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420chan is Getting Overhauled - Changelog/Bug Report/Request Thread (Updated July 26)

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- Fri, 06 Sep 2019 12:02:17 EST hEhIvdDq No.531558
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There's a gas station near by that i think might hire me.. I used to work for the owners at their old store thats closed down now and i think the cashier there might put in a good word for me cuz we both worked together at the store before it closed... Maybe I'll be able to make enough money to get myself an apartment so I don't have to sleep in a tent in my gram's backyard.. And maybe having a job and something to do will get my mind off the things that are bothering me so much.

I hope this all works out. I'm filling out the application rn and am gonna return it when my ex brings me my bike back.
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Graham Cuffingworth - Sun, 08 Sep 2019 01:57:58 EST rjja/ioN No.531605 Reply
So yeah wheres your update then? All I see are 50 other threads made by you

Idk whether to have hope or just move on

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- Fri, 06 Sep 2019 11:52:48 EST hEhIvdDq No.531557
File: 1567785168064.jpg -(25114B / 24.53KB, 540x540) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Idk whether to have hope or just move on
Idk whether to keep trying to be friends with her and have hope that we'll get back together(feels kinda fuckin lame2 me) or just move on entirely and just block her on fb and just get her out of my head and life.
She's the first gf I've had since I was 19 that I've actually had real feelings for and wasn't just with her for sex and someone to chill with.
What would you do?
Frederick Buzzway - Fri, 06 Sep 2019 20:09:41 EST T+17NiZt No.531567 Reply
I would just move on. Time is terrifyingly short, so don't waste any more of it if nothing's gonna happen any soon. You'll be in the doldrums of middle-age before you know it and wishing you had reached out more when you were young.

at Crossroads in ldr

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- Wed, 04 Sep 2019 11:14:34 EST Hf1+ikC0 No.531504
File: 1567610074691.jpg -(1781309B / 1.70MB, 3264x1840) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. at Crossroads in ldr
honestly im tired of paying so much for traveling, the distance, the lack of substance in video calls (either talking about shallow shit like our day or talking about our feelings and this relationship). The sex was good, we got along good, but im have been tired and unsatisfied in this LDR (2-3hr commute) for a long time now. my family doesnt think she is good for me either and she is not the best looking girl. But she loves me with the heart of a child, pure and full of love and it has been a huge source of healing for me. One part of me wants to break up but another part of me also wants to treasure what I have. Pls advice me anons, im on the train to go see her now and it's been over a month since we met. She is probably going to come hugging me and saying in that cute voice "I missed you <3" while resting on my shoulders. Im so split rn pls help.
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Matilda Sagglelare - Thu, 05 Sep 2019 18:49:53 EST jnas4L6T No.531541 Reply

at least you seem to be honest with yourself about your flaws. that is the hardest part for most people is admitting their faults
Charles Sebblehood - Thu, 05 Sep 2019 21:05:22 EST ELFJ/DE/ No.531547 Reply
the darker side of my personality has caused me too much suffering, regret and guilt. I would very much like to confront and not act in the same way by which brought me so much pain. I think most people are brought to admit their faults when the pain becomes too much to not admit
Charles Sebblehood - Fri, 06 Sep 2019 12:03:35 EST ELFJ/DE/ No.531559 Reply
my parents are pretty immature on things and relationships are definitly one of those things. I dont plan on sharing with them my feelings or any emotional troubles. But when my Mom just found out about my now ex gf and was screaming she is ugly and how she doesnt like the girl i straight up told my mom to shut her mouth. Some of my parents actions makes sick to the stomach tbh how immature they r

my ex was a nice girl did nothing wrong and loved me unconditionally, i wonder if i can find love like that again. it was all so pure 😔

I want to kill myself (not going to do it)

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- Thu, 05 Sep 2019 20:10:09 EST dSPy0yiU No.531543
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yippie dippie dippie i want to die

it is the most horrible thing imaginable. why do i want to die? why do i want to die. I can't even be honest about it. I know exactly why. I am so selfish. I hate myself so much. I'm just so exhausted. I've lost everything I love again. I don't want to go on.

It's going to hurt so much. It's going to hurt them so much. I can't do it. I wont do it. I can't. I hate myself so much. I don't want to feel this pain anymore. I JUST WANT OUT I WANT OUT I WANT TO GET OUT PLEASE GOD PLEASE I DONT WANT TO DIE. IM SORRY. IM SO SORRY.

im seeing a therapist and i take meds and im not going to kill myself. i wont make a suicide plan. i wont keep anything dangerous around. But i don't want to live anymore. I don't want to be punished for not wanting to live anymore.


Just to clarify, by hurting people I mean that killing myself would hurt the people who love me.
I don't want scare anyone and misunderstand what i mean by that. I simply just want to die. I feel like I have to walk on eggshells just to admit that. I am not a danger to anyone but myself, so please allow me to process my feelings without being afraid.
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Fanny Currybodging - Thu, 05 Sep 2019 20:18:27 EST dSPy0yiU No.531545 Reply
I am so alone. I need love right now. I need to be loved. I am so scared.
Fanny Currybodging - Thu, 05 Sep 2019 20:20:31 EST dSPy0yiU No.531546 Reply
please love me. i miss you. i need to be loved. i can't feel it. i feel so sick. i just want someone to love me. i need love. i am so scared. it hurts so much why does it hurt so much it hurts it hurts please
Fanny Currybodging - Thu, 05 Sep 2019 21:53:36 EST dSPy0yiU No.531549 Reply

This is relationship advice guy

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- Sun, 01 Sep 2019 02:13:22 EST hEhIvdDq No.531446
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Well my gf finally dumped me but I've been trying to talk her out of it and convince her that I really do want to start a life with her and have kids and have a normal family and what not but how do I actually go about this? I'm actively looking for a job and am trying to quit drinking and quit subitex but she just doesnt seem to believe me at all and its tearing me aprat.... Ive never felt this way towards someone in years and I really want it to work because shes awesome and I want her in my life shes the goofiest little cutie ive ever met and we have so much fun together and whenever I see her beautiful smile it feels like my heart is going to burst out of my chest like something from AVP... But i need to know how to show her that i am for real..... I love her so much
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Lydia Clacklefuck - Sun, 01 Sep 2019 22:50:43 EST yUhAjzvV No.531463 Reply
Then why won't she take you back? I feel like you're lying, not just to us, but probably yourself. She likely caught you still doing shit, albeit less of it than usual (or maybe even relapsing), and you think it shouldn't count against you. It should.
Archie Chondersire - Thu, 05 Sep 2019 10:58:39 EST hEhIvdDq No.531524 Reply
She did take me back... But then we broke up for good ln.
She's still in love with her ex and has been wicked shady and sneaky.
She even went to his place and hung out with him because (in her words) "he's the only one that knows how to cheer her up"
Like I guarantee they fucked cuz she ignored me for hours and then was wicked weird towards me when she did reply to me.

We're like definitely done for good now

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- Thu, 05 Sep 2019 11:13:11 EST hEhIvdDq No.531526
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I'm back with more lame ass relationship shit... But I gotta get it out and I don't really have anyone to talk about this stuff too, I can't just hold this all in.
She ghosted me for hours and went to go fuck her ex bf yesterday.
Idk, man. I'm not really that bummed out about it... I kinda expected it and tbh I think I was gonna leave her soon anyways because I can't take the lack of communication and shady behavior anymore.
She's been on me about drinking and doing suboxone... She drinks too, just as much as me... And I've been doing suboxone for almost 10 years so I like can't just stop whenever I want, I've been weening myself off it so I dont end up being an asshole and all moody all the time or wicked sick to the point of not wanting to leave my bed.
It's fucked up imo but i guess I'm kinda done caring...like, You guy's can think what you want about me but I never lied to her about anything and really did try my hardest andeven quit hanging out with my brother because he's an addict and my homeboy Dennis and his dad because they're wicked bad alcoholics...I was having some progress too.
I'm gonna keep trying to better my life whether she wants to be a part of it or not.
Priscilla Munnerfere - Thu, 05 Sep 2019 12:24:04 EST yU2gM7RL No.531528 Reply
Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks
Nigel Dartfuck - Thu, 05 Sep 2019 18:06:18 EST iJiVumQQ No.531534 Reply
That sucks mate. It seems like you were trying your best and she just isn't into it. You deserve better. Dump her.

Im 25 and am finally in love again

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- Sun, 01 Sep 2019 02:19:12 EST hEhIvdDq No.531447
File: 1567318752882.jpg -(103243B / 100.82KB, 720x835) Thumbnail displayed, click image for full size. Im 25 and am finally in love again
The last time i was with a chick that i was actually in love with was when i was 19 and she didnt feel the same at all and now I'm dating a 19 year old that i love and shes dumping me because she doesnt think I want a future with her and I'm teyimg to show her that im serious about everything and just want a normal life...
But up here on the border it seems so hard to get your life back on track when everything falls apart and idk what to do and no lie i feel like kms but dont wanna go that route and hurt everyone.
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Graham Pibbleford - Tue, 03 Sep 2019 14:03:05 EST pfQYdJPP No.531493 Reply
In his defense it's much easier than taking affirmative steps toward positive change.
Edwin Huckleshaw - Thu, 05 Sep 2019 02:35:42 EST dwRlUgko No.531520 Reply
i thought this said I'm 25 and am finally vegan again
Archie Chondersire - Thu, 05 Sep 2019 10:54:15 EST hEhIvdDq No.531523 Reply
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I really am making changes in my life.
Quitting drinking and drugs takes a little time.. It doesn't happen over night, man.
Like, tomorrow I could just up and say "yep, I quit drinking" but it'd be a lie and I'm not a liar.
It takes time.... All things take time.. especially when you're giving up an addiction.

What Do I Tell This Girl?

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- Fri, 30 Aug 2019 03:30:26 EST mvLcrMJ1 No.531395
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I'm in a 4 year relationship that is pretty mutual and tight. However a couple of days ago, I found my GF was talking with a guy where she works, nothing sexual or anything close to that, but it was enough to where she hid it from me, and it took a lot of talking for her to come clean about it. I guess I've been too focused on my business and what not lately, and have not been paying her enough attention.

This thread isn't about her though, when I found out this news I went out and got blotto drunk. I also did something I've never done before (age 32 now) which was ending up sleeping with a random girl. It was a great night and yeah I was drunk as shit; the next morning I felt dirty and guilty about the whole thing, but she wants to see me again. I have her number but she doesn't have mine, and I don't know what to say to her, if anything. She seems like a really decent girl, and it gives me a slight heartache when I think about just ignoring her and forgetting about it all. I was contemplating about coming totally clean and telling her exactly everything, but for a girl to hear she was some fling after I had an argument with my partner, isn't going to leave her feeling great at all.
And yeah I know, I clearly have some issues in my relationship for all of this to even happen in the first place, I get that.
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Doris Buzzman - Mon, 02 Sep 2019 13:22:35 EST 2NI5pfsM No.531478 Reply
Did I? SHE CONFESSED TO ME! Haven't you read any of the original post. She has since admitted to me that she had been talking to them. One of them she said 'we could have maybe started something if he stayed around and didn't go back to his country'
I have since told her tonight, that it might be best if we break up seeing as I cannot provide what she wants. She is still intent on staying with me, so at this point I am just trying to work out how to finish things as cleanly as possible
Ernest Fanbanks - Mon, 02 Sep 2019 13:25:40 EST 4Avidcnb No.531479 Reply
Yeah she shut a guy down and you fucked a prostitute. End your own life.
Martha Bengerstidging - Wed, 04 Sep 2019 22:04:17 EST dnTuP0EZ No.531513 Reply

You should take a breath. You sound like you've been hurt and haven't quite come to terms with it.

OP, it sounds like hearts wandering at the same time, just in different ways. Not to defend what either of you did, you caught her red-handed and yeah that's gonna fuck you up, learning that your partner is looking for something else after 3 years.

It would be great if all relationships could be totally free communication where this kind of things just gets talked out and resolved way before this point, but it's never easy to face the death of a relationship. That being said, this is not the worst way a relationship can end, I'll tell you that, a bit awkward, but inevitable once the decision was made to find romance elsewhere.

Constantly bummed out

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- Mon, 02 Sep 2019 15:12:02 EST hEhIvdDq No.531481
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I'm like always bummed out and don't really see my life progressing...
I need some ideas on this to do to distract myself from life other than booze and drugs
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Samuel Geshmuck - Tue, 03 Sep 2019 12:19:46 EST yUhAjzvV No.531491 Reply
Sounds like you are bummed out because your life isn't going anywhere, which translates to it lacking any real purpose or meaning. Try getting a hobby you stick with that you will continue to do whether you really see any progress in it or not... or rather, one you do simply because you enjoy and don't actually care whether you perform at some standard doing it.

This hobby should be one that serves as a creative outlet, not one whose only function is mindless entertainment. A creative hobby will wind up producing results where you have something to show for it. It will serve both as a form of mindless entertainment that allows you to escape from some of life's stress in a healthy way (so long as it doesn't become something obsessive). It will not only serve as a break from life, but be an exercise in creative thinking, lateral thinking, problem solving, and a way to express feelings and whatnot (even if totally unconsciously/unintentionally). It'll be a form of productive escape and stress relief that not only trains you to become more intelligent in a way, but more creative, mentally resilient, and who knows, something you become good enough at that you can become proud of your work and even a way to make a living or contribute to society.

BWQQ : bump when QQ

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- Fri, 17 May 2019 02:16:59 EST cSntlhQ8 No.529418
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I searched 5 pages back. Does this board get a bump thread? just vent about feelings and emotions here.

My heroin addict neighbor has been being a bitch to me lately. I can't cuss her out while talking to her, but she has been yelling at me and freaking out. So I'm gonna talk smack about her here. Sorry if this is shit posting.

holy fuck speak of the devil. shes texting me now. i did not even read what she wrote. im gonna delete it. fuck this psycho bitch. she is causing me so much stress. I hope I'm making a thread correctly.
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Sophie Blythestone - Tue, 03 Sep 2019 11:09:50 EST dwRlUgko No.531488 Reply
That sounds like it fucking sucks, dude. Is there any kind of alternative treatment? For me it's headaches but I know how it feels when you need to work but you don't have medication on you and it fucks you up
Samuel Geshmuck - Tue, 03 Sep 2019 11:40:46 EST yUhAjzvV No.531489 Reply
how bad is your sweating actually though? what's your job? like, i've got hyperhydrosis too, which i developed after being a heat casualty (Getting heat exhaustion twice) in the Army and already being someone who sweated a lot before that.

like, i am completely soaked at work (often even getting my shorts/pants soaked), but i work at a factory on night shift. yeah, people are always like "goddamn dude" but i suppose it isn't all that embarrassing because it isn't out of place to sweat. I just drink anywhere between 11-16 waters/powerades during the course of my 11 hour shift.

honestly, i get made fun of more for how much i drink more than for how much i sweat. i come in with an 8 pack of powerade everyday and people are always like "goddamn you got enough to drink?" and i have to say in a jovial tone, but in complete seriousness, "nah i'll probably still have to buy like 4 more". i drink at least one per hour, and i only pee on average once or twice per day.
Samuel Geshmuck - Tue, 03 Sep 2019 12:07:01 EST yUhAjzvV No.531490 Reply
addressing your other symptoms, how dehydrated do you think you are getting? how much do you drink in a day?

the getting lightheaded and almost passing out standing up is called orthostatic hypotension. it's caused by your heart pressure suddenly dropping extremely low when standing up, because your blood pools in your legs and toward wherever gravity takes it, and when you stand up all that excess blood in your legs causes a delayed constriction of your blood vessels (which is required to maintain your blood pressure/equilibrium in the cardiovascular system), which prevents enough blood getting transported to the heart. This results in reduced cardiac output and inadequate blood flow to the brain.

it's normal for blood pressure to drop when standing up, but lightheadedness, vertigo, tunnel vision, passing out, etc. only occurs when something else is going on. typically it's caused either by vasodilators (makes blood vessels wider). sometimes vasoconstrictors (thins blood vessels), stimulants/diuretics, or is caused by dehydration or blood loss. in your case, the most obvious cause is obviously dehydration, which is why i asked how much you are drinking.

the pins and needles and itchiness can be caused by other things. are the pins and needles in your extremities (hands, lower arms, feet, lower legs) or is it in places like your back/lower back, behind your arms, and the back side of your body in general? same with with itchiness, is it in the extremities or on your back/backside? the pins and needles, if in your extremities could indicate a lot of vasoconstriction, which might play into and help explain your orthostatic hypotension. the itchiness could just be a secondary side-effect of said vasoconstriction.

on the other hand, if the pins and needles and itchiness seems to be centered around your back/backside, you could have what we called "prickly heat" in the Army. it's caused by sweating so much without being able to regularly bathe (in most regular people) that salt from dried sweat clogs up the pores and makes the act of sweating actually physically painful, which feels like being stabbed with a bunch of tiny needles or being stung by lots of little bugs. since you over sweat, even with regular bathing, it could still be causing this to happen (i get it from time to time). the reason it happens to your back and backside (like the back of your arms and shit) the most is because you are sitting for long periods of time while sweating, and this causes those pores to get clogged up more easily.

>----Important Hydration shit----
So, it sounds like you are dehydrated. You should be drinking a 2:1 ratio of water to a drink with electrolytes, like gatorade/powerade. Something a lot of people neglect mentioning though is how important eating properly and consistently is to staying hydrated. Overdrinking just causes you to piss out all your electrolytes, making you more dehydrated in the long run. Sometimes the difference between overdrinking and drinking as much of you should isn't actually the amount of fluids you drink, but how much you are eating.

See, what I mean is, hydration is a bit of a complicated process. It isn't as simple as drinking something and becoming hydrated. For the body, how the fluids you drink get absorbed, as well as the concentrations of electrolytes present in the fluids and the cells the fluids come into contact with are all extremely important in the hydration process. Too little electrolytes or too much water means losing electrolytes in your cells and having them get pissed out. The solution of water/fluids outside the cells and the solution of fluids/salts(electrolytes) inside the cells want to reach equilibrium. Since osmosis allows water and salts to permeate the cell membranes, the outside solution and inside solution become a combined sort of super-solution until the outside solution moves on to other parts of the body or is excreted.

Well, having food in you not only changes nutrient/electrolyte levels in your cells and blood, but the food present in your digestive tract actually aids in the slow, more consistent absorption of the fluids you take in. This is important because it means maintaining more stable electrolyte levels and having less of that fluid get excreted as urine and be actually utilized by the body.

So, to help with your orthostatic hypotension problem, try and hydrate yourself better b…
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How to get over my breakup?

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- Mon, 26 Aug 2019 17:02:28 EST 8iggXxK9 No.531309
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She wasn't the best to me and breaking up was the right move, I think I'm pretty low-maintenance but she wasn't even giving me what little affection I do need to feel right. Even still, confronting her about that issue and reaching the conclusion that she didn't want to work through it with me fucking sucked, and it happened after a whole day of basically getting iced and shunned by her at a lot of public events. Overall I know that this was what I needed to do but I'm still in a lot of pain over it, and I don't want to make stupid moves.

I know you guys have dealt with this kind of shit before, how do you get through it and get over it?
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Lydia Clacklefuck - Mon, 02 Sep 2019 09:04:19 EST yUhAjzvV No.531468 Reply
In other words, it may be too soon, it may not be. It's up to you decide that. Whatever your choice, even if it turns out to be the "wrong" choice, you can deal with that just fine if and when it takes place. You'll be fine; as long as you are alive, you have the power to make of the world and your life what you want of it.
Ernest Fanbanks - Mon, 02 Sep 2019 12:48:19 EST 4Avidcnb No.531473 Reply
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Now you've got to get a hold of a teensy weensy bit of that weedle-dee-deed! That WEEDLE-DEE-DEED haha oh my goddddddddd anon haha Jesus man Jesus! I'm high as FUCK right now holy shit tutti fruition I'm in a fucking high ass condition! Man you gotta get high and jack off thinking about her Opie! Yes indeedle-dee-deed smoke that weedle-dee-deed every god damn diddly day you ninny muggins! I'm high as FUCK!!

I have every right in the world to hate them

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- Mon, 26 Aug 2019 17:47:56 EST qSBAVAm/ No.531313
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>both me and my sister had to deal with severe mental issues for years due to our fucktard parents
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Henry Shakeson - Fri, 30 Aug 2019 15:51:54 EST 8fcICm3b No.531425 Reply
Yeah this.
This person seems very, very invested in making sure other people forgive.

Almost like they're specifically searching for forgiveness from someone and are butthurt that they're not getting it.
Eugene Smallcocke - Sat, 31 Aug 2019 21:50:42 EST yUhAjzvV No.531442 Reply
...or they found themselves in OPs shoes and forgiveness is what helped them move past it and they can't see any other way (whether that's right or wrong).

i'm not saying OP should or shouldn't forgive anybody either way, but if you are going to suck at it this bad, then fuck off with your armchair psychology. god you're a twat
Oliver Sozzlemone - Sun, 01 Sep 2019 13:27:23 EST 8D4GRXCN No.531461 Reply
What the fuck? These are objectively mentally healthy behaviors.

cuties and online dating

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- Sun, 01 Sep 2019 13:01:14 EST fHILlDGQ No.531457
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Why do I only match with cuties in online dating? Am I that unattractive?
Oliver Sozzlemone - Sun, 01 Sep 2019 13:23:01 EST 8D4GRXCN No.531458 Reply
In a world
Where every child
Has a high definition camera
In their pocket
You don't post a pic.

Perhaps you can murder yourself.

The Other Guy

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- Fri, 30 Aug 2019 08:26:59 EST m3kxgfQA No.531403
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My GF and I (both 27, more than a year dating) are going on a trip to another nearby city for fun. She has a lot of friends and family in this city, so we'd see them to say hi.

One of her friends is a straight single dude. Normally, I'd be fine whatever, don't be insecure or whatever. But she told me (she brought it up) that she met this dude from a dating app a while back, they went on one date, and HE was the one who said "i don't see sparks flying, we should be friends", and she agreed. He moved to this city that we're going to, and they've still kept in touch on social media talking and stuff as friends.

I didn't care when she first told me about him, I really didn't. It's that they met off of a dating app that gets me. My alarm bells are going off because it's not like he was a childhood friend or even a fucking co-worker or something, they met with the intention to fuck and date,and for whatever reason, it didn't work out - and that's just her side of the story that she told me.

Now I'm considering 1) not agreeing to meet up with this guy with her because i don't want to be a part of any weird masculine-competition thing, 2) agreeing to meet up with this guy and just sucking it up. she did bring this up and tell me without me prying, so at least she's not hiding anything from me? or 3) leaving her completely and not going on the trip cause this is some red flag orbiter shit.

What should I do?
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Walter Sollyhedging - Sat, 31 Aug 2019 11:04:28 EST V6inbDPQ No.531438 Reply
Idk why people tolerate this kind of stuff. I've been there. I was confused and thought I was just being jealous and paranoid and a bad partner.

No fuck it, compromising and walking on glass all the time isn't worth not being alone.
Henry Pupperworth - Sat, 31 Aug 2019 12:50:11 EST DdNmIOmh No.531439 Reply
Yes, you got wrapped up in your own head and lost the ability to cope.
Cyril Mannerdale - Sun, 01 Sep 2019 04:30:18 EST iJiVumQQ No.531454 Reply
You're so sure that your lady will cheat on you for a dude she met on tinder. So much so that your trip away together now has a conspiracy theory. That's funny and also very sad.

Sheesh maybe believe in yourself and your lady a little bit. Why are you in a relationship? Wish fulfillment? You're supposed to work together. Talk to her about it if you're in so much anguish.

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