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420chan is Getting Overhauled - Changelog/Bug Report/Request Thread (Updated July 26)

Confessing feelings for other people to your significant other

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- Wed, 18 Sep 2019 08:05:41 EST seDwlbfD No.531789
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What’s up guys. I have a really stupid long relationship problem for you. If you want to read all this cool. Otherwise ok.

Been in a long distance relationship with this girl for four years. We are both 27. We live 120 miles apart, about an hour and forty-five minute drive. Over these past four years we had typically alternated driving to see each other, spending about 2-4 days together on average every two weeks. We text throughout the day and talk on the phone for about an hour any night we are apart.

I love this girl. She is hot, intelligent, funny, but utterly insane in a myriad of ways. She is oddly selfish and unwilling to make sacrifices or ever do anything she doesn’t want to do. I am the one who puts ~80% of the work into the relationship and make compromises often. She has a huge ego and frequently talks about how hot or amazing she is (fucking weird). She is FANATICAL about climate change, one of those “it’s going to kill all of us within five years” kind of people and starts blurting out this shit like 50% of the time upon meeting new people. She is very “vibe”, “energy”, and “feeling”-oriented and sometimes has bizarre negative esoteric emotional reactions to things I do in ways I rarely understand. In 2017 she cheated on me with this male friend whom she had began spending a ton of time with. She told me she “stopped it” shortly after they started fucking and she left in tears, unable to go through with it. Only she knows what really happened, but I’ve put this in the past. She also has a tendency to gravitate almost exclusively toward male friends, which I will get into near the end here.

But first, to be fair here, I am not the most sane person either. I am not always the most open with my emotions. I cheated on her and my ex with each other for the first 9 months of my relationship with this girl. Later that year, after reading through her texts, I became paranoid and suspicious that she was still hooking up with this guy who fingered her while we were still unofficial. In a vengeful state, I made a dating profile, got with this girl, and fingered her twice. I tried to fuck her but couldn’t - I couldn’t get my dick hard because I honestly felt really awful about what I was doing, but in my head I needed to do it to make things right. I confessed both of these things to her last year and, of course, it fucked her up. Awful shit. But this was three years ago and I’ve kept it clean and have no intention of cheating on anyone ever again. Although I regret it deeply, that experience helped me grow up and learn to communicate.

Fast forward through the four years we’ve been together. The physical distance between us has been the mother of 90% of all problems in our relationship. If we were closer i.e. same city, we would communicate better, we wouldn’t be frustrated at each other because we would be able to see each other whenever we wanted, and we would feel like we knew each other better. She is always the one to bring up her frustrations with the distance and not feeling close to me and I’m left to be the one who has to defend why we need to stay together, fighting for the relationship like my life depends on it like some faggot or something.

I’m opening a food truck in about a month. Have been working on it for a couple years now while doing other things. I finally decided about five months ago to do it in her city, which is notably smaller than mine and guaranteed to solicit less business. It’s also in a different state with many more regulations, higher taxes etc etc basically I’m fucking my business to be with her. When I first told her I was going to do it in her town, her reaction was shocked and confused and not really happy. This confused the shit out of me since we had continuously noted how all of our problems stemmed from us being apart, and this move was going to solve that. She later grew to be very happy with my decision and things were going smoothly.

Our plan was to live together. I would move into her apartment with her. Just a few days ago she informed me she doesn’t feel comfortable living together yet and wants to just live in the same city for a while before we move in together. I respect that decision, but obviously puking that into someone’s face with a few weeks notice of moving is naive, selfish, and unrealistic. I was and still am pissed and we’ve been fighting about it incessantly.

Let’s get to the real shit here. She has developed a friendship with two gu…
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James Pickworth - Wed, 18 Sep 2019 13:33:24 EST Fw0/aDJ4 No.531794 Reply
>>531792
nah i know people who have made them work, i don't know if this is one of those cases because long thread, things to do, novels to read instead
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Betsy Wammertidging - Thu, 19 Sep 2019 18:32:22 EST iJiVumQQ No.531815 Reply
This is all on you dude. You're not going to be able to communicate to us peons the value of your relationship. We would always tend towards telling you to break up. You would tell a 3rd person to do it in your situation. Cheating and long distance blues just suck in general everyone knows that.

Is it worth all the suffering? You tell us. Are you going to really regret breaking up? We don't know. Can you trust her? Dont ask us? Maybe.
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Ernest Nidgekadge - Fri, 20 Sep 2019 00:59:09 EST JCATCBbz No.531821 Reply
>>531789
OP I didn't read all that stuff, is that cool? Sorry dude but I just...felt occupied by more vapid posts. Just LMK dude

drug dependency

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- Sun, 15 Sep 2019 12:44:38 EST mqpN1yO5 No.531726
File: 1568565878864.png -(33357B / 32.58KB, 1200x869) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. drug dependency
I've never dealt with this before in my life (it was never a problem) but now I'm facing possible re-incarceration as a result of my drug habits and I don't know what to do. I hate being sober and don't really give a damn about anything unless I'm high. I somewhat recently got out of jail and am on probation and now they think I'm getting high - I don't know how they're going to try and catch me since they think I'm getting past the urinalysis. I report on monday and I haven't gotten high since friday night, I've been using pure dxm for around 4 years. This is really bringing me down in life - I'm in college and not doing my homework, I've already missed a couple of classes, I don't really care. I feel agonizingly bored all day every day unless I'm high. I lied in court to the judge & D.A. and to my probation officer and have denied using any drugs. I'm pending sentencing on a violent felony charge. No ambition in life without drugs. Everything is fine when I'm high though. This whole situation has been bothering me for a while and there's not really anybody I can tell about it. I told one person and I think they ratted on me to probation and that's why they're suspicious of me now. The only thing I want to do in life is get high and then do whatever I feel like. That's my primary desire in life. I don't really want to go to prison or back to jail but when I get high it doesn't bother me that much. I don't feel like I'm hurting anything by getting high and feel like it's such bullshit that the state is trying to tell me what I can and can't do with my life.

I'm sure people have worse problems than this but this feels like it's killing me. I don't even know if they'd send me to rehab or anything. I met people in jail that were meth addicts and other hard drugs and they got county years for violating probation due to drug problems. I have no family, lost my friends and girlfriend when I was locked up.
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Cyril Clayford - Tue, 17 Sep 2019 13:08:00 EST mqpN1yO5 No.531777 Reply
>>531769
>>531771
Using DXM is how I want to live my life. After I'm done with probation I know I'll start taking it again. It never did anything but improve the quality of my life. I use drugs until I outgrow them. I've done it in the past with weed and whatever else. I have to go get drug tested specifically for this soon and I'm trying to detox. Today's four days without taking any. I'm almost certainly going to jail if I fail the test. Just stressing it. What I meant in the OP was killing me was the feeling of slugging through life sober and just wanting to get high.



>>531771
I'll figure it out. If I don't test positive then that will be a big motivator to find a workaround for this.
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Eugene Brookspear - Tue, 17 Sep 2019 18:08:44 EST jOwUS5yi No.531784 Reply
>>531777
>What I meant in the OP was killing me was the feeling of slugging through life sober and just wanting to get high.

i feel ya man

im a super villian

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- Sat, 14 Sep 2019 15:24:02 EST N3hJNNn3 No.531714
File: 1568489042434.jpg -(182957B / 178.67KB, 720x1080) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. im a super villian
My ex cheated on me in high school. It's been almost 10 years, and it still fucks me up. I had another girl lead me on in uni right after to make fun of me. I loved both of these girls dearly and was abused for it. Neither of them had to do what they did, but did it anyways. I've struggled a lot with these memories, it's really hard to feel love for or from anyone else these days. Almost every time I explain what they did to anyone they completely gloss over them, saying they would've been stoked if it was happening to them or these girls wouldn't do something like that or whatever, so I've barely told anyone.

Basically, everyone thinks these two girls are perfect. They've both gotten some pretty lucrative jobs now. They've both married to guys with good careers. They both have a ton of friends on facebook and instagram and take a lot of pictures of all the awesome things they get to do. It looks like they're happy and doing well.

I haven't been in a relationship in 9 years. I had to drop out of college in my last year to pay for a surgery and have been stuck trying to pay off my debt enough to get another loan to finish school since. I'm sleeping in a shed at my fathers home now taking care of him until he dies from cancer.

Would it be fucked up of me to add all their friends, family and coworkers on facebook and make some posts about the shitty things they did? I feel like that's the least I could do.
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Thomas Hurringforth - Tue, 17 Sep 2019 09:13:02 EST d4fOgvZr No.531767 Reply
>>531714
I think it would be wise for you to seek therapy. I know what it's like to hang on to grudges from the past, and to suffer shitty people who everyone else seems to love.
You seem broken, and you didn't deserve any of this, however I think your proposal is counter-productive at best. You say that in your experience, sharing the truth has fallen on deaf ears. Why would it be different this time?

The truth is that cruel people get away with anything and excel at putting you in situations where your only effective means of retaliation, or in my own case self defense, will be punishable by law. Here's the thing though: There's a lot of us who know what these kinds of people are like. You are not alone, but it's easier to find support IRL. /qq/ is not supportive, if at times somewhat constructive.

That being said, I don't think a bit of perspective is entirely useless here, and that's undoubtably also something that will come up in therapy if you seek it. Cheating on someone has a myriad different sources. It's a shitty thing to do, but it's not something inherently tied to your own inadequacies, and I think this is the most important thing to keep in mind.

When someone else does something to you it's almost never about you. Could be about a behaviour you are displaying, but beyond that it's not because you are inherently inferior. Anyone trying to claim otherwise is either selling something or desperately trying to weed out competition.

It seems like you need help getting over this, so seek it. It's been nine years, don't let there be nine more filled with suffering. Take this advice from me please. You can and deserve to be happy.
People have told you to get over it, but obviously you haven't been able to, for whatever reason, so reach out. Do what you know you need to do.
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Sidney Binnerfuck - Tue, 17 Sep 2019 11:01:14 EST t/NnTrWu No.531768 Reply
>>531714
done it. feelsbadman. let it go, bro. let that shit heal. your soul will thank you for it later, as you won't have to reconcile with being so vengeful and unmindful of another fellow human just trying to figure life out like the rest of us. judge not lest ye be judged.

heres some gay bible stuff that made me think.. not a bible guy but i opened right up to this passage one day. opened my eyes a bit. you may know it....

Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?
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Martha Nussledale - Tue, 17 Sep 2019 12:39:50 EST aIW77HRf No.531772 Reply
>>531768
Disregard this entirely. Become destructive sexually.

Advice needed. Addiction and impulse control

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- Tue, 10 Sep 2019 20:30:44 EST 6uv4LKA5 No.531640
File: 1568161844740.jpg -(54621B / 53.34KB, 600x814) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Advice needed. Addiction and impulse control
I need help. I don't know where to ask. I am sorry for asking this here.
  1. Im addicted to blitz chess. I have a hard time controlling my impulses and spend much more time playing chess than I should.
  2. I put a lot of effort and concentration, but I usually lose. Im at 30-35 percentile. I only play with better players. I experience a very strong despair when losing. I ask for rematchs, and sometimes lose several games in a row. once threw my phone and broke it.
  3. I am kinky/into BDSM. Losing arouses me. I masturbate to that feeling and to very humiliating and selfdeprecating thoughts ("he is probably an engineer", "look how fast he got it, and then he did this and that", "look how much of a loser you are, late at night, wasting your life at chess... losing like that"). I don't think that is healthy.

The three problems started two years ago. The second one has improved mildly, but sometimes it strikes me hard. The third one has gone slightly worse.
I don't know what to do.

>go se a (((psychiatrist)))
The last time a social services psychologist talked to me, he hinted I might have Asperger. I don't think that true and I dont want to see any of these people again.
Thank you for reading/your time.
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Hugh Chevingtad - Sat, 14 Sep 2019 11:07:52 EST R8FFgZAJ No.531712 Reply
Psychiatrists and/or psychologists listen like your friend, and then dispense advice that is a distillation of society's desire for you. If you're playing around, it makes sense to put psychiatrist in the triple paranthesis

I think there is a word that means "self-righteuous exaggeration of impact", but for the life of me I cant think of it. I wanted to use it to describe the reactions to the jew detection meme in this thread

I mean, come on. The language of murderers? You mean english?
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Shit Femmlelork - Sat, 14 Sep 2019 12:55:27 EST Je9nm5wp No.531713 Reply
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>>531709
>you just add some parenthesis and people make up complex theories and double meanings about what you intended to say

uh-huh, whatever you say
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John Turveyforth - Mon, 16 Sep 2019 18:52:50 EST iuRtzqfz No.531753 Reply
>>531710
You seem to be more interested in discussing my (((presumed))) ideology rather than helping me.
I encourage you to go to visit /pol/itics-related imageboards.

Anyone else have this problem?

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- Sat, 07 Sep 2019 20:13:16 EST EaX+7Ih0 No.531603
File: 1567901596307.jpg -(32178B / 31.42KB, 640x459) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Anyone else have this problem?
So hi guise

>be me earlier this year
>decide to try to get a better paying gig
>gig required drug test
>ofuk.jpg
>had been smoking semi regularly
>tried to flush system in days
>used one of those stupid drinks
>have to take DOT drug test at concentra
>fuck concentra
>fuck concentra
>fuck concentra
>fuck concentra
>fuck concentra
>take test
>fail with flying colors
>get call from "doctor"
>"do u has CDL?"
>me:no
>doc:o ok good cause u had marijuana in system
>fml.jpg
>offers option for 2nd sample taken at time of test to be tested
>no thnks bro

This was like 6-7 months ago, but it turns out this company exclusively does drug tests for the department of transportation. It turns out that pretty much any govt agency will run a background check on you, and include a check thru yhru concentras records, particularly DOT shit. So I basically voluntarily fucked myself out of any potential job involving govt shit, or transportation shit, or just any job that checks with them. I'm really disturbed by this to be honest, I haven't smoked since the very beginning of this year, but now i have a "smoking record" so I'm fairly fucked as far as job opportunities that I'm currently interested in are concerned. Why me? Why did I fuck myself?
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Nigel Himmerhick - Fri, 13 Sep 2019 05:58:50 EST UZC9gHak No.531680 Reply
>>531678
Lol bro that is a bit much. Just smoke cbd hp flower work out drink a ton of water
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Beatrice Pummledock - Fri, 13 Sep 2019 18:34:11 EST D+KEM0Il No.531696 Reply
>>531680
How is going to 7eleven, getting a fake bottle of pee that has everything you need in the box, shoving it in your pants and driving to your test, which is basically a 5 minute process, more complicated than something that takes weeks?
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Nell Dingertotch - Sun, 15 Sep 2019 14:08:26 EST USUZpST+ No.531730 Reply
>>531696
>smoke cbd hp flower work out drink a ton of water
this is two things
>going to 7eleven, getting a fake bottle of pee that has everything you need in the box, shoving it in your pants and driving to your test, which is basically a 5 minute process
is five things

Tweaker mother advice

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- Fri, 30 Aug 2019 17:52:56 EST 4ib52sHp No.531426
File: 1567201976886.jpg -(33012B / 32.24KB, 720x399) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Tweaker mother advice
So I'm 25 and have no place to stay other than my grandmothers house but my mother lives there too and shes mentally ill, a meth addict and is extremely jealous of me for some reason... Like she's constantly competing with me in wicked weird ways like for example she'll scream and freak out on my gram if she has a problem with my mom bringing her dealers or junky friends over to rip foils in her room and will say things like "Joey and his friends hang out here and smoke pot and thats ok?!?!" She's very mentally abusive towards my gram and just doesn't care... I'm working on finding a job and my own place at the moment but I need some advice on how to deal with it in the meantime... The way I worded this may not sound that bad to you but I just didn't want to get too far into detail because its pretty fucked up.
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Archie Chondersire - Thu, 05 Sep 2019 11:01:09 EST hEhIvdDq No.531525 Reply
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>>531519
My grandmother own the house and... We're like wicked poor so moving isn't really an option until I find a job.
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Milhouse - Sat, 14 Sep 2019 20:21:26 EST PL+v+6Bx No.531717 Reply
>>531426
Dont listen to these pussies, tellin you to get the cops to solve your problems for you. At the end of the day you are a healthy young male and she is a meth riddled middle aged woman. Beat her ass, wipe the floor with her face. Tell her to be out of the house by the end of the day or you'll break her neck. If she threatens to go to the police or retaliate in some way simply remind her she is weak and powerless and the police dont give a shit about meth whores
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Jack Trotforth - Sun, 15 Sep 2019 13:45:38 EST UqX/QM0x No.531728 Reply
>>531717
Sure, then go through life with a dv collar when the neighbors call the cops. Fuck off, redneck.

Is it okay to completely ghost parents? Have you ever?

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- Thu, 12 Sep 2019 19:27:56 EST U+BwHn1v No.531676
File: 1568330876373.jpg -(49377B / 48.22KB, 621x414) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Is it okay to completely ghost parents? Have you ever?
I fucking hate my parents. Every bit of suffering has come from the and none of it is my fault. First off my entire house is a fucking death trap hell hole nightmare from hell. Everything is broken down and shit parents too poor and stupid to even bother. If i ever brought up ANYTHING about a safety concern. Typical white rural trash response” I DONT HAVE MONEY FOR IT” only thing i have ever heard. In my entire time being alive i have never seen my parents have money. They pretty much ritually had their entire check spent 2 days before it arrived. Even shit like testing and making sure the water is clean and getting a water filter or something. DONT HAVE MONY FOR IT. Even if something is a serious fucking death hazard and costs 200 dollars DONT HAVE MONEY FOR IT. Even if something costs like 20 bucks parents just neglect it for 25 years and then still even after that do nothing about it. Literally even something like getting a laundry hamper for clothes they just throw them on the dirty basement floor.

Entire house is a broken down shit hole like completely beyond repair no value at all. I mean i guess maybe its better than a shitty trailer or something but ive seen some that are nicer to live in. Never had anything. Couldn’t even get help paying like half on a shitty beater car that wont even drive up a hill. Closest source of jobs and shit are 20 miles away and even thats like drive 20-30 miles a day flip burgers make 30 dollars and come home with nothing. Literally suffered every type of trauma possible for a person than locked away in it and then locked away in solitude. Just pretty much got OH. WELP. DIDNT HAVE MONEY FOR A PRORPER CHILDHOOD SORRY. Meanwhile my dad typical poor person spends fucking a shit ton of money on cigarettes and stupid shit while were dying and suffering and missing out in my entire life

Trapped out in the middle of nowhere. Not only did i lose out on my entire life. Suffered the entire duckling time too. Nothing but a fucking husk of a human now just waiting to die and fucking cursing god and wishing my parents would die with every breath i take. Can’t sleep with the thoughts screaming at me. Can’t get out of bed. I’m so fucking tired i cant even do shit for 12 minutes or make a phone call or anything. I finally got enough money to fix my shit situation and start off in life and maybe kinda catch up to my peers just with ptsd, trauma, sadness, depression, anxiety, no memories, no happiness. NOPE GOD COMES ALONG RIPS IT AWY TRAPPED WITH SHITTY FAMILY IN PTSD NIGHTMARE HELL EVEN WORSE THAN BEFORE MORE AND MORE SUFFERING. Never even went on a nice vacation, had happy family moments nope nothing. Every single person i see on snapchat and instagram has done shit I NEVER GOT TO DO because i was fucking poor and born in a rural hell hole with fucking nothing around but trees and then the poorest of the poor. I fucking was randomly searching shit on google and i cam eacross these psychology papers on poverty and a rural area. Says every single person in rural areas and poverty is fucked. Sky high drug abuse, arrests, suicide, depression, mental illness. I read a paper on a small town and it said literally every single person went to the same therapist office and every single person in town had some form of trauma ranging from every fucking kind and usually multiple types of trauma all because they were poor and then isolated and trapped with their shit in poverty. And then watch their friends in the city go to clubs and make money and have friends. I have to fucking scam to make money and then god fucking attacks me as soon as he sees me happy because god just flies above small towns to make sure everyones suffering especially me. Looked up several studies that ALL said suicide rates are twice as high in rural areas then cities and then guess what. POOREST OUT HERE SHITTIEST LIFE OUT HERE. Literally the worst fucking life out of everyone i have ever met in the entire world.

I LITERALLY look at people in 3rd world countries and they have fucking better lives and I’m FUCKING jealous OF THEM. Every time i find a way to succeed fucking god comes. Rips it away. Makes my life even worse than before. Non stop fucking suffering that just gets worse and worse as god fucking comes and perfectly articulates my life around me to make me suffer in every way possible as long as possible. FUCK GOD.
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William Nombleduck - Fri, 13 Sep 2019 07:22:29 EST UazQZPcT No.531684 Reply
Seconding military career. It is literally the best and only option for people in your situation. Go Airforce or Army. Maybe Navy... Maybe.

lol muhreens

Dumb ass neighbors

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- Wed, 11 Sep 2019 17:19:45 EST H1kq3t9w No.531657
File: 1568236785570.jpg -(18650B / 18.21KB, 193x261) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Dumb ass neighbors
My dumb ass neighbors got these small dogs they tie up outside. They literally leave them outside 24/7 just tied up next to my yard and they bark non stop. Literally any time i walk out in my own backyard they just stare at me and bark and i mean they will literally bark at me for hours.

Every time i go out in my own yard. They bark. I have never gone outside and never seen them there. What do i do? If retards just keep getting dogs to neglect them bs then the dogs become a bigger part of my life then they are theirs and literally shoved in my face 24/7.

If i just keep reporting them to animal control will they come take their animals away?
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Angus Bemmerdock - Thu, 12 Sep 2019 11:39:17 EST UZC9gHak No.531668 Reply
>>531663
It’s blatant fucking neglect if it’s just out there for 15 hours. I guarantee anyone here that has a yard and neighbors doesn’t have the same problem.
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Walter Blytheford - Thu, 12 Sep 2019 12:57:17 EST bFGGBCJD No.531670 Reply
Yo this is some classic 420chan copypasta, like rualfag.

Just a heads up.

Long term relationship problems. I'm tired ot the same pusi. But everything's good...

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- Wed, 04 Sep 2019 21:55:25 EST adjylITm No.531512
File: 1567648525988.png -(127328B / 124.34KB, 500x610) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Long term relationship problems. I'm tired ot the same pusi. But everything's good...
Hey guys,

My problem is very simple. I'm 23 now, I've been in a relationship since 19. She's 2 years older than me.
The girl is great, there's no problems with the relationship itself. She loves me, she looks pretty, she is smart and we get along well, planning on moving together (in the future, due to financial reasons right now). Sex is great and satisfying.

The thing is I just want to get other pusi. Like it's not like she's my first gf, I had 4 or 5 before but it's definitely my first serious, long term relationship.

It's wearing on me. I haven't cheated on her but I literally DREAM about meeting and getting laid with 18-19 year old girls, and these dreams are weird you know, cause they literally feel so real. I don't know how to describe it, it's like as intense as a nightmare but instead of terror I feel love, I feel them looking up to me with love in their eyes and I fuck them so good in these dreams, it's unbelievable how real it feels. I wake up in sweats and with a huge boner.

It's literally worse than when I'm awake. It's fucking weird man.

So like, what do I do. I don't care about an open relationship because I don't like the feeling of being c u c c ed. And also it's not the sex I miss, I wanna feel the emotional side of new love, etc as well.

I actually love my GF, I do a lot of things for her and it feels right when I do those things. I think about her often and still buy her small gifts and whatever, happily.

But I feel like I missed out on my youth guys. I feel like I missed out on many young girls admiring my cock and enormous life experience (compared to them).

I can never stop thinking about falling in love with other, younger girls, and them falling in love with me. I actually first started having the dreams and only then the thoughts have taken over my waking life as well.

What the fuck do you guys recommend in this situation? Anyone felt the same?

I feel fucking stuck. I can't go fucking around right now because everyone knows in my circle that I've been with this girl for long. It's obvious on my facebook etc.

But I feel like it would be stupid to throw away a perfectly good relationship just cause of this, then maybe getting to fuck a few young girls and they just pull their hoe ways on me and then I would have no proper gf and would just burn out fucking randoms like I was going to before settling with my current gf. You get me?

The fuck should I do? It's tearing me apart.
Thanks for the input guys
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Isabella Chengerbury - Wed, 11 Sep 2019 19:18:52 EST 5QDEIKYu No.531658 Reply
>>531636
>Or, you know, communicate what you're feeling to your partner,
Is that why he's asking people on 420chan for advice instead?

Look, nobody is saying that he should not at least talk things out with his girl, but if he's gonna ask a bunch of internet strangers if he should cheat on his GF, no shit people are gonna call him an asshole.
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Walter Blackham - Thu, 12 Sep 2019 18:12:05 EST cuclcgBW No.531675 Reply
>>531658

Nowhere in the OP does it say “should I cheat on my gf”. He says “I love my girlfriend”, “I feel like I lost out on the sexual opportunities in my youth”, “what should I do?”. Paraphrasing, but still, everybody is an asshole if you knee jerk straw man them like the only person you’ve seen in your life is a 2-D cardboard cut-out in a soap opera.


Why does it come up as the same person when me and my brother post on her

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- Tue, 10 Sep 2019 11:44:09 EST hEhIvdDq No.531633
File: 1568130249073.gif -(187154B / 182.77KB, 220x314) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Why does it come up as the same person when me and my brother post on her
????????????.?????????
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Nicholas Bunfuck - Tue, 10 Sep 2019 12:18:14 EST P0l/Ak0C No.531635 Reply
Fucking lurk more dumb ass
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Graham Sedgeshaw - Tue, 10 Sep 2019 14:52:36 EST hS9zmw+y No.531638 Reply
>>531635
One of these two is fucking stupid and the other should confiscate their computer and other internet equipment for their own good.

Can't even get the right fucking board or use any of the 1387128918347318947328463484673829478923748923148327489327483274837248237489327487324987234987348973248713871283712837128873218947239478634279264973216493764174381738012373409123783409813283409183091273081273081374803174810748017408374301847318047180374803174803174831748013748013748013740813740813740317408137480317408213740813740813740172403712084371230472389012910101029489 threads he currently has on the front page

. nb OP's brother should should be ashamed of him.

Hypersanity

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- Sun, 25 Aug 2019 06:11:11 EST jFHJy/vi No.531287
File: 1566727871136.jpg -(157299B / 153.61KB, 600x594) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Hypersanity
Is it real? How would you evaluate a person for a state of hypersanity? Who would be qualified to do so besides another hypersane person? And therein, how would the initial hypersane person deem themselves hypersane? Could it be achieved by consensus?
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Jarvis Benningstone - Tue, 10 Sep 2019 08:00:29 EST yUhAjzvV No.531626 Reply
>>531573
yeah but like, nobody conforms to the statistical norms, they just ARE the statistical norms. it's a totally nonsensical statement to begin with

haven't felt attracted to anyone is years

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- Sat, 07 Sep 2019 07:32:46 EST gpcJl7qa No.531581
File: 1567855966632.jpg -(50627B / 49.44KB, 640x715) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. haven't felt attracted to anyone is years
first of all im drunk

when i was in high school one of the prettiest girls in school said she liked me and i went head over heels in love before i figured out she was doing it as a joke. i didn't really feel like dating anyone after that for a few years until i was in college.

while i was in college i worked with this girl who was an arial artist. she would stare at me whenever i was visually available to be seen. she was blonde with blue eyes and pale skin that turned beet red when i said hello to her. she would walk a really far out of her way to where i worked and just slowly walk back and forth staring at me. everyone would see this and tell me i should ask her out.

i asked if she wanted to hang out and she told me i had feelings for her she didn't reciprocate so i asked her to stop following me and she didn't for 4 years. i hoped she'd just stop when i stopped paying attention to her but nah. literally anytime i was visually available to be seen she would stop what she's doing and just stare at me. i wound up taking it to hr and getting a no contact order at our school.

now im 27 and i cant remember anyone else i felt any attraction towards. i can't remember the last time i masturbated or felt like looking at porn. i've tried dating a few people who asked me out but they tell me i don't seem interested and break it off. it started feeling fucked up to do that to people so now i just tell everyone i'm unavailable.

it feels like something really important went missing years ago and i didn't notice. i don't know how someone can not notice something like that. i feel empty a lot of the time.

my romantic experiences just seem so absurd and weird, it feels like no one would be able to relate so i never tell anyone this shit but i'll let you guys know cause we're friends.
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Edwin Cudgewill - Sat, 07 Sep 2019 10:50:56 EST gpcJl7qa No.531592 Reply
>>531584
thanks

>>531588
no i haven't, i tried smoking weed and watching porn once but just went to efukt and ended up laughing until i cried, i don't really want to continue any fantasies people took advantage of me with

>>531591
how can i believe in anything when you can accidently become mgtow
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Fuck Fennercocke - Sat, 07 Sep 2019 11:49:26 EST 3nVA6FX4 No.531593 Reply
>>531592
Well that was actually the next thing I was going to suggest, I see you're way ahead of me.
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Archie Midgeseck - Tue, 10 Sep 2019 07:57:29 EST SvrL9OfC No.531625 Reply
>>531581
i still masturbate and look at porn, but otherwise im the same as you. the last time ive had a crush or felt like i was attracted to a woman was in high school. im 28 now, and ever since being ~18 I haven't felt like i actually wanted to be with anybody at all. idk what's wrong with me either.

actually, in a more general sense, i dont even feel like i love anybody or am capable of feeling love for anyone. i dont ever feel grief when people i know and even like die. theyre just gone now. somehow none of it seems to matter.

what's even more disconcerting about it all is that for a while i was seriously fucked up an depressed, and my life has been off the rails for pretty much ever up until the last 3 years where i've made significant progress. i actually feel like living and like my life is going pretty well, yet i still don't feel grief or love. i dont even yearn for it in any serious capacity, only in the sense that i feel like im missing out on something.

gonna use this thread for my recovery

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- Thu, 05 Sep 2019 11:19:17 EST hEhIvdDq No.531527
File: 11.jpg -(80085B / 78.21KB, 666x69) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. gonna use this thread for my recovery
Every day (or whenever I feel it's necessary) I'm going to post a comment detailing my day to day life while quitting drugs an alcohol and will keep u all updated on how I'm feeling and what not.
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Alice Blythefoot - Sun, 08 Sep 2019 06:09:26 EST 3nVA6FX4 No.531610 Reply
>>531597
If you've given up then fuck off and die, nobody cares about you enough to read your blog about how shit your life is and the nothing you're doing to change it.
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Ian Duppermotch - Mon, 09 Sep 2019 10:59:04 EST mEbTcPlw No.531619 Reply
>>531610
wow buddy you're casting a spell on yourself

op consider fasting cole robinson snake diet. try it to cure your addictions. lock yourself in your place throw out booze and hold on tight. also, watch stuff

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