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420chan is Getting Overhauled - Changelog/Bug Report/Request Thread (Updated July 26)

I kissed another woman

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- Sat, 15 Jun 2019 06:17:52 EST Z3zE5Pnv No.529866
File: 1560593872578.jpg -(28037B / 27.38KB, 480x360) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I kissed another woman
And she tugged my dick. I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years. It sucks. I've felt for the past while that I probably shouldn't be in a relationship because I keep doing shit that hurts my girlfriend, and I do this stuff because I'm not 100% committed. I haven't been 100% committed because I've been in relationships non stop for 12 years and there has always been a big part of me that has struggled to accept a lifetime of monogamous commitment. A large part of me feels like I need to be free for a while.

I actually tried to break up with my girlfriend last week, but it was so out of the blue (for her), she begged me not to, she told me how much she loved me and that she would do anything. She begged. I felt so bad, seeing her so hurt, I felt so so bad, that I buckled and said I wasn't leaving her. She made me promise her that I'm not just putting it off and that I'm not gonna go break up with her in a week. At that moment, I really didn't feel I would. But as soon as I woke up the next morning, those feelings resurfaced.

Then this happened. I've given myself over to sex and lust, despite the fact my girlfriend is an amazing person. I have to break her heart for a 2nd time in a week, I feel like such a shitty shitty shitty person. I already miss her like crazy but I know it's the right thing to do. Ultimately, she'll be happier without me.

God why is this shit so difficult
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Oliver Benningdale - Thu, 20 Jun 2019 17:26:13 EST Z3zE5Pnv No.529929 Reply
Ugh, I've double fucked up. I scared away dick tug girl. I was too eager in terms of wanting to hang out (and wanting to fuck her) and that scared her away. She's been avoiding me now LOL. God I am such a fucking idiot. A totally hopeless, naive romatnic. I'm now in the position where I'm heartbroke over one girl, and jealous at the thought of 2 ladies being with other men.

I need a goddamn fucking break from women. Holy fuck. I can't believe myself. I had a chance to sleep with an absolutely gorgeous Korean lady and I fucked it up. I've also broken the heart of a woman who's done nothing but love and adore me for 5 years. Fucksake. ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Welp, life lessons learned.
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Oliver Benningdale - Thu, 20 Jun 2019 19:46:38 EST Z3zE5Pnv No.529933 Reply
In a fit of pathetic, horniness I ended up paying for Tinder. Swiped for hours. I was so desperate to make amends for my double fuck up. After getting bored and then jacking off I immediately regretted it. Goddamn it I'm such a fucking idiot dickhead. I've thrown away a perfectly good long term relationship, I ruined my chance to sleep with a beautiful Asian chick and now I'm after spending like 20 quid on a fucking dating app because I was feeling sorry and horny.

No bump. I'm going to crawl under my blankets now and cringe myself to sleep/death. As a sidenote, hot Asian girl is a student at my school where I'm a teacher (we're all adults), so it's gonna be super fucking awkward from now on. Ugh.
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Clara Greenfield - Fri, 21 Jun 2019 21:30:55 EST PvHdIrXb No.529945 Reply
Ugh, sounds like you got greedy, but at least you were honest with yourself and those around you. Just do your ex a favor and don't try to get her back, she's better off without you.

Illegal Property Revenge

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- Mon, 10 Jun 2019 01:41:55 EST Rc6WhEsE No.529806
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So basically I've lived in this place for a year and a half and been lying that my landlady lives here who basically is in divorce and moved real quick to another dude -- they lie that she lives here, otherwise the house goes into foreclosure because the ex doesn't want it anymore.

They've turned the place into a rooming house, and basically threw a bunch of responsibilities on me at a time where I really needed to live somewhere.

Now they want me to lie to a bylaw officers face and got us to rearrange every room and etc to look legit. I got two days, and basically, I'm trusted soi am going to be actually speaking to the bylaw person.

This might be my only opportunity to provide both my evidence and blow this whole fucker into the water. It's multi-millions in under the table rent and house/property value basically stolen from some slightly rich, but clearly poor dude somewhere out there.

They've disrespected me at every turn and even get me to pay them more rent while I do all the gardening and etc I don't even legally need to do. And this is basically my only way of real revenge.

I like my roommates, but holy fuck, they sit idly and let me do all the shit for them.

I have a place I can hunker down at for 3 months and am really thinking about calling a moving company, getting my stuff safely out of here, blowing the lid with the bylaw person the next day and then calling the tenancy branch to break whatever the fuck this has been for a year and a half.

I know I can find another place or etc. And start this all over again right, without being made to feel like I'm worthless.

Really, help a brother out here. What do you think? Just from the broad sort of thing? It might sound overreacting. But we literally had a meeting today, was basically tasked with changing all the locks and moving furniture and etc to fulfill their lie while paying more than other people and this that the other thing. And there's no fucking written notice.

I did two hours of yard work, and I don't even fucking have to. I'm being forced to take a day off work. These people do not respect other people. And I have the feeling as soon as this blows over -- it gets worse. I'm so stressed out that I gotta take tomorrow off too.

So clearly, everybody's gonna hate me for their own selfish reasons, so I'm thinking it's absolutely necessary to make sure my belongings are all safe? The only issue, when I blow this lid, I'm doing it in their presence. But I mean, the bylaw people can help me right? Like if I blow this big of a bomb up, they got to be able to speak to the tenancy board for me right? But then again, I'll just take the total loss of the deposit and rent I just gave them to do this. I could give a fuck.

But given how big of a deal this would be financially... Should I maybe be worried about getting lynched?

Any help would be appreciated. At the point my stuff all out, even if somebody snitches, they can't have the inspection happen and thus, cannot avoid having them talk to me. Fuck would it feel good, and I can afford it.

And i just don't see any legal ramifications whatsoever other than the nonlegal ramification to get attacked/lynched. I doubt these people would do it, but a few million dollars in theft will make anybody do anything. Should i call my local police department to make sure?
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Martha Clubbleson - Sun, 16 Jun 2019 00:48:07 EST co/4UQGc No.529878 Reply
bump for probably dead op
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Walter Dicklecocke - Sun, 16 Jun 2019 06:37:39 EST Vc3Ib3Ql No.529884 Reply
RIP in Peace OP. nb

HELP!

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- Thu, 20 Jun 2019 01:21:38 EST ARlJ9f2V No.529924
File: 1561008098938.jpg -(22013B / 21.50KB, 236x418) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. HELP!
Hey qq it’s been a while. I’m back because I need some advice. So my brothers dog just died while I was taking her on a walk. I was taking care of her while my brother went on vacation and she was a very overweight hefty dog. And I’ve never noticed any symptoms of her having issues on our walk. She was actually doing a lot better as I had been walking her daily and working on her endurance. Keep in mind she’s a medium sized dog and is healthily supposed to weigh 30-40 pounds she was like at least 60 pounds. So walking a long distance was tough on her. That’s not too say I would take her on a journey I knew she couldn’t complete. So today we go out for our regular walk to the park less than a mile away from my house and everything is fine. She even made it there in record time. We stopped at the park for 5-7 minutes and I gave her water and let her rest. On the way back maybe two blocks away from my house she decided to stop walking and so like normal I let her rest for a few minutes and then tried to convince her to keep walking. She wouldn’t get up so I tried again after a little more time for rest and she tried getting up but then collapsed and rolled to her side and started breathing hard. Someone saw this and pulled over to help. We tried getting her water and she wouldn’tdrink. The nice lady let me put my dog in her car o take home which was very close but once we got there I carried her in and put her on the cold floor to see if it would help with overheating and then a few minutes later she stopped breathing. I tried what I could to get her to respond but she didn’t. A family’s member lives real near by so I called them and they rushed over Nd started doing chest xcompressions until we got her o an emergency clinic. They tried everything they could but couldn’t get her back.

I’m devastated that this happened and I feel like it’s my fault. I don’t know how to face my brother that will be arriving in a plane in a few hours. How do I explain what happened? If I didn’t take her on a walk she would still be alive.... how do I tell him I killed his dog??


Fuck this is a terrible day.

I’m sorry qq for throwing this at you.

What can I do?
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Lydia Wucklefield - Thu, 20 Jun 2019 01:35:33 EST jnas4L6T No.529925 Reply
damn might have had a heart attack or a cardiovascular emergency like aneurysm or stroke. its your brothers fault for making it fat, dont feel responsible. just tell the truth.
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Albert Duckwater - Thu, 20 Jun 2019 04:39:16 EST kXEuIkNq No.529926 Reply
>>529925

>dont feel responsible. just tell the truth.

This. It sounds like you really cared and did everything that you possibly could in the given circumstances.

This really sucks man but you really did try your best and it just didn't work out and there's nothing you can do now except tell your brother what happened and be there for him.

You can freeze

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- Tue, 18 Jun 2019 21:19:28 EST XiHtpV2+ No.529913
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I spent twelve years in the 21st century because I wanted what was best for the woman I loved. Nothing is more important to me than her happiness. And when I finally had the reason; the chance to see her and love her again, I had to give it up. Because I want only what is best for her. And that's you. It always has been. It always would be. I wish it hadn't taken me my whole life to realize that. Please, just make me one promise. Love her. Love her just as I would, because I can't be here to. I've spent almost my whole life wishing I could be. It's the only thing I've ever wanted. But I never could, and I never will. All I can do is let her have what's best for her.
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Lillian Worthingwill - Tue, 18 Jun 2019 23:45:15 EST Lny7/LNo No.529915 Reply
I don't need to be reminded of this kind of pain, god damn it.
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Lillian Grimdock - Wed, 19 Jun 2019 00:27:51 EST kXEuIkNq No.529916 Reply
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Very dramatic. Isn't it a pity that we realise these things that you mention when it's all too late? Sucks doesn't it. But that's life. You live and you learn.

Oh and I just realised that this was a reference to that Futurama episode. Whoops.
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Simon Trotham - Wed, 19 Jun 2019 17:04:05 EST y5Kqaqti No.529922 Reply
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If you love them, let them be.
Don't set shade to a tree, it won't bear.

I hate exercise so much I have ED now I think.

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- Thu, 13 Jun 2019 18:44:30 EST Ki17+5hC No.529851
File: 1560465870429.jpg -(64025B / 62.52KB, 680x727) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I hate exercise so much I have ED now I think.
I can get it up, but cant keep it up too easily. I'm overweight but not obese. How the fuck do people actually exercise every day? I do it twice in a week and feel like I've done too much shit.

Ahhhhhhhhh! SOMEONE HELP!
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Walter Hosslestitch - Tue, 18 Jun 2019 13:40:33 EST Vc3Ib3Ql No.529909 Reply
>>529865
Soreness the next day or even next 3 days is fine. If you exercise regularly it becomes rare. It's a sign your muscles are rebuilding themselves stronger than before.

As others have said you can't outrun a bad diet. Exercise is still good. It has many benefits though none are HUGE individually. You have to want it, rather than feel you should.
>slightly improved mental health and clarity
>slightly improved sleep
>slightly better immune system and more energy when ill
>slightly more mobility and endurance and general ease of doing stuff in life
>slightly better physique (continues to improve over time)
>slightly more weight loss or ability to eat slightly more food and not get fat
>slightly longer life
>slightly more physical confidence
>slightly better self esteem

And so on.
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A_Wizard !cMZsY.BCnU!!vVWR8L52 - Wed, 19 Jun 2019 05:49:31 EST wJWwXGAC No.529918 Reply
>>529908
Toss in some sunifiram. His prostate will be so full that he'll have no choice in the matter.

Hey

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- Wed, 19 Jun 2019 02:47:45 EST 0DOizHVp No.529917
File: 1560926865685.jpg -(2665422B / 2.54MB, 3840x2160) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Hey
I hope that you're doing Ok. Sorry we havent talked for a while, im here for you, just remember that as alone as you feel on this dusty rock. pl0x is here.

Dropped out of college, how the fuck do I start having fun again?

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- Mon, 17 Jun 2019 20:18:09 EST Je9nm5wp No.529903
File: 1560817089668.gif -(1604714B / 1.53MB, 500x288) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Dropped out of college, how the fuck do I start having fun again?
I partied my way right out of school and completely ruined my life but I haven't learned my lesson and all I want to do is get right back to where I left off. Right now I'm jobless and living alone in a house owned by my extended family with absolutely nothing to do living in a completely different state.

Obviously I need to get a part time job and I'm going back to school online at community college, but I want to start having fun and doing drugs again instead of just drinking by myself.

Is it socially acceptable to go to bars, clubs, and concerts on your own? I don't know what it's like to be this isolated. I only managed to have a wide circle of friends in an environment where literally everybody wants to be your friend if you aren't a sperglord, especially if you have drugs and do a lot of them, you get this weird sort of respect from people if you can do a shit ton of drugs and drink a shit ton but in reality I was a druggie before I left high school. I know I'll never get that back but I want to go back to living my nihilistic self-destructive life, I want to have friends again, how do I do it?

I feel like I'm over thinking it, but I don't know. People of a certain nature tend to gravitate towards me and I towards them. Or at least that's how it used to be. Back when I was still in school and in my element I would basically trip over people who had drugs and all I had to do it seemed was think "man I could do with something right now" and almost subconsciously I'd find people to get fucked up with.

But I feel like a completely different person now. Is it all in my head? After being clean for a few months now I feel like I'm reverting back to the friendless weirdo I was before I started meeting people and loosening up. I feel like my normal way of meeting people by offering to smoke with them won't work because I don't have any weed or any way of getting it except traveling 2 days to the nearest state with dispensaries, which I just might do but that makes me feel like a loser who can't score.

I hate living like this.
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Walter Hosslestitch - Tue, 18 Jun 2019 15:49:47 EST Vc3Ib3Ql No.529910 Reply
>>529906
So basically you self medicate your mental illness so you can function in society?

I have a lot of sympathy for that and a bit of empathy too but I hope you've exhausted other options. People get less awful as you get older and it's possible to get better at handling your own shit so you don't sabotage yourself. It's also possible that you're genuinely fucked but I feel like you might not be beyond hope or real friends. That is just a gut feeling from your words on a forum though so it's pure hunch here.

Not getting drugs is usually a function of getting old though.
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Esther Sundlefere - Tue, 18 Jun 2019 18:43:30 EST fdKspsz1 No.529912 Reply
>>529910
>People get less awful as you get older

Nigga, you from Mars?
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Clara Pobbledock - Tue, 18 Jun 2019 22:54:09 EST VxtSuD4E No.529914 Reply
>>529906
Well ok. Anyway when I dropped out of university due to mental illnesses I ended up going to community college and did something different. Met my wife there. Made friends that way. We still all got fucked up all the time but you dont need to start off with drugs

its physically impossible for me to sleep well

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- Sat, 15 Jun 2019 13:34:07 EST 2sWwtUKX No.529870
File: 1560620047889.gif -(291735B / 284.90KB, 500x309) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. its physically impossible for me to sleep well
i don't know what causes this or how do i stop it but basically whenever i'm on the verge of falling asleep my neck does this weird muscle contraction that shakes my head and bring me back to reality, almost like if my brain did it as a counter measure to keep me awake

its been going for ages now and it takes me more attempts to finally tire myself enough where i sleep without this occurrence happening
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Ian Somblesedge - Sat, 15 Jun 2019 17:30:14 EST Lny7/LNo No.529871 Reply
Have you tried smoking cannabis to see what it does for you? I mean, one of the traits of cannabis is that it relaxes the muscles and it helps people sleep in general.
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Clara Hollyset - Sat, 15 Jun 2019 19:15:48 EST Vc3Ib3Ql No.529873 Reply
>>529870
It's not your neck, it's a hypnic jerk. They're well documented but no one is quite sure what causes them yet. If you're anxious, stressed, drinking a lot of caffeine or whatever it might be causing it. Or you might be unlucky.

I wake up a lot during the night. I think a lot of it is being a light sleeper. You just need to make sure you allot enough time to sleep and don't skip out unless you absolutely cannot avoid it.
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Martha Clubbleson - Sun, 16 Jun 2019 00:52:31 EST co/4UQGc No.529879 Reply
>>529870
Hey op fellow insomniac here. What the other guy said earlier that's just hypnagogic jerks. I suffer from the same thing they suck don't they? At the worst I can have them 5-6 times in a single night. The only thing that works for me without making me drowzy the next day is indica dominant shatter but I have a really high weed tolerance so I would start with indica dominant weed first.

Just feelin' bad

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- Thu, 13 Jun 2019 16:11:09 EST xIks5xaS No.529847
File: 1560456669719.png -(60798B / 59.37KB, 658x662) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Just feelin' bad
I met a woman, started to fall in love, she had feelings for me, too. She promised she wouldn't get spooked by me being a literal crazy person and abandon me, I promised her the same. We're both badly mentally ill.

She got spooked by me being a literal crazy person and abandoned me. I haven't let someone hurt me this badly in a very long time.
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Emma Pocklenotch - Fri, 14 Jun 2019 03:18:12 EST JCATCBbz No.529858 Reply
>>529848
Hey there. You didn't do anything wrong. In fact, you did something honorable in putting your truth out in the open for someone else to absorb. The fact is that you took a chance, and it didn't work out. Everyone talks the talk but their actions speak much louder than any words can. So this person wasn't ready to accept your truth and grow and develop with you based on it. That's totally OK! I'm sorry it hurts. This kind of thing happens. I want you to know that there are people out there that are ready for the kind of relationship you're looking for, you just haven't encountered them yet. What's important is to understand that you didn't do anything wrong here. Don't let this define you. I admire your opening up to this person. Just let it go, don't take it personally, and keep on trucking. You deserve and will have happiness, just keep seeking it out. Good wiggles, friend.
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Albert Pickbury - Fri, 14 Jun 2019 12:23:07 EST rtmVhGTI No.529861 Reply
>>529858
Thank you for your words, I appreciate it. It will get better, things even seem a bit better today.

I'm almost 30, and I've been a stunted recluse for most of my 20s, due to Problems.

Only in the last year or so have I started to figure things out, and I was sort of treating this whole experience as part of that. Something that even if it went poorly, I could hopefully use to learn and grow. I'll be able to process this into something positive, eventually, I think.

For now, you're probably right, I just have to keep moving.

Thanks again.
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Fanny Hivingbock - Sat, 15 Jun 2019 07:45:54 EST 2dpbGRKS No.529867 Reply
>total loner, was perfectly fine without women in my life
>met woman and she forces herself into my life
>fall for it like a dumbass
>she leaves
>now i'm heartbroken and in need of companionship
motherfuck attachment

its so fucking hot

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- Wed, 12 Jun 2019 22:28:32 EST 2sWwtUKX No.529839
File: 1560392912897.png -(303199B / 296.09KB, 640x480) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. its so fucking hot
oh my god i'm gonna melt
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Nicholas Dubblefare - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 01:02:55 EST Lny7/LNo No.529840 Reply
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Meanwhile it's rainy and cold as fuck here, I caught a nasty case of the flu as well. Let's fucking trade, I'd love to melt right now.
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Clara Soffingpore - Fri, 14 Jun 2019 21:45:41 EST VEtOQMZ1 No.529862 Reply
my cars ac is broken and I live in Texas

Not Satisfied

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- Sat, 18 May 2019 04:37:25 EST v5b3l/HX No.529430
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I'm on deployment. This girl DMs me around the first week she got here... I had been here for 2 months by then. It took me a couple days before I have in and started hanging out. I'm 30 and she's 21.

She's immature. Not so much in the young and wild way, more in the yiung/stupid/inexperienced way. We're in the same shop and I out rank her. Not a huge problem, but she always wants to call me by first name in front of people. Or walk home together every day. Or just generally make it more obvious than it needs to be that we are fucking each other. I've told her numerous times not to be so clingy and dumb at work, she either gets an attitude or doesn't listen or both.

Now, to the sex. She says it's her IUD that lowered her libido. At this point idc If that's true or not. It's not satisfying. We have sex maybe twice a week. Maybe. I get head maybe twice a week. I've talked about it plenty, she either gets an attitude or doesn't listen or both. And she keeps doing this thing where she starts giving me head, then stops, then says "that's all you get" or "more later". 10 times out of 10 there is no more later. I told her numerous times don't do that. Just do nothing instead of you're gonna do that shit. Yet she does it the other day, yet again. Ever since then I've been very rude, mysterious, sarcastic, goofy asf, just basically shutting the fuck down.

Idk why I don't just leave her alone? I guess I don't want to see her with other dudes. Or answer questions that people may have as to why we aren't always together like usual. And the craziest part is that she acts an ass when I wanna sleep in my own bed, or not come over, or leave, or be alone, anything. She acts like she can't live without me but is a rude and immature cunt 98% of the time I'm around. Or on her phone. Or napping. I don't fucking get it.
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Doris Supperpidge - Sun, 19 May 2019 14:33:23 EST SeOiTXR9 No.529456 Reply
>I'm on deployment
>We're in the same shop but I outrank her

Jesus Luisus what am I reading
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Priscilla Dummerstodge - Mon, 20 May 2019 08:34:15 EST /sFKQ047 No.529459 Reply
>>529430

Yeah just keep shooting those brown people and taking your agent orange.
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Priscilla Mavingsark - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 21:29:58 EST SjZXQAMA No.529854 Reply
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>>529447

We have talked about this plenty. I've told her numerous times about her attitude, her response to that is "because I want you to hear/understand me". I have told her about the sex, she humors me but it never got any better. Just this morning I'm rock hard and try to make a move and she goes "I just wanna sleeep". Ok dude, whatever. The last time we has sex she just laid there as per usual, and there was no round 2.

I leave in 10 days. She keeps reinforcing this shit about us visiting each other, her waiting to see me. I know its bullshit. I wonder if she knows its bullshit. I haven't been able to figure out what this was all about... I think this was her way to avoid having sex with as many men as she did last time she was here. I'm tolerant, mild mannered, I put up with this many months of no sex and argumentative bullshit. For me it was trying to gain relationship experience that I dont have. I wasnt really using her, I just didnt have a problem with the built in termination date of me leaving here. I wish she put more effort in but I guess she did the best she could. Or at least the best she wanted to give me.

Oh well. Sucks because I dropped another girl I was talking to be exclusive with this one, and it ended up being this thoroughly lackluster experience.

Found Out a Friend is a Level 3 RSO

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- Tue, 04 Jun 2019 10:00:46 EST 8JMT0wmI No.529720
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He was found guilty of ten charges, including rape and battery against children, in the early 90's. He always seemed like such an upstanding intellectual, great for discussing politics and ethics. What would you do if you found out your friend was a sex offender?
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Matilda Tillingdale - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 08:05:15 EST 8JMT0wmI No.529843 Reply
>>529721
>Personally, If you had said "this guy was a kind and supportive friend, he'd always go the extra mile to help someone, he was always there for me" I'd be surprised
That actually describes the guy pretty well. He narcan'd over a dozen people back to life this year alone. When I was near-homeless, he was supportive, and when I needed someone to watch my little nephew for the night (jk lol)
>>529805
>Are you upset because of the level 3 part or the sex offender part?
The RSO part. Level 3 makes it a little worse I guess.
>>529776
>>529828
>>529829
>>529842
So this is what I would post if I were any of you, but it's different when you've known someone for years and find out that they did something nasty, especially since they were severely mentally ill and it was 30+ years ago. Imagine one of your friends being like "hey btw I'm an RSO sorry I didn't tell you years ago." Imagine it's someone you know and trust. I mean, the guy served his time, so I feel like he's kind of payed his debt to society. On the other hand, child-abuse is pretty much impossible for me to relate to and I struggle to empathize with him, even after he served his sentence.

We had a chat the other day about it and he explained that he lives every day with crippling regret and remorse and self-loathing, so that made me feel more empathy for him. He had a heart attack two days ago, which also helped.

I imagine he'll always be attracted to teen boys, but I guess if he doesn't act on it, there's a noble restraint to it, like that pedo rabbi who never diddled anyone and then told the world on his death bed that he served God by not letting his pedo-ness make him abuse any kids.

Anyway, I just made this thread because I wanted to discuss the situation a bit. I've never had to deal with a friend being an RSO and I thought I might get some interesting perspective here. Thanks for the discussion.
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Martin Dattingwidge - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 19:57:40 EST fJyaqqmi No.529853 Reply
I had a friend who turned out to be a child pornographer and went to prison, the scumbag got to stay in the medical ward the whole time due to having diabetes and he's out now. I immediately cut him out of my life completely when I found out, as any decent rational person would do. This is a no-brainer & I really hope OP is just shitposting.
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Cornelius Masslefoot - Sun, 16 Jun 2019 07:47:31 EST BsMDZL1i No.529885 Reply
If you like the guy you can always keep tabs on him for the greater good. Being his friend might prevent him doing something bad.

I'd ask him for an explanation though

the usual fag emo shit

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- Mon, 10 Jun 2019 02:24:02 EST hiKxQg3e No.529807
File: 1560147842673.jpg -(40641B / 39.69KB, 480x210) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. the usual fag emo shit
so like
there are these insecure straight boys who dont understand what dressing like a crackhead means and like hip hop and guido shit, you know, snooki and the boardwalk kinda shit

i'm actually totally ok with them but i what I dont get is the hate they bring for not hating on gays and just interacting with gay people like you would anybody else

if an elderly flirtatious woman winks at me I wink back same with gays im not interested in

i dont get why men get so fucking competitive about this shit and insecure and shit. if you getting pussy every night regardless like who gives a fuck. i'm tired of having to front all this pussy game on account of these people I just want to flirt with my side hoes, smoke weed and bang my woman. why is this such a big deal to other wannabe hood gangstas especially white immigrant boys
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Matilda Tillingdale - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 08:09:59 EST 8JMT0wmI No.529844 Reply
>what I dont get is the hate they bring for not hating on gays and just interacting with gay people like you would anybody else
Some people are just gay-haters OP. It's good that we're straight men who aren't like tha-
>if an elderly flirtatious woman winks at me I wink back same with gays im not interested in
>same with gays im not interested in
A sexy milf is one thing- 60 is the new 40 and all- but nigga you gay if you winking back at gay men. And don't pretend it's about social courtesy and norms, because no gay man has any social expectation for straight men to return their affectionate winks. You do you though OP.
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Graham Singerhudging - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 09:56:51 EST Je9nm5wp No.529845 Reply
>>529844
I can't imagine winking at someone I thought was straight, I don't want to get my ass beat.

OP, maybe you need to think about some things.
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Nicholas Dubblefare - Thu, 13 Jun 2019 15:33:44 EST Lny7/LNo No.529846 Reply
>>529844
>>529845
>same with gays im not interested in
>OP is implying there are gays he IS interested in
>Probably explains his frustration with his bros hating on gay people
Yo OP you bisexual as fuck at least. You a ho.

motherfuckin barred from professional work but dont really care

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- Fri, 26 Apr 2019 10:53:51 EST hiKxQg3e No.528980
File: 1556290431879.jpg -(148619B / 145.14KB, 847x1200) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. motherfuckin barred from professional work but dont really care
OK so here's how it is. I have an arrest for graffiti and a claim that I resisted (I didn't but you know how it is, you crack a joke in the squad car out of boredom and that's how it goes if the cop isn't cool). I also have an arrest for drug possession but completed rehab and don't care really.

The big problem is.. I work in a skilled trade that requires work at an office. I know why they won't hire me. I even went into a really nice big tech company and got the full welcoming treatment, but had to stop them and explain about what they'd find on a background check. A lawyer says he can't get it all expunged, but maybe in several years. I've basically given up and think it's a good thing because I'd rather be a musician or fucktard artist anyway, but the problem is, I'm encountering pressure from relatives and other people in my community to pursue professional work, who don't understand why I don't, and I need a quick, dirty way to tell them off that doesn't expose too much vulnerability. I have a means of supporting myself financially. It doesn't make as much as my skilled trade but I don't care about that, freedom is better.

How do I deal with "polite people" who go out of their way to hurt my feelings about not being employed in my previous trade and prevent them from interfering in commercial artistic pursuits?
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Fuck Sussleket - Tue, 11 Jun 2019 01:35:15 EST q2fK/qtX No.529824 Reply
Does your state allow you to seal your record? I can seal a felony in about 8 more years.
Of course I had a cwaf.

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