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Do you believe women are the property of men or equal to men

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- Fri, 17 Dec 2021 13:27:29 EST aEJ3rftp No.541572
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What is your opinion on women being men's property or equal to men?
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Emma Trotstone - Wed, 22 Dec 2021 13:37:38 EST TUNoVbqk No.541637 Reply
Remember when inceloid views like this were expressed - mostly ironically - on 4ch*n only and now you see this shit everywhere from here to r*ddit? Something has gone horribly wrong.
Have sex.
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David Hushsture - Wed, 22 Dec 2021 14:28:52 EST qxHlraK/ No.541638 Reply
Are you just too stupid to realize what board you're posting this crap on?
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Phyllis Fummertuck - Thu, 23 Dec 2021 12:26:08 EST RIDqYV4z No.541645 Reply
>>541637

remember when everyone thought they were being ironic but it turns out it was never ironic, not once, and that was the plan all along

a friend of mine thought it was all ironic and i couldn't convince him otherwise and he went to a meetup and got teh life beaten out of him by his own "friends" because of his gait and skin colour

eh. more mama drama

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- Wed, 08 Dec 2021 08:24:13 EST Is6YGJ6d No.541444
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I've posted here before, most recently about my mom dying in a car crash suicide. I don't know if I need advice/comments or just to vent. The former would be nice, I guess.

I'm still glad I went to the place she died, but I am having even more trouble with PTSD lately than usual.

Talking to siblings and other family unearthed a bunch of stuff, including that I was molested. on top of everything else my parents did to me and each other.

We have to sell my childhood home. It's intensely traumatic to think of losing it. It held all of these irreplaceable family items and documents, back to the 1800s, and they were all tossed. Along with my mom dying (she was the primary oral historian of the family, knew about everyone), I lost a huge chunk of my ancestry as well. And all the dogs i loved, they were all dead when I came back and I hadn't even known they died. Ashes, like mom. Also thrown out.

I keep having weird intrusive thoughts, flashbacks, dreams. I'll think about her touching my face as a kid, and suddenly think about those hands, her eyes, her hair, her fat and muscle, how much of them was in the ashes I touched. I dream about huge losses, looking for her. there's a lot of things I can't stand any more. similar to how I was after I escaped domestic violence. Sometimes I can't speak or communicate at all, it just shuts down, or I cry for hours, or something will upset me and I will start shaking and lose a chunk of time.

I wish I could get to a grief group. I can't talk about what I've been seeing and feeling in any of my normal support or social settings.
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Lillian Fimblehall - Mon, 20 Dec 2021 16:49:52 EST XSZZrjOH No.541613 Reply
>>541524
You are a racist lol. Or maybe you just act like this so you can blend in with your racist friend group lol
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Charlotte Gindlewill - Tue, 21 Dec 2021 11:25:39 EST 5V5rPYC3 No.541625 Reply
>>541524

Based on a previous post of yours, yes, quite. Why are you in denial? You can't just spew a bunch of racist shit and then pretend you aren't racist. We're not as dumb as you are.

I am an insufferable faggot.

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- Thu, 16 Dec 2021 21:07:10 EST uQxyck5Z No.541566
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I want perfection, but without the effort. I am so conceited that I want it perfect, get all sad because it isn't perfect, even though I didn't put in enough effort to make it perfect. Literally I have destroyed my life because of this inability to rectify my narcissism with reality.

Do I have any recourse to being such an insufferable faggot?
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Edward Billychad - Fri, 17 Dec 2021 19:15:50 EST uQxyck5Z No.541575 Reply
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>>541567
Thanks, this kind of makes me feel better. I don't know if it was abuse in the typical overt sense, but I had a particularly weird emotional childhood and adolescence, numerous odd, uncomfortable incidences that I dwell on for whatever reasons.

>>541569
Trying, really.

>>541573
Seen your other posts, I think there is something to dopamine fasting, exercising, and meditation. I was doing keto, did seem to help. maintaining consistency has always been an issue.

Struggling right now, juggling work, and university, no partner. trying to eat healthy consistently, maintain a sleep schedule, plus the demands of studying on top of work that feels physically, emotionally, draining / going unrecognized for commitment, or time put in.

"be careful of substances with that give a false ideal" what does this even mean? Specifics? I do drink alcohol, and drink coffee. I am thinking coffee of giving the caffeine up, alcohol is something I fall into occasionally, never go binge status, but enough to make me want to quit it for good.

I genuinely think I could use a deep psychedelic trip to get myself out of this shitty work-school rut I am in, but am proceeding cautiously. What about MDMA, I read reports of people having breakthroughs with their traumas on it, like fully cognizant integration.

Genuinely frustrated at state of world, lack of passion/artistry/diversity that isn't present in majority lives, everything homogenizing.
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Fucking Sengerridge - Sat, 18 Dec 2021 23:19:32 EST 2okVbsG8 No.541584 Reply
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>>541575
Yeah, coffee is really bad for you, i recommend cutting it completely. also alcohol.
Maybe consider a break or part time school because imo the stress is not worth. idk what it is but i stopped being suicidal when i left university, and also did a 10 day fast. by the way you should check if you have candida(craving for sugar, sweet things). like 60-80% of bad bad depression went away when it finally died out of me, then lifestyle is the last percentage. consider a different job if possible because that's incredibly demonic. i literally dont work anymore because of crypto and moving to a cheap country but i guess you dont have a choice but to do both school and work together which sucks major ass and you should genuinely reduce it as much as possible. the stress and misery simply isn't worth it and maybe the worlds gonna end soon who knows
>Genuinely frustrated at state of world, lack of passion/artistry/diversity that isn't present in majority lives, everything homogenizing.
this is like, you have to make your own pocket universe in the world with that special yearning in your heart epic style. the way out is in as they say
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Arali3DvQas
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ElhvJkz6HIo
drugs, psychs are fun, but don't expect it to solve problems for you. maybe once, one time, ok, i can recommend that. write things down if you want, just don't expect it to really change you permanently, even if it feels that way. the only way out is like lifestyle.also read ted kaczynski, why not

A felon gets multiple head shot by the police

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- Thu, 16 Dec 2021 16:03:27 EST aEJ3rftp No.541565
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gj9mn4UCIaA

Your local police are authorized to use deadly force regardless of the outcome
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Matilda Fuckingcocke - Fri, 17 Dec 2021 19:02:11 EST DMPOlzSV No.541574 Reply
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>>541565
Fucking good. As a Canadian, so am I. Our self-defence laws include defending yourself with necessary force, up to AND INCLUDING deadly force. in fact, there's a commonly cited case where a drug dealer was the subject of a raid, and the RCMP serving the high-risk warrant arrived in an unmarked car and didn't announce themselves properly and got magdumped through a wall for their trouble. The drug dealer only had to answer for being a drug dealer -- the murder charges were dismissed because the guy had a reasonable fear for his life and no reasonable suspicion that it was police at his door.

Undue or unlawful armed force can be freely met with armed force.

Deadly force can be freely met with deadly force.

Not that you'll ever win in our day and age; even peer adversaries in military engagements are genrally fought as retreating or even losing battles unless an early advantage is gained; you or some other dipshit in the woods, even in ambush against a peer adversary, can't really hope to win against artillery or good intel or even just sheer numbers backing a peer force
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Matilda Fuckingcocke - Fri, 17 Dec 2021 19:25:51 EST DMPOlzSV No.541576 Reply
And, because I want to vent, I gotta say it; I know my standing Rules Of Engagement for bullshit alongside, and an oft-overlooked fact is that any ROE cannot be any more restrictive than that provided by normal Canadian Criminal Code

>You always ahve the inherent right to self-defence, and with it, the minimum level of force required to protect yourself, your shipmates, and the ship.
Let's run through it
>Yourself
You always have the right to defend yourself.
>Your Shipmates
You always have, if you are in Quebec, the duty to defend any other to the limit of your ability, and in all other provinces, are not liable in not defending others, but are strongly recommended to. Unfortunately, units have a weird variant of Corporate Personhood and so any attack on a unit-as-group-of-people can be interepreted as an attack on any individual within that unit, and any attack on any individual in that unit in the couse of military duties can be construed as an attack on the whole unit. It's recursive.
>The Ship
The ship is a life-sustaining device in that if it is destroyed, its occupants will die. Attack on your ship can be construed as an equivalent level of force since destroying the object will destroy the person or persons aboard.

And that's why it's entirely OK to demolish a ground unit with .50 fire in self-defense if you're a single operator, and the old lore about "shoot at their belts lol" is bullshit.

All that said, again, good luck meeting a peer adversary in battle and winning. People at traffic stops from unmarked cars with plainclothes police don't exactly have strong ECM and ESM coverage. But that's why when I have my own house, I plan to have fitted chaff and flare launchers and rail-launched drones to tell any two-bit robber that they are on RADAR and FLIR and any responding cops that they better have good ESM and ECM if they wanna act a fool too. radarflares do fucking work and paraflares will silhouette targets nicely, and retreat under strong jamming and bright lights has a proven track record of Ks above 1
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Matilda Fuckingcocke - Fri, 17 Dec 2021 19:36:45 EST DMPOlzSV No.541577 Reply
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basically what I'm getting at here in my drunken shitposting, is that in countries that matter, getting into firefights with police is a bad idea, but if they open fire first, they are probably legally in the wrong. If you can survive that firefight long enough to see a lawyer, you'll win in court. If you aren't confident you can, well, there's always paraflares and smoke and shit, if flashing a mil ID and begging for forgiveness wasn't enough.

Would you bash a pedophile's brains out like a water balloon?

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- Wed, 15 Dec 2021 20:26:25 EST aEJ3rftp No.541560
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https://www.selfdefenseproducts.com/batons/straight-batons/
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Basil Brockleham - Thu, 16 Dec 2021 06:24:31 EST jpYssR2z No.541564 Reply
>>541560
I'd call the police because I'm not a fucking joker. Provoking vulnerable people to violence is trash behavior.

Jeez

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- Sat, 20 Nov 2021 23:13:18 EST IjfmEGnN No.541214
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By far the worst day of 2021, my day was going good was just another day until couple hours ago, found out my baby neice got a head tumor, it went from being a tooth problem to a fuckin tumor, I was beyond shocked and still am, I've been crying off and on throughout the pass few hours looking at photos and videos just grieving, I felt like I got to tell someone feels surreal; not too long ago my nephew was yelling at a toddler then the kid starts crying so I go see what's going on and nothing was going on neph trying to send kid to the room for nothing, I tell him leave him alone then he goes and starts talking shit to me so I yell, what does he do and starts trying to fight me, getting right up in my face, my 13 year old nephew trying to fight me, I never felt so disrespected especially at a time like this.

Now I'm feeling like total shit, I yelled in front of the young ones, my nephew said some real harsh things and threatening me, my baby neice and that fuckin tumor, I'm trying not to think the worst but can't stop thinking and feeling bad, I'm trying to think positive like that tumor being caught early and would be able to be treated, my nephew understanding what family is and the situation our family is going through.

I just can't shake this feeling might have to sleep it off, thanks for reading
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Eugene Washbick - Wed, 15 Dec 2021 11:17:02 EST JPAAIXX/ No.541557 Reply
>>541556
I don't know what you're getting out of downplaying OP's inappropriate behavior but I think you need to stop. We've all heard what you've had to say about this.
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Oliver Ninnercocke - Wed, 15 Dec 2021 11:24:16 EST K6sWG489 No.541558 Reply
>>541557

I wasn't kidding when I said that psychopaths troll this board to hurt vulnerable people. I'm not going to let someone get gaslit into hurting themselves
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Hedda Dondlestock - Wed, 15 Dec 2021 13:49:38 EST Z22aVCCw No.541559 Reply
yelling at a child who is in pain and completely overwhelmed by emotions and picking up on all the emotions around him and desperately needing for support is emotional neglect, no if ands or buts,

yes it is necessarily emotional neglect, no it's not necessarily emotional abuse, OP might have yelled "LEAVE ME ALONE" and run to his room and slammed the door, which is a neglectful mistake, not abuse. Neglect is just as psychologically damaging, that kid needs someone as much as his sister does

Shit like this is correctable, no single incidence of emotional neglect amounts to neglect, you can make it up to him, please work on your own emotional regulation, they need you to model appropriate behaviour and how to deal with emotions and how to be open and caring with your loved ones even when you are scared.

like you got worried and yelled at him, and you are surprised his worry escalated into threats? where else was there left to go? What else is he supposed to do with the tension if you you escalated instead of checking in, slowing down, offering comfort and support

strange

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- Sun, 12 Dec 2021 05:06:34 EST 58ORw/WT No.541532
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all of my friends have dead mothers who passed away from cancer. i didnt choose that, it just happened. this makes me slightly uncomfortable, as if its some kind of omen. i dont know what to do with this information, i just know its odd. can you understand my discomfort?
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Cedric Dallydut - Sun, 12 Dec 2021 10:06:25 EST Z22aVCCw No.541536 Reply
dude you feel uncomfortable because you are human and we are pattern seeking creatures, we look for patterns everywhere we can, we are constantly trying to gather information and use it to make predictions because we live in this world with so much uncertainty and so many bad things that can happen to good people and we come up with wild explanations.

There's just no mechanism to explain why being friends with one person, or with 1000 people, who have death mothers would somehow change your chances of losing your mother.

Think about psychotherapists, most of the people they talk to every day have experienced terrible things (of course some lucky people go for personal development or to improve relationships), do you think psychotherapists have worse luck than ordinary people as a result?

Wouldn't we notice if psychotherapists, who are surrounded by people going through or who have been through horrible things, had far worse luck and kept getting in traumatic situations?

If anything they have better luck, they seem to have more longevity from people of similar backgrounds with different jobs, not because of luck or karma or any kind of manifesting, but because they learn real practical coping mechanisms that they use with clients, and they get to learn a lot of wisdom vicariously through their clients, and they get to practice coping mechanisms a lot by teaching them to clients. It's practical stuff that impacts what happens to you,

it's practical stuff that impacts your risk of cancer, it's about 50% stuff like living in the city vs the country side, smoking, stress, genetics, people have done real life studies based on real actual patterns, controlling for other factors, not on coincidences and magical thinking and "the lunatic law of attraction"

There's only one certainty in life and that is that shit happens, if any of our mom's get cancer it won't be because of who we made friends with it will be genetics or environmental factors or just a random mutation in the body that the t-cells didn't manage to eliminate in time through roll of the dice (we all develop cancer cells multiple times in our life, but usually the t-cells find it and kill it before it becomes a problem)
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Beatrice Gummlewodge - Sun, 12 Dec 2021 13:08:54 EST tvo8lESB No.541537 Reply
>>541536
>t-cells didn't manage to eliminate in time through roll of the dice (we all develop cancer cells multiple times in our life, but usually the t-cells find it and kill it before it becomes a problem)
thats super interesting and sure i was afraid of an unknown danger coming closer, foreshadowing future. And i cannot pretend im not hooked up on the idea i form my future through expectations. But it makes me slightly balanced to reassure i can actively answer with daily routines and habbits good outcomes. thx

Reassurance

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- Wed, 08 Dec 2021 03:09:13 EST dGLjnarN No.541440
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Can you guys please remind me that I'm going to be okay and I can make it. I'm 23 and have been on the 5th of vodka for the longest. It goes way way deeper but I can sense I'm ready to just get up and get my shit together but I beat myself up with the cards I've been dealt. I'm optimistic just lack reassurance.
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Jenny Goodbury - Sat, 11 Dec 2021 09:21:39 EST n8DIpFa7 No.541520 Reply
>>541519
>impotently
And you didn't reply impotently at all, did you? Hmm? How did you reply? Virily?
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Jarvis Brablingkure - Sun, 12 Dec 2021 02:09:58 EST iwLkUvRi No.541530 Reply
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>>541520
>communicates his anger both intentionally and unintentionally

Wondering where i am

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- Wed, 08 Dec 2021 15:51:40 EST nXLETu6T No.541447
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Whats if im in a holocaust?
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Angus Conderford - Wed, 08 Dec 2021 16:05:48 EST nXLETu6T No.541450 Reply
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>>541449
I am wonderinf i eating meat is even acceptable. I dont know where the mest comes from, this could be a dick. Im not sure if were truly just cannibals in an overpopulated country>>541449
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Tarmack Macterlorn - Thu, 09 Dec 2021 18:45:00 EST XlUX5dnl No.541469 Reply
>>541449
I identify with pic related. especially the bottom part.

Taylor

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- Wed, 08 Dec 2021 17:13:29 EST nXLETu6T No.541451
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Realise that i am a god. I want to have sex. I am above all of you. I might like weed too, but realise if i dont get what i want i may have to pick a religion that says no drugs allowed, and then none of you get to do them anymore.
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Wesley Blenderpore - Thu, 09 Dec 2021 11:31:53 EST Z22aVCCw No.541467 Reply
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oh are we all posting our faces now is this tumblr now ok here is my face
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Wesley Blenderpore - Thu, 09 Dec 2021 11:40:25 EST Z22aVCCw No.541468 Reply
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THE YEAR IS 2021 THERE ARE NO MORE CHANS EVERYTHIGN IS INSTAGRAM AND YOUR FACE IS EVERYWHERE AND EVERYONE HAS TO LOOK AT IT

carousel of feelings

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- Sat, 04 Dec 2021 09:43:12 EST vjSo70o+ No.541407
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>Ended my relationship of 4 years with my now ex, who i dont love anymore
>moved back to the little town i used to live
>go to a party pub, find there a girl i was madly in love when i was younger
>chat a little bit, both just ended a long relationship and enjoy same things (we hanged out via friends before)
> chemistry is obvius, we had a laugh we kiss and exchange numbers
>we were both high and drunk so we were kind of a mess but nevermind
>next day we go on a date, we walk on the beach drink some mate talk A LOT, support each other on our just ended relationship, we cuddle kiss, everything, all in all we had an amazing time, kind of tell what were gonna do the next day we hang out


>yesterday spent the day with friends, i missed them and had an amazing day but i cant stop thinking about her, like the whole fucking day

>today finally after waiting 2 fucking days thinking only of her, ask her out later
>her reply "yeah id love to but my mom wanted to do x so if we dont do it sure we can meet"

FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK
im obviusly in a fucking big dissadvantage here, im bleeding love for this girl and im obviusly just a passing though to her, plus im also obviusly hanging onto her to not miss my ex and i dont know what to do to not feel so fucking wrong
Like im so happy im feeling alive again but then i also WANT the other person to be mine and shes just so free and careless, im trying to play cool but is so fucking hard with this bitch and her amazong smile and petite ass
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David Broshman - Tue, 07 Dec 2021 11:30:10 EST C0OX1NXH No.541437 Reply
que paja chuparle un huevo a la persona que me gusta
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Phoebe Gemmlelock - Tue, 07 Dec 2021 13:37:43 EST qxHlraK/ No.541438 Reply
Hey OP, is it okay to go off topic and ask what it's like living in Argentina?
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Edwin Fizzlefoot - Tue, 07 Dec 2021 15:55:13 EST ig1WEng+ No.541439 Reply
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>>541438
Pretty comfy in the countryside, very intense in the city, i like it here, i like the calmness and hospitality of (most) of our people, but economically and politically were been in disaster for the last 50 years , im probably gonna move to some other country if the next elections go wrong

Ive seen a lot of yankees in capital federal this last year, guess we are very cheap and still beautiful, if you ever wanna come go to bariloche, misiones and mendoza, you literally can live like a king for a month with 1000 USD

Where are u from anon?


>>541407
Also we kind of talked today and later asked her out but she already made plans and wanted to meet in a coffe later but im not gonna be someone second plan so fuck her

I can't deal with my house anymore

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- Fri, 26 Nov 2021 07:35:46 EST EDRvll8I No.541327
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Taking care of a home without water service and on my own is too much. I'm too stressed. Doing dishes everyday and laundry it's all too much for me.
I'm just a girl and alone and locked in my home 24/7 because I'm mentally unstable. But this is not fair 😭 I'm alone it's hard i can't cope or talk to anyone to drain it because i have nobody close to me enough that can help me.
I'm poor and this isn't supposed to be like this. I miss my mom.
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Fuckin fuck

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- Wed, 01 Dec 2021 23:15:03 EST UHyFcIwS No.541383
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I knew parenting would be hard, but holy shit bro. Just holy fuckin' shit

Took my son out to look at Christmas lights. I have my daughter in a harness on my chest, my husband is holding his hand. The entire week, this kid has argued about every. Single. Fuckin. Thing. About brushing his teeth, when to have dinner, the dog wants to play with him, EVERYTHING. But fuck it right? Let's be a family, lets do Christmas shit, let's look at lights.

My daughter is having a blast. She's looking and smiling at all the lights. She's one of those babies who doesn't always laughs, so the fact that she is laughing is rocking our world. Well then my son out if nowhere gets scared. Can't go on. My husband offers to hold him. No. My husband offers to hold his hand. No. We have to go back this way. No kiddo, this is the way we need to go. Que screaming. He starts waving around the cool light up sword and hits us. Starts just full on tantrum mode while we are just trying to do something nice for him and his sister. 20 minutes of this, so at that point we just have to leave because no one is happy or having fun.

This isn't the first. It won't be the last. But it hurts. I know he's just a kid, it's a phase, we can move through it and work on it together. It's not the end of the world. But we end up getting mad at him in the car and raise our voices, threaten to throw away the sword. Not cool. Not good parenting.

I hate it. I feel like a bad mom. I feel like my son hates me and anything we try to do. I feel like my husband hates this life. I feel like I shouldn't have brought my daughter into the world. I feel like nothing I do is right and I'm just anothet fucked up parent bringing more assholes into this shithole we call Earth.

I'm just some stupid white bitch stay at home mom. Everyone has bigger problems than me. I know this isn't as bad as it could be. But fuck me. I just want to be a good mom and do nice things for and with my family that doesn't end in screaming and crying over literally fucking nothing.

End rant. Fuckin sorry. Merry Christmas. Please be kind to yourselves, I'm sure as hell trying.
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William Tillinghall - Mon, 06 Dec 2021 14:45:45 EST 5V5rPYC3 No.541427 Reply
>>541419

I don't think anybody would ever agree with you that being a parent is easy in any capacity.
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Cyril Smallham - Mon, 06 Dec 2021 15:03:36 EST x9U1lk46 No.541429 Reply
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>>541419
lets all pay attention to this guy. he apparently has something insightful to say
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Hugh Grimworth - Mon, 06 Dec 2021 16:29:16 EST Is6YGJ6d No.541430 Reply
Nobody starts screaming and crying over nothing, even if you don't understand the reason why and it seems overblown. Theory of Mind. Maybe your child does not enjoy Christmas lights because they're too overstimulating, or he is scared of being the only one not having a good time, and he would feel better doing something else, and then his sister could enjoy them without him there.

Not one of those people who's like, never set limits with your children. but just because something is socially normative. it doesn't mean you have to do it. If doing things differently doesn't hurt anyone, it's worth a try. If your son is routinely miserable and combative even when you try doing stuff he does have to do (like eat or get dressed) and you can't find a way for him to do that without him being upset, maybe you should try counseling.

this is probably b8 anyway but w/e
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