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!GD3wBpep0Y - Sun, 13 Aug 2017 12:14:49 EST d5kHsYag No.518069
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Hi folks,

If you're looking to talk to someone immediately about any problems you have in your life and have nobody close to you, come and speak to us!

Join us on IRC on #qq. Most of us have different time zones but if you stay there, one of us will be there.

Don't be afraid to speak up.
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Charlotte Pirrysedging - Tue, 01 Sep 2020 14:34:12 EST V+I+eC6C No.535925 Reply
I'm probably too late but if you enter "/server -m irc.420chan.org" it should work
Angus Bickleson - Tue, 08 Sep 2020 23:05:24 EST usehq5m4 No.536052 Reply
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ive done a lot of things wrong, and i refuse to apologize for any of them, because the things I get shit on are all things that I either never did or weren't wrong

Fucked my shit up, impatient, insecure, or all of the above

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- Mon, 14 Sep 2020 16:35:51 EST a1R46Eta No.536166
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So basically I’ve fallen in love with a girl who I’ve been with for a few months, since we first started hanging out it’s felt like an unseen force was with us guiding us to be together, every moment felt charged with magic and a sense of belonging. We talked about both feeling this force and feeling unique energies from one another.

However recently she has called me by her ex’s name four times, admittedly when we’ve just been chilling doing nothing in particular, but the most recent time it was said after I kissed her on the cheek and she flat out denied what I’d heard clearly with my own ears. I asked her why she was lying, told her lying made it worse and she still denied it.

Now this would be offputting enough - it’s extremely hurtful no matter the context and throws her proclamations of devotion to me into some doubt - but she is also pregnant with my child. We deliberately conceived because we felt that we’re at the perfect age (25) and that we’d both choose each other to have children with over anyone else.

Now I’m realising that perhaps this whole arrangement was the result of us mutually having a deeply manic episode and that neither of us were really ready at all. Her calling me her ex’s name is a red flag that didn’t show up until it was too late. It implies that she’s not quite over him and perhaps has just been relying on the exciting/promising nature of our relationship to ignore her feelings for him.

Of course she denies still having any feelings for him and says it’s just a ‘case of misnaming’ but it makes me constantly on edge, wondering if she’s about to call me his name again or if she’s going to think of him when we’re intimate. This makes it incredibly hard for me to focus on the task at hand which involves finding a house to rent to live with her for the foreseeable. She also expects me to propose to her before the baby is born which of course makes sense but this whole thing makes me really uncertain about that whole thing.

If I were to walk away from her she wouldn’t get an abortion - I wouldn’t want her to - but she’d probably just give the baby to me, which wouldn’t be such a bad thing but I’d seriously worry about how that would affect her, not to mention how she’d go about handling the pregnancy.

Am I blowing things out of proportion? Obviously getting her pregnant so soon was foolhardy but it felt right at the time, was always going to be a challenge and somewhat crazy but we both felt like it was now or never. Everything seemed to be falling into place for us. I felt so close to her and now just like that I feel so unsure about everything.
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Edwin Mobberwater - Fri, 25 Sep 2020 16:35:01 EST Z8E/qob6 No.536280 Reply
How is her planting grain going to fix the situation?

Fuck I'm 33

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- Fri, 18 Sep 2020 19:54:20 EST K2adsqNS No.536198
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Okay I got my first apartment when I was 18 I got out of jail on Halloween with 600 bux in my pocket in 2005. I used smoked down see shows every night... I went to college at 21... still partying trying DMT, and new bands MGMT, starting dating seriously at 24 not just fuck buddies.... I bought a house at 26 got married at 27 mom passed away when I was 29 never really knew my dad... right before my 31st my son was born. I'm bipolar on the welfare my wife works so I'm a stay at home dad... none of the drugs work except opium I'm saving that one till I really hurt (50+) I have everything I could want except the ability to enjoy the things I have the chemicals in my head and what little time in my life no longer let me enjoy Motorcycles, Wave Runners, and PS4/PSVR. I'm always tired, I always wear Pajamas, I can't remember the last time I was anywhere formal or even fun. I never worked a day in my life except sweat equity into my house, and sweat equity into my kids. I wanna be 20 again or even 18.... I wanna feel... I don't care if I'm broke I wanna feel that dopamine hit my system again in a good way I feel the rush of the drive along the beach, that first bite of filet mignon, that first tight pussy, that first insane fucking concert (I Love you Mindless Self Indulgence/Powerman 5k, Kill Hannah). I feel like Dorian Gray like some old potrait in an attic. How do I stop this feeling? I remember when Kirtaner had a cute ass, and when Mac Os didn't suck. I'm old.
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Priscilla Drorryhock - Thu, 24 Sep 2020 23:59:22 EST wn2jITKb No.536274 Reply
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I found new and better drugs. These will help you Mr. Unhappy with everything a dude could ask for, also maybe get a philosophy degree, that might pull you out of your funk.
Fucking Dinkinson - Fri, 25 Sep 2020 01:38:45 EST pajX8ZCA No.536275 Reply

Basically this.

People can do whatever the fuck they want with their own pathetic, miserable lives, but that changes the second somebody else's well being comes to depend upon them.
Sophie Sirringsedge - Fri, 25 Sep 2020 08:15:49 EST Ua9KPMkb No.536276 Reply
Listen OP, I just took an aging family member to emergency detox at age 72 because he'd physically assaulted everyone else in his life that would help him. Wake up, drink some water, and play with your kids, and don't focus on anything else but that. Get off the drugs. Your son doesn't know anything about you before a couple of years back, what would his opinion of you be, if he understood how he was being shafted right now out of having a loving father because you couldn't stop drinking cough medicine. Sober up, please.


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- Fri, 11 Sep 2020 11:40:59 EST ACi57ccn No.536114
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>be me
>happy go lucky college student in late 2013
>Meet girl fall in love yaddah yaddah
>we're both psychonauts (drug addicts)
>Start doing a lot of psychedelics (5-meo, 2cb, LSD etc)
>smoke weed all day every day
>Also doing a lot of drinking around this time and this is where my memory starts to fade
>We basically ignore the world around us, only hanging out with a small group of hippies and Burning Man types.
>Spend a shit ton of time camping, barley ever at our apartment we share
>At some point me and girl drop out and move to Thailand, i start teaching English
>I get off drinking but start taking massive amounts of benzos and barbs
>me and girl were so into astral projection and transcending existence on Earth that we basically ignore the entire state of the world and news for two years
>we eventually both end up cheating on each other and we have a huge fight and break things off
>Meet a different Thai hippie woman who is rich enough to take care of me and basically we start doing almost the exact same shit as i did with my ex
>this goes on for another year and my memory gets extremely fuzzy at this point.
>get in bike accident and go to hospital, don't remember any of it but apparently was in coma for a few days
>memory is now fucked even further
>at some point i end up flying back to US, don't even remember how it all happened
>end up staying with my old best friend from high school on the west coast, he informs me that people in my home town think i died, i had kept in touch occasionally with my parents but that's it.
>explain to him what i remember happened over the last 6 years
>he informs me of all the shit that has happened in the world since then, i'm blown away by just how bad everything is.
>i was aware of minor things, like i realized Trump was actually president and it wasn't a joke while i was in Bangkok and started seeming him everywhere on tv and on t shirts and trinkets
>but had no idea the world had been getting this bad while i was literally living in my own head
>he's much more put together in life and suggests i go to rehab which i agree is what i need
>contact my family and end up in a in patient facility within a week and a half
>have seizures getting off the benzos and barbs but i am able to complete the program
>almost right as i get out of treatment and move back in with my folks for the first time in ten years Covid hits
>As my memory and awareness slowly and steadily has been coming back to me i now realize just how fucked my life, my situation and my country in general is.

I'm completely at a loss rn, i had no idea things were this bad or were going to get this bad. I was planning on using my sobriety to go back to school and get a job but now i'm just stuck inside doing zoom classes to start my degree program and absorbing just how fucked the state of the country and world is rn. I spent over six years just literally in my own world with either a gf by my side or just alone. I am wholly unprepared for civil conflict in November and i have no idea what to do with my life. I know it's my fault but i do partly think the psychedelics switched something in my brain that made me just decide to shut off society for years, now society is breathing down my neck and i'm fucked.
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Nell Gezzleladge - Thu, 24 Sep 2020 16:27:56 EST f6fwwFz+ No.536271 Reply
I like how you conveniently ignore the billion+ dollars in property damage you leftists have done to this country.


And yes, the leftists have killed at least 19 people directly due to the protests


Personally I find them responsible for the spikes in violent crime across the country as well. Guess what happens when you defund/defang the police? Seriously, would love to see what MSM lies you parrot back to me on it

im insecure and cant deal with shit that shouldnt matter and its going to destroy my relationship

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- Sat, 19 Sep 2020 19:41:10 EST mFWXT8u8 No.536204
File: 1600558870725.jpg -(113800B / 111.13KB, 467x700) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. im insecure and cant deal with shit that shouldnt matter and its going to destroy my relationship
ive been with my girlfriend for 9 months now. the 2 months before we got together she had sex with as many people as I have in my entire life.

I feel inadequate. How could I compare to that experience. How do I feel special? I know who some of the guys are. They are thinner than me. Better looking than me. Bigger dicks.

The first night we actually met was when she was at the same venue as me to see one of the guys she had dated/hooked up with. She barely remembers me and had no feelings for me after that night. We didn't get together until awhile later.

My mind just circles on all these thoughts. How can I be special to her? How can I get over these feelings. My anxiety is so high sometimes over this. I hate it. It makes me hate the concept of sex.

She has never had an orgasm before, not solo, with others, not with me. She has told me before that no one else ever learned how to touch her the way she likes. She said I get her as close as she can get herself. When it feels like the the spot she thinks an orgasm should be, she just goes numb, and then "resets" and has no more sexual desire. She says I'm the only person she has ever enjoyed penetration with. Feels like a lie since why else would she have had sex with so many people if she didnt like it...?

I want these thoughts to stop so I can not fuck up an otherwise great relationship
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Augustus Pittworth - Thu, 24 Sep 2020 03:16:00 EST 6gpt5FtC No.536267 Reply
There's a few reasons the orgasm may happen. But yeah she's in her head and she is stopping it. She gets close then gets anxiety about it and shuts down. Maybe she's an anxious about cumming for OP as he is about her. A bit of kink or whatever might work but it's worth making sure she's on board with that.
George Duffingdeg - Thu, 24 Sep 2020 10:17:41 EST MLL+pwyx No.536268 Reply
Yeah it was implied that it's got to be consensual, but also non consensual seeming enough for her to get off on it. If that's a head fuck, yes it is haha. My mind couldn't comprehend that shit for ages.
Augustus Pittworth - Thu, 24 Sep 2020 11:54:45 EST 6gpt5FtC No.536269 Reply
Don't get me wrong, the first time I made my partner orgasm was after she told me she liked it rough and to pin her so we were going at it and I just pinned her arms and she realised how much stronger I was and she was pinned and just came. It absolutely could be be a solution. But it could also absolutely could be not it. Definitely worth asking.

I think there's a lot of possible explanations but I think her feeling the pressure to perform is definitely one of the most likely and this is one possible solution to that. I mean not having control could remove the pressure. Then again I had anxiety issues with a previous partner and she just told me it would be fine and she knew I'd be okay and it worked. Though we also did a lot of stuff to stack the odds in my favour like not fucking at 1am when I was tired, her putting the condom on (it goes from fiddling with a wrapper to her touching my junk) and it built my confidence up enough. So it's something to discuss and try various things, but also make sure she doesn't feel pressure, there's no time limit, you're not going anywhere.

If OP manages that he'll be a double winner. Better fuck and also more considerate. That sort of shit is worth more than infinite shitty lays with shitty people.


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- Thu, 17 Sep 2020 14:59:04 EST m8gMi16v No.536182
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I’ve been watching “I may destroy you” and it has me thinking about all the times ive been sexually assaulted, and how 99% of people in my life dont even know about it.
i have never been raped, as far as i know. but i have been

-sexually assaulted by my cousin. I remember crying on the stairs after and him telling me that if i told my parents they wouldn’t believe me
-sexually assaulted by my brother
-drugged and maybe sexually assaulted by an acquaintance, but i never reported it so i dont know. I asked my friends about what happened and they were completely unhelpful and seemed like they didn’t want to believe something like that would happen, and i didnt want to believe it either
-pretty sure the same guy tried to do the same thing another night, but fortunately i ate too much chinese food earlier in the day and i puked. woke up topless with my shirt by the door and puke on the floor and vague memories of being bent over a couch.
-sexually assaulted by an ex-boyfriend

there is no point or purpose to this thread i just wanted this information somewhere in the world so i stop carrying it by myself. I see a therapist but when i talk about this stuff i gloss over details and act like im over it because i dont want to talk about it. I dont think theres much he could say about it anyway besides “yikes that sucks”

Thanks for reading
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Walter Clinnerwin - Tue, 22 Sep 2020 23:44:31 EST /a0EWK+P No.536258 Reply
Therapist is probably a waste of time OP... just my opinion, maybe you find some good in them but I never have. What kind of a therapist could you not confide this stuff in to feel some sort of relief? All of them, unfortunately...

You're female right? I'm sure you've been raped, there's no reason to deny it. Almost every woman I have ever met has been raped at some point, some extremely violently and some under threat, some under drugs, but all of them.

I would suggest you quit drinking, it seems like your "friends" are using you as a fuckstick and drinking would make it easy
Jarvis Hunnerdale - Wed, 23 Sep 2020 07:11:48 EST SIQUFwhT No.536260 Reply

No, a therapist is not a waste of time. Don't listen to this shit.
Phineas Mangermore - Wed, 23 Sep 2020 08:46:05 EST ic1gmhwA No.536261 Reply
If someone tried to convince your sister of this, you'd beat his ass. The only reason you behave this way is because people call you a piece of shit for behaving this way, so you eventually became convinced that this is your unironic personality, in an endless cycle of self-depreciation and abuse. Break free from this. Either you believe this or you don't, but you said it. Break free.


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- Sun, 16 Feb 2020 21:38:15 EST rxDf9oTy No.533663
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Does anybody have experience with this?

>live in apartment with roommate
>roommate goes psycho on a combination of Xanax, adderal, and anti deppresants, starts physical fights
>I kick his ass and move out
>keep paying rent because I don’t wanna fuck myself over
>lease goes until may 1st
>my landlord is trying to rent the place out early and charge me for rent until may

Some have told me that if I stop paying I’m gonna get fucked over and evicted, others have told me nothing will happen. I planned on paying for March, but if I don’t pay for April will I get fucked?
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Cedric Blushway - Sat, 12 Sep 2020 07:04:53 EST mNRa2otm No.536157 Reply
>Who had been supplying me with?
>When had they been supplying me?
>How have they been supplying me?
>Why have they been supplying me?

How in the fuck? I quit.
Walter Clinnerwin - Tue, 22 Sep 2020 23:48:16 EST /a0EWK+P No.536259 Reply
If you could get evidence that he was renting it out you could fight it in court, but you would probably need to ask the guy he's renting out to for some sort of receipt or something... Not sure he'd go along with that. Might be able to get the psycho to help though

Shit Roommate

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- Sun, 30 Aug 2020 14:20:25 EST 8YfZXFG9 No.535891
File: 1598811625172.gif -(375366B / 366.57KB, 300x172) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Shit Roommate
>From day one roommate hasn't made me feel like I can even speak to him really, despite having a very similar tech job and once I moved in, basically is nonexistent. Guy just eats and makes noodles, no other meals and works on his computer.
>Live at place for last 3 months. I think we have spoken about all of two times and I've been friendly and trying to initiate a conversation quite a few times, dude just runs to his room.
>Sends me txt 2 weeks back, complains about me leaving the light on in the hall, complained about a loud noise (which was just a mat I've had in front of my door the entire time, couldve just asked about it, made a rubbing sound when I moved the door.) Complained about me smelling weedy and then said I had at some point forgot to flush the toilet or something. And said that I now, after two weeks back saying I could vape in my room can now not vape in my room, but the thing was I actually quit vaping 5 days before he even said anything.
>Alright then... Uh, So I stop talking to him. weird to complain all at once in a text form, move mat, whatever. Told him I quit vaping, and sorta glanced it off. Cringed at him then txting me "Oh good, you'll feel health benefits if you keep on quitting." followed by a "I'm glad we could work these issues out" which made me just about implode with how snarky it seemed.
>be 2hrs ago, get txt "Your keyboard has woken me up twice tonight chill tf out, it's almost 2am, nobody needs to type that loud." literally just sitting in my room as quiet as possible. He then threw something at the wall.

Literally didn't even respond. Went for a walk awhile later at about 4am to some people in the same apartment complex yelling off their balcony talking to one another loudly and kids screaming bloody murder in an apartment complex down the street as I walked by.

Made me just shake my head.

Some people honestly, are just super sensitive, i'm really not and I legit was as nice as possible throughout this and I've had quite a few things to complain about, like paying half the rent but getting 1/4th the space in the kitchen and him not taking the garbage and etc out, but this is just stupid. Get a fan, use a white noise generator. You really should eat something green, and you aren't the center of the world dude.

Who complains about a keyboard like that. lol, and i'm typing right now without any kind of retaliation or things getting thrown at the wall the same way I did earlier.

Probably gonna give the dude my 30 days and just move out. Guy was strange from day one, never had anything bad to say about him until clearly he had some sort of issue going on'.

All I know is I would probably talk to that person about a thing before it got to the point i'm sending you a asshole list of issues or complaining about mundane things and clearly having a bit of a breakdown about it/being frustrated like that. It's a weird move especially when you haven't even attempted to have a decent conversation at any point in the last 3 months.

Like, is there something here I ain't getting? I've lived with quite a few people in different situations and I've not really ever had anybody ever complain quite like this. Legit, I got no words, a keyboard? Why did you even look for a Roommate?
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Oliver Fegglestone - Sun, 30 Aug 2020 21:47:09 EST 8YfZXFG9 No.535901 Reply
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OP returning.

So I confronted him about all of this shit, and we pretty much hashed everything out in about 30 minutes of talking.

>I was quitting nicotine at the same time dude was quitting a regime of SSRI's, he apologized first off and I think he sorta realized what he was sounding like.

We came to a conclusion where it's clear he was stressed out, i was stressed out and we were 100% not communicating and that by simply talking for 30 minutes candidly, we realized there are no issues and ironed it all out, he's gonna get a bigger fan for white noise, and if that fails I told him I'll switch to a membrane keyboard later on at night or whatever.

We just talked about shit, and realized we're probably just equally enthusiastic. We actually had a really hard time ending the conversation because we just sorta went in circles with what we were gonna do to try to fix the situation.

Gotta say, not the way I assumed that was gonna go. I'm still waiting for him to turn on me again, but I'm willing to go forward as we both basically told each other that talking really showed neither of us are THAT big of assholes, and maybe I'm a little loud cause i machine gun that shit, maybe the walls of the apartment suck dick and maybe he's just a bit of a bitch when it comes to staying asleep.

And we all lived on...

Jesus christ.
Polly Herringsick - Sat, 19 Sep 2020 01:04:29 EST fm2nh+WG No.536199 Reply
What a good conclusion to this thread. Hell yeah OP, glad you guys worked this shit out.
Walter Clinnerwin - Tue, 22 Sep 2020 23:37:10 EST /a0EWK+P No.536257 Reply
Agreed, lolled

Sounds like he just isn't a good roommate. Hopefully you can find a better one but it sounds like he is quiet at least so good luck OP

typical petty shit

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- Sun, 20 Sep 2020 22:23:33 EST yWLXdtue No.536228
File: 1600655013719.jpg -(32150B / 31.40KB, 783x391) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. typical petty shit
>feel wronged by my gf
>we fought and haven't spoken since
>mutual silence
>know I should just text her and get us to patch it up
>really don't want to have to be the one who does that all the time
>still feel owed and apology so don't really want to reach out
>know that if I don't we will mutually ignore each other for days
... I don't want to be immature about this and play a stubborn waiting game, but I also don't want to forfeit my own boundaries either, I feel entitled to an olive branch for once. What do.
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Eliza Bocklefield - Mon, 21 Sep 2020 23:26:24 EST ehXzQxG7 No.536240 Reply
Why not break up with her and smoke pot and jack off instead?
Phoebe Worthingway - Tue, 22 Sep 2020 07:17:31 EST 7OGdb+ZV No.536243 Reply
This OP. You ever get high and jack off thinking about her?
Walter Clinnerwin - Tue, 22 Sep 2020 23:14:43 EST /a0EWK+P No.536251 Reply
Leave her and wait for the better one

Let's see your imagination. What do you try before suicide?

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- Thu, 17 Sep 2020 07:55:56 EST ZzBHnTwL No.536181
File: 1600343756299.jpg -(6913B / 6.75KB, 262x192) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Let's see your imagination. What do you try before suicide?
You will be dead anyway so you can do anything. Trying to rob a bank is lame because it is impossible to escape. It is 2020. So what is your ideas? Heavy risk actions which normally you afraid but not stupid.
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Ernest Fabblechore - Tue, 22 Sep 2020 01:01:38 EST m8gMi16v No.536242 Reply
yeah tbh i dont know how i feel about banning someone for getting mad about actual creepy pedo shit.
Cornelius Hommerspear - Tue, 22 Sep 2020 13:16:45 EST kJ9SVVEA No.536244 Reply
You're retarded vassera, pedo food goblin, is a legit pedo.
Walter Clinnerwin - Tue, 22 Sep 2020 23:13:30 EST /a0EWK+P No.536250 Reply
I'd probably stalk and kill people for as long as possible honestly

but just don't do all that OP, or anyone here

not attracted to gf

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- Sun, 20 Sep 2020 13:50:01 EST nHFJj8Qi No.536219
File: 1600624201939.jpg -(44301B / 43.26KB, 750x766) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. not attracted to gf
been together for somewhere around a decade. she was pretty fit when we started fucking and that turned into an ltr. then she got fat but she's slimming down now. we in a ldr as well, i moved to find work.

she brought up how i don't initiate and that she feels like I'm not attracted to her at the end of a phone convo. i reacted with anger because i don't know why she has to spoil the night right before we go to sleep, but really it was probably because I didn't want to say

>yes, you're right

tbh i haven't been physically attracted to her for a while. but we're in real deep now. she has other great qualities like a caring nature, loyalty; I can tell she would be a good mother. But then again she acts like a bipolar person and has affected my mental health negatively over the years. I'm sure I've done plenty to her as well, but her hysterics are intolerable.

but yeah, If I'm being honest, I don't find her attractive. I feel like I'm the hot one in the relationship and I don't like that.

I'd ask for advice but I think I already know what I need to do. just don't want to for some reason.
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Matilda Fanderson - Mon, 21 Sep 2020 04:31:58 EST h9TTa2SX No.536232 Reply
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I dunno OP, are you sure you’re not attracted to her anymore? you’re in an LDR. when is the last time you two actually fucked? it can hard to feel attracted to someone when you’re so physically far apart from each other. was it like this when you were living together?

it sounds like there are a lot of things you like about her, and there must be some really good stuff there if it’s been ten years. it almost sounds like you’re trying to talk yourself into breaking up with her. are there other reasons you want to be single?

the easy way out is to break up. i think ten years warrants a little bit more exploring into what is going on and what steps can be taken to make it better. times like this can actually generate a lot of growth in relationships. when you have nothing to lose and the alternative is to break up, you can really just go all in with exploring feelings and options... if that makes sense.

could be worth talking to an actual counsellor irl about it too instead of a bunch of sad jaded 420channers.

wish you luck and bless up
Walter Clinnerwin - Tue, 22 Sep 2020 23:12:13 EST /a0EWK+P No.536249 Reply
LDR's are notorious for never working out for good reason

Even if a woman isn't the best looking girl in the world, being able to have sex with her creates the same bond you would have with a perfect woman. Being far from her robs you of this

Fckd up inside.

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- Tue, 22 Sep 2020 22:46:24 EST B1xbQxm+ No.536247
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It is mostly emptiness, apathy, sometimes I feel hate towards my surroundings, people and myself, sometimes I feel hurt. But mostly I feel a void, I have a new girlfriend and I am afraid I am going to ghost her since I am pretty sure I cannot bring anything to the table, I feel like a worthless human. Sometimes I think about killing myself, I do not want to blew it with my new GF but I am starting to have the symptoms again, just like I did with previous possible relationships that I was never able to solidify. I am already more than 30 years old and never ever had a relationship for more than 4 months. I do not know if this has anything to do with the fact that I was sexually abused as a child but I also tend to close myself sexually, I feel sexually crippled. I am a woman, so is really easy for me to make her cum, however I do not let her touch me not even emotionally, she has been very patient but I do not know how to fix myself, I have never do so and I am afraid of losing her. I've drinking a lot just so I don't have to think about it.
Walter Clinnerwin - Tue, 22 Sep 2020 23:09:28 EST /a0EWK+P No.536248 Reply
You probably want a boyfriend
Henry Nunkinlot - Tue, 22 Sep 2020 23:25:46 EST jBTq5UYW No.536256 Reply
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I'm just an idiot, although it seems like you're placing a lot of import on her and are focusing hard on making that the something good in your life. I smoke, but hurting yourself via drink, while offering control, means you're letting yourself go. It's hokey but having some hobby or something where you have control might help. I would avoid musical instruments though

a mistake

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- Wed, 05 Aug 2020 19:08:44 EST fFX5osX4 No.535605
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I had to do it though

"oh he can't keep his pills arranged"
"love means whatever I say it means"
"he's going to do X"
"why are you such trash"
"you're weak no matter how strong you actually are"
"are you okay"


but I'm addicted to abuse
I'm addicted to the resulting rage

I love this place but it's not severe enough
I need something far, far more than this

I meant it when I said I don't want to self-destruct over this, but it's not this is it?
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Cedric Blushway - Fri, 11 Sep 2020 21:49:45 EST mNRa2otm No.536139 Reply
I made few mistakes myself with women. Never actually got to fuck one up though. It's never been my cup of tea.

I've had sex and stuff but never got to beat the shit out of one them.
Cedric Blushway - Sat, 12 Sep 2020 04:28:27 EST mNRa2otm No.536151 Reply
It took long time before grandma had her day with me.
A lot of bullshit had been said and done.
I didn't fucking like her that damn much.
Not like a weirdo who just listens to grandma all the time.

Does this make me a complete asshole

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- Wed, 19 Feb 2020 16:56:53 EST EtHPqQfW No.533703
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I lived with this guy for 3 years. I moved out a few years back and I recently heard he tried to kill himself. He keeps talking about how miserable he is. He tried to do it when this girl dumped him. Frankly I think it’s all bullshit and he should have just fucking done it.

>sits around watching news all day
>yells about politics constantly; huge communist
>literally all he cares about is communism
>hates everyone who isn’t super far leftist
>never smoke or drank in his life; looks down on people who do
>adopted this stupid dog that’s like 200 pounds and violent to seem more liberal “I rescued him”
>now his girlfriend dumped him because he tried to an hero
>trying to get a studio w dog that’s bigger than him
>has this really shitty entitled attitude that a landlord should just give him an apartment and hold it for him until he has the money
>polsci major
>bitches and whines about how exhausting his fmla approved therapy sessions are, month off work “it’s so exhausting”

Honestly I think the suicide attempt is completely bullshit and just a cry for attention. I get legitimately angry when I think about how stupid this person is. I’ve known people who killed them selves and this seems like just a big cry for attention.

Am I onto something or am I just a dickhead?
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Lydia Murdson - Wed, 16 Sep 2020 06:41:09 EST jnas4L6T No.536177 Reply
unironically using the term "red pilled" makes you more of an asshole than anything else you posted.
[name redacted] !h55/E7mIo6 - Wed, 16 Sep 2020 15:11:27 EST e9eRuSB0 No.536178 Reply
If being around/talking to him is shitty for you and causing you stress, just cut him out of your life. It's not your responsibility to babysit everyone you meet for the rest of your life.
James Snodforth - Fri, 18 Sep 2020 19:32:58 EST jnas4L6T No.536197 Reply

local incestuous pedophile cannot help but use "babysit" as metaphor

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