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420chan is Getting Overhauled - Changelog/Bug Report/Request Thread (Updated March 22)
Psychologist by John Chendlecocke - Thu, 23 Aug 2018 15:00:07 EST ID:wpBI363K No.526309 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Today I talked to my doctor about my mental health problems. First time I've ever done that and it wasn't easy. He told me to go to a psychologist and gave me some names and addresses to look up.

I just spent the past half hour looking up psychologists on a site that helps you look for a local psychologist. They all have a picture and a description of who they are and what services they offer, etc.

Now, I know this is going to sound prejudiced and unfair, but looking at those pictures is discouraging me from contacting any one of them. None of them look remotely like somebody I'd want to tell my deepest secrets to. I wouldn't even share my grocery list with half of them. They all look like obnoxious cunts who feed off smug and wear recycled hemp sandals or freshly-graduated rich kids who haven't experienced a single bit of real life, yet somehow will be able to guide mine?

I realize that I'm being biased and I'm sure most of them are genuine and helpful and all that, but what the fuck? Has anyone else experienced something like this before?
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Jarvis Pivingwell - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 12:34:15 EST ID:X1WDhwYW No.526331 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526312
Well just as long as you sincerely check you're not doing the first from time to time because I've been there and I've watched people be there. Especially people posting for "help" on internet boards. Don't get me wrong, I don't know you. I'm just saying.

Yeah my therapist was just a middle aged guy with glasses who spoke softly. I actually got therapy from a christian therapy group. I'm not religious and our sessions had no religious content at all, except he would occasionally say stuff a man of faith might you know? They were religious in the sense that they were trying to do what Jesus would do, they offered therapy at a donation rate, that place had expenses as it had rooms, bills, but the therapists worked for free once a week just to help. This guy actually worked a day job as a careers counselor in a college nearby. He felt like a bit of a cliche but his views on dealing with stuff resonated with me and so when he reassured me about things I felt it was genuine. I dunno maybe a man or woman like this is what you want. The risk of "christian counselor" is that you get some AA bullshit instead.

Definitely try a few more sources. Ask around. You're talking euros so I know you're at least 150 miles from me so I won't give you the name of the place I used.
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Oliver Chipperson - Sat, 25 Aug 2018 14:41:14 EST ID:wpBI363K No.526345 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526319
I appreciate the helpful words, thanks. I have never delved into philosophy before. I dropped out of school the week they started teaching us about Socrates. Could you perhaps link me to some lectures on Kierkegaard?

Having skimmed over his Wikipedia page (and, admittedly, struggled to make much sense as a lot of philosophy's terms and notions come across as gobbledygook to me) he does seem like an interesting chap. His thoughts on anxiety definitely resonate with me.

>>526320
>If one starts to give you orders in any way, or does fucking tests, then get the fuck out.
I definitely will. I'm only looking for somebody to talk to. I don't even know if it will help all that much, but I'm sure it would do me a world of good to finally say out loud all the thoughts and worries and feelings of despair that linger around in my mind and take shots at me every waking fucking moment. Only I know about my suffering, you know? Perhaps all I'm looking for is acknowledgment. I don't know.
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Oliver Chipperson - Sat, 25 Aug 2018 14:54:18 EST ID:wpBI363K No.526346 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526331
I fully understand. A lot of what you hear and see, whether in real life or the internet, is a form of posturing. And I'm not criticizing here, I've done my fair share of it. I suppose it comes with the territory. People in a state of depression have a habit of falling at the first hurdle. I'm most certainly one of those people. It's lead to me doing every piece of mental gymnastics possible to excuse myself from not even attempting that first hurdle, fearing I will fail anyway and sink once more into that dark place where only anguish and hopelessness keep you company.

The man you talked to sounds like a blessing, no pun intended. Just a man genuinely wanting to help people. How long did you see him for?

Again, I appreciate your advice and help. I just looked up some more sources of help and found an organization that helps and advises people for free. They claim they'll look at what the best options are for you and help you choose. I think I might go there and see what they make of my problems and if they know any psychologists that would be beneficial to me.

Anyway, thanks again. I'll let you know how it goes if I don't hit the bottle and wake up a couple of months from now.


"aggressive spark" not there in sex life by Samuel Blerryhon - Fri, 17 Aug 2018 01:09:01 EST ID:+Dxwg5ZQ No.526185 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I can never be a man and aggressive during sex and with women. I skirt by and get laid solely off my looks (I busted my ass for years in the gym and worked my ass off) but I'm still a timid fuck who can't venture into the "dark" side of women.

I've never gotten off by a blowjob in my life. I think it's cause I subconsciously don't want to blow a load and "defile" a girl.

I SUCK at dirty talk. I can never whisper something with confidence in a girl's ear and push her boundaries and be the "asshole" that she hates but simultaneously loves. I'm never "desired". Meanwhile a Chad can say something completely goofy like "youre a fucking slut and I'll send you home to daddy covered in cum" and she'll love it. If I did something like that I'd get walked out on and ridiculed.

Girls will fuck me for physical reasons alone ok sure hooray, but that fire in her that she's getting fucked by a Man... I can't trigger it. I can't stoke it.

And then when I hear other guys talk about their sex adventures with women, they seem so... Satisfied. It seems so real. "yeah I came on her tits and she fucking loved it the little skank". I've cum on plenty of tits and other shit and honestly I just forget about it. It wasn't so exciting. That lingering sense of triumph isn't there for lack of a better word.

Something carnal is missing from my sex life. Something aggressive and daring. I can sex multiple girls from tinder or even be in a committed LTR and I still feel like I'm not being masculine enough.

Am I being crazy or am I on to something?
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Jenny Cidgehall - Thu, 23 Aug 2018 16:43:38 EST ID:cBYQH4Mo No.526311 Ignore Report Quick Reply
the best sex ive ever had was never aggressive but very tender and loving with lots of grinning and laughing. way more fun to have happy nice sex IMHO.
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Phoebe Bushway - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 18:45:14 EST ID:kPK7t16O No.526338 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526185
Aggressive sex is just one facet of a good time. You have to mix it up a bit when you're in a long-term commitment with someone but otherwise it's OK to be who you are; maybe you'll meet someone who you really want to please, then find it in yourself.

You might be lacking more than just prowess in sexual aggression, but in confrontation in general. Do you feel like you'd do anything to avoid a fight/altercation? You can take up some combat sports, get used to clinching someone around the neck and throwing your knee into them. It's not like you'll start beating women up but you might feel more confident at handling them roughly, which so many enjoy.
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Priscilla Crillerdick - Sat, 25 Aug 2018 11:07:00 EST ID:2bBsMclN No.526343 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>526196
> "oh I'd let my college flings fuck me in the ass but my good boy husband only gets missionary cause he doesn't make me feel like that."

Lmao.

We get it man, you think you're alpha, that you have something to prove. You felt the need to mention in your post that you work out, that your good looking, that you've fucked multiple girls, yadda yadda.

Let you in on a little truth: There's no alpha and beta, that whole psychology between wolves having a pack leader was immediately disproven, by the very same person who came up with the idea. What actually occurs is that pack leaders change constantly throughout the course of the lifetime of the pack and there's no true natural order, no dog falls in line.

The same can be said about primates. Now, how does apply to you? You crave adoration. But not only adoration, but a lust, a lust that seems to be superficial. It's all about you, not about her and that's not right.

Bumping nasties is only half the equation. There are many many girls who are sapiophiles, attracted to brains, not brawn. That deep down is charisma, which is something you appear to lack.

You want girls to want you, then up your pre-sex game. Half of what's hot about sex is what occurs before, not during.

If your greatest fear is that you'll be stuck in a boring sexless marriage, then you don't know many married people. I do, and trust me when you get hitched with the same person and to satisfy urges things get more perverted, not less. Not always the truth, but certainly not the opposite.


Feel like a loser by Hedda Dengerford - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 10:16:48 EST ID:BgYDrKs0 No.526323 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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Guys how do i not feel like a loser
i feel like i can't do anything
i know that i can do stuff, or at least have a good shot at doing stuff
i've done tons of stuff that i didn't think i could do
but there is a dark cloud that i can't shake
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Hedda Dengerford - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 11:48:35 EST ID:BgYDrKs0 No.526328 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526327
I am not worried about the content of my tattoos. I am however worried about being awkward
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Graham Geddlewater - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 15:25:49 EST ID:fo1DsC/a No.526337 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526328
Try making a 3rd thread jackass.
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' God !!Bwteoy2D - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 20:46:20 EST ID:hQScIyLB No.526339 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>526328
Yeah, mate, even I have to admit that you;ve made this a bit too two dimensional for most people's taste on this board.

You need to spice things up a little bit. Get a little bitch along, a little hitch down the line.


Anger issues by Esther Clashsirk - Wed, 22 Aug 2018 20:13:13 EST ID:Pwq0Fy/H No.526294 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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So long story short I’m dealing with a lot of shit right now and people that were my friends continue to duck me around. Making fake online profiles and making me look gay and amongst other slanderous things. Regardless no matter what I do In terms of drugs I’m still so ducking angry I can’t even handle it anymore.

The original fucker tricked me with my feelings toward another individual to deflect what he actually did. I can’t explain the things I wanna do but I’m to old for this shitX and can’t get in trouble but god damn... idk what to do. I can’t get this shit off my mind and it’s effecting my day to day activities. Not to mention if I do something retaliation will come.
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Lillian Fubberforth - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 13:01:23 EST ID:Pwq0Fy/H No.526332 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526321
Nah, that’s not the case man. I’ve sorted it out with all parts involved. Even if something comes up I’ve learned a valuable lesson from this.

Heck if I’m wrong who cares at this point. I’m not going to waste my time on tribal crap and if people can’t spot a fake account I could care less anymore really.
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Lillian Fubberforth - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 13:05:50 EST ID:Pwq0Fy/H No.526333 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526321
I feel like this is just a bait post too but maybe your trying to help
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Henry Serrystone - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 13:42:43 EST ID:HUUepmZy No.526335 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526333
I apologize I was being a jackass.


can't or won't get a tattoo by Cedric Fanderford - Thu, 23 Aug 2018 18:30:29 EST ID:BgYDrKs0 No.526314 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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i really wanna get tattoos but i feel like i'm gonna be awkward when i get em
should i just do it or wait a few days until i feel better. i've been smoking a lot of weed lately. maybe i need to be sober for a bit before i do it. or maybe i'm just being a pussy and putting off my destiny
i don't know what to do boys

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i1fqfrX4BWE
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Jarvis Pivingwell - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 12:15:32 EST ID:X1WDhwYW No.526329 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526315
Not a tattoo guy but a lot of my friends have tattoos. It's going to be on your body forever. Research the artist, check their rep, check their existing work, make sure you're happy they'll do your body justice. If you just want a tattoo for the sake of having one you're going to be one of those people with shit tattoos.
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Hedda Dengerford - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 12:23:30 EST ID:BgYDrKs0 No.526330 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526329
fuck your gay ass advice
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Jarvis Pivingwell - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 14:35:08 EST ID:X1WDhwYW No.526336 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526330
Lol you're fucked.


People don't take mental health problems seriously by John Blegglespear - Wed, 22 Aug 2018 17:18:42 EST ID:Y1Z1t2nj No.526288 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I'm back in college for the fall and classes just started up again. I had a panic attack and had to leave class early today. It was in a massive lecture hall with around 100 people in it. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed. My mental health is really bad, to the point that it's ruining my life.

But you know what's weird? People don't seem to think it's a real problem.

When I was a in wheelchair, which was just a minor inconvenience, people understood that I had a problem, and they were really nice and even over-accommodating for me. But when I mention my mental health problem, which is significantly worse than when I had a broken leg, people think I'm just exaggerating it. Just get over it. Just deal with it. There's nothing to worry about. Dumb shit like that.

It's like, if someone can't physically see the problem with their own eyes, they don't think it's real.

Have you ever had issues that people didn't take seriously? How did you deal with it?
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Isabella Cheddledock - Wed, 22 Aug 2018 20:27:49 EST ID:JYfsXITI No.526296 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526293
There's a lot of overlap with Axis I and II disorders and most people with OCPD have OCD as comorbidity. Likewise, most people with OCD have perfectionistic, orderly traits associated with OCPD. Rhett and Link are shitty sources on the subject btw.
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Simon Pabblelug - Thu, 23 Aug 2018 12:51:47 EST ID:fFqdWlVJ No.526308 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526288

Former college professor. The reason that barely anybody takes anxiety and panic attacks seriously at a college level is because of the countless numbers of students that use it as a way to game the system.

Failing all your exams? Past the add-drop date? Don't wanna take the voluntary withdraw hit on your record? Then find some internet doctor to write a letter saying you have anxiety, have an "attack" in class once, and then you'll get the medical withdraw that doesn't go on your record.

It's a bummer for people who have actual issues, but staged anxiety attacks are the most common scam that undergrads pull in order to wipe bad grades from their transcript.
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Wesley Callydock - Fri, 24 Aug 2018 13:27:06 EST ID:g46HE+48 No.526334 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>526288
Idunno OP. I had my first panic attack a month ago on my way to class, my chest hurt and I just sat there in pain until class was over. I dissociate away from stress though, so the panic attack was more physical than mental.
I say get a pet rat and bring it into classes. Focusing on making sure the little guy/gal is ok and has nomnoms. Not as cool as an orangutan, though.


Gaslit by Sidney Ceblingstone - Thu, 16 Aug 2018 09:36:04 EST ID:gDRP1RaE No.526148 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I was gaslit in a mental ward by a girl who tricked me into caring about her a LOT by probably fake suicide attempts.

Since then she started stalking me and fucking people I knew, when she showed up at uni I literally collapsed and didn't remember it until like 2 years later.

I'm now 7+ grand in debt, have no friends and have more mental problems than I did in the first place.

Halp.
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Jarvis Coshcocke - Sat, 18 Aug 2018 12:13:10 EST ID:RdJtcLxF No.526251 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526245

Listen man, you're just being stupid.
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George Fuckinghood - Sat, 18 Aug 2018 13:50:36 EST ID:oVfc2b+1 No.526253 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526239
Can definetely relate since I have ptsd and ocd related to humiliation. I've been abused by my mother at home and rejected by peers in highschool. I'm 20 now and shit just goes on, constant intrusive thoughts related to a guy that fucked the girl I loved, constant anxiety of being rejected, flashbacks, chronic depression, etc...
Glad to hear that things can go better, at least. Thanks for sharing your experience.
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Emma Shakeville - Mon, 20 Aug 2018 10:16:13 EST ID:gDRP1RaE No.526269 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526250

Not sure if I could stand staring loneliness in the face that hard, but it could be worth a try, at least trying not to be so honest all the time.



"Friends" disapearing because of their crotchfruits (and still demanding favors) by Megalo Nakapacifist - Sat, 17 Mar 2018 03:29:18 EST ID:DZIUR4rS No.522843 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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A very good friend of mine managed to breed and now has two crotch-fruits squeezed out of his soon-to-be wife.

He gave up his job,
just to move to his wifes home to breed there,
without even considering the dangers of missing money and missing spare-time! We were still best friends at the time.

Its been 3 years now and despite him promising meet-ups we never seen each other again, only some shitty pics of his crotchfruit over social-media.

The meetings we had with my GF and his fiance just stopped slowly. No more going to concerts, no more driving to the beach, no more gaming together, no more watching movies together, no more parties, no more crazy shit.

Now he has no job, no money and no friends.

It just sickens me I lost a good friend I could talk and laugh about everything!

AND NOW THE WORST PART:
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John Biblingman - Tue, 17 Jul 2018 00:09:03 EST ID:QvcxQVsf No.525580 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525553
Is it with the air of deep social judgement, or is it with the air of sharing a hobby they find far more interesting than you do?
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Cornelius Sonkinson - Tue, 17 Jul 2018 00:34:59 EST ID:TEx/3Mtm No.525581 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>525580
It's like they are on a beach with a stranded whale slowly dying.
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Crapes Housing - Sun, 19 Aug 2018 08:22:55 EST ID:fdUcm8bq No.526264 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>522843
Hope you'll read this.
I had a truly amazing girfriend (just friends) who was kinda a soul-friend.
I discovered so many things in this world through her, so many great experiences.

Then she moved away and we didn't see each other for a long time.
When I met her recently she had been turned into a breeding mombie with no more personality.
I was kinda terrified.
All she had to talk about were disgusting child-related things like poop, snot and puke
while beeing interrupted by her screaming vag-demon.

My advice to you is:
Ghost that person and find new friends!
People that can't make you feel good on the inside are not worth your time!


Is there a connection between chalk and a certain drug? by Clara Savingpidge - Sat, 11 Aug 2018 15:45:23 EST ID:8BfTWzdH No.526075 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I know I sound like a paranoid middle age mother, but it's a genuine question.

My sister uses drugs recreationally, as do I, but I don't know what she's using. MDMA and coke I guess, but it hasn't been a problem so far. However last night was the first time an ambulance had to be called so I'm worried. I've seen her drunk and high plenty of times but she was acting straight up weird yesterday, I knew she was on something long before things went bad.

Simultaneously over the last month mysterious pieces of chalk have appeared in the apartment. At first I thought they were a halved pills but they're just short of chalk like the ones used on a board. Random things end up pockets all the time but I've found these pieces of chalk four times now in a short period of time, more than a coincidence even if it doesn't involve drugs.

I can't think of anything, but I know there are less than obvious connections such as MDMA users eating magnesium pills to help with the chewing, so I'm wondering if there's any drug or method of use that would utilize chalk?
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Albert Punningkot - Thu, 16 Aug 2018 23:50:37 EST ID:RXhXFbbB No.526184 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526144
The lord has speaketh. Abide by his laws or lightning shall strike you mortals.
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Priscilla Sammleworth - Sat, 18 Aug 2018 11:17:17 EST ID:dwxJXzd4 No.526249 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526144
you got a source on that?
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' God !!vVWR8L52 - Sun, 19 Aug 2018 01:05:10 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.526258 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526249
Just try it man, it works!


So ran into this girl from like 3 months ago by Eliza Crarringketch - Sat, 18 Aug 2018 12:16:14 EST ID:xBssPwJc No.526252 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I should start with I suck with women, not terrible, but i'd say just a tier above it, and I haven't had sex for a very, very long while and even then it was more of a lucky fluke thing then anything. And i'm in my late 20's.
So keeping this short.
I went out with a bud to the beach, and he brought 2 girls he knew with him, 1 of which I was kinda interested in, don't ask me why I just was.
I think I could've made something out of it...but I never actually managed to make a conversation that was very long, but we laughed a bit, even poked a bit of fun I think, nothing extraordinary, however, I guess I keep wondering if I could've taken it further? I stopped asking myself about her for a month or two, once we said our goodbyes in that day, I just didn't bring myself to ask for numbers or anything. I don't know.
However, I just stumbled into her today. Saw her in the distance and just walked up and said hi, if a little nervous lol but whatever.
We talked for a bit, again nothing too much out of circumstance, but we traded numbers and the idea hanging out (as in, like me, my mate, and the other girl) was left out in the open - which can mean anything I guess, but the tone for it at least was favorable(she brought it up), as in, she'd be up for it.

I'm wondering though, should I try and talk to her, like try and set up a coffee or something...I have no idea what to do. I still have a lot of issues like, I don't really know how to have fun. Money's ok-ish though.

I don't want to bring myself to be the annoying twat who keeps texting, boring the fuck out of the girl to the point she just flat out ignores you. The fact I also don't get many girl acquaintances (nil) puts a bit of pressure on me, as in, her reaction is worth too much...not sure i'm making sense.

Should I talk to her, maybe ask her out or maybe just talk with my mate and try having us all go out somewhere or something?

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Awe' !!Bwteoy2D - Sat, 18 Aug 2018 15:36:57 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.526254 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526252
You've already set yourself up for failure by being needy. The way it works is not that you are getting something from her in exchange for being nice to her or whatever, the way it works is that you offer something to her and if she's down for it then you say come to daddy and do some cool things together. If not, well she's not the only one who is potentially able to appreciate who you are.
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Phyllis Bregglehon - Sat, 18 Aug 2018 17:14:20 EST ID:yDKihQN5 No.526255 Ignore Report Quick Reply
Don't hit up her phone for any other reason than the one agreed upon. Mutual, group meet up for hangs. It's kind of annoying when people use friendship as a trojan horse for their own interests sexually and girls are wise to it.

You could maybe get away with some idle small talk but let's try not over invest in a text conversation, this isn't even close to deal breaking. If you feel the energy in the inbox is right, throw a "hows it going anyways" or a link/image of something topical and relevant to past convos. Don't do this shit if it's not gonna be executed with confidence.

Tell your mate you like this chick and want him to jump out with you, he might do the honorable thing and help distract the chick's friend while you get to at least work up a bit of rapor. At this stage, it's all about building up an actual chemistry, rather than securing a date. If you can, incorporate at least one or two drinks into the activities for the day.

Mention things you were wanting to do soon but you really do have to pick your play and gamble on it. Whether it's cinema, music, galleries, events, food... say there is something out there that you are genuinely into, that you've been meaning to "check out". If she bites, she will be like "omg sounds sick i wanna go" and at that point, you play it cool, don't immediately jump down her throat demanding her schedule for the next 2 months.If she doesn't bite, but shows interest, you could always proposition her with "you wanna check it out sometime?" and see how that lands.

From there, you could begin navigating the territory of hanging out with JUST HER, in a public setting. Try keep it fun, try keep it interesting, don't just be a boring robot who wants to get coffee or hang out at a bar until drunk. Show some initiative, and if you feel clueless, just ask friends or lurk facebook to see what cool stuff they get upto for ideas.

It's a tough world to navigate man. Stay authentic, better to find out that a girl isn't into who you are - than in love with who you are not.
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Reuben Danderwell - Sat, 18 Aug 2018 18:23:43 EST ID:vYe3Po+d No.526256 Ignore Report Quick Reply
just text them all and arrange it, see if you guys click and then ask her out
you got this fam


I Hate The Human Race by Beatrice Shittingwill - Thu, 16 Aug 2018 17:07:08 EST ID:AwB3yqIM No.526168 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I hate the human race so much. A while ago, I learned about the murder of Junko Furuta. DO NOT READ THIS LINK unless you want to lose the last shred of faith you had in humanity or if you don't want to be furious.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Junko_Furuta

I hate the human race so much. Hell, I think that story has actually made me racist to Japanese people, who I already had a low opinion of due to their whale hunting, super harsh college and work culture, and other things. No wonder they have an entire mountain dedicated to suicide. Not only that, but so many other fucked up things.

>The Tail of Tears
>The Holocaust
>The Murder of Emmett Till
>The Murder of Kitty Genovese
>The extinction of many endangered species of animals.
>Global Warming
>The North Pacific Gyre
>The Spanish Inquisition
>The Crusades (both sides)
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Awe' God !!Bwteoy2D - Fri, 17 Aug 2018 14:03:09 EST ID:B/1t3ZFg No.526205 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526168
You are where you are, no one is at fault that everything exists, everyone is responsible for what they chose and in every piece of light you can find darkness and in every piece of darkness you can find light. Chose your destiny Beatrice.

Circumstances do not matter, only the state of being matters.

(bro tip: the state from which you take action has more influence on what environment you find yourself in than the state you just ponder, so don't be afraid to ponder, but act on what you prefer)
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Martha Henkinwater - Fri, 17 Aug 2018 15:18:31 EST ID:lBwVUAhn No.526208 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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>>526176
Yeah, no other creatures are harmed but us by global warming and the garbage patch in the oceans lmao
look at the fucking news you moron
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Shit Govingson - Fri, 17 Aug 2018 22:28:02 EST ID:JY4MVM0x No.526213 Ignore Report Quick Reply
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The Spanish Inquisition was necessary. Spain was overrun by a foreign califate, Ferdinand and Isabella did what needed to be done to rid their land of foreign influence.


Have no desire for mundane conversations by Archie Murdfuck - Fri, 17 Aug 2018 03:49:12 EST ID:vUaVEVlD No.526188 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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>Today at work on lunch break
>coworker immidiately calls his mom and talks about his day, then calls his girlfriend and does the same thing.


Then I just realized I never talk about my day with anyone because I just don't have the desire. Is this normal?
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Sidney Fudgesodge - Fri, 17 Aug 2018 07:36:34 EST ID:vYe3Po+d No.526191 Ignore Report Quick Reply
wow ur so unique!
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Barnaby Crenningwill - Fri, 17 Aug 2018 10:12:53 EST ID:hexN5d3H No.526198 Ignore Report Quick Reply
You just told this board about your day, so how is that any different?

Isn't this thread a mundane conservation, kind of like the ones you're complaining about?
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Samuel Honeyfield - Fri, 17 Aug 2018 10:17:08 EST ID:vWf9v8wW No.526199 Ignore Report Quick Reply
yeah I think it's called "being an introvert"
as far as know some people are like this and it's considered normal


how do you deal with depressed people by Priscilla Drummertut - Wed, 15 Aug 2018 10:35:06 EST ID:1jbaRQWU No.526131 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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trying to cheer her up is making me want to kill myself

no matter how much i try to support it doesn't make a difference

why try anymore
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Priscilla Drummertut - Wed, 15 Aug 2018 19:16:37 EST ID:1jbaRQWU No.526139 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526133
not even just that

she had serious thoughts about suicide again yesterday

how am i even supposed to deal with this
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Lillian Pumblebane - Wed, 15 Aug 2018 20:05:48 EST ID:cBYQH4Mo No.526140 Ignore Report Quick Reply
happiness comes from within. so you gotta stick that dick deep within if u wanna have an effect.
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Hugh Sanningshit - Fri, 17 Aug 2018 03:43:16 EST ID:jfR0c7UU No.526187 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526131
Some people get off on their misery OP. Plus it gets her attention. Can’t help someone that doesn’t wanna be helped. Even if they say they do, actions are gonna speak louder than words. Even if she is suicidal and winds up doing it, only she will be to blame for not appreciating people like you trying to lift her back up. I think the best way to help her anymore OP is to ignore her and leave her alone unless you see real effort when these episodes occur. Otherwise you are going to get dragged down with her, and that makes her a fucking asshole.


is my dad a horrible person? by Fucking Blatherville - Wed, 15 Aug 2018 15:02:00 EST ID:em7ipYii No.526134 Ignore Report Reply Quick Reply
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I don't know how to feel about my father anymore. On the outside he has a friendly and outgoing demeanor but inside he's a self centered and judgemental asshole. He acts like a stereotypical baby boomer, the kind that feels entitled to everything and will throw a fit if they don't get their way. The ones that are hypocritical and completely unaware of it. Basically he has the emotional intelligence of a fucking toddler, and it's embarrassing to see a 60 year old man act that way.

Over the course of my lifetime there would be times where he'll lose his shit over something and say unforgivable things to me and my family. Even when I was a child he'd get pissed off about something and take it out on me. Being the oldest and only male child I usually got brunt of it. He'd never hit me (although he's come close) but he'd verbally abuse me, call me loser, a failure, etc. My father is an intimidating figure and when I was younger he'd terrify me when he would do this. Now I'm used to it and I don't take what he says to heart but it will still put me in a bad mood.

Usually after these episodes where he'd act like a shithead he'd apologize to me and we'd move on. Back then I was willing to forgive him because he would show remorse but the pattern would always continue. I'm 24 now and he still acts this way. Last week we got into another fight and in his rage he admitted that he's never liked me. This time he hasn't apologize and I don't think I'd forgive him even if he did.

I don't know. I feel conflicted, I'm describing him at this worst. When he's not acting like this he's a okay father. He taught me a lot of life skills that were valuable, like being true to your word, the merits of hard work, how to stand up for yourself. Stuff that dads are supposed to teach their kids. I always wanted to believe that when he acted cruel it wasn't his true personality, but now I think that this is how he is inside.

Part of me wants to try and salvage this relationship, and part of me wants to punch him in the mouth.
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Alice Sedgebot - Thu, 16 Aug 2018 18:40:24 EST ID:ka63e54W No.526175 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526171
No, it's about scorning that which would destroy you. Growing up under those people as parents is like being born with a poisonous dagger in your soul, brooding anguish. I choose myself over them and endeavour to protect myself
This is natural and absolutely necessary.
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Albert Punningkot - Thu, 16 Aug 2018 23:41:08 EST ID:RXhXFbbB No.526183 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526167
Stop being a judgemental fucktard. If you don't like what OP has to say then don't read his post and sure as hell don't put him down and post your negative bullshit.
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Martha Henkinwater - Fri, 17 Aug 2018 15:19:52 EST ID:lBwVUAhn No.526209 Ignore Report Quick Reply
>>526167
>bahhh my daddy spanked me when i was a shit that means it's the same as abuse

Seems like he didn't spank you hard enough


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