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Kirt is an ass

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- Tue, 21 Jul 2020 01:21:51 EST /a0EWK+P No.535383
File: 1595308911384.jpg -(40203B / 39.26KB, 650x650) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Kirt is an ass
Kirt wiped my posts from every board, how do I respond to this?

Just move on, find another website? I've been banned from everything, even zooville

What the fuck is going on
Cyril Drollernane - Tue, 21 Jul 2020 07:28:06 EST nKYzhkwM No.535387 Reply
So take a hint and stop posting here. Don't stay where you're obviously not wanted.
George Bunlock - Wed, 22 Jul 2020 09:34:32 EST fsygUW+v No.535407 Reply
ask yourself why you've been banned from everything. Maybe the problem is you.
James Blendlenore - Wed, 22 Jul 2020 10:04:01 EST ZLNL16wy No.535408 Reply
learn from your mistakes, address your personal failings and learn from them.

break out of the old person, shed that skin and become someone new.

Quitting a job, fuck am I doing

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- Tue, 21 Jul 2020 20:30:51 EST Ef85dTBS No.535399
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I'm over 25, I have a decent living level & wage. But now work has become stressful enough unemployment (my country has a social net) sounds really nice in comparison.

I can hardly sleep 5 hours straight. My ability to focus my attention is gone, I had a hard time writing this coherently, and now that I've gone through the process of resigning they just keep adding on more stress and expectations for stuff before I leave.

I just feel like not waking up and only leaving my bed for absolutely necessary things only.

I'm high off my mind and still can't sleep. I still feel like crying. My emotions have gone really strong and fucked up since the insomnia began.

It's the first time I've had to leave a real job not because of moving or schooling or downsizing, but because it's just fucking unhealthy. I thought I was lucky not to lose it due to covid, but this is still bad for my health. This feels awful.
Wesley Gepperway - Tue, 21 Jul 2020 23:14:49 EST BRaxH0KA No.535401 Reply
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Leave it, you won’t regret it. I had a nice office job with all sorts of benefits and hope of a financially comfortable future just last year. I realized it was rather quickly killing me through overtime, sedentary lifestyle, stress, and a lack of any outside life.

I quit after a month of thinking about it. Then I got a manual labor job since my tourism job got cancelled with the 2020 apocalypse. Also spent the time getting back in shape and eating healthy. Then I got another job in tourism and now I’m out hiking and outdoors all day and getting paid.

I have no health insurance and don’t make a lot of money, but damn am I happy and healthy.

If it feels good, do it.
Esther Menkinridge - Wed, 22 Jul 2020 00:01:42 EST Ef85dTBS No.535402 Reply
I've started the steps, now it's just the countdown for the "courtesy" days before I'm out the door. But damn does this countdown feel a lot longer than it is.

I'd originally wondered if I'd regret my decision, but since it hasn't gotten any better since I started the steps, I've come to be fairly confident in my decision.

I'm glad you got out of such a situation yourself, sounds like you're doing much better.

The dreaded late in life virginity - suggestions for approaching this in a mature and healthy way?

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- Thu, 02 Jul 2020 11:41:43 EST GkC5zk+y No.535197
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Hello /QQ/,

Recently I found myself in a bit of a quandary. I spent a majority of high school/college as a socially awkward, hallucinogenic drug abusing, loner-type unable to get a girlfriend. I am the only person to blame - I was a drug abusing asocial weirdo so it is no surprise people did not want to be around me. I am now 26 years old with a good career, my own place, and made a lot of progress in forgiving myself and letting go of a lot of self-loathing that plagued me for years.After months of extreme isolation during this lock down (and hitting the internet porn a little too hard) I found myself somewhat fixated on my non-existent romantic life and I have come here to see if there are any suggestions on how I should approach this delicate situation. Sexual repression does not work, just look at the catholic church. I thought quitting porn/fapping would help but it just made me think about sex even more. I know this is silly and its not that big of a deal, but I am caught in a feedback loop of thinking about it and getting nervous about the whole thing which makes me think about it more. I feel like something has to be done so I can move on with my life already.

What I have been considering is the following:

  1. Escorts: Get it all over with in one hour. I am way to focused on the idea of sex, turning a mole hill into a mountain and treating it like the holy grail. Perhaps getting the main event done and out of the way will force me to see its not all its cracked up to be and help with self-confidence around women. I recently contacted an escort but backed out at the last minute due to fear of STDs, an arrest record, getting robbed, etc. it's a lot of things that could go wrong just to satisfy an animalistic desire. I also know this will be an empty experience devoid of any real human connection and I think that is what is at the heart of what I am seeking. Is this what hitting rock bottom feels like?

2. Online dating: A safer bet than escorts, however how will these women react when I tell them I have never even kissed a girl? Other than a girlfriend in middle school I am starting from square one. Am I even capable of intimacy? Surely I will have to tell them this because it will become obvious how inexperienced I am? These are the things swirling around in mind of the late-in-life virgin that have prevented me from going through with any of this. Fear of rejection - how can someone take so much acid and still have a frail little ego? I am an average looking person not really worried about my looks but I am very worried about my social abilities.

3. Work on self-improvement: I am I not ready for this? Am I inviting more trouble into my life? Love is an emotional minefield that I may not be prepared for. Maybe a combination of psychotherapy and increased socialization will help me get over this? I have come to recognize that no manic-pixie-dream girl is going to save me from crippling loneliness and that I have to be the one to step up to solve this. Girls, and people in general, do not want to be around a depressed neurotic.This has played into my increasing loneliness but I find my neuroticism getting worst due to loneliness; again it's another feedback loop. Maybe I need to start working on solving the causes of why women want nothing to do with me which comes down to my own emotional and social problems.

TL;DR: Late in life virgin starting to get a handle on life, TFW no GF, how to start from square one? Obsessing over sex and not realizing the importance of human connection and having someone to confide in - worried I am turning into an Elliot Roger type by fixating on it. Escort vs. online dating vs. therapy to address underlying issues?

I appreciate anyone for reading and any advice, It helped me think about some things just typing this out. I want to stop obsessing over this and just move on. Sex and love was intended to be a beautiful thing (at leas that's what the songs, television programs, and advertisements told me) but right now it just makes me feel sick to my stomach.
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Sidney Tootville - Wed, 15 Jul 2020 16:39:47 EST ZLNL16wy No.535302 Reply
I have read everything here and I still don't see any problem.

Do you want something you don't have? Are you trying to fit in?
Phineas Badgemure - Thu, 16 Jul 2020 08:13:01 EST Dhz56B+T No.535312 Reply
Well I think the dude wants intimacy and definitely a good friend is better than a partner for emotional intimacy and support (because you're not so heavily interwoven). But yeah it is pretty nice to have a long term partner who you know will have your back unconditionally. Haha like Will and Jada. No seriously that is a real partnership. You get your hands real dirty after the honeymoon is over and it's just the two of you and your unresolved issues from childhood and the shit you let slide when it was cute.

Anyway these days if you want to have a girlfriend or whatever you kind of have to fuck them first for some reason. So yeah he wants a gf and he needs to fuck to do that because he wants to feel the squishy physical love and the heavy heavy burden of taking on another person's issues. Probably for biological and social reasons like many humans do. Because of american pie and romcoms.
Betsy Pottinglat - Tue, 21 Jul 2020 12:52:33 EST NIDkq7hi No.535389 Reply
not jerking off will give u ht emotivation to go find that dopamine from bolowing your load somehwere else, also i think girls like virgins because then you will remembber them forever also they might not. just you know go to events that you think are fun an djust hangout. try to make some friends before getting a girlfriend

Crushes while on long term relationship

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- Mon, 20 Jul 2020 10:00:15 EST PhwkQlF/ No.535370
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I keep on developing strong crushes on other girls even if I'm on a long term relationship with a beautiful girl. Any experience on this? It kills me every time..
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Hannah Mivingwill - Mon, 20 Jul 2020 18:36:47 EST 1SSFeKJF No.535379 Reply
Yeah there's a few approaches.

I think accepting that you will have crushes and it's not a big deal might be a sensible one for OP. If OP is continuing to work on the relationship and their partner is and they are good for each other than that's fine. It's only a problem if they drop everything and neglects his other half to fawn over a crush. However if you realise decent partners or at least ones who seem good from a moderate distance aren't super rare it's easier just to ignore them or not act on the attraction and chemistry.

You cannot control your feelings directly. They are ideas. You can control how you react to them and that means whether you obsess over and feed them, push them away, or just let them float past, or anything in between.

I guess intrusive thoughts are harder to let go, but then a lot of people's first reaction to a thought they don't like is to try to flee it, which sometimes just means they're thinking about that thought by trying to avoid it. Sometimes that works, sometimes it backfires. I think for something that is normal healthy thought, it'd be better to normalise it and not let it affect you than avoid it entirely.
Polly Garringdut - Mon, 20 Jul 2020 18:50:17 EST PhwkQlF/ No.535381 Reply
Thanks. I have to say though, these crushes are making me question my love for her. I've been living with her for a few years already, and it seems that everything she does now annoys me. At the same time though, I have nightmares where I lose her and I feel like losing my life. What the fuck?
Nell Bladdleledge - Mon, 20 Jul 2020 20:55:52 EST kR9Oub6I No.535382 Reply
Yeah sure.

Well you gotta keep talking to your partner. Theres probably some issues that are stopping you from fully connecting to your girlfriend. It happens to everyone after time. You become comfortable. But that's not enough. You have to make sure that you both know that youre in all the way.

Petty annoyances? See that shit you can ignore in the first year of a relationship but after that, well into the years, you need to communicate that you would like her to act differently or whatever.

That's what it is. Of course it's easier to fantasize about the next woman. Instead get real with the one you have. Make her cum 5 times in a row.

people always think i am patronising them

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- Sat, 18 Jul 2020 07:24:03 EST TtXni/Rr No.535329
File: 1595071443504.jpg -(81656B / 79.74KB, 800x450) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. people always think i am patronising them
hello, I have noticed a pattern. People always tell me i am talking to them like they are a child or that i am patronising them. I wonder if this is because i don't seem as stupid as I am so when I talk to people on my own level they assume I am a smart person talking down to them? I have no idea. But I thought you guys could help by answering these questions for me (or maybe you have other ideas?):

  • When you are being talked down to, how do you know?
  • What are the clues?
  • What kind of things do you notice that help you recognise you are being talked down to?
  • What kind of things would let you know that you are not being talked down to?
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Hedda Buzzwell - Sat, 18 Jul 2020 10:10:19 EST TtXni/Rr No.535335 Reply

Ok that helps.

Don't answer questions nobody asked. Uff that's hard when you have ADHD and go through phases of really intense special interests... I can do it!
Eliza Duckgold - Sat, 18 Jul 2020 12:04:55 EST KMoXyrfn No.535336 Reply
Develop a really intense special and genuine interest in what other folks have to say and you might find that you listen more.
Simon Pocklefork - Mon, 20 Jul 2020 00:46:14 EST /a0EWK+P No.535362 Reply
Sounds like you're getting cancelled OP

Ignore em

Dating App Failure

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- Sun, 19 Jul 2020 02:49:40 EST FO3wrxBb No.535342
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Welp, I failed. I tried using dating apps to find someone and it didn't work. I wanted to use them to match with people I knew from different towns like an idiot. I wanted an excuse to travel a little bit or talk to someone I was interested in.

I never had a chance, never. Girls usually swipe left and the fact that I'm miles away doesn't help. I'm not interested in the matches I'm getting so I'm just not seeing the point.

I either have to message them myself without the pretense of dating apps, or do an in person thing which is impossible during the pandemic. People here mentioned that dating apps were scams, and I really should have listened.

I'm not sure there was anything anyone could have done about it. I won't give up outside these apps but this is just dull. Pretty sure I wouldn't get what I want even if I gave those scammers my money.

should I do something different? I'm only really alive for myself and just need good things to happen. It's unfortunate. it wouldn't be such a big deal if there wasn't a virus
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Edward Gankinshaw - Sun, 19 Jul 2020 06:26:58 EST 7lWjUhp5 No.535345 Reply
Well hate to say it but the bottom line is to get matches on you need to be at least a little bit attractive. Are you below/above/average? You also need good pictures of yourself out and about/doing stuff, do you have this? You probably need friends in (some of) your photos too. If it's all selfies or general indoor bad photos then that's why. Guys don't give a shit they will swipe right on anything hot but girls are really judgemental about that kind of thing.

Also you need a short, sharp, non-enthusiastic bio (unless you're really hot).


On Tinder that's true, but there are quite a few apps geared towards finding relationships.
Simon Pickville - Sun, 19 Jul 2020 08:01:58 EST 1SSFeKJF No.535346 Reply
I'll harp on about hinge, but it works better for relationships than tinder. Bumble is basically tinder for women who have a bit more self esteem. Expect a very small pool though because it's not a big name. It's not got the critical mass of Tinder and Bumble.

If you're aiming for a relationship it's not even about not being weird, it's just about wording it well. Be succinct, sharp, and a little bit witty.

Also I really struggled with apps. I have a niche look but I'm not unattractive. My girlfriend said that when she met me none of my pictures did me any justice. I think this is a problem for some guys who just don't know how to take a photo and end up hating most of the pictures taken of them by others. I'd suggest asking someone who is good at that shit to take pictures but it's never worked for me.

Also aiming for people on the edge of your radius is deliberately picking less likely matches. I really wouldn't recommend apps if you have any other options. If you have lady friends meeting their friends is best, my problem was that I was 30 and was surrounded by decent people in stable relationships. Reflects well on me doesn't help me meet people. If you're younger and have your shit together then when the virus dies down get back out there and make new friends. I'm not saying abandon the old ones, just find people who will introduce you to their friends.
William Dudgenick - Sun, 19 Jul 2020 12:21:52 EST FO3wrxBb No.535350 Reply
Makes sense. I was pretty fucked up and venting earlier but I get it.

I'm entirely on my own at this point in my life. The root issue probably isn't the dating apps and is just more of an activity thing. I don't have a helpful group of people around. The ones I do have are kind of jerks, dead end people which I'm not trying to be like. just a phase. I'd probably catch the virus if I wasn't in the phase so hard to tell what the right course of action is

I might have to use old photos or use an outdoor area. I don't have to match with everyone but just the right person.

I tried Hinge and it might have led to a couple of awkward results a while ago. It's actually directly related to the Tinder issues. The people aren't bad but probably the same issues you or other guy mentioned. short term things

my problems aren't permanent. my face isn't below average so I think I'm alright long term. This was helpful, I have some ideas. I'm too stubborn to give up.

idk what else i want

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- Tue, 14 Jul 2020 01:15:10 EST zLz8KnuE No.535285
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i am very, very happy. i have a great life, with great friends, pretty solid mental health (my meds have finally begun working) and i don't want for anything at all. but when i'm left on my own to think about things, i get this clawing sense of dread and i have no fucking idea what else i can do to improve my current circumstances. i've come so far with my mental health and i've put myself out there socially and yet it feels like something is missing and i don't know what else to do
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George Bindlestock - Tue, 14 Jul 2020 13:58:50 EST AS4lpmRu No.535291 Reply
Do you think it might be worry?
What would happen if you didn't worry?
Nathaniel Bleppermut - Tue, 14 Jul 2020 18:25:34 EST A5dEfFzx No.535295 Reply
Try Physical health now and exercise more; fuck off about your mental health and friendships for awhile and actually live your life Doing shit rather than thinking about it. Maybe then you won't have that "clawing sense of dread?"
George Blathershit - Sat, 18 Jul 2020 07:54:13 EST zLz8KnuE No.535331 Reply
i'm not at all concerned about my physical health. i'm an ice skater, have been for about a decade, and i'm xvx so my diet is solid af.

loner autist moving in with normie zoomer girls

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- Wed, 01 Jul 2020 09:18:45 EST 7NEuTW8z No.535178
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just want some advice. i am 25 year old male loner autist with zero social skills, currently trying to move out of parent's for the summer. in the process of trying to secure a sub-let only problem is it's a house of 3 other girls aged 19-23 and one guy.

the girl who is subletting the room wants to meet me this weekend to discuss it.

i am not a creep and my intention is nothing but to leave these people alone and peacefully coexist with them. however my experience with girls this age is (perhaps understandably) that they are uptight, suspicious, and untrusting and do not seem to differentiate between 'awkward' and 'creepy'. what i mean by that is if you are the type that is notably socially awkward and uncomfortable in social situations they tend to think you are hiding something sinister and potential psycho simply because you are not socialised.

any advice on how to make these girls think i have no bad intentions and mean no harm without coming off like some SIMP ?

i just wanna live independently for a bit and all i can remotely afford are these house share type situations. i would just not interact with them but i fear this may be difficult in 5 bedroom house. any advice appreciated thanks.

i'm bisexual and just as socially awkward around guys too but guys tend to be more chilled out and not as paranoid about that kind of thing
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Nathaniel Cabblebanks - Fri, 17 Jul 2020 18:00:51 EST DhdOVFMW No.535326 Reply
and it's a myth that it somehow doesn't include people "like you", it absolutely does, it just doesn't tolerate the prejudice that's par for the course with thinking like yours, that doesn't mean you don't have a place in society, it just means those aspects of yourself don't, if you open yourself up to new experiences you'll start to shed those prejudices and subsequently get accepted my society more, and learn and grow more, and feel more acceptance, and so on

but again i mean if you're happy you're happy, do you, it just doesn't sound like you are and i've been there
Shit Cleddleville - Fri, 17 Jul 2020 18:05:23 EST NIDkq7hi No.535327 Reply
i think you would be a great room mate, just make sure to peepee in the toilet and not ont the seat and clean up your mess. girls are uptight but men are slobs sometimes. just ya know dont be a acreep and let her know your style so its not a surprise but dont make yuorself sound too offputting
Augustus Garrydale - Sat, 18 Jul 2020 01:10:25 EST Dhz56B+T No.535328 Reply
Man they are only people and you are only extremely anxious. You're not a leper. You have a real opportunity here to fight your mental illness here.

I suggest that you use every ounce of strength you have to acclimate to being around your roommates. You can do it slowly. One minute with the stoner dude is an awesome start. So it stuttering to the blonde woman. Keep it up dude you are doing awesome

Family problems

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- Tue, 14 Jul 2020 18:42:23 EST cVboHRoR No.535296
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hey /qq , i have a enourmous prob with my family. I only have dad and sister left (when it comes to closeones) and I have really bad realtion with my sister. Shes 5 years older than me (37) and still leaves with her fiance at my fathers place. Shes smart but she didnt do anything with her life (no job, no plans of her own) and she exploits my father for money and stuff (she dosent pay the rent, use his car, use him as a baby siter beacuse she didnt use any form of protection and got a baby 2 years ago). Shes also a pathological liar which use all of her intelligence to manipulate everyone around her to do her biddings. It was always like this, like from the moment which she finished uni or even before when she was teenager, 12 -18 years ago. I moved out more than 6 years ago because after my uni i couldnt stand up her shit anymore and the fact that my father tolarated all of this becasue hes a wimp and cant think/act normal when hes nervous. I know he loves me and I love him very much, but my sister materialism have a bad impact on all of us. Because of her naggings he decided to form a will and pass some things before his death (my sister wanted to sell some stuff of my father to buy some new flat to rent, thats why all of this have started). When i was asked about what i thought about it I just told him that I think that our family relation is ill and I would want to repair this in first place, money is not that important to me and I added that I just want his will to be fair and split even between us. After some questions and time I propoused what seemed to be just arragment, everyone agreed on it and we went to notary and filled up first draft of the deal because my father andsister insisted on it. Then right after my sister went bonkers (she went in sunglasses to meeting, acted strange and rode back a bicycle without a word. When we went home by foot, her fiance just told us that he cant go out with us to public office because hes afraid that she might do something to herself - he added that she thinks its not fair split and propoused that I should take 50% of the home that theyre currently living and in the same talk he told me that i would have lost a case if they would make a law case and i would have to pay 50% of rent. All felt like they would think about fucking me over just to have more money in the end). I can go on and write about her behaviour for couple more paragraphs but in the end its the same picture. Im positive that she has undiagnosed narrcistic syndrome. I didnt have any realtionship with her in the last 6 months i told her numerous times before that i love her but i wont tolerate her behaviour because its against my morals and she have bad impact on my mental health. Thing is that even with this separation I am still involved in this will drama and her shenningans. We are argueing about this will and my dad cant make a decision of his own but tries to persudade me to agreeing upon my sister terms which are unjust - the main diffrence between me and her is that I cant be mad at him. My sister on the other hand can make his life misarable (he lament about her numerous times,to the point of tears). Becasue of this he dont argue with her (also because she still lives with him and he dont want to piss her off, yeah its sad but my father is really a weak a fragile being and thier relation resembles some sick parasitic rollercoster). he thinks that im more of a person which can bend to the proposition of other side, and he just want to end it as fast as possible. On our last discution, after he emotionaly blackmailed me (saying i was hurting him because we speak about that will stuff in first place, even when he started this topic) and I told him we wouldnt have that conversation in first place, but sister wanted some handout money. All i wanted was it to be fair split, nothing more. I added that i dont want to speak about it again if he thinks that im hurting him in any way and also I dont want any money of him if he serious about what he said. At this moment Im so spiteful and depressed that only thing which keeps me from killing myself is my gf and the fact that i would let my sister triumph. I thought about leaving all of this stuff behind and move away but I cant leave my father with her, I feel that its my burden and I still love him very much. I dont see any good outcome - i can try to be ass to my sister (like she is to me) and it will be hell after my fathers death, also its just not my …
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Jarvis Pickletatch - Wed, 15 Jul 2020 10:48:50 EST NmYXrgWM No.535300 Reply
It's not about you. You care about family and treating people right. From her perspective, you're just competition for resources. Your father is trying to convince you to help her get more resources because he thinks that's love. Stop restating your position and trying to convince everyone you're right. They understand you. You have told them what's fair. They'll do what they want. And get your own place, man. Even if you have to have a roommate.
Henry Divingforth - Thu, 16 Jul 2020 07:33:33 EST cVboHRoR No.535311 Reply
Im living at my own place mate, for almost 5 years, with my gf. I wrote about it in the post. They want to persuade me with sharing % of other property, not my place but different assets. I dont want to have any obligations to my sister and viceversa, buceause it will be another thing which could let her fuck my shit up. I want yo split so it will be even and dont have any buisness/property ties to my sister.
Lydia Greendale - Thu, 16 Jul 2020 11:49:49 EST g4l1+StW No.535313 Reply
Then what's the problem, fuck it, especially if there's not a significant amount. If people are causing you this kind of stress, don't be involved in their monkey business.

Finally got into unemployment and already fucked it up

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- Sat, 11 Jul 2020 14:52:39 EST 7mQGVnhJ No.535275
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I filed in the beginning of May and was only just approved. I started claiming weekly benefits during my time slot today, going all the way back to the week of March 31st, which is when my side job closed down because of COVID.

By the time I got to the week of 4/12 to 4/18, I listed that I didn't do any work, because my primary job is at a school and that was the week of our spring break.

After I hit submit, the system said that because I claimed a week with income followed by a week without, I had to reopen my claim and change something about question #1. I just tried doing that using my PIN and the site said "you could not be authenticated," with the only other option being to exit the application.

Am I fucked? I sent an email to my state's unemployment insurance director with the same information as in this post. I've never had to go through the whole unemployment process, so this is all new and confusing to me. I live in New Jersey, if that's helpful.
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Clara Creddlefodging - Mon, 13 Jul 2020 11:40:25 EST 7mQGVnhJ No.535281 Reply
That blows, sorry to hear. I hope you hear back soon and get your money.

The system let me in this morning to reopen my claim and fix whatever it wanted me to fix. Although I also realized too late that I reported the wrong amount of income for my school job; I listed it as $806 per bi-monthly paycheck, instead of $403 per week, which is what they wanted. I'm double fucked.

Will report back on Wednesday when I correct it on my claim for the week of 4/19 to 4/25 and it gives me another error.
Nathaniel Bleppermut - Tue, 14 Jul 2020 18:23:17 EST A5dEfFzx No.535294 Reply
Jeezus fucking Christ.

I applied in March and sent in my Picture IDs on June 20th and I still am not even APPROVED beyond the Pending stage yet because they have to verify my photos.

good fucking god. Some people had to wait 9 weeks at my stage and you're telling me even after this I could still be waiting forever? Im going to fucking die at this point.

my cat is missing

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- Fri, 15 May 2020 22:52:30 EST MHw4zt7g No.534610
File: 1589597550163.jpg -(38134B / 37.24KB, 528x480) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. my cat is missing
shes my best friend and the best friend i ever had
its been 4 days now
ive done all the things; posters, food/litter outside, cauht someone elses cat in a trap, went around looking, asked people to look for her.
how do i stop my insides from feeling like theyre made of nails
how do i stop screaming and crying
why does the universe make us suffer
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Alice Bickleworth - Fri, 26 Jun 2020 07:15:31 EST O1E8SiQM No.535107 Reply
what are you talking about, dogs run away all the time and they are way less likely to come back because dogs are idiots, once they are gone they are gone. a cat can find her way back
Ernest Dommlestock - Mon, 13 Jul 2020 00:33:04 EST Wn5bXA/F No.535280 Reply
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When i was younger the family cat ran away for 3 days and came back preggo.
Hugh Bopperpuck - Tue, 14 Jul 2020 07:35:06 EST TtXni/Rr No.535289 Reply
my dad's cat ran a way when he was a kid and came back 5 years later to say hello and then left again, I hope your cat comes back man

I’m Cooler Than You Guys

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- Tue, 23 Jun 2020 01:34:59 EST y0iK7Iy7 No.535017
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Don’t take it personally if you don’t need to. I live with my father who is an honest man.

My mother married an LAPD thug who isn’t my father. One of the most abusive and uncaring people I’ve met when he doesn’t care about you. A monster at the end of the day.

The worst part is I like him. He’s trash though like the rest of LAPD. Mexican, White,Black,Asian whatever the fuck they call themselves they’re all bastards.

Meanwhile my real father is at risk of death because of me and my problems. If my mother hadn’t married him I would be normal as fuck. I wouldn’t have mental problems at all.

prove me wrong mother fuckers
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Matilda Sammlekot - Sun, 28 Jun 2020 17:39:06 EST ApD5b+Tp No.535162 Reply
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Yeah it’s completely unfair. It’s unjust and it’s not right.
I’ve made mistakes but I’ve never killed anyone.
I’ve never raped anyone. And I’ve never harmed anyone.
My life has already ended because of them it’s been over since
I was a kid. Yeah I’ve been to jail before.

I’m a victim of some high level MKULTRA shit.
So happy I did not go to Stanford University.
It would have been worse. So much drama.
Matilda Sammlekot - Sun, 28 Jun 2020 17:44:30 EST ApD5b+Tp No.535163 Reply
I know that you assholes know I go to two different Colleges.
It’s in the computer it’s a cake walk for you idiots to get that information.
They’re both in a State, Federal, and County database.
I’m using my real name and social. Not two different aliases in addition
to wearing disguises or something.

You guys are just Fucks about everything.
Cyril Subberfig - Sun, 12 Jul 2020 05:01:55 EST 0bypL0S0 No.535277 Reply
My mom married LA county sheriff who got caught taking a bribe and convicted. Then poisened my mom to death . Got away with it bc she had chemo. Then his new wife "committed suicide" . Though autopsy says otherwise he's being investigated now

References and new jobs

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- Tue, 07 Jul 2020 08:41:32 EST ObhhTE06 No.535257
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Before covid virus I was trying to move into higher paying roles so I was applying for a lot of positions, I used 2 references from my work. I didn't get the first 2 interviews but it was a competitive intake so it wasn't bad, then I finally got a position and lost it because of COVID and then lost ANOTHER job due to the same fucking covid problems etc. ..... I've seen some of the reference forms my supervisors had to fill out, they were fucking extensive and really felt like such a big ask of them. I'm going for my 5th interview this week and I'm going to have to ask my references to fill out a form for a 5th fucking time.... Fuck this shitty practice it's just some relic from the 50s why do I have to do it. Do you think I could arrange something with my interview and explain that I don't want to keep bothering my refs?
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[name redacted] !h55/E7mIo6 - Wed, 08 Jul 2020 10:32:07 EST EZP69gAu No.535267 Reply
What were the reference forms asking? I've been on interview panels for two larger corporations and in both companies, we only called references for the person we were going to offer the job, and the next in line, and this was after the decision was made. Even then, the phone calls wouldn't be longer than 10 minutes, basically asking about certain programs they would've had to use in their old job, how they used them, if they could use it well, etc.

Never a paper form though, unless government jobs still do it like >>535258 said
Simon Gemblenit - Wed, 08 Jul 2020 18:24:21 EST 1SSFeKJF No.535271 Reply
I actually work in local government and they don't do it here. However every local government organisation is a separate body and most are not in the same country as me. Largely the ones in my country try to be ahead, or at least on the curve in terms of employment practices.
Jarvis Famblelock - Thu, 09 Jul 2020 09:44:55 EST cmK+eWz5 No.535272 Reply
I've worked in countries that require a retinal scan on entry but still need fingerprints submitted in ink, it makes no difference where you are.

how to stop sabotaging myself?

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- Sun, 05 Jul 2020 10:16:16 EST 0PGlBOuQ No.535245
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I tell myself i wanna be happy. Doesn't everyone wanna be happy? I try to do things that will make me happy, but i sabotage it every time. is this a normal thing? i do benzos and opiods recreationally. i am not dependent on them. i don't know why i continue to do it when i know it is just making my life worse. what do i do to stop myself from ruining my life.
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Barnaby Fibblebanks - Sun, 05 Jul 2020 13:25:24 EST LUAyeKAb No.535248 Reply
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Sometimes in Vietnam a foot patrol would get pocketed behind enemy lines in a way where any sort of help would be a miracle short from a massive counter-attacking operation.

Whatever weird ass comment you are trying to say, then say it. "What do you do for other people?" Wow, what an asshole! Fuck this guy.
Archie Garrystone - Sun, 05 Jul 2020 13:31:23 EST +rYLvVZR No.535249 Reply
Great response that discourages use of the board. When do you people leave?
Nathaniel Shittingstone - Mon, 06 Jul 2020 08:49:39 EST 0PzMAsHd No.535252 Reply
I don't know your exact situation, but I'm guessing you don't have any long term plans.
What do you mean with happy? I'm happy when I'm high, but that's probably not what you mean.
Try to be concrete to yourself what you mean with 'happy' and try to work to that goal.
The reason you do benzos and shit is because you don't really have a drive to reach something; you just wanna be "happy" whatever that is.

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