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It's bad to stick your dick in crazy, right?

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- Sat, 10 Oct 2020 21:23:54 EST yyOfZufy No.536400
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I stopped having sex with my ex-fwb about 9 months ago, but realized I should stop when she told me she wants me to get her pregnant. She has a history of self-harm and very likely has BPD.

It was right of me to stop having sex with her, right? I felt afraid at the idea of someone so unstable being so irrationally invested in me.
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Fucking Wondleson - Tue, 20 Oct 2020 09:42:29 EST 8gfmR+QD No.536556 Reply
Seems kind of egotistical to me.
Clara Crivingtid - Tue, 20 Oct 2020 09:48:03 EST +mE1P6Ow No.536557 Reply
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a miserable person like her should never have children!
People seem to forget how big of investment children really are. Children aren't toys you can just place wherever you like.
Just because your lifescript tells you top breed, doesn't mean you should.

How does she or anyone else with pshychological issues imagine to take care of their kid?!
Fucking Wondleson - Tue, 20 Oct 2020 09:56:29 EST 8gfmR+QD No.536558 Reply
Probably because it's a mythological troll thread and none of these people exist

Making a second kid

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- Tue, 06 Oct 2020 17:59:02 EST YCQ6enui No.536332
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Hey guys,

So I will just cut to the chase. I am 28 years old, my daughter just turned 3 years old today. I have a stable job, income and a decent place to live. I have been an only child all of my life, and I always told myself that when I get the chance to have kids, I am going to have two of them. Not for the fact that being an only child is bad or anything, but for the fact, that I know that there were times in my life, where I wish I had a sibling to lean on.

I talked to my spouse about it, and she doesn't want another child because we live a pretty comfortable life right now with just the 3 of us and our 4 month old puppy. But there is something inside of me saying "you should make another kid" but at the same time, another voice is saying "don't do it, because it just might make things worse."

What do you guys think? Is there anyone here that has been going through something similar? Maybe having similar thought?

Pic for attention


I am also an avid gamer, and if I had another kid, that would just cripple my chances of playing more games when my 3 yo is asleep lol.
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Henry Pickhall - Thu, 08 Oct 2020 07:07:21 EST +rYLvVZR No.536374 Reply
>mass extinction
You've all been infected, please leave and don't come back.
Clara Crivingtid - Tue, 20 Oct 2020 09:27:43 EST +mE1P6Ow No.536552 Reply
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what an asshole.
First of all:
SHE will be the one who squeezes out a thing of the size of a football through her private-parts. You won't have to endure this pain and risk potential nerve-damage with the risk to never orgasm again (because the clit can tear during childbirth!).

Also her Perineum can tear (happens more often than people want to admit) or you could risk to bring a disabled kid into this literally burning and Pandemic-ridden world.
Do you really want to doom your kid into a world of a new financial crisis and poverty, just because
>feel to have another kid

you can't be this stupid, right?
A "gamer" wants to impregnant his wife again, will have less time for gaming, less me-time, less money and less sleep...
tell me again how you don't see a problem in this.


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- Sat, 10 Oct 2020 10:07:50 EST xVGBRaOo No.536385
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I love my wife so much, but I've been flirting with a younger coworker at my new job and it's driving us apart. I think I get off on the attention mostly. Or I'm horny. Or I secretly hate her and want to lead her on? I'm not dying to get to know this person any better (but hey, I'm kind of shitty that way!). I haven't had a great deal of love experience, so I don't really handle the attention very maturely, which I imagine is why I get on well with somebody whose brain is undeveloped.

My wife noticed me acting differently though, and found work texts with emojiis:she immediately knew what was up. She's really hurt. We've been through so much insanity together and I don't want to lose my best & only friend ;_;
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Henry Sillylock - Fri, 16 Oct 2020 02:37:38 EST X0Mv9BLc No.536513 Reply
see a marriage counselor, dont cheat again, apologize for your wife not yourself to feel better, and make sure you demean yourself during the sex at some level. Maybe eat her asshole or let her peg you
mfsinz - Fri, 16 Oct 2020 11:14:28 EST HR4ZRqnI No.536514 Reply
Hey, I can say I went or am still going through a similar experience, but the other person is a friend whom I love and respect truly. Really struggling to be mature about this and take cold headed decisions so everyone can be happy and satisfied. The thing is I think about this person all the time, in hopes that they are safe and happy.

I used to get off of the attention too and tried to keep a clear mind about the situation, but it's hard when you are in love and most probably horny for that person. Imagine my surprise when this person told me they feel the same but don't want to make my life more difficult since I am in a relationship with his best friend.

We decided to be "family" and not just friends or siblings or something simple. It's not and we shouldn't try to find a simple definition for what we are now.

I believe it's a normal social process when you have no bad memories with the other person, so everything seems like a great fantasy that could become something real. It could, but it will never resemble that fantasy image from your mind.

My conclusion? Appreciate the people you already have and have an open discussion about this, with everyone. Nobody can judge you for expressing what you are thinking about, especially if they care about you.
Hedda Foggleworth - Mon, 19 Oct 2020 01:24:24 EST /a0EWK+P No.536539 Reply
And you asked us instead of talking to her because this story is super true right?
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Life and Death

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- Tue, 13 Oct 2020 10:18:25 EST 7zLN1saE No.536450
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I am 26 years old and diagnosed with depression and social anxiety. Sometimes I think I am a little bit schizoid. Social contact is just strange, sometimes even to a point at which it becomes unbearable and I interpret shit into the looks people give me or the things people say to me. Every time I meet new people it feels so wrong. I dont really connect with 90% of the people I have met. But I stay isolated most of the time anyway. I have special hobbies which help me to get through the days but in the last weeks my thoughts often orbit suicide again. Most of the time these thoughts come without any obvious trigger and after I tell myself repeatedly TO JUST FUCKING DO IT YOU PUSSY PIECE OF SHIT DO IT DO IT DO IT - NOW IS THE PERFECT TIME TO DO IT I at some point slowly shift back into the other reality in which the urge to do it decreases. In retrospect these thoughts and the urge to just end my life seem surreal until the shit starts over again.
It isnt the first time I have suicidal thoughts and the urge to end it all. But the older I get the more attractive it becomes. I dont understand why my head is so messed up but I hate it and I want it to stop. I dont fit into this world. I dont fit into this society. I just want to run away. Run forever. Run until the loneliness stops. Run until I cant go any further. But I know that the problem is in my head not in the place I am. I am talking to a therapist and take medication and even though especially the therapist helps me somewhat it doesnt help enough.
I just want to go to sleep and never wake up again
I dont fit into this world. I feel like that shit will never change
Anyone gone through the same and actually got better? Because it feels like its never going to be for me.
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mfsinz - Fri, 16 Oct 2020 11:56:43 EST HR4ZRqnI No.536516 Reply
I recommend finding a passion. Not necessarily a hobby. It may be something you left off in the past, or something totally new.

(I will never stop thinking about how I quit learning to tattoo just because I felt upset for a long time or simply not good enough to boast) - that's stupid and a waste and I regret it, but life doesn't stop.

If you don't find anything worthwhile to you, then do something for other people.

If you find that you really want to help someone else, maybe a friend in need, you will totally forget your struggle for a while and completely focus on helping that person. The more you try, the better you become at it and eventually you will find satisfaction in your skills.

I was in the same situation until I found a friend that seemed more lost than I was about life, and I tried to help him start a business, started learning how to make a website, etc. It has now evolved into a career and gives me a lot of confidence to know that there is something I can do better than most people, and that it also helps them.

The only way is forward.
Cornelius Fuckingforth - Sun, 18 Oct 2020 09:45:59 EST JjR4oUJp No.536527 Reply
I used to be like this. Every single day of my life for about four years I couldn't go more than a couple of hours without wanting to die. Whenever it would get really bad, I'd just go for a walk outside and realized that there's no point in killing myself. If I have the courage to kill myself, then I also have the courage to live an exciting life and face death when it comes to me. Rushing things is pointless when it's already inevitable. So I just focused on suffering through each day and doing my best to make it bearable.

Guess what, my life eventually turned around, I had some of the best experiences of my life, and I made my strongest, most fulfilling friendships that I wouldn't give up for anything. My life is turning back toward a darker road, but I'm not scared of it. I'll take whatever comes to me and I'll struggle through it until the end.

Like >>536451 said, I had to accept that I was a weirdo and wouldn't ever fit in with "normal" people, but that just makes life more interesting. You'd be surprised by how many other misfits there are who will prove to be some of the coolest people you've ever known.

I'd also recommend going to church. It helps in more ways than you think, as long as it's a good community.
Hedda Foggleworth - Mon, 19 Oct 2020 01:16:04 EST /a0EWK+P No.536537 Reply
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OP I always knew I didn't have the balls to outright off myself but I drank myself into medical issues because I was suicidal for a long time. This is hard to believe and you've heard it before, but it gets better. Time heals all wounds, all that shit old people say that feels like an empty jab pushing you further away from them... but it gets better. One day my life just fucking got better. One day I realized I actually have a lot to live for, one day it just fucking got better. It really, really does just get better. Just don't do it, whatever you are going through just test this, test if I'm right, just don't do it. If you die at the end through some natural cause you can point to me as the bane of your existence from this point on but please just see if it will get better.
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I hate me and my girlfriends sex life

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- Sun, 18 Oct 2020 17:22:19 EST RokQ5ZVE No.536529
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For the past almost 11 years I've been together with my gf. I love everything about being together with her, except our sex life. I've always for some reason assumed that things would get better over time as we both matured, but that was a stupid idea to have. It hasn't gotten better, in fact its gotten worse. We just had sex after a week of nothing happening and it was the same old dead and passionless sex we always have.

Over the years I've so hard to get her more interested in me. I've tried everything I could to make it better for her. It's just no use. It actually makes me feel so worthless, I'd almost wish she would cheat on me because then I might actually get to see her be excited again.

I don't know where I'm going with this post, I just feel like garbage and I don't feel like I can tell anyone in my personal life about this. I just wanted to vent. I wish I had someone that's into me as much as vice versa. Thanks for listening.
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Hedda Foggleworth - Mon, 19 Oct 2020 01:05:01 EST /a0EWK+P No.536535 Reply
Opening a relationship is a terrible idea and anyone that has ever done it will tell you so if they are honest a day in their entire life

Whatever you do OP, don't get gay
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Eugene Billerhut - Mon, 19 Oct 2020 02:24:08 EST I0IKXzPw No.536541 Reply
Ahh shit man that sucks if she isnt willing to change. Well yeah you can only control your own actions really. If you feel that you are putting your best in to get her romanced up and horny and shes not responding, you've talked about it extensively and she knows that you are unhappy, then you gotta start thinking about alternatives.

Maybe break up or talk about opening up the relationship. Open relationships are super hard to navigate but you're already fucked anyway so yeah maybe it will ignite the passion in her if you bring it up. I dunno man. Why are you willing to continue feeling worthless and hoping that she cheats?
Charlotte Cibbledock - Wed, 21 Oct 2020 04:40:02 EST 2xGeiN5Q No.536569 Reply
this could actually be a hormonal issue. see if she'd be willing to go to an institute and get checked out. some women just have a drop in their later years (even pre-menopaus) and some hormone replacement will make them horny as a teenager (same for dudes)

What drug can give me some breathing room?

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- Thu, 15 Oct 2020 04:09:34 EST W60/ZGpt No.536496
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Due to various things that have happened in my life in the past few years I'm in such a pit of despair I cant bear to go on another day, but I recognize that if there's any chance of saving myself I need to stay productive in my work, however its currently impossible with the way I feel as its a heavily creative and self motivated job, what drug can just give me a temporary platform to just get through a few years or even just a year while being creative and blocking out pain. Hopefully after that I can at least look at things with fresh eyes but without having languished wasting time to get there. I just don't have any spare time to lose to depression right now. Any advice appreciated.
Samuel Brenningstat - Thu, 15 Oct 2020 05:47:32 EST uBG5VBmD No.536498 Reply

Small therapeutic doses of LSD or Psilocybin mushrooms if you want to function at work and feel better about life or a MASSIVE dose of either when you have some time to yourself so you can confront your pain and hopefully work it out. You might need an understanding and good listener budddy for the latter one though.

Best of luck homeslice
Isabella Blytheham - Fri, 16 Oct 2020 01:22:18 EST y4Tp4Z88 No.536510 Reply
There are no bandaids for depression brother. You need to improve your lifestyle in a whole spectrum of ways.

Sure take some acid or smoke some DMT but you still have to help yourself out by not just whiteknuckling it.

Breaking out of the self made shell

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- Tue, 13 Oct 2020 14:37:48 EST Cxr2cXRe No.536459
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Ive been in steady relationships for about 8 years but around 2018 I went through a break up and I just have not been able to get into another one since. Which is a good thing in a lot of ways but I am starting to feel like I want to be with someone again. I've hooked up with some girls over the years yeah but I mean a meaningful relationship with someone. I thought I had this and went on a few dates with this girl but this weekend she messaged me she started seeing someone else. It's fine. She can do that. I just feel really defeated because it's hard for me to pull up the energy to be with someone now and I really wanted to be with this girl.

It's hard to let myself be vulnerable for others now.
Cyril Coddleford - Wed, 14 Oct 2020 19:20:30 EST StwWjX3r No.536493 Reply
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Bumping cause you sound like me. Also not sure how to proceed, and covid sure hasn't helped
Isabella Blytheham - Fri, 16 Oct 2020 01:18:18 EST y4Tp4Z88 No.536509 Reply
If you want to have a relationship with a person you have to account for them being a person. Them not wanting to be with you for example, you need to consider that possibility and respect that. It would suck that she started to see someone else, but hey shes a person. If you wanted to see someone else and told her that would be completely okay for you to do. You wouldn't stay in a relationship out of not wanting to hurt her.

So yeah that's not really about you dude. You did your best and she didnt want to be exclusive or whatever but yeah that's fine. Keep going. You have the ability to move past this.

Anxiety disorder/adhd/add/schizoid/something

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- Wed, 14 Oct 2020 07:33:22 EST s9zS9NFl No.536479
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Hey anons,
I'm pretty much afraid of my own shadow. I'm super jumpy, have anxiety overload and am always super paranoid. Like I'm always thinking about what everybody else is doing, I can't just focus on myself. But when I'm drunk or even buzzed I disconnect and focus mainly on myself. The thoughts all just quiet. And when that happens, I'm ten times more efficient and graceful as a human being. How can I be that way all the time? I've tried ssris that don't work for my anxiety, benzos don't help me disconnect. Can anybody give me any info about this? I'm very frustrated after over a decade and a half with suffering with this. If I can't medicate, can I "damage" my brain into proper functioning, like how cocaine damages the amygdala?
Rebecca Mindlehen - Wed, 14 Oct 2020 12:29:11 EST i8RJJFcf No.536484 Reply
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You might benefit from psilocybin, particularly microdosing. It can temporarily reduce negative emotion (such as paranoia) and help rewire your brain and outlook in a positive manner. It's one of the few things that has genuinely helped long-term besides just trying to numb myself with some other type of drug.
Albert Lightfuck - Wed, 14 Oct 2020 14:22:39 EST bRhto3AF No.536486 Reply
Mindfulness and feeling secure in your own skin helps.

got pushed off of grindr cause i decided to transition, what do i do for dick now?

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- Fri, 09 Oct 2020 20:42:42 EST NQixksnZ No.536382
File: 1602290562468.png -(1022647B / 998.68KB, 804x746) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. got pushed off of grindr cause i decided to transition, what do i do for dick now?
i know in some areas we can still use it, but not so much in mine, it's all just actually gay dudes looking for other dudes, plus i mean i don't really want to, it doesn't feel right and i kind of just want to stay in my lane

it's been about a year since I started HRT and now i'm just starting to straggle that line where i'm still clearly biologically male/AMAB whatever you want to call it but i also distinctly don't look like a guy in terms of shape, having trans face, wearing a B-cup, that sort of thing and don't act like one in terms of mannerisms or sound like one etc.

but beyond that, I think I look fine, i'm not hideously unattractive at least, the bone structure in my face was already not particularly masculine and I think looks better now that it's shifted around a bit and i'm no where near the stereotypical 6'3" broad shouldered deep voiced adams apple sporter (not that this should matter in an ideal world), i know for a fact there is no shortage of men who are into trans women specifically, but where are they? how do I find fans of the genre? this virus shit still has me fucked up, i haven't done shit since February, which actually gave me a great chance to sort myself out and just focus on experiencing life for the first time the way I should, but I'm getting lonely and bored, how do i dive back into venues where i could meet people now that all my connections are gone? i do get flirted with now and then, but guys flirted with me even as a dude once they could tell i was into it, and now a lot of it feels like they're just being nice anyway

is there like an app specifically for chasers to hookup with trans women that's trendy like grindr or tinder are? or is my best bet really to go with one of those "CRAIGSLIST FOR SEX HOT SHEMALES DOWN TO FUCK IN YOUR AREA" sites i see advertised on xnxx? those can't be legit lmao

it's really annoying that some people will talk shit about how bad chasers are and pretend we live in a world where most straight guys would have no problem being with a pre-op trans woman which simply isn't the case yet, at least where i live, it's like objectify me i don't give a shit, i'm probably never gonna see you again what do i care if it's a fetish or this is you walking on the wild side just to try it, i really just want some kind of connection with someone

at this point i feel like i should just wait a little bit until i start looking a little more cis to put myself out there, and i definitely don't think i'll need FFS to pass to most people, but even so i'm not gonna have SRS for a year or two now at least and i don't really want to wait that long, supposing I got with someone who thought I was cis, what's an appropriate time let it drop that i have a penis? i mean i'm not a huge fan of having the shit beat out of me, so sometime before we actually go to fuck i would imagine. Does it look trashy just to mention it right off the bat? like having a tinder bio that says something like "Fun, easy-going, down for almost anything. Only caveat is that I have a dick." Like I said, I don't really give a fuck if the guy I'm with sees it as edgy/alternative or "living dangerously" or whatever, I would just really like for there to be a guy I'm with period.

thank you for following this horny stream of consciousness
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Beatrice Sunnerdat - Tue, 13 Oct 2020 18:52:55 EST mttQWkrO No.536469 Reply
and no Tinder is not the place at all but I don't exactly know what other avenues I have
Alice Sarryworth - Tue, 13 Oct 2020 20:13:30 EST 80a+lf6a No.536472 Reply
it was a casual word to infer seeing something uglier than you wish it were/ what youre viewing not lining up with a want, aspiration or wish. No offense was meant, but at the same time, i dont really care if any was taken. I think dysmorphia is pretty standard with viewing certain parts of yourself as abnormalities or far from perfect. It's acute in transitioners as largely youre trying to make your body conform to some sort of held ideal of the gender traits you wish to have.

i double checked the word to see if i was using it erroneously. As far as i can tell it fits with my use and you seem to be deriving some very niche, perhaps esoteric other meaning for it.
Caroline Hirryshaw - Wed, 14 Oct 2020 02:27:06 EST mttQWkrO No.536475 Reply
i was just wrong entirely tbh, there is no niche definition i just completely pulled that out of thin air based on what i assumed it meant

i have to stop posting in this state of mind lol

My appearance and weight are blocking me from meeting new people

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- Sun, 11 Oct 2020 04:55:51 EST vOnc/+iL No.536429
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Theres people that i run into online that seem like cool people that i would like to talk with. Unfortunately, me being fatty I dont bother contacting them because i am too conscious of my body. I know being fat is very unhealthy and I am working on that
I lost 20 pounds during quarantine. The thing is if I solely focus on my weight i am afraid I will not run into these people anymore.
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Charlotte Drissledock - Mon, 12 Oct 2020 09:07:47 EST UapYWX45 No.536441 Reply
>The thing is if I solely focus on my weight i am afraid I will not run into these people anymore.
Focusing on your weight in an extreme way amounts to an hour a day of physical activity. You have plenty of time to meet people with all your free time you're spending not eating. You can look like a troll doll if you're lean and muscular.
Jack Trotshaw - Mon, 12 Oct 2020 12:53:27 EST 1SSFeKJF No.536444 Reply
Yeah the key to weight loss isn't running a bit more. As you're nearly morbidly obese you will not be able to exercise lots of weight off. However you can easily get enough nutrition, have a little room to enjoy food and lose weight at a consistent 2 pounds a week. As your weight falls you up the exercise. For now, try lifting if you can, bodyweight/calisthetics if not and start walking. When you lose a bit more weight look at couch to 5K. If you have money whatever a gym or other regular exercise helps. Just make sure you walk a couple of miles every day and do other exericse on top of that. It won't take your entire life. Otherwise just eat your basal metabolic rate at your target weight and make sure there's enough protein, veg etc in there. Cut out processed carbs and fill up on vegetables and so on. Don't cut too much below 1500 calories because you'll struggle to get what you need.

I made friends at a similar build to you and they watched me shrink. People who reject you just because you're fat are trash. Just make sure you're not otherwise obnoxious or unpleasant. People who feign concern and tell you to lose weight unsolicited are just bullies looking for a socially acceptable outlet to buttress their weak self esteem by punching "down".

So anyway it takes an hour or so to take care of your weight plus even if you weren't losing weight, a little exercise every day is normal. If you spend ages doing nothing you might find you're often sore. If you want to accelerate the process you might find eventually you can manage more exercise without being sore/devastated the next day so then you might want to choose to spend more time chasing weight loss but by then you'll already be a very different man.

Start talking to these people already.
Doris Turveyshit - Tue, 13 Oct 2020 14:29:33 EST StwWjX3r No.536457 Reply
I'm the opposite, not trying to brag or sound arrogant at all but i'm pretty conventionally attractive, problem is i'm extremely mentally ill, so people are really friendly and engaging at first, then slowly get scared/annoyed with me and ghost

plz halp

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- Mon, 05 Oct 2020 23:34:56 EST BS0ST3Z+ No.536328
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hey, it's been years since i've visited any of the chans at all actually. i used to lurk /dis/ primarily way back when but I am here to ask help on a pretty sensitive subject..

does anyone know of a support group-type-thing for people whose loved one were raped?
my significant other has been so strong...they're so fucking strong about it, but it's been tearing me to hell the more I learn. and that's just it, I don't want to know details because that only fucks up my brain further. i fucking love this person so much, and idk it's maybe selfish of me to think like this, but it's like something was taken away from me as well. i am comforting, I say the right things, but they're handling so much better than I am.. so if anyone out there has some advice or links to a legit group specifically for the lovers of victims, I would appreciate so fucking much..
I've looked before, but most things focus on significant others of child abuse victims which is kinda different.
anyway....yea....that's....um....why I'm here. thanks
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George Lightson - Mon, 12 Oct 2020 20:18:19 EST BS0ST3Z+ No.536447 Reply
Thank you. She's on a waiting list right now for a therapist who specializes in cases like hers. I'm kinda worried that that individual wont give her the true help she needs cuz she'll likely just be another case number to the therapist. I suggested she try finding a therapist that can take a special interest in her, cuz even if they don't specialize in rape cases, then more sentiment to the advice given will be more appreciated, which I feel will help her a lot.
But I do feel that dread...i mean, sexually, she's the best. she wants everything I want and we're safe about it. she tells me how much of it is stuff she's never done before, which makes me happy, but then my stupid brain goes to think like, "how could she have not that before if she was in an abusive relationship?" and it makes me feel like she's lying, but then I think I'm just being dumb, but she's told me before that some things hasn't willingly done before and that shit fucking kills me. like, I feel so fucking special when she gives herself to me, but I can't stop getting jealous of thinking she at one point did the same to others who then took full advantage of it. and that shit I know is selfish as fuck, but it what I'm struggling with. I'm sure most of it is in my head. i finally witnessed her cry tears of happiness tho, just from us talking how we're made for each other and how much we care for each other. it meant the world.

mine isn't..addicted to drugs. we do drugs together, I'm more of the addict, but I've found that being their safe space is the most important thing. and communication is the best. I've said how I cant handle the details of mine's certain past moments of hardship, but we're completely open and honest about everything else and we find comfort in each other with how much we love each other.
George Lightson - Mon, 12 Oct 2020 20:22:05 EST BS0ST3Z+ No.536448 Reply
thank you for the song too, it was nice.
and I know what you mean, but it's the possibility of learning that some of my worst thoughts could be true. she was homeless for a while, and she's told me of all the good times, some of the bad, but there's definitely some things I'm scared af to learn

mixed signals?

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- Sun, 27 Sep 2020 23:05:25 EST vkQuY2Qs No.536287
File: 1601262325262.jpg -(58008B / 56.65KB, 385x354) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. mixed signals?
a little background, though im not sure how relevant is to this. not a religious person. never have been, neither has most of my immediate family. but baptized catholic, in a catholic country, and eventually gained sympathy for christianism. im far from a model christian, and i hardly practice it. but i took an interest to it

so, i meet this sweet christian girl in okcupid. we click a lot and have a lot of chemistry, talk for a long time while asking for her social media periodically until she gives in and we follow each other in instagram
after a couple of flirty lines through a somewhat long period of time and spending time online (severe lockdown because of covid here), she tells me that shes evangelical and does not "date" people, much less from outside her denom while also saying shes chaste (which i assumed, so ive never been inappropiate or touched the issue in our convos, a reason for finding that clarification strange)
so, right-o. i would have been very happy to have her as my girlfriend, but i like her enough to still be friends, and she thinks so too

today, a petty thing made me doubt again. a kissing emoji with a heart. yeah, i know, high school shit. im just starting to try my game at this sort of stuff
but we met on a dating site. we talk for months. id like to think there is some sort of chemistry. she brings up the chaste stuff when it never came up in our talks. and now this. wishful thinking? am i overreacting?

i dont have doubts about how to procceed, i can take a no for an answer, but i really would like to know whats on her mind
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Fuck Blackwill - Sat, 10 Oct 2020 21:53:36 EST tohDtRaK No.536401 Reply
Eh, whatever. Just whatever you do don't bang 50 hookers and then hookup with randoms from bars because her family sets you up in an elaborate mafia scheme for "accidentally" taking on the people who killed your parents.

I come from a murder

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- Sat, 10 Oct 2020 22:28:26 EST tohDtRaK No.536403
File: 1602383306174.png -(121770B / 118.92KB, 500x564) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I come from a murder
And all kinds of bad crap is happening to me because I'm fighting the gang that did it.

Hope your life is better, /qq/

Anyway, if someone is a complete jerk to you because you cheated on them mildly (and it was because you were aware they were also cheating at the time but not admitting it), but still claims to want you back, what do you do?

The only condition I would have would be to allow some kind of permanent arrangement in the other direction, but there's no way they would do it. Essentially there's an easy way for us to both get out of it but she won't.
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Fuck Blackwill - Sat, 10 Oct 2020 22:46:57 EST tohDtRaK No.536423 Reply
Just get on IRC and work it out.
Emma Blatherfield - Sat, 10 Oct 2020 22:47:35 EST 9E04/QtX No.536424 Reply
OP is psychotic
go to sleep
Fuck Blackwill - Sat, 10 Oct 2020 22:52:15 EST tohDtRaK No.536425 Reply
Actually very credible reasons to think so evidenced by other posts, but yes, the bitch is still around and very bitter

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