:U5HeAx3l No.527148 Ignore Report Quick Reply
do something 17 times and it's a habit. have an emotional lead to a thought and always following through with it, then it is autonomous.

feel that negative emotion. feel its physical presence in your body. and shut out the voice. stop giving it reason. stop letting knowledge trump undeveloped values. stop validating the false reasoning. accept it is a persisting fact but still a what if chance, that is out of your power.

nothing wrong with looking both ways before going through a green light.
Charlotte Demblewell - Sat, 13 Oct 2018 19:04:45 EST ID:7dovOwn5 No.527149 Ignore Report Quick Reply
This lady right here might help you with the sleeplessness. The rest will become easier from there.

Hey, this is where I'm supposed to put this by Caroline Hedgebury - Mon, 08 Oct 2018 00:38:05 EST ID:XGjEpltc No.527037 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>Brother has personality disorder

>Diagnosed bipolar but it's definitely antisocial (sociopath), and probably narcissistic too.

>He's owed me money for like four years now. Spends every extra cent he gets on super strong weed and video games.

>Excuse is he's so depressed. He convinced his doctor to give him a high dose of antidepressants which make his manic symptoms worse and more frequent.

>Anytime an issue is brought up he'll go to any lengths to justify his position on the matter. He'll stand there and talk at full volume at you, for hours if you let him, until you admit defeat or do something to piss him off enough for him to leave you alone. He doesn't take advice from anyone. Weed, depending on the strain, just makes him more excited/agitated.

>He just came home raving about his newest idea he won't go through with, acting like he's on meth.

He's only gotten worse over the years. I know the solution is to move away (but I'd feel a little bad because I'm pretty much his only friend). I'm mostly just venting here. If anyone else has any ideas that would be cool.
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Jenny Siddleson - Thu, 11 Oct 2018 12:10:31 EST ID:eUNsGCnf No.527102 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Do his emotions change quickly, like in a day? Or does he stay manic for long periods? Psychopaths and narcissists don't get manic at all, you can be a bit of a dick without being a psychopath
Eugene Giffingcocke - Thu, 11 Oct 2018 21:00:29 EST ID:Pwq0Fy/H No.527110 Ignore Report Quick Reply
This whole thread i can relate to but this post hit the nail on the head for me. Kinda sad to say but as much as i don't want too, I think i need to find out whats wrong me. Your post just screams ME
Eugene Hezzleperk - Fri, 12 Oct 2018 02:13:29 EST ID:yFDLSomA No.527113 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Wrong, psychopathy and bipolar disorder have roughly a 10% comorbidity rate.
Augustus Fankinsire - Sat, 13 Oct 2018 15:13:35 EST ID:ehhnNOgT No.527146 Ignore Report Quick Reply
put lithium in his food or give him an ultimatum and tell him he need to take lithium or you're out of there because you can't deal with his crazy manic ass.
Angus Pockhall - Sun, 14 Oct 2018 07:58:15 EST ID:3A/9rSkO No.527155 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Lithium is toxic to the liver at a high enough blood level (which is why people who take it have to be blood monitored strictly by a doctor) and you could stand to face manslaughter charges if you tried this in real life.

Classic /qq/ tier advice, commit felonies because you can't grow a spine.

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