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Spare us the story by Jarvis Bonderpedge - Sat, 13 May 2017 12:53:05 EST ID:qkOc6AWo No.516199 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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If I was to say that my wick has an extra side to it and that I have been burning it from all three ends, then maybe that'd be a starting point.
I currently live each day as if it were my last and I do not mean this in a good way.

I thought that maybe the others out there silently suffering who have already told their story or have no idea where to begin, then maybe this thread could serve as a template.

Discuss; dismiss. Deny?

Quietly accept, it's just another QQ thread.
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Simon Nicklewell - Sat, 13 May 2017 16:48:02 EST ID:zeAktjTF No.516208 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I was going to post basically saying not to bother with /qq/ posts if you just want people to say "sure you're fucked, you can't change anything". People do that for peace of mind so they can keep on taking the short term eays route.

Most of those people are their own worst enemy. Most have been genuinely fucked by life and have it harder than most but they're rarely the ones who had it worst. They'd probably start explaining they weren't "lucky" enough to go down that hard and bounce but a lot of people like them do bounce. I like to hope that most of them eventually pull through but who knows? until they do or they die we'll never know.
Jarvis Bonderpedge - Sat, 13 May 2017 17:35:48 EST ID:qkOc6AWo No.516212 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I want to know them and I want them to know me. I want my silence not to be known as indifference, but I want to know when they can feel that and I want to know to feel it to.

No one is ever going to have it the worst, and they will say they were lucky sometimes without you or I to speak for them. I never have to put the words into their mouths that their silence may fill.
I like to hope too. I hope that I might know.

That might just be enough for you to know.
Augustus Dattingforth - Sat, 13 May 2017 20:08:52 EST ID:qkOc6AWo No.516217 Ignore Report Quick Reply
oh wait, you were just talking about me and I was high.

okay, thread over. nb
Eliza Nicklespear - Wed, 24 May 2017 01:23:37 EST ID:PwtNHKNe No.516441 Ignore Report Quick Reply
"When a person can no longer shed tears for others, they should realize the time for their death is near"
Martha Hindletune - Thu, 25 May 2017 21:18:31 EST ID:Ckpd0lxP No.516501 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Huh. Where is this quote from? Feels like me in both respects. I've been thinking about necking myself for a bit now, but not with the same fervor that I used to possess. I keep making excuses though, family events, stuff like that.

Nearly just hung myself. by Lydia Blenkinduck - Thu, 25 May 2017 20:43:43 EST ID:XBteWUdI No.516491 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Just tied myself to my light with a metal wire and it broke just before blacking out. Fuck did I just attempt suicide? What do i do from here out i've never done this before. Carry on with the slower drug based death?
Angus Horringlere - Thu, 25 May 2017 20:45:46 EST ID:UjNuOR6B No.516493 Ignore Report Quick Reply
yes you did.
maybe seek therapy.
Lydia Sashfield - Thu, 25 May 2017 20:58:42 EST ID:ujVLnpKy No.516496 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I'm really glad you're alive OP. You did just attempt suicide, and you need to reach out and get help.

You can read this first before calling the number below that I've posted:

National Suicide Prevention Hotline: 1-800-273-8255. They can help you figure out what to do next. They are there to help and always available.

Trust me man it takes work to get better but if you want to it is possible and there are people out there who care. I care for you and I don't even know you. Please talk to someone. Goodluck.

Other resources:
Beatrice Gubblehitch - Thu, 25 May 2017 21:14:05 EST ID:RWMYdvNQ No.516500 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Why did you do it OP?

Am I being fucked with by Jack Pushford - Sun, 21 May 2017 13:14:20 EST ID:13pkC2bm No.516384 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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In the past whenever shit like this has went down, the first thing I've done is run to /qq/ to ask you guys opinion, but I've been kinda hesitant to do it this time because I know how cynical this board seems to be in general when it comes to women and I have a feeling that I know exactly what you're going to say. Now that's not to say you're WRONG on the matter, but just hear me out on this one.

A couple of really hot 17 year olds (I'm 24) joined my team a few weeks ago and since getting to know them I have pretty much been getting some really, REALLY awkward flirting off the 2 of them. Like, they are "mature for their age" for 17 year olds means they just want to talk about shagging all the time. I'm outgoing and I'm not ugly enough for it to be an issue, but I am horribly sexually anxious and basically every time I've been in a relationship it's been me getting pursued by the girl until she finally kinda forces herself on me, this is the only way I have ever had sex or been in a relationship. So I'm constantly coming up with reasons in my own head why NOT to go for shit which is where the basis for all this stuff comes from.

Am I just being horribly fucked with to inflate the ego of these 2 girls? Like, I don't seize up and get really awkward when they start talking about who could give the best blowjob, but I can see there's probably something entertaining about my reaction when they are having competitions to draw me and arguing over how big they should draw the bulge in my trousers. Both of them are fun to hang about with and talk to, but the endless sexual innuendos get kinda annoying, and also come with the side effect of making me totally fucking fancy both of them.

Now, one of them (who has just turned 18, so able to come to the clubs) was all like "so, when you gonna take me out on a date then?" which I took to mean that she wants me to take her out on a date, but when I have brought this up again her reaction has been like "if you want to yeah you can take us both out on a date!" which sounds to me more like me paying for 2 girls dinner and not an awful lot like a date at all. The same thing happened when I of…
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David Feblingspear - Tue, 23 May 2017 16:58:13 EST ID:n1yNxChx No.516434 Ignore Report Quick Reply
alright now pop those cherries boi
Thomas Durringhork - Tue, 23 May 2017 17:20:17 EST ID:jBrsMkU0 No.516435 Ignore Report Quick Reply
If you do give some 17 year old her first taste of ketamine, please don't try to bone her while she's on it. Seems pretty fucked up to me.
Basil Greenworth - Tue, 23 May 2017 18:25:40 EST ID:13pkC2bm No.516436 Ignore Report Quick Reply
After re-reading my post I can see where you're coming from, but honestly, you're speaking to the wrong guy about that man.
>every time I've been in a relationship it's been me getting pursued by the girl until she finally kinda forces herself on me, this is the only way I have ever had sex or been in a relationship.
Nothing is going to change there. Like, I aint gonna instigate shit, I don't really think I even can.

Ket isn't really a sexy drug either in my opinion. It's much better for just cuddling and shit. I did that once before, pretty much a whole weekend of it. Me and 2 crazy hot girls just lying in bed for a weekend, ordering chinese food and taking ketamine, talking about our feelings. That was pretty much one of the best weekends of my life, and no sex at all, although I think the opportunity was maybe there at one point but I fucked it up. Even ran on here and made a thread about it...

That's what I mean when I say this shit might just become a girly sleepover. I'm actually kinda down for that. But yeah don't worry, I've introduced people to ket before, I'm going to be playing it VERY safe. Both have taken MDMA and one grew up in Thailand and has taken shrooms and shit so it's not as if I'm going to be chucking them in at the deep end.
James Nicklehall - Tue, 23 May 2017 21:19:11 EST ID:wJWwXGAC No.516437 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Get them to lay down on top of each other, and alternate which you insert penis to? Even if you miss, it go between, so it's ok...
I not understand problem other than them being slutty, but you could become... no, don't become mormon. But you keep both?
Lydia Sashfield - Thu, 25 May 2017 21:12:57 EST ID:ujVLnpKy No.516499 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Just so you know OP, a friend of mine that I lived with for about two years was on probation for 5 years for sleeping with a 17 year old when he was 21. Luckily he dodged the sex offender charge (first time offender, judge didn't want it to fuck him for life) but his life kind of sucks. 5. Years.

Shit like this can blow up in ways you can't even imagine. If they are of legal age where you are then great but otherwise... it ain't worth it. What if their parents found out? (That's what happened to my friend; the parents pressed charges)

Seriously be careful and/or the pussy ain't worth it my man.

sex by afraid of sex and intimacy - Sun, 21 May 2017 15:23:12 EST ID:Pj3LHr36 No.516386 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hi, i haven't really told this to anyone so i wanted to get it out and maybe get some advice or something. Im male 23 and I having pretty big problem with getting close with anyone. I usually slow to get to know to, but i have a few good friends and some social life. I'm super anxious when it about relationship with girls. Im well looking and interesting person. I have kissed a long time ago and did some other stuff, but My only sexual experience was with a prostitute.
I can hang out with a girl and go to a date but when it comes down to being intimate or even close to anyone i kind shot off.
I think i have some kind of performance anxiety.
I'm afraid of sex and intimacy.
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Jenny Buzzway - Mon, 22 May 2017 16:48:06 EST ID:UrQwPY3E No.516412 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Maybe get a bit drunk, or get some viagra. That will give you some confidence. Stop watching porn, jerk off imagining you being with this person. If you can't get it up or whatever laugh it off and make the other person cum. That way you can't feel guilty. Other than that, you just have to go through with it. It may be bad the first time, but the second will surely be better .
Cyril Claystock - Wed, 24 May 2017 22:27:02 EST ID:WU8q29BN No.516470 Ignore Report Quick Reply
use cocaine

> OP begins to ignore comment

please don't honestly it'll work
Archie Greenshit - Wed, 24 May 2017 22:37:37 EST ID:RWMYdvNQ No.516471 Ignore Report Quick Reply
The OP is worded badly i'm not 100% sure of the problem, If you can get a girl into bed OP but you struggle to perform viagra works wonders seriosuly get to the doctors. It happened with me, i met a girl and we got together then my dick would just fail to perform, i thought it was some kinda performance anxiety and the doc got me some viagra. I only had to take it a couple of times before my dick would work perfectly normally.
Lydia Sashfield - Thu, 25 May 2017 21:07:19 EST ID:ujVLnpKy No.516497 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I'm exactly the opposite OP. It is difficult for me to be genuine or smooth or w/e with girls on dates and stuff when normally I'm a charismatic, fairly attractive guy. When I have had girlfriends though, or sleep with a chick, I always get comments as to how good of a fuck I am.

As a pervy kid I watched porn (which is not a great way to learn about sex) which got me interested in researching how to go down on girls, how to have good sex, what to do, what not to do, etc.

So I say research it! Get information and learn about intimacy and sex. Also, over time and with experience in sexual encounters, it'll get easier. If you're with a girl that you've been dating and it gets to that point, maybe mention something to the effect that you're a little awkward with sex/intimacy. It's weird, but good chicks really dig honesty and being vulnerable.

Also, just practice. I'm fucking SHIT at dates but I force myself to go to them because each time with a new chick is a little easier, a little better, and a little less awkward. I have such insanely bad anxiety around it but you just gotta get out there and take your lumps, cringe at things you did, and move on. Eventually you'll be at ease and click with someone.
Beatrice Gubblehitch - Thu, 25 May 2017 21:12:43 EST ID:RWMYdvNQ No.516498 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>chicks really dig honesty and being vulnerable

Yeah i agree, if it's not a one night stand the girl will be alright with whatever.

My friends girlfriend irritates the everloving shit out of me hardcore by Sheriff of Noddingham - Wed, 24 May 2017 06:56:14 EST ID:FucrEdSx No.516442 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hey qq, i have a problem that i never thought i'd have but here i am having it.
First some backstory. Me and my best friend are really close, we're best friends and have been for a long time. We know eachother really well and have been through some shit. I value his company and our friendship a lot and we always have great conversations.

Last year he started seeing a girl who managed to make herself a part of his everyday life. There is never a moment when this girl is not with my bro. Not only do they now live together, but she is extremely clingy. In the past whenever he went to hangout with me, or with our group of friends by himself, she would blow up his phone and create the stupidest most insignificant of problems in an effort to get him to come back to her or to be sucked into a long conversation with her. Eventually i'm guessing he got tired of that happening, so to spare himself the annoyance, he now never does anything without her. And i mean anything. She is with him every waking moment of his life. I don't know how he does it honestly. He has no where to go aside from living with her so its probably more out of necessity than anything i think.

Let me be clear, if this girl was was a cool girlfriend, i wouldn't mind at all. I enjoy spending time around people that are cool. But being around this girl is like nails on a chalkboard to me and i have to endure it any time i want to hangout with my best friend. I just don't know what to fucking do. This girl being around anytime i want to hangout with my friend is so grating on my soul its not even funny. I have to force myself not to say things like how fucking absurdly clingy/needy to the point i can't have a conversation with my friend since that means his attention will be off her. It honestly nauseates me sometimes. But i can't say anything out of respect for my friend since it is his girlfriend and all.

What really irks me, is that when this girl is around, its actually hard to just have a conversation with my friend. She is so clingy and in need of constant attention that if i have a conversation with my friend for longer than 2 minutes she'll start saying "babe, babe, babe" over and over again trying to bring his attention away from the conversation back over to her. Then she'll bring up something completely unrelated to the conversation. When she starts talking about something it is literally nonstop, and she does it pretty much just for the sake of having my bestfriend listen to it, thus paying attention to her. Its also always in a whiney baby voice, the same tone a child uses when they want their parents to buy them something at the grocery store. One time while my friend and i were talking either about how all sugars are dextrotory isomers instead of the leveratory isomer versions, or ayahuasca, one of those things, she started pulling on his sleeve saying babe over and over again until there was a millisecond pause in the conversation we were having, and in the manner of not being able to contain these insightful words in her a second longer, she started talking to him about painting a wall earlier that day and described it in great detail. That tangent went on for a solid 10 to 15 minutes. When she was done, my friend brought the topic back up we were talking about before, and she got angry at him saying "babe why do you always interrupt me, i hate it when you do that". Then the topic changed to him interrupting her and that went on for longer than the last conversation. This is just one of the many examples to try to showcase what this girl is like to be around.

One night since my friend was talking to me instead of his gf, she was getting irritated. She kept asking my friend to come to bed with her, over and over and over again. She had to get up early for work, so she needed to go to bed soon. She complained she had to get up early and she reaaally needed to go to bed urgently. She framed is as if she was unable to go to bed unless my bro went to bed with her. My bro said he wanted to keep hanging out in the living room and told her she should go to bed without him so she can get up early. She was not having that, so she decided to complain to him. Eventually he cracked and said he'll go to bed with her when he finished his beer and smoked a cigarette. What followed was fucking brutal for me to witness and made me sick. She asked him over and over again if he promised he would go to bed with her. "You promise you'll come to bed with me when your done smoking" "yes babe" "okay, promise me again you'll come to bed when your done. please don't lie to me, come to bed with me. i have to get up sooo early i should have been in bed 2 hours ago why didn't you come to bed with me". Shit like that. While he was smoking his last cigarette before the end, over and over again she told him to hurry up.

At the climax of the night, the three of us were outside, my bro and i smoking a cig talking about something i don't remember. Everytime he finished his sentence, his gf would pull his sleeve and say, babe stop talking hurry up and smoke, i have to go to bed. Over and over and over again. After she said that we would resume the conversation, and she would get more whiney and say "baaaaaabe stoooppp talking and smooke" interrupting him mid sentence making it impossible for us to even talk. She was acting like the 5 extra minutes he was taking to smoke his last cigarette was like the veil between like and death. It was so disgusting i can't even describe it. Me and him were trying to talk for the last few minutes we had before he had to go lay down with his gf, and she would interrupt him every single time he tried to respond to what i was saying because him talking meant he couldn't be smoking his cigarette. I'm not even exaggerating at all. It sickens me honestly lol. I feel bad about saying such mean words about another person and writing what feels like a novel on how much they bug me but its how i really feel.
After that day, she started subtly saying some nasty stuff to try and drive me and my friend apart. Things like "you'd rather spend time with him than me" Or things like "He might as well be your boyfriend." This was a week or two ago she started making those kinds of comments. On top of of being a needy whiney annoying girlfriend, she crossed a line into making personal insults and started actively making comments meant to put tension on me and my bros friendship. Though subtle and keeping the jokes in a half joking manner, its still clear what she's trying to do and it bugs me even more.

This honestly makes me feel kind of bad and mean writing such a long rant and using some of the harsh words i did about another person that i see often, but its how i feel. To be fair other than the stuff i described she's not really a mean person and has never done anything bad to me.
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Cyril Claystock - Wed, 24 May 2017 22:21:47 EST ID:WU8q29BN No.516468 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Some guys just lose their independence to women.. You can try telling him to get some balls but to put it bluntly it might not work. It'll make you seem like a jerk if you do anything; you just gotta wait till hopefully he gets sick of her, her posessiveness might drive him away.

I had a buddy who was just like yours get himself in a state for two years. Girls that don't let guys out of their site though are generally not keepers, he'll realise that eventually and become your bro again
Cyril Claystock - Wed, 24 May 2017 22:22:42 EST ID:WU8q29BN No.516469 Ignore Report Quick Reply
My bud did eventually realise it and yours will do with any luck
Archie Greenshit - Wed, 24 May 2017 22:43:16 EST ID:RWMYdvNQ No.516472 Ignore Report Quick Reply
it's not possible OP, you can't do anything without looking bad. For a guy to be in a relationship like that he has to invest himself in the girl, it's part of being able to tolerate such shitty behaviours. He will have built up some kind of lie in his mind without realising it allowing him to get this deep into the relationship. It's possible that he notices the shitty behaviours but still tolerates them but this is the first step towards them breaking up.

If you can be subtle and get him alone, if he mentions something negative about her first you can plant a seed of doubt.

Relationships of this nature can last a very long time though.
Sidney Drunderforth - Thu, 25 May 2017 11:00:12 EST ID:G6vsBNGP No.516480 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Doesn't she have a job or something?
Lydia Sashfield - Thu, 25 May 2017 20:54:25 EST ID:ujVLnpKy No.516495 Ignore Report Quick Reply
If he is your best friend can't you just be honest with him and tell basically tell him what you told us? Just get him alone and tell him that you are happy for him and his girlfriend but you'd really like to hang out with him like you used to.

If that doesn't work then your best friend probably isn't as invested in your friendship as you are. I absolutely get it man: I was your friend for awhile but most people liked my girlfriend, she was just everywhere with me and where I went. Eventually some of my friends asked if maybe we could just chill together even though they liked her and I didn't even realize that was an issue. They were very cool about it and things worked out for the best! I started hanging out with them without my gf sometimes and sometimes still with, and everything was good.

Just be honest with him! That's what friends do, man.

Horrible things you've done by Matilda Summlegold - Wed, 24 May 2017 19:58:11 EST ID:93CaNbi5 No.516461 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I want to hear about the most despicable, unpardonable things you've ever done.
Stuff like sharing your ex's naked photos online, stealing from relatives or friends, destroying someone's property etc., etc. I think this is the best place for a thread like this.
I once spat on a public phone when I was a teenager. Another time I threw a rock at a neighbor's window because his dog was barking (he kinda deserved it though, that dog never stopped barking at night).
Mine are quite tame but I want to see how low you went for whatever reason or for no reason at all. I want to see how low the human species can get.
Maybe sharing it here will make you feel better :). And don't worry, it's all in the past.
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Fanny Nollerbury - Thu, 25 May 2017 13:35:18 EST ID:8LR6UZGk No.516482 Ignore Report Quick Reply
That was just a mistake, you didn't do it on purpose.

Back on topic, I shop lifted a couple of times when I was younger and very dumb.
Archie Greenshit - Thu, 25 May 2017 16:29:02 EST ID:RWMYdvNQ No.516485 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Shop lifting aint so bad i don't think, it's certainly not a victimless crime as some people claim but it sure doesn't destroy individuals emotionally like breaking into a house and stealing a laptop with personal photos on or something.

Oh and if people thought me abusing an ex girlfriend was bad when i was about 7 i stole my friends shiny charizard pokemon card.
Priscilla Pavingfud - Thu, 25 May 2017 20:21:38 EST ID:4PUOsvJd No.516490 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I bet it wasn't even first edition
Lydia Sashfield - Thu, 25 May 2017 20:44:18 EST ID:ujVLnpKy No.516492 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I was a heroin addict. I had a loving family (Mom, dad, two younger brothers and a younger sister) and wonderful childhood. I stole from them, used them, I did all the horrible shit you hear about.

I've been 3 years clean. My relationship with my family is back to how it used to be. We're all really close. Just a few days ago I was talking with my mom on the phone and she told me that I would never know how much she missed me when I was out doing dope.

I've forgiven myself and my family has as well and things are good. But I hurt them more then I've ever hurt anyone in my entire life.
Lydia Sashfield - Thu, 25 May 2017 20:48:37 EST ID:ujVLnpKy No.516494 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Oh, just to add, to really drive the point home: I almost killed my girlfriend at the time by shooting her up with too much and she OD'd. Called the ambulance and they revived her but it was in Arizona so I copped a few charges. I've stolen probably about $5,000 worth of DVDs from Walmart; got caught for that at the end, copped more charges. Finally, when I was living with my mom and trying to do better, I met this guy who was my sister's friend and ended up getting meth from him. Needless to say, I got pulled over and brought in for the shop lifting warrant and the meth was in my shoe (stupid af). My mom had to cancel her vacation early and fly back.

The list goes on and on. I was such a shitty, terrible, awful person. I wouldn't even recognize myself today.

Social life instructions by Jenny Buzzway - Mon, 22 May 2017 16:33:58 EST ID:UrQwPY3E No.516411 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Don't you ever get the feeling everyone else's got like... a booklet or some kind of instructions on how to behave socially, and your's got lost or didn't arrive on time? I get the feel most people know how to handle certain situations gracefully, like, with good taste, where I just blank or space out. I get the feeling I'm missing a basic social guideline most people have. It sucks. It's not like I don't have friends or don't go out, and It has gotten better with time, but I still feel like this deep strangement with many social situations, or some things going sour or taking a lot of effort when I feel it should be a lot easier. I mostly didn't feel like this when I spent some months travelling though, dunno what that means. Well, I don't know where I'm going with this really, I'm just a bit down.
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Nell Cuzzlenidge - Thu, 25 May 2017 05:30:26 EST ID:rbmWf9Jx No.516477 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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just play it cool man. don't doubt yourself, and maybe try to find a weird girl to date?

definitely pursue acting, you might seem awkward and silly at first but push through it and you might learn something important.
William Cheffingbury - Thu, 25 May 2017 16:51:08 EST ID:zPu+Cn1i No.516486 Ignore Report Quick Reply

I was kinda trying to probe for this too, OP. Thing is I've worked with (probably literally) a tonne of people with autism and when I read your posts I don't feel any need to indicate a diagnosis. To elaborate, it's a behavioural spectrum and the best treatment is a more studious approach to interpersonal skill development. Do you like standup comics? Podcasts are good too. The people I've worked with are incomparable with what you (or any of us here) would indicate and require serious psycho-tropic drugs to regulate their moods or behaviours.

Diagnosis is also highly cultural, so be skeptical. Don't sweat it over girls either.

>516477 The best advice.
Graham Brocklestat - Thu, 25 May 2017 18:17:38 EST ID:UrQwPY3E No.516487 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Yes, after the other posts I guessed your questions were going in that direction. If I understand what you're meaning correctly, a good question would be: Is a really shy/akward person actually distinguishable from a really high functioning autist? I don't really feel as an autist, but I guess it doesn't matter that much either... I've done therapy many years and worked a lot that stuff. It was never outspoken treatment for autism but interpersonal relationships were always what the sessions were about.

I've just been really depressed and feeling like a loner lately, these last couple of months have been really tough. I'm finding an absolute lack of meaning in everything I do, and therefore having a hard time actually doing the stuff I oughtta be doing

Last week I ran twice into my ex (I hadn't seen her in a year), she walked past me as if I were a ghost (she hates me though). Last sunday a girl I'd went out with a couple times suddenly stopped talking to me, like, out of the blue. Then, the next day, I was going through Tinder and I found the girl who shattered my heart to pieces a couple months ago (this girl is what triggered my depression and despair, I still don't know what to do about her and think about her constantly). The next fucking day, I walk out of my house, and find a girl I'd dated, and really liked, but who'd only talk to me when she needed a favour or something, making out with some dude: she says hi to me, and introduces me to her new bf. Fuck. Then, to cope with it all, I went out with this really ugly tinder girl yesterday, it was honestly just to feel a bit more wanted, we were making out on the street and I was telling her to come to my place, then out of nowhere this bum shows up and tells us he doesnt want to hurt us and to give him our phones (we didn't). Like, how much worse can this get?

What's that about podcasts and stand up comedy?

Thanks everyone for all your answers. It's nice having a supportive community, someone outside daily life one can go to for help and support. I've signed up for two acting workshops, one starting next week, the other one starting a couple weeks from now, I'm doin…
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Archie Greenshit - Thu, 25 May 2017 19:24:59 EST ID:RWMYdvNQ No.516488 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>Is a really shy/akward person actually distinguishable from a really high functioning autist?
No don't worry.
> but I guess it doesn't matter that much either...
>I've just been really depressed and feeling like a loner lately, these last couple of months have been really tough
Things will get better, i've been through it what's your age and living/work situation?
>bum shows up and tells us he doesnt want to hurt us and to give him our phones (we didn't). Like, how much worse can this get?
Just a shitty situation that will pass and you've gotta build up your own self esteem/worth, a self confidence that doesn't require others to reinforce it to move past these other girls. You don't need to be very self confident just have a little more faith in yourself, we're all human.
>or simply stop caring about that and focus on my stuff
generally i'd reccomend this since i don't know too much about you or your feelings but this option is often better, work on yourself and do you first, girls come later and it will be better.
Archie Washshit - Thu, 25 May 2017 19:59:06 EST ID:p2R/PlmZ No.516489 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Its a trick: In every movie which stars everyday situations you have the male leads being socially awkward about stuff while the normal people are normal. However the viewer is being made to identify with the main character.
Everybody watches this propaganda from an early age and slowly becomes that dude who gets weird when "asking the girl to prom"

What to do with this chick by Cedric Wannerdock - Wed, 19 Apr 2017 01:38:56 EST ID:rq2JgAzW No.515587 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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What up /qq/ last time I posted you guys gave me a bunch of bs because you couldn't possibly fathom that I'm not a beta nerd but I have no one else to turn to so here goes

So I let this chick move in with me last week, she is my best friend's ex, she recently split up with her fiance and just got out of jail and had no place else to go and no one to stay with but a bunch of horny guys who just wanted to have sex with her.

This girl is incredibly fucked up, she has been through so much fucked up shit there is literally no way for me to process it but laughing at it, she's a mess, she's got really bad PTSD, anxiety and depression and HPPD from acid and comes up with a new insanely fucked up story every day. Like, I've been through some shit, but I've had a pretty good life, my parents are together, I went to college, I generally hang out with hippies who are good people and somewhat have their shit together, I just can't deal with this shit, she is too crazy and fucked up for me to handle. I really like her, I'm willing to listen to her talk as much as she needs to and be there for her but I just can't really understand it and I don't know what to do, you know?

She's also rather low energy, she's very shy and doesn't meet new people well which neither do I which is a bad combination, and she can't keep up with me when I'm partying and going all out which I don't do that often but is my main purpose in life at the moment. She doesn't really like my kind of music and can't handle festivals. She also has a kid, and like... she's a really sweet person and has a cute face but her body's like a 4/10, she has literally no ass and I'm a good looking guy and I like curvy blondes.

Anyway, at first she kept telling me about other dudes she stayed with trying to fuck her and she kept her distance at first but she doesn't really know anyone in town except me and my roomate and has been hanging out with me and following me around pretty much the whole time while messaging her ex and it's pretty clear that she likes me. She has made quite a few comments about the kind of guys she likes to be with and I'm pretty s…
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Eliza Blopperpat - Mon, 08 May 2017 04:57:47 EST ID:Umzpjfv8 No.516071 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Why bump this?
Ian Nengermadge - Mon, 08 May 2017 18:32:59 EST ID:n1yNxChx No.516086 Ignore Report Quick Reply
i hope she doesn't get all clingy little nigga
i hope entering her bear doesn't end up hurting anybody
entering the bear is a good thing
if she's a cute one, then entering her bear is a good thing because us guys like to enter the bears of cute girls

translator's note: bear means vagina
Angus Wurringwill - Mon, 08 May 2017 21:08:51 EST ID:I2FTZEKQ No.516090 Ignore Report Quick Reply
OP, that's a corgi, not a girl.
Ebenezer Bazzlehitch - Thu, 25 May 2017 14:30:29 EST ID:pXo6ANrc No.516483 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Well you guys she left.

I went to New Jersey and did acid and decided I didn't want to be with her so we should stop hooking up. So she stayed for a week but got more and more miserable and bitchy. Then last weekend I went to Tipper at Suwannee and did a lot more acid and some ketamine and when I got back she was gone.

Also shes not pregnant.

So I got laid for a while, got to not feel so lonely and hopefully helped her get over her piece of shit ex and not get raped by meth heads. If she was down to up and dip and found someone who would give her a ride with all her stuff I guess she probably found a place to go. So hopefully she is ok. I did spend all my money on her but eh, thats what moneys for, i got a new job yesterday, didn't really have all that much in the first place. I'll bring her to a music festival sometime when she's off probation.

Anyway yeah, just wanted to let you guys know that sometimes there is a happy ending.
Jack Clebblepad - Thu, 25 May 2017 16:16:45 EST ID:PhlR3Lle No.516484 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Being called a nazi by Basil Billertotch - Sat, 13 May 2017 16:02:12 EST ID:qnjaZr5e No.516205 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I don't know where else to post this.
So I was walking around the supermarket with my dad. I rarely see him, I think he kinda turned out to be an asshole.
Anyway, at some point a woman's baby car blocked the way. My dad gently pushed the cart inside and the woman screamed: "hands of my child!" I thought my dad shouldn't've done that, but the woman was obviously crazy. After that I saw my dad say something pretty aggressively. I don't know what it was but she exclaimed he had said she had to go back to where she had come from. She called him a nazi. Now, my dad might be an asshole, but I just couldn't believe he'd said that. He walked away but I confronted the lady and said he would never say anything like that. She said I was a nazi too so I walked off. After we came out the supermarket, she filmed us. I feel fucking horrible, why does this happen? I hate my father even more, I don't want to speak to him ever again, because i kinda believe the crazy woman. Why would she call me that though. I know It's weird to put this here, but I'm ashamed for all my friends to tell this. I feel I should construct a fake reality for them. What should I do? Why do people call me a nazi? I'm a socialist for God's sake. Pic unrelated.
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Fucking Clindergold - Mon, 22 May 2017 11:48:54 EST ID:omX2BDyl No.516400 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Actually most alleged nazis just think that you should have your own nation that's separate from theirs.
Simon Bottinggold - Mon, 22 May 2017 11:59:51 EST ID:XOLTuy53 No.516402 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You guys are all fucking faggots. LIbertarianism is best.
Beatrice Chinkinman - Mon, 22 May 2017 12:10:54 EST ID:WCiWyIpM No.516403 Ignore Report Quick Reply
no you are naive
James Nicklehall - Tue, 23 May 2017 21:23:50 EST ID:wJWwXGAC No.516440 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You should've smashed the bitch's camera and then her face. Also, the word "Nazi" was invented as an insult, the National Socialist party of germany never even used the term. The crazy lady was just some SJW cunt who probably got her seed from a spermbank and hates all men.
Alice Blenkinlock - Wed, 24 May 2017 23:57:45 EST ID:XdSbe0YD No.516474 Ignore Report Quick Reply


internet historians/political professors

Crazy people call sane people nazis all the time. Get used to it.

Socially, At Work by awkward - Wed, 24 May 2017 20:31:56 EST ID:n1yNxChx No.516463 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hey guys. Long story short I suck at existing in a social environment. Anxiety and depression were huge for me growing up, and now at 24 I find myself conspicuously undeveloped here. It's obvious. I hate it, but it's true. I come across as quite childish. I don't think I've ever had a workplace where I wasn't hated. It's always awkward, and I realize I put people through a massive amount of bullshit because of it. It sucks! I don't want to be that guy. Everybody seems fine, niceish, whatever.

So, I started a new job today. It was.. Alright. Sort of. I can't ask for better than keeping my head down and trying to do a good job at whatever I happen to be doing. This job is a good one too. It's in a kitchen. How do I not fuck this up in the long run? I'm not expecting miracles; I just want this to be okay. Anybody have advice?

Have you ever worked with someone who was terribly awkward? What was it like, how did you deal with it? Have you ever been said person? Did you overcome it?
Archie Greenshit - Wed, 24 May 2017 21:39:55 EST ID:RWMYdvNQ No.516464 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I was awkward, an addiction to stimulants cured me even after quitting but your mileage may vary.
Anyway maybe a benz habit could help and be less noticeable.

As for some advice that's maybe a bit less controversial;
Keep your head down as you've done and do a good job, go out of your way to be helpful to others. By doing this it should outweigh anything weird you do and you'll find many people are understanding of awkward people as long as it doesn't interfere with their own productivity or enjoyment.

Some general advice on being awkward;
Stop caring so much, if something awkward happens don't think about it much nobody else will. Stop caring that you struggle in social situations, you know this is a weakness for you personally and you can work on improving that with time but for now people will accept you for who you are.

Don't sweat it OP
Archie Greenshit - Wed, 24 May 2017 21:44:30 EST ID:RWMYdvNQ No.516465 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I had another thought.
I've also worked with awkward people and have befriended a few but one thing to definitely avoid being the guy who becomes the centre of attention in a bad way, if everyone starts bitching about you it's less likely that someone will come along to point out any mistakes you've made or become your friend.

Avoiding this is easy really, just show you're trying and don't have some abrasive attitude such as; thinking you're better than job/people, being so anxious you give up on the work, annoying in every interaction etc etc

things that should be obvious to avoid. Like I said above keeping your head down for now is fine it will give you time to build some relationships and come out of your shell

Fucking an ex by Barnaby Dramblestone - Wed, 24 May 2017 11:33:01 EST ID:RWMYdvNQ No.516450 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I split with my ex about a month ago, she's living with me for now but she's moving out tomorrow. The split was mutual and was pretty civil but soon after she picked up a new boyfriend.

Anyway I kinda wanted to fuck her again, I asked in a round-about way and she declined but kinda got a bit upset, after we talked she said it's because she kinda did want to and was upset about us being over but it was too awkward.

So anyway i've left it at that for now, do you think i'll ever get to fuck her again? Maybe if I just wait for her to move out and wait and see if she contacts me? I'm hoping that little seed will grow into something and i'll kinda be there in her mind if she ever wants it.

>tl;dr how to fuck ex?
Barnaby Dramblestone - Wed, 24 May 2017 13:09:32 EST ID:RWMYdvNQ No.516453 Ignore Report Quick Reply
quick update hugged her and she started crying because it was sad she's moving out. Probably not a good idea to fuck her? Is she still too attached?
Shit Dodgechack - Wed, 24 May 2017 16:20:57 EST ID:HkMncnXO No.516456 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Def not a good idea, The day before my gf moved out in essentially the same situation I was on acid and convinced her that one last good passionate penetration session would be a good thing for "closure". It felt awesome at the time but left some residual effects in my mental and really fucked with me for about a year afterwards.
Shit Dodgechack - Wed, 24 May 2017 16:22:59 EST ID:HkMncnXO No.516457 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Also make sure that last hug when you say goodbye is a good one, I kinda did that little hug gangstas do to each other after they shake hands n bring it in for a second and felt bad about that for a while lol
Barnaby Dramblestone - Wed, 24 May 2017 17:04:43 EST ID:RWMYdvNQ No.516458 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Nah we had a good hug and she cried into my shoulder.
I don't really have any emotional attachment left just fancied dipping my wick.
Barnaby Dramblestone - Wed, 24 May 2017 17:05:34 EST ID:RWMYdvNQ No.516459 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I'll defo miss acid sex with her, those were some good times.

Ballin by Sophie Drandlepatch - Sat, 13 May 2017 12:25:47 EST ID:tldOIKN9 No.516198 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So since about last year around this I had socially isolated myself and smoked weed til the point of dependency. Coming out of this shell like a hopeful hermit crab and exposing myself more to other people I realise that I most definitely dislike and do not trust others at all.
I grew up in social isolation and hated it. It, alongside a few other factors, did make me try to kill myself and made me very seriously consider pulling through with it. I am healthy now and I don't want to do it. But now with weed social isolation is very cozy if you can ignore any negative emotion. My relationship with my family is dysfunctional, and that's a whole other rabbit hole.
I cannot trust the intentions of girls nor a possible shared future with one, I believe since childhood I have romanticized love to an unrealistic point. I have had sex before and it's not all that. [Fugly] Girls have shown interest in me but none I was in love with or even wanted to be with.
I have only 2 actual friends (one online and one irl), the rest are just people I am friendly with and I know and can see that they are wearing masks just like I am.
I have a selfless dream for the future but I am anywhere from one to 6 years of achieving that. I don't believe I have the mental discipline to keep that goal in focus for such a long time and not just revert to mindless consumerism or fall into depression.
The only thing that makes me capable about being hopeful about the future is distancing myself from others and just blazing up, and I honestly believe I am better off this way. I am not trying to type out an undertone of self-pity, maybe I am, I just want to know if there's any... alternative ways to achieve a comfortable mental state.
My only issue is that I don't believe this to be exactly healthy. I still want friends and to be able to have strong and loving relationships with them but I believe this to be an delusion out of my grasp. I don't see how any relationship outside of my family would develop beyond being friendly. Don't reply witht "just go out and make friends lel", I already know how to make friends. I am not an autistic 6 year old. I just don't know how any of those friendships …
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David Feblingspear - Tue, 23 May 2017 16:22:59 EST ID:n1yNxChx No.516432 Ignore Report Quick Reply
i think your spirit will always want more
Shit Pobberdodge - Tue, 23 May 2017 21:20:25 EST ID:UgG3eQ4s No.516438 Ignore Report Quick Reply

You probably only took small doses of LSD. Legit take no less than 500mics of LSD and then get back to us.

Although, maybe you're right. If LSD just gave you, "teenager philosophy," then maybe you just have the mind of a teenager. It's not like the drugs show you anything that isn't already there.

Your hidden parts are just an adolescent. Nothing to blossom. Nothing great hidden deep within.
Shit Pobberdodge - Tue, 23 May 2017 21:21:37 EST ID:UgG3eQ4s No.516439 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Anyways, I was just being a dick. I do however get the idea that you haven't had a proper trip based on what you've said.
Wesley Ballyshit - Wed, 24 May 2017 08:42:01 EST ID:o7q3cvGG No.516446 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Last time I took acid was 200ug. I have had stronger epiphanies on around 100ug or less. Dude, it's just a drug. No doubt that it can have incredible effects, but that's marketing of the product in itself. Either you can have sincere realizations or you can just get thoughts that comes from the fact you are high a fuck. It's not a miracle substance for everyone.
Sheriff of Noddingham - Wed, 24 May 2017 10:37:53 EST ID:FucrEdSx No.516449 Ignore Report Quick Reply
First off i wanma say i feel you man, i can relate to a lot of the things you're saying. Im sure i'm probably not the only one too.

What it seems like to me is that you're lacking true meaning in your life, and are using getting blazed all day a long with isolating yourself socially to an extent to try and cover up or fill that void. It doesn't sound to me like you're completely shutting yourself out and being a full on hermit as bad as many other people do which is definitely a good thing.
My advice is to find something that gives your life true and serious meaning. I won't lie to you, i struggle with this too and haven't found that thing yet and as a result i have a list of problems of my own. The thing that gives your life meaning and passion could be a lot of things. An example thats common for a lot of people is bringint a child into the world and making it their world. Not for everyone, but thats the number one most common except for people finding the love of their life. Those are basically pleb teir though haha, and there are lots of other things. Stephen King for example, his passion and probably the driving force behind his life is his writing tons of stories and creating entire universes and plots and all that stuff, and he also has a wife and kids thrown in the mix too. I was kidding about the pleb teir part by the way haha i thought that was funny though, it sort of is pleb teir compared to shit like inventing haldron particle colliders and shit.

Anyway that's what i got. Most people who have passions and meaning for their life seem to have none of the problems you're describing as far as i know so from what i can tell they look like your best bet. Or maybe i'm 100% off and am just projecting because i know for a fact i lack a passion and something to truly live for in my life.


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