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420chan is Getting Overhauled - Changelog/Bug Report/Request Thread (Updated March 22)
replying to a pof message by Clara Hivingfield - Thu, 13 Sep 2018 15:16:21 EST ID:PgFwiB7p No.526664 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Hi, I know this is going to seem pathetic but I'll just be straight up about how socially unintelligent I am - I've got a pof account, and I've done decently with it having chats and going on dates, but always been the one to initiate the conversation. A girl has messaged me first and I'm stuck as for what to reply - I know it sounds really stupid but she just put 'hey there :)' & I don't know what to say back, I don't want to be like 'hey hows it going' because it's pof so she probably won't read it til quite a bit later when a question like that's irrelevant, I don't want to ask 'where you from' because it says her town and I feel like asking for a more specific location seems stalker-ish and I don't want to go into too much detail on any other topic yet for fear of coming off too eager. Again sorry for this extreme spaghetti but it's just blindsided me I'm probably being retarded in fact I definitely am but I just don't know what to say
Doris Gongerfetch - Thu, 13 Sep 2018 19:53:09 EST ID:Je6TlL8J No.526669 Ignore Report Quick Reply
I guess it's more important to respond than what you say
Sophie Crecklechitch - Wed, 03 Oct 2018 10:23:24 EST ID:Ll7Y6qHQ No.526938 Ignore Report Quick Reply
"Hey. How are you today?"
Not hard.

there's no pet forum by Oliver Fucklewudge - Tue, 02 Oct 2018 13:48:05 EST ID:TLnDsEvq No.526917 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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She really wants to go outside, she loves being outside, but I'm afraid to leave her out in case she gets squished on the road. But she's so happy outside. And I know love is about allowing your loved ones their own path to "spiritual" growth, even if it's risky. But she doesn't understand the risks and I can't explain them to her. Advice from people who have owned kitties near busy roads?

pic unrelated
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Betsy Clottingfudging - Wed, 03 Oct 2018 15:59:54 EST ID:TLnDsEvq No.526941 Ignore Report Quick Reply

She's an old rescue who can't really jump, she probably will leave birds alone. No one replied to this thread so I'm going to tweek it a little and try again
Betsy Clottingfudging - Wed, 03 Oct 2018 16:04:21 EST ID:TLnDsEvq No.526943 Ignore Report Quick Reply
the thing is she really WANTS to be outside, she says "miaow miaow miaow miaow" next to the door, and looks out wistfully
Emma Tillingdale - Sat, 06 Oct 2018 15:13:24 EST ID:3A/9rSkO No.527015 Ignore Report Quick Reply
If she can't jump she can't dodge the car in time either.
You aren't giving your cat enough to do inside. Outdoor cats require less work because the outside is one big stimulation by itself. Indoor cats need toys and things to climb on and owner attention.

This is why people shouldn't own pets unless they want to make a commitment.

Polyamory by Charles Picklehood - Mon, 01 Oct 2018 22:09:43 EST ID:+Dxwg5ZQ No.526904 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I am a guy and I want to be Polyamorous and embark on a sexual journey with as many women as possible. I'm currently at 71+ and want to break 200 partners without paying for any of them before I die.

Once I receive all that sexual energy I can die with a complete spirit.

I read the ethical slut, what other polyamory resources are out there? How do men pull off being openly Polyamorous?
Shitting Cugglefield - Tue, 02 Oct 2018 03:18:54 EST ID:rJD0cZh/ No.526906 Ignore Report Quick Reply

look on facebook for groups are your location. Seriously

Baby trap? by Sophie Bublingworth - Thu, 09 Aug 2018 11:43:34 EST ID:2ZLMnT1L No.526026 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Is it safe to say that a girl who wants me to fuck her without a condom is trying to baby trap me? I don't get that vibe from her but you never know.

She doesn't take bc pills cause of the side effects (understandable) and I use condoms but she's "really likes the feeling" and wants me to stick it in at least for a bit. Ive done a good job resisting so far but I'm thinking of breaking it off because no woman who actually doesn't want a child is OK with that shit.
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Charlotte Boffingtidge - Mon, 01 Oct 2018 00:04:07 EST ID:bw79xszS No.526882 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Exactly. I've told my bf that I'd get an abortion if it ever came to it, buuuttttt condoms and birth control exist. Use them first and you won't have to get an abortion.
William Fanman - Mon, 01 Oct 2018 03:15:26 EST ID:jnas4L6T No.526883 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Oliver Fucklewudge - Tue, 02 Oct 2018 14:00:09 EST ID:TLnDsEvq No.526920 Ignore Report Quick Reply

there are 4 different types of birth control now, full pill (with high dose of estrogen and progestrone) other pill (with low dose of estrogen and progesterone. Old pop (progeserone only, has to be taken at same time every day to work) new pop (progesterone only, should be taken at same time every day to work, but you have a little wiggel room if you forget it) one of these is bond to be side effect free.. having said that, 2 of them made me violently sick, one made me not want sex, and I haven't tried the last one yet

Sexual harrasement as a man. by IseeTheEvilInYourEyes - Sun, 30 Sep 2018 18:09:50 EST ID:9Z3jaFAk No.526879 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Okay I just want to tell a story to people out here that really happened that still bothers me a lot. So the other week I went over to a friend's place that decide they wanted to go to bar for fun. I agreed so we went and found a nice lil bar near their apartments. The place was pack and we immediately sat at the end of the bar. While I am minding my own business drinking a beer these three ladies come walking to the bar and I didn't take to much notice of it. It was only after till one of the ladies started to order drinks and I notice how close she got to me. She kept getting closer and closer, I can smell the alcohol on her then she proceeds to rub her ass on my leg. I ignored this and just said to myself "well there's plenty of room that's not a big deal." Then she had the audacity to come face me and said to me in front of everyone her friends and my friends out loud. "I am so sorry, but I know you are not sorry." The most sexist thing I have ever heard to justify sexual harrasment... The craziest thing is after she said this she continued to keep touching me with her butt. It was quite uncomfortable, my friend kept pushing the bar stool closer to her, and she kept rubbing. I felt so vulnerable..The lady kept coming back to get more drinks and continue to touch me. The last I saw of her was when she lean towards the bar and had her ass to my face. Like she didn't have to do it but made it obviously clear it was mean t for me to see. Then i just ignored her for the rest of the night, and i saw her make out with another man not too long after!

So what's the deal with this shit? How come it's totally okay for a drunk woman to sexually harass man at a bar, But when a man does it .. all hell breaks loose.
Molly Hoshshit - Sun, 30 Sep 2018 19:00:29 EST ID:jnas4L6T No.526880 Ignore Report Quick Reply
because of all of human history.
Ebenezer Duckson - Sun, 30 Sep 2018 20:18:18 EST ID:Je6TlL8J No.526881 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Yeah pretty normal yo. To be honest if you didn't say anything you're kind of like a lot of women in that scenario and pretty much all hell doesn't break loose when that shit happens because if you were a girl you'd just move bars to avoid a violent outbreak.
Charlotte Hubbersod - Mon, 01 Oct 2018 04:34:24 EST ID:ua2KWPwu No.526884 Ignore Report Quick Reply
That's what the whole me too thing is about. The fact that nobody cared that women have been getting sexually harassed and assaulted left and right forever. So yeah. No one cares unless you speak up.

Missing out on the SJW life by Want to be an SJW - Wed, 26 Sep 2018 16:11:10 EST ID:G/lDv4Fz No.526805 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Not sure if this is the place, but I feel like I've 'missed' out on life by being a normal, straight edge dude.

I haven't done anything 'degenerate' in my life, I haven't done anything hedonistic, no crazy sex, no drugs, no exploring my Sexuality, etc.

Conservative people, parents included, always say "don't do that bad shit, get a good job, marry a good girl and lead a normal life. Sooner or later those bad people are going to be miserable"

Except now they won't be miserable. Sex-worker and "slut" stigma is going away. People are exploring other family and living set ups outside of the nuclear norm (polyamorous, never married, etc.)

no one Is getting punished for it because society is growing more tolerant and soon there won't be such thing as a "deviant"

I missed out! What if I'd be much happier as an SJW fucking who I want? What if I do want to be Polyamorous? What if I am gay or bi?. What if I would enjoy being Trans more?

Im missing out on the party I feel. What do?
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Lydia Monningstun - Sat, 29 Sep 2018 09:26:55 EST ID:p51D9vng No.526858 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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The way society is going is great because, outside of some batshit radical people who want to step on toes, you can be whatever you want to be. If you actually want to do something ""degenerate,"" fuck it, do it. But if you're comfortable as you are, it's equally as okay to not.
Jack Blavingforth - Sat, 29 Sep 2018 15:07:26 EST ID:jnas4L6T No.526865 Ignore Report Quick Reply

>What's for dinner today?
>Slices of meat, half a potato
>It's so depressing the cat can eat it
Oliver Murringkud - Sun, 30 Sep 2018 16:50:59 EST ID:vjUEQnkN No.526874 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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Somehow I think you've been tragically mislead into thinking the definition of a SJW is someone who isn't a square. Plenty SJW folk I know are just as pent up as you, preferring to rally against the man instead of getting tipsy.
You might be missing out. Think about if you are enjoying your life now. If yes, then I'd not bother doing anything else. If you are wanting certain shit, or not super content try some new stuff. Personally I love the butt stuff, and fucking like a demon. As a result I've ended up with a fair deal of different people, mostly women, but some gay, and trans folk. I have no desire to be polyamorous, or to be trans myself.

Maybe try going out to bars, and meeting more people? Seems like you've never met a single gay, trans, or polyamorous person in your entire life. The vast majority of them are non-judgemental, chill people who aren't SJWs. Definitely smoke some pot, and do some ecstasy.

lel by Nell Blatherson - Sun, 30 Sep 2018 05:16:43 EST ID:AoIzTdyJ No.526870 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I've been living in Korea for the last 9 months and my original plan was to stay at least two more years, however, due to familiar reasons, I'll have to go back to my country in 6 months from now.

The thing is I've been dating this amazing guy for 4 months now, and I think we're starting to develop a real connection and i definitely don't want to lose that. He's American, he'll stay here as long as he can.

He still doesn't know I have to leave earlier than expected, but since we're exclusive, I don't know if I should:
a) tell him now so it won't be as painful
b) wait to tell him some weeks before i leave, to see what kind of relationship we have then and decide from there.
Simon Fabblekutch - Sun, 30 Sep 2018 09:31:20 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.526871 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Just tell them, it won't be a big deal, travellers are used to transience and unpredictability. It might suit them to stay with you till you leave because they're having a good time. It might suit them to end things with you now because they're looking for something a bit more concrete.

I'd be pretty pissed off if someone dropped that on me with only a few weeks left to go after a 10 month stint with them. What are they supposed to do with that information? "Oh well I've fell in love with you now so I guess I'll just have to be okay with jerking off over skype for the next unforeseen while"

NOPE.avi by Jarvis Fuckingdock - Fri, 28 Sep 2018 01:17:48 EST ID:ZHxB44Gj No.526835 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>Take job I didn't want because needed $
>Entire time been looking for new job
>Don't want this job more every fucking day its fucking HORRIBLE
>Supervisor is talking about how hes about to go to a different position
>Strong indicators I'm the one management likes the most

So many reasons why I don't fucking want this shit holy fuck no. I hate to say no because then the current supervisor might not be able to leave, but at the same time HOLY. FUCK. NO.

It's not that its a particularly difficult supervisory position, I'm just extremely shy and have no business ordering anyone around. Also the whole I'm trying to get out of this fucking place anyway.
Fuck Fomblespear - Sun, 30 Sep 2018 01:56:20 EST ID:u9+wj/0e No.526867 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Take it as a learning opportunity. You have nothing to lose. You might as well see if you can get over some of your social anxiety.

sober life by Ebenezer Murddock - Thu, 16 Aug 2018 02:40:09 EST ID:28iFRbOa No.526145 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Sobriety fucking blows. Life is better and im a much less boring person when im high or buzzed. Ive been trying to keep busy by reading more, focusing on my career, exercising daily, and spending time on my car but things still feel 'dead'. Ive been indoors for the past couple of days and my mind is just racing and I cant get anything done without procrastinating.

How do the sober types here feel joy? Im dull and motionless. Maybe the drugs were masking something but i much rather that than how im living at the moment.
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Fucking Civingpotch - Mon, 24 Sep 2018 22:12:49 EST ID:BgYDrKs0 No.526791 Ignore Report Quick Reply
one cant just say that, or read it in a book. one has to experience why

op maybe you have intestinal parasites. go look up evan brand
maybe you eat like poo poo
maybe you should eat poo poo
maybe you should poo and then eat the poo
then poo out the poo that you just ate which was just pooed

i believe i make myself clear
Nell Cummerwork - Fri, 28 Sep 2018 16:58:40 EST ID:3TciTGkT No.526840 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Find a something you are truely passionate about and it will become your best drug.
Also this!
Awe' God !!Bwteoy2D - Sat, 29 Sep 2018 14:33:30 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.526863 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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It's not that sobriety blows, it's that sobriety reveals that your life blows. Masking it with more drugs will only make it blow even more, so you can turn the blind eye and hope for the best or keep your eyes peeled and try to notice what is really happening here.

>Relationships/social interactions/participation in economy/ecology/charity/humanharmony
>a creative outlet that gets you, well... creative... From painting to designing engines
>Contemplation of Death

Those things can spark up passion back to your life, but really you don't have to do much besides stopping the use of drugs and fasting for your mind to start involuntarily looking for ways to make your life more exciting now that the external substances aren't doing it anymore. You get more selective in life.

Everyone is dealing with this to some extent, bro, your a trooper, I believe in ya.

life is over no escape no happiness by Nicholas Blubberlod - Sun, 23 Sep 2018 22:28:50 EST ID:+eu7fILs No.526779 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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what do I do if I lost total control my life and I cant get it back?

I used to have a few friends even though I was unpopular. my brain worked faster my body was better I was in really good shape actually really fit. I used to talk to beautiful girls and not sluts either like classy good girls that actually had stuff going for them. I didn't have anxiety as bad I didn't have shitty luck all the time I could get stuff done I didn't have fuckups too bad that ruined my life or anything. my body had more stamina I could walk more and faster I didn't feel tired and shitty all the time

all of a sudden I lost it its fucked and it has been for years. im addicted to drugs really bad my life is a piece of shit. I have shitty luck I keep constantly getting shitty luck and I keep fucking myself over more and more im in the most trouble ive ever been in. im constantly tired like cant even get out of bed I never smile I never feel good. I used to be in good shape now im fat saggy man tits a tiny gut just not in good shape. my brain doesn't work good im always slow I cant think of stuff I think slower I cant drive as good. I have a masturbation obsession I feel like and mildly crazy I fap to weird stuff. whenever I drink caffeine or have a stimulant I feel tired as fuck and all confused im scared of everything paranoid anxious as fuck my health is going to shit I cant even stop feeling tired. I have 0 friends and the people I do hang out with now are shitty. I have literally nothing I lost my license no car no friends haven't talked to girls in forever. I only talk to girls online and its just shitty slutty girls or fat chicks. I have nothing going for me at all im trying to move and hoping a change of scenery will fix it but every time I try to leave I get stuck in my shitty small town even worse than before by trying to escape.

my body and mind feel like shit all the im constantly anxious like anxious as fuck I feel crazy as fuck sometimes everyone I hang out with is disabled or crazy. I cant get out of bed for anything I can barely take care of myself. I cant even look in the mirror and fix my hair now and I used to sit in front of the mirror every day before school take a shower do my hai…
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Isabella Sedgetet - Sat, 29 Sep 2018 02:34:04 EST ID:+eu7fILs No.526854 Ignore Report Quick Reply
i think it was depression i was always kinda normal and happy and then i realized how shitty the town i live in is and i deicded i was going to move to a big city but i just keep getting constant roadblock after roadblock stopping me and i feel like i dont have a point in life at all. there's like nothing to do here and there's no point in living and i think it caused me to just kinda give up and say fuck it. why try to look good if there's no people. why work if there's nothing to do. why go outside and do anything if its just the same shit over and over again every day and there's no hope and nothing good can happen. plus it feels like im just getting older here and missing out more and more on life with nothing to do to control it like im in a prison or something.
Walter Sungerdack - Sat, 29 Sep 2018 09:30:42 EST ID:ux+4Rp+2 No.526859 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Did god do it? Did god make you take that xanax on the way to the airport and get a dui? Dude just get on good terms with god. I'm telling you
Awe' God !!Bwteoy2D - Sat, 29 Sep 2018 14:04:38 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.526862 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>"good habits gather like friends who want to help"

Yo, is the Solomons ring lil nigga, check it

I hate everyone I have ever met by Barnaby Lightridge - Fri, 28 Sep 2018 23:08:15 EST ID:zi67ih0T No.526846 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Okay /qq/. I've heard about constructive relationships. I know that they exist. I have not been able to forge any, probably by my own fault. Most definitely by my own fault. What the fuck do I do? I can't live this way anymore, where I know that everyone either vehemently hates me for stupid reasons or justified reasons. I need to know how to make a single fucking friend who is a REAL fucking friend, because none of my prior relationships were ever genuine. Go ahead and slam me for being a whatever bitch, but I fucking NEED to know NOW how I can change things. Because I cannot live the rest of my life knowing that I have no one who gives a shit.
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Frederick Fuckingwill - Sat, 29 Sep 2018 04:15:13 EST ID:51QOGnbk No.526855 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Where are you looking for your relationships? What were your previous ones like?
Sidney Soblingfuck - Sat, 29 Sep 2018 09:26:51 EST ID:vYe3Po+d No.526857 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>imagine caring this much about the internet
Awe' God !!Bwteoy2D - Sat, 29 Sep 2018 14:37:27 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.526864 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>imagine caring this much about the physical world
Shiva is dancing and laughing right now

Fixing yourself with drugs by Samuel Gankinforth - Fri, 28 Sep 2018 14:33:40 EST ID:WhBabv2S No.526839 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I was having a lot of problems with essentially schizophrenia for a long time, and had periods of being off drugs and nothing changing drastically with hallucinations and being high all the time. One night I took XTC pill and I had relief from delusions which was very odd, then I got sent to a mental hospital a couple days later. I guess my question is are you able to increase dopamine levels in your brain and cure schizophrenia in some way?
Matilda Bibberstark - Sat, 29 Sep 2018 07:35:43 EST ID:USUZpST+ No.526856 Ignore Report Quick Reply

Does anyone else have reverse oneitis? by Betsy Bickleham - Mon, 24 Sep 2018 23:18:45 EST ID:JY4MVM0x No.526792 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Obviously a lot of people talk about having oneitis and it ruining their ability to connect with the opposite sex. But I feel like I have the opposite problem, where I want to fuck all these girls but I'm not really attracted to any of them as people.

What do you do? I'm not trying to be a pickup artist or something stupid, and I don't even have particularly negative feelings toward women, but can you have sex with women when you don't like being around them and don't want to be in a relationship?

What if your problem is that, instead of being afraid to talk to girls, you're afraid of having to listen to them talk at you for hours on end?

I feel like being able to like a girl should make it easier to have sex with one. All of my sexual encounters when I was younger were one-off hookups, but I am almost 30, and I'm past the point of being able to pull that off.
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Archie Blatherway - Thu, 27 Sep 2018 22:46:47 EST ID:N8SnPlnn No.526831 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Yeah, it is. Sometimes it's fucked. I give him five years tops until he will be begging to set up a situation that's that fucked to at least feel human.
Archie Blatherway - Thu, 27 Sep 2018 22:49:50 EST ID:N8SnPlnn No.526832 Ignore Report Quick Reply
DIsregard my last post I am drunk. THe bottom line is, OP will have to face this sooner or later, and with it, his fears of emotional intimacy. I agree with you, it's not ok to play with other people's feelings. I am not in a position to talk about this atm, too much baggage.
William Candlechan - Fri, 28 Sep 2018 16:59:55 EST ID:3A/9rSkO No.526842 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>not using pseudonyms

The other man by Sidney Bendledure - Thu, 27 Sep 2018 21:52:34 EST ID:G/lDv4Fz No.526829 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Am I doing something wrong?

My girl has a "best guy friend' who she's jokingly mentioned" we'd get married when we're 40 for the tax benefits if we don't have anyone else"

I've looked at the dudes she's dated before me, looked at myself, and looked at this dude, and it's clear as day. We're all muscular dudes.. And this guy actually looks like a fat neckbeard. Hard. He seems like a nice guy and all, but I swear if you looked at their hundreds of social media pics together you'd think they're dating more than we are. Faces touching, real close pics, "love this dude!!" captions etc.

Maybe I'm a little crazy me, but typically a dude friend almost ALWAYS wants to fuck the girl he's "friends" with. Especially if they're bffs.

As for our relationship, we fuck a lot, she introduces me to her friends as her boyfriend, I introduce her to mine as my girlfriend, might meet her parents soon, travel together etc.

Something seems off. Am I one of the "other guys" she fools around with before she settles down with the beta that was always there? Is she spinning plates and fucking us both? Am I overthink it this and men and women can truly be friends? Does she just get giddy off of male attention because she's probably mentally ill?

Is this classic alpha fux and beta bux?

I kinda want to break it off with her now, either because I'm being strung along or she's the type to string another guy along
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Priscilla Gesslebatch - Thu, 27 Sep 2018 22:59:07 EST ID:Je6TlL8J No.526833 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Pretty much this thread should be a conversation with her. We don't really know what's going on but you'd have a decent idea if you looked her in the eye and asked her these questions. Most likely its platonic on her side but maybe not.

Tips though. Focus on your feelings such as how pictures of her physically close to him make you feel insecure and that you are worried that you are just a phase for her. That way she cant turn it around on you. If you blame her, you'll be the bad guy but if you talk about how the things she does make you feel insecure, then you'll be expressing yourself.

If she reacts defensively and cuts you off call her out on it immediately and say that she isnt listening. Make sure that she plays by the rules and doesn't manipulate you.

But yeah if you cant feel secure after a few discussions like that then bounce, but its worth a big boy conversation. If you are thinking about the big leagues this needs to be a regular occurrence.
Priscilla Gesslebatch - Thu, 27 Sep 2018 23:01:28 EST ID:Je6TlL8J No.526834 Ignore Report Quick Reply
But yeah dont blame her for his feelings though make sure she doesn't ignore his feelings either. Straight up ask her if she thinks he has feelings for her. She may be naive.

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