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accepting human stupidity

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- Fri, 13 Dec 2019 15:33:17 EST MHw4zt7g No.532790
File: 1576269197231.jpg -(121224B / 118.38KB, 636x627) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. accepting human stupidity
every day i find myself getting incredibly annoyed/frustrated/pissed off about how stupid both myself and other humans are. whether it be our collective inability to deal with any sort of serious problem in an efficient way, or an individuals inability to grasp a basic concept, this shit seriously gets on my fucking nerves to the point where i want to start shouting at nothing.

anyone have any tips on learning to accept our retardation? thanks.

picture vaguely related.
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Matilda Fumblesack - Mon, 23 Dec 2019 19:24:09 EST 3ScQQ4dj No.532923 Reply
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>hurr durr i literally cannot sucking cocks
loud and clear fam
Shitting Honeybury - Tue, 31 Dec 2019 04:34:23 EST ySK+6TA1 No.533032 Reply
I had this problem pretty bad from about high school until I turned about 23 (I'm 28 now for reference). I also had anger issues pretty bad during that time. What got me over it is getting sick of being so angry and upset all the time. I realized that even when I wasn't upset, angry, or annoyed, I would actually go out of my way to find things to get angry and upset over, Being so upset all the time was making me miserable, I was deathly sick of feeling that way all the time and came to understand that I was directly responsible for my mood and my misery.

So, what I did was train myself to stop being a retard and getting upset over stupid (often little, inconsequential) shit all the time, as well as caught myself when I was looking for reasons to be upset and put a stop to it. I also trained myself to try being more empathetic because at this point I was borderline sociopathic in my lack of empathy, because I realized training myself to stop looking for things to be upset about and getting upset over pointless dumb shit was only half of the equation. Simply choosing not to be mad or upset could only be so effective on its own, I needed to prevent feeling that way in the first place. So, I recognized that seeing things from others' perspectives and being more understanding and patient was the key to preventing these feelings before they even began.

It took some time to properly train myself to do these things and learn to be empathetic again (took 3 to 5 months before I started seeing any tangible results at all), but I was so done with being the way I was that I didn't really care any more whether what I was doing to fix the problem was successful or not... rather, I didn't care if it seemed like it wasn't working or getting anything done, but if I wasn't actively doing something to improve things then I couldn't ever expect to get better, so giving up even trying was tantamount to saying/accepting that I wanted to be miserable all the time because I knew I was responsible for being miserable in the first place and wasn't doing anything to try and change that.

After roughly 6 months I noticed one day that I was actually improving, and after about a year I had actually developed a natural sense of empathy again and no longer had my life-long anger issues and wasn't always getting angry/upset over others' stupidity, incompetence, and failures. I had even learned to be more accepting of myself too, and overall it's improved my mental health greatly.

Wasted last decade of my life

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- Sun, 14 Jul 2019 23:58:42 EST qO/8g1OW No.530426
File: 1563163122565.gif -(142953B / 139.60KB, 500x400) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Wasted last decade of my life
>been on various *chans for the last 10+ years (since late 2007)
>haven't accomplished shit in that time and just squandered a lot of time and money on bullshit
Why can't I work towards anything meaningful? I feel like I'm always saying tomorrow but tomorrow never comes and the years just whittle away in the meanwhile.
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Esther Mavingspear - Sun, 29 Dec 2019 15:17:43 EST 1SSFeKJF No.533018 Reply
Browsing chans and squandering money is easy. You aren't picking the wrong choices, that''s an excuse. The real problem is you don't pick.

Just saying "the future starts now" or whatever is a valid response but it's just a first step. Instead of making big choices think about various options and then try to break them down until they're little doable actions. Now you've got a plan which ones look more realistic and which outcomes are best. There isn't just one right choice any more than there is one wrong choice.

Easier said than done but honestly once you start putting one foot forward you'll find making effort is easier than misery.

If you can't pick a choice look at what bothers you and think about the best (not easiest and quickest but most sensible sustainable and with the least risk to make things worse and/or go horribly wrong, sometimes the best route is easiest but often the easiest isn't the best) way to fix it.

Sometimes though it is a case of soaking up this information and prepping yourself and talking yourself up and simply not letting any more real openings go by. The problem with me saying things like that is that in the end things only changed when I took the next step and if I just kept telling myself it would work out it probably wouldn't.
Clara Dammlestatch - Sun, 29 Dec 2019 17:48:58 EST tRqVt3h/ No.533019 Reply
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Started using imageboards around the same time, and uh, I'm still here. I guess the question I would ask OP, is what do you think is meaningful?
Shitting Honeybury - Tue, 31 Dec 2019 04:11:59 EST ySK+6TA1 No.533031 Reply
Sounds like you just lack discipline. Sucks, but the only real solution is to just make yourself do things. Making yourself do things that take effort and commitment is hard--you're not special or alone in your struggle to exercise self-discipline and to make yourself do these things Whether that's something you can take solace in or it just leaves you further dismayed, it is the truth. Having difficulty being disciplined and overcoming the tendency toward complacency is part of the human condition.


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- Sat, 28 Dec 2019 12:41:24 EST Brprpp9N No.532980
File: 1577554884316.gif -(1417279B / 1.35MB, 500x280) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Loneliness
I just realized that I have a problem with being alone. I've always lived with other people, now I live and work mostly on my own, and I feel sad. Is there a way to cope with this? I miss people, and I hate missing people because I feel I should be able to be good company to myself, so I feel this is something I have to overcome.

When I lived with my parents it was the complete opposite. I yearned for a weekend or a couple days on my own with no other people to intervene in my daily affairs, but I that I have that and can spend weeks by myself at home, I feel empty. Is this a normal part of growing up? How do you guys cope (besides hanging around here, obviously)?.

Just now I realized I sound like the typical "bwaaaahh I'm so lonely" chan fag. Oh, how the mighty have fallen.
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Graham Billingfield - Mon, 30 Dec 2019 00:32:59 EST YU+X3Syy No.533021 Reply

>find popular mmo
>join big guild
>stay in voice chat all the time

I'm tired

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- Sat, 28 Dec 2019 12:17:07 EST T54jtk1k No.532976
File: 1577553427895.png -(183639B / 179.33KB, 320x315) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I'm tired
My life is terrible I have nothing and no one. All I want to do is kill myself so should I?
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Hannah Bruddlestere - Mon, 30 Dec 2019 20:28:05 EST XiHtpV2+ No.533028 Reply
>I live with my girlfriend on a beautiful apartment on a small town on the mountainside. I have a job, I’m starting a career on chiropractic, I have food on my fridge and clothes on my body
Your post should have ended there.
Ebenezer Mugglespear - Tue, 31 Dec 2019 02:26:53 EST JhG0bAaI No.533030 Reply
For people with trauma and such the impulse for suicide will never really go away completely because your mind/body knows that place and is trained to return there when shit goes downhill.

But hey man you get better at resurfacing from the deep. That's what I'll say. You start telling yourself to shut the fuck up when you tell yourself to kill yourself and then one fine day you realize you didn't want to kill yourself for ages.

Its hard though. Life is a struggle but full of wonder if you can open yourself up to others.

I myself married a crazy alcoholic former crack addict with a kid and it's been really shit at times but overall it's been far better than anything I would've thought could happen when I was 24.

Constant rejection

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- Fri, 27 Dec 2019 07:32:06 EST l8ULCAZT No.532956
File: 1577449926446.png -(533863B / 521.35KB, 988x572) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Constant rejection
I guess I just need somewhere to vent a little.

I'm not a bad looking guy, and I'd say I have a good personality. Throughout my life I've managed to make lots of friends and I think there are a lot of people who genuinely care about me.

But WOW that doesn't translate well to romantic life. I live in a foreign country, and there's not too many people here that speak the same language as me (I'm a white dude in China, so if anything the odds should be stacked a little in my favour) and recently a really cool American girl turned up and we went on a couple of dates. We didn't speak so much over Christmas but then we hung out at a bar again yesterday. She's very pretty, a friend of a friend, and has good chat, so I enjoy spending time with her. About a few hours into us hanging out she mentions how she wants to invite her friends, I'm not a dick so there's no problem, and I just assume it's some Chinese friend she had from high school. But no, this French dude turns up and moments before he walks in she's like "Oh, I hooked up with him the other day btw, hope this won't be awkward".

And I just feel totally crushed...This isn't even the first time this has happened, honestly it's like the fifth or sixth. Every single time I'm in this position where I find a girl I like, she simply doesn't have any interest in me being anything but a friend, and then is comfortable enough to invite this guy over. To me I just feel like such a failure as a man, to so consistently fail to ever progress to anything past friendship. She even mentioned before that she likes me better than this guy, but it's like...What the hell am I supposed to make of that? This guy turns up and I guess he's not the worst guy in the world but he's rude and Parisian and doesn't want to do anything but play shitty drinking games like it's god damned Sunday school or some shit. She mentioned it would be the last time she would ever see him, and I guess it's possible that we will meet up again before she goes, but god damn I let this shit get to me.

It shouldn't bother me as much as it does, but over and over and over again I have a really nice time with these people, and then they'll bum me off to sleep with some other dude.

The only girl right now who I maybe have a chance with is kind of a horrible person. She's tells me all the time about all the amazing guys she's meeting and having sex with. Even saying "I go to this guy for drugs, this guy if I need a place to crash, this guy for sex, and I talk to you for emotional support". Like how is that supposed to make me feel? She uhh...she is VERY hot though so I'm actually willing to deal with all that bullshit if it means I can god damned finally have sex again. Been like a year and a half now or some shit, I feel like I just need to remind myself that I can still be a person who can get romantic interest.

Some people tell me I'm very unlucky, I've heard that from both guys and girls, but I feel like it absolves me of acting incorrectly somehow. It's nice to think that this is just an unfortunate unlucky situation but it's probably my own fucking fault, and I guess most of the time I'm so comfortable and happy with who I am that when something like this comes along it knocks my ego down pretty hard.

TLR boohoo I'm always single.
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Simon Gazzleman - Sun, 29 Dec 2019 11:42:34 EST 8tp0wPoU No.533014 Reply
I met up with my good friend who said kinda the same thing. Saying I should maybe let her know and put it on the table. She's out of town visiting her grandparents right now, and when she's back she's only here for a couple more days until she goes back to America, and those few days I guess she's going to be spending with her very sick grandmother.

You're right though, I should tell her. I might not see her again for the rest of my life so there's no reason not to. It's possible I'll be here when she's back in the future.

Thanks for all the replies to this thread, you've made me feel a bit better.

There's an incredibly beautiful girl who's comfortable being in a FWB situation with me (even though she's bipolar and absolutely mental) so I might finally end up actually getting god damned laid next week.
Ernest Pittwater - Sun, 29 Dec 2019 12:59:41 EST rmAGLofl No.533015 Reply
>Wants to fuck but not be attached

Yeah, you're in for a shit show for real now. See you and your thread in 3 weeks.
Hamilton Nollyson - Wed, 01 Jan 2020 00:04:44 EST 8PJWkOaa No.533049 Reply
We met up and fucked. It's annoying, look wise she's essentially my perfect girl. She's a fucking model ffs. But she has absolutely zero interest in having a boyfriend and I have absolutely zero interest in trying to fix her/change her.

But yeah, Happy new year /qq/! I finally got laid!

what do i do

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- Tue, 09 Jul 2019 19:26:18 EST WNFQju07 No.530328
File: 1562714778020.jpg -(474948B / 463.82KB, 2400x2400) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. what do i do
My whole family is dead and I spent my life alone. I'm in my mid-twenties, and working on a degree, doing weird work here and there. Right now I'm an intern. I have no idea how to interact with other people, and I don't feel anything. I'm always an outcast because I don't talk to anyone. And because of that people are often hostile towards me.

I exercise, eat right, everything. I was doing all the "normie advice" shit before I even recognized that I had a severe problem.

My major fears are homelessness and unjust persecution. If I get cancer I'm going to die alone. If I end up homeless I'm going to die alone. If I get thrown in prison for things I didn't do, I'm going to die in there alone because nobody is going to vouch for me and nobody will care.

What do I do
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Edward Horrystock - Thu, 11 Jul 2019 19:43:20 EST /K54zcif No.530373 Reply
I know it, you know it, they know it. Hello surplus, what should we do with you? People like you are destined to only a handful of fates. I would recommend that you start by reading the air a little. Family, friends were merely an aegis and now you have to turn to what's in your right hand. Stop looking for an easy way out. What you want is to be effective, that's your real desire whether you know it or not. The counterpart to your misery and loss, potentially the only one.

You know they're not ever going to love you right? They love what you do or don't represent. What do you represent? So I want you to visualize tomorrow and the next day, and all the days after until the day the door closes on your wretched lukewarm existence and I can finally breath relief it's over- and then tell me about what you're going to do tomorrow. It should look like:

I'm going to strip out everything and anyone that's become dead weight
I'm going to skip my classes today because I need to buy amphetamines and root my phone
...and I'm switching my major anyways.
I'm opening a savings account
I'm reducing my class load to free up my schedule
Monday I'm going to start scouting properties

And that's your pace from here on out.
George Cublingdale - Fri, 12 Jul 2019 00:13:24 EST 5u3RlB6q No.530376 Reply
lmfaoo i just watched life on the line recently this comment is fucking hilarious

Biggest mistake of my life

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- Sun, 08 Dec 2019 23:14:38 EST OoW3LPRe No.532696
File: 1575864878011.jpg -(238448B / 232.86KB, 945x2048) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Biggest mistake of my life
The two year anniversary of when I made the biggest fuck up of my life upon me.

the story ends with
>we showed up at her house and it suddenly started snowing when the sky was clear moments ago
>she then goes into the bathroom for a few minutes and comes back a little sluggish
>she offers me cider, then she spills her coffee and says it's fine
>she then starts nodding off and begins snoring, her lips turn black for a a second then she wakes up
>I told her what happened and then she says this is the time of day she falls asleep
>she then escorts me out and tells me not to worry about it
>I converse with her later in the night and all is well
>I don't hear from her and a couple of days she is found dead in her room

shit is really bothering me today.

Her friend tried to get me to her pregnant and give her money, after she died, but I basically told her to fuck off and I moved across the country. She got another square to impregnate her, and shit,
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Martha Fankinwater - Fri, 27 Dec 2019 07:49:19 EST XiHtpV2+ No.532957 Reply
lol this nickel got dumped and he made up a story about how she died. nice try op but ur still a feyg
Graham Dollynock - Sat, 28 Dec 2019 01:32:33 EST n3M4YBVD No.532970 Reply
I miss her too ruralfag. She used to steal money from you so we could buy meth and fuck with our nasty genitals behind the gas station. Ughhhhh. I just came on her grave. Like, a meth cum tho.

I feel like a fool, am I?

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- Fri, 27 Dec 2019 05:09:32 EST BBXGfuLM No.532955
File: 1577441372367.jpg -(28228B / 27.57KB, 400x567) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. I feel like a fool, am I?
Almost exactly a year ago I had a brief fling with a girl I know, I saw her about 4 times and we had sex each time. I left the country on a year long trip shortly after and we parted very fondly. During the year she love reacted a lot of my stuff on Facebook and Instagram and commented flirty things on my pictures always with love emojis etc. I’m now back in the country and I want to properly pursue her but I feel a bit foolish... I don’t want her to think I’ve held a torch for her, been romanticising her, thinking of her (although I did a bit). I want to message her and ask to hang out but for some reason it feels a bit pathetic, like if we haven’t had anything for a year is it even still on the cards for me to just want to catch up with her? I know I’m for sure over thinking this but I just can’t get over feeling like an idiot for still being interested in her, like aren’t I supposed to be pre-occupied with all sorts of other things which I am supposed to have gained from this trip. I’m retarded but can someone help with a little perspective?
Shitting Crickleford - Fri, 27 Dec 2019 09:24:15 EST 3ScQQ4dj No.532960 Reply
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you're letting your ego get in the way, just reach out, most women love to hear you've been thinking about them anyway, obviously keep it casual, you don't want to seem desperate

anybody else cripplingly lonely?

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- Sat, 21 Dec 2019 15:24:39 EST fX6Yh9Du No.532892
File: 1576959879984.jpg -(34652B / 33.84KB, 421x316) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. anybody else cripplingly lonely?
i rlly don't have anybody i'm close to and it sucks. during the holidays everybody is so couply and it's hard to watch. pic unrelated but jhonen vasquez is my guy
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Basil Bundlebit - Thu, 26 Dec 2019 01:14:03 EST rmAGLofl No.532947 Reply
Always get a bit lonely around thanksgiving to christmas. Then my work starts to really hit the ground running after the new year so I forget about it and start making decent money and staying occupied.

It's funny how the brain works and all, you slow down and start to feel more and more shitty. You see someone you never noticed before but they have a certain smile one day and you don't stop thinking about them for a month. You work all the time and never enjoy anything and feel like you want all the down time you can get. When you get it you feel like shit. At least I'm stacking money back. For what I don't know, I'm too greedy to spend it and tried "retiring" earlier and found it miserable as fuck. Life is a struggle I guess. At least I'll be back to working constantly and making money in a couple weeks.

But holidays do suck.
verm - Thu, 26 Dec 2019 13:06:31 EST fX6Yh9Du No.532950 Reply
i've been looking at adopting a giant african snail. maybe an animal friend would be good for me
Shitting Cressleman - Thu, 26 Dec 2019 17:47:20 EST eB8V9UfJ No.532953 Reply
Dude that's from your neighbor's garden, put it back.

GF talks too much

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- Sun, 22 Dec 2019 03:30:38 EST meKKp2Ju No.532904
File: 1577003438675.jpg -(4262B / 4.16KB, 250x140) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. GF talks too much
I love my GF to death. She's awesome, she's a good person. she has an amazing career, she's loving, and she's just so awesome and is so much better than the woman I'm typically used to dating(ghetto and or trashy, slutty women). However, despite all of her pros, her cons are pretty awful. She cannot take any constructive criticism, she's very very emotional, and she talks so God damn much. I honestly zone out whenever she starts rambling for like 45mins-1 hour straight in the car. She also will tell stories and it'll be so fucking long because she goes into great detail when there is no need for it. Like for instance, she'll tell a story about going to Bestbuy to buy a new TV. A normal person would be like "yeah, I went to bestbuy, I had it narrowed down between 2 TVs and I took the cheaper LG." but she'll act as if she's telling some intense story and make it so god damn long instead of getting straight to the point and saving both of our time.

The obvious answer would be to tell her she talks too much and to try and do it in the most polite way possible but it's nearly impossible with her. If I tell her that (no matter how polite and respectful) it'll cause her to get so fucking sad and be all dramatic. So, any type of constructie criticism wont work.

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Rebecca Suffingwit - Wed, 25 Dec 2019 10:55:57 EST n3M4YBVD No.532938 Reply
I listen to your girlfriend's stories. She notices that you don't really care what she has to say and wonders why she even bothers with you. I just put my dick in her mouth when I need some quiet time.
Graham Dollynock - Sat, 28 Dec 2019 01:27:43 EST n3M4YBVD No.532968 Reply
Yeah. She was all like "anon don't care about me" and I said "there, there" and slowly lowered her head upon my penis. She opened her mouth and closed my eyes

Loneliness, clean slate in new country

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- Sat, 21 Dec 2019 17:35:32 EST 9AfMUf5G No.532894
File: 1576967732473.jpg -(3174603B / 3.03MB, 4032x1960) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Loneliness, clean slate in new country
Hey, all. I'm living in southern Spain and it seems rather hard to break into because I dont have a family. Spaniards remind me of mexicans only theyre not religious, and if they are, theyre very good at compartmentalizing it. I mention that because it's a huge upside for my being here. I've taught english in the bible belt --where I've lived my whole life-- and now I'm trying to have a clean slate by doing my job in Europe. It's quite nice here, but again;I'm having a hard time breaking in and I feel that pressing on top of my other issues, not that loneliness is anything new for me.

I'm sitting here in an Airbnb in Granada and I've been seeing all of these people with their kids walking around and I actually wnvy them because I've never been terribly close to anybody in my life. I know, raising kids is hell and all that jazz, but the only people that have ever wanted much to do with me were people that either wanted someone to throw a pity party in front of or use for some other purpose.

I'm 24 and my hobbies include drawing and reading. I dont know what could come of my posting this here, but here it is.
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Ebenezer Nicklefoot - Sat, 21 Dec 2019 18:04:38 EST 9AfMUf5G No.532896 Reply
How are you doing? And what country? I was wanting a clean slate and to move so that I wouldnt be bogged down by complicated relationships and pretending to be religious to fit in in my town.
verm - Sat, 21 Dec 2019 18:22:17 EST e7LlLDlF No.532897 Reply
atm i'm struggling pretty badly with my mental health. i'm in the uk, but i should be visiting mainland europe pretty soon - my background is basque and i'm hoping to visit austria at some point. good on you for actually making changes in your life to try and get the fresh start you want, i wish i was in a position where i could do the same
Phyllis Craddlestone - Sat, 21 Dec 2019 19:35:38 EST Bs7kqlWt No.532898 Reply
Go to plebbit /r/tefl, message the mods and ask for captainenema, he'll invite you to a server that will answer all your questions.

Faking subscription

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- Mon, 16 Dec 2019 17:56:52 EST xz4hjhxt No.532836
File: 1576537012294.jpg -(1241222B / 1.18MB, 3701x2644) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Faking subscription
How do I fake a prescription?

Europe not US
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Angus Nepperworth - Fri, 20 Dec 2019 18:52:49 EST jnas4L6T No.532885 Reply

lit af fam

*blowing smoke out nostrils emoji* *100 emoji* *10 clapping emojis*
John Gillerkit - Fri, 20 Dec 2019 18:54:53 EST eGS6zz6/ No.532886 Reply
There was a woman from ecuador in my house last night. She said lit af, but on the af she said "ey efff"
Clara Boshsot - Fri, 20 Dec 2019 19:17:39 EST oaTsjcKn No.532887 Reply
Hey, I'm mostly a guy.
But I mean
I can be whatever you want.

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