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!GD3wBpep0Y - Sun, 13 Aug 2017 12:14:49 EST d5kHsYag No.518069
File: 1502640889138.jpg -(66697B / 65.13KB, 500x383) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. #qq on IRC
Hi folks,

If you're looking to talk to someone immediately about any problems you have in your life and have nobody close to you, come and speak to us!

Join us on IRC on #qq. Most of us have different time zones but if you stay there, one of us will be there.

Don't be afraid to speak up.
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Ebenezer Binnerlock - Wed, 16 Oct 2019 07:37:48 EST Lq4RrI4Z No.532137 Reply
>>532027
I have an issue with combinations of colours, digits and item disposition. I'll explain more in detail: reading a book, I always put a bookmark on an even page number, calling someone on the phone, I always check if my history contains numbers, stocked in a 'ladder', longer name, then shorter name, etc. texting somebody I always do the same trick, longer message, then shorter message, etc. when cleaning my room, I always put the items in order of color, size, shape, etc.
It's honestly quite daunting to do this much work over simple things
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Sidney Dicklehere - Wed, 16 Oct 2019 07:45:36 EST eELEII7T No.532138 Reply
>>532137
Just use your free will to override the programming and stop being compulsive
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Jack Smalllock - Sat, 19 Oct 2019 09:23:14 EST USUZpST+ No.532161 Reply
>>532137
>reading a book, I always put a bookmark on an even page number
But there's always an odd page number there too. That doesn't make any sense.

Reconsidering FIFO (fly in fly out) work

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- Thu, 03 Oct 2019 05:31:13 EST RwEHTjB+ No.531949
File: 1570095073965.png -(101380B / 99.00KB, 500x349) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Reconsidering FIFO (fly in fly out) work
I'm studying to become a geologist and have almost finished 1st year but I'm starting to reconsider the fact that I would have to do a FIFO job. I want to have a wife and children but if I do this I won't see the children and the wife every night etc. It sounds slavery-tier to not be able to see my woman every night. Thoughts? I would probably be doing an 8:6 roster i.e. 8 days on 6 days off.
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David Gimmerlock - Thu, 17 Oct 2019 03:35:57 EST jOKaz3ty No.532141 Reply
>>531957
No I don't have a wife yet. I'd be flying in then living on site i.e. sleeping there every night until fly back home. It might be 12 hours daily shifts, I think it's a bit variable.

>>531961
I couldn't do that. I want to live on a farm and have lots of childrens.

There's advantages and disadvantages to this setup, e.g. less commuting overall... (no daily commute) Also if I worked 8 days then came back for 6 days that would be 6 straight days of family time which sounds great. The issue would be the lopsided presence I'd have with the childrens. And I want to sleep with a woman every night.

But the disadvantages are scary so I'm looking into some kind of work-from-home online work.
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Graham Blackworth - Thu, 17 Oct 2019 05:52:04 EST 8NxtvIoG No.532142 Reply
So let me get this straight: you don't have a wife, but you already know what kind of relationship you'll have with her once you will meet her, whomever she may be, and because of that you're certain that a job you're still years away from getting won't suit you? Why worry about having a job at all, you can just buy a winning lottery ticket, since you apparently can see the future.
> I want to live on a farm
Then become a farmer? Problem solved.
No offence, but it sounds like you're still at the stage where you're trying to figure out exactly what it is that you want to do with your life; it's very likely that in a few years you won't even remember that you had the concerns you're having right now. So the solution is to let time sort this issue out for you.
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Beatrice Bardson - Sat, 19 Oct 2019 06:49:58 EST 7AxwXIg1 No.532160 Reply
my dad is a geo doing fifo on 16:12,
Im at uni so I never see him anyway but him not being home ever is really starting to mess up my family

avoiding interested people and random life shit

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- Sat, 19 Oct 2019 00:10:36 EST 1kZxLIuc No.532153
File: 1571458236825.png -(269992B / 263.66KB, 1016x1250) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. avoiding interested people and random life shit
was going to post this on /b/ as a response to a thread but it 404'd and the future sucks now anyways so might as well paste it here. it's been a good 4 years since i was last here, glad to see you guys are still at it!

this (image related since i was responding to op) happened to me many times in my teens, but these are the ones i remember

14, goth chick constantly orbited me. she was a gorgeous redhead. too fucking spaghetti to realize what was going on.

15 in church, we didn't believe in god. was playing psp but i was so nervous because she was cute i just kept focusing on the game. she thought i was uninterested

16, exfriend set me up with this fat chick i had nothing in common with, we made out and stuff but it didnt last a week. i didnt like her.

at 18, second chick was this asian my group of friends hung out with for a couple years now. everybody liked her and hit on her, but she liked me. i was too shy, we walked on the beach one night for about 30min, separating from the group of friends. i think she was going to say something, but i was so silent and nervous i guess she got nervous too. after that point she started losing interest.

at 20, was doing dxm with some chick i had admired for a long time, she tried to blow me but i was too out of it to even feel anything. first sexual contact i've had. i guess all she wanted was a fuck because she never contacted me after. shes grown up into an amazing person and moved out of state. i don't think ill ever try to contact her though.

third chick, 21, first time i took initiative, i already knew she liked me so it was easier, i was older, and on drugs. started a 6 year relationship full of abuse. it destroyed me and im in debt now because of it. burned alot of bridges, but somehow kept the people who matter most to me. really wish i had fallen in love with someone else, i ignored all the red flags because she was my first. she also broke my fucking 420chan shotglass

^during that relationship we had broken up for about 6months. some lesbian in my neighborhood took a liking to me, we did alot of coke and drank together. she kept telling me she liked me but i wouldn't say it back (i didn't). eventually we fucked and never spoke again. she was crazy so it's for the best

30k in debt, absolute rock bottom. got fired from my job for reasons that aren't my fault. grandfather remarried to a younger woman who beats him since he has dementia now. she took control of the company that i worked for and fired me and my entire family. she forced me to go to rehab even though i was clean, she claimed she would pay for it, and that i would have a job when i got back. well guess what now i owe 20k and have no job. she literally told me she would fire my parents if i didnt go and did it anyways. between the betrayal of my own flesh and blood and my ex gf, this really broke me. worst of all im afraid of this coming back to me in the future if i become a pilot (more later)

after that i drank/drugged myself into an 14 day coma(pretty good story if anyone's interested, tldr i thought the surgeon was kojima turning me into a robot and shat myself, i couldn't stay unconscious during the surgery where they removed part of my pancreas so that was fucking terrifying)

here at 28, out of some miracle 2months after the coma i straightened my life again by force, got an amazing job that i enjoy being at every day. but the nights end the same, i come home, play vidya with the old pals on discord (known them for 15+yrs), eat, sleep, repeat. sometimes i go hang out with my old local friends or go racing/drifting or something. i used to be a pilot before all the drugs so i plan on getting back into that. not commercially though, i would like to but the rehab thing scares me. fucking waste of time that place was.

wondering how the hell im going to put myself back out there though. i wish i had the knowledge i have now in my late teens. but im not surrounded by people like i used to be, even still, my old habits of being super shy, the way i try to pretend to be disinterested will always keep warding off people. that hasn't gone away


the only people i hang with are a couple of old friends and theyre all settling down.

the loneliness is creeping up on me, but at the same time that sadness will never hold a candle to the terrors i had to fight back before i almost died. i hope i dont have to live and die alone, bu…
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Simon Sallerstire - Sat, 19 Oct 2019 06:26:50 EST rM9EOQD/ No.532159 Reply
Sounds like you need to focus on yourself.

Soooo

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- Sat, 19 Oct 2019 04:20:40 EST txF9nNlN No.532156
File: 1571473240793.jpg -(578154B / 564.60KB, 750x1183) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Soooo
I was a crazy sad anti social kid until i got out of highschool. I had hardly any experience with girls and never was in a position to learn to actually talk to them and flirt with them. Then I got out of highschool and did all of the self improvement memes like lifting and nofap and going through a short ‘facts and logic’ phase. At this point, I felt pretty alright. Got a cute girlfriend and I’ve had her for a while now. At this point I’m turning a lot of my life around but I’m realizing more and more that a lot of girls find me attractive. Cute ones, too. I’m coming to think if I had any form of confidence growing up I could’ve been a fuck boy and I feel like I missed out :/ I mean I love my girlfriend but sometimes I’ll be getting the eyes from a cute lightskinned girl or this one latina girl at work as I’m just like egoshagakbaveilq. I’m head over heels for my girlfriend but I also really wonder what it would be like to go around fucking different girls. So I don’t want to cheat but I want to fuck other women. Uh????
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Barnaby Sonderstock - Sat, 19 Oct 2019 04:39:35 EST TiZckfsu No.532157 Reply
>>532156
I'm not seeing a problem or issue that can be resolved with any advice
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Simon Sallerstire - Sat, 19 Oct 2019 06:12:48 EST rM9EOQD/ No.532158 Reply
>>532157
It's the same advice you give everyone because he's just like everyone else - never satisfied with what he has, never able to accept what he has as enough for him, he's insecure and seeing every aspect of his life in need of constant improvement and since one girl is good, two girls is better.

I think my ex is sadistic

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- Sat, 19 Oct 2019 01:22:25 EST 4OZ4UDNt No.532154
File: 1571462545871.jpg -(55733B / 54.43KB, 693x693) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I think my ex is sadistic
So I was clingy and embarrassing when we broke up. She responds to an email of mine I sent a month ago today asking "how are you." So yeah I reply back, "i miss you"
She hits me back with "i know but it's for the best"

Like what the fuck. Why even reach out to me after almost a month just to immediately shut me down. And she knew how this would make me feel, desperate and needy and embarrassed.

I'm not asking for another way to interpret it. It sounds like she's just trying to punish me and rub it in. Oh she blocked my number right after the break up so yeah... she replies to month old email.

A year with her and I ignored her mean streaks and this kind of behavior so I struggle even a month after the break up not giving her what she wants and not realizing that tha was a part of her character.

I just want someone to hear it. I know what she's doing but it still fucking hurts so much. I feel so fucking stupid and i wanted her to talk to me so fucking bad why do i fall for this and why is she like this.

Btw this right here is the kind of response she would want out of me.
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Beatrice Debbercheck - Sat, 19 Oct 2019 02:56:13 EST 3DmjmqEd No.532155 Reply
damn breh it sucks but, you gotta get over it. Don't let women have this much control over your well-being.

DO I HAVE STD?

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- Thu, 17 Oct 2019 14:58:58 EST ELFJ/DE/ No.532143
File: 1571338738095.jpg -(1087535B / 1.04MB, 1840x3264) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. DO I HAVE STD?
Do I have an std? I was super messed up last week and got a blowjob from a hooker with a condom on. I feel a burning sensation in my penis around my peeing tubes. It doesnt hurt when I pee but is just in slight pain. I dont see any symptons other than feeling a burning sensation. I am ok? Im going to get a std clinic but they are not open until saturday. I fear I have gonorrhea and it is going to damage my penis but the clinic I have to wait 3 days!

Any advice is appreshiated im kind of living in high anxiety mode right now and have so much home work to do for school. I know what I did was fucked up and I will never go do that stupid shit again.

ԾԾ

Physically Abusive Relationship of my friend

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- Sat, 05 Oct 2019 23:16:59 EST Y81HE+lD No.531987
File: 1570331819964.jpg -(36091B / 35.25KB, 640x446) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Physically Abusive Relationship of my friend
my boy is a scumbag, what do?
> cheats on girlfriend
> girlfriend throws fit
> tells her be quiet because She is being toxic
> says thanks for ruining another good night
> constant sounds of her literally choking on her words because he’s grabbing her throat
> sounds of them hitting each other
> her saying Ow and crying
I mean, pretty sure I should kick his ass? He’s giving me a place to crash tonite but this is the second time they have done this.

She has valid emotional responses and when she frightens him he claims it’s her being a crazy toxic bitch, despite her only being mad that he cheats and treats her like shit. He’d tell her “sssshh” while she cries and try silencing any of her outburst, or blame her for even coming around him when she already knows he’s a shithead.


I had parents in an abusive relationship so like, this is kind of tough for me.
But I cannot just sit in another room ignoring this when she is clearly being abused mentally and physically.
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Hamilton Brembleridge - Wed, 09 Oct 2019 19:40:16 EST 9Ri2xQHu No.532068 Reply
>>532019
They broke up. My buddy just lost his one of his friends to OD and this cunt battered his face and talked shit to him for mourning instead of addressing her issues. He decided it was unhealthy once his swollen cut up face was too much to ignore after night 3.


Dont stick your dick in crazy, lads

Lying coworker

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- Fri, 11 Oct 2019 07:34:26 EST vOX+GkbV No.532083
File: 1570793666189.jpg -(85752B / 83.74KB, 960x698) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Lying coworker
How would you deal with a sleazy, compulsively lying coworker who wasn't qualified for the job and had difficulty speaking / writing / thinking in English above basic conversational level?
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Samuel Fapperridge - Thu, 17 Oct 2019 03:33:14 EST mkAwBnlI No.532140 Reply
>>532083
I would try to be kind to that person and speak to them peacefully I would also work on talking to other coworkers to identify what the true situation of the person's abilities were at the work place. I had a co-worker who would be too sexually busy in the work place, like they would flirt and actually touch and it was a bit much. It was far too often, taking place more than should happen. I talked to them and it made somewhat of a difference and there wasn't that much of that behavior afterwards. It gets really tiring after a while when you're in a circumstance like that and it's going on at a higher amount than you want. It is not ideal to be in such circumstances and I would think it probably related to issues the person has experienced earlier on in their life. There's a big picture of what the person is like and it has benefits to think of it when being around the person. Thinking of what's going on for them helps. Thought is not the enemy. lol Using your brain solves issues.
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Jist - Thu, 17 Oct 2019 15:09:37 EST LbPBpo3d No.532144 Reply
>>532140
>I had a co-worker who would be too sexually busy in the work place, like they would flirt and actually touch and it was a bit much
Who won? I bet the girl was too flirty and presumusas. Then tried to flip it on a guy.

Dont feel right unless im in a relationship

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- Sat, 12 Oct 2019 16:51:42 EST lYwVS2OU No.532098
File: 1570913502155.png -(496740B / 485.10KB, 468x599) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Dont feel right unless im in a relationship
I got off a really shitty abusive relationship some months ago, during that time i started a course on a new area that really is exciting and new for me, not only that but that course is letting me do a project for a big company i love, who may approve it, i feel my project is really solid and might work, but either way, after years of trying to get in a area i never really liked, i finally found what i truly love.

I've been closer to friends than ever, not only that, im at a new exciting time i've been making lots of new friends that getting me in new exciting situations, my relationship made me feel alienated from near people since my ex was really controling, and if she didn't like someone, she would guilt trick me into avoiding them, and she didnt like a lot of people.

Im doing boxing, lifting weights and jogging a lot, im probably more healthy now as a 24 years old, than as a 18 years old.

And i've been having sex too, great sex with a girl better than my ex both emotionally and sexually, she is way above my ex in looks too, i don't feel nothing deep for her, and wouldn't want a relationship, but im not "alone" at all at this time.

Yet i envy my ex having a new date, i made the mistake of stalking her today, and found that, even tho the guy looks "worse" than me, and even tho she is both personality wise and looks, worse than my new date, i envy her, as if she got a new stable relationship which i truly didnt, and therefore is better than me, even being in a shitty job she hates still, even tho most of her friends always end up leaving her after truly knowing her.

Its as if she always judged me so harshly, that i wanted to shove my better me in her face, as in "look how much better im doing", but truth is, even tho i am much better, i spend my days doing my stuff and loving it, i still feel sad when i get alone without nothing but time to reflect, i don't know why i create this, but i wish i could just get what i have and be thankful for it, cause i know i was even worse when i was with her, and my life was a cesspool, even tho, i hate this needy feeling, cause i know its what made me endure that shitty relationship for so long, and i hate thinking i might jump into another shitty relationships if the opportunity presents itself, cause i always feel this lack without someone i love.

I just mean, how do i enjoy myself and my life without needing a relationship, without thinking im just validated if im with someone.
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Name - Sat, 12 Oct 2019 22:40:38 EST ACArUTNa No.532100 Reply
You're not going to get over all that hurt overnight dude. You've done so much to improve your life and even though it looks good on paper, of course when you revisit your past relationship, you will feel hurt. It was abusive. Toxic.

There is some kind of emotional need that you need to fill, but it's an old one. You wont fill it with another person. You can only fill it yourself. Work out what your issues are and try to prove it wrong.

Of course it is lonely to not be in love right now, but if you dont drive back into that old way of being you might find a better kind of love. One that lifts you up.
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David Pirryspear - Wed, 16 Oct 2019 10:32:53 EST qeFUVsc9 No.532139 Reply
I'm kinda in the same boat as you my friend.

Currently am working out how to leave my relationship with minimized harm toward myself.

I've never been single for longer than a month or two since Highschool.
Except when I am in a relationship, I have urges to do things that I should've done while single. Like sleep around. Flirt. Be myself.

I feel so fucking suppressed.
My friends are still my friends but I haven't talked to them in a year now.
How do people think it's okay to control a person so much to this point?
Are they acutely aware of the effects they have on you and your mind?
Or do they just not care?
It's insane.


I got off topic, anyway,
The more aloof you can be with yourself and be comfortable in your skin and know that as long as you love yourself, no one can ever validate you as much as you can validate yourself. It's so much more rewarding. To be able to look in the mirror every morning and tell yourself that you matter and that you're important and that people care about you no matter how far they seem from you.

Everyone is on their own path and you are the path finder. You do not need another''s light to guide your path. The only one who can light your path is yourself.
Speak from the heart and the light will radiate from you.
Be your own lamp.

Issues with ex

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- Mon, 14 Oct 2019 07:58:57 EST Q/MXo8A1 No.532107
File: 1571054337741.png -(23678B / 23.12KB, 633x758) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Issues with ex
Is there any way to fix this?

An old semi long term ex hit me and she is kinda slutty so i didnt really want a relationship or anything. I told her it was sex and i just wanna fool around. And she said yeah whatever you want ill do whatever you want. And i wasnt really affectionate at all she asked if i was sad when we broke up and i told her i wasnt happy or sad. I kept asking her if she really liked me and told her to tell me because she was acting needy and i told her i dont want her to like me because i dont want to date

I acted kind of cold but it was because there was times she texted me, then ghosted me while talking to me, talk to other people and ignore me, and had sex with a lot of people and everything it was just a lot so i really wasnt in love or affectionate.

She said she didnt care it doesnt matter if we dont date. Then later on in the second day i think she was kinda going around it and not really saying no that she doesnt like me and whenever she left we stayed up texting all night and it wasnt really bad except I’m just always emo and pissed off. But not in a mean way just complaining about life.

I was kinda cold and a little mean but not really bad or bullying just say i dont really feel needy or have any feelings and i told her i dont really care about relationships. We cuddled and stuff but i didnt really kiss a lot and i was just acting a little distant and she seemed needy and then i kept asking her if she liked me or not to make sure because i just wanted to know and i might feel weird if she did or just feel bad

Then i think she did have feelings and would just kinda do whatever i asked and come hang out with me whenever i asked. Woke up today and she just was barley answering. And then she said yeah i do have feelings for you this is hard but it didnt sound genuine just more like she wanted to leave and used that an excuse but i wasnt sure and then didn’t text me.

Did i treat her too bad? Or did she just run off with some other dude for a cock or something? She went form like 2 days of if i asked her to come over she just came ot and did whatever i wanted to do and was just super nice and did everything i asked for and even the last day she asked to spend the night but i didnt because i had a headache and wanted to eat really bad. Then i woke up the next day and she didnt even wanna talk after 2 days of acting really affectionate and just doing whatever and just coming over and wanting to text non stop and hang out all day and shit. Like literaly just woke up a whole different person.

Did she just go fuck another dude or something?
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Name - Wed, 16 Oct 2019 00:06:40 EST Ptg5M1K1 No.532135 Reply
She is the same person she has always been. She doesn't know what she wants and theres nothing you can do to make her stay as you cant fix her or give her what she needs.

fucking

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- Fri, 11 Oct 2019 21:32:58 EST SaWKafFy No.532090
File: 1570843978815.png -(435016B / 424.82KB, 744x1000) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. fucking
Growing up I would never have imagined that I would have so much personal suffering over not being able to get laid or have a girlfriend. All I want is to fuck an attractive female. But years pass and nothing. Everyone can't be getting fucked except me right? There has to be a good amount of guys around my age who are completely dumbfounded as to how they can't get laid, because I definitely am.

To whoever can give me actual advice as to how I can have sex within the next week, I can't do much but I will forever remember you and direct positive spirit energy in your direction.
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Lillian Goodridge - Tue, 15 Oct 2019 20:47:08 EST CmGaMC1v No.532129 Reply
>>532122
>I'm not OP but I know what OP wants

You sure be way more helpful around here.
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Name - Tue, 15 Oct 2019 23:11:58 EST Ptg5M1K1 No.532134 Reply
Let me tell you how this story ends if you keep up the bullshit.

You meet a girl in class or peripheral friend group. Fellow male friend also is interested. You exchange pleasantries. You hang out and talk a bit. You go on a pseudo date and you dont kiss. She hooks up with other dude. You cry and call her a bitch for leading her on. She is like wtf. You are like wtf.

Yes we are talking about love and not sex. And yes, you are cant be in a relationship right now because clearly you're afraid of intimacy and you cant be authentic.

Therapy, whores and fat women are what you need. Dr prescribes this to you.

Oh no that's not the right way to go about things rah rah rah. There is no right way. There is only fucking embarrassing yourself. Hahaha. Embrace.

socializing with low self-esteem

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- Sun, 29 Sep 2019 18:34:05 EST SLZ94LIZ No.531914
File: 1569796445695.jpg -(5201007B / 4.96MB, 5468x4158) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. socializing with low self-esteem
I realize I need at least some people in my life but how do I find them and keep them when I'm socially awkward and sort of just find myself somewhat (and naturally other people too) repugnant. I want a quick fix but I think I know in the back of my brain that something that took years to happen will take years to rectify.
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Esther Chombledock - Tue, 08 Oct 2019 05:06:26 EST egLQ3/pk No.532045 Reply
>>532044
Also, no problem man. Sorry for the giant walls of text, I got my adderall script again, heh
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Reuben Turveyforth - Fri, 11 Oct 2019 13:58:25 EST SLZ94LIZ No.532089 Reply
>>532044
Thanks again, "cat" ^_^ I understand what you're saying. I'm on no medicines why are you on adderall and how has it affected your life?
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Farkis - Mon, 14 Oct 2019 21:37:47 EST LbPBpo3d No.532117 Reply
>>53191
Dont implement around assholes
They created this system.
There are 16 different personallitys around four letters or words...
Maybe beacuase the whole extrovert introvert went to shit.
So maybe it can be a good thing to define yourself around the things. They say we use to kill gods but honestly there will allways be the sliver tpumge mentallity. Its just a matter in how you go about it.
Talk to some people man just get on some thread site thats a good fit for you best of lu luck.

I hate everybody

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- Sat, 12 Oct 2019 21:42:42 EST FZJGGhl2 No.532099
File: 1570930962346.jpg -(83518B / 81.56KB, 600x458) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I hate everybody
I can't stand the area I live in, too many people are either wannabe criminals or religious fundamentalists and lots of them have a hard-on for any kind of authoritarism they can think of, many people working with me are downright incompetent and backstabbing, I'm constantly scared of speaking my mind because I have nothing in common with the people who surround me and I fear I may be fired if I do that.

I don't know what to do anymore, I feel like an alien trapped in this and I couldn't care less about the people I know because they suck, I can't stop thinking they want to fire me for no reason and I'm always anxious and feeling down or angry, I can't even sleep very well lately, I don't know what to do anymore.
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Barnaby Fepperdare - Mon, 14 Oct 2019 07:28:11 EST iU4agb7y No.532106 Reply
>>532099
I don't consume lots of social media and I don't even have an fb account.
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John Crazzledire - Mon, 14 Oct 2019 18:36:38 EST UC/aR6fj No.532116 Reply
>>532102
Depends on your coworkers.For OP it sounds like they are.

Some offices have real friendship groups. Others don't. I've always been too shy and nerdy to want to join their football games and nights out but some of them alright and in terms of values and stuff they're not my opposites. None are about to backstab me. I have worked places where there's some of that shit in the air though usually the biggest villain is the management.

If I worked in IT I'd probably have people I could invite to my D&D games or whatever.

Social media is another thing that varies. The media you use and how you interact which colour what you get out of it or what you lose to it. On the whole I'd be aware it does more harm than good but some of the messenger/event shit makes coordinating get togethers easier. On the whole if you're using it instead of social interaction you're fucking up, if you're using to arrange it, you're doing okay. If you can avoid it entirely like the old days and still see lots of people then you're doing best of all.

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- Sun, 06 Oct 2019 16:11:43 EST tRqVt3h/ No.532001
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Fellas, it has been over 8 months since she said she wanted to be only platonic, and it has not stopped hurting
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Jenny Pillerwedging - Sun, 13 Oct 2019 19:01:47 EST R/ymg22H No.532104 Reply
>>532001
Drop her; she's fuckin' other people.

Smoke a joint; there's 4.5 billion women on this fucking rock.

Go smash a couple you cuccumber
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Jist - Sun, 13 Oct 2019 19:36:12 EST LbPBpo3d No.532105 Reply
>>532002
It beautiful I've never had a fucking plutonic.
Well.....
Actually I've had one that just always had a boyfriend tho.
She asked me in front of my brother and her boyfriend... What I thought of her.
... She told me I was just a brother..
Woulda been like yeah I fuck my lettes.
... I just fussed tho fool.

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