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wow guys I didn't think i'd be in this position

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- Sat, 16 May 2020 22:10:37 EST S6WwTyS/ No.534632
File: 1589681437715.jpg -(94631B / 92.41KB, 640x640) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. wow guys I didn't think i'd be in this position
Post spreadasshole guy here, my gf broke up with me today because I got upset that she was giving a fuckboy attention, so I called him out and now I'm getting dragged for being insecure which sure maybe I was but I don't feel like I'm totally in the wrong
Augustus Gossleson - Mon, 18 May 2020 08:32:49 EST 5CmzjCid No.534648 Reply
Yeah if my daughter's boyfriend started bullying other guys because she talked to them, I'd have a talk with him.
Phineas Debblebanks - Mon, 18 May 2020 22:13:03 EST OZEY0BK7 No.534660 Reply
Yeah insecure is the right word. I mean she did break up with you over it so obviously you guys didn't have the best relationship so in the end you were right to be insecure but it was the wrong thing that you were insecure about. It's not him
Martha Grandcocke - Thu, 21 May 2020 08:57:59 EST mttQWkrO No.534670 Reply
>but I don't feel like I'm totally in the wrong

you're totally in the wrong

Judgment and Invalidation of Others' Experiences

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- Thu, 30 Apr 2020 20:21:07 EST FIEjOuV5 No.534441
File: 1588292467152.png -(25276B / 24.68KB, 652x215) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Judgment and Invalidation of Others' Experiences
I'm struggling very hard lately with my (internal) reactions to others' experiences.
I've been through some challenges, I don't think it's relevant as to what - but I've always survived, sometimes through sheer force of will. During those times, no one was able to relate to me and certainly no one was able to help me. So I internalized how important independence and self-reliance are.

Lately, and I don't know where this is coming from, since I'm in therapy and I'm learning a lot about opening up to others, expressing my needs and reaching out for help, I feel like I've grown to see others in 'lesser' (logically, I know full well every experience is subjective) circumstances crumble - and I judge them as weak.

My therapist tells me to have compassion for each individuals' experiences, and I get that. I do. I try and help as best I can (if it's appropriate) without letting my judgment get in the way. Compassion is a skill I'm still learning as it was never show to me.

I find it especially frustrating if someone else is offering some naive, pollyanna platitude to the person facing hardships. It's like no, that's... wildly unhelpful and redirects the locus of control from them, as a human being with their own agency, to some nebulous (and false) force such as luck, or god, or whatever.

TL;DR - I have the constant thought in my head that if I got through XYZ - and on my own - there is no reason (in my view) why this person cannot get through ABC.

I'd really like to hear if anyone's had similar thoughts and found the best way to move past them. I hate being this judgmental.

I mean, at least I'm aware of it, that's a start....right? Fuck.
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William Soddledock - Thu, 14 May 2020 10:37:58 EST ySK+6TA1 No.534578 Reply
being a pretentious jack ass by assuming I know OP's situation and struggles***

sorry niggas, been up for over two days and i'm all out of my addy script, spacey as fuck
Frederick Fingershit - Sat, 16 May 2020 09:05:40 EST L2FV8Wg5 No.534623 Reply
> I was being some kind of pretentious jack ass
David Debblewell - Thu, 21 May 2020 01:47:35 EST 0AOaBa3Z No.534669 Reply
Usually if I have thoughts directed at others I don't like I tell myself they have no consequence. I can think of them as much or as little as I want. I can be evil or good. It doesn't really matter in my head.

Then they eventually go away.

sick friend

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- Sun, 17 May 2020 21:07:09 EST VXmlp2L2 No.534643
File: 1589764029822.jpg -(17218B / 16.81KB, 571x535) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. sick friend
I just found out my friend with diverticulitis is suffering from hep B on top of hep C and is struggling with addiction to hard drugs. He was on suboxone working for a pizza place but got fired due to the pandemic. He was living at a trap house but ended up in a hotel for a while after he overdosed on H and had to be narcaned several times. Claimed his room mate had a psychotic episode and that's why him and his girl couldn't live there anymore. Now they have been couch surfing. How can I support him? I feel bad he's only 20 and already struggling with two types of hep. When my parents help me get a place with my disability money, I want to let him stay with me because idk how he's supposed to at least get the hep c treated without stable housing. Any ideas how to comfort/support him in the mean time? It's gonna be a while before I'm in a position to take him in. I really love him though. I don't think his relationship will last much longer either.
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Betsy Wallerdick - Mon, 18 May 2020 18:34:16 EST D3SeTK3p No.534656 Reply
Make sure he's ready to move on. You seem like a nice person but also very vulnerable. Your friend needs your help but just make sure you're looking after him, not giving him a window to resume the same self destruction. If he wants to change his life then you are what he needs. If he doesn't he'll drag you down.

I'm not saying don't take him in. Just be careful.
Phineas Debblebanks - Mon, 18 May 2020 21:51:06 EST OZEY0BK7 No.534659 Reply
Look guy you're going to have to keep some healthy distance at times. You want to help him but if you get drawn into his world you'll both be worse off. And with the old bipolar you might dive in head first.

Do you have drugs issues? Are you able to have stable healthy relationships? If no to both yeah maybe keep the helping to brief specific stuff. Like food or a coffee and chat or something. I wouldn't advise putting them up in your place.
Augustus Foddlestot - Tue, 19 May 2020 07:59:42 EST KEmQe8DO No.534665 Reply
>I told him how much it matters to me that he's still alive.
If you do that in someone's life, you may be the only one who does. You might not look at it like it's a big deal, but keep doing that, because it is.

Asking out my (freelance) tutor

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- Fri, 15 May 2020 03:31:57 EST +Tb+nQ+M No.534588
File: 1589527917128.png -(572951B / 559.52KB, 799x441) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Asking out my (freelance) tutor
I recently started taking language lessons with a tutor. (Not at a university, I found her via an expat chat where a few tutors advertise their services)

She's cute, my age, has a few interests in common with me, and has complimented that I'm cute and have a dynamic personality and am fun to teach. She also says I'm her most charming and funniest student. We've been working over Zoom but suggested getting together face-to-face (although that very well may be just her suggesting a better setting for our lessons).

If I she was a tutor at a university I was attending (I'm no longer in school, I'm just learning the language because I've moved overseas and I need to learn the native language), I'd definitely not go for her. But she's not tied to any workplace or campus.

Should I go for it (when the time is right)? Or would that be shitting where I eat/dipping my pen in the tutorship ink? Thoughts?

Pic possibly related
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Betsy Wallerdick - Mon, 18 May 2020 18:36:57 EST D3SeTK3p No.534657 Reply
The problem with IDs is that sometimes they change. Some people get a new IP every 15 nanoseconds, some last years. Some browse on two devices. You're right though. Maybe it's a troll and maybe it's OP. We don't know. IDs only postiively identify if it's the same person, they don't prove it's not.

Assuming it's OP my advice stands. If not then Lydia is on to something.
Sophie Grimdale - Tue, 19 May 2020 02:39:48 EST +Tb+nQ+M No.534661 Reply
OP here
I'm using a VPN cuz I'm behind the Great Firewall, that's probably why my ID changes.

But last night went quite well on our actual date-date, ended up getting back to my place in the wee hours of the morning, so I think I can wrap up the thread. Thanks for the advice though guys.

Shitting Backlelock - Tue, 19 May 2020 04:55:50 EST d4fOgvZr No.534664 Reply
Nobody's going to give you a gold medal for not hitting on people.


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- Mon, 18 May 2020 18:38:47 EST Kt5TMNI+ No.534658
File: 1589841527964.jpg -(5946B / 5.81KB, 230x219) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Rejection
>found a cute cockroach roaming around my room
>pick it up in my hand
>it's a female
>bring it close to my face so I can give it a kiss
>it bolts away to somewhere I can't even see it

Why does everything I show affection to reject me
Shitting Backlelock - Tue, 19 May 2020 04:49:12 EST d4fOgvZr No.534662 Reply
If you become an exterminator you will:

  1. Get some cash
  2. Solve your roach infestation and in turn
  3. Get affection from de grills


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- Sun, 17 May 2020 20:33:34 EST QTdU+QUh No.534642
File: 1589762014472.png -(5489951B / 5.24MB, 1125x2436) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Help
My brother was always kind of a pussy but something happened, he started texting me daily making wild accusations. Accusing me of being a white supremacist and a neo nazi over really trivial shit, he’s basically an antifa supporter far authoritarian left. He calls me a filthy breeder type because I say I want to have children, he also says that they should teach transgenderism to kids as young as 4. The thing is I could give a shit about his beliefs, but he texts me daily pressing me on my beliefs and than when I disagree with him he goes ape shit. He called me racist for saying I love black women today, than went on a rant about people who get married are basically slave owners. I’ve told him many times that I just want a simple life...have a few kids, get married and settle down. He takes huge issue with this. I deleted my signal app today because that’s how I talk to him and told him to stop texting me, he started texting me more on sms, saying that anyone whose associated with me is a loser. I blocked his number.

I go to my parents house, I fall asleep on the couch. It’s always some drama. I just came to visit because it’s Sunday. My father starts screaming for my sister to come down and show him how to use the tv at the top of his lungs. I ask him politely to be quiet because I am taking a nap. He starts yelling at me to go fuck myself. It’s shit like this all the time

I feel like absolute garbage and completely low. Growing up everything seemed so normal. But here I am, 28, and I don’t care to hear from my family anymore. They won’t let me go but I’m done with them. I’m going to change my number and cut them off, I’ll reach out to them at some point, but I don’t want to be in regular contact. I want to start my own family and my own life, I’m so lost
Augustus Gossleson - Mon, 18 May 2020 08:30:24 EST 5CmzjCid No.534647 Reply
It sounds like you don't have a great relationship with your family.

>I went to my parents' house for a Sunday visit and told them all to be quiet so I could sleep

So, what you need to work on is being less selfish, being less focused on what is making you individually uncomfortable and upset in life. It sounds like you might also be displaying some behavior that's indicative of a certain minority segment of right wing views. As you're experiencing, it's not the views that people have a problem with, it's the arrogant, selfish, boorish behavior that comes with them, behavior that you have demonstrated. This, combined with your total lack of ability to connect with other humans means that you just don't belong around people.
Phineas Debblebanks - Tue, 19 May 2020 19:10:41 EST OZEY0BK7 No.534666 Reply
Yeah your brother is clearly in the wrong but you're in the wrong with your dad. It's his home. He can be as loud as he wants. Help him out with his TV next time.

How to find an asian girl in America?

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- Sat, 16 May 2020 06:58:18 EST UZC9gHak No.534613
File: 1589626698192.png -(104257B / 101.81KB, 549x413) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. How to find an asian girl in America?
How do I find a good asian girl? Yes I know there’s tons of slutty girls in asia too.

Asia is the one place ive talked to decent girls where they aren’t sexually impulsive don’t post half naked selfies and slut out and stuff. Yes I know a lot of them there do it it’s not perfect but still it’s the only place ive met a handful.

The problem is the only asian country I would be interested in would be japan and I could never move there cause when I was younger I came from a really shitty area and got arrested for dumb shit like weed and pills.

Plus I have random moments where I see everyone else having fun and I just say fuck it I wanna just smoke weed make a ton of money and fuck sluts and maybe it a good one comes along sure but whatever.

Whenever I see my heroes and celebrities and shit living all my dreams having fun I just like fall under a spell and turn evil again.

I’ve met a handful of girls there that are the only non sexually impulsive girls I’ve met before and I like it better
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Henry Buzzwill - Sun, 17 May 2020 07:40:12 EST +eu7fILs No.534636 Reply
So? What if I am? You people are just as bad as fucking god
Polly Drattingshit - Sun, 17 May 2020 11:00:22 EST xbwHm37A No.534639 Reply
You fucking got me.

If you are him or you aren't him, you got me.
Albert Cindlekad - Wed, 20 May 2020 20:40:46 EST ehhnNOgT No.534668 Reply
look for the ones with squinty eyes, how do you not know this by now ffs.

What do

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- Sat, 16 May 2020 07:39:14 EST +eu7fILs No.534616
File: 1589629154026.jpg -(34000B / 33.20KB, 633x758) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. What do
The only way I can fall asleep at night is if im totally sleep deprived like eyes burning all day getting no sleep

Any time I feel well rested I still feel tired all day and then I just stay up all night and I hate the feeling

Plus sometimes I have these moments clarity at like 7 am where I actually feel relaxed and good and in a good mood and calm and I don’t wanna ruin it by sleeping. Every day when I wake up I feel totally miserable and dead inside and depressed and tired and in pain all day.
Frederick Fingershit - Sat, 16 May 2020 08:44:36 EST L2FV8Wg5 No.534619 Reply
Melatonin is optional, and go to bed with lights and devices off at the same time every night and wake up at the same time every morning and actually get out of bed immediately when you wake up. Do this for 30 consecutive days or don't complain about not being able to sleep.
Augustus Drunkinson - Sat, 16 May 2020 10:56:44 EST t6SQpQCg No.534627 Reply
How much physical activity do you get? Your body evolved to slay wooly mammoths and climb mountains.

If you've been sitting on your ass for a few years staring at a computer indoors, go out and exhaust yourself. I mean really be physical to total failure. You'll sleep pretty fuckin good after a few days of that and it will help with your other problems.

Doesn't have to be a gym or trail or anything. Fill a bucket with water and carry it around if you have nothing else. If you're not willing to make an effort to wear yourself out, then at least acknowledge your responsibility for your low state.

How Do I Accept I Am Unlovable

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- Sun, 10 May 2020 23:13:44 EST vvDr0STC No.534521
File: 1589166824313.jpg -(138283B / 135.04KB, 828x1792) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. How Do I Accept I Am Unlovable
I have too many psych problems, too many physical problems, and I’m not physically attractive enough for them to be over looked. I try to use rejection as a tool to grow and be better next time. But all it has taught me is that I am 100% unlovable and unlikable. How do I not kill myself? How can I be happy knowing I will, for a fact, die alone?

It’s nobodies fault but my own, I don’t blame anyone. I just have to accept that this is how evolution works. The weak don’t get to be included or valid. They simply don’t, no matter what selfish assholes will say just to look like a good person.

I just have to accept it. Murderers and violent criminals are more worthy of love and family than me, it’s been proven over and over again.
So why should I stick around? I’m literally less worthy than the people that society says are the bottom of the barrel. How do I not sling a bullet through the roof of my mouth knowing that? What’s even the point? I don’t enjoy things or have fun anymore. Everything including eating is just a chore. Good food doesn’t taste good anymore... Why should I care about being alive? How do I not kill myself tonight?
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George Serrylot - Fri, 15 May 2020 16:04:41 EST VVER+Pn7 No.534601 Reply
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Whenever I feel like this I try to remind myself that being "lovable" and "likable" are not necessarily good qualities. You allude to what I'm about to say when you say "Murderers and violent criminals are more worthy of love than me". What I was about to say is looks at Ted Bundy. Dude had women lining up to send him love letters and wedding fucking proposals. BUT THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU'RE LESS DESERVING OF LOVE. If anything, all it rreally means is that people are fucked up with how and who they choose to love. e.g. - THEY'RE the fucked up ones not you. I like to tell myself that in reality I'm evolutionarily superior to not everyone else but most everyone else. So much so that I'm unlikable because I experience reality in a far more colorful and exhilirating way than other people do. And that makes me feel good. Some may say that I just have an inflated ego but for right now I need and want that inflated ego to make me feel good. If I need to deflate my ego I can do so at a later time. Anyways, that's how I try to deal with the feelings you have talked about and that's what helps me.
Frederick Hazzledock - Fri, 15 May 2020 16:14:38 EST 49/hf0JB No.534602 Reply
Love yourself.

Boyfriends BFF is a sociopath.

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- Thu, 07 May 2020 22:18:14 EST DolwC/Df No.534492
File: 1588904294902.jpg -(27008B / 26.38KB, 599x569) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Boyfriends BFF is a sociopath.
I started dating a guy a few months ago and we are madly in love. We are like made for eachother in every way possible and we are very happy together. We have yet to move in together, but we have spent two months together non-stop everyday so we are sure about moving forward with this.

Currently we live 300 km away from eachother, and due to work and the logistics of merging our lifes, we have decided that it will be 6-12 months before we move in together more permanently and that's fine. He is the one and he feels likewise towards me.

Now the problem is his roomate who had also been his best friend for 10 years. She is a total sociopath, always surrounded by tons of drama, is an toxic alcoholic, etc. A friend of ours recently killed himself, I think partly because she fucked him over while fucking several of his friends at the same time (classic sociopath behaviour). She requiers attention and needs to be in the center of everything. 99 % of everything she says is more or less about her, which in itself is pretty impressive tbh. She is so caught up in her own bullshit that I honestly feel sorry for her, but I don't get why anyone would like to spend time with her (apart from her looks).

Anyway, I've always been nice and polite towards her, not because I like her but because she is his friend and I do not wish to be on bad terms with her. However, I can't really say that I want her anywhere near me. Or him for that matter, but I do not believe it is my place to dictate who he is friends with, just as I would not like him to dictate who my friends are.

Today she got drunk (which is often) and decided to invade our privacy and simply jump into his bed where we were halfnaked. It was fine I guess, we talked for a bit (she went on about her issues, more or less ignoring any insight I had to offer and mainly talking to him) and then she started crying and he told her she could sleep with us instead of her own bed. (I believe I should have atleast been consulted prior to presenting that offer to her, I do understand that he was just being a considerate friend tho.) And she said yes.

I have issues with sleeping with people I am not closed to. But I guess that slipped his mind, we had a long day and we were both tired and I decided to give it a shot anyway and not say anything. After all, his friend is important to him. I felt anxious tho and realised that I would not be able to sleep so I simply went up and left. After a 10 minutes walk I went over to a good friend of mine where I will be sleeping tonight.

I sent him a text and told him not to worry, mentioned where I was and told him to take care of his friend in a neutral tone. He replied and thanked me for being so understanding.

Now the thing is, I really dislike her and believe she is a shitty influence. I do however like the fact that he has his own free will, but idk how I feel about him inviting an attentionseeking and drunk sociopath to sleep with us. I am wrong to feel wierd about it?

I am not mad at him, since I do believe his intentions were pure. There is also the fact that she tried to have sex with him just when we started seeing eachother (an offer he politely declined). They had threesome sometime last year tho. She has also been upset about the fact that we have been loosely planning the future moving in together part, like the fact that he will be moving to my town (which is bigger and better even careerwise) because she is so afraid of losing him.

Truthfully, I want that bitch as far away from him as possible because she is legit crazy and it just feels like sooner or later that crazy might cause drama for me. Obviously I won't make him choose between his love and his best friend, but how the fuck should act in all this?

I am not the jealous type, nor I am insecure. I know my own value and won't tolerate shit once it starts pouring down on me, but it would suck if someones elses shitty life begins to affect my relationship and potentially fuck shig up for me.

Any advice is welcome.
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Molly Heffingketch - Wed, 13 May 2020 07:29:32 EST ngHTuAx8 No.534556 Reply
Yeah no offense but you're rushing in a bit early. You dont know how you'll think about him after the sparkle wears off.

You also seem to be putting all the blame on her where to be honest his behavior is much more shitty. Shes not in a relationship with anyone. He is. He crossed a line and invited a woman that was drunk and had sexual experience with him, into your bed. It's not a behavior that should be allowed in my experience. Sleeping together for several hours with no one around and pure physical lust. Its prime cheating opportunity. It kinda is cheating but maybe you've jumped the gun on what your relationship means to him right now. Dunno
Jack Summleville - Thu, 14 May 2020 19:47:04 EST h82wmrnd No.534585 Reply
Or they could just become polygamous and with OP being first wife, gets to use second wife as sex slave. All problems solved.
Beatrice Sondlebury - Thu, 14 May 2020 20:53:21 EST 3xVrj3us No.534587 Reply
Imo don't poke the bear. avoid her as much as possible while being neutral verging on warm, and non-threatening. with these types of people, it's the best to be boring as shit. they'll just lose interest in you. Sterile responses. Not much reaction. She'll get bored and leave you alone at least, although not your boyfriend. Just be nice BUT don't give too much and just be fucking boring. I cannot repeat this enough. Be boring as fuck.

in terms of moving out, don't talk about it with her. just be like, yeah, one day probably, idk. she will definitely be a nightmare when he moves because it will light all of her abandonment issues on fire, but that's not gonna be for a while anyway, so in the meantime just focus on being incredibly boring when she's around.

on time

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- Tue, 12 May 2020 16:37:23 EST khf5ypXt No.534547
File: 1589315843033.jpg -(52721B / 51.49KB, 640x359) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. on time
What is the deal with people who cannot be anywhere on time? Or people who cannot get ready in an ample amount of time? And is it just me or is this a feminine quality, and is it a quality of all females?

When I get a text saying "I'll be there in 20 minutes", why in the fuck does it take the person 45 minutes to arrive.. And why the FUCK does this happen over, and over, and over again?

The only reasoning I have is that the person has such a piss poor concept of time and they have never been challenged at all to fix themselves.

Also what is wrong with these people who take 2 and a half hours to get ready? "Hey, we need to leave in 25 minutes is that cool?" "Yea of course I'll "get ready" "....... 1 hour later ........

I'm not the smartest person in the world and I certainly don't have all the answers, so can someone please enlighten me?
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Jack Brishson - Wed, 13 May 2020 04:53:01 EST En0OhpUp No.534555 Reply
Here in Germany, the old custom is that letting someone wait for more tha 15 min is rude, and you're free to do anything else if the person you want to meet with is later than that and does not tell you about it.
But then again, it's still a personal preference as well. When I know someone who is notoriously late, I usually invite them earlier so he's still on time for me.

>when my friends arrange a meet up they'll say 8pm but really it's like 8:40pm
They obviously don't care about something so fundamental as your time then, and I'd consider that the line between "friend" and "acquaintance".
Oliver Shittingwater - Wed, 13 May 2020 07:52:57 EST DNby09mt No.534557 Reply
Perhaps you should get more comfortable with waiting on others. People aren't going to magically become more considerate based on how angry you get, how long your diatribes are.
Ebenezer Clellylock - Wed, 13 May 2020 11:34:27 EST 3ScQQ4dj No.534564 Reply
>They obviously don't care about something so fundamental as your time then, and I'd consider that the line between "friend" and "acquaintance
or i obviously don't care enough about time to end friendships, where did i say it's fundamental?

Why does struggling feel so good

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- Mon, 11 May 2020 15:17:00 EST iBY0TkQf No.534528
File: 1589224620961.jpg -(112552B / 109.91KB, 720x900) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Why does struggling feel so good
the state of this world is terrible to put it into a single word
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Anonymous - Mon, 11 May 2020 23:31:12 EST iBY0TkQf No.534534 Reply
Sorry Jimin was making me think I was retarded yet again but it's just her being nervous around me sorry

Why do simple memes like this destroy me

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- Sat, 02 May 2020 22:06:43 EST oIwDzmmc No.534462
File: 1588471603122.jpg -(82822B / 80.88KB, 421x960) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Why do simple memes like this destroy me
Im just crying nonstop, over a meme. Like, It sucks. No idea why this happens to me, not even specifically just this one, theres a lot of them that just tear me open. Why am i so 'triggered' by these? They make me so incredibly sad
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Hugh Blallerhot - Tue, 12 May 2020 11:31:51 EST 3ScQQ4dj No.534543 Reply
that has to be the saddest episode in animated television
Hugh Blallerhot - Tue, 12 May 2020 11:49:01 EST 3ScQQ4dj No.534544 Reply
that has to be the saddest episode in animated television

Roomate Drama because of COVID

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- Sat, 09 May 2020 17:10:02 EST 76QM/3Le No.534507
File: 1589058602536.jpg -(277255B / 270.76KB, 1920x1080) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Roomate Drama because of COVID
We have three cats in our apartment. I share a bedroom with my gf. Roommate has other room.

Yesterday she spazzed out and said that we were dirty and dangerous because we're not taking proper precaution because of the covid. Like she just started screaming this from the kitchen. Our bedroom is next to the kitchen so she was just outside the door.

I will admit my and my girl (me especially) are bad with cleaning the knobs when we come from the outside. But other than that, we've started wearing mask. Before we were just inside stores. For a time we didn't wear them but that was like 3 weeks ago.

Maybe I'm an asshole because of this. But we are quarantined. Working from home. Occasionally we go to the store.

We don't communicate this with our roommate and she thinks we're going partying and gangbangs. We're not that open with her but we do give her the impression that we are taking precautions and practicing social distancing. But she just wants constant tab on us.

So we have three cats. They're hers but they come inside our room and hang out. One in particular sleeps with us and sometimes spends days with us.

This cat is adorable. She just flops on her back on our bed while the two of us work (me and my girl both work out of our room). We're always petting and playing with her. She allows me to cradle her. Not a lot but sometimes she'll just melt in my arms and purr.

So yesterday the roommate starts screaming and insulting us. And she asks us to close the door because we're not allowed to interact with the cats or touch them because they can catch COVID

I told her no, the door wasn't going to be closed.. I swear to god I tried to keep a level head and tone through this whole breakdown. While she was yelling, I was trying to address the issues in a polite inside voice. I maintained my cool until the last part.

She asked me why I wasn't going to close the door and I said "To get inside your head. So everything you see it, you get paranoid and crazy. The cats are your responsibility."

For a time we were splitting the cost of two cats and something happened where she felt more comfortable taking 100% ownership of the cats. Because two of the cats were found outside and taken in by her so we were fostering them together. Either way I threw it at her that we weren't closing the door.

Now she's locked in her room with the three cats. It happened yesterday.

One other short story. is that for a time she was working in the living room all the time when the quarantine thing happened. My girl started to want to work out there occasionally because she wanted out of our room for a little bit. A change of scene. This lady flipped the fucked out. She was basically saying that we were ganging up on her. She said I was on my girl's side because we were fucking even though me and my girl also pay 2/3 the rent+utilities.

We said that it was just a day or two a week for a couple hours. She start mentioning other issues she had with us and insulting us. We stopped the conversation and said forget it. Ever since then, she's worked exclusively out of her bedroom.

It's so hard to find peace. And I miss the cats.
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Cedric Ferryford - Sun, 10 May 2020 00:36:52 EST fqJnozmR No.534516 Reply

Ok you'll be out soon so u just gotta survive. At this point since the friendship with her doesn't matter, and you said u don't want confrontation, I'd say take best care of your own mental health as possible. Don't let her weirdness bring ya down too much.

Embrace the situation any way you can and stay hydrated. I'd go absolutely insane trapped in a bedroom with someone all day, so don't allow her to bully you into your room. I say she sounds like the one wanting total isolation, so living room is all yours. Hell, sleep on the couch if you want. She can fuck off to her room as long as she wants.
George Ponkinmutch - Sun, 10 May 2020 09:34:46 EST 76QM/3Le No.534519 Reply

That's pretty much the plan. Mainly wanted other perspectives, maybe some validation or sympathy. Appreciate it
William Grandson - Sun, 10 May 2020 09:48:09 EST TvHsihYW No.534520 Reply
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Then you're on the right path, I feel ya and your feelings are valid. Good luck!

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